trying something new

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  My husband reminds me every day that you only live once. K xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  so far its been great, no problems at all and a lot of fun :)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  My experiences have been good, excellent, fucken mind blowningly awesome to say so, dull, and down right, I am out of here, bad.

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  Hottie1

  10 years ago

  I have played in MFM, MMF and FFM and all I can say is OMG awesome, sexy, mind blowing, fucking brilliant. What I do though, is meet people at swingers parties, play and talk to get to know each other before becoming more intimate ( threesome play). I have one exception to that, we did a meet and greet with our gorgeous playmate for mfm/mmf for our first ever experience on RHP, was and still is awesome. Have boundaries of play and it depends on the threesome you are after, FFM is a fantasy for many men but as a bisexual woman I've always enjoyed myself 😍 but MFM can be confronting for your partner if he hasn't seen you play with others. Talk about what will happen if your partner can't get an erection in the company of others ( has happened to my poor hubby many times but he is so good natured it never worried him). We've decided that in an MFM I will continue playing and hubby watches if it is awkward for him physically but a good playmate would never make an issue about the performance of any other man. Talk about all the scenarios you can think of and have solutions for any possibilities. Just make sure to look after each other and your playmate to make it a good experience for all. Mary 😘 xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋 We take photos just so when were old that we can look back at all the real people and real fun we are have had 😆 with all the lovely people we have met . We think if its the wrong thing be sneaky and do it if it the Wright thing your doing the wrong thing ..? Sounds familiar ...? We are like others simply just having a few adventures we are all grown up now It's OK . 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋 Like we mean it really is ok we are grown up now 👫 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  As Ag4mg92 pointed out the vast majority of MMF, MFM, FFM, FMF, & MMM I have been with are people I have meet via the swinging scene at parties, clubs, and private meets. When I first joined RHP I did have a few encounters with couples but in the end I got sick of all the fake bullshiters. I am Bi I play with guys but when chatting to what i think is a couple then try to arrange a meeting only to hear over and over, "The wife is a way on.. blah blah but come over anyway." Hate bullshit and if the guy would have been honest from the start he may have had a chance. There is also a tendency for couples to create a long list of dos and don't. I appreciate that we all have limits and it is best to make them clear from the start, but these lists of requirement work against the enjoyment of the experience. I am not a trained monkey on order to perform for your needs. Sex is a free form expression of sensuality. So I decline if a list is needed. No thanks I don't do, don't dos. Meeting new couples. Sometimes both of the pair is all good first time but another time one is not so good. For couples I need to feel attraction and like both, I feel uneasy if only attract to one and thus will not play. i have also been in a few situations where it is clear that one of them has pressured the other into doing this. If I sense this I will ask and talk about it or decline and leave. Some people take offence if you leave, but that is something I am not going to concern my self with. Consensual sex means all must be willing, including me and I reserve the right to change my mind anytime I wish. Thus I have completely given up on RHP couples and have not contacted or communicated with any i don't know. The couples that I have played with and go back for more are very enjoyable and I consider my self very lucky to have met them all. Personally the best place to meet couples is at clubs, parties., or via mutual friends.

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  QLDtwo4fun

  10 years ago

  We talked about it for years, fantasied about it, and finally did it. We meet a patient couple who guided us, and we haven't looked back. Although there have been some less successful forages, overall I think it has strengthened our marriage and our communication. Either one of us can see a person in the street and comment on how attractive they find them, without any jealousy arising; we know we are truly happy together. Our tips are have your rules, and don't wait for Mr or Mrs perfect to come along, work out what excludes people from your play list and if they fit the generally acceptable level, go for it. On the downside, we did have a stalky unicorn for a while.

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  Cheekyarses

  10 years ago

  We have been having 3sums & 4sums for years now and it only gets better and better! Finding the right people who respect and enjoy the energy and magic of what it is - without the hassles or dramas afterwards - Posted from rhpmobile

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  LifeUnscripted

  10 years ago

  Does watching your spouse sleep with someone else excite you? I think that is the key. We love watching each other, we rate high on the compersion scale, so in that intimate setting it is really fun for us. But I think a lot of people think it would be exciting, but are mostly thinking about the opportunities for themselves and nor as Mich about what their partner will be doing. Threesomes are fun for us, both MFM and FFM. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Very fresh to the scene, our first experience, after the nerves settled was pleasant and very respectful, couldn't have asked for a better introduction really, anticipating our next, hoping for something a little raunchier!! ... Nervous, excited, hoping not to wipe the smile off my face for a while.... Well one can hope right!!

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