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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Im allergic to relationships.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  on another so called vanilla site,but I am not waiting for a '' relationship''.Like paintme,I am allergic to anything more than a fb relationship.I enjoy my life,and I have been single for so long,I can't imagine being half of a couple,unless of course I met the male half of me.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  "When will waiting for the 'ONE" .....be done?"       Im built for relationships - I function better with a partner and I make no apology for this.................I love being in love, I love building a future, and although I enjoy being single (definite advantages as I dont have to explain the whole green cordial fixation)..............I just know Im better person when Im in luuuuurve..my lover usually brings out the best in me...   However I am also one of those people..that takes a long time to heal...............I have huge breaks between my liasions...to heal.......and rediscover myself (if I got lost ) ........so when I do meet someone I believe Im very ready for them..........I dont get over someone by getting underneath someone else (its just not me although I wish it was at times).........................   So my time here...well what ever is meant to be will be.....I may met him here - may met him in aisle 5 at Coles....I still believe I will meet him...I do still believe     It all has to do with the planets aligning.....apparently

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  OH GOOD GOLLY...ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGH meeting Mr Relationship/Mr Right one...scares the absolute living crap out of me!!I've never ever been in "Love" so I guess that is the bit that scares me.I know one day, it's going to hit me right in the face one day and knock my little socks right off.I actually wouldn't know what to do with it - to tell you the truth.I've meet some really Amazing men and one-or-two not so Amazing men from here ...actually to me, men are a lot more respectful and attentive on here. I have more connections with beautiful men here than the good "ol Vanilla boring Site I was on. (gwooooooone)I like the the little spark RHP has and am enjoying it..So for me I will stick around a little while with my mantra in place."What will be, will be"I guess every human wants to be needed and touched..it's a beautiful thing and feeling.I don't think it doesn't matter what site your on..it all boils down to that I believe, and if the connection is there - it's there.Doesn't matter how, when, where or why, it's just going to be there.FoxyI do dislike the "waiting" and "The Disappearing Act feelings" I go through in hearing back from people whom I've been on meet and greets with (believe you me it's not that that is many) and that sucks a little, however get over it fairly quickly.NEXT!!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting shinas .I dont get over someone by getting underneath someone else . . . . . . Honey try getting on top. . . . it might help! Seriously though, I get what you're saying. I am ambivalent about relationships. I think I want one, I don't think I want one. I too have lived alone for a long time and I think perfect for me would be a part-time live in lover. I reckon 3 days a week would be enough.I am not on any vanilla sites yet on another adult site I do say I am looking for long-term.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I'm looking for Ms. Right. Haven't found her yet. Will she be on this site, some other site or the person sitting in front of me on the train? Who knows. While waiting, life goes on. Wake up, shower, work, home, sleep, rinse and repeat 5 times a week. Having friends/FWB will make the wait bearable.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'paintme' Im allergic to relationships. However, I am sure there is someone out there who "agrees" with me

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I have been living on my own for a long time. I am set in my ways, just hope not too old to change if I have a partner. I think a part time lover and full time friend would work well in my case, at least initially. I keep on hearing harrowing tales from my friends who lost everything after a divorce/de-facto breakup. Sure, why be negative but you just never know how things will work out in the end. Someone did post that you can't live protected, without taking any chances in life. I met some women from other vanilla dating sites. In some cases, things didn't work out, in others I got some good friends out of it. I have some platonic friends here. I am always hopeful there is someone around the corner for me.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I like the idea of waking each morning with my soul mate at my side. What a lovely way to start the day ... oh, and if they put the garbage out, YAY! ;-)

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