M44
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June 16 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it's bullocks and you will usually find its either because you think you for example your. .talking to the female of the couple....( and it's really the male) . Or of course a female might be having a bad hair day.. I've had a few of those. I find that ole chestnut of " my cam is broken. .I don't know how to work it.. or I don't have one" an instant turnoff and a " well see ya later then. ."
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RHP User
11 years ago
and I'm not lying about it. I have no interest in camming with people I don't know, give me face to face contact anyday over that. Yeah I'm sure some people with ulterior motives are probably lying about it, but don't automatically assume that they are.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Op.. are you talking about when you are in a private chat or in the webchat area of RHP? As this is what I'm assuming you are talking about.? I get the fact people do not want to be on cam all the time etc may have family around. . place looks a mess or whatever. However some do engage in private sessions whereby it's natural to ask the other party to turn their cam on. That's when the excuses start cropping up. LD you have mentioned that camming isn't what you are into so the need to have a cam isn't high on priority fair enough. They're lots of different kinks people get into on here. I'd assume if private chats were your go then a cam would be fair if not essential.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' Op.. are you talking about when you are in a private chat or in the webchat area of RHP? As this is what I'm assuming you are talking about.? I forgot about the webcam chat (since I never use it)...so if that's what you're referring to OP then that changes things a bit. But some people are voyeurs and just like to watch.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find Webcamming is easily the BEST way to get to know somebody online. You can get a proper understanding of an individual's personality, instead of reading about someone in a text-box, and looking at a bunch of photo-shopped pics which could be years upon years old. I'm sure everyone reading this will agree, that at least once in their 'online dating life' they've met someone who looked absolutely NOTHING like their photos....sure has happened to me! And since the last occasion was such an awkward situation....I decided from that day forward, I would not meet ANYONE who cannot webcam first. And the OP is right - to say you don't have a webcam is a paper-thin excuse: Every Laptop, Phone and photo camera for the last 5 years have come with webcams, and you could buy one for as little as $20 at any electronics store...so again, if they say they don't have access to one, it's most likely to avoid revealing their true self. And for the record - every single girl I have webcammed before meeting, I've had a really good time with. It helps break the ice, so when you do meet face to face it's very comfortable right from the start! I'm always happy to have an 'E-DATE' before a real date!! -Tiges x
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Is the fun you have in showing, or watching....?! Or, maybe, theyre saying they have no cam... because they dont want to show you. Or, theyre guys watching you wiggle ya wang, while you thingk theyre girls. You can only watch those showing.... so perhaps if you feel an imbalance, ... only show those prepared to show back.
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RHP User
11 years ago
guys can be pigs, what can I say!
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RHP User
11 years ago
ta
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you want to get a "proper understanding of my personality", you'll have to buy me a drink.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' and I'm not lying about it. I have no interest in camming with people I don't know, give me face to face contact anyday over that. Yeah I'm sure some people with ulterior motives are probably lying about it, but don't automatically assume that they are. I honestly don't have one either. I know they're as cheap as shit, but I'm not here to watch people on my PC... I'm here to chat with a view to making contact... So no-one would ever be expected to jump on their web cam for me, as I wouldn't ask and if I was asked, I'd say it's not my thing... But each to there own and all the very best... I would also be suspicious of someone who asked for you to get on your cam and not be willing or able to themselves... Just another of the 'bullshit' crappy things that people do on these sites to get a cheap thrill at someone else's expense... Be upfront.. or fuck off!!!
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rootratandlady
11 years ago
The male of this couple hates cameras in general, and finds the whole thing a turn off. Text is so much more fun, you can engage someones mind. She sometimes enjoys it, but it's certainly not high on the "omg" list. Meet us, flirt with us, do it properly. If you want cam, look somewhere else......
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't have a webcam and I'm not interested in getting one.. When I have been asked I find it a turn off - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Not something I'm interested in at all. Much prefer face to face. I also kinda find it a turn off when guys ask for it. Feels cheap to me. It's a bit like the guys that only want daytime meets for a 2 hours max, that's fine if you are a fb only, but if you expect more from me than you should be willing to give up your precious nights and a few more hours. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ex gf didn't mind a bit of cam... She blew my mind when she jumped up on the dining room table and made mr buzzy disappear... Just gotta watch the data allowance though... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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Circe
11 years ago
And I agree with Melbourne babe, I don't trust people on here enough to go on webcam, not that I'd strip down anyhow but even so... It does seem like guys are after a cheap thrill when they ask you to webcam and it turns me off too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
cant cam don't trust it to many programs out there that will allow some one to record it so no nudity for me
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a webcam and Skype but from experience am not interested in using it. Yes it is extremely easy to record and exploit. Not my thing unless it is someone I know and trust D - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
11 years ago
Since you are here iin RHP mainly for the cam experience as you have mentioned in your post, I will not be part of your target market as not interested in camming and therefore will not join. I am here to meet people in person. I just find camming too impersonal but if it floats your boat, wonderful for you. I do get invites here though to do camming but reallly?.... Like a lot of the ladies mentioned above, I like the idea of face to face meet for a drink and who knows what. If it does not work out after a drink, you both just walk away and nothing lost, If you do click, well .... Afterall, I am a very tactile person. Enjoy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm surprised how many people are against it!! Am I the only one who prefers to actually SEE and TALK to someone before travelling out to meet them? I guess I just don't trust people and their photos...If I can speak frankly, women are absolute experts of making themselves look very different to reality...and I've been tricked a few too many times... I thought girls especially would want to take the extra precaution of webcamming a bloke before actually MEETING him? The other thing is - everyone here seems to be of the opinion that webcamming = sex camming. I'm talking about a face-to-face through a computer screen, which I will always continue to do. I'm not gonna travel out another hour to meet some girl who has tricked me to get me there. never again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
do enjoy just watching, have to join in sometimes, but when i use my cam i have to tilt my screen down and then i cant watch :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
No cam , no meet ! It is so easy to flock on your cam and verify yourself. If you can't do that we don't meet you . I don't mind what kind of cam , FaceTime via iPhone , Skype, video message, or here on webcam chat ....I definitely think " I don't have a cam" is a load of crap :) ....major red light to me ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi 5s delicious and tigaroo
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Seachange
11 years ago
Tigeroo. It is about choices based on our comfort zone. If you feel comfortable about your screening process then good for you. There is no right or wrong ways, just different. We just wear the consequences if there is a dud or a fake profile in the other end. But that is our choice. I have met a few men and women here on dates or meet and greet and they can attest to the authenticity of my sexiness. ;). Lol. But most cammings rnd up in the man pulling out their dongs without any hints nor invites from us women. A good laugh on my side. Cheers. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tigeroo yes that was the reason I set up my cam. Thought it would save so much stuffing around. But too many times the guys have skyped to verify then extremely quickly "As I am available now" turns to them wanting web can sex. I know there are plenty of great guys out there that don't turn I to giant twats. Just have to weed them out. D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Having a cam chat room was one of the reasons I initially stumped up for membership here. I was really surprised to see so few people in the chatroom. Even more so that most of the people that do come into the chatroom are from WA. Sure meeting someone in real life is way better than a cam, but camming allows a nice full communication platform to better understand/know someone before deciding to meet someone in real life. Especially since it is well understood that non-verbal communication has a much higher impact than written words by themselves. I prefer to cam so that people can get to know me easier. You can ask questions and get an instant answer. You can see my personality. Sure a little voyeur/exhibitionism doesn't go astray every now and again as well, but doesn't have to be the focus of camming. In fact you get a much better response to ladies if your face is on cam versus captain winky with a blurred 15fps hand as their first introduction to you. So I guess that's about the same equivalent as cock shot profiles. One rule I do have though, I don't play on cam for someone I haven't seen on cam before. Sure sometimes I do the odd shower on cam, dishes in my underwear fun type of stuff for what/whoever. But if someone anonymous is telling me to pull down my pants and cover my bits in nutella without them on being on cam, forget it... As for people without cams. In the 30 days I was on here, the number of people on cam vs not on cam is about the same as any other cam chatroom I've ever been in, but I feel far more comfortable about the people not on cam being who they say they are here, mainly because this is primarily a dating site for people to meet, and for the fact people have to pay to use the chatrooms. Free sites where you're completely anonymous and anyone can sign up and participate is where I find the biggest number of 'guys pretending to be girls'. It makes me laugh sometimes how elaborate schemes some guys have thought up to try and trick you into believing they're a girl. But like I said,didn't come across that here in my time as a premium...
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rootratandlady
11 years ago
Because: Im mostly on here for some came fun these days does not equal: The other thing is - everyone here seems to be of the opinion that webcamming = sex camming. I'm talking about a face-to-face through a computer screen, which I will always continue to do. Which are two very different things. The face to face, yes, no problems. The webcam sex, not really, thanks.
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