RHP

RHP User

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we're "Virgins" :) advice needed

May 02 2015

Hi all - we have finally decided to act out our fantasies that we've been discussing for AGES! Not quite sure how to start...happily married, attractive couple looking to spice things up and let others in on our fun :) Any tips? the babysitter is booked, the champagne's chilling and the spa is nice and warm :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just jump right in head first I reckon! The meet and greet night is a good start. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thanks for your replies :) we're not exactly "virgins" anymore as we went to our first party last night - didn't really participate but had a blast and are still buzzing...I'll look into the meet and greet night thanks again!

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    10 years ago

    Hi, If you don't have any friends who are swingers why not try a club. Pick a reputable one and go with clear guidelines of what you want to get from the night eg. just meet people and socialise or have sex in the same room as others or a full swap if both are comfortable. We find that there is less pressure at a club than if you are meeting up with one couple for drinks etc. Good luck and we hope you enjoy the lifestyle!AnnXX