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what is more attractive to you?
October 28 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
...specifically the ring finger on the left hand. If that's naked, I go from there
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am all about the face & a person's eyes. So I if am attracted to the face I am attracted to the body and I have to say I usually prefer athletic bodies. A nice body but definitely does not have to be amazing to turn me on. Sometimes I even like a little belly as I like rubbing it for luck :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Definitely the face.....there has to be an attraction......... then the rest comes with it. We are only human and if the face is what we like first then that controls all other emotions. I'm not fussed about the body.....athletic, toned, a little heavy....if the face captures my heart then the rest is irrelevant.
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uneventful
13 years ago
The Face is the image of the mind, but the eyes are the betrayers ... for me .. its got to be the face and the eyes .. welcoming / sexy eyes .. show an insite to be a beautiful person .. then we go on to the body ... the off putting aspect for me .. would be a hairy person .. Im not inclined to want to play with a WOOKIE..
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RHP User
13 years ago
the reality would be the girl with the pretty face and average body.....but the imagining would be about the hot body...just how its goes....
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RHP User
13 years ago
The face and personality for sure. The body isnt such an issue for me
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love eyes.. And face.. It is what I kiss that makes me horny.. But in saying that some of the best sex I have ever had has been with average looking beautiful bodied men.. And I guess in time the average man becomes the more beautiful if there is chemistry...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do like a hot body so it would have to be a really awful face to turn down a good set of abs and arms and chest and thighs...I like thighs, strong footballers thighs....mostly because there will be a good chance there thighs are bigger than mine and it makes feel erm, petite! hehexx SalinaPS...ofcourse I am never that shallow :P really it is all about the package and by that I mean the over all look and personality, although that package is important too
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
The face cannot be hidden and is always on display. The body can be covered to look spectacular with fashion regardless of shape. ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
If the guy is that ugly I can turn the lights out and go by braille. Happy to leave before the sun comes up.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love a fit girl with a great body! Definetly the highest priority on my list when it comes to N.S.A fun. I haven't found a very average bodied girl who I considered attractive, call me shallow, but no matter how pretty she might be, if she doesn't have at least a slim body, then its a no for me in most circumstances. ;) I see no point in seeing an unfit girl, as I keep myself well conditioned.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Face A body can lose muscle tone or become overweight very quickly due to surgery, illness or medications... It can only improve with the kind of loving that includes vigorous exercise and fashion can cover any of nature's flaws. I'm all for roleplay but when you take the mask off you don't want to wish you had not..and you can't take Zorro, Spidey or Darth everywhere and all men don't look good in make up. Can you imagine if things progressed.. xmas dinner making him sit there next to Nanna with his shirt off but wearing his paperbag? I like to kiss and the face is one of my favourite areas... That said many people can be very attractive to me without being classically or model beautiful-it's in their eyes no matter what they're saying with their mouths-the eyes don't lie and so even if they are "gorgeous" if I don't like what's in their eyes-I stay away and don't sample their fruits. Ms Kinkstreet
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a sucker for a cute face and beautiful eyes. The gym junkie bods don't do it for me at all.
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Onlylivetwice
13 years ago
The media-promoted idea of a beautiful face really bugs me. There is a beautiful face on everyone, it is purely a matter of personal taste. I love seeing the beauty in every woman's face - why limit myself? Why ignore it? Women are simply beautiful. The same is true for women's bodies, and vis versa as well.I appreciate the question, but I look for a happy engaging face and a body that I want to make feel good! :)If the personality is happy and engaging, that flows through physically as well.If the personality is negative and manipulating, that's a big turn off :( no matter how she looks physically.Vive les belles femmes!
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me it is definitely the face and the personality. Most BBW's have a great personality. I have been to a few parties lately and I have been amazed at myself as I have played with women who I would not necessarily play with in a private meet as I am sure that some of the women who have allowed me to play with them, would not necessarily do so in a private meet either.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lol Fiona....I like that :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Absolutely. You look at the face when bonking each other. You also wake up next to the face and smile and say nice things. Pussy comes next :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Onlylivetwice' The media-promoted idea of a beautiful face really bugs me. There is a beautiful face on everyone, if so, some people hide THAT face _really_, _really_ well ;)my answer: what mikeandshel, and Sasa said... besides if the face is so horrible, there is always a lightswitch - and you can still feel a gorgeous body, a pretty face... well, it'd probably piss them off if you were handsy all over the face :p
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SZandG
13 years ago
Face,eyes,body.
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
I can get over a lot of things if someone has a great personality, but I find that facial expressions and eyes are the best way to tell just by looking if a guy is an asshole ;)xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
The face most definitely. I know my body isn't perfect and I don't expect that from my partners, but there must be an attraction and for me that comes from the face. To be honest really muscled slim guys do nothing for me...I like my boys with some meat on their bones and not feeling like a over pumped basketball.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Face and personality all the way! I am a sucker for eyes and a smile with a killer personality! Mental stimulation goes VERY far ahhh :P Although If they have broad shoulders and footy legs then I'm instantly weak at the knees! Aussie_Sparkie: FYI a skinny girl doesnt neccessarily equal a fit girl! Shits me to tears, poor thing, you're only 19 you'll learn soon enough that they probably dont eat or enjoy life! No offence but personal hate of the new slang for 'fit' Quoting 'Aussie_Sparky' I love a fit girl with a great body! Definetly the highest priority on my list when it comes to N.S.A fun. I haven't found a very average bodied girl who I considered attractive, call me shallow, but no matter how pretty she might be, if she doesn't have at least a slim body, then its a no for me in most circumstances. ;) I see no point in seeing an unfit girl, as I keep myself well conditioned.
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contemplating1
13 years ago
The eyes, (the window to the mind) face and personality! Have a good 'un!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would have to say cute face with average body because the face can never change and the body you can always improve.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Both r fine with me, just depends what average is to u but I do both ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
An amazing face is great for many reasons and would override the body for me. However it would be important that they like their body as well. A flat libido and warped body image may make that pretty face sour and unhappy. Shallow as all hell but an interesting enquiry.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok, ignore my Halloween face But definitely a sucker for pretty eyes and kissable mouth.... and artist hands.... mmmmm........
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RHP User
13 years ago
I want both but Body comes first if I have to pick. I always can do doggy without seeing his face lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I look for some intelligence better than being with a dead fish..
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm face over body every time.... a body can be improved but if someone has a face like a smashed crab then I'm afraid they're stuck with it!!!! And I'm not a fan of the lights off........
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RHP User
13 years ago
i dont look 4 niether what i look 4 is sum1 who has a good heart n soul n knows how to treat a woman i dont like the pushy guys... sum1 who has a brain in their head sum1 who is not a wanker....i guess what im trying to say is the man i want to sleep with has to b perfect...im the fussy type...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Amazing face average body. Some people can wear extra pounds. Fun can be had in all shapes and sizes and different bits. But when someone spins around with a mong head that's me outta there.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'I can get over a lot of things if someone has a great personality, but I find that facial expressions and eyes are the best way to tell just by looking if a guy is an asshole ;) xx SarahSpot on, Sarah. It's hard to feel anything for an asshole...
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RHP User
13 years ago
The face. but never judge a book by its cover. If her attitude is gross she is then ugly
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RHP User
13 years ago
face
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inspirit
13 years ago
Face and eyes then the tool box spirit
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RHP User
13 years ago
A person that knows how to smile will overcome nearly all body images.
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uneventful
13 years ago
got to be the winners ... and an average body .. having said that - I met a "stunning " looking guy based on his face pics only a few years back from 'another site' > the facial pics were from shoulders up .. the eyes smiled immensely .. the personality in chat was fantastic .. but when it came to meeting .. he wasn't exactly honest, having said he was 110kg when in fact he was 190kg ..(and NO the excess weight did not show in his pics) and devoured 5 full Chinese meals when we went for dinner - first and only date ..
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RHP User
13 years ago
The eyes have it for me. Windows on the soul and all that goes with it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Salsa_McCans'I do like a hot body so it would have to be a really awful face to turn down a good set of abs and arms and chest and thighs...I like thighs, strong footballers thighs....mostly because there will be a good chance there thighs are bigger than mine and it makes feel erm, petite! hehexx SalinaPS...ofcourse I am never that shallow :P really it is all about the package and by that I mean the over all look and personality, although that package is important too Haha, that is beautiful...Have to agree with that comment. As to your question....face/eyes need to express. Some peoples eyes smile and I love it when that happens.....makes me all gooey inside. Everyone loves a hot body ( even when they say they don't ) but eyes/face baby - gotta love it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ExploreFun' Absolutely. You look at the face when bonking each other. You also wake up next to the face and smile and say nice things. Pussy comes next :) I agree - lol pussy comment
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, Im a sucker for eyes, they get me every time so would have to be face over body. But regardless of looks i try to make sure I get to know people first, thats where the chatroom comes in handy, because sometimes, when someone has a spectacular personality, they become more attractive as you get to know them
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RHP User
13 years ago
the face catches ur attention then the body is a bonus if good and still good if average :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
BODY CAUSE U CAN ALWAYS JUST F#$K THEM DOGGY IF THEY GOT A BAD HEAD, BUT THEY HAVE TO HAVE NICE HAIR ATLEAST ...................................
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RHP User
13 years ago
A sexc body is lovely to look upon and a pretty face is someone you want to talk to, for me the face and the eyes are the most inviting and most inytiguing of any part of the body. The sexual pleasures of the genital area can be imitated by a range of sexual toys, but a conversation and a kiss are unique.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's all been said before ... the eyes are the windows to your soul.. bodies change but if you're into someone it's because of eyes , lips and expression.
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RHP User
13 years ago
as this is a SEX SITE, and we arnt looking for partners. looks come 2nd to attitude and fun.. so good body i guess...as its usually dark and its all about fun and variety, not Ken and Barbi look a likes lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Face, definitely. A cute smile, a happy disposition, cheeky (but not offensive) humour and self-respect.Hot bods are all good but there's always the blindfold...
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RHP User
13 years ago
The eyes have it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Definitely face and need to look in there eyes your eyes are your sole,you can tell alot about a person if you read their eyes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Much rather a amazing face with amazing eyes then the body after all i look at the face the most , Also guys that care about the abbs and body too much are a little scary I like Manly Men , She'll be right men . Personaly i think men that always trying to find a excuss to take there top off are secertly gay lol. XoXoxx I love my man ... Ladies im looking for u so keep a eye out for me :-P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Celebree what a profound reply .......yes... the eyes realy do the "talking"....................(and I absolutly.... loved your profile, open honest and to the point)
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me its about the personality-corny i know, but its real. I met my partner off another dating site and weve been together for 2 years now, at that stage i didnt think much of him in looks, he had a nice toned body little bit bald but deep down he was funny and really cared. He was completely different than all the other 100 or so guys i talked to... wasnt till we actually started dating that i realised how hot he actually is...haha (biased maybe) however i do look at a guys hands, eyes, smile and oh my gosh, his voice...hahaha trust me u can have this all mucho man with a really sqeeky voice....instant turn off!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bodies can be amazing .... but if you don't want , really want to kiss someone then it's just a shag.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There has to be an attraction, the facial expressions can tell lot about a person.............oh and when they open their mouths that can tell you a shit load more.... Cheers Paul
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Onlylivetwice'The media-promoted idea of a beautiful face really bugs me. There is a beautiful face on everyone, it is purely a matter of personal taste. I love seeing the beauty in every woman's face - why limit myself? Why ignore it? Women are simply beautiful. The same is true for women's bodies, and vis versa as well.I appreciate the question, but I look for a happy engaging face and a body that I want to make feel good! :)If the personality is happy and engaging, that flows through physically as well.If the personality is negative and manipulating, that's a big turn off :( no matter how she looks physically.Vive les belles femmes! Enchante!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Both body type and face's are subjective to personal preferance. My preferance is amazing face. Having said that, even the hottest piece of eye candy can prove themselves unattractive once they show their personality. Package deal...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Both body type and facial attraction are subjective to personal opinion, Mine being amazing face. Having said that, even the hottest piece of eye candy can prove themselves unattractive once they show their personality! Package deal....
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Moment_In_Time
13 years ago
Eyes every time. Followed by eyes, then eyes. Ummmm ... did I mention eyes?
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tank__girl
13 years ago
....to me, it does NOT matter how hot and sexy the body is!?If the face, and more importantly PERSONALITY is not attractive....I just can't.
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RHP User
13 years ago
.... Hey I joined this site to trick someone into loving me :-) kinda the opposite to your average guy
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captainkaos
13 years ago
Although your perception of an average body and my perception would be very different. I like my women bigger/curvier than average!! I may be contradicting myself but I broke up with a great girl who was gorgeous. She had a great (read thin) body but as soon as the clothes came off, she didn't turn me on any more. So maybe i am greedy and I want both. lol. Now that i think of it, i would be content with both the face and body being average. Her body has to turn me on though...........Don't know if that helps...... By the way......I love you Meeka. lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't have a problem with average. If the face is average but the body is aces that's a bonus. If the body is average but the face is adorable that's a bonus. If the body is perfect and the face is stunning I'd probably walk away as I'd be too intimidated and the person would probably be stuck up anyway. If the person is all round below average, they'd want to have one hell of a fantastic personality lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do mean to tell me you would pass up a beautifull girl with a not so perfect body simply because she doesnt pump iron ? That is shallow and tells us your priorities are.. all within yourself.But you're only 19 and still in that "me" age bracket... As you mature you will accept people more for what they are, more so than what they can be in this not so perfect world.Mr JJ has a wonderfull physique , natural not buffed but nice on the eye , thankfully he is not hung up on it because we would clash if he was.. Personally' as much as a buffed guy is nice eye candy' their persona surrounding themselve is finger down the throat stuff... so give a nice face ( blue eyes) and a good personality anyday...
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jezebel_jj
13 years ago
its easier to plastic surgery a body than it is to change a face....look at Michael Jackson (RIP) they spent 15 years trying to get his face right and still failed!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Face :)
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luvsilver
13 years ago
It is an attractive face that does it for both of us.Mrs Luvsilver loves a hot body to match as well-lol but nothing turns her off more than a bad attitude attatched to that hot body!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Eyes, face, body.. physically, but at the top of the list for me.. great personality & sense of humour are attractive qualities..
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RHP User
13 years ago
we had a read thru this topic, and decided that we'd go for the hot body/average face every time...............
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's very simple ( body and face looks don't count ) it's all about the person and whats inside that counts to me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
very interesting question and it is not a shallow topic at all...lets face it why would you be someone who is unattractive? you just wouldn't or maybe you would if he had a 10 inch cock and you absolutley loved sitting on 10 inch dicks? Generally speaking i always check out the body first and then i am looking at the face....but if its someone i want to spend some time with it would be a pretty face....
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RHP User
13 years ago
But only because i am a sucker for a cheeky grin xoxo otherwise it really just depends on the guys/gals profile/personality, it has to pique my curiosity..
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RHP User
13 years ago
SHE: What one person doesnt like, may be the next persons cuppa tea. I am not attracted to gym junkies. I like stocky boofs! HE is a boof and his body type attracted me first. Solid forearms and back mmmmmmmmm. Its just a bonus for me that his face is great too. So overall, im a winner. Great body, good looking moosh and a fantastic personailty!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its all about the face. The body means little. I love the eye contact in general, the smiles and expressions. I love the serious look in a lady's face if we have sex front on, or the closed eye expressions and mouth movements if i go in from the back entrance.... Yum! The face!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I fall for the smile and eyes - it can be on an average or gorgeous body. The sexiest thing is intelligence and someone who can make me laugh with a horny accent...sucks me in everytime! I think you can have pleasure with many types of bodies so for me its the attraction to their personality that wins out and their appreciation of me as a person and not just a sex object to get their rocks off. If they look gorgeous and just sit there stunned and dont say anything, what's the fun in that, or when you finally get to play and the eye candy ends up being a 4-stroke fizzer with no sensual skills to pleasure a woman or realise we need to cum too, give me a man with average looks anyday. ....But give me a man who I can laugh and play with while I am cumming and cumming for hrs (mmm u know who u are sexii man) and I am in heaven!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Smart ;) for the win. All the perfect body or beautiful face in the world isn't going to make up for a brain that the zombies sneer at :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
we are just sleeping with this person....not establishing a life long relationship with children, a mortgage, holidays at surfers and membership at the local sports club...its just about sex...its always going to be the hot body and average face..............the OP doesnt ask for any other consideration.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
along with a nice personality................then body
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RHP User
13 years ago
I prefer to let all of my sensory perceptions focus collectively...they begin to do that almost instantly if I am attracted and from that I create my own unique composite and lasting image of sight, sounds, tastes, touch, smell...and perhaps even things less commonly found in the first five of the seven senses. | Life is full of mysteries...what excites and entices me, equally so. | | You never know what you are looking for or where you may find it until you do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cannot hate the face. It's usually something in the expression, or the way they hold their face-muscles or something. I take it as an indicator that they're highly likely to aggravate or offend me, and leave well enough alone.Body ranks the lowest. I just saw a nice one two minutes ago. 'Ooh, I would touch that!' and everything. And then....the face. I'll look (at the rest of it), but it kills any desire for actual physical proximity. Which is kind of the point.It's all about comfort and connection, and who a person is. Even if it was only for one night. Pretty is a dime a dozen. 'Not being stupid' is much harder to find, and that's just a starting point. I've only met a perfect 10 once in my life - body, face, hair, clothes, everything. Absolutely gorgeous, and a lovely sweet girl who'd just moved and was looking to make friends. But somehow our conversations were never very stimulating, and everything just died. I end up not wanting any part of it. It'd be like making love to a .jpeg, except you'd also have to endure it making noise, like one of those annoying novelty birthday cards with a buzzer that goes off every time you open it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think the right answer to this impasse lies in well planned soft lighting. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
b. Someone with an amazing face, but with a very average body aslong as they werent really over weight. *not being shallow* a good balance of excersise & healthy eating can change the appearance of someones body & when it comes down to it i think i notice a nice smile & eyes first. there has to be some attraction. xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Either or, doesn't matter....it's all chemistry for me. They way she's lookin at me, they way she moves her body...what it is,' I don't know what'...je ne sais quoi! Altho when I need a bit, "soft lighting"...that's a classic stalky :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find it hard to decide on this one.. especially when you have someone like Salina here who is the perfect combination of both sexy face and body....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Could be on to something there with the bag...but maybe make it a role play, then it doesn't matter one little bit. Just tuck the little mix in a lawn bag...just not the reinforced or the expesive ones, you could get hurt. Then wiggle your finger around until you find the right spot...rear back and give it one gawd almighty slam dunk push and go for the gold. Face, body....who cares, right? | It's been a while since I have been with a virgin...wonder if this is "the" best place to hunt one down? | Ohhhh damn...once you let her out of the bag you'd have to be polite and take her out for dinner or something, so a nice smile and magnetic eyes please. | I don't have to try to eat whilst talking to the other bits.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Definately the face and personality. I do like a hot bod but also love a guy with a "little" bit of padding. Athletic of course is nice but definately not into the steroid muscley types. Kaz
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I had to pick a black or white answer then B. because I love kissing and intimate sex not empty shags.But in reality it's neither I have been attracted to men with out either general good looks or good bodies- it is how they carry themselves and how I feel around them even if it's merely a virtual click. I love men and how a man can make me feel. Neither a beautiful face or body substitutes for personality and charisma- If I look at a profile and judge someone on face/ body value and initially think meh that often changes once their personality is revealed in their info and in the content of their messages- that is what really excites me.I love wit, and quirks and a quiet confidence.I am fussier with women and my partner is fussier with men I query the psychology behind that?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd have a smokin hot face , and a bit larger booty anyday
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm not even fussy about species. You all look the same in the dark anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me Its personality. I have been with only 2 guys ( in this new "lifestyle" ) & both I would have never looked at twice in the street, but personality won me over. Hubby says it's all about confidence. No matter what a girl looks like, if they exude confidence they are sexy....
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RHP User
13 years ago
It can't ever be one or the other. The simple and only answer is someone I feel a connection with.Its all about the chemistry!Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
when you meet and greet, look into the soul of a person, you can tell so much about them...hasn't let me down yet for me it is... nothing is better than a person that you can connect with, hell why not....theres plenty of guys out there and girls might I add that are desperate for the connection between male and female or both if thats their thing. Im not a person to have sex with anyone just for the sake of it has to be someone that I connect to...........mentally and dare I say it physically, your intuitions are usually the best judge Lee xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
An amazing face with a cute smile and beautiful eyes make me melt personallyWe've met people with a range of body shapes and have found attraction in all of them for one reason or another. We aint supermodels ourselves and don't care for it from others either. We'd prefer people with the right attitude tbh But a nice face (with gorgeously sexy eyes...and cheeky smile) coupled with a great personality does it for for us
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just saw your comment. Thanks :PInterestingly as I look back over this thread my opinion has not changed! xx Salina
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RHP User
13 years ago
if i were you i will go for personality, as a body looks you consern is out of question but trust me personatlity will defenely will give more plesure than just a sexy looking boody with a face left... is that answer you question .
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RHP User
13 years ago
im easy....il take both Hugs
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RHP User
13 years ago
luckily this is a question i wont ever have to ask..... my wife has the 'goods'........ looks and body..........sensational...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Doesn't have to be a gorgeous face,but the eyes,something about the eyes and a killer smile...makes me weak at the knees....and then...x Hugs H
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