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Eiliethiya
8 years ago
I haven't experienced "real" love yet. If you're refering to real/true romantic love that is. Not sure I'd recognise it either!Otherwise love in general... I love my children unconditionally, and my family...sometimes! lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Shame love for you has pain attached to it. Don't let that stop you moving forward. That was then, this is now. Your next love will be worth waiting for. The future is exciting to me, although at my age, I suspect I have more past than future 😉 I hope to find love. 100% believe it's timing and will strike when you least expect it. Love for me> hard to put into text, but I want to be with someone who deeply cares about me, who has my back, who is strong, confident and will scoop me up and keep me safe, he will look across a crowded room, or any busy location, and only see me, and me him. Everyone else will disappear for us in those moments. He will be proud to have me as his partner, and me him. We will be a tight unit, respect and love each other, and share that happiness with others, not in an obvious way. We will be forgiving of mistakes, mistakes are important, we learn and grow from them. He will check out my arse at random points through the day, often 😊 I will consider it a privilege to be part of his life, again same in return. I'm sure there's more but just some of my thoughts. Nice topic 😃
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inspirit
8 years ago
I don't think we love the same. When we hurt we think its love that hurts us. It's not, its others behaviors and your own expectations. The only way through hurt is to start nurturing yourself and remind yourself they were not really who you should of been with. I have loved deeply. He just didn't have the emotional capacity to understand. Be well and blessings. ⚘⚘ - Posted from rhpmobile
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OkeyDoke45
8 years ago
I don't think anybody's going to be unpleasant to you Redhot, there are few on this planet who haven't been hurt by love. Real love does exist, but unfortunately - as I have learnt recently myself - love is sometimes not enough.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...quotes about love from a few rather obscure sources. ''Love does not consist of gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.'' - Antoine de Saint-Exupery ''What is hell? I maintain that it is the suffering of being unable to love.'' - Fyodor Dostoyevsky ''Love is when she pays for dinner and changes the sheets in the morning.'' ChasinMidnight ...works for me!
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol not sure about the last one 😁 second one re hell is not being able to love, definitely agree with that. This one I don't though ''Love does not consist of gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.'' I can appreciate that works for a lot of couples, but although to some degree we need the basis of that to form a partnership in the first place, hope that makes sense, for me I walk my own path, and wouldn't expect or need a partner to hold the same views as me, on every person/experience/situation. I don't want a partner to be a clone. I find it off putting when couples post comments saying "we" for a comment posted by one person. Do they really agree on everything? An opinion or a view of the world, is never going to line up 100% if the time. I might like someone, my partner might loathe them, or vice versa. I saw a couple the other day dressed the same 😂😂 Some things we'll agree on, see the same way, others we won't. A relationship would never work for me if both couldn't tread our own path but ready to catch each other when we fall 😇
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inspirit
8 years ago
.. and very true. Love untangles when we want the same goal, though trying to get there on seperate paths. Many people misinterpret love for lust and of course the idea of being inlove for real love. True love is a rare find. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Insomnian
8 years ago
But to me.. there is two different kinds.... When you've been partnered with someone for a while, yet you still can't wait to get home from work or from a day out with mates to see them.... When you miss them, even after you've just seen them, or when it ends...when all you feel is a hole in your stomach that nothing can fill, no real words to describe it... it's like your world has just fallen apart, and for a few minutes, you struggle to grasp for grip on anything that seems to form a reality. The other love... is of life. Waking up, seeing the sun, hearing nature, sitting in the garden seeing the birds just jumping around ( usually willy wagtails), being around people and enjoying just being somewhere where you don't fear everyday for your life. Just experiencing everything life has to offer... Those are the two kinds I can relate to, or should I say, what it means to me. Hope you get the clarity you're looking for.
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MrPlayful
7 years ago
Is when you have someone you can cry to, want to cry with, and would do anything for. You want to help them, want to work with them, can trust them with your darkest secrets and deepest feelings. It's not when you first meet them, it's not after six months, it's when you know that they trust you and you trust them completely. This person is someone who is your best friend. If they betray you then that love is questioned and our soul hurts. True love can overcome this though and I can assure you of that. If it cannot overcome large issues, then both parties don't hold that same amount of love and respect and you walk away. Don't let that stop you from loving again though - finding that true person for you is worth the pain endured along the journey. I am very lucky to have found mine.
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jerryc
7 years ago
Love is good - losing love hurts a lot
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yep spark means nothing unless can trust the other and be open and communicate :( life has funny way of dealing with things. Sit back relax and wait :) do good things for yourself and family and good things come back :) Don't worry about anything other than those that want to be in your life and let you know and show you :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you are always honest with each other then you shouldnt have many problems. Ive been lucky to find a great guy at this time in my life. We love being together, there are never any awkward silences, we are compatible in many ways and the look in his eyes when he looks at me makes me melt. I agree, it isnt love that hurts, its the realisation that someone has betrayed your trust. I hope you do meet someone who is right for you....it could happen very unexpectedly xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
"I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life" 😂😂😂
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