M41
what the flirt???
October 30 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Flirts reflect nothing about you, except you're lazy. Messages give you a chance to project the you. That is of course assuming that you want to see their personality as much as their nakedness right?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are your flirts being read? I personally never even look at my flirts, they are a waste of time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
but rarely respond to flirts..be more particular and send a well written...not template.. message.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Rarely look at flirts- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Come in tight brother.... Pearls heading your way........... Shall we do everything for you? Or would you like to make an effort, stand taller than the crowd.... and be the man who, down the track, reads topics like this and thinks..... "Shall we do everything for you? Or would you like to make an effort, stand taller than the crowd?!" ;-) DGI... ps... This applies both in, and beyond rhp- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' but rarely respond to flirts..be more particular and send a well written...not template.. message. not template??? im kinda sick of reading "judge for yourself" and "no strings attached fun" and "not afraid to ask" and so on... surely there's real passion out there to be indulged in? i was just merely being polite in not assuming that the recipient would relate to me or my interests from only a message.
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RHP User
11 years ago
you asked and the usual suspects answered
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hello....nice hat.I see your membership is premium plus which gives you 20 messages a day so a day shouldn't go by without using at least 15 of them.You can compose a literary masterpiece and save it as template to save retyping it every time but modify it a little for each person to show you have read their profile...you do read profiles right?You don't look any weirder than anyone else on here so you should be ok. Surely you know what colour your eyes are? Women hate that sort of sloppiness on profiles so fill everything out.Put something of yourself into your message..would YOU want to sleep with the person who wrote it?As a single guy on this site you have to make a huge effort to stand out from the crowd so make sure you do.Good Luck
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RHP User
11 years ago
im not at all grumpy... it's just that so many profiles, and therefore real people, on here have no information or even photos for me to see... therefore i cannot connect with anyone really. i thought the "flirt" function to be a non-committal call to stand if they reflected my intentions. it seems that im wrong.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What does that mean? You want to use templates? I don't get it.. You think a well thought out message as Freya suggests, is a bad idea... But sending a genetic flirts will give you more success?
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RHP User
11 years ago
not at all meeka, im just finding little success with sending flirts to the people whom appeal to me, yet i'm seeing that most of the profiles, save for the seasoned RHPers, have very little to message about. the ones who "tick the boxes" for me so to speak are not responding to the attention im giving them.i just want some responses.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are a Premium Plus member..so why are you sending out flirts for?You are a PemiumPLUS member with the privilege over males guests.Male guests can not send messages only flirts.Why are you not sending out messages to the ladies and using your paid membership???What Freya says makes sense to me.Sounds all to GREEEK to moi.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Send messages! I never read my flirts because they never lead anywhere. And, women tend to get a fair few flirts. If you've got the messages available, get typing!
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RHP User
11 years ago
i totally agree... but up until now i was unaware that most people just ignore the flirt-attention they receive, this seems a little backwards to me but anyway. ill be more verbotious next time i like a profile... and not just smile or wink at someone whom takes my fancy, cheers guys!
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RHP User
11 years ago
And your profile I must also add; is that you've got a membership, and now you're wanting to just put your hand up and have women flock to you. This is never going to happen with your profile I'm afraid, or the flirts. It takes a lot more to be successful as DG has said, than putting your hand up and saying "ok ladies I'm here." I honestly believe, based on this thread you seem to have the mindset "we're all here for sex, so if I like what I see, and they like what they see, we can get it on." And I can assure you it's nowhere near accurate. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe he is grumpy as so many Women here get a free ride on RHP and use it to take out the frustrations they have built up over the years thru the A.Hs they have chosen to spend time with on some innocent lonely nice guys
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Lifes_great
11 years ago
If I send you a message would you reply? I notice you noticed me, and now I've noticed you too. The only flirt I like is....I like your profile.....because mostly that's how I feel...not wanting to hook up but just comment that they have put in some efoort and created a great profile. Premium Plus member...hmm...don't be lazy...send something original....you might be surprised
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RHP User
11 years ago
Women get lots and lots and lots of flirts. Would take hours to go through them all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have rec'd over 8,000 flirts in 3 years and that's with me having my account locked most of the time. And I am old.... Bet the younger women in larger cities get trillions. :P
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
You asked, we answered.... Complaining about why it should be different..... is pointless. Adapt and improve ;-)....... or not
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just curious.....when it wasn't working for you, did you keep sending them?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'yourman42' im not at all grumpy... it's just that so many profiles, and therefore real people, on here have no information or even photos for me to see... therefore i cannot connect with anyone really. i thought the "flirt" function to be a non-committal call to stand if they reflected my intentions. it seems that im wrong. Maybe their responses (or lack there of) really do reflect your intentions ... just saying. You reap what you sow I'm afraid. Listen to DG.
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed, is more important than any other one thing".
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