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where have all the victorians gone, and the ones that are here why not reply to flirts or messages

March 06 2010

Have been on this site for a long time, l had a break for a while and all the Vics have seemed to dissapeared on the Vic chat rooms late at night, where have you all gone? Also with the replying to flirts or message replies, l have tried for so long to stick to the profiles that state their preferences,eg, age group ect (unless they have pushed my buttons big time in their profiles and/or photos ). l know some of you people get squillions of flirts and messages, and l can appreciate that, and l can also appreciate that l may not interest some of you in what l look like or profile doesnt match what you are after, but sometimes common decency can go a long way to someones ego, happiness and confidence. l also know there are people on here that stalk , harrass ect but that is not all of us, l have met some excellent people on here both just for a drink, get togther and more in which i thoroughly enjoyed and respected what boundaries that were set. l suppose its just frustration, what are your thoughts on what l have written, your comments are appreciated, Rob

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RHP User

15 years ago

...."but sometimes common decency can go a long way to someones ego, happiness and confidence". Jx

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RHP User

15 years ago

l try and speak whats on my mind at the time, which may sometimes may not be at the appropriate time, lol. l reply to any flirts or messages, even if they do not suit what im after and not lead them on to any false hopes or promises, l think that it is just common decency. But others have not got the time or patience or decency to reply. thanks again for the reply, Rob.

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poison2potion

15 years ago

Well lookie here.... it's Mr Sheen :) The one and only that I gave his nick to hehe... I guess in response to your post, people move on and find other places to cure their boredom. Unfortunately the chat rooms died quite some time ago and the fun was lost. Might be time to find somewhere else to hang?No matter how decent you may think someone is by their profile on here by what is said... almost everyone on here is shallow and superficial. Unfortunately it's true. How many men send messages and flirts to women only to get no response after reading it? The same goes for the males too... So many get messaged but then they respond with smut it turns a girl off from sending any more.I hope things are well with you and your search takes a turn for the best. xox P2p

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Dellaroo

15 years ago

Oh Mr Sheen, Im from Vic but i have not had a flirt or message from you, i understand what its like not to get a reply back i truly try to reply to everyone, i sometimes get a bit snowed under but i then go back and try to get through them at another time. if you ever get to my profile feel free to drop me a line , i will reply honest injun Dellaroo

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where have all the victorians gone, and the ones that are here why not reply to flirts or messages

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