M52 F50
where is the class?
December 15 2009
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can see where u are coming from , as a felow msn'er we have had plenty of couples where the men only want to talk to me (mrs adidas) and the females also only want to talk to me! Its ok for us in our situation as MrAdidas is no good at typing so...generaly i get the honours.. I have found in my chats that i actually enjoy talking to the men of the couples (as we dont talk to single men). see i make it very clear that we dont play on cam (personally for us its very boring and has been done to death and we prefer to play inperson) so once they know this the "can u show me what u r wearing?" convos come to a screaming halt! and we are able to get on and find out the real stuff about one another.. There has been times tho when i have been chatting on msn and the girl asked me to put on my cam just to verify so i did and because MrAdidas was beside me she turned hers off and closed mine down then said "sorry i dont chat in front of the men" .....right....um.....but you are willing to come and meet us for a threesome????? .....hmmmm Probably the ones u have met are less likely to push for dirty talk because they are the real deals and are not childish and willing to waiste your time...i have found most ppl that are real and genuine are not huge on msn anyway but those that live their life on there never seem to "be able to make it" once u have made plans...maybe these types have their fantasies but when it comes to the crunch really are just bored and looking for a giggle of sorts...we are still learning to weed out these ones. MrFitn! i am a genuine female from a couple and would love to have a chat with another gentleman so dont get dissheartened those "ladies" and or couples who dont talk to you are not worth ur time anyway!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Guess thats what it comes down to huh?! you have to take the good with the bad and sift through the not so good to find the lovely people It just irritates MrFitn when I am out with mates and he decides to try and go into chat or on msn. He just gets brick walls. but as soon as I pop on, BAM!! everyone wants to talk.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Mrsfitn..Stick to yours guns...you stipulate in your profile...you both down play alone!so me that would mean on cam as well!! you both come has a package deal...kick em ..do as i do babe.I dont do sexy cam chat for the very reason...im not going to be anyones free palm food and talk eroticif we havent met or havent chatted in a civilised way to start with..prior only when we have hooked up.Yes some have pestered me to do so...now i just say thankx but its not on !! log of then i delete and block on msn.and do the same on here.Nothing wrong with having and expecting some class even if its sex.xoxoheymummayour man is a gentleman.
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piercedfun
15 years ago
hey fitn how are you both firstly i hope im not one of these people your talking bout as i enjoy chatting to both of you i cant understand why guys cant chat to both male and female cause if they plan on meeting a couple i doubt mr will be outside working on the car while some stranger from the computer has his way with mrs haha hey i gotta admit i am no angel im a smart arse sometimes am a dick in cam with cam on but i always try and respect and fitsfiesty my advice if they cant talk to you both thye aint worth it
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have had the exact same prob/dilemma so to speak, mrs do this, mrs cam this way..lower, from behind! etc etc Like you said it may take some weeding but to get the not so good from the ones, but there are actually some out there, we tend not to msn as much cause of that reason! mr has his chat with the 'ladys' but if it was me, it is unfair but ya cant get a mans brain out of there penis's (well some of them) I have seen mrfitn in chat before and well what can i say....you are one very lucky lady mrsfitn mrscuma
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mr fitnfiesty, I know where your coming from. But after time you will get to know some of the regular cples/girls and as long as you say 'Hi' you will get a 'hi how are you?' back.What Mrs fitnfiesty said about guys being classless is right on the money. I still find it amazing that guys will start a conversation or whisper with Mrs tmp1707 with comments like 'RU shaved' or 'show ur tits'. They have to remember that mrs tmp1707 is my wife and lifelong companion. There is just no way I'd agree to meet/play or even chat with anyone who can't show manners and maturity, it just won't happen.Just my 2cents... Mr tmp1707
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RHP User
15 years ago
we have very few couples that take the time to talk to mr bal and those are the people we meet. if ur not willing to talk to him on msn then how do we know u will talk to him in person? it also anoys me when people pressure u to show or play on cam. if i say no dont ask again or keep bugging me. and its no only men who have done that to me its women aswell.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It is understandable that they wont chat to Mr. if Mrs is not there, because for all they know Mrs might not really exist. If you come across a couple you think you might want to meet, why not have a phone call instead?? MSN people never seem to meet, well some do, but I think phone call is betterXX
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RHP User
15 years ago
So we have been playing for about 2 years now.( we are such old timers) At first we would send out our msn to everyone. It was like casting a net to see what the sea did hold! So after a while of jumping on msn we found out that many of the "couples" and "single girls" were in fact just silly single boys who were getting their jollies of by looking at the photos we had! Of those that appeared like real couples and single girls many were well really rude! ooooooouch we thought! This sucks! so we developed rules - We never cam , unless we have met this person in the flesh, simple! If people ask for saucy photos of us we just delete them immediately. ON almost all occasion these people turnt out to be time wasters or again stupid boys. We always do it together, or are aware on of us is online. We never send photos. IN general we have found people that want to cam or chat endlessly are sadly time wasters....... NOW NOW I know I am sure there a 5 or so of you that are for real................. but we agree with others here they sadly are mostly time wasters. Oh now this begs the question, whats our success rate...... in fact pretty good we have meet 5 single girls and numerous couples we have actually met with and played! so, so far , so good!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just a few points to throw out there, may help some people who are newish... 1. If someone bugs me to go on cam this actually irritates me and I delete them. 2. If a girl doesn't want to talk in front of my man I'd delete her... he's my number one not her! 3. If someone says they don't want to talk to your man when your not there, delete them! they are most likely not genuinely interested in meeting and since you are a couple they need to be comfortable with both of you not just one of you. 4. Some people are new/shy/unsure so may not be willing to jump on cam straight up, thats fine but they will soon learn without verifying themselves they won't get far... give these people space and don't be damanding. 5. and lastly... msn chatting is not for everyone. We are a 100% genuine couple who have no hesitations about chatting on msn/talking on the phone and meeting up BUT I (the female) is never online to chat on msn as I personally don't enjoy it and I'd much rather talk on the phone. My man is the opposite and lives online so he does all the chatting, if people ever don't want to talk to 'us' because it's just him online, we delete them. Their loss not ours! Stand your ground and appreciate those genuine diamonds in the rough x Let me know if you want a little more info on anything 'swing' x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Whilst it can be tiresome FitnFeisty - it's the best screening device. Both of us happily chat to either parties of a couple, our rule is we both have to like both of them for anything to develop.If we get the male pushing for cam or asking for more pics etc etc - it's usually a block situation - and that's one less disappointment we may have in real life. As for chatting with single females, we stopped believing in santa a long time ago.
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RHP User
15 years ago
we don't even bother with webcam/msn any more. met too many idots on websites that simply want to have a wank or picture collect.
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RHP User
15 years ago
No wonder I havent seen you guys in web chat...............this place is like any other theres good people and idots..........just ignore the idiots. xxx
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