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which event?
April 13 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
That depends on what your expectations are. Meet and greets are usually just social events (think your high school reunion, but with people you actually enjoy talking to :-P). Are you looking for private parties where sex is on the table (couch, floor, bed)?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some people love clubs.I don't but I enjoy meet and greets..as a single male you will not be welcome to all events.many state only couples,or couples and single women...If you like to travel then there is a meet and greet in Melbourne on 23rd of May..I suggest you contribute more to the fora than just your own topics..it's also a good way to connect with people here and maybe make some friends xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks for the replies. I noted that a lot of the events had very limited or no single guys. I understand completely the dynamic there....well I think I do........to many bulls in a china shop sort of thing. I will contribute as I can see the value of the forums. Im not one to just thrust myself into the middle of an established community.......hopefully that will come (cum?) later. It takes time to form a persona in forums and I dont want to be known as a dick.......maybe The Dick if Im lucky...........that was a joke by the way....... anyway .........Ill watch, read and when appropiate make a comment or ask a question. I had already decided that the first couple of parties or events that had playtime going on I would just watch and learn the rules and the ebb and flow. I am sure each one is different but thete would be some common do's and do nots.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't know dude, are you ready to get down and dirty get all sweaty and naked with a bunch of strangers while group of men stand around and watch and beat off?
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RapidFyr
10 years ago
Meeka100 - love it! Devlin- we aren't into the club/party scene so attending a meet and greet will be our first group meeting as such. Looking forward to it- we've only done one on one meets before! Mrs RF xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I dont know really. Thats part of my little journey. I might get to the first one and never go back. My interest is very high and I have to satiate the desire to at least find out about it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Delvin ...my mantra..Expect nothing,hope for everything xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'devlin1971' I dont know really. Thats part of my little journey. I might get to the first one and never go back. My interest is very high and I have to satiate the desire to at least find out about it. Here is some advice. Parties, sex parties, meet and greet nights, and swingers clubs are all different. In fact clubs, etc can be different depending on the night or just due to luck so never ever judge a place or party on one night. You have to go a few times really. I only watched the first few times I went to a swingers club on my own. It can be overwhelming and pretty daunting at times. Also men can have performance issue the first few times they go.... perfectly normal!!!! I am lucky.... I just got to star fish while staring at the ceiling like Bambi in the head lights. What I am trying to say is, some places and parties are pretty awful so you need to experiement and go to different places on different nights to really determine if you like it and don't assume just because one place was shit, that they are all going to be the same. I see that some times. People saying it isn't their thing and it was awful, blah blah blah and they are basing it one one night experience.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'RapidFyr' Meeka100 - love it! Devlin- we aren't into the club/party scene so attending a meet and greet will be our first group meeting as such. Looking forward to it- we've only done one on one meets before! Mrs RF xx - Posted from rhpmobile Oh, and you think I am joking.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes it is just SO awful that one can be scarred for life...like me ...and there is a club in Brisbane that I have only heard really awful things about but another that friends of mine love going to..xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' delvin. Freudian slip or your way of telling Devlin to go for it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Freudian slip Meander
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Sometimes it is just SO awful that one can be scarred for life...like me ...and there is a club in Brisbane that I have only heard really awful things about but another that friends of mine love going to..xxFreya Yep. Some parties and places are really awful. Although sometimes it has more to do with people that happen to attend on the night and may have a completely different feel from one night to the next. I can certainly appreciate that someone might go and realise it is not for them, but I just wanted to say that you need to keep a very open mind and don't judge too quickly about group sex or swinging if you really feel it is something you could get into.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Here is some advice. Parties, sex parties, meet and greet nights, and swingers clubs are all different. In fact clubs, etc can be different depending on the night or just due to luck so never ever judge a place or party on one night. You have to go a few times really. What I am trying to say is, some places and parties are pretty awful so you need to experiement and go to different places on different nights to really determine if you like it and don't assume just because one place was shit, that they are all going to be the same. I see that some times. People saying it isn't their thing and it was awful, blah blah blah and they are basing it one one night experience. Really good advice that - My learn in life is that little piece of advice you just gave Meeka applies to going any community of people that has a common interest, could be a book club, car club, and yes even a church. You really need to go back more than once if you want to see if it works, and that a single bad experience isn't necessarily representive of other groups with the same interest. The people there will really make the experience - and it might just take a while to get to know how they work.
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RHP User
10 years ago
and it's put me off permanently, in Perth at least 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are a good way to meet lots of people and you can click with someone and then take it further? Theres no pressure or no expectations? Ive been to a few in Perth and made some great friends. And new friendships can lead to other things?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get what your saying Meeka and I think you're right. I guess for me as I delve 😜 into it more I am getting nervous. I dont take any sort of relationship with anybody for granted whether its good or bad and I guess I just don't want to be another dick. Ill try and get to the meet and greets and at least have sone contact and context with the people in the scene. I liked the Bambi comment. Laughed out loud.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree with all of the above! You can go to the same place twice and they can be two very different nights depending on the crowd. I went to purr straight up as it was a baby step that way, and then went from there.
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PL1963
10 years ago
A word of advise, don't get in a "forum stoush", I did this when I 1st started contributing to forums, I was then "blocked" by many ppl. The Lady I "blued" with isn't even on here any more that I'm aware of, but the effects were long lasting. I dearly wanted to go to a Melb meet & greet, but 50% of the ppl that "blocked" me were attending. I didn't want to walk into a "Halocaust" & "be burnt". I now only voice strong opinions when I can't hold back. Good luck on RHP, age is on your side and you sound like a level headed guy. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a participant in quite.a number of meet and greets up and down the east coast, be scared, be very, very scared. Honestly, a great way to meet people, mostly worth knowing, in a casual, no pressure, situation. The worst thing that's happened to me is keeping up with the friends I've made. I won't tell you the best ;p
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