M39
why no reply?
December 29 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
To all the messages I receive , but sometimes it is just impossible, some get missed purely by mistake. To be honest though I wouldn't look at your message as I don't respond to profiles with " cock " photos as profile pics . Just my personal opinion.x
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RHP User
9 years ago
the 13 odd friends you have?? Didn't they reply at some point?? The problem here is that I don't know how you message....and the lameness is going to be subjective anyway.... Me...I send lame messages...I send crass ones....inappropriate ones to boot.... You're never going to attract everyone....so attract only those that are compatible to you...by being you..... I pinched part of that last bit from a poster here...and their name should remain anon to remain respectful...lol aye DG?? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Pictures? As a guest, i can't see the one you do have up, is it a dick picture? If so, i'd rethink that, nl-one loves a dick more than i do, but it's not always popular as a main pic, women need you to be more than just your dick. You're not verified, definitely get verified, I recently did and it made a significant difference, lot of couples in particular won't hook up with non verified profiles. Safe sex if required is honest and needs to stay that way but will be a deal breaker for many. Otherwise, your stats are let's say impressive lol and your written part is very good, comes across really well and I think would make most women feel comfortable. So thumbs up there 👍
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Perhaps you don't meet theirs. No one is obligated to reply to unsolicited messages.Females & Couples often get bombarded with dozens of messages, from males, daily and really can't be expected to reply to them all. "Single" males are in over supply in here and this topic has been debated so many times before. Accept it for what it is. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
When you reply in the negative you mostly, not always, but a lot of the time get nasty messages back in return. I used to be polite but what's the point when the other person uses the polite reply as an excuse to abuse you and be nasty. Probably just another example of a few arseholes ruining it for the nice guys out there.
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lovebitten
9 years ago
I have found that 'meeting your criteria' is often subjective. I have had men claim that they meet whatever criteria but at some stage in the getting to know you process, it becomes evident that they do not. Sometimes this is on initial view of the profile or first instance message. It's nothing personal. I've learnt the hard way that it's often not worth remembering replying as you getting at best nagging and at worst insult back. Silence works better. I hope your luck improves here! Lovebitten xox - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Doesnt every guy in RHOP have a 9 inch thick cock?! LOL Mate.... reality check time. There are only three reasons why people do not reply to messages. 1. Your messages are shit..... they're not capturing someones attention amongst a flood tide of other messages in a womans inbox 2. Your profile is shit..... many profiles can be the anti-pussy to a well written message. You deliberately withhold a face photo - one of the PRIMARY triggers people use to make a decision. NOT a dick. NOT abs. NOT a flash car. 3 you're sending messages to fake profiles. Thats about it really.So, fix what you think of those three elements, is failing you. DG
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RHP User
9 years ago
Because I can't send messages and if I could I still wouldn't send any anyway. I've been there so now I just bide my time and run with the few that message me.. Even though I only ever receive a few , the messages I do get are usually from ladies and couples who are serious... just my experience..
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree with both ticklish and summer - I always reply but often get nasty messages back which makes you think twice about replying in future but I don't like to be rude and i figure the person has paid to send me a message so I send a reply and hope for the best. With what summer said too about your pics I'm only a guest so given your main pic is restricted i cannot see any pics on your profile at all which would likely be limiting responses if you are messaging guests.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice'Some women here are turned right off by a cock shot in their face. :-) why do they sit so close to the computer? they should probably see an optometrist
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RHP User
9 years ago
OP meeting someone's criteria is a little more complicated than, me boy, she girl, computer says you want to meet me :). Yes there is a a bit of an inference that this site is just overflowing with horny gagging for it ladies but if you take a moment a look at the statistics you will notice you are one of many many men standing in line. Not only are you on the wrong side of the demand system, you also share it with some very basic testosterone filled wrinkle bags that are just unable to grasp the fundamentals of human interaction. Their frustrated stupidity gets quickly wearisome for those in demand. The blame is not on those that do not reply, but those in the line with you that think "Me boy, you girl... ;) ? why you not fuck me Why why why why? ...dummy spit... You bitch now." Everyone like attention, likes to be made to feel special. Nobody likes to get abuse. For the women here, they have learnt that a no reply is a safe reply, much less likely to get a screen full of crap for nothing more than a kind no thanks. So just take it as it is, the no reply is the reply, not because they are rude, or want to be rude. It is just the way it is and if you don't let it get to you then in time you will get your reply and you will meet the girls and have some good times. If you do let it get to you, if you get frustrated, then spit the dummy, well... you make it all that little bit harder for all the others waiting in line.
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IamMrSilly
9 years ago
OP, did you take the time to search the forum for the prior posts on this topic? Put more effort in and you will get replies. That profile pic is not a good start, as everyone else has said. Surprised you have not changed it already.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Had a msg recently asking if we would consider male half of a couple joining us , I said we would , asked him to open his pg so could see what he looked like and was told , not unless you do lol ... Then proceeded to tell him thanks but no thanks your the one that wants to join us not the other way round lmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You're messaging all the boring people.......? :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
You arent requesting anything unreasonable if you are within the profile requests a simple no thanks wouldnt be that difficult. I understand the non-response to profiles not matching. I think it reflects bad manners and no class :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Josie8' You're messaging all the boring people.......? :-) Brilliant.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
I agree with meander..."If you swapped that pic for one of you smiling, you may just get a different reaction. Some women here are turned right off by a cock shot in their face. :-)".......i see it advertised a lot...if your profile pic is of your cock pls dont message. Mr SS
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RHP User
9 years ago
I get a lot of messages every day. I can go to the beach for an hour or two and come back and have 10 messages waiting for me. Over a full day, a fair few come in. I love it and am very appreciative that they are paying members, something I can't afford to be at the moment, so am very happy and grateful. But keep in mind we have other stuff going on in our lives, real life, so I don't have time to potentially start conversations, I enjoy talking to guys, but I physically can't do that, some days I don't even get time to look at flirts. So I was responding at one point, then it got too much, i'm also texting people at the same time, it can eat into time. I do feel bad, and reply to one or two here and there, but the decision not to reply isn't made hastily and isn't an easy one, it's a logistical thing, lack of time, that's all. No disrespect is intended. It's also a hard thing to say no, just my thoughts. I understand what you're saying though, it does seem wrong ☺
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RHP User
9 years ago
I apreciate what you are saying as my hot wife has a profile on here as well. However, it doesnt take much to send even a template responce if you arent interested in someone who is within your profile request and has sent a message. Im not talking about the stupid one liners such as 'sup' or 'hey' etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"Swoon"
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usnow
9 years ago
Most times it comes down to 2 things , people getting lost between fantasy and reality or just fake profiles . Swingnew .
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Missb4u
9 years ago
Generally don't reply. I got sick of the abuse when I said no. The personal attacks on my size and age make me unlikely to reply with a negative repainted these days.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
I always reply to the initial messages and usually get left alone after I said no. Occasionally, I do get the second message back asking why I've said no, or get offered an open door for if I ever change my mind. I rarely give a second reply to those who I have politely said no to, just in case I might attract nasty verbal abuse from happening, or in case I upset the sender with honesty and truth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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social_suicide
9 years ago
OP, I think you are being called out. For gods sake take the advice, I've seen this train wreck many times and it isn't pretty. Please do what you are told to do!!!
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Advice ignored........ Just another advertising campaign.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wtf 'do as you're told'? Hahaha As if that wasn't, god i can't even find a word for it, I was more stunned by the silence after you said this? Probably sitting here shaking their head like i was. The op can take advice given, use it, not use it, entirely up to him. His profile, his choice, simple as that. I do agree that it needed Changing but telling him to do as he's told, god I wouldn't even speak to a 2 yr old like that, that made me cringe 👎
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Wtf 'do as you're told'? Hahaha As if that wasn't, god i can't even find a word for it, I was more stunned by the silence after you said this? Probably sitting here shaking their head like i was. The op can take advice given, use it, not use it, entirely up to him. His profile, his choice, simple as that. I do agree that it needed Changing but telling him to do as he's told, god I wouldn't even speak to a 2 yr old like that, that made me cringe 👎 Ummm you do realise that was a sarcastic response to Meander's passive aggressive comment regarding the choice of taking on the sage advice. The "advice" basically turned into a demand when it wasn't heeded 3 days later, hence my comment of being "told what to do". I was merely helping the OP avoid another public flogging - a community service if you like.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just wow.I guess naughtynicka is a good name then.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Lol....obviously you needed help as well
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide'I was merely helping the OP avoid another public flogging maybe that was the goal, haven't you read his fetish interests ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I fucking love this topic.! LOVE IT.! Let's look at this debate from its most bare-basic, logical view point. And let's take out all of the 'heat' from this, and all the emotion (which gets in the way of intellect) and let's dispell any nonsensical canards about "we don't "OWE" you anything" BS..... Strip it right back- if you were in a conversation with someone and they asked you a question or they were full flight into a story, you wouldn't just turn your back on them, would you.? Answer your phone & keep that conversation going instead.? Get up from your chair & walk off.? Really.? You would.? *pfffft* Lookit, I think we've just lost our manners.? Do to others as you would like done to you.... Simples. RHP even make it easy by providing AUTO RESPONSES😂. I get it though, who wants to click the mouse accross the screen or work the dropdown box 'all day'. It hurts even now 😩
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RHP User
9 years ago
Oops, sorry missed that one, sorry 😀 my apology
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry for double post, in a black spot here 😃
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Oops, sorry missed that one, sorry 😀 my apology Its fine, and according to meander you actually paid me a complement, sooo all is good.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The conversation never started....so you're not really walking off mid sentence.....you're simply not acknowledging them....how this relates in the real world is in a typical group scenario....a man won't really approach anyone unless the body language is open, inviting, etc...I realise you can't see body language in messages, but that's even more justification for not getting upset by a no reply....
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PurePeony
9 years ago
... is a huge turn on for me. Therefore, if the msg is curt, littered with bad spelling, no punctuation and poor grammar, I can't help it but I am immediately repulsed. Sometimes, the "sleaze factor" in some profiles is so great that I do not bother to reply. To keep it simple, "sleaze factor" = cock photos, tons of friends on their friends list (which makes me think, gee... exactly how many have they bonked?!), etc. Photos can be indicative of personality and if one isn't well-groomed but scruffy and sloppy, it casts doubts on the personal hygiene or lack of. LOL!!! Here'a an analogy : If you want to eat a hamburger, and you explicitly state that, and someone comes knocking on your door selling dumplings and is fighting against several other people selling hamburgers, what are the chances of dumplings guy getting a reply? ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Doesnt every guy in RHOP have a 9 inch thick cock?! LOL Mate.... reality check time. There are only three reasons why people do not reply to messages. 1. Your messages are shit..... they're not capturing someones attention amongst a flood tide of other messages in a womans inbox 2. Your profile is shit..... many profiles can be the anti-pussy to a well written message. You deliberately withhold a face photo - one of the PRIMARY triggers people use to make a decision. NOT a dick. NOT abs. NOT a flash car. 3 you're sending messages to fake profiles. Thats about it really.So, fix what you think of those three elements, is failing you. DG Not true. If you don't meet someones criteria and its explicit but you send a message anyway....then why would you expoect a reply?
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RHP User
9 years ago
genius
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RHP User
9 years ago
I just don't want to reply to all the messages and flirts for lots of reasons: Some guys just aren't attractive to me. Some men say they r 40 but look 70 in the shade. Some don't have profile pics and I don't generally reply to them. Some guys when u say ur not interested get really shitty at u and tell u to fuck off. Then there's those that u say ur not interested in and they wont take no for an answer. Sometimes I'll get 7 flirts in a row from one guy. That just freaks me out. I block guys when they do that. There's lots of reasons. I reply to the ones I'm interested in and some I say I'm not interested in but then for the above reasons some I don't reply to at all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Kampalina
9 years ago
Please don't take offense or take it personally. It is purely a mathematical exercise, the number of men VS the number of women VS the number of couples on site. As many of the gals have posted, we often receive more multiple messages than multiple orgasms Many of the messages that say "We have a lot in common" or "We live close by" then followed with "let's meet"....don't really warrant a reply. The ones that do catch the eye of the recipient have something punchy or unique about them to stand out from the rest. They are the ones that are almost guaranteed to receive a response. Hope that is helpful
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RHP User
9 years ago
As many of the gals have posted, we often receive more multiple messages than multiple orgasms Gold!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why do guests send flirts asking for messages because they cannot or view your profile many times in succession to get your attention, then simpley do not reply to the message you send. Then a few days/ week later you get another flirt from the same people wanting you to send them a message because they cannot, and so the process starts again. Answer - just reply to the first message😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think I can answer that. I've done this on occasion and from memory, it might happen like this, I send a flirt or a reply flirt if i'm interested enough to take it a step further BUT this is only a first step. Some don't have many pictures up so i'm straining to get a decent look at them, but enough interest there to want to see more. I'll quite often send the reply flirt 'call me a perve but can you show me more pictures' but even if I don't, I expect them to open their pg if they for example only have one public picture. So if I then get a message with no more pictures or pictures that are dark or not showing their body, I might not reply, though it would depend what else is said in the message and how full my inbox is to be honest. I never pry pictures out of guys, they have the benefit of getting a good look at me, the least they can do is give me vision to work with. Particularly if they ask personal questions, i won't talk to anyone I can't see or trust. So that's one reason. The other would be what is said in the message. Regardless of whether I have asked for contact or not, if something in the message turns me off, I won't reply, red flags. Makes no difference who has initiated contact, the same scrutiny and caution then kicks in. Does that make sense? 😯😃 but if I had initiated contact or replied to a flirt, then got a mesaage and/or more pictures and I simply wasn't attracted, I would usually then reply, unless they have 5 pictures that look like 5 different people or fake pictures, i've gotten pretty good at smelling a rat, then no reply 👎
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marshall8
9 years ago
It sounds familiar when you are ask you first so you so open up both private galleries and the other only opens up 1 of theres
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think most females and couples get hammered with msgs from guys and its everyone right to reply or not but that said if you do have single men as a preference maybe be more specific in what your looking for. We've taken the time to msg you assuming wed be a match which shouldn't be case you can't blame us for trying, little effort goes a long way ;) it is rhp after all :) no replys just comes across rude tell us what you want in detail openly on your profile and we may not have to msg you... Its a two way street.
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RHP User
9 years ago
StudMuffins, please do pass on the recipe. The whole, "taken the time to message" is such a hollow statement, yes there is time and there is effort, and I will give it to you that you ask that this 'effort' and 'time' not be wasted on the inevitable rude 'no reply'. It is to be commended that you have taken the effort save others from your personal commitment of time. There is nothing more frustrating than wasted time and effort. I know!!! FFS... I know!!! The problem is how do people spell out 'NO!! not "you"' (in the 3rd person) while keeping the options open for the random, thank my lucky stars "Yes you! My place 1/2hour! You are freaky awesome perfect for me!" This is RHP after all and you never know what may just walk in the door and drop you a smile. You don't want to limit yourself by requiring a pulse. People could say, for your reduced effort, "Only those that are perfect for me." but how can one know who is perfect. 'Must be 41 and 2 months old, must be 6'4", 9", rich, single, have a house, cat (or dog) and be looking for love/sex/kink' kind of limits opportunity So this is RHP, suck it up, they are here for their benefit not yours or mine. In the end they do what you do, a general purpose, open ended, invite to anyone, while looking for perfect. Pays to keep those options open does it not? :P
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DiscreetCpl4u
9 years ago
... rather than feel sorry for yourself, regard it as feedback if you don't get a reply. Sure, it could mean that the person is rude, but probably not. There are many reasons why people don't reply on this site, so it's futile taking it personally. The most likely reason is that you are batting above your league. Like Danny De Vito contacting Jennifer Hawkins and being surprised and disappointed when he doesn't get a response. Most of us are all guilty of this !!!!!!!!! If you play the victim you loose the opportunity to learn from the feedback. Do you have a pic on your profile? Is it sexy or are you holding a dead fish? This is a sex site, not eHarmony. Have you taken the time to consider how the wording in your profile comes across? No reply is feedback. It means there was never going to be a connection and you have saved time and effort in messaging and meeting them. So move on and look for someone else who may be compatible. And here's a scoop ... it's not just females and couples who don't reply !!!!!!Many guys on this site don't bother to respond to flirts and messages.It's happened to us and other couples we know. It's just the way it is ...... accept it. Cheers and best wishes on your journey.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Firstly, listen to summer and mischevious, they know what they are on about and have helped me in the past. Second, don't send messages to template profiles, women can get away with making template profiles, guys can't. Simple but unfair fact. They haven't put any effort into their profile, they aren't going to put much effort into your message reply. Read their profile, take something interesting from their written part and use it in your message, it shows you have actually read the profile and just perving at the pics...get way more responses when you use humour and their profile as a guide...trust me it works...I messaged someone here the other day and mentioned the fact that they were exploring and I was on the same expedition...hook,line and sinker...received a thesis in return after two sentences with something from their profile in original message. I have started even sending flirts, especially to unpaid members. I don't waste messages unless I think I can pull something out of that hat and get their attention, if they reply to a flirt in a positive way then they will reply to a message. Sometimes I am halfhearted with my messages but I am aware of that and stop drinking...don't drink and redhotpie.... Face pics, for profile, man up. You aren't going to meet them in real world with a no photo sign on your face or naked down the street, or are you? She won't recognise you by your dick down the street, she might afterwards though...
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's certainly frustrating when the majority of messages are not even viewed. Doubly so when you've put in the effort to write a decent message and profile. Standing out seems to be the hardest things to do on here, but that's the chance you take when using sites like these. Gotta make the impressions count!
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Errrrr excuse me??? RHP after all? That statement it's self, says a lot to me. If I do not want to reply, I will not. It's my choice. There is no obligation to anyone I have not met, let alone over the net. I believe its not rude, it's called not waisting my time or the other persons time. LOL, After all, It's all about me.. 😇😎 Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
What do you mean, when you say "using sites like this"? Right there I read "entitlement". Maybe that's the issue why the ladies are not replying. I received a message from a local chap yesterday informing me he had his own place and can host. First message, that's it. I replied "And??", the followed abused. He told me I was a mother of four children and on the dole. How rude!! He does not deserve a reply. PMSL if only he knew. Hahaha! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
In all honesty, i really couldn't care less if I didn't get a reply... Their loss :D i can only imagine the pain you go through getting heaps of messages from people who just want your attention.. It must be terrible when its all about you :P I meant rhp is an adult site.. you can expect people to just expect, id take great pleasure in having the option to reply not a chance haha.
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RHP User
9 years ago
S_OnTheLoose you're being condescending to both men and women on this site!
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Taken from Urban Dictionary... "Ghosting- The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just "get the hint" and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested. Ghosting is not specific to a certain gender and is closely related to the subject's maturity and communication skills. Many attempt to justify ghosting as a way to cease dating the ghostee without hurting their feelings, but it in fact proves the subject is thinking more of themselves, as ghosting often creates more confusion for the ghostee than if the subject kindly stated how he/she feels." Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Take that out and insert "exchanging email emails".. Same same. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Heh. I just posted this same thread. Tall, attractive, fun, intelligent, interesting guy struggles to even get a "not interested thanks" reply. Yes, I get that women get a lot of messages but to not even give the courtesy of a reply, after they have viewed your profile, is just rude. My strike rate on other sites is easily 10-15 times what it is here. I'll not be renewing my membership when the time comes unfortunately.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Bascially it is just rude!!! Simple as that, especially if youve sent a message to a lady or a couple and they view your profile and then still just ignore you. In my book that is rude!!! If you've taken the time to read a message and then view someones profile, common curisey should prevale and a message of "No Thanks but good luck with your search" if not interested and it takes less than 30 seconds to reply. Come on people, i realise a lot of ladies get hammered with messages but have a heart. We have taken the time and spent the money to send you a message, surely you can do the same and at least reply!!!! Maybe RHP should have a reply template avaiable to those lazy people who just cant be bothered typing a reply?? Sorry rant over. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Quoting 'rt1972' Bascially it is just rude!!! Simple as that, especially if youve sent a message to a lady or a couple and they view your profile and then still just ignore you. In my book that is rude!!! If you've taken the time to read a message and then view someones profile, common curisey should prevale and a message of "No Thanks but good luck with your search" if not interested and it takes less than 30 seconds to reply. Come on people, i realise a lot of ladies get hammered with messages but have a heart. We have taken the time and spent the money to send you a message, surely you can do the same and at least reply!!!! Maybe RHP should have a reply template avaiable to those lazy people who just cant be bothered typing a reply?? Sorry rant over. - Posted from rhpmobile Just a thought...... the concept of "no reply IS their reply"... would make sense, wouldn't it? DG
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can understand your frustration - it's been echoed endlessly. I know for myself, I often reply - though am getting more and more cagey about responding. As even with a simple thanks no thanks, type message you often receive a barrage of angst and bitterness, and name-calling as a reply back. So you may thinks it's just women and couples being rude - but often it's because we don't want the nastiness we've received previously Maybe, you could include in your initial message - if it's a thanks, no thanks, I'm a big boy and can handle it, tell me - I just appreciate knowing. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
So I have a massive pile of messages sitting in my inbox still. Ive opened most of them. Sometimes I don't respond because I'm running out the door and then forget. Other times its because I don't know how to respond to what they've said on the spot. And - there are those sitting in my inbox - that I would like to write a decent response to. But thats more time consuming. And honestly - there are only so many men I can talk to at one particular time. I would prefer giving a few my attention and work out whether there is anything in it, rather than juggle 20 at a time, scrolling back to try and remember if I've asked them a certain question etc. You can say just respond - but if someone says hi, and then you say hi back its an invite to start a conversation. If you say hi - thanks for the message but Im not interested at the moment, you cop back lash a lot of the time.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Generally because they fall outside of what we are looking for... eg: She likes men older than 30 or they have cocks bigger than she likes (which means they didn't read the profile) Or they just plain out no effort into the first point of contact so they get shuffled down the list and we read and reply to people that look like they have put a genuine effort into their first point of contact. Tip: If your email is bland and boring we are going to assume you are as well. But at the end of the day it is the internet and we owe nobody that emails us a thing, we as people can pick and choose who we wish to email or reply to and no amount wailing in the forums is going to change that. You guys should really do a forum search on this exact thread and you will find it's be done so many times before.
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RHP User
9 years ago
No it's most likely not you! I also struggle to get a reply back to most messages I've sent to profiles that state they are looking for someone like me! I send out genuine, nice messages and most people do not have the courtesy to return a message back. What's funny is people are asking for people with manners and yet these people have none. Keep trying, I have found a handful of nice people who I've met and some I havernt that are great to chat with. The ones that don't message back, should tell you that they wouldn't have been worth it anyway.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That comment sounded conceited - I didn't mean it to. I honestly want to write a nice response back to everyone. Yes I get a lot of messages - but I'm not one to complain about it. Just wanted to make a point that although some people get a lot of messages and maybe have even opened them but not responded, doesn't meant they are rude. I appreciate that a lot of people have taken the time to write something.
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SexyDeviants
9 years ago
Leaves nothing to the imagination really, we do the same with female or couple profiles with either genitals in plain view... Personally it's a turn off.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'marshall8' It sounds familiar when you are ask you first so you so open up both private galleries and the other only opens up 1 of theres Guests can't see your restricted pictures, so if you're giving access to both pg's, they can still usually only view one of the pg's (with respect, they might not be guests), and are these people local in your town, with the possibility of a hookup? I don't currently open any pg's in the early stages, a new development for me, but got tired of guys wanting the private pics, then buggering off. I'm here for sex, not picture swapping, and since I personally, have shit loads of pictures up, I don't feel I owe them anything. Add to that most don't have their face showing, I do, so a pg has to be opened for me to even see their face, why then do I owe them my private pictures?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I might have to cull some of my pictures. Has anyone noticed you can now put more than 50 in the public gallery lol I think I now have 55 overkill, just can't decide which ones to remove
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RHP User
9 years ago
No, it must be a glitch. I just went to move one from private to public and it said 50 was the maximum, even though I have 55
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MnauMnau
9 years ago
Quoting 'rt1972' Bascially it is just rude!!! Simple as that, especially if youve sent a message to a lady or a couple and they view your profile and then still just ..... So if not replying is rude, what is then to replying to your message with a question and you are not being able to reply back, because theirs/hers profile is "Unavailable, please come back later" for past day or so? And at the same time next to theirs/hers profile is "Online Now"? Just don't take it personally and move on...
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