M39
why the flirt
April 20 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Never.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Happens to me all the time. Usually I send a flirt and people send me back a tirade of abuse and block me! hehe.HUgsS
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RHP User
14 years ago
hehe. Gaz
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RHP User
14 years ago
its the same for me too i send flirts out n askin them to inbox me they never do
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'johnboyau71'its the same for me too i send flirts out n askin them to inbox me they never do maybe it is because you are only looking for women between the ages of 20 - 24...pretty tight age range..any other woman out of that age range may think why bother...
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cougar4fun
14 years ago
I find all too common that people that message me numerous times often drop off for no reason.......we will message back and forth then they just stop responding.........its irritating to say the least, particularly when they have initiated the messaging to start with...... People can be a strange bunch sometimes...... Oh and pure001.....damn....... if you were closer.....I'd message you back.......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'johnboyau71'its the same for me too i send flirts out n askin them to inbox me they never do How do you "inbox" someone??????
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RHP User
14 years ago
The content of your message turned them off?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Stalky he is dissing you with silence. Ooh that's cold.xxMeeka100
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RHP User
14 years ago
Pure001 - yes that has happened to me too. Bloody women!!xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Gawd you guys are hawt IS that your new chastity belt in the making chrissy..........................what a cock snapper heheheheheheh
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RHP User
14 years ago
Especially when guys look at my profile, every single day! Then I send a flirt and strangely, I often don't get a response either. I've even sent messages to guys who looked at my profile every day for a couple of months. Suddenly they were shy!I especially love sending flirts to younger men who look at my cleavage every day but are not looking for women in my age range. I get a real buzz out of hitting the "send anyway" button. I really just want to let them know that I know that they are looking at my tits!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I get the same repeat offenders every day All looky looky looky, but Im not really worried that they don't msg me, some I just don't want to go there
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RHP User
14 years ago
Someone looks at your profile doesn't keen they are interested. But yea I hate when you get a flirt then you waste a message on them and they never reply.. But I don't expect a reply if I'm making the first move
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RHP User
14 years ago
Have experienced all kinds.We have received flirts, responded positively and provided a follow up message --- silenceWe have flirted people, receive positive response, follow up with message --- silenceWe have received messages, had a small conversation via messages, then --- silenceWe have sent messages --- nothing, silenceWe have sat and stared at profiles and --- silence We just figure we are doing it wrong ................................................ Shell and Gaz
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RHP User
14 years ago
thanks for the respones i guess it happens to everyone not just me :) some people are just rude lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
I received a flirt from one lady ( no I take that back) girl, who I had never had contact with before. asking me to send a message, i responded in a positive way..... started by thanking her for the flirt, and that I would like to chat sometime if she was available..... all i got back was LEAVE ME ALONE...U R not my bloody type it happens
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RHP User
14 years ago
A flirt is just a flirt, not always an invitation...Then again, guys say stuff to chicks at traffic lights and then speed away - they forget to check that she MIGHT ACTUALLY be interested. True story.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'PaganGypsy' Especially when guys look at my profile, every single day! Then I send a flirt and strangely, I often don't get a response either. I've even sent messages to guys who looked at my profile every day for a couple of months. Suddenly they were shy!I especially love sending flirts to younger men who look at my cleavage every day but are not looking for women in my age range. I get a real buzz out of hitting the "send anyway" button. I really just want to let them know that I know that they are looking at my tits! ....are the one handed typists!!think about it!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Capital' whinge whinge whinge, why dont i get replies, why dont dozens of women pay attention to me, i send heaps of messages and dont get anything, i send flirts and so many rude people dont reply, what wrong with my profile, whats wrong with me, blah blah fucken blah, GET A LIFE outside the internet!!! He was asking a valid question. If you find the topic boring don't read it. I think there is something about sending an automatic flirt if you rate someones photos. I don't think many people realise this as they seemed surprised when I replied to them. I now only reply to flirts sent in the usual way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'SoldierB'A flirt is just a flirt, not always an invitation...Then again, guys say stuff to chicks at traffic lights and then speed away - they forget to check that she MIGHT ACTUALLY be interested. True story. Oh god...you just reminded me of that Bob Hudson hit "The Newcastle Song"...don't you ever let a chance go by oh Lordy don't you ever let a chance go by....
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RHP User
14 years ago
B4 RHP, i would come home after a great 'hick' night out and do 'drunk facebooking' wake up in the morning friends with everyone i went to high school with, primary school, friends of friends, even messaged with them and planned catch ups lol!! Seemed like a good idea at the time right? hehe Same goes for RHP, maybe peeps are on a roll one night and they've in reality just over done the communication and don't have the time to respond to everyone as they have already got enough peeps in the RHP pipeline so to speak. I am a pretty fickle user of RHP myself, depending on my energy level and spare time round the laptop directly effects responding to messages. I love emails, but you need the most time and energy for those, as i tend to like LONG LENGTHY emails hehe and i like to pick up where we last left off etc and then some days the idea of starting a new chat buddy just seems too hard, unless i just did a cut and paste of this is who i am blah blah, but that would be a bit rude in my book! Then one day you decide to write on a forum and b4 you know it, u stop even reading your messages or looking at your flirts because you are obsessed with trying to read ALL the new forum topics so you don't miss out! I still haven't mastered that, i never seem to catch the topics that go crazy!? d'oh! But now that my instant posting seems to have gone walkabout, this could be my last night on the forums. Going backwards in the spoils of life just ain't cricket!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't get that many flirts or messages, but I usually always reply, in the polite way if the guy is clearly just looking for a shag, and I seem to be convenient enough, or maybe he thinks that I'm desperate enough to take whatever I can get and be grateful.... or if the guy is sooooo far out of my preferences that I am unsure why he even bothered.... I live in Darwin FFS, blokes in Melbourne are not gonna get a look in, and guys the same age as my dad... ewww. The real women on this site are the one's who will reply. So forget about the chicks who don't and concentrate on finding meaningful "relationships" with those that do. They are the one's who are interested in you. They might not be supermodels, but they like you. Isn't that, in the end what we are seeking... someone who "likes" us, even if it is just as a sex friend. Cheers
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'PaganGypsy' Especially when guys look at my profile, every single day! Then I send a flirt and strangely, I often don't get a response either. I've even sent messages to guys who looked at my profile every day for a couple of months. Suddenly they were shy!I especially love sending flirts to younger men who look at my cleavage every day but are not looking for women in my age range. I get a real buzz out of hitting the "send anyway" button. I really just want to let them know that I know that they are looking at my tits! ....are the one handed typists!!think about it! Actually, I hadn't thought about it!
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RHP User
14 years ago
That's a pretty colour you are wearing.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'caitsidhe' Oh god... I have that effect.You're welcome :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT'That's a pretty colour you are wearing. Thanks Mistress.. .> Kisses Focus
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MissSarahCurious
14 years ago
Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' The content of your message turned them off? I don't send out a lot of flirts but sometimes i'll ask someone to contact me, only to find that once you see the face/read the words, they're just not for me. Do I now owe him something because I initiated contact? To put it into perspective, do the boys who send me messages or flirts owe ME anything if i respond and they find that i'm not to their liking?? Hell no.xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'SoldierB' Quoting 'caitsidhe' Oh god... I have that effect.You're welcome :) You have taken me out of context...naughty boy...no Easter Eggs for you...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Capital'the computer generated flirt, how close to your membership expiring is it?, do men in particular but women too, seem to get a steady flow of flirts just before their membership is about to expire? That sounds feasable, if recieve a flirt we will only reply with a flirt.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'caitsidhe' You have taken me out of context...naughty boy...no Easter Eggs for you... Guilty, but it was just too tempting to walk past.
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tyandeb
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard'Never. we have had three couples in the last week flirt, say they want to hear from us and when we sent them a message - nothing, zilch. Why bother in the forstplace if you have no intention of following up, jees, it's only manners FCS
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey... men do the same thing... so it works both ways. Personally I havent had much problem with that. I dont send a flirt unless I am genuinely interested, but a flrt also opens the door to talk more. Once we start to chat, then I can make more of a decision if I want to go further, like meet, etc. But some people are just flirt junkies and like to send them out with no intention of taking it further.. they are just a tease... and like I said, it goes both ways.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'shebagazz'Have experienced all kinds.We have received flirts, responded positively and provided a follow up message --- silenceWe have flirted people, receive positive response, follow up with message --- silenceWe have received messages, had a small conversation via messages, then --- silenceWe have sent messages --- nothing, silenceWe have sat and stared at profiles and --- silence We just figure we are doing it wrong ................................................ Shell and Gaz Quoting 'orcaboy' I received a flirt from one lady ( no I take that back) girl, who I had never had contact with before. asking me to send a message, i responded in a positive way..... started by thanking her for the flirt, and that I would like to chat sometime if she was available..... all i got back was LEAVE ME ALONE...U R not my bloody type it happens I have to agree with both Shell and Gaz as well as Orcaboy,you make the effort, be nice just be treated as if you don't excist, I do understand that some people just don't get the hint and keep annoying someone, but how hard is it to just say "I don't see our planets colliding and I wish you the best with your search" As Most of the replys here must be from the RHP members that pay to keep this site alive, I feel the Pie needs to have a KICK button for us paying members. It would work like this , if paying members feel they are getting the raw end for the stick from guest members they have an the oppertunity to hit a kick button even if they are blocked. If the then kicked guest gets 10 to 20 hit's from playing members RHP would automaticlly kick the profile from the site, this would also help clearing the site of inactive profiles, if members don't get replies from inactive members and enought people hit the kick button it could clear the site of these profiles saving us paying members wasting time sending flirts and emails to people that never use the site anymore and will never respond. Well that's just my 15cents worth. It will be interesting to see what other paying members of the site think of this as a way of cleaning of all these time wasters and making it more fun for the rest of us. Grant
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RHP User
14 years ago
Most of the flirts that did not reply to me all had combinations of"I enjoy slow and sensual sex with an attentive lover who knows how to kiss. People often comment that I am attractive but you need to judge for yourself. I enjoy catching a movie or going out for dinner. "But then again you have to wonder about these profiles and not be disappointed when you don't get a message back.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'shebagazz'Have experienced all kinds.We have received flirts, responded positively and provided a follow up message --- silenceWe have flirted people, receive positive response, follow up with message --- silenceWe have received messages, had a small conversation via messages, then --- silenceWe have sent messages --- nothing, silenceWe have sat and stared at profiles and --- silence We just figure we are doing it wrong ................................................ Shell and Gaz Yes the above happens to me every single day, really pisses me off. If they can take the time to read/look at what you send them then whats wrong with a little common courtesy of acknowledgement?
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RHP User
14 years ago
We always reply to flirts with messages especially to guests. But only about 50% reply back...Why send the flirt in the 1st place....Maybe they just have nothing better to do!!! Anyway it does the ego good sometimes...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I use my hotlist quite a bit to keep track of how I've found interesting. I look for them when I log on, I note when they come online in the Real-Time Info box.If I think they might be interested in me, or if I think they might appreciate a bit of a wave, then I'll send a flirt. I find that most of the flirts are a bit too forward for me, so I typically go with the "I just wanted to say that I love your profile" flirt.If I receive a positive reply, I'll send a message. If the flirt goes unread for a couple of days I assume they've looked at my profile and not wanted to respond at all. At every point, I assume that the person I'm flirting with is drowning under a myriad flirts and messages. I'm not interested in being a straw to break anyone's back and so I don't necessarily expect an immediate response from people. We all have our own lives and so far all the responses I've received have been encouraging, even the "Thanks but no thanks" ones I assume have been measured through actually comparing our profiles and seeing how we match up. Sometimes I get no response at all and that's fine too.With five messages a day available to me, I hope that people realise that when I do send a message it's because I've thought about it. I give people the benefit of the doubt that they're taking the time to do the same.- Adam
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RHP User
14 years ago
This may be a bit off topic but i don't understand we get the flirts all the time BUT we have the top account so even guests can message so why is it that people firt when they could just as easily send a message It has got to the stage where we don't answer flirts at all we may have a look at the flirtie but that's it we take it as they are just sending us a compliment and if we reply often it destroys the compliment part as yes we get the "I didn't want to talk to you was just saying i liked your profile"Just another quick off topic how do peeps get instant forum response or whatever it is we have seen a few peeps that are able to put up replies instantly (or so it seems) yet our replies can take up to more than 24hrs to be posted ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't reply to flirts mostly cos I dont have time, I skim through and when I get the time I will reply. Messages i generally will only reply back If I'm interested. Alot of the time I dont see a picture of them until after replying back..and..well..they just weren't what I'm after. So then I either tell them nicely, or I don't reply. But frankly, I don't have the time to reply to every single msg and flirt. Most of the time if you get a non reply is one of those reasons. If someone saw me looking at their profile...does not mean Im interested...I could be checking out someone else's validation because I'm in fact interested in the other person..lol. Or perhaps I saw a post in here that I thought was interesting so wanted to read their profile. If I'm interested Id let it be known in some way. Another thing, is if you get like 15 men all wanting to meet...like seriously...there has to be some way of filtering those you want to meet and those that you would, but not over the others. Its tough competition. But in that said It works both ways.
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