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wife unsure

May 31 2014

my wife and I have had a couple of 3somesffm,with me not having a a lot to do with them{all good nights}its always been my girls thing to be with women.The the thing I,,now she likes the idea of both of us enjoying a woman,she says shes turned on by the whole adventure,but is a little funny the way she feels about watching me and another woman,she feels funny because it makes her wet thinking about it and feels weird about it.ive told her,whether im in or not,its normal to be wet and enjoy it.she says she dosnt understand why it makes her horny and wet down stairs when its someone she loves,but yet she wants to watch.she talks the talk in bed and after weve had threesomes she says its hot watching me and the girl doing the minor stuff.my thing is now,its a bday,should I organise the works?ps,I love the idea of a three way fuck,if everything is cool,but im not looking to fuck another woman on my own.give advice

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tamworthguy46

11 years ago

Hi mate ...I'm even more confused than you, because I'm not you, if you know what I mean.......so if my opinion means anything, go with your gut...and make a decision you can live with I suppose ! Tam

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MsSuperFoxy

11 years ago

If she says she's unsure and has mixed feelings and you are telling her it's normal....why would you want to organize "The works" for her or is it you that just loves the idea of a three way fuck?? Does you wife have a choice in the celebration or is it your birthday? I'm confused as all fuck. Foxy

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RHP User

11 years ago

Until you have both sorted out your feeling.

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RHP User

11 years ago

the mind and the body are on different wavelengths, and it can be hard to put the feelings into words.And sometimes it is evolving, so you feel differently as time passes. Either way, you need to talk honestly, be open to experiences, but be critical of whether these are working for you both.Very often the physicality is a "turn on" and the emotional implication is a "turn off." So you have to know the difference, and be ready to work out where the tipping point is.

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madotara69

11 years ago

Why not discuss bringing another man into the threesome experience? Both Tara and myself have spent many moments discussing the fantasy for having threesomes and cuckold type of three way sex is not something that tickles our fancy, the wetness factor comes into it when we discuss what we would like too do together and too the thoughts with a third person within the tangle with passion. We have discussed the thoughts with having a woman join us for a threesome and personally, fucking another woman is less of a turn on than massaging her passions for a euphoric and somewhat spiritual orgasm, all together that would fill hours of erotica, intercourse just a part with it all. But how does one explain the passion that is wetness?

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RHP User

11 years ago

I've watched guys I have been with fuck other women. From a different angle it look so hot. However, my current guy means more to me than other casual guys I have had and I have a few rules for him and another women. He definitely cannot kiss her or do 'lovey dovey' things. I said if she blows him better than me, pretend it wasn't that good! lol I can see why it's a turn on even if your wife is a bit unsure.

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