M43
womens criteria
October 16 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
truth be told, you are right, but you know what else...we have vaginas. Very powerful equipment that makes you and your cock rear up and piss milkshakes to get inside one. We have men throwing themselves at us in here so we can be picky. Maybe you are picking the wrong women as that is what is us women are told when we pick the 'wrong' men who don't give us what we want either. As for the standards you list, I am 5'2, I don't need a tall man as long as he is taller than me which is not hard, I have very clear pics of everything from my face, my body shape, my boobs and my prized vagina. I am not married and don't want the shit that comes along with someone else that is married, I prefer average rather than well hung, my vagina is only accessible through me personally so if you don't treat me right, then you probably aren't going to treat my vagina very well but yes, I do put out because I am a horny girl but only to those I deem worthy, so shoot me. My stipulations are that I need to find someone attractive to me which is a combination of looks and attitude and I do not like guys younger than me. I can't fuck everyone who contacts me, there are too many and I am not even that attractive, I hate to think what those that are drop dead gorgeous cop. I am sure you wouldn't fuck everyone who contacts you either and if you did then you probably have no standards. Most of the guys I have fucked on here are absolute selfish duds in the sack who can't keep up even though a vast majority of men's profiles say they are sexual animals who can't get enough, pmsl and you all sprout how wonderful you are in the sack then don't/can't perform. And lastly, I don't owe anybody anything because I am on a 'sex site'. You are not paying for my services but maybe I should be charging for the crap sex I get as I am sick of putting in the effort to only get a half arsed effort in return.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Come in tight, my Western brother. Have you tried saying please..... But like.... "ohhhhh pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeeee please pretty please like me " Thats what this topic sounds like to me.... and Im sure you dont want that. You stopped short of saying "just give me a chance, Im sure you'll like me etc".... so for that I am eternally grateful. But if I may be so bold as to offer some advice. Your name.... is no different to every other bloke referring to his dick and being fun or worthwhile in here.Your profile.... I read the opening sentance and the wording says to me "not prepared to put the effort in, wants to blow-n-go".Your photo - ho hum, another shirtless bathroom selfie dude. (and probably dick photo - I cant see, gladly)You seek 18-99? really?!referring to Disease free just makes me think about diseases.... because you said it. Maybe thats just my thought processes, but the word-association isnt good even if you bleach-bathe every day. After that, the wording talks yourself down, then up, then talks down other womens looks because you have low/no standards who you hopefully stick your junk in. (18-99 again) You simply dont stand out in a good way. Let me drop a name, as a point of reference.Justin Bieber. Love or hate the guy.... you cant ignore the little shit...... everyone has an opinion on him because he polarizes people, and thats exactly what you want to achieve online and offline. Command people to look at you... without the negative elements though. And theres no way thats going to happen with your profile... or with "How r u" or "I wanna do this all over your body/you're gonna cum a thousand times" type emails Im not going to go into the how-to.... your profile as is, IS a true representation of how you think, so if your thoughts are adjusted for the better, the results may be better (But your location will always be a limiting factor). Hope that steers you in a better direction. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Since you wrote this post all by yourself OP, you're the instigator, not the messenger, and we will respond however we like. What DG said.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you could see that cock it would poke an eye out, yep its a monster. But I have to agree with DG....damit mutter mutter mutter and women on here are as picky as can be because its a numbers game. Your dead right we punch wayyyyyyyy above our weight.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I also have to agree with DG, wholeheartedly. Your profile is kind of crap OP. Yes, as Ralf said, women are in demand here and can be picky but regardless of that, EVERYONE can be picky if they want. We all want what we want - more fool each of us if we decide to settle for something we don't really want. DG touched on something that is a proven statistical phenomenon in the online dating scene: People who are polarizing eg very interesting/attractive to some and equally un-interesting/unattractive to others get far more approaches (messages/dates etc) than people who are bland, commonplace and just like everyone else. Therefore, you don't have to be liked by everyone to succeed in here, you just need to be highly liked and sought after by some - these people are your target market and a profile that represents all that is unique about you is probably your best bet to attract them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
No wrath, simply a very small snippet from my profile, nowhere does it say the things you have quoted that "every woman on this site and her requirements," but this is what it does say. "I'll be fussy because, well because I can, I will not just sleep with anyone or give myself to anyone. I definatly like to get to know someone before this happens. You must appeal to me in some way, e.g. I must be attracted to you, you have me and can keep me interested, or you are offering me something that I just can't say no to." We are all different, all here for our own reasons, you just need to find someone that is here for the same reasons as you.......💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well according to your comments on the Cucks and Bull thread OP.you are hasvong a lot of success....ooops,cock and bull:-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
OP's Username is a winner and Qefenta3 backtracing your previous posts is a even bigger winner.Maybe the forums are just not your thing OP...... just sayin..... lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
guy with the big penis. and I think it is D&D not DND. Your post makes me wonder if you live at home with your mum and you are used to telling women what to do, but you cant make them want to sleep with you.
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lovman8
10 years ago
I love your attitude and realistic reading of the situation. Men on herd need to accept a few realities about the way it is and who has the power on here and just play the game politely respectfully and just have fun and enjoy the positives this site offers .
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inspirit
10 years ago
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrk..................................really? Hunny you are on RHP not RSVP LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
You do have some valid points but i think we have to be a little picky in this day and age.. I'm after a nice guy, i prefer average size cock, clean, respectful, funny with his own home as hotels get expensive and not a psycho that's going to murder me. We are not all fussy but i do believe i get a vibe from messages that i get and i go with that. Right or wrong, that's what i do I aint going to jump in bed with everyone, that's just not me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' truth be told, you are right, but you know what else...we have vaginas. Very powerful equipment that makes you and your cock rear up and piss milkshakes to get inside one. We have men throwing themselves at us in here so we can be picky. Maybe you are picking the wrong women as that is what is us women are told when we pick the 'wrong' men who don't give us what we want either. As for the standards you list, I am 5'2, I don't need a tall man as long as he is taller than me which is not hard, I have very clear pics of everything from my face, my body shape, my boobs and my prized vagina. I am not married and don't want the shit that comes along with someone else that is married, I prefer average rather than well hung, my vagina is only accessible through me personally so if you don't treat me right, then you probably aren't going to treat my vagina very well but yes, I do put out because I am a horny girl but only to those I deem worthy, so shoot me. My stipulations are that I need to find someone attractive to me which is a combination of looks and attitude and I do not like guys younger than me. I can't fuck everyone who contacts me, there are too many and I am not even that attractive, I hate to think what those that are drop dead gorgeous cop. I am sure you wouldn't fuck everyone who contacts you either and if you did then you probably have no standards. Most of the guys I have fucked on here are absolute selfish duds in the sack who can't keep up even though a vast majority of men's profiles say they are sexual animals who can't get enough, pmsl and you all sprout how wonderful you are in the sack then don't/can't perform. And lastly, I don't owe anybody anything because I am on a 'sex site'. You are not paying for my services but maybe I should be charging for the crap sex I get as I am sick of putting in the effort to only get a half arsed effort in return. Two men i have met couldn't get it up either, what's going on boys? I agree, just because it's a "sex site" apparently, doesn't mean i have to fuck you all
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IamMrSilly
10 years ago
OP, Worst Post Ever. That messenger just got an arrow in the back (or maybe a full quiver) We are all picky in life, we are all judgmental and looking for what we 'like'. and on RHP, where everyone is showing alot more. What? because you have a profile everyone should be looking to throw themselves at you? Of course you will get rejected over and over and over because there a guys asking over and over and over. This has been fun to read. thanks for cheering me up.
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6exxy
10 years ago
You do make several valid points and yes you will be shot. The post afterwards only validate some of the points you made. Ladies with all the bullets, really? Do you all talk and behave like this in public? At your local just being you? RHP...... just because your numbers offer a chance to be picky does not mean you have to be arrogant /rude about it because you probably wouldn't do that in public would you? It's the same as these jerks that say " Hey wanna fuck?" It's rude and not necessary on both parts. I'd like to think we can be better people than that. I have no problem with picky, zero, however arrogance is another thing indeed. You don't live in RHP do you? Or do you? If yes heaven help your reality! RHP is a vehicle for people to meet ffs! Now saying that I have not read your profile so I'm only going by what others have posted here. Based on that I would work on your profile dude! All the best ✌️
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PL1963
10 years ago
Mate, as I said previously in another forum, RHP is the chick's domain, for every 100 msg's you send out, you may get 1 response, but you are young and have a good body by the looks, heed their advice, be very careful what you post on forums, chicks look at that shit. I made the mistake, I've been "blocked" by ppl I've never even viewed, for a "stoush" I got in. There is an "Underground Network" here on RHP, men may control business, but women control everything else. As Ralf said "We have Vagina's". I'm not bagging ladies, just stating the facts. Go forth young man and tread carefully. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who appointed you as my spokesperson ??? Cos if I voted for you; I want my money back as it's fraud I tell ya!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
have to also what Dg said is right and Ralf message to the point. It doesn't matter how good you look or how young you are.....I am not going to say yes because of that. Why is it some of you don't even bother.................to make a little bit of small talk.......be funny and interesting. Yes we women are on here for sex, but hey haven't you found out that's not the way we react......HEY WANNA FUCK TO NIGHT? nooooooooooooooo we will not. I have to say the men who contact me.....99% are not like that and still I am not saying yes to everyone who says hi to me......I am not a cold machine.....I am a living breathing being, with my preferences. I like men between 50-60....yes I have had younger once but that's really not my preference. Also I am not interested in a one of fast fuck session..................doesn't interest me and doesn't satisfy me. So I will try to sort out the fast men from the truly passionate one....and then I say yes meet me. I am here because I like the place, I am on here because I feel right to be on this side, I am here because I find my type of males on here. But I am not just a pussy and some men have to learn and I say learn to accept this. Women have the same rights as men to be sexually free and not be thought of as dirty slutty to be fucked disrespected or made fun of when with your mates. I think women on here can see through this type of males quite easy. So you start treating us from now on with more equal measures and you will find when you change your mindset women will react.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I probably wouldn't of worded it the same way, but I actually agree with the question being asked. I have found through my experiences that the women who complain the most about not being able to find a quality guy are usually the women who have a criteria list as long as their arm and will dismiss that guy if he fails to tick one box on a very long list. We're all looking for the best for ourselves, and we all have at least a few minimum requirements expected. But when those minimum requirements become maximum in quantity, it is only limiting your options. And the more you limit your options, the less you can complain about a lack of quality options. I have asked this question in another thread but i'll ask again because I think it goes along the lines of what he is asking, and that is, why is it when dealing with a woman on the internet, we have to contend with these long criteria lists, yet will be more than happy to have a one nigh stand with a guy from the club with the only criteria being "he was hot" ???Why does the criteria list get cut down to one thing at a club, but will remain as long as it is on the internet ? The club is real people in a real situation. The internet is infamous for its fakeness. Do we go by the results of reality, or by the fantasy of the internet ?None of us are perfect, yet everyone on the internet seems to want the perfect partner ? We all put so much effort into our appearance, but we live in denial about the role that our looks play. My criteria list has 2 points on it. I must find you attractive, and I must be able to relate to you mentally which also means being able to understand each others sense of humour. But if cannot relate to you, then I do not care how attractive you are. I know some women might find that hard to believe, but those women have just exposed themselves as not knowing as much about men as they thought they did !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' Why does the criteria list get cut down to one thing at a club, but will remain as long as it is on the internet ? Unless someone spikes my drink (never happening), my "list" of requirements is the same in both places.
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RHP User
10 years ago
... if what you are saying is that it's no wonder there are so many women left unsatisfied, I agree. However, my observations are based purely on comments throughout the forums over a period of time and I would say that the same applies to men. Some people (regardless of gender) just don't do a great deal to help themselves in this regard - 'same ol same ol yet expecting different results' comes to mind. If you are repeatedly left unsatisfied, on the whole more than you are left satisfied, then it stands to reason that something is not working for you. Maybe the profile is not generating the right audience. Maybe the screening process needs tweaking. Maybe, just maybe, you're continually drawn to the wrong people for all the wrong reasons.
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bianca_dd
10 years ago
In a boy's analogy, it's like a choice between driving a Hyundai Getz or Porsche. Both will get you to the same place but one is a hell of a lot more fun trip.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The first reply said it all, OP, so no need to add much, I just want to make a short comment - you could need it later ;-) Quoting 'ralf74' ...Most of the guys I have fucked on here are absolute selfish duds in the sack who can't keep up even though a vast majority of men's profiles say they are sexual animals who can't get enough, pmsl ... That is what the few ladies I had been lucky to be with said about their experiences too.. So knowing that - I make an effort before sex (pay for dinner/drink/hotel etc - you need to be a gentleman still in this century) and during (stay long, and if she's not done before or at the same time as me then there are toys and oral) and after sex (rolling over is NOT my thing)
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RHP User
10 years ago
what a tangled web we weave. How about direct questions and direct answers. Meet in person and treat said person as you would someone you really respect. Because they just might deserve it. Better to find out in person if there is anything worth persuing. If you are after raw sex then maybe just go and pay for it. Otherwise... Well sorry to say but people are complicated .. Yes even men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' Why does the criteria list get cut down to one thing at a club, but will remain as long as it is on the internet ? he might have a point where I am concerned. For me its instant attraction if meet a person offline, so in a bar i can walk past a man and get withing range and look at him, then as i get closer my endorphin meter goes into over drive and then I just have to have him. Online, well I have limited time to do the talk or message so I have to cut to the chase meet em and fuck em. Tag and release as it were. In the kiss, gone fishing Unless someone spikes my drink (never happening), my "list" of requirements is the same in both places.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some women that are here are also friends in real life and may tell each other about the good,the bad and the ugly experiences that they have had.....they may actually recommend you to their friends,which is to your advantage...but if you are a selfish Dudley Doolittle then obviously they won't tick your score card.....perhaps this information might provide some inspiration for a little more perspiration:-) ....really if you are having bad experiences ,mostly women,or no experiences mostly men,then perhaps this site just isn't the place for you to find what you want.....That has been my experience here...so I no longer meet anyone for anything except coffee and a coversation xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
but they rejected me because I'm still married ( loooong separation ) not accepted. All other sites are sex sites. I guess the nunnery wouldn't accept me either. You think Richard Branson would let me camp on his beach and leave me alone? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
these sites are like trying to swim in mud. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
So many guys on here complaining about other people's criteria, it is so far from an attractive look. A few of the recurring themes seem to revolve around the logical inconsistency people have, the number of 'requirements'. Thing is, people can want whatever they want, and in my opinion, you are completely out of line saying otherwise. Plus the list someone comes up with may define their type, but that isn't to say they can't have an instant attraction to someone new and completely different... Since being on here with my partner, J. I look at guys profiling very differently, and would probably say no to 3 or 4 times the profiles she does. If you seem like you have your head up your arse on your profile, where you are trying to paint yourself in a good light, then I wonder how far it would be up there in person. TLDR: Untwist your panties and write a better profile. DnJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
otherwise you are doing yourself a disservice. Go for perfection and then compromise. Life is a compromise. And it's not so much you guys have to tick our boxes ( I know i don't have one of the other) but its the actual responses that might get you over the line and it won't be with the one line messages. Don't care how big your dick is or how good looking you are, a great message will override a lot of criteria that you don't tick and vice versa. Although a big dick won't do you any harm......
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' Why does the criteria list get cut down to one thing at a club, but will remain as long as it is on the internet ? The club is real people in a real situation. It's called alcohol. Marvellous invention. Ticks boxes and makes everyone attractive
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'bianca_dd' In a boy's analogy, it's like a choice between driving a Hyundai Getz or Porsche. Both will get you to the same place but one is a hell of a lot more fun trip. Trying to work out which one is the fun ride. Its the Getz, right? because you can drive it like a race car and when it finally can take no more you just leave it on the side of the road and get another, as they are a dime a dozen. While the Porsche though a lovely machine must be treated very carefully as replacing it can be long long long wait, turn your back on it for two seconds and someone will steal it, not to mention the cost of keeping the leather smelling nice. Big difference between boys and men. Its a joke so don't read too much into it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think too many of you don't see much outside the forums ! I don't personally disagree with too much that has been said here, however the women in the forum are not I believe the op's target. His target will see the "Hung" in his name and a big green light will go "bing" and why not ? OP, I believe for many women on here putting up the profile is as far as the adventure goes, the long list of criteria is the justification to keep it so. Each to their own.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Try being 51 with a small cock Its just lucky for me I have an incredibly beautiful mind lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
We all have our perfect choices but often it's clouded in one way or another :) For me it's like one day I'll stand naked in front of mirror n think I'm not yang bad I'm still in good shape I have respect for others and myself :) then there's other days I'll stand and see a body no one wants no one desires and think I'll never get the lady I'll never get the couple play... Like looking into a mirror we all at one point see (read) based on our mood at any given time... I sent flirt six months ago to a nice lady :) she rejected me then 2 months later she sent me message saying how she loved my profile (nothing in it changed) we are now great friends :) long long is our thoughts change daily as does the way we see people n our selfs...
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