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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  and I would yes, the fuckwits ruin it for the rest of you. I am on a self imposed celibacy atm because I am sick of men. I never thought I would be a man hater, I disliked man haters but I have reached breaking point with the same shit time and time again. It seems like you are all the same. My logical side knows that is not true but my emotional side says she is over it then my horny side wishes my emotional side would get over it already! Be nice and play nice. Just because you are on a sex site doesn't mean you have to fuck as many of us as you can, find a quality girl and treat her well and you might just get what you want in return.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Unfortunately there are many guys who potentially ruin it for the others, but I've found there are also many great ones here. It can be hard to tell the good ones from the bad when so many men's profiles are nearly identical and they as guests only send flirts. I think it's great you're a paid member, because with a message you can really show you're not the "hi, wanna fuck?" type. I think if you write a nice message, showing you've read a woman's profile (though it doesn't guarantee anything), you can certainly make yourself stand out from the idiots as you called them. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I suggest you lose the "I'm looking for no-strings attached fun with people who seek the same" bit from your profile. It's on (probably?) hundreds of profiles and says absolutely nothing.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I am on here purely for research purposes and I state that clearly on my profile so my motives are different 99 percent of people I am chatting with are lovely, polite, respectful and very interesting and I am honoured that they have opened up to me. I have been on here for just on a year, but just observing I had a couple contact me and tell me I was wasting their time by having a profile up. Interesting, considering they contacted me (I'm a guest) and I didn't ask them to read my profile. Shrugs shoulders. But to answer your question OP I would say no , the idiots on a whole, don't ruin it for the ladies. I think the majority of woman have the smarts and can figure it all out. Yes they get cynical and jaded due to unpleasant experiences but that is not gender based, people can piss you off no matter what, who they are and for different reasons. I think most people would give the right person a go . The trick I believe is to contact people whose criteria you fit and if you meet with rejection (which you will because that is life) be gracious and move on. I met my husband on here, so it does happen Nice first post :-)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  and why aren't I paragraphing different browser maybe ?

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  There are arseholes who ruin it for everyone...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Thanks guys..I think it's very interesting and it's harder in a sight like this to show the person you are so you are really just saying..but as the saying goes action speaks louder than words..I reckon it would be hard but as they say all we have to do is prove that all guys are the same isn't true... Stay respectful play nice and I will take the advice of changing my profile lol..I will do that lol... Treat her like a lady :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Treating her like a lady is nice and the right thing to do. But as sad as it might be, you will be chewed up and spat out if you don't find some equal footing first... Regardless ' smart women will work you out quick smart if your not being yourself...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  ruining it for me, in fact they're helping ! I'm responsible for my own actions thanks.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Other people's reputation only affects you as much as you allow it to. By that I mean; know thyself and know you're different and SHOW it in the way that's most individual to you. The best way you know how..... That way you stay true to yourself and you can never lose; right?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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