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A defenseless man is tied to my bed, and...

November 08 2013

Now what? I've never actually restrained a lover before and would like some (practical!) suggestions for things to do to/for/with him, now he's at my mercy. The more detailed the better, and I'd love to hear your personal experiences. Thanks in advance x

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  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'FourHands'The lucky bastard still tied up or are you done with him now? I forgot all the about the poor bugger.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Candles can burn at different temperatures. This morning I came across an old comment by Ms Kinkster saying beeswax is the hottest. I think I'll be kind and start with tea lights, which aren't as cruel.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Whilst tied restrained you could play Nickleback to him or force him to watch any of the Twilight movies....

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Yeah can can get candles that melt at a lower temp - you can get them from fetish/sex shops ;)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Start with his toes and work up the legs... As you get closer, you'll turn him on even more... Give him some brief but phenomenal pleasure and then keep moving up his body towards the head.Squat on his face and force him to pleasure you and you try and distract him by teasing up his arms and hands (and punish him when he gets distracted - doesn't have to be too forceful or painful, just enough to get his attention).As you move up his body you'll experience his whole body and work out most of his intimate spots for later use...Definitely keen to hear more about this... Or experience it

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    You want soy wax candles. They are a very soft wax that melts at low temperature......perfect for dripping on bare skin....- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    NO.. DON'T cut him!!!   Blindfold him properly... then, let him hear the sound of you sharpening a knife... that sound in unforgettable... have another knife in almost boiling water... take out the hot knife, and drag the BLUNT edge somewhere meaty.. it will sting like a cut... THEN... have warn oil... and dribble it very carefully over the mark you just made on him... he will think you have made him BLEAD... Tasty oil... lick it off.. slowly... and sexily.... then growl somewhere from deep in your throat.. telling him .. "Blood.. oh yeah!! I will have a lot of that from you before tonight is out..." OR.. you might go..... "Uh ohh... Shit... Too deep..." then lick it off....

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' NO.. DON'T cut him!!!   Blindfold him properly... then, let him hear the sound of you sharpening a knife... that sound in unforgettable... have another knife in almost boiling water... take out the hot knife, and drag the BLUNT edge somewhere meaty.. it will sting like a cut... THEN... have warn oil... and dribble it very carefully over the mark you just made on him... he will think you have made him BLEAD... Tasty oil... lick it off.. slowly... and sexily.... then growl somewhere from deep in your throat.. telling him .. "Blood.. oh yeah!! I will have a lot of that from you before tonight is out..." OR.. you might go..... "Uh ohh... Shit... Too deep..." then lick it off....     While I can see and appreciate you have put a fair bit of time and thought into the devious specifics Cavey, I really hope that what you wrote is tongue in cheek

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Unfortunately when Cavey uses the , it means he's completely serious.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    the visuals were pure...well evil...love a bit of evil

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' Unfortunately when Cavey uses the , it means he's completely serious.   That's what I thought Mes. Lets hope there is some mutual consent somewhere in there ....

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Can I carve my initials into him?         Araps, ya wuss.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    I am as sure as fuck is to swearing, that Cavey wrote that as being the one tied up.Mado

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Do we vote Cut or Uncut?

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Don't cut, but using "warn" oil is a bit cheap Cavey. he he

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    You wuss ;) GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69'Don't cut, but using "warn" oil is a bit cheap Cavey. he he draining it outta ya car is bit of a pain as well...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    "M"   Araps.. games can go VERY wrong when drugs and alcohol get involved.. I don't do either.. and ONLY play with consenting persons... All safe

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    << goes too visit Cavey with knives and other things.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    *grins*....   you are down my way now too eh???

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Care to give me a lesson Caveman? ~ Indy, 🔪 dulling her pocket sabre as we speak. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    hmm knife play, sounds interesting and somewhat exciting..bit advanced for me though,,l'd prob fuk it up and use the sharp side loli shall keep it in mind though for later on down track when the real bad boys need to be punished..

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I get down your way a lot too...

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    I am in across from you where there are more rivers.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' I get down your way a lot too... so you want me to tie u up and pay slice n dice?wow ur brave..loli only ever tied one mans 1 hand to my bed so far lolim way new to exploring these fun games..

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    I can whisper in your ear while I watch

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' I can whisper in your ear while I watch <steps aside and watches inspirt mount him.... il check his hand and feet are still bound tight.. n pass u the oil..im eager to learn.. plz miss show me how its done :P

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I might decide to leave the little devil tied up for a few days.That might teach him a few lessons or two or three.You bad bad bad man!!FOXY

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    You feed him Viagara

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    That would be "drip-fed".If I like him, I may just sit on his face and feed him!FOXY

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' You feed him Viagara i have a female friend who has said sex is amazing while on Viagra.. she says her orgasms are much more intense and mind blowing...any female know if its true??

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY' That would be "drip-fed".If I like him, I may just sit on his face and feed him!FOXYholly fuk im still thinking of the whole *drip fed comment..wow.. lol *bites lip

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    NOW I live in fear.... :(

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Gently use the tips of your fingers to stroke his body . The inner arm, then his neck, his instep. Wait a sec and then lick his sack. Put his cock between your breasts as though your going to let him titty fuck you. Drizzle massage oil over his body. Then stroke up his side. Even better, dont think just feel and use your imagination- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    As soon as symptoms occur (slight limp)....increase dosage - just a tweeny weeny bit.Guaranteed cries and begging after 24hrs...heheheNurse FOXY LOXY

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' NOW I live in fear.... :(     Looks like you may have bitten off more than you can chew ?? Are you brave enough to find out though ?   Tall

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    After all the 'encouragement' you have received so far, have you actually managed to do the deed yet ?   Tall

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    You should never use scented candles. The cheap white ones from the big supermarkets are the best.   But for better fun, light about a dozen candles in glass cups and allow them 1/2 an hour to melt. Then for safety, test on yourself first at what height to drip for the correct temperature because you can REALLY hurt someone if you don't check temperature drop height. Then sheet the wax over them from the cups, if you mix colours you can make pretty patterns.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    HUH.....FOXYPS- Mes never EVER...kisses and tells!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Though I did promise my first TP would get its own forum...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    And drip-fed, huh? Foxxy, I would baste him like turkey.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    or should I say "fuckked*??Poor fella.. I wonder what his payback would be return if he was "drip-fed" or "basted like a turkey"??MMMMMMMMMM FOXY

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Wax play.... I learned a long long time ago about mixing alcohol and SOME sex playing...   We were both both smashed... she was handcuffed to the bed head... with thick rubberised (homemade) handcuffs, so, I could put stretch pressure on her, without hurting...   I was in her, one of her legs tucked under one of my arms, which was reached behind my ownback and grabbed onto her other ankle..   SO.. I had pretty much full control of her... I have a candle and was dripping molten wax over her...   SUDDENLY.. a rush of shit to my head... " "MORE is probably better" "WRONG"!!! I looked at a larger aromatic candle on my side table which had been burning for the few hours we had been playing.. I looked at her... she was in some personl heaven with eyes closed.. I blew out the normal candle and picked up the BIG one.. YEP... I tipped it.. She opened her eyes as it was about to tip out, and SCREAMED... I shit myself..and tipped .. LOTS.. THEN she SCREAMED more... THEN, the screams got personal.. and she fought like fck to get out.. threatening to KILL me.. and calling me names I WISH I knew the meaning of... SHE thrashed and screamed and threatened more.. but .. like hell was I letting her go when she was determined to KILL me.. and SKIN me, and Cut my nuts out... So.. I calmed her down... and when I was satisfied she was over the need to use LETHAL retaliations on me, we treated her BURNS.. It was awhile before we tied he up again... and NEVER when we wers smashed... She HAS repaid me, and I have the scar from THAT.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Mmmm unrushed1 I like your suggestion

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Take photos!!

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' And drip-fed, huh? Foxxy, I would baste him like turkey. More like spit-roasted maybe ??   T.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    There's a fine line between both, for sure, but I think the relevant distinction that many have touched on here is whether it's a power play or a sensory play? Is the appeal of it a master/sub kind of arrangement (in which case it's primarily psychological), or whether it's about feeling new things (so it's about the sensations.)   If I was tied up the appeal of it wouldn't be the power play (the feeling of being 'helpless'), it would be more about the heightened senses.   That said, it's not an either or. There are elements of both whichever your focus on. With both approaches there is a lot of trust involved. Sounds like fun! Of course, if you tried to tickle me while I was tied up no kind of restraint would be enough to keep me tethered - and it would not end well (involuntarily) for either of us!   Tender and firm for me, not torture. I prefer some restraint with my restraints.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Well I sure as hell wouldn't trust Cavey to tie me up. You are one scarey mo fo!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Could you trust yourself to tie Cavey up, Meeka and not scare him?Mado

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    i wanna meet the one who left the scar on him... tell me more of that story,, sounds hot :P

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Please, anyone wanting to play with wax (apart from a dip, drip of a paraffin candle) please research it. Do a risk assessment then a safe work method statement. And don't forget consultation. I'm actually glad you posted that to reiterate how important testing wax temp is!!!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'neptune_drift' There's a fine line between both, for sure, but I think the relevant distinction that many have touched on here is whether it's a power play or a sensory play? Is the appeal of it a master/sub kind of arrangement (in which case it's primarily psychological), or whether it's about feeling new things (so it's about the sensations.)   If I was tied up the appeal of it wouldn't be the power play (the feeling of being 'helpless'), it would be more about the heightened senses.   That said, it's not an either or. There are elements of both whichever your focus on. With both approaches there is a lot of trust involved. Sounds like fun! Of course, if you tried to tickle me while I was tied up no kind of restraint would be enough to keep me tethered - and it would not end well (involuntarily) for either of us!   Tender and firm for me, not torture. I prefer some restraint with my restraints. Anyone who's been in my bed knows I'm all about touching and feeling. I'm a tactile lover all the way. When it comes to power play, I much prefer being restrained myself, by strong arms and body weight. Having said that, I've never been tied up so who knows? But apart from not tickling, I'm not hearing any ideas. Surely a creative guy like you must have some?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Wow this man is going to have the night or day of his life.. 1) because it's you mesmerized and 2) you have all this great advice.... I'm very jealous.... Tie me up and tease me..... Pleasssseeeeee!!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Has thoroughly convinced me that I indeed know my own limits and boundaries. I do solomnly swear, from this day and evermore, I declare, I am Vanillllllaaaaahhhhhh!!!!!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Girls ,that would do it for me. Stand on my balls with your stiletto heel. Bite me, scratch me, spank my arse as hard as you can, then strap a dick to me. Just lots of lube and no mercy. Oh, and I don't need the blindefold or the tie downs. Yes, I love a bit of spanky. Don't like giving it, but I sure love getting it. Yes, a bit of teasing is ok, but I'm not really into it. Trib my mouth and squirt all over me! That I am into. Hows that for ideas??

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    or a big strap%# Mes you sound like an multi tasking octopus bwahaha

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    YOU scare me :)Let's agree never to tie each other up eh

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' YOU scare me :)Let's agree never to tie each other up eh There goes another one of my fantasies ...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    It's been four weeks now, how's your prisoner going? Are you keeping up his fluids?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Nails digging into his cock, biting, slapping, a "riding crop" BJ- whack his cock and balls with a crop then lick and kiss the pain away over and over, in preparation for the strap on fill him with a plug while you tease and please him. On the more subtle side, ride/grind on his face, forcing him to lick you and have his face covered in your juices. Use your favourite vibe mere inches from his face so he can hear, smell and if you let him- taste you, one drop at a time

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