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Anal Sex
December 04 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nah honey, i understand. I made the mistake of trying it with BIG boys and began to hate and dread it, also bare in mind that nearly every guy wants to do it but one in 10 actually know how to do it well. Find an average thickness guy who KNOWS how it's done and you will have a completely different experience. xx goodgrl
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I love receiving from a willing women with a strap on. Any in Perth?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now now... I think we all need to take a deep breath, relax and get over this 'Don't have anal sex with big cocks' persecution. I'll admit I'm no Waggy, but am comfortable that I am hung somewhere between a donkey and the average male out there and would probably fall into the 'oh I'm not going to let you stick that there' camp for some. . I would like to raise the possibility that regardless of size anal sex can be fanfuckingtastic if it's done right. . Although I have never been on the receiving end (oh hang on... except this one experimental time which involved a purple butt plug) I am thinking the most common issue is not size, it's method - Most men get so excited at the prospect of sticking their dick in an arse that as soon as they get just a bit in there they just start ramming away at it. Works in pornos after all - the chick loves it! That also feeds this 'it's so much tighter' myth. . So to limit persecution and open people minds (and bottoms) I present JG's guide to good anal 1. Lube is important. This doesn't mean she needs to be basted like a turkey. It means sliding a lubed finger into her, lubricating just outside the anus and the tip of the cock. As any good mechanic would tell you - the working parts need to be lubricated, nothing else. 2. The entry - aim to have just the tip of his cock enter you (that's his job by the way). He shouldn't be taking a runup from the end of the bed and then trying to divebomb his cock in... try resting the tip of his hard cock on the opening and then have him push his knob in using his thumb. The tip should just slip in and the opening of her wraps around it like an eager pair of lips. 3. The rest - He should do nothing. She should be in control now and relax. If it hurts - say so. Make him pull out a little or all the way. Until she is comfortable and ready, there's not point pressing on. The difficult step in anal isn't the initial penetration, it's getting past the muscle (or whatever the hell it is) just inside the anus. That's what you're waiting to do here. You can't hold this pose indefinitely of course, so very gentle pressure from him might be needed - but he needs to remember he's not part of a SWAT team knocking down the front door of a drug house. 4. The slow, slow slide. Once she has relaxed (and you will both feel it) he should slowly let more of him inside her. Slowly let all of him slide into you. If you don't think you can take all of him... well then you're probably jumping ahead of yourself... rest, relax. This first slide should have him completely fill you. It will feel great for both of you. Only then can you be sure you are both ready. 5. The first few strokes.... He should now slowly slide himself in and out. Gently at first - but done right - in no time she'll be asking for it harder or deeper... and that's when the really good anal begins, when you're both ready to go for it. . I guess I should put a disclaimer in here that this might not work for everyone, but it seems to be a winning formula for me. What I love about anal sex is that it takes longer for me to cum, it's a very different sensation - it's not 'that' tight once she's relaxed, and because the passage is completely smooth there is less 'friction'. Well there is until she starts to cum... once you feel the muscles squeeze and her arse pushes into you to fill it some more there's sensations you just won't get in vaginal sex, for both of you.... and if you're both lucky he won't come until she's squeezed and come a few times.... YUM... . (oh and there's no harm in a vibrator on the clit for added..... cumming)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe it's the Chrissy spirit...or even that pretty tinsel on your dick....but you just gave me the warm anal fuzzies Look at you go sticking up for the 'big boys' so they can get some bum action . (oh and there's definately no harm in the vibrator on the clit for added.......cumming)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Feeling festive, so I'll see if I can source the instructional video to accompany it for you! You are MOST welcome!! ;-) . Seriously though, I dispute all this big boy donkey protestation stuff. A friend of mine is an absolute anal expert, used to claim she could back herself onto a mack truck if she was in the right mood LOL. Anyway, she always maintained bigger was easier, because the bigger the penis, the less rigidly hard it got, therefore the less damage it could do, the more the anus relaxed for it, the more pleasurable it was. . I definitely think big is better for this! . Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
yes it is tight and has to be done right or sorry guys...no fun for me
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RHP User
13 years ago
No way Jose.........although.....what JG described could work VERY nicely for me.........mmmmm....bzzzzzzzzzzzz.......it's the bzzzzzz that makes it all perfect
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh and I'm never to old to learn a new trick or two an instructional video sounds like just the thing for backing up......erm brushing up on my anal. All in the name of education of course
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RHP User
13 years ago
But it certainly doesn't hurt. A little DP can make for an almost religious experience too! . I am nothing if not a generous educator! I can be booked for instructional lessons but will need either Meeks and the purple beast or JG and the sparkly donkey for the practical stuff! PMSL.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Awesome flirty....book me in! I do fancy a real two fella dp though
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RHP User
13 years ago
Me too! When we move in together we can host them too! Yipeeeeee! ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
When we move in together with out combined toy collection and the occassional male visitor? Nice Flirty, can't wait!
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RHP User
13 years ago
OUR not out
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RHP User
13 years ago
Typos happen to me when I get a bit excited sometimes! 3:-) Yes, I've seen some good ideas come out of you babe, but THAT one was by far the most logical and appealing of them all LOL!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'bicurioustoy4u'more than happy to receive it back. wont do anything i wont take m,yselfcouldn't have said it any better
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am not gay and hadn’t even considered other men previously. One of my first sexual experiences while partying hard, I ended up unexpectedly in group encounter (foursome: 3 males with a hot female). I was lured into a guy sucking my penis and then in absolute shock he decided to do anal on me. He had some problems getting his penis into me. But then the second more experience guy hopped in and decided to show him how and he eventually got his penis into my butt. Slow at first but then he started a hard deep pulsing rhythm. And I just absolutely loved it! And then the other did it (not as good). But then ever since felt dirty because of the “bisexual encounter” and especially because of anal sex I experienced. But over a few years I have noticed many women seem to like it in online porn. And I have always wanted secretly to try it again because it was so amazing then I ever felt. Over the years I have become more sexually educated about girls going down on guys and all the bisexual activities. I am secretly opened minded now and happy to try it again, even considered a dildo. Although I prefer women first, it was something I first felt wrong but now becoming more acceptable and hopefully get back into all sexual fantasies as a normal adult.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'bicurioustoy4u'more than happy to receive it back. wont do anything i wont take m,yselfGreenbak saidcouldn't have said it any better We can see the logic with that....how else can guys learn how to give unless they recieve Learn by experiance, with the curry sauce bottle not reading .....Hahahahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love either giving anal sex to both, guys or girls, started years ago with a woman who wanted me to fuck her arse, and I did, felt great, then some 14 years ago, I decided to try receiving anal sex and loved it, I have multiply anal orgasmys and can go for some 3 to 4 hours with guys fucking me and still want more, with giving anal, to woman or guys its because its tighter often than pussy sex, and of course slightly taboo, try it you might like it too PS always douche before you do, so much nicer
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal sex does nothing for me it hurts BAD and your ass was made for things to come out not to go in....... But that is my personal view everyone is different Some women will do it because their man asks them too even if they dont like.Just be careful if you do do it as it can cause damage.Julie
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RHP User
13 years ago
I feel bad cos someone obviously did you wrong there........idjitt the only and I mean ONLY time it will hurt is if he hasn't gotten you properly ready, nor relaxed enough. And that is not your fault. xxx mwah
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal sex? Yes please :p BTW I am not Flirty's friend who likes to back her arse onto a Mac truck :O xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like to click my heals together and say "there's no place like home, there's no place like home" hehehehe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Julie, We are with you, some parts are designed for entry. Some parts are designed for exit only. Why mess with nature ....we agree it pays you back big time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Had it locked away in da wank bank as you
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RHP User
13 years ago
No sorry lovely that isn't me, I have never ever said I would back my arse onto a Mac truck. No Siree. Well maybe if it it was a matchbox toy car on something. Hahaha.
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malfun
13 years ago
im told that in biology the vagina has 4 muscles and the anal sphincter has 53 muscles. henc the terms lazy cunt or tight ass. well you chose there all good
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for that explanation malfun, it horned in on how a surgeon was explaining the complexity of rectifying how your bowells work.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me its just something that happens naturally in a MFM 3some, a woman playing with two cocks is as hot as it gets and having her in between us double penetrated just happens naturally. Ladies tell me it is the best feeling they have ever experienced and climax easily including first timers, guys get a surprise as to how far their lady will go in a 3some. I guess it is a bit of a dominance thing as well for us guys to take total control of a woman and do as we please. I'm 100% straight so have a virgin butt myself but I get incredibly horny when fucking a lady with another guy and don't mind a little contact when our cocks come together in her mouth or pussy. Try it before you condemn it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
its so much tighter sometimes too tight it won't fit...but when it does its amazing..
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RHP User
13 years ago
HMMMMMM. The ass is designed to push things out, not shuv things in. My pussy is still very tight and my husband loves it and dont need no brown lovin. Also, from a nursing point of view, faecal incontinence in the elderly in the next 30-50 years will be at record high. The poor nurses looking after these assholes.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Try before you condemn" ..... Why is there the assumption you have not tried anal, or you did it wrong. We admit we did enjoy but further research and life experiances has changed our opinion. Good point sexyviccouple....Those age care nurses, and your partner / children will also have to change bags due to Bowells being removed. ... ... A question for all the anal lovers? How many of you have changed a bag on someone who has had their bowells removed? Why do the Australian Govt offer free screening for bowell cancer if its not a big risk effecting many? Getting pollips removed = HPV removal??!
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Anal_Lovers
13 years ago
Anal sex allows a woman to have a whole of body orgasm, particularly when coupled with clitoral or vaginal stimulation it is apparently addictive. However it has to be performed with constant communication with the woman. Her pleasure should be the key to having this experience go well.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'funbinumbers' Guys love anal sex as it feels tighter. I , myself, love it and I can even cum from it : ) It feels even better when the guy alternates between pussy and anus. Mind you, after a while, they can't tell the difference between pussy and anus. Wonderful sensation, Sue
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love my arse tight& firm also the lady must have one too,penetration of butt is not my kind of scene.I have friends that rate it but I'm still lost? how can you say NO to a tight lovely pussy ,ohh I just answered my own Q,if it's a severe sloppy vadge and exotic stripper then I go brown!To the ladies out there, would you enjoy punishing men with back door action? cause to me if a guy wants it up the bum he most def has gay tendencies it's just a way to convince himself he is still a true hetera! It seems unnatural , what about corn kernels I'm sure they hurt when stuck in JAP eye!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsErotic' Mrs E loves deep passionate kissing during anal. What a cool dimension to be in. I have to admit I Have only recently rediscovered how hot it is to kiss deeply and passionately while giving anal sex, Something I would like to do more of.... :)
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Sexycannuck
13 years ago
My first time was unexpected, I was seeing a girl ,she was an exotic dancer. One night she invites me over to hers for an after work Play. She tied me up on my stomach and proceeded to give me a massage after about 15 min of sentiual rubbing I felt her playing around the anal region, when all of a sudden I felt this rather large ( well it felt large for my virgin ass) object being inserted into my arse, she had inserted her dildo in my ass and proceeded to fuck me, it hurt at first but after a little while when she told my to relax and just Let it happen (all tied up not much of a choice )she hit my G spot and well I've been hooked ever since, I don't feel like it every time I mean I have to be really horny, but there is a time for it. I've recently tried it with the real thing well 3 times now, (ladies I now get the size thing) my wife enjoys giving it to me or watching me being given , I think most guys would be very surprised on how good it feels if they just did it slow and with the right person. I think guys think that if they do anal their gay and its going to challenge their man hood. I say talk to your partner and try new things. Ladies well I guess for them it's just. Another hole for men to stick their thing in, although some woman really enjoy it, defenetly not for everyone. Kas
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RHP User
13 years ago
I Have never actually tried anal. But I loved it when my ex played with my ass and stuck his finger in in sex. Biggest Turn On!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you for the pointers ;) I'll get right to testing it all out!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal sex is great, but it simply cannot be rushed.Some serious rimming, lubrication and digital penetration are prerequisites in my opinion.Once the woman is comfortable and loos, the sky is the limit for all involved.I think the key to why anal is so hot is partly physical, partly mental and partly anarchistic.It feels good, there is the sense of doing something "off the mainstream" and then there is the breaking of certain taboos.I would never pass up the opportunity of having anal intercourse, with the one proviso: that everyone is clean.Apart from that, it's green lights all the way!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
U know babe when we roll r tongue in ass hole it gives us good flavour and satisfaction like a thirsty person get well full of water.... I love to lick u r dirty and sexy ass hole ....
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RHP User
13 years ago
i am an anl virgin so far..... havent had my cock in anyone's arse and i am not too sure if I would in the near future. i guess it varies from person to person
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was never into anal until i met my ex his a huge fan not so much cause of the tightness of the feeling but because of its "taboo" nature it always gave him a naughty feeling which i suppose was a turn on. At first i hated it i thought it was horrid but after a few times learnt to relax and get over the initial uncomfortableness of it we got a method going by god i had the best orgasms ive ever had it makes me cum so hard and fast whilst stimulating my clit and ive never looked back. Dont get me wrong its not something i do everytime i have sex but its something i really enjoy but its not for everyone
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RHP User
13 years ago
at first its scary but with the right women licking my rim first gave her a nice gapping ass for her to fuck
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Ganga, For me, anal play is a 'heat of the momen't thing. When someone is so desirable you just get so carried away you want to pleasure every part of her body. When I saw your photos (so stunning) I imagined going everywhere (at least with my tongue) then it would be up to you. You are so lovely!
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RHP User
13 years ago
apart from not so wet ..the i find the feeling is more like have a fist around cock and moving not just one finger and thumb..nothing like a tight grip
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RHP User
13 years ago
If the mood is right for both people involved anal is awesome. Giving or recieving!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Am sure the reasons differ from guy to guy, and from girl to girl too. For me, it was just something I had heard about, seen in porn, liked what I saw, wanted to try it, one day. Then along came the ex g/f. She had been raped in late teens, and while she never gave me any details at all about what happened, I presume from everything we went thru in our 4 yrs together, that anal rape was a part of what happened. I also understood that giving herself willingly, to someone, for anal sex, was part of her own therapy, to help her get on with things fully. And me being an anal virgin, as well as a gentle lover, not even remotely pushy etc, I was chosen as the one to do the dirty deed. I will post extended details of how that first time happened if fellow posters wish to read it, but for now, suffice to say, all went well, we both thoroughly enjoyed it, many times in the few yrs after as well. It wasn't an everyday type thing, definately a have to be in right mood, kinda thing. She also helped me try being on receiving end, and all I have to say on that one is, YAY to having a G Spot, inside one's ass, GOTTA LOVE IT, hehe.
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