M48
Anal for women
April 12 2016
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Very hard to describe. You should really give it a go. Find a girl with a strap on.
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Katkat
9 years ago
Tried & tested in my early 20's very painful & awful in the beginning but great sensational feeling once you get used to it & very addictive. You wouldn't even want to go back to vagina again u just become anabolic! 😱😂 But there are cons when you constantly do it there your ass becomes flabby & flat after a while. But I also read that if you constantly do it there you are most likely to get colon or colorectal cancer that got me scared so I don't do it anymore better to stay safe & my choice as I don't want to be begging for it. 😝 The only thing will go there now is my butt plug 😜 But everyone has different opinion & that's my choice. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm a convert. How to describe it, yeah best thing would be to give a try yourself, but it's feels like a combination of these: pain lol/like you're doing a poo lol/like the hole is way too tight and there's no way it's gonna fit/but strangely good and I personally like my butt hole to be tight, so don't do anal a lot, partly because not all guys are into it and some others are just too thick, I can't take their size, so after a few attempts, just give up. But I don't know why the arse would become flabby and flat Huntress? Mine is neither I would never stretch my butt hole like you see on porn yew it's tight for a reason so biology comes first, if it was upsetting my bodily functions in any way, I wouldn't do it. But there's nothing like sealing the deal with anal, it's very intimate, so long as the guy has experience and knows how to ease in and get that right angle with hurting me, it rocks I've only had success though with average or small endowment, and that's the way it will always be for me Too big or too thick, you might struggle to find a recipient guys lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
without hurting me, I meant
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
As Mrs D is very tight (strong PC muscles ) and Mr D 's penis has "girth", alas anal is extremely painful, despite slow insertion, and there is pain (when going to the loo) for several days after. So whilst we have tried it, several times over the past 19 years, alas it's not for us. Some people are tight. Others not. Some may enjoy it , others won't. Perhaps it's the taboo, the forbidden fruit, that makes it so "attractive " despite the medical risks ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
thickness is the main issue with receiving IMHO
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm very tight but can take an average thickness/size cock, Mr dynamic lol must be thick. Like I said, too thick and they just won't fit, simple as that, and it hurts
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RHP User
9 years ago
hijacking the thread here, I'll bugger off after this lol but I also find oil is way better than lube. I use grapeseed oil and you'd be surprised what will slide in with a tiny bit of oil, as opposed to continually applying lube which seems to soak in and do nothing. I always keep a bottle of oil on my bedside table
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lovman8
9 years ago
Try it your self! If you're not bi curious it doesn't have to be a cock. There is a multitude of butt plugs available in all colours, shapes and sizes.Get your lady a strap on also available in many varieties and sizes. Or even get an enema kit and some lube and use a finger.Perhaps it should be compusory for a guy to have some anal experience before he tries sticking dick up a woman's butt so he learns why you need to be gentle and empathetic.
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RHP User
9 years ago
really first thing I look for on the ladies profile is 'anal receiving; love giving it, love watching the expression of satisfaction or yeeessss, what a beautiful on their faces, but finding the recievers is a problem.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'centaurus54' really first thing I look for on the ladies profile is 'anal receiving; love giving it, love watching the expression of satisfaction or yeeessss, what a beautiful on their faces, but finding the recievers is a problem..... you wouldn't see my face, but you'd hear my moans lol oops I said I was buggering off, off again now
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' hijacking the thread here, I'll bugger off after this lol but I also find oil is way better than lube. I use grapeseed oil and you'd be surprised what will slide in with a tiny bit of oil, as opposed to continually applying lube which seems to soak in and do nothing. I always keep a bottle of oil on my bedside table Wow never heard of using grapeseed oil. Any issues with thrush?....and have you ever had any issues with condoms?
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RHP User
9 years ago
No,no,no,no😁Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
I really enjoy it, if you start slow with me! I cant do doggie anal straight up, I prefer being spooned as he slides in :) once warmed up, we can change up positions :) After the initial tightness of the muscle, it can feel strange! I worry that even with great preparation, that there isn't any mess 😱 I use coconut oil as a lubricant, feels divine :) If I relax completely, it's awesome :) I don't prefer it over vaginal sex, but variety is the spice of life :) Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
the sound of his moan or sigh when he goes in, and prior when he's checking out your 'wares'/arse worship, the pleasure it gives, that is hot also don't need anal to orgasm or to enjoy sex, but with the right person, it's amazing. Thanks for the tip with spooning too. Some are a bit too thick, from behind, the way I like it, can't get it to happen. Spooning might be something to try, thanks
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ok only one person has ever been there with me but they ruined it for anybody else !!! But you can't expect to go there with out lube !! Guys would get anal sex more ,if they please a female over and over again orally first ! The more a female climaxes in one sex session the more likely to let the partner to put a finger in the ass , the more a female is stimulated the more likely you are able to do it as the female is at a more relaxed state as well!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Very difficult to describe the feeling....as most have said at first it's pretty uncomfortable, you have to keep going past that discomfort and as you relax and get more used to it then it starts to feel good. Combined with clitoral stimulation it can be pretty amazing. Lots of lube, the woman being really turned on and really relaxed, and the guy taking it easy when entering and taking his cues from the woman as to how fast and hard to go are the keys. Like Annie said OP, you should find yourself a woman with a strap-on and find out for yourself
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' hijacking the thread here, I'll bugger off after this lol but I also find oil is way better than lube. I use grapeseed oil and you'd be surprised what will slide in with a tiny bit of oil, as opposed to continually applying lube which seems to soak in and do nothing. I always keep a bottle of oil on my bedside table Wow never heard of using grapeseed oil. Any issues with thrush?....and have you ever had any issues with condoms? grapeseed oil is amazing, and has little odour, never had an issue with thrush. The only time I had thrush is when I wear my skins in winter because they are VERY close fitting, so close they show the outline of the pussy. Stretchy and comfortable but I realised last winter, that the skins were causing me issues. The second the warmer weather came in and I was back in shorts, boom, problem solved, haven't had any issues right through summer. So long as air can get to the pussy, I'm all good but grapeseed oil I chose because it's natural, edible without too much flavour, I don't the taste and smell of coconut oil. It will stain sheets and bedlinen and is impossible to wash out without boiling hot water etc so I try to avoid having it come into contact with the bedlinen, but the thing is you don't need much. With oil, a little bit goes a long way, lasts so you don't need to keep reapplying. I always cringe when I see parties stating they supply lube and condoms, condoms great, but lube, nah give that a miss. The first time I tried anal or a guy did with me, he spent more time grabbing the pot of lube, stop/start stop/start, it just doesn't last IMHO I also use oil to masturbate if I'm watching porn, it takes longer for me to get properly turned on, different with phone sex or a guy, but I'll get a clip I want to watch, pause it, rub a little bit of oil over, get the bullet vibe ready, start the clip, the natural juices come in shortly after but I can start playing immediately, again, not having to reapply and breaking the momentum. I haven't quite hit menopause yet, but imagine dryness could be an issue further along, the oil tends to promote natural juices, for me it does anyway. To be clear though, not required when I'm with a guy, nature takes over there lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
sorry, I meant grapeseed oil stains bedlinen, possibly the same for all oils, just hard to wash out. And to add to the edible comment, I meant to say it's awesome applied to the cock as well, guys love it, love the feeling. I don't always use it, but it can be a lot of fun
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RHP User
9 years ago
no, no issues with condoms but I've always found they're not on for long, guys come quick once they get in the arse I like it to be the final act. Like Star said, lots of other pleasure first, then seal the deal mmm
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RHP User
9 years ago
Or almond oil. Very slippery. Won't dissolve latex. Unlike mineral oil/ paraffin gel/ Vaseline. - Posted from rhpmobile
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ZetorOMG
9 years ago
You can dress up this scenario anyway you want ............Personally !! I don't like it and I wouldn't feel right inserting my penis into girls rear passage , when the front door is far more satisfying ............Call me old fashion but I believe its disrespectful.....................Having said this , I do like to insert a hooked finger into this area to induce a more sensual orgasm but that it ...............!!!!!
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Thanks for info. Have you or anyone here used a good oil for anal that doesn't stain the sheets. I couldn't care less when in a hotel room....grapeseed it is! Just went out and bought some!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Water based lubes dont leave stains. But Im a big fan of organic coconut oil. Same deal as grapeseed but I love the smell. You dont need very much, even for anal, so it shouldnt leave stains on sheets. Put a towel on the bed anyway.
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
With the right guy, who knows what he is doing and has made sure I'm enjoying myself? The pleasure is just intense! Particularly when other toys are involved too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
just thought i'd chime in with - if you're using coconut oil you should use latex free condoms.. it does break down latex.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I LOVE IT... but then again I like Olive oil... OH... different uses...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes!!! Nothing better than a bullet on your clit during anal. The best orgasms!! Oh, one thing better... A vibe in the v'jayjay at the same time as anal sex. The vibe stimulates the penis and you both have a wild time!! 😝
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RHP User
9 years ago
Made specifically for anal so is thicker but is still water-based, uses plant cellulose as a thickening agent instead of silicone. Doesn't stain sheets.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Thanks. ITM2 was pretty right in saying that the guy spends too much time with lubing up, makes it hard to get in rhythm for a nice long session. From my perspective it would be so much more relaxing to not worry about dryness. I have never heard of natural oil ie grapeseed being used as lube, I think this is the first time ive seen it on here. We are having our 40th? wedding anniversary on Friday and I have just received my first present so .............thanks. One reason why I'm an atheist is ....if there was a god he would have made the arse self lubricating.
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Missb4u
9 years ago
Anal is never a given with a playmate. It's something that only happens with certain people. I do absolutely love it though when it's with the right person. Have rarely used lube (once I think) and that was ok but I don't know enough to have a preference to the type of lube. I love the feeling of penetration but the biggest turn on is hearing him enjoy it and express that through grunts, groans and words.
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
Man, I love the acronyms for your names, ladies! Deep, that's EXACTLY what I'm talking about. Mmmmmm. I might add that to my agenda for tonight. 😍 Luck, I'll keep an eye out for that one - I have a pjur one, with jojoba, but it's silicon based, and I prefer water based ones. Social_suicide, it sounds like it is shaping up to be a VERY Happy anniversary. Congrats! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Awesome, you'll never go back to lube, trust me. I think you're in for an anniversary to remember. As far as staining the sheets, I think oil is oil is oil, you can probably wash it out if you wash in boiling hot water, re the old days with coppers or just really hot in your machine. I'm a bit of a tight arse lol with saving on electricity and detergents etc. Also my way of doing my little bit to save the planet. I agree with putting a towel down, and that the small amount of oil you need for anal really doesn't make much mess. As far as which oil you choose, as illustrated here, people have their own preference. I wouldn't mind trying almond oil as well, but coconut oil would turn my stomach, not a fan of coconut flavour, again it's your personal choice. In relation to breaking down latex, anal in my experience, is over pretty soon after it starts. Guys don't always get the opportunity to do it, and when they, they get really excited, which I love, and the heightened arousal gets them there fast. So I wouldn't be worried about it breaking down latex. Time factor might come into that, I don't know?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Grapeseed oil I find cheap, not sure about almond oil but i'll look at that when I next need some. My large bottle of grapeseed oil has lasted for nearly a year, a little bit goes a long way, and you can use it for cooking as well. I have another bottle for cooking though, just for hygiene lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Happy Anniversary 😜👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Agree with you on being selective with partners for anal sex. It is a very intimate experience with someone that you trust. I personally dont often like to have anal sex with a guy Im seeing for the first time. And never at parties. Thats just my head space. But in saying that, I have fucked guys with a strapon at our first hookup. Double standards. Lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
sum people really highjack these threads huh ,,,,not saying who
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RHP User
9 years ago
I never do anal outdoors. Had a guy want to anal me one day out and about lol and couldn't see the problem with it. But if it gets messy, how do you clean up, not very hygienic, so I keep that for special partners and indoors, and like summer, probably wouldn't be too keen in group. Few reasons for that, one main one is cross contamination between the arse and the pussy, fingers and cocks and mouths everywhere too easy to end up with some infection and just time consuming showering, the clean up can break up your rhythm. My pussy care and hygiene, comes first. Some guys go from the arse to the pussy not even thinking, which is why I like to leave it until last, the grand finale
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RHP User
9 years ago
I said summer, meant dp, sorry
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Feels like torture to me! So no thanks for me! But 👍🏼 for women who love it 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've had the thought of a woman giving my ass a good rodgering for a few months now and it's definitely something I want to and will do. I'm confident in my sexuality and love a lady's finger tickling my prostate so I figure I'll love a dildo too!!! I'm a sensual lover and have appreciated the heights that my sex life has gone to since learning tantric so it is an interesting search trying to find the right woman to experience my first time with. I'm in Perth and if anyone reading this who is local and can offer advice.... I'm all ears.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'playfullybi' sum people really highjack these threads huh ,,,,not saying who who
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Anal is better with preparation. Not just with cleaning yourself out and having the right lube. But if you experience pain when penetrating at the start, preparation can avoid it. A butt plug can get you there if you know or think you might be up to the batter's plate. Prior to your meet, you can stretch/relax yourself. You dont necessarily have to wear it to your meet. Wear it for half an hour before you walk out the door will keep it in good stead for an hour or 2 and minimise that initial discomfort both with being stretched and having lubrication up the old chute already.
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swingalingson
9 years ago
Years ago I had an ex-girlfriend who was a squirter. We experimented with licking her clit and sucking her lips gently. I would slide a finger or two and she would have orgasms. But then she wanted anal in the right position, we found that the position on her back legs over my shoulders worked for her. That position made her feel comfty and lesssons the pressure or awkwardness. HEAPS AND HEAPS OF LUBE and slowly teased with my cock and then her muscles would relax . Then I would slowly put the tip in. As time went by and stroking slowly she would have massive orgasms squirting like crazy for longer than 5 min or longer. She loved it and begged for anal but would cum so much she would pass out from mental and physical orgasms. So in my experience. I HAVE seen a woman experience and have anal orgasms and anal stimulation. And it does help if the right guy is patient and can give foreplay to go on with "dirty deeds done dirt cheap"
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madotara69
9 years ago
grapeseed oil for us and without worry for staining linen, we go through plenty and splash it on, great for anal, great and friendly for vagina's and taste's ok, been through the few brands and pretty much the one with the best pourer to decant into a smaller pump bottle, then can drop it and get into things, pick it up without any spillage at the most convenient moment of whatever position squirt a few squirts somewhere above the spot and let gravity take it's course. stopping to go get bottle and unscrew cap, viser versa, well it's just not on when 'There's a fraction too much friction' Mado Mado Tara xx
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its4u2
9 years ago
OK, I'm going to address the elephant in this room here. As anal is a very intimate thing for bot of the participants, it should be a given that everyone understands what comes out of the same passage.Therefore: it is sooooo important to do the right thing by the person giving, and to eliminate (sorry, wrong choice of words here) the embarrassment for one that is receiving that the receiver does a Douche Douche: The cleaning/washing of the colon and anus of all waste product present in the area, using an extension to a shower hose or special douche pack available at most sex shops. There is nothing as off-putting to both partners than a 'choc-top' cock after anal. Now you can get back to regular programming
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RHP User
9 years ago
Me and my Ptr quite regularly do anal she absolutely loves. It and when stimulating her clit has the most intense orgasm. My self I love strap on one just the feeling of having a woman control me is the biggest turn on afterwards it takes me twice as long to cum but when I do wow. Problem is it is finding someone in my town wanting to use a strap on on me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Really? The thread is on topic,interactive and informative. And then you have to be a wanker and throw in a personal barb for no reason. Nice job.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mrs E and I have done it a few times in the past but like others, she finds it painful to a degree and also has discomfort for days.One day we were playing just by ourselves and we were a little tipsy so i said "what about the slender vibrator?' We used lots of oil and started very slow and i was also using a magic wand on her vagina. I had already given her almost an hour coconut oil massage so she was completely relaxed.It did not take long and she had the most intense and long lasting orgasm she had ever had. I thought we would get noise complaints. I left it in her bum while she recovered and I was just about to take it out when she stopped me as she was feeling a second wave of pleasure. So with the wand and the bum stimulation, she had a second huge orgasm. Needless to say, The vibe makes an appearance from time to time now. I am still not allowed to go there :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Oh, with the coconut oil thing, we have a set of sheets we put on if we are massaging with it. It does stain a little. We go ballistic with it in a hotel room.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I suppose I have no choice, as not getting rid of the other toy, so as Annie says, prepare and enjoy Its awesome .... moan ... moan ... moan ...agh Most fit, fat, short, its just the really long ones are the problem & its just enjoyable
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RHP User
9 years ago
Was with a lady once who loved anal..but first a lot of pussy and clitty oral first as I slid a lubed buttplug in her anus....building her to orgasm then her vibe in her pussy as I removed the plug..more licking and probing her rim then easing my lubed cock into her arse...she would go crazy with orgasmic pleasure...love it and her sounds of pleasure.Steve
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes nicely put. The back and forth has been about the topic. I was aware I had posted too many comments but kept forgetting to say things, along with replying to questions etc. It happens like that sometimes but so long as it's on track and about the topic, not like we're making fun of the topic. Others are welcome to post comments
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RHP User
9 years ago
To what poster are you labelling a wanker to?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I addressed it directly to the poster that thought it necessary to take a public swipe at another poster, but without stating which profile. Nothing was wrong with this thread. All the kids were playing nicely in the sandpit. But little billy no balls has to kick sand in someones face for no reason.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its4u2,good point to bring up. I totally agree with how important pre prep can be for anal. Douching beforehand relieves any worry for both sides. So the reciever is also free to totally enjoy the experience. 😋
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well we are ding it a lot. Not quite often but when I feel like it and I am really horny I don't even feel that much pain. If I'm not in the mood there is no way to do it, it simply wont go in. Give it a try, only if you feel like it. Do not push yourself. It can be amazing!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Touchmyself2...you sound like a open sexy lady,experienced fun and pleasure...with intelligent comments..love it!Steve
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madotara69
9 years ago
a bloke wouldn't put the woman on show if there just happened to be a bit of colour, especially if she went bonkers with a bloke up to his nuts and going for it, half yer luck for the chances surely.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Its4u2,good point to bring up. I totally agree with how important pre prep can be for anal. Douching beforehand relieves any worry for both sides. So the reciever is also free to totally enjoy the experience. 😋 Yep, and when its tasteless that is when its the best. Pulling my cock out and then giving a good rimming is sooooo nice.
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threesixty
9 years ago
Was indulging in some serious bum sex, only to discover the lube bottle was bone dry. After a frantic search of the bathroom cupboards, it dawned on us that there was nothing even remote that would suffice. Like a child not wanting to face facts. I revisited the cupboards hoping lube would appear before my eyes as the last door was opened. Fuck, Fuck, Fuck.... Things were now desperate, I reached for a small brown medicine bottle I bought for a DIY project. Google the name, weighed up the pro's and con's and threw caution to the wind.... The mysterious liquid was Glycerol...As we had nothing else, so when in Rome... Has a pleasant taste and is an excellent lubricant that we use all the time.... So if your stuck between a rock and a hard place, give it a whirl...😜😝🙄
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RHP User
9 years ago
Perhaps the Ladies experiencing to much discomfort might try 'Cowgirl' to have more control of penetration depth
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Missb4u
9 years ago
I won't engage in any anal play if I haven't had time to prep with an enema.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'threesixty' Was indulging in some serious bum sex, only to discover the lube bottle was bone dry. After a frantic search of the bathroom cupboards, it dawned on us that there was nothing even remote that would suffice. Like a child not wanting to face facts. I revisited the cupboards hoping lube would appear before my eyes as the last door was opened. Fuck, Fuck, Fuck.... Things were now desperate, I reached for a small brown medicine bottle I bought for a DIY project. Google the name, weighed up the pro's and con's and threw caution to the wind.... The mysterious liquid was Glycerol...As we had nothing else, so when in Rome... Has a pleasant taste and is an excellent lubricant that we use all the time.... So if your stuck between a rock and a hard place, give it a whirl...😜😝🙄 now have this vision of my bum being stuck between a rock and a hard place and you see, you've highlighted the men from mars, women from venus thing. A woman would head straight for the kitchen, knowing there's cooking oil in there, olive, vegetable, sesame oil, all else fails, margarine the guy heads down to the shed for the grease gun mmm actually that has merit the application alone
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beachgal20
9 years ago
I will get it out of pantry
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Robinz' Perhaps the Ladies experiencing to much discomfort might try 'Cowgirl' to have more control of penetration depth not for me. Gravity pulls you down harder, well I wouldn't do this anyway. The other reason is I like being 'taken' in the arse, with the guy in control. There's a dominance, the strong alpha male thing, that adds to the submission, with me whimpering
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'its4u2' OK, I'm going to address the elephant in this room here. As anal is a very intimate thing for bot of the participants, it should be a given that everyone understands what comes out of the same passage.Therefore: it is sooooo important to do the right thing by the person giving, and to eliminate (sorry, wrong choice of words here) the embarrassment for one that is receiving that the receiver does a Douche Douche: The cleaning/washing of the colon and anus of all waste product present in the area, using an extension to a shower hose or special douche pack available at most sex shops. There is nothing as off-putting to both partners than a 'choc-top' cock after anal. Now you can get back to regular programming You are of course absolutely right, douching is very important, but for me personally, I wouldn't allow a douche bag into my special secret passage anyway, just sayin anyone with that attitude can go chase another bum hole, sorry, but your post was authoritarian, completely omitting the important fact that the back passage has a biological purpose, for the human body to excrete waste. If you're going to be precious about a bit of mess, then don't go there. Yes, douching is the answer, I agree, but i seriously would never engage with a man with that mindset, you sound entitled. If women or men worried all the time about whether there would be a mess, they'd never engage in anal, no matter how well prepared they were. The guys I do it with, I trust and respect, and they respect me, not one has ever complained, and yes, there has been mess on one or two occasions, but guess what, they don't care, they WANT to be there, gaggin for my arse. Scuse the pun, but they couldn't give a shit First anal session, there was a lot of mess, I wasn't expecting it, lots of showers, soooooo many showers, but that was over an 8 hour period with lots of rimming and stretching, think I farted for a week solid after that and was pretty happy I didn't follow through I agree with your message about douching but the tone it was delivered was arrogant IMHO Are you really worried about saving the 'recipient' embarrassment, or turning into a choc wedge lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
just maybe if you left out the highlighted and enlarged text, speaking to us like we're 2 year olds, and didn't declare there was an elephant in the room, I wouldn't have noticed the elephant
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've hijacked the anal thread again
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
I do enjoy it, when I'm super horny. How does it feel, I think it makes you feel full, especially if there's something in your pussy as well. The trick is douche, make it as clean as it can be, make sure the person is relaxed, I nice rimming helps with that, lots of lube, start off slow, fingers first is always good, then you or your playmate shouldn't have to many problems. Anal is not something I do with just anyone, I like to feel comfortable with my playmates before anal is on the cards and I'm more of a giver than receiver. 💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
The poster of this topic.... Did you find any info from us that has helped you or is thought provoking? You have been quiet and not interacting with us....
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me I find that anal play seems to sort out the experienced players. As those who think they can just dive in, or sneak their way in, are instantly dismissed. I find anal is something you build toward, and whenever I've participated it has included lots of foreplay, sexual play, and lots of toys, at least one orgasm, and so a slower, hotter progression. Regular sex with plugs are a necessary stage. Though anal with clitoral stimulation is a marvellous thing. I wouldn't start with cowgirl. I find having to hold and control my body up, doesn't help me relax. Doggy and spoon are good, and for me I have to control it. Push back, relax, then continue. Once all adjusted, then it's good to go. Also I have to go for anal lube, rather than oil or regular lube as it doesn't have the same hold. While it does mean spontaneous anal isn't on the menu, I'd not go there without suitable planned prep. Giving is a lil trickier as you don't feel anything with a dildo / strap on. So you have to really be 'plugged in' to your partner. eh emm.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' The poster of this topic.... Did you find any info from us that has helped you or is thought provoking? You have been quiet and not interacting with us.... Well you and ITM2 have helped us a ton. So tonight we are heading into town staying in a very nice suite. I bought Mrs S two bottles of veuve clicquot instead of flowers as I did that last year. Have decanted the grapeseed oil and packed all the essentials. Mrs S has her Columbian friend arriving a bit late as we are heading out for dinner, sooooo the after dinner dessert will be very very nice. Cant wait to try the oil!
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Sexygirlnus
9 years ago
Well said, that is awesome advice, good job
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andyrabbit
9 years ago
Been busy searching for greased oil a hose for the shower and now for a women with Strap on to play with but with no luck on the last one I must be looking in the wrong isle ! But thanks for the response I now have a sort idea of what ladies like from it and the difference as guys get the prostrate stimulation - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have fun with the journey, not the destination, and it will all work out. Meanwhile you can practice on yourself. 😜 Thats always fun. Go and buy some toys. Or visit the fruit&veg section... You might even run into I_Touch feeling up the cucumbers and rubbing grapeseed oil on the bananas. Lol 😆 Have fun.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sounds like a fantastic night with your lady. Jealous much.I dont mind a good columbian...coffee... With my dessert. Lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sounds like a fantastic night with your lady. Jealous much.I dont mind a good columbian...coffee... With my dessert. Lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Omg i'm jealous too. Have an awesome night 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
The same lady who I was with who was a professional responsible lady during the day. who was a uninhibited sexy lady behind closed doors....who did enjoy anal sex explained it to me..."Its no bigger than what comes out of it"...must admit I didn't know wheather to take it as a compliment or insult so said nothing and continued to enjoy...enjoying anal pleasure...xSteve
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RHP User
9 years ago
I always seem to be against it when it's wanted from me as it hurts at the start..but once my man (or our friend/s) have warmed me up, covered me with lube and slowly made their way in...i love it. Such an amazing orgasm every time..its a different feeling orgasm to vaginal sex, it's so hot. and i think it's a turn on when a woman isn't scared to push a boundary like anal, don't you? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
love to be a fly on the wall now in the suicide's suite
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RHP User
9 years ago
Let me tell you a short train of events... Lol.. Big and thick cocks (even when the guy is gentle and experienced and there is a pool of lube) can make your butt hole bleed and if you keep insisting the skin can tear... If a tear does not heal properly it can lead to a wierd skin tag... Which can be removed by your doctor via freezing, but... It is a pain in the ass... Quite literally!! So my advice is that if the tool is big and thick, stick it in the correct opening... Lol...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'beachgal20' I will get it out of pantry Love your profile. You are one smokin' hot lady
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RHP User
9 years ago
While we're on the subject of filling cavities, I thought, just for fun, I'd suggest this popcorn chicken recipe. For those of you who can't tell when the chicken is done, this is amazing, read on............. 1 thawed chicken1 cup melted butter1 cup stuffing1 cup uncooked popcornSalt/pepper to taste Preheat oven to 180 degreesBrush chicken with melted butter, add salt & pepperFill cavity with stuffing mixed with popcornPlace in baking dish with neck end towards the back of the oven Leave in oven for at least one hour, then listen for popping soundsWhen the chicken's arse blows the oven door open and the chicken flies acrossthe room and lands on the table, it's ready to eat Guys if you don't know when a woman is done or getting close, maybe you could try this popcorn technique, fill the cavity with popcorn, when you get her really hot and it blows out of her arse, she's done Bon Appetit !!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I went thru menopause at 40,and have never had to use lube...you might be one of the lucky ones..all menopause meant for me was no pregnancy...bring it on!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
OMG I'm iin love with this woman....-and I'm as straight as they come..lol
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solrose
9 years ago
Nothing better than a bullet on your clit during anal. The best orgasms!! Oh, one thing better... A vibe in the v'jayjay at the same time as anal sex. The vibe stimulates the penis and you both have a wild time!! 😝 Oh Hell yeh. Just saying! - Posted from rhpmobile
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andyrabbit
9 years ago
OMG that's sound so good just add a vibe in his butt and I'll here you all come from here😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'shaznfredplay' OMG I'm iin love with this woman....-and I'm as straight as they come..lol You're being strangely drawn to a woman who talks about blowing popcorn out of her arse I get that a lot
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RHP User
9 years ago
bonus snack ............. always get hungry after sex
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RHP User
9 years ago
everytime I see this topic I can't help but read it in the same tone the Suffragettes call "Votes for Women" in Mary Poppins... (I'm guessing nobody else does that)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' everytime I see this topic I can't help but read it in the same tone the Suffragettes call "Votes for Women" in Mary Poppins... (I'm guessing nobody else does that) Why? Question has been asked how it feels for us, what we enjoy about it. That's quite specific. Is anal sex not something you're into?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' everytime I see this topic I can't help but read it in the same tone the Suffragettes call "Votes for Women" in Mary Poppins... (I'm guessing nobody else does that) Why? Question has been asked how it feels for us, what we enjoy about it. That's quite specific. Is anal sex not something you're into? yes, I'm quite a fan of all manner of butt play :-) as to why I draw the association, haven't you seen Mary Poppins? It's just a phrase association, like if someone says "spit spot" you'll immediately be looking for the element of fun in the job that must be done. (Why would it suggest that I wasn't into it?)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I have seen Mary Poppins, guess I don't see any part of sex as a job. If a guy was about to take me in the arse but was thinking, this isn't fun or could be messy, but spit spot, I wouldn't want him to be there. Maybe it's my inexperience, I don't know, I could be missing something, but for me, it has to be about both people wanting it, gaggin for it, enjoying the privilege and moment without fuss. Your comments I miss stuff in translation, you were probably just being lighthearted, it just sounded like you were making fun of the topic. Not something you do normally. Think i'm best leaving your comments alone, too many Pauline moments or just on a different train of thought. Carry on, all good
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yes I have seen Mary Poppins, guess I don't see any part of sex as a job. If a guy was about to take me in the arse but was thinking, this isn't fun or could be messy, but spit spot, I wouldn't want him to be there. Maybe it's my inexperience, I don't know, I could be missing something, but for me, it has to be about both people wanting it, gaggin for it, enjoying the privilege and moment without fuss. Your comments I miss stuff in translation, you were probably just being lighthearted, it just sounded like you were making fun of the topic. Not something you do normally. Think i'm best leaving your comments alone, too many Pauline moments or just on a different train of thought. Carry on, all good wha? "job"? I feel like you're running my post through a bad translator into Japanese, Japanese to German and then back to English and it's getting REALLY mangled along the way. Ms Poppins says "spit spot" before launching into the spoonful of sugar song, the lyrics including "in every job that must be done, there is an element of fun". I never said anything about sex being a job, it's just a phrase association to the words. Similarly, the title format of the thread has a phrase association - the thread could've been "tips for women" and been about perfect bra sizing, it's the "X for women" phrasing that has the association. Capiche? :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Capiche? I won't even respond to that. Actually I did but must be a glitch pfft whatever you say
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RHP User
9 years ago
"in every job that must be done, there is an element of fun" capiche?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Love your stuff, maybe you can message us n I'll send you some pics, i love to eat pussy until my face is slimy with her come and than fucking her in the ass is awesome for us - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It is easier when you lots of lube, feeling very excited and after lots of forplay. I find it easier when my hubby gets me really excited by thrusting my cunt and stimulating my clit. This allows me to get get more turned on and ready to take his huge cock in my tight arse. The feeling you can't explain... But try it... The feeling is amazing... You'll go back for more!! My hubby also likes it as is its nice and tight on His knob and hard cock thrusting in my arse.
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