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Any guys want a relationship and adventurous Fun
April 30 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the men that meet that criteria are here on this site, but they have been snapped already. Maybe you could get involved with another couple , you get ur sex, relationship , and they get there adventurous sex life . Ever in Perth, drop us a line :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
NSB!I'm sure there are... averages suggest that there must be one or two willing candidates, who tick your boxes and is interested in an ongoing relationship as well. Thing is.. I've found that (with guys, anyway) once the proverbial taps have been opened, eyes are opened to possibilities, interests, and a whole new world. Tough to convince someone who's just discovered this to commit to the one person. And I'm guessing that a lot of people on here, especially those who have just started on here, are just beginning to discover things.If you need inspiration, have a browse through the couples section on here - I still find it amazing how two open (and like) minded people, who are into similar sorts of 'uncommon' interests in the bedroom, have managed to find each other in a city like Sydney or Melbourne or wherever. I'm sure you'll manage!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a man who is all those things you talk of and more !! Hope you find your man Xx mrs cock_suckers- Posted from rhpmobile
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jezebel_jj
12 years ago
My guy is the exact thing you are looking for....and he found me. He was a swinger before he met me and had been playing for several years. They do exist so dont be disheartened. RHP might not be the exact place to meet that man, but then again you are in Sydney so you are probably spoilt for choice. My man found me after being on like 8 dating sites, RSVP, Oasis, POF, eharmony and a whole bunch of others. Id say increase your chances and try other sites as well. Go on lots of dates and if you click, discuss the potential for extra activities.
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RHP User
12 years ago
never.......but in the classic Finding Nemo sense....you just gotta keep on swimming, keep on swimming......
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes please i do like the idea
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cbdlivin
12 years ago
Yes there are guys looking for relationships but of course they might not state it in their profile. For me I have a pretty detailed profile but do not go into that side of things, as I believe if you meet someone a relationship will develop if it is meant to.I think if you try to force the relationship to happen it can just end in disaster by driving a person away who might want a relationship but at a slower pace. For me especially as you mention D/s I like to build things on that side, just by getting to know a person.From reading your profile you will obviously get the normal inappropriate messages but amongst them all there will be messages from guys who can be open to relationships, just persevere.B
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Plus there are many men who say they are single, are actually attached or married. So probably don't hold too high a hope or faith on a sex site like RHP is all I can say :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are plenty of us out there- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When you find him can you ask if he has a brother? 😁
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well here I am, I am that open minded and that freaky my wife has a hard time keeping up. I tell her all the time to go out and find guys. I have even tried arranging gang bangs on here for her, all failed due to all talk no action guys. I have even arranged with guys to play with her at swingers clubs and then I have stood back and watched. Maybe you should try ( jumping the fence ) I can promise you would love it and you would find what you are longing for and a whole lot more. Mr cns xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr Otori was just such a single guy on a very similar website, that is until I snapped him up! Don't lose hope, just be willing to meet a lot of guys before you find the right one. Oh, and have a lot of fun in the process! *Kisses*-Ms Otori
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RHP User
12 years ago
In fact, I would say Don't settle for anything less! Those men are out there, and even on sites like this one, but you do need to be very clear on what you want so you recognize him when he comes along. I've met some beautiful men, both here and on other sites, many of them have become friends, or playmates, some have become lovers, none of which means they have the values and personal qualities that could make a lasting relationship with me. Once in a while that truely rare man comes along who offers all that is important to you, in fact has more to offer than you expected, just occasionally he'll be in the same place looking for the same thing at the same time. I do suspect that many men of your age may not yet be in that - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Place- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most girls our age (me included) are at that point were we're looking for "the one" you know, kids, house, happy ever after!! etc etc blah blah blah! If that is what you're looking for (but not saying specifically?) then I'd say you're chances are slim to none! (here on RHP) Let me explain! the men here who CAN live up to the other things you specify are older, more mature, more experienced with women, more experienced because most of them have already been married and or already have kids. They either aren't looking to have MORE kids, or they don't fit YOU because part of your criteria is a man who will (after all is said and done) be yours alone, who doesn't have that life "baggage" coming with him, a man that you and your children will not have to share. To find a guy in THAT situation, you have to look for a guy your own age, and no, THOSE guys are still immature and mostly just want a quick screw. Best of luck though! I personally have ruled out finding what you seek here, I'm only here because.... well.... in honesty I'm not really sure why I am, maybe it's because I can't be arsed to take the time to delete my profile yet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just realised im looking for the exact same thing but I'm so picky that I dont think Ill ever find a sexy, wild, open-minded fun girl to match.. mean while no harm in looking.. good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
MSG me northshorebabe, I'd love to chat - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd offer to meet you but you probably wouldn't be interested.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
The potential cynic in me suggests that many guys in here will say what you want to hear, to get that they want to get.The realist in me says that any relationship essentially begins as a casual one, until, I/we decide to make it otherwise.You never can tell.... you might meet a guy who wants to commit, but, given the nature of how you'd meet in here.... the odds are against it.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would love to give things a go to see what happens, message me so we can have a chat to see where things go.
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jezebel_jj
12 years ago
My guy is the exact thing you are looking for....and he found me. He was a swinger before he met me and had been playing for several years. They do exist so dont be disheartened. RHP might not be the exact place to meet that man, but then again you are in Sydney so you are probably spoilt for choice. My man found me after being on like 8 dating sites, RSVP, Oasis, POF, eharmony and a whole bunch of others. Id say increase your chances and try other sites as well. Go on lots of dates and if you click, discuss the potential for extra activities.
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RHP User
12 years ago
@ all the guys lining up..... Yup OP you're my dream girl too....but my steak and veges are calling me louder lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' You never can tell.... you might meet a guy who wants to commit, but, given the nature of how you'd meet in here.... the odds are against it. DG _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Just out of curiosity DG, what is the nature of how people meet in here"? I am not really sure if anyone picked on this but I am sure I ldisike the suggestive nature of your comment. On one hand, and although this is a direct question related to your comment, this is not a personal affront to your convinctions, however on the other hand I find it an affront to the free will each one of us possess, and by putting a label ( very subtily I might say) you are discrediting others individual right and desire in making up "their own considerations, and conclusions about what exactly this site is. Over the weeks I have read endless posts, and comments related to how other "bona fide" dating website are working and the "nature" of the way people interact with one another. Some commentators brought forward the argument that the only differences between RHP and any other dating site is that people tend to be more opent in terms of their true searching criteria, or level of engagement. Furthermore you are contradicting yourself in terms by stating that "any relationship essentially begins as a casual one, until, you decide to make it otherwise",. So can you understand my confusion (rethoric question). It will be good if you could bring some light into the matter. Are you saying that (as your comment imply) that women and men who are members of RHP (whether "Guest's" or paid members) should not have any aspiration of a relationship orther than just an occasional "fuck", and maybe if theiy are lucky a one night stand ( which in some cases lasts a few months ) given the nature of how people are meeting on RHP?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Supply and demand... Or no in this case demand and supply... Would love to know how it's going, have you contacted any of the would be suitors yet?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I did my fair share of the normal dating sites and a turn here on RHP as a single. In the end he was right under my nose : ) A vanilla date, who had become a friend and then so much more. I believe that if you find someone with the right connection any thing is possible.... I think at the time I even added a single line to the end of my profil, stating that if mr right was to come along I would love to enjoy the lifestyle with him : ) Looks like there are a few others who have had some luck too. Enjoy, have fun and explore!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The fact is.....many if the girls on the vanilla sites are all saying the same thing in their profile....they don't want to be the next notch in the belt....problem is they won't commit before they've tried the goods.... Simple really....it all starts casually hanging out then ends in a commitment of some description. Me personally I don't like locked in contracts unless its a phone- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
not sure whats wrong with my profile .. i must be looking in the wrong places or im to much of a free spirited gypsy, the only women who show interest are either pissed and what me for sex , at 43 you sorta get sick of it . how hard is to find a nice lady ????
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RHP User
12 years ago
Must you mock me RHP!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think many guys in this forum are willing to provide you the kind of relationship you tend to make up.My best wishes with that you get the man of your choice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
there are a number of good guys on here who'd be happy to have relationships, my difficulty is finding women who do (who ACTUALLY do rather than just say they do)..
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've met or have messaged three couples that were/are in committed long-term relationships, having originally found each other through this site (and the Otoris are another, as Ms Otori says!) The trend seems to be FWB developing into something more, rather than them outright partner hunting.I personally think anyone who goes out with the explicit intention of finding a long-term relationship is asking for trouble, whether on this site or in life at large, because they're trying to force commitment and are perhaps rushing the more complex and organic process of developing a relationship. My advice would be to open yourself up to opportunities and just enjoy relationships for what they are, whether it's a once-off, an ongoing thing, or something more. Avoid the pressure to find your soulmate and enjoy what comes your way. You can still be open to something developing long term while enjoying the here and now. Not all FWB will develop into a full on partnership - in fact, I'd say most won't, so be very clear where you and your partner are at (I, for instance, am not looking for a committed relationship in any way at the moment, and make that very clear) - but it can and has happened.Good luck, space cadet.
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chevtrek
12 years ago
but im the wrong age LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's not unreasonable to want to find a long-term relationship through a casual dating site, but I agree with Neptune - play the field, then see where it takes you - get out as much as possible to social events, speed dating, and swinger meets (face to face beats online, always!) and gradually narrow things down until you have someone who wants what you want. Trust and connections take time, enjoy the ride in the mean time!Flip Side - Over the past month I've been putting myself on more vanilla sites like RSVP and Oasis using the same profile I have here, and it hasn't been very successful. I've had a few people ask questions, but nothing more, I'm still seen as the oddity (especially in the 'burbs where I live) but I'd rather be upfront and honest about my situation and desire than misleading someone and hurting them. I understand a lot of people aren't comfortable talking about sex, but I don't want to have to hide who I am. Open relationships aren't going away anytime soon (especially with things like Fly In Fly Out, etc.) so there should be something that caters to it.There are people out there who prefer non-monogamous relationships, but there's still a stigma attached to casual dating sites which holds them back (not to mention obtuse people spewing garbage like: "Sex based relationships are shallow!" Is it anymore shallow than searching for people based on their income or residential location?) but NSA sites are the only place where you can enter things like "attached and looking", making them a lot more reasonable and open-minded than a lot of people give them credit for. (Plus, there was the whole "eHarmony is Christian oriented, so no homosexuals" lawsuit 3 years ago)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've got one of them too..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was about to post the same question . Have been on and off here for a while and don't know if it's my location or what but would be great to be in a relationship with a sexy woman who is adventurous. Being new to all of this probably even makes it harder as well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No one is out there. I mean how long do you have to play the field for. I have now resigned myself to being single forever.But i suppose there are some good and bad about being single.So for you northshorebabe 1 i really do hope you find the man of your dreams. good luck :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a tall order. Sounds perfect but difficult to find, the heart wants what it wants. First you have to find someone who fits the bill and then you need to fall in love with them, methinks the second part would be the harder of the two.
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N4November
12 years ago
I was playing with a new friend while my significant other watched and at times, joined in with us. Bless him, he loves watching me being spit roasted as much as I love doing it!! No jealousy, just sharing the pleasure of seeing me enjoying my sexuality. And I have felt the same when watching him. Nothing wrong with putting it out there that you are looking for a partner in crime but my advice is to forget about it because you effectively are putting your agenda into your dating and not enjoying the encounters for what it is! If the connection etc is there, it will happen in its own time. Keep an open mind and I'm sure it will happen.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i would love to have such a relationshiphope i can find right woman for it one day
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RHP User
12 years ago
yeah im with holdnf , can i get in line for you to if things dont work out with him give me a shot ... well hey im on here for just that but it starts of with no strings as i think thats normal , what you think you meet some put a ring on each others fingers and you no each other , and live happily ever after . no you take chances meet learn grow , find out what your both about .. and ofcoures the sex thinglots of it . hey yeah im a bloke and i no women are excactly the same they say they want a relationship ok then theres all thesse things you dont stack up to so lets mold you into what i want , well if i wasnt what you wanted why have a relation ship with me go find that person you dont need to mold ... myself i see meet a women we get along where great together excelent sex like every thing . dont want to change her . then hey is my ass fat no , yes its is you reasure her its not but hey lets change that as she thinks it is what . yeah theres bloke that are just like that aswell .. so hey find your thing you turn on your type stick with it if it leave get anougther , make sure it leave with what it came with ... hey its about , friendships , feelings , how they make you feel for me . not bank accounts , what they can do for you in a finacial manner and stature .. and im sorry i say what ive exspriences and think... if im wrong my problem thats what i see.... if this wrecks my chances on here with women for nostring please disregard every thing i just wrote ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes there are guys like that on here im one of them the issue is im in perth
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The potential cynic in me suggests that many guys in here will say what you want to hear, to get that they want to get.The realist in me says that any relationship essentially begins as a casual one, until, I/we decide to make it otherwise.You never can tell.... you might meet a guy who wants to commit, but, given the nature of how you'd meet in here.... the odds are against it.DG I get the impression the "cynic" in you is purely Kinetic DG - the potential is fully realised :) Sadly, I agree it is largely justified.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Nostalgic_girl' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' You never can tell.... you might meet a guy who wants to commit, but, given the nature of how you'd meet in here.... the odds are against it. DG _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Just out of curiosity DG, what is the nature of how people meet in here"? I am not really sure if anyone picked on this but I am sure I ldisike the suggestive nature of your comment. On one hand, and although this is a direct question related to your comment, this is not a personal affront to your convinctions, however on the other hand I find it an affront to the free will each one of us possess, and by putting a label ( very subtily I might say) you are discrediting others individual right and desire in making up "their own considerations, and conclusions about what exactly this site is. Over the weeks I have read endless posts, and comments related to how other "bona fide" dating website are working and the "nature" of the way people interact with one another. Some commentators brought forward the argument that the only differences between RHP and any other dating site is that people tend to be more opent in terms of their true searching criteria, or level of engagement. Furthermore you are contradicting yourself in terms by stating that "any relationship essentially begins as a casual one, until, you decide to make it otherwise",. So can you understand my confusion (rethoric question). It will be good if you could bring some light into the matter. Are you saying that (as your comment imply) that women and men who are members of RHP (whether "Guest's" or paid members) should not have any aspiration of a relationship orther than just an occasional "fuck", and maybe if theiy are lucky a one night stand ( which in some cases lasts a few months ) given the nature of how people are meeting on RHP? How is it a contradiction to state "any relationship essentially begins as a casual one, until, you (both) decide to make it otherwise" .. makes perfect sense if you ask me, long term, committed relationships EVOLVE they can't be arranged.
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RHP User
12 years ago
we have been here a little while , seeking an xtra , male OR female . we have maybe an xtra nsa connection with another single male on rhp , expect nothing , fussy , not the correct word but we didnt jump in until we felt confident and comfy . love to bump into a few ladies but not yet .expect nothing. it is not all about sex sex then sex , love sex both of us for sure but talking, touching, carresing, kissing, connecting the three together ( not with cocks ) mentally as well as phiscally is equally important .sounds deap and fancieful but can happen having a great adventure together on rhpcheers sweatyansweet
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getmemoreandmore
12 years ago
They do exist. Mr is one and has helped with everything a can throw at him. We did start as a normal friends and we just got talking and talking and talking. Now married and having a ball on here meeting other cool couples and girls alike. So dont lose faith as the guy you are looking for might just come from the most unexpected place.. :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the same goe's for us guys. Hard to find someone who is smart and sexy who wants more than just a FB.Ideally someone with whom you can connect on all levels withMake love one night and fuck each other senseless the other, exploring each others boundaries,
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ive taken a look at your profile and tried to find holes in it ( as there are a lot ) but didn't really come up with any , it's fairly straight forward . But and there's always one ,I'm curious to know have u experienced this before and is your potential partner afforded the same pleasures , so to speak. I'm more intrested in finding out if that is what floats your boat I'm rapt for u , and a potential partner may love it . But until all options are explored I'm not sure If your ready for THAT relationship Fuck am I self reflecting
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RHP User
12 years ago
I want what she wants:)I personally don't find this website any different to any other dating site....atleast people are honest about what they want in here and you can make a choice, based on at least "some truth". In typical "dating" sites most of the men only want sex anyway and use it eaxactly the same way....thats what I call falseGoodluck finding youre man...oh and good luck to me too lol :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm at a point where I want to experience a relationship with a sense of freedom and not constrict myself or the woman involved with pre-conceived and socialised ideas of what a relationship ought to be...my openness hasn't got me anywhere on this site though :)...I guess men and women carry a sense of fear into any relationship based on past experience, unfortunately. Namaste
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm still single... but I am also picky. If a guy cannot respect me in the first instance, he's not going to as a relationship grows. I'm not willing to settle for a crap relationship. If I'm single for the majority of my life but can say I've lived as fully as possible... I'm ok with that... However... awesome sex would be nice
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been looking for the same thing on and off over the time I've been on RHP. Have kind of given up finding anyone like this in Adelaide. Most of the guys I've met who are just as you describe (ie. perfect) have already been snatched by someone else or have just got out of a messy relationship and are going crazy fucking everything that moves before they move on to the next 'serious' one. Shame...it seems such a waste. :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
seems theres guys and girls wanting the same thing but not finding weird isnt it , maybe it hard to make reality , maybe we need a new website for singles only wanting a partne rthats very open minded , payful but committed to the relationship
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RHP User
12 years ago
of course there is guys like us out there! just look hard enough ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
All what I can hear is, many people want it but soo less have it.So why?Is it because we all get a bit possessive after a while. Like she is mine or he is mine?When most of as are so open minded what holds us up to get it?Don't we communicate enough?For me, I still have trouble with this NSA......I find this three word stupid.We all know we are on here for FUN, and.....so why do we have to state this so vehemently?What I have read now is many more men and women, are looking for "this" ideal open relationship......and cant find it.Aren't we not talking?I am so confused........can anybody tell me?So we all looking for it......but we don't?We all want it.......but we don't?Ohh God I am really messed up in my mind.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's what I am looking for, the t reason I went on thus site is because at least here people were upfront, on other sites men say they want more but when you meet them they expect a shag...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find it interesting how people keep emphasizing that this not a dating site. That it is just a site for screwing around to put it gently :) I think most sites are what you want from them. Some people come on for just casual encounters and others want bit more. I say each to their own. Sometimes its better not to analyze what other peoples perceptions are and just smile say gday and see what tomorrow brings. :) mmmmmmmmmmm just saying
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just a footnote most sites have there agenda but in the end they are what they are, sites for people to meet each other. It is up to the person to be truthful and honest about what they want and those can't manage to be that way mmmmmmmmmmmmm keep walking :) !
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RHP User
12 years ago
you sound perfect to me. i'd treat you right, girl :) best wishes!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr Luvsex and I met up on a dating website.... and have been together for 2 1/2 years now so I believe it can happen on a website , just like this one....not only is Mr an awesome fuck but he is the most caring lovable man ever! We lived 4 hrs away from each other but made it work till he moved here and it has been heaven ever since! So northshorebabe1 it is not impossible! Good luck with your search.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'When you find him can you ask if he has a brother? 😁
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh yeah they are out there!! Im one of them.. ;-) I can't find me a partner who is as naughty as i am!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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chocolate_bar
12 years ago
Tried the relationship thing...laid myself out on the table and got the table"thats all good never want to change you"speech.....except she was NOT openminded or willing to try anything but missionary and recreational sex was suddenly "evil and abnormal". So now I am single again and had all but given up hope! Shame you aren't in qld- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
ur exactly wat im looking 4 ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Tripleitup' I think the men that meet that criteria are here on this site, but they have been snapped already. Maybe you could get involved with another couple , you get ur sex, relationship , and they get there adventurous sex life . Ever in Perth, drop us a line :)- Posted from rhpmobilewe double that ....come to perth lol ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think perth is the place to be! Come visit we are very friendly- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think you'd have to be pretty open minded when it comes to finding a relationship on this site. And perhaps not even have the motif of finding one.Given that - sometimes the best relationships are the ones that start with that open minded casual mentality. This probably won't be achievable however if you are desperately trying to turn it into something serious - instead of being yourself and letting it evolve naturally into a "typical" relationship.You seem like a pretty/smart girl - so just have patience and I'm sure you'll find someone, if not on this site - somewhere else.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I say "typical" because I think any serious relationship formed from this site - would be far from the norm.- not a bad thing imo
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Avijo
11 years ago
I am slim and athletic, very well hung, light brown skin... friends can see hot pics of myself, in my private album in facebook: avi swingy
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chevtrek
11 years ago
If I was younger you would be perfect Be cautious Now you put this up I have noticed a married guy has posted to you...
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chevtrek
11 years ago
If I was the right age and location im game LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
How hard is it to find a guy for great sex life and a committed relationship? Is there any guys out there like that? Ans: A very hard to find such guy. rock hard dick hard die hard... lol There are such guys but too many gals are in search of them. keep trying.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To all the women out there,is this what your inbox's look like?lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'BellatheExplorer'That's what I am looking for, the t reason I went on thus site is because at least here people were upfront, on other sites men say they want more but when you meet them they expect a shag...- Posted from rhpmobile I met a woman and we saw each other for 18 months. You just have to meet that right person
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah Babe, me but Iam probably way to old for you!!!! But if your likes are genuine, then there close to mine!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I first started on this site I was in no way at all ready for a relationship, I had just come from a really shitty relationship that had ended in well a really shitty way, I was looking for no real commitment but not the typical one night stand, more friends with benefits etc. I had fun for a while etc then got myself trapped in the fact that the option was there for more how ever I saw them (and I hate to say it because I know how much I hate hearing it) in the friend zone... shocking yes, some guys have them too haha.I ended up getting fed up with the confusion and it became similar to being in a relationship while not being in a relationship and well that was just no fun anymore so I called it all off.Now on the other hand its been a long time I have moved on with my life and got myself back on track, I am in a similar boat. The casual lifestyle is fine but Im finding I miss the more meaningful connection more and more. So I guess Im kind of keeping an eye out here for a potential partner as much as a fling type thing, easiest thing I have done is written my profile as more than just "I wanna shag you", I put a little effort in and people reading it tell me all the time its refreshing to see a guy who is looking for more than just a shag and while he is here is able to be honest enough to say he is ready for more.Basically I say good luck, I hope you find someone who can look after all your needs, as well it gives me hope I may find someone on here too.oh and I guess sorry for the life story haha.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would give U anything that you wanted ,please msg me,I am open to anything im good looking and fit ,threesomes swingers anything at the end of the day ur cumming home with me so I can make you cum again
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had a lady on POF tell me that swinging is wrong and disgusting. I told her I was an open minded person and might be open to a partner wanting to have sex with other people, she then told me she wanted no more contact with me. She asked why would I want my partner to be a slut?.... She totally missed the point because of some emotional reaction to a past relationship breakdown. Didn't even listen to what I said, only read what she wanted to read. I too would like a relationship and have more confidence in this site than the others. After being back on here for only a few hours and reading some of the comments in these forums, some of my faith in humanity has been restored. Best of luck in finding what you're searching for!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry to hear the Sydney guys you are chatting with, won't combine affection with play and open mindedness.We do exist so I am sure you will find what you are looking for!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Unicorns... Elusive and when you do find them, some horrible snake like creature is sucking them dry. Men need to stop looking for perfect and look for amazing instead. Perfection is attainable and those guys and girls who are in happy, amazing relationships are the ones who have realised they just fit, warts and all. Now, if I only I could take some of my own advice. I too want a boyfriend... There, I've said it... Men of Australia run screaming... I want someone to come home to, to know he's coming home to me and we can fuck three ways to Sunday and cuddle afterwards, fight and have make up sex, go to gym and have sex in a shower afterwards, share the good and the not so good times and most of all be there for one another. You have to balance out the things you want with the things the person standing I front of you can offer. I'm not perfect, I've never said I wanted the perfect man, just someone who gets me... All 80 muscle bound kilos of me. All the short hair angst, all the work stress, all the smiles and frowns and still says to me, "you're beautiful". Men in general my age have already been hurt and abused in one way or another, and they are scared. Scared to try again and get burnt financially, emotionally, physically. For someone like me, one boyfriend ever, and having been single the past 10 years... I'm tired like Charlotte from SITC. I just want to trip one day when I least expect it and there he is... Mr Right for Me. I'll be happy as a pig in mud, or the Taurus I am... And treat that man so good he'll wonder why he was so scared in the first place.
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RHP User
11 years ago
...that doesn't automatically make us the perfect mate. At the expense of sounding cliche, the reality is that you sound disenchanted but you shouldn't give up because you haven't had a good run of luck. At the end of the day, you'll find your other half but when that will be, who knows? You just need to keep looking and keep trying. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's hard really to believe that you are an object of compassion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well ,We are all only human with feelings so yeah we do want something more sometimes .
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RHP User
11 years ago
But having said that i am here to experience what RHP is all about , it is all about play for me atm.
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thewinchester
11 years ago
Quoting 'northshorebabe1' Is it too much to ask for a guy to be chivalrous, caring, honest, affectionate and romantic. - Posted from rhpmobile No, it isn't too hard to ask. And it should be the rule and expectation that you get this - not the exception IMHO.But that goes both ways (the expectation that is). Both parties need to mirror these positive attributes towards each other, both in and out of the sack.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Up until last year I was in the Not into a relationship brigade....all hurt and burnt from a long marraige. But time heals all wounds and so does the right person. Although I cant believe how many people I meet and on here and all the other sites just dont want a relationship. I can truly say the time I did invest with another person was truly rewarding. I didnt take more than he gave and I learnt to give again.I worry for all these people who are not young 20 year olds but are into the ageing generation.....who will care for you? When will you decide oops I waited too long.I suppose or I hope that everyone gets a chance to meet the right person and realise and grab hold before its too late.Push past the jaded stories and look for the truth and love thats lies within.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi, I have found as a guy it's tough to find a gal that's open/wants to have a relationship and still play about... would love to meet that girl ! I'd have trouble not playing about so someone willing to join in is an essential ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
They are equally as hard to find someone who's compatible. I'm sure I never really understood what makes a man tick and I doubt I ever will to be honest. I've lost weight, I'm healthy, I don't smoke or drink, I'm a great cook, love sex, can look after myself but love snuggles and chill out with a great man... I didn't think I was ugly, but maybe I am? I don't know... Maybe it is just my short hair.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Northshore, while I appreciate you search for the perfect relationship, have a look at some of the things you are looking for, for example:I like a dominant man in the bedroomvsTo like to see his girl with other menSo you want your guy in control until you decide you need different? Something tells me that people's personality switches don't throw that way. Especially when I wonder what you would think of him looking at another woman? I notice your profile is interested in MMF but not FFM or even swinging/couples. Add to that you emphasis on attractiveness and I think you are shooting for an incredibly narrow band.On one hand you are looking for a committed relationship with a guy who has only eyes for you. On the other, you are looking for someone who will happily share you, apparently without wanting to be shared in turn. I'm not saying there are guys like that out there, but there not exactly falling from the sky, even on RHP.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think there are guys that want to give it a go, but for me personally I'd have to get a bit bored of the relationship sex life before I was open to the idea.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that all sounds great to me.
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foreign_lover
11 years ago
..the ideal partner?1.Is that person someone that just compliments you; after day 1 you're finishing each other's sentences?2.Or is that person someone you grow to and with, discovering things together as you go; to revel in each new facet he/she presents you later in life?I feel that most people are searching for no.1, but personally i would prefer no.2. The chances of finding your perfect partner just like that is very slim and let's face it, we all are imperfect in some sense. It's the continuous disappointment i find with women that are so stuck in their ways, while i try to compromise and seek for the middle path.Okay, rant is over. To answer the op's initial question i respond with a question: no it's not too hard to be chivalrous, affectionate and all that, but what do you have to offer in return? Are you worthy of all that, straight from the bat? Are you accepting your imperfections and willing to compromise?A
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RHP User
11 years ago
Try a willing couple from Newcastle ;),, even if just to fill a void
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RHP User
11 years ago
Appreciate your view on 1 or 2. I think a lot of people are really after 2 but chase after 1, sad really. Life should be revelled in, each new discovery enjoyed as a child enjoys the simplest of revelations. If one is lucky enough to find 2 then it would be an amazing ride.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
I am a mild Dom but I am the wrong age----Grrrrr
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am definitely the kind of guy who would prefer to have one long term partner, I'm not sure I know how to do anything else, in fact I can honestly say I've never fucked-and-run in my life, but that probably says as much about my lack of experience than anything else.However I am also one of those people who is just out of a very long term marriage and feeling really burnt and abused by the shackles of commitment. I have not even been with anyone else yet since my break up so, even though I am that kind of guy, at the moment I am about as far as I could possibly be from wanting to go there again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For 12 years I was in a relationship just like what you are looking for OP... how did it end? She left me for a woman (can only but laugh!).So... will I be looking for what you are after again?... possibly with the caveat of "No means no and those who play together stay together".Kudos to you OP for standing up and saying what you want. I am sure you find an honest man in the lineup who will be just what you want.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was having drinks with a group of people friday night....I got into an indepth discussion with a 50+ man as to why he wasnt interested in a relationship.Later that evening the group dwindled to four and another friend who had been flirting with this man decided they would stay on and acquaint themselves...Ok...they saw each other once more over the weekend nothing sexual and then I got a call from the woman on Monday. She wanted my advice was wondering why the man had not responded to two of her texts and had told me she had taken herself off a vanilla website (as she would not date more than one person at a time)....I then said to her did you not hear him clearly state he doesnt want a relationship?? I said possibly something may develop but sorry my dear I believe he thinks you might have some fun together...she was a little stunned.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The potential cynic in me suggests that many guys in here will say what you want to hear, to get that they want to get.The realist in me says that any relationship essentially begins as a casual one, until, I/we decide to make it otherwise.You never can tell.... you might meet a guy who wants to commit, but, given the nature of how you'd meet in here.... the odds are against it.Rubbish - I met Mr on a similar adult swingers site and he is into most of what the OP has stated on her wish list and so many other women have commented on getting what the OP is after from thier committed men. If you are right for someone it doesnt matter how you meet as it just works. Good luck OP. Why when you have such a clearly defined wish list would you go somewhere other than a site like this to find it. People who are into the play activities you have mentioned will be on sites like this in most cases as this is where they find what they need on that sexuay level that they like to play. The right man will committ to you one day if you are lucky enough to come across him here. Try a few different sites and that will increase your odds of finding the right man for you. Stay away from the vanilla sites if you are into what you say you are.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But perhaps if you start to select for character and personality rather than abs and a tan you may improve your chances.Nice guys finish last. And your proving it.
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