M79 F61
BiCurious or BiSexual?
October 13 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi, I think some men dont like toopenly say they like cock andas such leave there profile straight. Im curious never tried it so i leavemy profile as is.I will change it when im proved to like it or dislike it. Actually would you like to break me in, lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're right there Mrs VintageKrug, a hell of a lot of women aren't actually interested in women, they just do it to amuse the men. Personally i don't get it but hey, whatever floats their boat. Not nice being with a woman who's not into chicks though and you can tell. As for the bi guys thing........i think there are a LOT of taboos particularly in this aussie "macho" (macho don't mean mucho) society.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are opposite to guys both straight kids here, and we reckon the opposite most are Bi, wonder if the reality is a lot who like the lifestyle but when it comes to playing are not really into it. We also think a lot have trouble identifying with their sexuality and object to labels, but to us its quite simple if you play with the opposite sex as well as same sex it Bisexual, and nothing wrong with that......thats what this site is about. Our logic tells us that straight and bi couples should be able to play together it just means play with the opposite sex, The counter comments we hear is from straight couples: From both female and male....I feel uncomfortable he / she might try to touch and in our experiance with the girls over 50% of the time the bi girl will try to play with the straight chick which only leads bad feelings. Interesting it does not appear a problem with Bi guys / straight guys....never experiance a bi guy trying to play with a straight guy uninvited??? From Bi Couples we hear: Dont do it with straight couples the female is not intrerseted in other guys and is looking mainly for the girl / girl play. Or there are more options with Bi play which is obviously true. When we are in the mood looking for new play mates, Bisexual we dont exclude but have to admit we look for straight first.
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contemplating1
13 years ago
Here, the site choices can be Bisexual, Bicurious, experimental, or anything. Having read an article (somehwere here?) on all the different interpretations, almost does ones head in! To me, one has to ask more in chat.....But then it still depends on how "honestly" one replies in there...... To your first question " Why are so many guys threatened by cock? Yea, it surprises me, that there is till almost a phobia about it that belongs well back in the last century. "Live & let live" and as long as everyone respects each others choices, where's the prob? Your second question for me just has too many variables to be able to answer. And with your last observation, I would suspect so too.... Have a good 'un!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am straight and never gonna change ....not for any partner. As so many women say they are bi-curious I thought at one stage I had better try this out....I dont like to miss out on stuff. However watching ff porn did absolutely nothing for me and when push comes to shove I will not even try to kiss another woman on the lips. The thought for me is quite nauseating actually. l Men dont like anyone to think they are "gay" if they are straight and that is why it is an erotic taboo. Not that many years ago it WAS definately frowned upon. Homosexuals were teased, tormented, bashed, and thier lives a general living hell....and I am not talking 100 years ago.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are both both so that means we like both, we still play with straight couples and singles of either sex. It is like respecting all other boundaries ppl may have.As we say Bi is not catching. Unfortunately there are too many homophobes, this goes for females as well. When playing as a cpl with cpls or singles there maybe incidental touching, "this is not a move" We as a cpl are not into watersports but we do not exclude cpls who have it in there profiles. Water skiing ,playing in spas, swimming playing in showers (non golden) are not watersports for this forum submission. Fionabee, Bi is not Gay! Gaypeople do not play with opposite sex, if it were true that Bi is Gay then receiving or giving anal sex must be a gay act. Crossdressers for example can be straight they just have a thing about wearing womens clothes. We prefer to not play with guys that have facial hair, even the fashionable stubble as it bloody hurts like rubbing your genitals with sand. Would a woman say no to a guy if his profile hinted that he may be Bi. Friends of ours are Male straight and Fem Bi, she likes and he likes to please her by allowing her to "do" him with a strap on. Is he a latent homosexual or does he just like it and like fulfilling his partners desires and get some enjoyment as well? Sex is about exploring and enjoyment, if you like it do it, yes make sure both like and enjoy. Mrs 2 loves to hang heavy weights on my balls by pegs does it make me a weightlifter........ Just kidding hope she doesn't read this.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't say I'm gay bit when it comes to a mmf I love playing with Guys but could never meet Ono on one with a guy not threatened by cock just love getting a bit kinky now and then lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guess in my case I had never fantasized about men but it happened The first time - I was with a couple, the lady and I were 69'ing, with her on top ---- then she lifted her upper body but my cock was still being sucked - and nicely... by the guyWe ended up sucking each other while she stroked our balls and asses - and I quite enjoyed it --- Since then I have sucked a few guys, swallowed, tried to deep throat etc but only in group situations (3somes, 4somes and moresomes). I have also fucked a couple of guy's asses.I definitely do not regard myself as gay but I am quite happy to be considered as bi, in the right circumstancesAs for ladies, I have known a few ladies who love attention --- from men or other ladies, but who will not be active themselves ---- I guess it is a transitional thing One lady loved sucking my cock after it had been in another lady's pussy - really relished the taste --- but she could not/would not lick a pussy directly..We are all different and that is part of the attraction of it allRRRRR
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think the more comfortable you become sexual wise the more curious you become about trying the same sex. I'm curious, and ma thinking when i do get the chance I may like all of it or some of it, but do i then become bi-sexual? Prefer a woman anyday,but the fun to be had with a mmf is boundless,and as for c/d well,that just adds another bow to your arrow.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I am bi..and proud of it..I loving being with a woman sexually..its lovely, exciting, erotic and sensual..something that I sometimes miss in being with a man.......however this does not make me gay (and I dont wish to offend anyone) but I know I could never have a gay relationship with a woman..I love men too much......but I am grateful to all the gorgeous women that I have played with who have encouraged and helped me explore what started as my bi curious side...and expand on that.. Interestingly my "swing" partner and I were to meet with a couple recently..who had indicated to us in chatting, that he was strait (my guy is also strait) but the wife was bi curious....they later emailed me and said that they had changed their minds about meeting us as I had indicated in our joint profile that I was Bi and this "frightened" her... I was really sad to read this...as they obviously didnt focus on the line in our profile that also said..."All boundaries respected"... just because Im bi, if the lady wasnt interested, I certainly wouldnt pursue it..at no time would I want any partner (male or female) of mine feeling uncomfortable, intimidated etc....I thought it was a little unfair that I was prejudged..before we had even met...and the wife in question, could have completely shut herself off to what MAY have been a pleasurable experience for her.........guess we will never know....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Talking about Bi stuff in this thread: 3 couples 8 singles???? In the couples section,,,,wtf?
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RHP User
13 years ago
nice honest reply, thanks
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RHP User
13 years ago
An interesting perception. Our thoughts are just close your eyes and enjoy the moment. If it feels good does it really matter if it is a guy or a girl?
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RHP User
13 years ago
we are a straight male and bi female....but we have no problems chatting with any mixed couple of any sexual persuasion. I had thought we were all adults and could respect any boundaries. Mrs SiS wouldn't force herself on any straight female, just as I wouldn't expect any bi guy to jump on me. If we chat and the bundaries are identified and accepted, then we'd meet. I guess some people have different definitions of Bi too - I don't consider two guys pleasuring a woman and having their cocks touching while giving her a DP to be a bi act - but it appears some people do.We're not here to change anyone -just to treat everyone as a consenting and practical adult and to abide by their boundaries - and hope they do the same to us :)
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funtwosee
13 years ago
We are happy to play with straight or very bi couples. Mrs Fun is not keen to eat out another girl but everything else is on. Mr Fun isn't turned on by blokes but if we are with a couple and the other boy wants to play he has no problem. We see it as trying to be Good Giving and Game. But similarly if the other guy is straight - you have to respect that. We slightly prefer to play with couples that state that they are something other that straight as it just increases the possibilities.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My wife was,repeat WAS bicurious. She tried it, liked it and enjoys the touch and feel of another woman. What she WOULD like is for that to be reciprocated more often than it is. Surely once a person who is bicurious has experienced the pleasure then their curiosity is over. They should then know if they are bi or not. Bicurious should only be a temporary label. I wouldn't consider myself bi or curious but we have played with bi males and females. I'm not homophobic or put off be male contact. But she loves the idea and likes to watch two guys play with each other. It really gets her turned on. Her words "its just another mouth,if you were blindfolded who would know the difference" We agree that some couples put that the female is bicurious to attract others to their profile,but when it comes down to it there is obviously no interest in female to female contact. Lets have some honesty please!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Tmax2012, We agree with every word you say above except from the opposite, we tried and same sex stuff it is not us. We have heard others say ......we are only bi if we like the other person, so guess there is a complication the other couple the other lady may like the guy but not the lady but both girls are bi?? (not curious) and to complicate it further what does experimental mean???? To experiment with the same sex? opposite sex? sexual acts? Not saying anything is right or wrong its just our preferences.Surely looking to experiment is curious, or close enough and further discussion will clarify? Have to laugh when you see profiles that are 2 yrs plus old listed as bi curious ....surely after two years the opportunity has been presented to test their bi curiosity and move to bi sexual or back to straight. or are they those 2 and 5 yr 1st timers,,,lol. Very well said Tmax and Soulsinsync.... love you definition spot on!
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RHP User
13 years ago
well as a F who is Bi, you really do know wether you are Bi or not. its not something you say oh ok ill try it to see, you definately know if you are or not. as for M who like to muck up (as in 4somes with cpls) we call it Bi comfortable. it doesnt mean theya re bi sexual or curious as its neither.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Tmax2012'My wife was,repeat WAS bicurious. She tried it, liked it and enjoys the touch and feel of another woman. What she WOULD like is for that to be reciprocated more often than it is. Surely once a person who is bicurious has experienced the pleasure then their curiosity is over. They should then know if they are bi or not. Bicurious should only be a temporary label. I wouldn't consider myself bi or curious but we have played with bi males and females. I'm not homophobic or put off be male contact. But she loves the idea and likes to watch two guys play with each other. It really gets her turned on. Her words "its just another mouth,if you were blindfolded who would know the difference" We agree that some couples put that the female is bicurious to attract others to their profile,but when it comes down to it there is obviously no interest in female to female contact. Lets have some honesty please! TOUCHE well put sums it up perfectly, how many times we have met the "bi curious" and she just laid down and said ok all off you come get it and thats it. and even after that said she was BI lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
bi? yea baby! its all good...this bi stuff lol....we have no issue with anyone being bi or wishing to explore bi...male or female....as all it does is widen the choices availalble and ensure that no-one misses out when playing.......we love the 'dynamics' of threesomes, especially with a bi-comfortable, curious, or sexual male....all fun...all good....all happy......
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RHP User
13 years ago
this is why boundries ar set for meets as you should establish boundries first then if u have bi curiuose couple and a streight couple u will know the boundries befor any uncomfort happens and u can all enjoy the fun we use dto have streight on our page but we now have bicurious as here is the chance that azll parties agree and yes we still look for streight couples aswell
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RHP User
13 years ago
bi-comfortable - i like it! i'll use that one in future if i may :) i'm sure that we strike out with a lot of straight couples simply because we're both down as bisexual on our profile, scares them off i guess... but we felt silly putting anything else because we're not curious or experimental - it's who we are & what we like, and discovering we're each married to someone who totally understands & is seriously turned on by watching the other fulfill their secret desires - well, anyway, we're very lucky & we have a damn good time ;) having said that, though, people don't realise that we're quite capable of straight sex (love it, want it, gotta have it, in fact) and that if they're not into same sex play then that's perfectly fine, but they seem to think "oh no, he/she'll want to touch me"... not realising that just cause my husband is bi, doesn't mean he finds every man sexually attractive... i find myself thinking "don't flatter yourself, mate, he's after your missus!" we judge so quickly, even on such an open-minded website... i suppose as long as you're happy with the label you give yourself, that's all anyone can ask for. katie xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
im happy todo bi in a mmf situation, only if everyones comfortable that is... opens up a whole new ball game and most the time the female totally gets off on it mikeanshel im comin too QLD :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
We find it amazing how many Bi sexual people have problems with their inner reconciliation that they are Bi sexual and invent new labels. Bi people refuse straight people routinely we have found.
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cbdlivin
13 years ago
This is a particularly interesting subject and after about 10 years on these sites I can provide some information that is relevant. In the last couple of weeks I had a male from this site who has straight on his profile drop around to give me a very pleasant blow job. If as a male you have bi on your profile, you are eliminated from the possibility of meeting certain woman because you are 1. A deviant (do not understand why they on this site I am a proud deviant), 2. If they are with you and another guy you will pay the other man more attention than you will to them. (Do not undertand that). Of course couples are even more fun when you have a straight male, they seem to assume you will get a bit to close to them, I have not worked out whether they think I will infect them with an open mind, or they will be so irresistable that I will be going straight for their cock. I love couple play and have great self control and only play with what I am invited to play with, I like the idea of everyone having a good time. So in the end if you want to have the playmates who would exclude you if you were bi, you put straight on your profile. Personally I love playing with all types of people but I am who I am and am not going to lie about it. B
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RHP User
13 years ago
Straight couples, we don't think are homophobic about a guy or girl of the same sex touching them when playing in a 4 some with the opposite sex. (swapping partners) Their preference may be based on what they consider high risk activities and lifestyle choices, be it right or wrong. To change your sexual orientation just to play with them, thereby is deceit which is inexcusable.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As long as it is all consensual and everyone is comfortable then Bi is great and our preference is always to have a couple with a bi or at least a 'bi friendly' male.The issue of bi men does seem to polarise reactions amongst women though. They either love the idea or as stated above will actively exclude any men/couples from consideration who list the male as bi or bi curious, causing many to not list it. We prefer to be honest and let other couples make an informed choice. If they don't like the thought of bi guys that is their choice. Each to their own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
you there got it right there katie. we are much the same as you are and that we are both perfectly with straight sex as well as being able to explore same sex relationships as well. my wife is defiently bi where i am bi curious. this doesnt mean that i am going to have full sex with a guy its just that i can appreciate and am comfortable touching another guy and them doing the same. it always amazes me when i see straight couples on this site because at some point if your lucky and do meet up with another couple arent you at some point going to be around people that are having sex. so there must be some type of acceptnace of being around the same sex in a sexual manner or it just wouldnt work.i too think that some guys are just afraid of admitting that that are ok with other guys touching their junk and shouldnt be worried about what others think. lets face if some you know is here looking though profiles and sees yours and that you are bi than they must be look for some thing similar.
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Mr_MrsJones
13 years ago
I had a VERY interesting conversation this week with a group of young (about 21 - 24yo) people. They were convinced that you were either straight or gay. There was no in between ground. The idea that we all fall into a continum of orientation with an infinte combination of preferences was mind bogglingly progressive to them. I have said this before but I think it warrants saying again. What is it with all these labels? Why does it matter if you use the word bi curious instead of bisexual. What if I like fucking women (Mrs Jones writing) but I would never have a relationship with one. What if I could get all emotionally intimate with a woman but the idea of licking a pussy is repulsive. Do I have to have a label for all of that. Why can't we just say what we like and leave it at that. If Mr Jones writes in his profile that he like to suck cock but doesn't want to be fucked by a guy does he have to label that? and does that mean he won't play with a guy who doesn't want to do that? Not really. He is an adult and he is mature enough to respect other people's boundaries. I don't know why people get all hung up about it. We are all one thing as far as I am concerned SEXUAL!!! If you aren't you are really in the wrong place. Mrs Jones
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RHP User
13 years ago
Here here Mrs jones well said, we are after all on this site because we want to explore the traditional taboos, with guys it's not a gay thing, it's just experiencing other forms of pleasure, try it twice just to make sure, if it's not your thing, at least you gave it a go before you say no more
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RHP User
13 years ago
it comes down to the people you are participating with, if all comfortable, then indulge and not worry about labels..... must say though, I now way prefer MMF than anything else, something about being fucked, sucking, all 3 at asme time, simply awesome...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Looking for a couple or guy under 30 in Gladstone we are 21(f) and 24(m) please contact us. Slim builds and are considered good looking but u may see for yourself discreet people only
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RHP User
13 years ago
Agreed .. I have met so many cpls lately where their profile says lady is bi-curious only to find out she's not into women at all .. just a let down & a waste of time .. be honest .. I no longer respond to "bi curious" profiles.Just give me a sexy bisexual woman anyday or night or afternoon or morning hehe xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok, I am gonna throw a few definitions out there. They are my opinion only.Gay :- Capable ONLY of feelings of love for, and of being in a loving relationship with, a member of the same sex,Bi-sexual :- Capable ONLY of feelings of love for, and of being in a loving relationship with, a member of the either sex,Bi-curious :- Interested in sexual activities with members of either sex,Straight :- Capable ONLY of feelings of love for, and of being in a loving relationship with, a member of the opposite sex. May also be bi-sexual or bi-curious but afraid that labeling themselves as such, will limit their chances in an online sex site such as RHP.*I hereby don my flameproof suit* lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just want to point out that being in a couple doesn't mean you have to have the same sexualities or sexual likes. Therefore I don't see why it is so strange for a bisexual female and a straight male to operate together and seek out others that are similar. My partner is heteroesexual. He likes females. He's not opposed to accidental crossing of swords but that's it. I wouldn't expect him to make out with men just to excite me and I sure as hell wouldn't get together with other females just to please him either. My sexuality came about long before he came into my life. Anyone who hasn't got a true representation of themselves is just wasting their own time BUT it is the internet, so what do you expect? And they're just labels for rough guidance anyways. You want to get to know the people you're going to screw right?
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hotmarriedcouple
13 years ago
Interesting topic guys. My man is straight - but loves the thought of sucking a cock WITH ME. It does nothing for him thinking about it one on one with another guy - but WITH ME - it drives him wild. I think it's as much about me getting off on it - and sucking a cock close to his mouth - as anything else. Anyway - can't wait to do it!xxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very obvious that through most of the many (awesome) threads on bi males, those that aren't have not given themselves to the situation rather than the physical act, and the labels..... The best 3 or more encounters, straight or not, are the ones where there is a degree of nervous anticipation, could be because its new, could be because its deemed to be forbidden, we all have been there, it always results in wetness, both M and F, the trick is to trust those your with and enjoy the experience. Knowing that the people you are with, are getting off and turned on with you a part of it, is more arousing than any physical act.....perfect example is the description given by hotmarriedcouple about a double blowjob......(which are fucking awesome........)
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RHP User
13 years ago
"we are only bi if we like the other person"just caught this in whitie12's post, what the?? (Whitie12 had had it said to them, to clarify...)Am I expected to take one for the team just because I'm (for arguement's sake) bi now?? *snort giggle*
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
I suggest you check out Bisexuality Is Real on Facebook I can understand people being 'curious': is there a genuine attraction, or is it just the effect of artificial social constructs like porn and US politics? I've always thought orientation had more to do with relationships than sex - that is why there is an 'asexual' category (somebody who is capable of romantic relationships but is not sexually attracted to any person). I think social conditioning has a lot more to do with sexual attraction/arousal than we all realise, but then, I think social conditioning has a lot more to do with everything than people realise...For the record - I self-identify as bi-sexual. Looking back I can see at least one instance where a female friend could have been a Girlfriend if we had both been open and honest about the possibility. But we were teenagers raised in very Catholic families and I know I ignored/denied it because of what I was taught to believe. It is just a fluke that I met my husband at a young age and fell in love - there really wasn't enough time for me to experience a lot of relationships with other people regardless of gender/sex/orientation.Cheers,MS
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RHP User
13 years ago
OMGS>>>>>tooo complicated. I stay with one man one woman....Much easier
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RHP User
13 years ago
For us, we do not play with bisexual men , and screen carefully for it too ( I have ways of leading the conversation to see how he reacts even if he says he is straight ) - we have safe sex 100% of the times we play with others. In this scene it is risky enough , we consider bi/gay men a higher sexual STD risk and choose to avoid them. We are both straight , non judgemental, accepting , open , but straight. We get told OFTEN that we are just not " ready " to be bi, it could be perhaps , that is because we are straight. Kinda irks me people assume everyone is potentially bi or curious. I love my girlfriends , just never want to fuck them , hubby is the same loves his boy time, but has zero cock interest )
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RHP User
13 years ago
What's wrong with you people what are we here for SEX and Fun Does everyone loose their right to say no once between the sheets Who cares if bi or not I am the male half and am bi curious But i have the right to say no If we are in bed with another couple and he is bi and is keen and I'm not I say No It's like we are all scared that we. Will be turned to the dark side
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' For us, we do not play with bisexual men , and screen carefully for it too ( I have ways of leading the conversation to see how he reacts even if he says he is straight ) - we have safe sex 100% of the times we play with others. In this scene it is risky enough , we consider bi/gay men a higher sexual STD risk and choose to avoid them. We are both straight , non judgemental, accepting , open , but straight. We get told OFTEN that we are just not " ready " to be bi, it could be perhaps , that is because we are straight. Kinda irks me people assume everyone is potentially bi or curious. I love my girlfriends , just never want to fuck them , hubby is the same loves his boy time, but has zero cock interest ) Well said, just because you are open and accepting doesn't mean you are bisexual.
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RHP User
13 years ago
keenWAcouple we are with you If it feels good do it! Every encounter is different.
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team_Pringle
13 years ago
What is the common conensus as to the major differance between being Bi, or Bi Curious............. For Male or Female??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'takemenow69'Agreed .. I have met so many cpls lately where their profile says lady is bi-curious only to find out she's not into women at all .. just a let down & a waste of time .. be honest .. I no longer respond to "bi curious" profiles. Just give me a sexy bisexual woman anyday or night or afternoon or morning hehe xx My sentiments exactly!!! Be honest and be genuine. Kerrie
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '1976bundycouple'What's wrong with you people what are we here for SEX and Fun Does everyone loose their right to say no once between the sheets Who cares if bi or not I am the male half and am bi curious But i have the right to say no If we are in bed with another couple and he is bi and is keen and I'm not I say No It's like we are all scared that we. Will be turned to the dark side Lol been in this situation as well, I think it just comes down to chemisty? Doesnt it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
its colonial masculinity - in other countries like Canada or USA men just do what feels good and labels mean nothing - it's a kind of sexuality that transends being defined to words that are pretty much derogatory in terms of maleness or masculinity. Australian men still get hung up with labels like gay or bi and it seems some still play that infintile game of im straight but you can suck my dick. Australia still has a long way to come with male liberation - in the end who really cares what way you get gratification - you live in a liberal society so take advantge of those freedoms. My best sex was on ships solely dominated by guys - I saw it as sensual rather than sexual
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RHP User
13 years ago
I also think that the bi guys on here, or at least curious, don't put it on their profiles as homophobia is alive and well, judging by some of the profiles I've read. It's funny how you've said straight guys respond to your profile, (maybe curious or happy to sit back and watch the ladies play?), but if a bi guy approaches a couple with a straight guy, whoa, look out, they (the male) usually think MM play is mandatory. There's also a lot of "i'm bi/bi curious" guys, but putting it on their profiles is about as far as they go, lol. Good topic and replies by the way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As in the movie Paul it's a pleasure thang.....I am a bi male with a female bi partner.....pan sexual.....I am comfortable with my sexuality and this is something that we both are looking for yet get straight guys thinking that it's about threesomes MMF...my partner gets turned on heaps watching me suck cock or having my cock sucked ducking or being fucked she also loves having two cocks to play with.........honesty when people respond to profiles is sometimes difficult but with chatting the truth isbest
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RHP User
13 years ago
Those complaining about labels being restrictive have had a Bi experience in the past or are open to Bi play.The only restriction we see is some straight people may not want to play with others who want Bi stuff, and whats wrong with that its their right to choose.
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RHP User
13 years ago
would like to try it some time
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok I'm reading and am still confused about myself I love cock so could never be lesbian but watching a girl being licked turns me on by either a guy or girl. I like to please a woman and a man. I get turned on by ff porno. Then my guy loves anal play with toys but says could never touch or have a guy touch him but its ok for him to have 2 girls going at it not so shore if he would go with a guy if thats what turned me on and I'm not so shore I want to see another guy please my guy just not my thing guess ive been lucky the girls ive been with have all been bi caurious and have been more then willing to get down and dirty but it all confuses me just want to enjoy and not think to much lol maybe I am bisexual need to change my status
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
you just like sex...You can be aroused by something in fantasy that you have no intention of doing in reality (and wouldn't enjoy in reality). It doesn't "mean" anything.Labels are by their nature, restrictive. It is entirely possible that those who consider themselves exclusively "straight" or exclusively "gay" just haven't met the right person of the other gender that presses all their buttons.Being bi does not mean you are equally attracted to both sexes. It does not mean you are automatically attracted to everybody. It does mean that you have/are/will be attracted to people sexually and romantically and they can be either male or female.MS Quoting 'lookingforu4me' Ok I'm reading and am still confused about myself I love cock so could never be lesbian but watching a girl being licked turns me on by either a guy or girl. I like to please a woman and a man. I get turned on by ff porno. Then my guy loves anal play with toys but says could never touch or have a guy touch him but its ok for him to have 2 girls going at it not so shore if he would go with a guy if thats what turned me on and I'm not so shore I want to see another guy please my guy just not my thing guess ive been lucky the girls ive been with have all been bi caurious and have been more then willing to get down and dirty but it all confuses me just want to enjoy and not think to much lol maybe I am bisexual need to change my status
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RHP User
13 years ago
The beauty of life is that we all get to make our own choices. If you choose to always have straight sex and enjoy that then all power to you. If you choose to experiment a little or even a lot, including with the same sex then that is fine too. As long as all are happy and consensual then we are all happy! Whilst I totally respect their view, I would take some issue with one thing DeliciousCplBris have said though and that is that whilst some bisexual men do become involved in 'risky' behaviour (such as unprotected MM anal sex, toilets, beats etc.) many other bisexual men find that behaviour as abhorrent as you do. There are many men who are as 'straight' as you are generally, but will indulge in some 'bi' activity as described in this post as an erotic part of couple play, especially when that behaviour turns the women on! In many instances that is as 'bi' as some men will ever be. Many totally straight men would be a far greater risk, especially those who travel to some overseas countries for regular unprotected straight sex! We are all for everyone making the choices that are right for them and also to make choices that are 'safe', so be informed and cautious but also keep an open mind.
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RHP User
13 years ago
its weird 4 me because ive always wanted 2 try playing with a bloke but i want a woman 2 be there 2 so it doesnt feel gay, i know im not gay because i love women but i want 2 experience sucking a dick and vice versa, i know i could hook up with a bloke so easily but i think i need a woman 2 be there so it doesnt feel so wrong, is it normal 2 think this way or am i strange? sometimes i feel so cocky then i feel shameful 4 thinkin this way?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Serously, man. You're asking this mob what's normal??? Ain't none of us here 'normal'.
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bighorse65
13 years ago
we have experienced male to male and female to female in a foursome situation and found it extremely arousing.our female half is happy to watch 2 men 69ing and the male half is happy to indulge her.does that make him gay ?no.the female also fucks her hubby with a srapon which he enjoys.does that make him gay ?.no.who knows.lol we have found if it feels good enjoy the moment
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RHP User
13 years ago
This thread is perfect for my hubby and I (Hi, we have just joined RHP.) I am seriously bi-curious, never been fortunate enough to be anything other than that. My hubby was bi-curious and although he loves to suck cock, be sucked and give anal he does not like to receive it therefore feels he is not truly bi-sexual. (Reading this thread though there seems to be many degrees to the stereotype).We have been searching for so long for a couple to share with or a girl to join us in the bedroom. Its frustrating. We are a professional couple with a family so time is limited but we simply just don't know how to go about making this happen and SOON! We are in Scarborough QLD, if anyone reads this and is interested! ;)Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Watching porn - watching others doing what we would really really like to do is just getting so blaaaaa (well still kinda hot, but you know what I mean!) :)Anyway hope to hear from you guys.Stay Sexy! Sam
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think alot of men including my hubby feels guilty allowing thoughts of another male enter his head. I dont think there is anything wrong with it, in fact when I found out about my hubby's sexual experiences with another man I found it incredibly erotic! Nothing is weird. Don't let your subconscious hold you back. You only live once, who says you can't experience all the things you wish to.Good luck. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hard to judge without experiencing you would think. Would being turned on by transexual porn be classed as being bicurious or bisexual? or either or?
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
Its taken me while but I finally realised that I am bi ...when a big rough bikie type put his rough hairy hands on my slim thighs and rubbed his ......well I cant kiss and tell he he you can imaginethec rest
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'bi? yea baby! its all good...this bi stuff lol....we have no issue with anyone being bi or wishing to explore bi...male or female....as all it does is widen the choices availalble and ensure that no-one misses out when playing.......we love the 'dynamics' of threesomes, especially with a bi-comfortable, curious, or sexual male....all fun...all good....all happy...... right on guy's, well said :-) AandAXXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
im not big rough bikie type lickandsuck123 but i know you love my little visits, being bi has best of both worlds you would be suprised the amount of straight men who like to let guys give them head without their wifes knowing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'AandAXXX' Quoting 'mikeandshel'bi? yea baby! its all good...this bi stuff lol....we have no issue with anyone being bi or wishing to explore bi...male or female....as all it does is widen the choices availalble and ensure that no-one misses out when playing.......we love the 'dynamics' of threesomes, especially with a bi-comfortable, curious, or sexual male....all fun...all good....all happy...... right on guy's, well said :-) AandAXXX we especially like it when the guy is also 'manly' and 'masculine'......not into boyish or girly bi men........lol...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Quoting 'play3s'Hard to judge without experiencing you would think. Would being turned on by transexual porn be classed as being bicurious or bisexual? or either or? Ide be interested in a females perceptive in whether they condider themselves bi or curious in watching trans porn ??
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totheedgenbck
13 years ago
Being a bi top, i alway try an estabish a level of comfort for everyone concerned
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RHP User
12 years ago
My issue is, I've met "bi guys" and the ones I've met are certainly not my type and I wouldn't want to categories myself as. I'm a manly guy, I work with my hands and drink beer. But I like sharing a cock with my wife. I don't want to kiss a guy and look into there eyes. I'm confident about my sexuality, and if anyone asks I clearly say. "yes sucking cock is hot". A guy you can fuck and suck behind closed doors and then have a beer at the pub with as if nothing happened that's my type of guy. I'm not attracted to guys, it's all about the cock and the added inhibitions they bring into our sexual fantasies. So saying that I'm neither bi or bi curious. Hence there should be a sexual preference option stating. "guys who like cock"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'bhcouple'My issue is, I've met "bi guys" and the ones I've met are certainly not my type and I wouldn't want to categories myself as. I'm a manly guy, I work with my hands and drink beer. But I like sharing a cock with my wife. I don't want to kiss a guy and look into there eyes. I'm confident about my sexuality, and if anyone asks I clearly say. "yes sucking cock is hot". A guy you can fuck and suck behind closed doors and then have a beer at the pub with as if nothing happened that's my type of guy. I'm not attracted to guys, it's all about the cock and the added inhibitions they bring into our sexual fantasies. So saying that I'm neither bi or bi curious. Hence there should be a sexual preference option stating. "guys who like cock"
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RHP User
12 years ago
My feelings exactly
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RHP User
12 years ago
we agree with bhcouple
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'bhcouple'My issue is, I've met "bi guys" and the ones I've met are certainly not my type and I wouldn't want to categories myself as. I'm a manly guy, I work with my hands and drink beer. But I like sharing a cock with my wife. I don't want to kiss a guy and look into there eyes. I'm confident about my sexuality, and if anyone asks I clearly say. "yes sucking cock is hot". A guy you can fuck and suck behind closed doors and then have a beer at the pub with as if nothing happened that's my type of guy. I'm not attracted to guys, it's all about the cock and the added inhibitions they bring into our sexual fantasies. So saying that I'm neither bi or bi curious. Hence there should be a sexual preference option stating. "guys who like cock" this is where we are as well...we like guys who are not outwardly bi/gay or even remotely feminine.... and being able to share a drink or have a casual blokey conversation about bikes, babes or beers, certainly makes the whole experience much more pleasant...where are you guys again? lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's all about boundaries. One of our rules is respect for everyone. All have to say yes to play but only one no ends it. We will respect the touch boundaries of the couple and their sxualities. I don't usually go for couples with the bi-curious lady as I have often found from chatting to them that they don't seem as into women as i am. We don't look at couples with straight females as I want to play with women when we swing. We have done straight swap with a couple at a club, it was ok but not the mind-blowingly erotic experience that bi play gives me. It was more like regular run of the mill sex.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Myself personally i prefer guys over girls but i am not choosey. I love cock and made to take one. With guys i am a girl to girls i am the under preforming guy. I don't dissappoint guys but girls demand too much.
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi there im a bi-curious lady would love to experience another lady, do you reside in Victoria,
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
Rough manly hands. Don't know why bi guys can't have rough manly hands. Oh there are women who work with their hands and are no less women. I have ridden motor bikes worked with my hands drank beer in sleezy out back pubs. done the whole macho bit. sorry still love my lacy nickers. No screaming queen. I guess its hard for some people to truly understand bi Guys . Bi sexual to me means I have a mixed body half female and and half male. My brain is wired that way. I cant make myself gay cause I still enjoy women but sadly I do like my men. A bi guy like me enjoys art, the ballet ; clothing but also getting his hands dirty fixing my motor bike. If a girl works on her car and wears jeans is she less of a women. Some people seem to think a bi male with girlie things is less male. yet a gay guy that plays football and has a big husky voice and drinks beer is all macho. How can that be.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love women, but am open to the thought of a male/male encounter. Like some of the above members I'm not into looking into a guys eyes, or getting touchy feely it's the sexual experience I'm after, not anything else. I work with my hands, enjoy a beer, do heaps of outdoors stuff, love licking pussy and perving on the female form, but who says I have to limit myself to just that? If I feel the need to tick something off the list, I'm going to do it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with bh couple that enjoying another man's or men's cocks during sex can add to the experience. I choose not to initiate but respond favourably to other advances from the other man which is generally suggested by the woman who wants to watch or share.
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
I choose bisexual because straight suggests that I'm not into play with girls, and curious suggests that I'm inexperienced with women, so semantically it's the lesser of three evils, but in reality I'm definitely heteroflexible. I like full contact play with women in a threesome/group situation but one on one play with women doesn't give me the same kind of buzz I get from one on one play with men. Some sites offer the option of more definitions, eg heteroflexible or 'straight but comfortable with bi play', etc and I'd like to see RHP take a less narrow view when it comes to sexuality
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hetro flexible... I love the term Sarah. Cute profile btw
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a bi man, let me say I got over the whole "curious" crap along time ago. I love the no limits fun it can give to a group situation, naked, sweaty horny people living in the moment. If you're not into it then you'renit but for those who leave their issues on the floor (along with their pants) then enjoy letting your hands and mouths explore. It has always suprised me how my fem partners have tried to draw a line around what is "ok". My first partner I opened up to about my previous mm exp was fine with using toys in me and watching gay porn but was never keen on watching me in the act with another fella but a later partner would cum harder by herself just watching me get a face full of cum. Guys I have found are not so concerned with the limits unless their is a homophobic vibe to them. Finally for what it us worth the best head I have ever had was from a guy and the best by a long mile fuck was hearing my normally quiet gf scream in pleasure while riding my cock at the same time my ass was full of anither cock..... ladies you deserve a playdate like that!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mrs is totally bi and enjoys the sensual ministartions of both men and women but in the end she has to have a cock, strap-on or dildo's are ok for playing but real is the only way to go according to her. Mr has had a number of bi experiences but always with couples scene, has never kissed a guy let alone tongued one, is not really into giving oral sex to another guy but gives it a go, happy to recieve from either better if both at the same time. Is more than ok with being a top for a man or woman has not been a bottom yet but has to admit to being curious about it. Were equally happy like most people in our lifestyle to respect limits and boundaries, don't understand the need to reject someone because of what you think they may do!
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RHP User
12 years ago
So very true.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I so deserve that truly!!! :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well you should really have bi top, bi bottom and bi switches. Nothing worse than organizing a MMF bi threesome and they are both bottoms! :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'bi? yea baby! its all good...this bi stuff lol....we have no issue with anyone being bi or wishing to explore bi...male or female....as all it does is widen the choices availalble and ensure that no-one misses out when playing.......we love the 'dynamics' of threesomes, especially with a bi-comfortable, curious, or sexual male....all fun...all good....all happy......
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RHP User
12 years ago
Neither of us want to cross that line of same sex play. If we did we would have to use condoms.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Futurenomads'Neither of us want to cross that line of same sex play. If we did we would have to use condoms. but don't you use condoms for m/f contact anyway? if not...thanks for the heads up ...ok..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Futurenomads'Neither of us want to cross that line of same sex play. If we did we would have to use condoms. but don't you use condoms for m/f contact anyway? if not...thanks for the heads up ...ok.. Your welcome, Trust you have caught on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with all that you say , but there is a lure to try CD and touch another man, which I am curious about. dressing is my pleasure for now , but I feel I am seeking more....
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RHP User
12 years ago
My lovely Vixen is quite happy to go with the whole bi thing whereas I just like going down on a guy sometimes which turns Vixen on no end.We have found that by being "Bi-curious" we still have an extra out of the same sex member of another couple just don't do it for us wheras when we had bi there was the expectation the we would play regardless.Recently we played with a truly lovely couple where he was straight and she was bi-curious. The girls got on like a house on fire and despite him having the nicest package I have seen in a long time we were respectful of their boundaries, temptations or not.I think they need to add heteroflexible to the list.Mark and Vixen
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RHP User
12 years ago
We just don't get it, the old thing keeps popping up. We are not too worried if a bisexual couple refuses us on grounds we are not bi. But most Bi males appear to have a problem when they get refused ....get over it the same as we have to and keep looking.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not so much this post, but generally in society and with quite a few people on here the old stereotype remains. Two girls playing is awesome, two guys is sick. Never been sure why a bisexual male would automatically be considered less safe though. Ironically in days gone bi (sic) society viewed things the other way. Just random thoughts...
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RHP User
11 years ago
The most dangerous form of sex is unprotected male / male / anal sex.
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Bothways72
11 years ago
Such a topical question! I myself, don't actually know what to call myself, as in bi-sexual or bi-curious? I've had many a M/M experience's nearly all of which I've enjoyed. I enjoy sucking cock, I enjoy being sucked, rimmed and also fkd by a guy. However, i'm not attracted to guy's in any way or form. I will alway's choose a female over a male. Yet in the case of a bi MMF 3sum (of which I've only ever had one experience of) I purely wanted to be fkd by the guy whilst I gave oral pleasure to her! So, in a nutshell....i'm confused myself really!!!
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Naughty_nature
11 years ago
Thats whats on my profile I've never touched another man but definitely curious Recently had a woman use a dildo on me can honestly say it didn't do anything for me but still excited by the idea of doibg some thibgs with a man.- Posted from rhpmobile
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zoe69r
11 years ago
well im bi and proud of it , i also xdress as well and love doing that as well . as for being bi i love to suck on a lovely cock and look into the wifes eyes as i do so and just tease the hell out of her or even offer the cock to her only to pull it away from her at the last second , lol im a total tease
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RHP User
11 years ago
Happy bi guy who loves girls and loves to receive cock, would love to be watched taking it too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I too had suspicions not all 'bi-curious' women have real, GENUINE attraction to other women...although I was way, way too scared to raise the point, considering I am a young, single male. Would have been torn to shreds if I made a similar post
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RHP User
11 years ago
You're right though! So many profiles say the female half of a couple has "always fantasized about touching a woman" or "would like to try it, to see how it feels". I usually wonder if they would ever try it a second time. Profiles like that are a no for me, because I would not be thrilled if a woman changed her mind five minutes in.
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