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Calling all oldet men.
August 04 2014
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Seachange
10 years ago
Uh-hmmm. watching this with interest while eating my Quinoa salad during my lunchbreak.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mature guys thoughts - I guess the biggest difference between older and younger is initial physical appearance, but having said that, I think its more about understanding. And clearly some both old and young don't get it. Younger guys and I'm sure they will argue the point appear to be more arrogant and cocky (no pun intended), gym junkies who believe their Adonis bodies should be worshipped rather than know how to pleasure a lady and using her erogenous zones to bring her to the edge.. They treat ladies with minimal respect and appear to just want to get their end in with little thought to the ladies needs or wants. Some mature guys still have some values, still put the needs of the lady first, know how and where to touch a lady and want the lady to enjoy herself such that she'll be wanting for more. It's only my personal opinion,if you don't agree I can live with that, but it would be good to see some debate both ways.
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spaparty
10 years ago
Spend more time on you ,than the iPhone.:)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Tongue in check ,I am one,but not at heart! Stable ,experienced should be able to please a women by now lol Can be seduced not just f##ked ,probably take you out to dine,enjoy company Not maccas,quickly done no satisfaction! Want to get to know you as a lady not a body part or too probably depends where female is at (in life) Sure you can both I suppose xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I asked nicely :) (Hope you're enjoying your lunchbreak, lily. We've got beautiful sunshine out here today. Spring's just around the corner. Can't wait!) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think that life experience has to count for something. From my perspective, I feel too many men use a woman's vagina as a masturbation tool, concerned primarily for their own pleasure. A truly rewarding sexual relationship in whatever form, is about mutual pleasure. A man must give as good as he wants to receive. I believe we older guys understand that a woman does need a more intimate contact even if it is only a 'casual' event, unless the passions run wild and take over. I enjoy taking time to pleasure a woman, it's a turn on watching her body pulse and tremble to my touch, seeing in her face the contorted but beautiful agony. I won't cum until she does and if she doesn't and gives up (which has happened) I will talk about it to try and find another way to give the pleasure. I am no saint but respect is a must. We older guys know our way around a woman's body (or should do) and can pause when a good spot is found and work on it. I am not saying younger men don't know these things, I am just answering the question. This is a good topic Qefenta3 and I ask in return why don't women think that older men have anything to offer sexually? I am relatively new here and if I do a search for "women looking for me" over 100 pages are available! yet I have sent about 20 messages/flirts and received only one reply. This suggests to me insincerity on the part of a lot of women, it only takes seconds to reply. It seems that older men are not on the radar. (To be continued)
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RHP User
10 years ago
older men know how to please a women
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Plain
10 years ago
It is no longer the wam bam thank you and out the door. Turning someone on is most of the fun the older you get some times you can be the teaser rather than be the teased. That is only if you choose that path as an older guy pleasure is the fun part now giving as much or more is even better. The other aspect is and this is the frustrating part taking the time to learn about your partner, sometimes the chemistry is there from the initial meet, sometimes it takes a while to develop this chemistry and not to put to fine a point on it an encounter can be over multiple meets rather than the lets get into it mode. Or if you are lucky enough a whole weekend and evening to really explore each other in mind as well as physically, alas that is my dream and one that cant be entertained in my constrained circumstances.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can you start a thread on why a young hottie would go for 98 year old lady lol. We are genuine, you have to ask your self thou why are there so many young hotties out there for you ladies. Without sounding judgemental there seems to be an inbalance going on here, Would you normally attract that attention in main stream life. Or is it because there is an over supply of young hotties on RHP that us old men do not have much of a chance lol. But if you are willing to give an old man ago i am sure he would appreciate it
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u' I asked nicely :) (Hope you're enjoying your lunchbreak, lily. We've got beautiful sunshine out here today. Spring's just around the corner. Can't wait!) - Posted from rhpmobile went for a quick walk and back in the office just doing lots of 'Interesting' reading, no not the forum but work related....Lol. coffee breaks ae always welcome when head swimming in torrent of info when doing research tasks.... A good laugh from forum members' post really breaks the monotony of reading 'exciting' material. Haha. keep posting gorgeous mature men... we are watching you...
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'playalone' Without sounding judgemental there seems to be an inbalance going on here, Would you normally attract that attention in main stream life. Or is it because there is an over supply of young hotties on RHP that us old men do not have much of a chance lol. But if you are willing to give an old man ago i am sure he would appreciate it Posting a picture would certainly serve you a better chance of attracting a playmate than the grey ghost you have and you wonder if you have a chance? Nobody responds to a male profile with grey ghost so you might want to change your profile. I know I for one would not, and I know a lot of women wont.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'playalone' Without sounding judgemental there seems to be an inbalance going on here, Would you normally attract that attention in main stream life. Or is it because there is an over supply of young hotties on RHP that us old men do not have much of a chance lol. But if you are willing to give an old man ago i am sure he would appreciate it Posting a picture would certainly serve you a better chance of attracting a playmate than the grey ghost you have and you wonder if you have a chance? Nobody responds to a male profile with grey ghost so you might want to change your profile. I know I for one would not, and I know a lot of women wont. Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'playalone' Without sounding judgemental there seems to be an inbalance going on here, Would you normally attract that attention in main stream life. Or is it because there is an over supply of young hotties on RHP that us old men do not have much of a chance lol. But if you are willing to give an old man ago i am sure he would appreciate it Posting a picture would certainly serve you a better chance of attracting a playmate than the grey ghost you have and you wonder if you have a chance? Nobody responds to a male profile with grey ghost so you might want to change your profile. I know I for one would not, and I know a lot of women wont. I was not asking for your advise,I was answering the ops question how did my profile come into it???
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
The guys have already covered the topic pretty well, so not going to re-run the lot. More pertinent perhaps, if you have to ask the question, then it may appear you haven't properly availed yourself of the opportunities present on site. (?) Otherwise, the answer should be apparent. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'playalone' But if you are willing to give an old man ago i am sure he would appreciate it I don't think there's any doubt in Q's mind that HE would appreciate it. I think she asking what's in it for the women...
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RHP User
10 years ago
You forgot to add intelligent and articulate... a pity you don't live closer.......Play alone,I receive messages from25 year olds whose fetish is much older women.....tonight 9.30 on channel nine is a documentary about a female escort who is over 80 years old....her clients apparently are mainly in their twenties.... Go figure :-) xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
She was mentioned last week at work she commands $200 per hour go granny.Thanks for the heads up ill be watching that for sure.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The older guys are better at it than us younger guys..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whats in it for the women... I cant answer for all men but she would have to try it all out to see if she receives what they are offering. You do not know what it is going to be like unless you give it a go. I have a lot of partners when i was younger i found some of the best fun i had was from people not on my radar ,right out of the blue.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Tell me, my fair ladyIs there anything wrong with me?Why, there's a fish in your pocket, SirAnd the salty smell of the sea." pause "oh, and you are old as well" longer pause "and married" Obi1
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RHP User
10 years ago
In praise of the older man: 1. You won't be embarrassed to be seen in public with us. 2. You won't find out we went to school with one of your children. 3. We can actually hold a conversation on topics you can relate to. 4. Highly unlikely we will spend the entire date with our iPhone instead of you. 5. We won't go and brag to our mates at the pub how we just scored an easy cougar! 6. You won't be just another notch on the bedpost, hell we might even rock up for a repeat performance! 7. We know there is more to life than just a quick fuck and scoot. 8. We won't be horrified if we find out you are a GILF instead of a MILF! 9. We understand if you need your space, hell so do we! 10. We rarely make promises we can't keep, we know our limitations lol Of course that is all a moot point, we will always lose out to a young stud with a six pack, just as we will always be there to pick up the pieces and offer a sympathetic ear afterwards :-D Mooka
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RHP User
10 years ago
Most of these replies are the same reasons why I do not prefer the under 30's. And I know it's a generalization but there you go. Thank you to all the fents who have replied you make our day ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a high price to pay for wisdom..Mooka got the lowdown pretty good there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think that's why I feel more irritated when I get a typical "wanna fuck" message from an older man, whereas if it's from someone younger I just shrug it off. Sometimes I do reply with "You are old enough to know better"
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Missb4u
10 years ago
This forum is brilliant! It's so nice to hear from you all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
☜ I have an older mans brains with a younger mans body :D Dangit! now where did I put ma damn keys :S
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RHP User
10 years ago
For what my opinion is worth, and it may well sound much like many of the other blokes who post here... I can use experience as a big draw card. One thing you never do, is stop learning and a wise man knows that every littler piece of information, no matter how insignificant, is like a dollar in the bank of 'experience'. True, some may not have the same level of experience than others. Some may have been married to the same lady for 35 years and not know much more about 'women' (plural) than when he married at 20. But some of us have managed to turn misfortune (divorce, death) into an advantage. If we're given a chance, we can demonstrate our realization and knowledge and show how much we appreciate a lady that is satisfied and happy and believe me when I say, you'll be paid back 100 fold for so little effort. Read, or these days, go online, read Cosmo, WW and the things they read... Find out what it is that makes a lady tick and use what you find out, not to take advantage, but to give joy. That's when you'll know how much a woman is really worth. Yep, it is experience, but it's also how it's applied and what you do with the things you learn... The best and surest way to learn, old or young, is to ask the lady herself. Believe me, if you take the time to ask, they will tell you exactly what you want to know... All you need do is give joy with what you learn rather than take advantage with it. And don't EVER forget, they are very savvy human beings and they know FAR more than most inexperienced men might think. They DO ALSO HAVE an intuition that does serve them well, so forget the bullshit... It won't work. Physically, there is a big difference between a 30 yo and a 50 yo, but basically apart from maybe a bit more muscle and a little less hair, maybe, all the bits work exactly the same. In fact, an older man with a solid build can be as muscular as a slimmer man half his age, that doesn't exercise. SO, ladies, you'll find that those men who are say, around 45 or more, will more than likely be making the extra effort to make sure they present as well as they can... I think, in general, they may be more inclined to put 'maximum' effort into how they present themselves in all ways. I've always been a very clean person and I also like to smell great for a lady... Not advertising... Just telling it as I see it. It's just MY personal opinion about what I have experienced over a long time. Take it any way that suits you... But one thing I can promise, not about myself, but about older men in general (I'm talking 45 - 60 or there abouts...). You'll be surprised and I think maybe pleasantly. But we all have our tastes and I don't think anything that's said here will change preferences... I'm just answering the question.... Hopefully, helpfully. I wouldn't go the way of saying that some younger blokes haven't discovered a lot of what we have found over time... There may well be and probably are a number of wonderful young men who would be an absolute delight and surprise to a lady. I'm just saying that there are some older blokes who would be as much of a surprise... Ta
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Youth is wasted on the young..." as they say.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' The older guys are better at it than us younger guys..... - Posted from rhpmobile There's a good boy.... LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' The older guys are better at it than us younger guys..... - Posted from rhpmobile There's a good boy.... LOL Quoting 'mooka' In praise of the older man: 1. You won't be embarrassed to be seen in public with us. 2. You won't find out we went to school with one of your children. 3. We can actually hold a conversation on topics you can relate to. 4. Highly unlikely we will spend the entire date with our iPhone instead of you. 5. We won't go and brag to our mates at the pub how we just scored an easy cougar! 6. You won't be just another notch on the bedpost, hell we might even rock up for a repeat performance! 7. We know there is more to life than just a quick fuck and scoot. 8. We won't be horrified if we find out you are a GILF instead of a MILF! 9. We understand if you need your space, hell so do we! 10. We rarely make promises we can't keep, we know our limitations lol Of course that is all a moot point, we will always lose out to a young stud with a six pack, just as we will always be there to pick up the pieces and offer a sympathetic ear afterwards :-D Mooka Well done mate... Seems to be a lot of older blokes coming out of the woodwork... Good Stuff. I like it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'playalone' She was mentioned last week at work she commands $200 per hour go granny.Thanks for the heads up ill be watching that for sure. My Granny the Escort is on TV tonight. She is a British woman. I should watch it and get some tips.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Their hearing aids go flat..... They run out of Viagra...... Their taxi card has expired and they get a flat tyre on the scooter.... :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' In praise of the older man: 1. You won't be embarrassed to be seen in public with us. 2. You won't find out we went to school with one of your children. 3. We can actually hold a conversation on topics you can relate to. 4. Highly unlikely we will spend the entire date with our iPhone instead of you. 5. We won't go and brag to our mates at the pub how we just scored an easy cougar! 6. You won't be just another notch on the bedpost, hell we might even rock up for a repeat performance! 7. We know there is more to life than just a quick fuck and scoot. 8. We won't be horrified if we find out you are a GILF instead of a MILF! 9. We understand if you need your space, hell so do we! 10. We rarely make promises we can't keep, we know our limitations lol Of course that is all a moot point, we will always lose out to a young stud with a six pack, just as we will always be there to pick up the pieces and offer a sympathetic ear afterwards :-D Mooka pretty much my thoughts a well
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RHP User
10 years ago
A women my age or older to consider me let alone a younger one to. I think I'll it back and try to get some pointers on this, maybe some white pointers......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I'm fastly approaching the 45 mark, I'm 44 on sunday ☺ I tend to take the approach I am what I am can't fudge it, take it or leave it, but I can hold a conversation and converse with people lol as I sit hear on my galaxy ☺texting my reply !!! Haha humour not looks cause they diminished a while ago. All the best from the nearly 45 gentleman - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'playalone' She was mentioned last week at work she commands $200 per hour go granny.Thanks for the heads up ill be watching that for sure. My Granny the Escort is on TV tonight. She is a British woman. I should watch it and get some tips. go for it I say. What a way to supplement your pension...chances are there will be no pension by the time we retire soooo gotta have a back up plan...LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will be the granny with the massive strapon. Nonna Strap. Just gotta make sure my private health insurance covers hip replacements.
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Mmm You say young hottie, I might be an old hottie. I have experience, a knowledge of the finer things in life, I like Robert Frost poetry, I can talk without texting, I believe that conversation is a turn on, that one needs to stop & smell the roses occasionally. I believe that women are the great undiscovered joy of this world. Each their own treasure. Its a question of do you want young fast food or A La Carte.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' You forgot to add intelligent and articulate... a pity you don't live closer.......Play alone,I receive messages from25 year olds whose fetish is much older women.....tonight 9.30 on channel nine is a documentary about a female escort who is over 80 years old....her clients apparently are mainly in their twenties.... Go figure :-) xQ I was going to watch that and I missed it!
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RHP User
10 years ago
and we ordinary women will always lose to a hot sexy female. Its the same on both sides.....I like older men and no young men can convince me otherwise...I am just so into the ripe Men between 45-62....yes he has to be attractive to ME what ever this means ......still to say we ordinary females have it as hard as you males. I cant bend like a brezel, my back hurts, I have bad leg and I am round, swinging from the Chandelier will only rip it out of the ceiling, and last but not least, my legs are short and stumpy......so......I have to compete.....when you will call it like this with women.....who have long slender legs bodies to die for and corsets or high heels.....what competition :( Ok I am not complaining.......I make up in other ways.......when you try to meet me.....but ohh would I like to be for once a hot chick.......just to see how men drool over me. Sorry Guys for interring this Forum it was for you......bloody woman I am.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MeAgain7'read Cosmo, WW No woman over about 30 reads Cosmo other than to make fun of it Personally I hate most women's magazines and the drivel they contain but that's me. Guys, your best bet to finding out about women...is to talk to them.
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madotara69
10 years ago
fizzing at the bung, Miss Q, do I have to wait two weeks, or is the cusp close enough? Mado Mado Tara xx
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Damn near hit it on the head with your list - well done ! Sir Stir ... Until ...I don't have / need a hearing aid (can probably hear better than you)Certainly DON'T need Viagra or any other stimulantsHave a perfectly serviceable set of wheels to get me around (don't need an airport to turn my rig around) I know you were being sarcastic mate , but don't forget that in the blink of an eye you will be joining us, as will many of the ladies who presently don't give it a thought either. When both you 'younger' men and ladies join the club, don't forget you will also still want to be loved and cherished for being who you are, and what you have to offer through your years of built up knowledge. Tall
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' I think that's why I feel more irritated when I get a typical "wanna fuck" message from an older man, whereas if it's from someone younger I just shrug it off. Sometimes I do reply with "You are old enough to know better" Your profile states that you are looking for guys up to 45, so 'older' is only 1 year older than yourself. A little contrary to your reply perhaps ? Just thinking about it .... Tall
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Pleasure_Master
10 years ago
Over the years we have found our fetishes and know exactly what we like - and have spend considerable time refining our techniques to enjoy them as much as possible. It's like everything - (perfect) practice makes perfect. And we have had the time to build an impressive toy collection! And he with the most toys always wins! - lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am a 39 yr old woman in a relationship with an older man. I have had the young hottie as it is put in this thread, and can honestly say that with an older man you get the respect and understanding that comes with age, as well as someone who puts your needs above their own. I found the young hottie just wants notches on the bed post with no or little regard for the needs of others unless you really fight for it. And if you have to fight for it then it isn't right, it should be given as well as received. My man accepts me for who I am and doesn't try to change me for his whims. There is no jealousy when I have the need for a woman and I have no jealousy for his needs for another woman either. He always makes sure the pleasure is shared around before his needs are completed if they get completed. I would take an older man any day over a young hottie because I have been shown that with an older man and I dare say a gentleman, that a woman and her needs ALWAYS come first. Neenie
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RHP User
10 years ago
For those who missed this programme last night it's available on channel 9's catch up TV - Jump-in. Hats off to the 85 year old!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wouldn't it be interesting having one on male escorts of the older generation? Hmmmmm.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'MeAgain7'read Cosmo, WW No woman over about 30 reads Cosmo other than to make fun of it Their recent "28 lesbian sex positions" article that landed on my Facebook wall was so bad it was hilarious!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Am I alone on weekend nights. And why is my inbox empty - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Long_time_lovers' For those who missed this programme last night it's available on channel 9's catch up TV - Jump-in. Hats off to the 85 year old!! The episode about elderly female escorts can also be found in full on Youtube, just type in My granny the escort. It's the 46 minute video.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi all the old saying ( now it takes all night to do what I use to do all night ) is true only in the fact that I want to make love as long as I can and make sure my partners enjoyment comes before me. Age is only a label experience comes from life and a mind set dealing with problems and people. Now I'm a better lover then in my younger years and enjoy myself so much more it may be the fact I don't have to prove that I'm the best that she has had or I'm more relaxed and caring. A wise oldman once tolled me when I was in my youth that your not a man till your forty which stuck in my mind because I thought I was already looking back now he was so right anyway to all of us old farts KEEP STIFF - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Age has nothing to do with anything . I think open minded people would agree someone is shaped due to their life experiences. If your willing to learn and face adversity then this is where you will learn and grow . A 25 year old could have been through more than some 50 year olds and vice versa . Everyone is made up differently and that's why it's key to be mature but a kid at heart and learn from any hard experiences . I have been through so much in my life that I have seen it all . Does it make me street smarter ... Yes . Does it make me have more common sense .... Yes . Does it now make me aware of my surroundings .... Yes . I was brought up by a single woman , a strong woman . She gave me many advantages and one of those was old school lessons. So learn , grow as that what shapes you in the bedroom and outside in the real world - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Think it might b abit stereotypical about the whole gym junkie or technological factor as well as the "fucking" notion and not making love or seduction. I can say first hand. I am not like that. My aim is to always pleasure a woman by seduction or flirting or whatever means that can satisfy her mentally and physically. Guess i might be abit of a rare breed. But i do look upto older men and their actions towarda a female and i alqays strive to be like that and not some young technology based airhead - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Those who think they have no time for bodily exercise will sooner or later have to find time for illness. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
hi i am in my 60s and with a very attractive lady only 37 i am no oil painting but know how to treat a woman social and other wise where one of the readers said half the age add 7 workswe have been together for 3 years getting married this year have a beautiful daughterthe first question she asked me was hope you are not like the younger guyswam bam thank you mam the old saying young dumb and full of cumshe says i give her the feeling of love and companionship that young ones cant or dont know how to givei have a few fiends of same age that are feeling the same waythis is no offence to the younger ones but if you only stopped thinking with your cocki used to when younger and guess a lot hasnt changedgo get them old fellas
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RHP User
10 years ago
Older men ME LIKEY!!!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well i must say one thing its not the age that counts its what's in your soul n not all older males are dead at 50 plus heheAs I'm 54 yrs old an i can still backup a good night n time with no problems n plus i can please the woman I'm with so it really boils down to what do females want someone that looks hot an can going a cpl hrs or someone older that can go all night n still show respect in the morning .
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RHP User
10 years ago
Was going to make a profound and articulate statement about the virtues of us older men ,,,, but my memory fails me ,,,, age ,,,, it's a bummer :-p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing wrong with younger Men per se, perhaps they are a little more self centred but that can also be seen as a generalisation. However having been both (a younger man and now a more mature one) I would say that nothing beats experience. Time = maturity, patience, respect, courtesy and knowing how to please and taking your time. That's not to say you don't get that from a younger dude but this post wouldn't even be here if some women thought that younger guys could give all that and more. And if the older gent keeps in good shape then you get all the stuff that you would expect to get from a younger guy like stamina and adventure plus the confidence to be a good lover. The main thing I would say personally about the difference is that these days I am a LOT more creative and comfortable to try new things to make it fun and sexy... D. Xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well to be honest Qefenta3 I have found Ive already been put in the too old basket. A few ladies I've met in their late 30's early 40's have gone full blown cougar and said I'm not young enough for them.......shattered will I need a Zimmer frame soon. I still keep in reasonable shape so I am a little perplexed. To answer your question though I think the word your looking for is respect. The younger lads are too busy running around chalking up numbers and sowing their seed at every opportunity. An older man has more of an appreciation for a beautiful lady and although the mind blowing sex that comes with experience is great, being treated like a lady rather than a piece if meat should take precedence I would have thought...although sorry to say not having much luck lately. Is chivalry dead due to the ladies ignoring it or I am just completely hopeless with my approach?????? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
OMG. you sound so wise beyond your years. What you said is true and make you so sexy in my mind. Lol. Thanks for the twinge. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is my belief that age does not matter, as the smile on her face is what really counts. In meeting some women of various ages, they have intrigued me in different ways, some in their sexiness, some in their ability to hold a great conversation or debate but also have been able to stimulate those muscles we use to smile. I would have thought that this option is also available in men. Some guys are just wankers and others are the real McCoy. The maturity stick only get thrown around by ones parent/ parents and it is them that teach a man to respect a woman and treat her the way she would like to be treated. Smile it's great to be alive......... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
I'm going to sound like Mr Braggy Boy here, but this illustrates the point I'm making..... Last year I teamed up for about six months with a girl of 23. Met through mutual friends and all that. Physically we were really good together, and she couldn't stop going on about how good I was. I learnt what terms like 'totes' and 'amazeballs' meant too! This went on for about six weeks, then the lightbulb went off and I said 'Hang on, up till now you've just had some young punk jackhammer you for two minutes, then piss off, haven't you?' And she said, 'Totes.' I think we learn about our bodies better as we get older, and how other people's bodies too. And Mooka - +1 buddy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sure there's lots of advantages of us older men but there are some disadvantages. Like, we grow hair where we shouldn't and it doesn't grow where it should. Nana naps aren't a luxury they're a necessity. I had a few more but they have slipped my mind atm...oh yeah! we can be a bit forgetful.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks lily that's very nice of you and someone that is clearly well beyond their years too ... Pity your in Melbourne . I would hope a lot of people can read what I wrote and take note because it's something that I have always thought about . Life defines you and we don't define life . If it throws us a curve ball we learn and grow from the experience and boy haven't I had some bad ones lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
For some of the younger demographic that have expressed that they are at their sexual prowess at the tender age they currently are, consider this: most of us old farts were in the same situation at that age, but we have had a couple of decades to even improve on that! lol Mooka
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' and we ordinary women will always lose to a hot sexy female. Its the same on both sides.....I like older men and no young men can convince me otherwise...I am just so into the ripe Men between 45-62....yes he has to be attractive to ME what ever this means ......still to say we ordinary females have it as hard as you males. I cant bend like a brezel, my back hurts, I have bad leg and I am round, swinging from the Chandelier will only rip it out of the ceiling, and last but not least, my legs are short and stumpy......so......I have to compete.....when you will call it like this with women.....who have long slender legs bodies to die for and corsets or high heels.....what competition :( Ok I am not complaining.......I make up in other ways.......when you try to meet me.....but ohh would I like to be for once a hot chick.......just to see how men drool over me. Sorry Guys for interring this Forum it was for you......bloody woman I am. Litonya, I am sorry if I came across condescending, it wasn't meant to be like that. I know that the more mature woman here often has the same problems as us old farts and some of us old farts are probably the problem! But you must agree that there is a good percentage of women on this site, no matter what their age is, that consider any male over lets say 45 is a no go area. Good luck to them I say, if they want the young guy I sincerely hope they succeed. Same goes for the guy my age who is after the 20 something girl, if they can do it, well done to them. I think what upsets most of the older guys that have responded to this thread is we don't even get a look in, as soon as we send a message it is either ignored or deleted simply because the respondent saw our age. It does wear thin after a while lol Mooka
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RHP User
10 years ago
After reading all of these posts, I think I may have go into my profile and raise my age a tad.
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Newday10
10 years ago
Well I'm more interested in pleasuring than been pleasured , willing to spend the time for both to enjoy . Not interested in getting my rocks off as quick as possible to get down the pub to brag to your mates that comes with maturity . Woman that want quality need to find a mature unselfish lover !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Doesn't matter what the old boys say all you women just want is the young toy boys to make yourselves feel better. At least with mature guys we know or most of us know how to treat a lady's body with some respect and can pleasure you without worrying about how we look in the mirror. A majority of young boys will have the mentality that every hole is a goal and not care to much about the lady's feelings. In saying that most of you women will still turn to the little fellas ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
My comments didn't come through in my last post but I agree with Mooka. I think we might be being overlooked because of our age, but that is just a number. People age differently. I take good care of my body. I notice some women on here who are older than me look much younger than their age and I wouldn't overlook them just because of that. What can older men offer? Experience and respect are the two biggies I think. Men can be like fine wine!
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lovman8
10 years ago
Now I am am a genuine older man, (not one of these 40 or 50 year old young'uns) and I feel qualified to clearly state the advantages of us older gentlemen 1) We are experienced and hard....................ah hang on , I'll get back to this one 2)We're good at ..........no on second thoughts perhaps not as good as we used to be 3) We are definitely.........oops that's not an advantage If you can get a young hottie why the heck would you bother with us old perverts? And come to think of it WTF am I doing on this site at my age??????????
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'MeAgain7'read Cosmo, WW No woman over about 30 reads Cosmo other than to make fun of it Personally I hate most women's magazines and the drivel they contain but that's me. Guys, your best bet to finding out about women...is to talk to them. Not interested in what women under 30 read, just an example so MEN knew what I was trying to say... But when I did read it, they did too... My point was... "Get the information from wherever it is"... And did I not say "especially" to get it from the women themselves....?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I,m in the older age bracket but know how to satisfy a woman after a nice dinner. Good sex lasts for hours but great sex lasts all night!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whatever it is that women over 30 read now (who were the under 30's when I was doing most of the learning). It was simple example for the sake of 'example'... Of course, I agree and have learnt things from everywhere but I have to admit that, your advice as well as mine, was "get it from other women";.. Although some men may not have the opportunity. Then... If I'd mentioned 'Betina Arndt' (spelling?)... Someone else would think that was crap!!! I don't know if women HERE think she is worthwhile listening to (in her books, not TV which is censored), but it's a course to start... Something to bounce of someone and expand on...
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RHP User
10 years ago
lol I was not offended...I just wanted to make a point.....its not only men......I am fine with what I attract, I hope I didnt sound like a POOR OLD ME. I wanted to say it in a fun way thats how I see it. You did a good job explaining it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' For some of the younger demographic that have expressed that they are at their sexual prowess at the tender age they currently are, consider this: most of us old farts were in the same situation at that age, but we have had a couple of decades to even improve on that! lol Mooka OMG Mooka, maybe I could turn for you, that might be easier! JUST KIIIDDDDIIINNNGGG!
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On_Safari
10 years ago
You sexy silver tongued fox you!! Atleast the boys know now that some of them may improve with the tender passing of the years......xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'fitzcok' Think it might b abit stereotypical about the whole gym junkie or technological factor as well as the "fucking" notion and not making love or seduction. I can say first hand. I am not like that. My aim is to always pleasure a woman by seduction or flirting or whatever means that can satisfy her mentally and physically. Guess i might be abit of a rare breed. But i do look upto older men and their actions towarda a female and i alqays strive to be like that and not some young technology based airhead - Posted from rhpmobile I saw the comment and it didn't upset me because I am not in your category, but I was at your age (playing footy, so gym was necessary). So know that you've brought it up, I know where you're coming from mate... I always try to qualify my comments and not generalize and pick out any group or individual... Hate to upset anyone, but I don't think the member's comment was meant as an insult or a 'generalisation'. I think I said (too lazy to look back), that there may well be young men who are 'pleasantly surprising' (or words to that effect. I think we all know that all younger blokes aren't obsessed with themselves and don't give a shit about women. I like to think things improve as time goes on and taboos and information is made available to all (so you don't have to spend 30 years learning something that should be natural... I hope, especially with the information available online now, this is what's happening and there are many like yourself.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is an amalgam of a great article I found on Fetlife a few weeks ago with my own personal interpolation thrown in. The article was written by a woman in her 40’s and is therefore from a more mature perspective rather than a younger woman’s perspective (which would raise seperate issues about Electra complexes). In short, it all comes down to Darwin’s theory of evolution, those who adapt the best succeed. In the present case, the younger men include duds, diamonds in the rough and true gems, but by the time men reach their 40’s, only the most successful adapters are still in the game.The man in his 40’s has 20+ years’ experience to call upon to satisfy any need before the woman even knows she has it.That is years of seeing best laid plans go wrong, unexpected improvisations turn into hits, testing cause and effect on willing participants until the mature men have honed their skills to a fine art just waiting for you.A woman wants to enjoy the fruits of the education which he has received from the other women before her, not be his crash test dummy.And he if hasn’t learnt that by his 40’s, he will be quickly discarded for a superior product. So a warning to the young men to use their experiences wisely so that they too can be 40 something men some day. It is an exalted status to aspire to.The physiological is only the start because the lion's share of sex is psychological. Here is where the 40 + silver fox shines like a beacon in the bleakness of the night. No one does the psychology of sex better than a man in his 40's. He is generally so adept with a woman's anatomy by the time he reaches this age that he can find and navigate a clit like it is his own appendage. However, not only is he dexterous, but this is a man who is master of the female brain. On a woman’s puffiest, most bloated day, he will convince her that she is a goddess sent to earth just for his benefit. Younger men don’t have the patience, and move on to greener/easier pastures rather than do the hard yards. The 40 something guy is horny, but he has also figured out he's in no hurry to get laid. He knows how to play a woman's mind like a violin, and to lay the groundwork so she sticks around. He has done this mental dance so many times before. He knows that "you look nice" is not enough. Only "You're stunning" with a flash of smouldering eyes will suffice.To begin with, a man in his 20's, as the author laments, often cums too soon.Despites boasts/assurances to the contrary, as a general age group, statistically, a younger man has a more sensitive penis and cannot hold out for as long as an older guy. On the flip side, the younger male might be able to get it back up sooner and more often than the 40 something, but a woman only needs a man to get it up once, hold it until she cums and then get it back up once more. That second round is where he holds it up eternally for as many times as she feels like cumming and then we both fall asleep, possibly one more satisfied than the other.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had 2 wives that were older than me, now divorced most girls I had were younger and never had one complaint, ages ranged from 26- 52 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's the mention of a "young hottie" and "hot sexy woman" but there are a lot of older guys who are hotties as well as cuties (which, in my opinion, a cutie has just as much sex appeal, if not more, than a hottie) and older women can't be hot and sexy? Regardless of age, everyone has different things to offer sexually, physically, emotionally and intellectually. It's not about age, it's about individuality that counts. Having said that, I'll contradict what I said and mention many of us do have limits to age brackets where others may not. I must be getting tired. I'm rambling. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
everyone was younger once and everyone will become that person they now call old. It's your mental outlook that counts. If you take time to stay in shape, dress to your personality type and ignore being sterotyped by the immature, you won't go wrong.. There are too many age phobic people here who feel it's OK to talk down anyone older than themself.. Personally ' I was blessed and inherited my mothers good gene's, looking younger is a family thing.
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hardnslow
10 years ago
I have been on this site for 10 years. I have met some fun, outrageous, sexy, funny, entertaining, did I say sexy? women. I was told tonight for the first time that "I am looking for someone younger" yet I met the age requirements on her profile, BUT at least she answered my email, thankyou lol. Why should you look at an older opps wrong word more experienced gentleman ? that says it all, I rest my case. oxoxoxo
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RHP User
10 years ago
Take their time in making sure the woman is pleased before taking his own pleasure. I can see all the older men out there reading this are nodding their heads in agreement. But I'm pretty sure the reason they take their time is because they're old and they forget what it was they started doing 5 minutes ago LOL *jokes* ;) I personally prefer older men too. The love of my life is a decade older than me. Best lover ever! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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naughtyjill2
10 years ago
Men I just love them,yumm clean,fit, well spoken, respectful of my needs as well as me of theirs, send them to me any age, one guy who was 73, had one the best cocks I have ever sucked,
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RHP User
10 years ago
A few random thoughts ....In praise of the older man: 1. You won't be embarrassed to be seen in public with us. 2. You won't find out we went to school with one of your children. 3. We can actually hold a conversation on topics you can relate to. 4. Highly unlikely we will spend the entire date with our iPhone instead of you. 5. We won't go and brag to our mates at the pub how we just scored an easy cougar! 6. You won't be just another notch on the bedpost, hell we might even rock up for a repeat performance! 7. We know there is more to life than just a quick fuck and scoot. 8. We won't be horrified if we find out you are a GILF instead of a MILF! 9. We understand if you need your space, hell so do we! 10. We rarely make promises we can't keep, we know our limitations lol Of course that is all a moot point, we will always lose out to a young stud with a six pack, just as we will always be there to pick up the pieces and offer a sympathetic ear afterwards :-D Mooka Right on the money on this one. Tim
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RHP User
10 years ago
is this all true we women write? Why in your opinion are older men then overseen in the world of RHP.....as so many say? What do you think my sisters out there? Is it, they dont put a picture up? Is it ,they use photos who are 10 years old? Is it ,say state married on it? Maybe its time we said it. I like rip men, I think this types of men are just so yummy, nice and comfortable to be around. But why are these men get so less attention on from us? And many even have to lie on there profile about the age they are?. I mean it must be us who reject them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I guess from a older guys point of view I may show much more honest respect to a lady's or couples needs then the younger guys... Sure over 40 but very young at heart :) I'd love to meet a friend before a root???
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cows if u like. Young bull says to old bull lets run down the hill and fuk a cow. Old bull says no son lets walk down the hill and fuk them all...
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' is this all true we women write? Why in your opinion are older men then overseen in the world of RHP.....as so many say? What do you think my sisters out there? Is it, they dont put a picture up? Is it ,they use photos who are 10 years old? Is it ,say state married on it? Maybe its time we said it. I like rip men, I think this types of men are just so yummy, nice and comfortable to be around. But why are these men get so less attention on from us? And many even have to lie on there profile about the age they are?. I mean it must be us who reject them. Very nicely written, my lady. Last night I was pondering some of the replies to this topic, and was wondering how many ladies would now give us the time of day. The lads have put forward many worthwhile thoughts in their postings, and now begins the waiting to see how many of the ladies would now say "gee, it really is worthwhile to get together with an older gent, about time I did something about it". Alas, I fear that simply will not come to be. To paraphrase Mooka, we will now be perennially forgotten about again as we all sail into the sunset, the 'younger' ladies simply ignoring us further. I would like to hear their thoughts in years to come, as they too suddenly cruise into their 'older' years, and get paid little to no attention. I suspect Karma will be a bitch. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
age shouldnt come into it ,but some females being who they are want to be aroused by a younger somewhat confidant to the point of being arrogant young stud ,who will just blow & go ,nothing wrong with all of that .its all on what 1 is wanting out of the interaction the other point of view is the more mature takes his time is keen to please , mostly because the opportunities dont come around as often as they would like .
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SimpleNeeds2' This is an amalgam of a great article I found on Fetlife a few weeks ago with my own personal interpolation thrown in. The article was written by a woman in her 40’s and is therefore from a more mature perspective rather than a younger woman’s perspective (which would raise seperate issues about Electra complexes). In short, it all comes down to Darwin’s theory of evolution, those who adapt the best succeed. In the present case, the younger men include duds, diamonds in the rough and true gems, but by the time men reach their 40’s, only the most successful adapters are still in the game.The man in his 40’s has 20+ years’ experience to call upon to satisfy any need before the woman even knows she has it.That is years of seeing best laid plans go wrong, unexpected improvisations turn into hits, testing cause and effect on willing participants until the mature men have honed their skills to a fine art just waiting for you.A woman wants to enjoy the fruits of the education which he has received from the other women before her, not be his crash test dummy.And he if hasn’t learnt that by his 40’s, he will be quickly discarded for a superior product. So a warning to the young men to use their experiences wisely so that they too can be 40 something men some day. It is an exalted status to aspire to.The physiological is only the start because the lion's share of sex is psychological. Here is where the 40 + silver fox shines like a beacon in the bleakness of the night. No one does the psychology of sex better than a man in his 40's. He is generally so adept with a woman's anatomy by the time he reaches this age that he can find and navigate a clit like it is his own appendage. However, not only is he dexterous, but this is a man who is master of the female brain. On a woman’s puffiest, most bloated day, he will convince her that she is a goddess sent to earth just for his benefit. Younger men don’t have the patience, and move on to greener/easier pastures rather than do the hard yards. The 40 something guy is horny, but he has also figured out he's in no hurry to get laid. He knows how to play a woman's mind like a violin, and to lay the groundwork so she sticks around. He has done this mental dance so many times before. He knows that "you look nice" is not enough. Only "You're stunning" with a flash of smouldering eyes will suffice.To begin with, a man in his 20's, as the author laments, often cums too soon.Despites boasts/assurances to the contrary, as a general age group, statistically, a younger man has a more sensitive penis and cannot hold out for as long as an older guy. On the flip side, the younger male might be able to get it back up sooner and more often than the 40 something, but a woman only needs a man to get it up once, hold it until she cums and then get it back up once more. That second round is where he holds it up eternally for as many times as she feels like cumming and then we both fall asleep, possibly one more satisfied than the other. Couldn't have put it better... There are some wonderful articles around that express exactly what we want to say.
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precious142
10 years ago
I don't have a problem with....but many I find have a problem chasing the younger skirts...or legs!I have responded (and met ) a few my around my age (give or take 5 years) but find they are too distracted with chasing/chatting other women.....and are to "all over the shop" when it comes to arranging a meet and greet first up....or after the meet then delete/block/don't answer text/calls etc with no explanation.....I had a 3 hour coffee meet with a young 60 year old (from another site), went back to work, closed down my desk and then went and had 3 hours of fabulous sex....there are lot of sexy older gents out there who are great in the bedroom.........just a matter of finding the ones who aren't a real dufuss when it comes to us ladies!and as previously stated - when a 50 plus man uses "wanna fuck" as an opening line.........you really should know better at your age - and no wonder you don't get too far!!!1
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RHP User
10 years ago
You say older guys have a problem chasing younger skirts and legs... ? A problem ?? .. that 's not necessarily true. At the risk of sounding on myself. ( I'm not ) most females I meet are younger and it's not always me doing the chasing. There are females who look past the age and look at the person. In other words, if there's a attraction thing do happen.. I feel quite chuffed when a younger female show interest..
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll give you 3 good reasons why..... 1: We will show you respect 2: Experience 3: Know what a woman likes or are prepared to find out and 4: This is me like to please a woman first
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'funtobwyou' age shouldnt come into it ,but some females being who they are want to be aroused by a younger somewhat confidant to the point of being arrogant young stud ,who will just blow & go ,nothing wrong with all of that .its all on what 1 is wanting out of the interaction the other point of view is the more mature takes his time is keen to please , mostly because the opportunities dont come around as often as they would like . Older men can offer experience and respect. I like to think I can offer a good body too!
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nibblemebi
10 years ago
Certain older men know how to seduce you from your brain to your pussy and back again. They're also, at times, a lot more in tune with how the two correlate. They may even be chivalrous! Twice upon a time...... a much older man turned me on in ways I did not even know existed. HOT!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well done Mme QSome great comments here and yes I've read them all I don't have much to add people have their views and not much I can do to influence them either way.I do like that half your age plus seven formula even if a thirty seven year old does seem a bit young.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' In praise of the older man: ... 3. We can actually hold a conversation on topics you can relate to. ... I've always preferred men around my own age, but there have been a few exceptions here! I never realised I could have that much in common with younger guys. Though recently I asked a much younger lover what the first single/album was he ever bought. He looked at me kinda funny and told me it was a cd... Right.When I told him the first song I owned was Conga by the Miami Sound Machine, he responded with: "I have no idea what that is" Ouch!
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