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Cougars
October 26 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well it could be said it goes both ways at different ages for the different sexes. For me no less than a few years younger in my mid 20's until, recently have stared to take a liking to women upto 10 years younger than me. I prefer older than me though approx 4-10 years difference In range. The attraction for my for ladies born before myself is all in the fact generally I have found women in there nawty fourties are willing to experiment if they never have and are plenty fun or they are into the younger guys that treat them respectfully and it's great cheeky fun.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Older woman may appear to be less needy and more easy going, more sexually confident and open minded, may show a younger fella more attention, just after a bit of fun 😉, more sexually giving, can distance their feelings from sex or intacy, they have their own place, their time isnt filled up by young children, they are set in their ways. Oh and most older woman dont like to be called cougars lols - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It could be age isnt really a big thing to a fella - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It could be age isnt really a big thing to a fella - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've always been attracted to older women. I don't think of myself as a cougar hunter specifically though.... And yeah, it mostly comes down to maturity and experience, and having one's proverbial together. I actually generally tend to think "age is just a number", and don't automatically discount people based on age alone, but everything else being the same I tend to lean towards the older womenfolk. 40+ is mostly where it's at for me these days when it comes to women.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
It's the person. You can get a 27 yo that can rock your world. And a 27 yo that blow in minutes and goes. And I've had a 65 yo that can run rings around all the others. If you eliminate the similar age and older guys, you may well be missing out. I date late 20s to my eldest prob mid 60s. It's the person, not the age. Sooner you get your head around it all, the better your outlook will become. People that only date much younger have issues. Just sayin.
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RHP User
7 years ago
No, that's a predictable comment coming from an older man. My disappointment with older men is on many levels, not just physical, not just sexual, so much more. For example I've found most to be old fashioned, much older than me in spirit/personality. They also get lazy/complacent, I've posted about this before but in every case, I've met them with an open mind, hoping it will be different with that person. Those with issues are those that can't accept the preferences of others and respect those preferences which haven't been plucked out of thin air
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RHP User
7 years ago
this is history repeating itself. You turn up in every cougar thread to bag out on cougars. Insecure much?
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
I'm a cougar as well. I enjoy younger, l enjoy all ages. I'm well rounded. Hit a nerve did l? Pffffft
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RHP User
7 years ago
The topic hits your nerve not mine
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RHP User
7 years ago
"Nothing to do with age It's the person." Wrong on so many levels. It's how that person is at that point in their life. The younger version of me was crap. My blow jobs go to a whole other level now lol seriously, that's the answer to the op's question. They come to us for a decent blow job. They get more than they bargain for here. Not all older women are good though so the cliches aren't always accurate. I am good 😀😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm just going to sit here with some pop corn :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Until recently all my lovers/FWB were in the 28 - 33 yo age range, and all approached me. For that reason don't consider myself a cougar as I wasnt doing the chasing :) Each time I commenced communication with these men ( quite a few of them) I would ask why the interest in older women, and they invariably said the same thing. They saw women our age as sexually experienced and so could possibly offer them encounters they were yet to enjoy. They also appreciated the body confidence you mention in your OP. I also believe these guys (all professional, attractive and fit) liked being with a woman who was never going to pressure them for anything more than FWB. My child bearing days are over, there's are yet to begin. Women their age are starting to want to lock something down, start a family etc, many guys that age are still having fun and so older women offer the perfect solution. Enjoy, the ride. Its never been a better time to be a middle age woman ;)
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mango69er
7 years ago
All valid points. But in truth . Most just think they have a better chance of scoring a root. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Wrong on so many levels.....? . Ridiculous analysis. I leave here so l don't derail the thread. Even the OP stated that her desire for younger was, "for now". I think we had this debate with Chevy in the past. So many parallels in it......
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RHP User
7 years ago
I hate the term cougar bc I'm not actively seeking to date younger guys. It seems not a lot of decent men around my age I want to date..... maybe haven't met the right ones (or are already coupled up) The guys around my age either want younger themselves or are boring!!! The younger guys least want to go out and partay! Or at least some do Lol! I don't think sex is better with young or older, it's the sexual chemistry that counts ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes I think good decision to move on in order not to derail a good topic 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
do the same lol 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
...I am a Manther. Move silently at night and eat Cougars as a Midnight snack. Lucky cougars.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
In my case at least it's not simply a matter of scoring a "root'. The guys I see are, like myself, also seeing other people. Including women their own age. You seem to be implying that older women are more likely to 'put out', and I'm not sure why you assume that to be the case? The guys I see are attractive and have no problems finding a fuck if that's all they want. What they do often want is an ongoing sexual relationship with no fear of commitment being raised. That dynamic works perfectly for both them and an oder woman who also doesn't want to be in a committed relationship and has no biological clock ticking. @1Sweetpunk - IM surprised to hear you say the sex isn't better with younger, although I take your point about chemistry,. In my experience and that of friends I talk to we tend to agree that sex with younger guys is often better as they have more energy, often more enthusiastic, and far less likely to have erectile issues. Its only anecdotal obviously (and before I get a barrage of angry men responding. I know there's fit middle aged men knocking it out of the park) but this has been a recurring theme amongst the few people Ive talked to.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Straight up, yes most probs do think they'll more likely to score! Btw notice the age gap of F60 and M50 Haha funny that! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
They may think they'll score a 'root' tho if we ain't got no connection nothing is going to get them into my panties! Us older experienced women aren't all desperate jeez! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
7 years ago
But that doesn't mean Im not open to sexy older babes.. But the golden rule is don't forget to smile a genuine smile , have a genuine sense of humour and stop worrying what ppl might say... Your here for a good time not a long time so get out and enjoy yourself. Cougar is a word only ' nothing more..
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
in her note to sweetpunk ,although we have found mr young dude can be over excited and enthusiastic ,and done in one minute ,left bewildered and not want round two through embarrassment , but imo, age smage,if they float your boat whatever age give it a go - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes to this> "In my case at least it's not simply a matter of scoring a "root'. The guys I see are, like myself, also seeing other people. Including women their own age. You seem to be implying that older women are more likely to 'put out', and I'm not sure why you assume that to be the case? The guys I see are attractive and have no problems finding a fuck if that's all they want." Well said. Mine are so not desperate for a root lol 😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've found some of the young hotties aren't desperate for a root at all! it's more the case of fucking as much as they can before they settle down, get married blah blah! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's been a while since I've been with an "older woman" probably when I was 25 and I was dating a woman who was 35. I have had a 3some with an older couple a few months ago but they were close friends of mine and it wasn't through Rhp. If I'm totally honest I don't have that much interest in older women (never say never) there's nothing an older woman can do that you can't teach a younger woman and I'm not just talking about my own sexual gratification. I've been hooking up with a very cute nurse who's gone from trying to please me to pinning me to the bed and grinding on me to find her spot! She's gone from being very shy and self conscious about oral sex (something I posted about in the forum's) to physically grabbing my head and pushing it down there. You're right when you say that they're usually after more commitments but if I'm honest I'm considering it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Great points of view from you all. I like finding out what other people think. As for the implication that older women "put out" is a bit ridiculous and totally not what I think. As I said my personal preference "for Now" is younger men. The guys I have met have been great and down to earth which I like but I am easy to get on with and take people as they are. Cougar is just a word and it doesn't bother me one little bit. Some women find it disrespectful and that's OK.No one here knows my story or history so wont take offence to anything said. I love a lively conversation!!I am having the time of my life for once and satisfying my own needs which I have never done before. Not always perfect and can be a little awkward but that's life
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precious142
7 years ago
Quoting '1Sweetpunk' I've found some of the young hotties aren't desperate for a root at all! it's more the case of fucking as much as they can before they settle down, get married blah blah! - Posted from rhpmobile I'm with you!!!!Have had the wonderful pleasure of meeting and playing with some great younger guys in Perth...and from Interstate My advice - don't overthink it, treat them with as much respect as they treat you........and most importantly -Enjoy the Ride!!!!!! A friend described her (one off) Cougar experience as Liberating!!!If you are lucky enough to be an on going Cougar - go with it!!!I LURVE them!!!!!! PS - I have been out to dinners, lunches , pub nites etc with some, so it's not just all about rooting.......Keeping looking ...they are out there.... P
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RHP User
7 years ago
They're so bloody hot. God some of them are the perfect physical specimens lol gym junkies. They have their own separate active sex life with chicks their own age of course, but they keep venturing back, well not all, but we just do them over better 😉😁 It's the mind, the body worship, they love how I appreciate every second and slow it down to have my worship time. mmm okay horny now😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't always set out to look for older women, although I do relate to the points made, but I don't believe I have been with anyone younger than me since being on this scene/site. I directly message all, and would probably prefer someone the same age or a little younger, but it has been mainly older women that have shown interest (platonic or otherwise), perhaps they are more likely to overlook convenience or proximity than those younger. At parties I am often one of the youngest if not actually so. But that is more a dynamic about experience and being there with a partner than solo/single (for women). Non sexually, I have been attracted to the life and social experience of older women, more likely to talk about deeper and more meaningful things, that simply comes from having lived longer, and from raising children, but obviously not a complete rule of thumb against those younger. - Posted from rhpmobile
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cat_n_the_hatter
7 years ago
Not all older women have vast experience. Same goes for older men. I guess what most of us are looking for is depth and substance, warmth and light-heartedness. To call older women “cougars” has a predatory connotation that is not accurate, considering these younger men are just as eager as the women to initiate the age-gap romance or other. It could be that older successful men are used to being in control of a woman, and that doesn’t sit well with modern women.Younger men have grown up with working women and have worked for female bosses, so they’re more likely to treat women equally...but it is not a rule. Some older men are like that too. Life is good and has a lot to offer, whether you are 30,40,50 or 60+ just adapt your outlook on life. But never ever become defeated or bitter. BTW – I am in shape and do consider myself attractive but I do not think being attractive and in shape defines me. (CT- not all older women talk about meaningful things) (Ms)
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Supernova
7 years ago
That's why many of us love older women :) If they say they want to meet you - they really mean it. If they say they'll be at place (x) at time (x), they WILL turn up and not give a last minute text message excuse. They understand who they are, what they want, and have more respect for men than their younger sisters (no offense intended its just the truth sorry!) Basically, an older woman provides less drama, less bullshit, and are more honest and up front, so its no wonder why many men around my age would prefer to date an older woman than a younger GIRL.
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RHP User
7 years ago
That right there is the wavelength I need my play partners to be on. I try to find guys who are genuinely into and respectful of older women, where the age difference on the one hand becomes irrelevant, but on the other, with my fetish turning them on. Mutually wanting to please, I give more because that's where I am now, also because I want to fully appreciate what's being served up to me 😊 and they get off knowing what it does for me. Still comes down to the individual though of course. But genuine and respectful above all else
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting '1Sweetpunk' I've found some of the young hotties aren't desperate for a root at all! it's more the case of fucking as much as they can before they settle down, get married blah blah! ...although always question everything from intent to recovery! I guess the true definition of ''young'' is somewhere between birth and a headstone! There are so many very judgemental people out there that measure the quantum of life in years? In some ways I am younger now than I was 10 years ago...ask if you really want an explanation. If copping a root is all anyone wants, there are places called bordellos! CM who really likes posts by this woman.
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RHP User
7 years ago
...back home the ODF&W became worried that the species was threatened as only the really ''old ones'' would come down off the mountain to grab a lamb or calf? Truth was that it was all the pack needed to be well-fed and happy. Sooooo the morons declared them an endangered species and preventing culling was the next order. Round two... the young ones now bountiful started coming down just for sport killing. Any average cattle or sheep rancher would loose a dozen or more every night. Not food, just dead with the throat torn out. LOL... a few of ''us'' that were registered got to go do the cull and nothing looked so good as watching an overly self-impressed and totally dangerous animal roll when you popped it in the head at 1000 metres with a .338 Lapua and a Leupold Vari-X 5HD scope. Pity they don't taste like chicken...I'd have eaten more of them! CM ...who prefers to hunt ducks!
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compressor
7 years ago
to be honest there are a lot of very beautiful sexy older ladies on here. who could resist
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RHP User
7 years ago
Been an mature male, the question of age does come up For me I never play with anyone who is younger than my daughter, it just doesn't feel right. I love women, short, tall, skinny and bbw, each brings something new.and I have to question someones comment that older men get lazy, although I have to admit that I need more recovery time that when I was younger,my eagerness and willingness to try new things and to pleasing my partner makes the recovery time not that important I prefer over 40,s who are as adventurous as me, and do not pretend to be a starfish Regards Robert - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
7 years ago
Not entirely on track, but here is the proper classification for older women who prefer younger men: Age 18-21: Wildcat Age 22-29: Lynx Age 30-39: Puma Age 40-49: Cougar Age 50-59: Jaguar Age 60-68: Panther Age 69: Pussycat Age 70-79: Cheetah Age 80-89: Leopard Age 90-99: Tiger Age 100+: Lion 😉
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Seachange
7 years ago
Don't forget 150+ - prehistoric sabre-toothed cat 😻
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PurePeony
7 years ago
Oh my gosh! It's like you've kinda read my mind! After posting the list, I suddenly recalled reading years ago that 60+ onwards -> Sabre-Toothed Tiger. 😃 I've inadvertently been made a Puma cause an ex lied about his age and liberally added a hefty 8 years to his real age! 😛😒 The sad thing is, I believed him because he actually looked that old! 🤣🤣🤣
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RHP User
7 years ago
EVERYTHING about a mature woman who looks after herself is hotter than a young girl. I have had a good number of mature partners and young ones. When I retrospect, I can only label handful of experiences with young girls as amazing, whereas with mature women, that list is mighty long 😈. At the end of the day it’s the person of course, but statistics doesn’t lie either ;)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' Not entirely on track, but here is the proper classification for older women who prefer younger men: ...although the question remains? What happens to us guys that would be comprehensibly happy with a gorgeous younger Asian woman? I'm older and you are younger albeit could be convinced to change my will. Kill me with kindness! Sexy ass biotch...that's you! CM packing wood as always..let's do it!
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RHP User
7 years ago
You hang onto that banging rig and you'll have many more years to enjoy us ;)
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a couple looking str8, hung guys, we attract mainly younger guys. This is great for Mrs copulater,for the young guy, and also for me. Love seeing her with a young stud ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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LissnJules
7 years ago
I don't consider myself to be a cougar but many do. I have been involved in a fully committed relationship with my partner who is 15 years younger than me for almost 4 years. We met on tinder and immediately had a strong attraction. He decided after a bad relationship he wanted something different and i admit i was after some fun. Now though we live together and don't plan on changing this. Its not an age thing its a person thing - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bodhi8
7 years ago
Lol to the younger men lying their arses off saying older women are hotter, GTFO ere who are you trying to kid or you’re just trying to get laid full stop. Young pussy is and always will be the gold standard for men. Period. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'Jons9988' Lol to the younger men lying their arses off saying older women are hotter, GTFO ere who are you trying to kid or you’re just trying to get laid full stop. Young pussy is and always will be the gold standard for men. Period. L - Posted from rhpmobile Love your honesty. Here, have a lend of my flak jacket.....If it helps, I agree with you. But then I like younger too. But l also like any age if the person ticks my box
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Nothing like a breath of fresh honesty! Well done young man 👍😜
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rudrash1981
7 years ago
we always seek mature women as she tunes herself with thoughts rather that putting plaster thick make up as most young women do, They have experience and really have some interesting experience whether good or bad,our experience with mature women are awesome. nothing to do with body ,real sex is when you are deeply involved in it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
7 years ago
I like your honesty. Younger women I say are definitely more alluring to younger men for a myriad of reasons and I would say mainly many are after LT relationships and even to build a family. Many older women, cougars if I can use the word, including myself, should realise that many young men are here in this sitebto get laid and will say anything to appeal to their egos in order to get into their panties. Sad to say, some believe the false flattery and get disappointed later. Although I'm lucky enough to meet younger men for fwb, it is more by accident rather than by design that these 'connections' exists. I know I still am very much attracted to men my age or older because of the rich tapestry of their life experience and their accomplishments. Their confidence is marked by experienced not by bravado. Well most anyway. There are still gems out there in every age.
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RHP User
7 years ago
They try and practice with older woman because they dont build lasting ties with older woman And the older woman treat them well . Teach them new tricks ..give them skills and confidence they have yet to get from woman they are attracted to but arnt experienced enough or confident enough to approach or good enough to bother with. Young men seek that out grab all they can then take it all to nab trixey the check out chick ...only to go on to lose it all to billy the bagging boy lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Haha 😂😂😂 classic, love it
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RHP User
7 years ago
for the lecture 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
believe the false flattery, including yourself apparently ☺
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RHP User
7 years ago
No danger of false flattery from jons 😂😂
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On_Safari
7 years ago
....I knew there was a reason younger men constantly approach me and I’ve always ALWAYS turned them down....(shrugs) I’ll just cart my aging sagging arse, tuckshop arms, chinssssss down to the RSL and try my luck there ~ Indy Wheelie Walkin Away 😂
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Do I tick your box? 😇
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Bodhi8
7 years ago
Have to say a “fit” older woman will always trounce an overweight younger one. I’m going to hell eh. There is small print involved in “wot men want” when it comes to ultimate hook up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've generally preferred older women, maybe because it's they enjoy the affection and touch of a man, but they also know what they want and don't want between the sheets. 😋 Not saying I don't enjoy younger women, just been a preference and @jons9988, young pussy doesn't always have to be the gold standard, I have had some amazing older pussy that would put many younger women to shame..!! Keep on hunting cougars..!!!😋💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Such valid opinions on my question and so many different points of view. False flattery I can pick a mile away because I have the life experience to know what is real or not! Then sometimes it will get you everywhere lol. A level of maturity and respect has nothing to do at all with age!!It is pretty clear what this site is about. I am on here to hook up and meet guys who wouldn't look at me in a pink fit at the RSL??So I flaunt my curves and my freaking Tuckshop Lady arms and my baby battle scars for all the world to see. And I don't give a shit. No complaints whatsoever from anyone I see. If ya don't like me don't see me again Simple!!Age is just a number I agree on that much.Everyone is different and has different wants and needsLuckily for me I am confident and accept myself which shows. Younger guys that I have met have been nothing but awesome with a few no go's in the mix. My experiences have been mostly positive and I have enjoyed these encounters because I have them on my own terms.A lot of it is your attitude and luckily I have a good one.
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Bodhi8
7 years ago
So what’s the gold standard in men for a hook up from a female perspective? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
there are some guys who are genuinely into older women, but yeah there is a lot of bullshit thrown around by some guys on here. Some of it is so obvious I suppose my preference tends towards younger men. I seem to connect with them better both on a physical and mental level, although I am definitely not a cougar and in the end it comes down to what type of person I'm dealing with (e.g. I have no problem with preferences but referring to women as 'young pussy' and 'old pussy' tells me a lot about a guy and is a red flag that he is one to stay away from regardless of his age and how hot he thinks he is ).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Older is nice but not granny older. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you're going to hell for thinking that way, then I'd say it's going to be pretty crowded down there.
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Seachange
7 years ago
Must have touched a nerve, did I? 😎 😉
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Under 30, over 6 ft and someone that doesn't think they're gods gift 😏 Obviously my pussy is a lot hotter than the younger ones. Period. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Surely the gold standard is great body, face and brains to match, with a good dose of humour and humility. Even when it comes to just fucking, thats the gold for me. And Im happy to report Ive found plenty of that here.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't strike nerves, only in their own minds 😉
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me out on a date, buy me some food and try to get me naked at the end, like a fucking gentleman!
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bonefide
7 years ago
Indy Wheelie Walkin Away 😂 Has it got a Holden or Ford badge ??
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve had older when I was younger and younger now I’m older, believe me there is no formula or prescription, some young hot bodied babes can be less fun than fucking a sock and some older women can blow your brains out, and vice versa, sometimes you can work hard and get nothing and sometimes it just flows. Just the way it is.
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Seachange
7 years ago
Spoken like a true troll. You should know by the number of trolling posts that you made and have been deleted by mods. Abd the number of threads that you have managed to close or deleted because of your total disrespect of others opinions and narcissistic arrogance. Think about it. But that may be a stretch. Lol 😁 Best leave you alone to self destruct. You seem pretty good at it. Given enough rope....
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Seachange
7 years ago
For the deviation. Some people just like to make every posts or thread about themselves. Narcissism in motion. I'm out before this thread gets closed. Nice topic. Time for introspection by everyone on the topic. Enjoy your Rhp experience. 👍
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bonefide
7 years ago
Age is but a number, when two people make a decision to connect sexual then so be it. It won't be till after the encounter is complete till they both know if it was worth the journey. Mentoring younger people male or female is a gift, and how u transfer that gift and or experience is up to the individual. Some males find cougars uplifting and dam sexy, others may use them unfortunately as a trophy whilst in their younger days, that's just a fact of life. "Respect" is the most important key word in any connect, relationshipship or one night stand, or friendship. We all age with time, some of us do it with heaps more grace and beauty than some.😎 Hope that last comment gets me some browny points. LOL
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RHP User
7 years ago
The question of GOLD STANDARD is very individual. Most married women my age that I know, and read my words very carefully prior to jumping down my throat. are sexless, they have no interest in sex. their pubic hair is in dire need of deforestation and comically joke about the fact you would need a whipper snipper to trim back the hedge of the vadge of doom. However they will throw out comments that refer to what they would do to a younger man they either see on TV, a celebrity or guy that would walk by us whilst we are at coffee. Personally I seem to attract males 28-33. And of course as a warm blooded female, it boosts my ego, and that sinful lust will kick in, to want to inhale the sweet musky scent of muscly youthful man. I think anyone on this site whether you're 18 or 90 are driven by their sexual desires or curious nature. I think it boils down to asking yourself a question. Why should you limit yourself by age. Why make that a priority or a gold standard for that matter. Why can't you be driven by desire, instinct, lust,, spontaneity and a sprinkle of sheer horniness and be with however it is that elevates your heart, compels your adrenalin to rush and endorphins to manifest at that point in time?
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justjules05
7 years ago
I've got fkn teenagers hitting me up ffs! Flattering but that's too young for me! There's so many younger surfers and just random hotties that want a ride on the Jules train but I'm too intimidated by how young and pretty they are and how old and chubby I am lol that and I'm gay, just boy-curious lol haven't found the boy that I can let myself totally go with alone yet, that's why couple work better for me but they can also be very complicated, first world problems haha 😂 I'm totes a cougar now! 😉❤️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Neither I own a Dodge....was rather sad that the last Australian made Holden rollwd out of the factory Friday 2wks ago....sad day for the car industry here OOPS now we don’t have one! 😳
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cat_n_the_hatter
7 years ago
done at Åbo Akademi University in Finland which found the men had interest in women in their mid-twenties (regardless of men's age). Women on the other hand opted for men closer to their own age. Then women were asked why that was their choice and ... to make it short it is because of social expectations. When only women were asked to choose again they overwhelmingly chose much younger men. Contrary to evolutionary theory, financially secure women (regardless of their age) do not look at older financially and emotionally stable men but those in their late twenties. All I can say with confidence that most of us really do understand that sex alone isn't going to be the foundation of any lasting relationship (but you Op are probably referring to NSA ) I'd even venture to say that more than a romance, men want to meet a person who can intuit what they are thinking. It's a realisation that for some guys hits instantly, and for others develops over time—maybe even years. Nevertheless, it seems some men would never refuse any offer. (Ms)
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PurePeony
7 years ago
... sexual attraction defies age. It's not about absolute numbers per se; it's about the lifestyle one chooses to keep, and the pride one takes in one's appearance, personal hygiene and grooming, etc. I suppose that's why we have Hollywood stars of different age groups who look stunning and make us feel horny at the drop of a hat! There's a certain charm in young women, another kind of charm in middle aged women, and yet another degree of charm in the silver-haired vixens category! I suppose the key word might be confidence - being perfectly at ease in their own skin, flaws and all. Cougars can be very sexy that way especially if their experiences in life has polished them and they exude that radiance of a life well-lived, with much love given out and no bitter baggage. Most sexy people KNOW they are sexy in their own way, and they flaunt it, consciously or unconsciously. They wear it like a 2nd skin. 😉 There's sexy in every age group, just as there is crass in every age group. There are cougars who ooze classy sex appeal, the classic femme fatale, sizzling hot! And then there are the hillbilly cougars who attempt to squeeze into clothes they've outgrown, get drunk and rowdy and proposition men like ladettes and then boast about their sexual conquests. 😝 There's much to be admired in a self-assured, sexy cougar who knows exactly what she wants. I think the younger guys might be relieved that cougars won't be pressurising them for a commitment because the biological clock is ticking and they might end up getting shackled into a younger woman's white picket fence and sweet babies' dream. Scary stuff that! 😛 Somewhere at the back of some young dudes' minds must be the frightening question, "So, does she want to marry me so I can be the moneytree to fund her dreams of sweet domestication, or does she actually love me for real?" With cougars, that dilemma is more or less eradicated. When a cougar meets her cub(s), it's all about fun. Which guy doesn't love that? 😉 In defence of cougars... and I'm not even one myself! Lol! 😄
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes, good decision 😀 Peony, what a beautiful post 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'cat_n_the_hatter'All I can say with confidence that most of us really do understand that sex alone isn't going to be the foundation of any lasting relationship (but you Op are probably referring to NSA ) I'd even venture to say that more than a romance, men want to meet a person who can intuit what they are thinking. Yeah, that's pretty much it... I'm an old soul, and have always gotten along best with people older than my chronological age. Lots of exceptions of course, but the overall pattern is absolutely there. On some level, I totally understand the "young pussy gold standard" thing. But in reality it's so abstract that it's basically meaningless. I guess that even at the most "casual" levels I just need a certain level of head connect. And it's just MUCH more likely to happen with older women (or old souls trapped in younger bodies?). At any rate - all three of my regular ongoing partners are several years older than me. I don't think it's a total coincidence.
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lui85
7 years ago
I only like older lady’s there a few reasons why there honest don’t lie funny and just them selfs and omg sex 110% better think that’s why a lot younger guys love the older lady’s including your self - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well said and well written comment.Nothing beats a little common sense and a great perspectiveI could not have put it in words better myselfAmen to every word you said.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is there truly a Gold Standard in anything??Your disappointment is only overpowered by your expectation of something??Open mind and no expectations will lead to satisfaction.Everyone has their likes and dislikes.I like guys with a SOH who can carry on a conversation and at least be a little intelligent.Its not really the size of the appendage either or if they have a hot body. It is the attraction mostly.Leave no stone unturned I say!!
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cat_n_the_hatter
7 years ago
dream presented to both genders that has become a cliche...Young 16 yr old girls acting as 25 or 19yr old boys as 28yr old... "Golden universal" which lasts a moment only. And often when we meet someone who should be "perfect" we are bitterly disappointed as that is not what we were "promised". Many relationships have fallen because of that image of "universal" lover so they let that "particular" slip away. The real person never fits the "perfect prince" or "perfect pussy" (with slight variations- from cute vampires to angels). :) We are truly only liberated when we break from cliches. (Ms)
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am 36 (but look 25 so I've been told many many times) and an animal in the bedroom (I have the sexual appetite of a horny dude)... Always have been as it just came naturally and is in my nature, I just ADORE sex.... Alot of younger guys and older guys look and wish they could touch (if only they knew I wanted them and their whole construction crew as I've always fantasised about a gang bang). I think younger men are attracted to older women because they have experience and don't want a relationship so they can hit it and walk away!! Any young men wanna try this 'cougar' out are more than welcome..... But inly if you bring your friends too 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Cougars have more patience
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bonefide
7 years ago
Woohoo Brownie points duly noted. Yes traditional bragging of the great Race Bathurst is finished also, it more like following race teams as no car brands built in Aust. The tram cars are but the make and model of the ford's and holden are not. Mmm the great days of criusing in the sandman, 😈😈"don't come a knocking if the it's a rockin"👣👍✌
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bonefide
7 years ago
Team cars built in Aust
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love me my cougars nothing is hotter then a older women - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just come and play with my wife n i... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sure, if you have a profound connection with someone, age can be just a number. But for me there is a difference when a person actively seeks out much younger sexual partners/flings as their modus operandi and as they themselves age, the age gap gets wider and wider. There is definitely a point were it becomes a bit predatory or creepy. They are just that little too old and the other a little too young, I think anyway. Whether its a cougar or an old guy. Everyone can appreciate youth. It's fresh, beautiful, that smooth skin but there is also much beauty in aging too. Just because you appreciate youth and beauty doesn't me you have to fuck it. Hahaha CD `
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Thing is, your exterior ages but your mind fairly much stays the same. What attracted you years ago, still attracts you in later life as well as those aging with you. Then one day, looking in the mirror, it suddenly occurs to you, the reason the young hottie knocked you back with a look of horror, is because you are getting old. It can be a bit confronting if you have focused too much on the young ones. And it works the other way. Having hooked up with an older person who has looked after themselves, they idolise your younger self and strokes your ego and puts a spring in your step and a smile on your dial. It's whatever works for you, works for your playmate. Both happy it's win win......
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Thing is, your exterior ages but your mind fairly much stays the same. What attracted you years ago, still attracts you in later life as well as those aging with you. My attitudes and thinking have changed a lot since I was in my 20s, and I wouldn't go near most of the guys I fucked or had relationships with back then. Part of ageing is learning and getting to know yourself better, and (hopefully) make better choices.That's partly why I don't agree with the 'age is just a number' saying. Like it or not there are many physical, mental, and emotional changes as we age, some are good changes some not so good, but in the end hey it happens to everyone.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I feel that you can have amazing sex with older and younger people, it depends on the mind sets of those individuals, treat each other with a mutual respect and sex is amazing!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
love your post, it is happening to this dirty old man
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RHP User
7 years ago
they keep reminding you of it
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ms_minx_xxx
7 years ago
Omg I'm now a Jaguar! ! Who new!! You can give me any title and it wont make a difference to whom I'm attracted . . I've had 15 years with a guy 13 years older and 2 years with 16 years younger. . I am now a confident, sexy, financially independent woman and I only have sex with men and women who turn me on. Sexually I have discovered things i never new existed because of younger men. . They are much more adventurous i have found. I'm also a Domme so that brings in another dimension to the conversation. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'iNaughty' love your post, it is happening to this dirty old man It will happen to everyone sooner or later, dirty old men, dirty old cougars.Reality is a bitch unless you give yourself a reality check first. Become dependant on really younger people, going to bite you on the arse.
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