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Do women really need to orgasm ???
January 25 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
what else is in it for us,except you....or what else is in us ...OOOOOOO you know what I mean
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RHP User
12 years ago
its all about us..what made you think it wasnt ??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wingman, I don't believe for a minute that the female orgasm is selfish. In fact, I get as much pleasure in getting the female to orgasm as much as I get out of my own orgasm. I like to achieve it by either licking or stroking her pussy or by having sex. It makes me feel good that I can give my partner some pleasure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
the clitoral orgasm causes large amounts of oxytocin to be produced.The hormone that bonds us to men...see the oxytocinthread....and oxytocin is good for our physical and mental health,so selfish yes,but we don't need a man to make us cum. I fell in love with Pointer a long time ago,he never lets me down,I don't have to make sure he in the mood,never have to cook him breakfast or wash his socks,he is totally unselfish and always puts my needs first.It is as if he is a part of me..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well you may have a point but before you fertilise the egg..... there is the theory that me - the woman - might just wanna enjoy it! And yeah im damn selfish!! Its the male of the species who taught me that
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' the clitoral orgasm causes large amounts of oxytocin to be produced.The hormone that bonds us to men...see the oxytocinthread....and oxytocin is good for our physical and mental health,so selfish yes,but we don't need a man to make us cum. I fell in love with Pointer a long time ago,he never lets me down,I don't have to make sure he in the mood,never have to cook him breakfast or wash his socks,he is totally unselfish and always puts my needs first.It is as if he is a part of me..
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RHP User
12 years ago
....Not sure that what is being said is true.....however, I refuse to orgasm until the woman i'm with has first been pleasured to within an inch of her life ;-) hehe.....danny x
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
9 months of pregnancy v 5 seconds for work the guy. I think she can have an orgasm or two. Shesh !!! Be thankful you aren't a red back where the male gets eaten afterwards sometimes while still mating
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is more like the other way, it would be selfish if the man orgasmed yet the woman didn't, it should be a shared experience
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RHP User
12 years ago
And I can live with that!!!!
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
To boldly go where no man has gone before.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'what else is in it for us,except you....or what else is in us ...OOOOOOO you know what I mean
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RHP User
12 years ago
But we don't need men to do it 👿- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
my wife & l are contemplating, dark & physic fella r mrs req. l wont to photograh, artistically, fantasfully, l want total pleasure for her. while l photo & mutual pleasure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You bet I am!!If this little Vixen does not let out a high pitched mating wail - you're in deep shit!!SUPERFOX
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RHP User
12 years ago
OF COURSE WE F*CKING DO!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
right all you selfish females that feel its just about you and want an orgasm..form a orderly line to my left and i'll get to you in time....
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
because without the odd orgasm thier not happy to get back in the kitchen and cook and clean....
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RHP User
12 years ago
In lots of species women kill their male partners after mating. I think the female orgasm exists to stop us from bestowing the same fate on you. Consider it your self-protection ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' OF COURSE WE F*CKING DO!!! My sentiments, exactly :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
and what's the point if you don't... I thought I posted on this last night, must have forgotten to press the 'post' button or they haven't posted it yet. So if I repeat myself... not my fault. But I do recall reading somewhere many years ago about the female orgasm helping the sperm to travel up the whatsy and towards the eggs. Doesn't explain though why it can be so hard for alot of women to orgasm, don't know what the design behind that is.
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QuitEyeEffingMe
12 years ago
What?! Do women cum?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You asked WHY???? Because we can.....that's why!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' 9 months of pregnancy v 5 seconds for work the guy. I think she can have an orgasm or two. Shesh !!! Be thankful you aren't a red back where the male gets eaten afterwards sometimes while still mating
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QuitEyeEffingMe
12 years ago
Wait a minute.... women cum!?? ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
do u wank to procreate....
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
Quoting 'ellabella10'But we don't need men to do it 👿- Posted from rhpmobile You go for it ellabella. Only 1 question. Can I watch?.
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wingman2014
12 years ago
I think I may have kicked the hornets nest :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
we dont NEED to orgasmbut then we dont need to cook clean wash iron give birth talk be nice to you flirt or have sex with you either,,,,,,,,,ball in your court gentlemen........i suggest the path of least resistance
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RHP User
12 years ago
...being a bit selfish to be quite honest. Quoting 'wingman2013' I think I may have kicked the hornets nest :) If they hadn't spent all their money buying gadgets from Sweden to avoid men altogether, we'd still be able to buy them brand new Saab Turbo convertibles as a way of saying thanks for spending time with us and show them that we really do appreciate them even if they are insufferable at times.Please ladies, at least be eco-friendly and use rechargeable batteries or suffer with the inconvenience of the cord on your Hitachi wands. *shrugs*Don't blame men...the offer is almost always on the table.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You should always make the woman orgasm multiple times first then look after your self
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RHP User
12 years ago
wasnt it just last week we were discussing squirting cougars and how men delighted in it .....see just another way we give to the opposite sex................. (or whichever ones is in the firing line)see..not selfish at all............done purely for men to enjoy(i prefer it was your sheets, couch, carpet...and not mine tho .... lol)
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RHP User
12 years ago
This'll be good.. wasn't it. The cord is never inconvenient DontLookDown...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's simple really. The more a woman enjoys sex, the more she will want it, and the more the species reproduces.You dont get nothin for nothin.Mr C
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
Freya 13 is right but there is also another factor. why women are still hot to trot after you have rolled over and gone to sleep. The female stays aroused much longer because while she is in this aroused state; she may accept many suitors to mount her. Multiply orgasms or a prolonged state of arousal ; keeps the female hot and horny therefore allowing many more males to try their luck in fertlizing her egg. Its called sperm wars. So big brawny male pushes other suitors out of the way so he can have first go but nature is cruel. She allows the female to try her luck with other males by keeping her interested in sex long after some males have squirted and run. The strongest little sperm gets to the egg first. cool hey. Nature designed women to have multiply partners. now that is the bit that people aren't going to like. Its not wishful thinking on my part but a fact.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is chivalry dead.... Please the the woman first snd in mh opinion you have won the lotto..., food for thought... Selfish... Pheww..:: grow up
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rUdiggingIT' What?! Do women cum?- Posted from rhpmobile NOOOOOOOOOO we just squirt!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rUdiggingIT' Wait a minute.... women cum!?? ;) NO..... WE F*CKING SQUIRT FOR THE 2ND TIME!!
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just_sayin69
12 years ago
saw a program a while ago and as much as its the guys who deliver the sperm to the women it only just sits in the vaginal space the orgasm make the cervix spasm and dip into the seminal pool allowing the sperm to enter the uterus and fertilize the egg!!!!... and even had a camera show you doing it so yes they do and it is all part and parcel to reproduction but let’s be honest one is enough all this multi orgasm stuff come on ladies ... greedy or what lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes...yeh...smmmm yesYes!YES! YES! YES! GOD DAM IT, YES!
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jensta
12 years ago
You really think that ? Clearly not Selfish for Woman to Orgasm! Most Lovers love to please their Lovers its Mutual Pleasure I believe By not pleasing your Woman all you going to get is Crap Sex or No Sex Wake up & smell the Roses If all Men were like that their would be no Woman here
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think a few people need to go back and read wingmans initial topic post. He isnt saying women don't deserve to orgasm or about pleasing the woman first or anything to do with the act itself.A mans orgasm produces sperm which is needed to fertilize the egg. So as I saw someone else mentioned that the females orgasm is also important to produce the right environment for the sperm to get to the egg. Interesting to then consider, why do women have the ability to have multiple orgasms yet men (not all) will only come once and its all over. I have never read anywhere or ever heard about women having multiple orgasms and being 'mounted' by many men to keep her interested. I would like to see some links and real information on that one. A very thought provoking topic wingman, considering Cleopatra is apparently the first woman to have had a vibrator, and that goes back a long time, and that was about orgasm for pleasure and not procreation, that brings about the question of was she doing it out of need or a selfish act. I cant speak for all women, but I know that personally, at times there is need for orgasm (solo play) not purely for selfish pleasure, but because i cant sleep! LOL So then, its a need and after hours of tossing and turning in bed for hours, the toy comes out and then I can have a good nights sleep. No need for reproduction in that, its not done as a selfish act, but its done as a need.... where does that qualify?Great topic
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hope you guys realise the world has now evolved so far that we don't need you mugs at all. We can have all the sex we need without you, can procreate without you, virtually live without you. So, careful fellas, you may find yourselves extinct before you know it. How's them apples?
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a psychologist point of view, orgasms are necessary for women's mental health and well being
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RHP User
12 years ago
All I would like to add is... Great topic and love reading the posts. Yet if woman never climaxed.. No RHP
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ummm yes - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013'I think I may have kicked the hornets nest :) We think you kicked it, dropped your daks, smeared jam all over your balls and then sat right in the middle of it.....
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QuitEyeEffingMe
12 years ago
dont take me too seriously...... squirter ;)Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'rUdiggingIT' Wait a minute.... women cum!?? ;) NO..... WE F*CKING SQUIRT FOR THE 2ND TIME!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is (well, can be, if trained) a difference between ejaculation and orgasm..Male EJACULATION is necessary for fertilisation, not male orgasm.
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RHP User
12 years ago
my friend i make it my lifes work to make my women cum if they don't you have some serious evil happening and god help you. a satisfied woman is a very happy woman and trust me I know all the god stuff
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RHP User
12 years ago
a happy woman makes for a happy man..yay!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ummmm since you put it like that THen YES....Its all about the woman.....sheesh, Otherwise you might aswell be with a blow up doll or give yourself a hand job Enough said :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lord give me strength to bite my tongue ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok couldnt do it.... I need it like oxygen I need u like a hole in the head- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
women do not need to orgasm any more than men in order to procreate only ... if that frequency is good for men then it should also be good for women who can be artificially inseminated nowadays... maybe nobody needs an orgasm, but you got to be kind of insane to think that everyone doesn't want one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm thinking making your lady orgasm leads to a 2nd date ??? Imagine if you couldn't orgasm for months... Sometimes that's how it is for ladies.. Is it so much to ask to fulfil someone else before you feel the fireball erupt??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cheeky or not i am a male and am totally offended on behalf of the ladies. I will not allow a lady to touch me until she has had at least 3 orgasms. Maybe you are really the selfish one. Ladies not only need but deserve the best attention. The greatest pleasure that can be derived is to create a state of nirvana for a lady and know that you have totally satisfied her before committing to the final act. Maybe you should try it and see how much better the final act is once a lady has been unselfishly pleasured.As far as not shooting the messenger, I truly hope you never get to shoot a load ever again unless its by your own hand with that sort of attitude.
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melbcpl01
12 years ago
guys if you think a woman does not need to orgasm , just go buy your self a lifeless blow up doll and a tube of lube, you wont have to worry or care about trying to get her to orgasm , and you can jump on and pump away till your hearts content As for a real lfe female why should she miss out on all the fun
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RHP User
12 years ago
Put it this way - if the female orgasm to male orgasm is any less than 5:1 , you are just a lousy fuck.
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wingman2014
12 years ago
personally I strongly believe my lovers satisfaction paramount,I never gratify my self without her being totally satisfied first . Thankyou Lollipop for your support on the topic I see you actually get it. People, If you had read my posting properly you would have seen clearly that it was a tongue-in -cheek piss take. All the same it is an interesting subject matter . Geez louise some people get their nickers in a twist over trivial things , lighten guys its just a bit of fun.....yes fun..thats why we are here. :))
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RHP User
12 years ago
...yes you, hot stuff. If you promise not to tell anyone that this man here was teasing, how about a weekend away in the Highlands of Tasmania for a bit of a...'catch up'. Quoting 'OneEmerald' yes...mmmm yesYes!YES! YES! YES! GOD DAM IT, YES! I'll do my part and I yours is ...wired for sound. Note to self: Make sure you keep your inner-child alive in the course of devolution.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...'think yours is wired for sound'.Wonder if that's what happens when you...over-think it?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love the cheeky intro to the OP nice work :)unless certain chemical enhancements are involved multiples back to back for a guy are pretty rare. I love it when you bring a girl to max and she's spent but then you just double the pace and she reaches the second very quickly, her eyes widen... your eyes lock as you see the moment she has her 2nd of many for the night...my fav bit by a mile. I have been with girls who state they can't orgasm, its all about self confidence and feeling relaxed, so once that's happened boom success...
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cbteager
12 years ago
Set the emotion aside ladies, for just a minute. Does a woman physically NEED to orgasm. I saw the same show perthcpl did I assume, years ago. There was a camera inside the woman and we saw the man cum and as the woman came her cervix actually dipped down into the semen to aid fertilisation. I assume the same kind of muscle contractions we men experience which push the cum out must, in the lady, force this dipping action. This would indicate that the best chance of falling pregnant is to use the missionary position otherwise the sperm will not rest in the right place for the cervix to dip into it. So the short answer to the actual question posed is YES. Now back to the emotional side, I never really mind if I cum or not. My greatest pleasure is to see my partner enjoy an orgasm that I have given them. It is the greatest pleasurable gift. OH, and I just love drinking mouthfuls of squirt so I need her to cum !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wingman I take it you like to fish. The bait might have been taken but be very careful of what you reel in, lol. There might be something very nasty at the end of that line lol.By the way ladies, if that is the case: please be very very selfish because I love the female orgasm. mmmmmmmm YES YES YES.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DontLookDown' ...yes you, hot stuff. If you promise not to tell anyone that this man here was teasing, how about a weekend away in the Highlands of Tasmania for a bit of a...'catch up'. Quoting 'OneEmerald' yes...mmmm yesYes!YES! YES! YES! GOD DAM IT, YES! I'll do my part and I yours is ...wired for sound. Note to self: Make sure you keep your inner-child alive in the course of devolution. I'll come...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's more important to me than my own climax as without it I don't enjoy sex at all. For me sex is all about bringing my lady to a climax repeatedly, it's only then that I know I'm doing a proper job!
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RHP User
12 years ago
super SELFISH a'hole male would even ask a stupid question like this to begin with.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and I take it your not a 'Star Wars' fan?That picture explains why Prince Leia finally threw a chain around Jaba's neck and tugged until he expired. Of course, in that outfit I might have let her throw chains on me......but prefer to do it in private and not publicly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013' personally I strongly believe my lovers satisfaction paramount,I never gratify my self without her being totally satisfied first . Thankyou Lollipop for your support on the topic I see you actually get it. People, If you had read my posting properly you would have seen clearly that it was a tongue-in -cheek piss take. All the same it is an interesting subject matter . Geez louise some people get their nickers in a twist over trivial things , lighten guys its just a bit of fun.....yes fun..thats why we are here. :)) I agree! I see it on so many posts, people scan and reply without really reading the topic! sometimes its annoying. Maybe those frustrated ones with their knickers in a twist need to get those knickers off more and have a fuck so they can laugh more about life and sex than acting like they got a pole shoved up their ....... fun, you say fun? we are here for fun? hmmm you got me laughing!!! Where will be the next hornets nest? I wait with bated breath and in anti-ci-pation!! and hopefully an orgasm or 6 LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
well if you can make your woman orgasm a number of times does it not feel good, even better satisfaction of cumming youself. Good topic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and send the airline tickets. Quoting 'OneEmerald' I'll come... I know...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lets just leave it at that...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' what else is in it for us,except you....or what else is in us ...OOOOOOO you know what I mean
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RHP User
12 years ago
Happy wife/gf/lover = happy life
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RHP User
12 years ago
A very raunchy sex doco on tv a few months showed how when a woman has an orgasm it actually helps the sperm reach the egg as the internal 'pulses' persay actually work as a vacuum & kindof suck it up there quicker. But for me for pleasure, 20 year old me would have said no but 31 year old me says hell yes must orgasm!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Come on fellas! There is nothing better than making a women lose control and cum uncontrollably!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The thing is... What happens in the bedroom flows onto the kitchen and other parts of the house. In other words- if the woman doesnt get, she doesnt give!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
of cause the lady has to cume first. then the men has fun making her do it again over & OVER THEN HE CAN ONCE SHE IS SATISFIED.
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RHP User
12 years ago
NO YOUR JUST CORECT
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RHP User
12 years ago
Female orgasms produce internal contractions of the vaginal canal and uterus aiding the sperm in its journey to the eggs. Female orgasm also produces a lot of oxytocin, a very important brain chemical in developing feelings of love and attachment, which increases the bond between mating partners (they fall crazy in love for about 3-5 years, the length of time a baby is completely unable to fend for itself out there in the wilds). This increases the chance that the baby will have two parents to look after him/her, increasing the chances of its survival. We women may not NEED to orgasm to fall pregnant but female orgasm does play and important role in both the conception and the viability of a baby long term. That's the evolutionary perspective on female orgasm anyway.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do men need to orgasm? Seems to us theres much more focus on orgasm than there ever is on actually getting down to the 'pleasure' of sex...... to us, its always about the journey....never the destination! 'orgasm' is just one part....of the whole thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Wanna_Orgasm' The thing is... What happens in the bedroom flows onto the kitchen and other parts of the house. In other words- if the woman doesnt get, she doesnt give!! Dude - you meant in terms of making crazy monkey love on the kitchen counter, right? Riiiiiiiiight?
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madotara69
12 years ago
They just want us men to fuck em
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RHP User
12 years ago
Doesn't female orgasm increase the chance of a cooked breakfast in the morning? I'd like to see the data on this relationship... Kidding of course, cereal is fine!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Women do not need to orgasm, like Men do.Women have the ability to choose whether they want to or not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes, yes and yes! Preferably first, then first again, then first again. End of story
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RHP User
12 years ago
I watched a show last night on SBS called "G Spotting: A story of Pleasure"Women now can get their G-spot enhanced and in-larged to increase pleasure??It's called G-spot Amplification.And studies shown that the woman's brain is stimulated when the g-spot is fired off like a cracker.Geeee it was an interesting show...
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RHP User
12 years ago
...are a gambler or could hold a 'poker face' whilst thrashing the sheets? Quoting 'OneEmerald' Women have the ability to choose whether they want to or not. Mind over matter, it matters and you know you want to...double down that bet?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DontLookDown' ...are a gambler or could hold a 'poker face' whilst thrashing the sheets? Quoting 'OneEmerald' Women have the ability to choose whether they want to or not. Mind over matter, it matters and you know you want to...double down that bet? Dam it! Where is that edit button?That theory will have to be tested I think...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald'Women do not need to orgasm, like Men do.Women have the ability to choose whether they want to or not. men can choose as well....all it takes is ability, and practice..there are techniques and even medications that can be used to stall an orgasm and even to have orgasms....without ejaculation...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald' Women do not need to orgasm, like Men do.Women have the ability to choose whether they want to or not. Then the women I've been with really wanted to have an orgasm or three ;) Alas, I am not that lucky as I can only reach it once. Mike, I might have to ask you for those techniques.
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jensta
12 years ago
I think to myself ... Its really Selfish of anyone to question "Do Woman need to Orgasm' I believe Sex is Mutual Pleasure to be Orgasmic for all If its not all that ... there is absolutely no point So all you that don't think a Woman should Orgasm You want a Woman that is Highly Sexed? Right? but you don't want her to Orgasm! What a Joke ... No wonder so many Woman are Jumping the Fence!
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RHP User
12 years ago
And I’m a man.I usually like to... But sometimes I just like to enjoy the feeling of having a woman around me. Granted this is usually two or three fucks into the evening. So while I may be orgasmed out, I still want to feel close.
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inspirit
12 years ago
Oh look something shiny over there......
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have never orgasmed in the 11 years that I was married
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RHP User
12 years ago
And others that are so desperate to orgasm that they can't, and still others who can just relax and enjoy themselves- they're the ones who cum the "hardest" I've found.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The short answer is yes.... & the long one is ohhhhh god yesssssssssssss....!!! Women deserve just as much attention & pleasure, I think to be fair it is selfish if the favour is not returned.. no exceptions nothing worse then having to finish yourself off..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think your man was doing it completely wrong if you havent had an orgasm.
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