M41
Easy to organise SEX in perth
May 23 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are women who will hook up with strangers for sex at short notice, but you have to pay for them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said Koko!!! Hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Want to muck up OP's busy schedule.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
The short notice is because the wife's schedule is a little erratic.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes there are women into the random hook ups. Not sure how common it is though. I have heard sending out loads of "wanna fuck" messages at 2-3am on a Friday and Saturday night can be effective. depends how fussy you are really. Of you are wanting a hot young thing to turn up and suck your cock without you having to making an effort. Well that will only happen if you turn bi-sexual.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you want a woman to fuck you at your request?? Without any investment on your behalf?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Frankly you probably need to know which parks and nude beaches to go to. There is dogging action around although you have to be comfortable with an audience though. But hey... You will be all like minded people fucking randoms which is what you are after. Look up dogging, nude beaches, glory holes, etc.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sex parties, swingers clubs, RHP events, etc.
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RHP User
10 years ago
For sure, and I think the posters above me have already given you some great advice on how to find these nice hot ladies. There's one other thing you can do... set up a template guest profile on RHP and then advertise what you're after by posting a forum topic. The nice hot ladies will respond in droves! You'll be beating them off with a stick! What? You've already done that? Awesome! Best you get down to the chemist & prepare for the rush by stocking up on condoms... I reckon you're gonna need a few packs just this weekend alone :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just read that you only want HOT ladies. Scrap all that above as most people are jut your average joes. Lolz
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are plenty of like-minded women on here, hot or not, but with a template profile and no ability to send messages, I doubt you'll have much luck. The men here outnumber the women greatly, so don't expect many women to message you first. They simply don't have to put the effort in, and for your profile alone there will be a few dozen more appealing ones. In short: You're going to have to do better. Just my thoughts.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I noticed the specification for HOT ladies too, and being an average joe myself, I was a bit crushed that I wouldn't get to meet MrOrgasms. I love short notice, and doing all the work etc. But I'm not hot, nor am I nice and I'm definitely not a lady. So three strikes and I'm out :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are your best bet. You won't get anything from here with that approach. Lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dreaming OP. Though if you work at it, have something to give in the bedroom apart from a sperm donation, know what respect is, understand that women are more than mere sex object, and am willing to put the time in to get to know and befriend someone then maybe not NSA but FWB could happen. If you are after NSA sex at short notice then try the swingers clubs. But that does not guarantee you will get some, that will depend on your personality, attitude, and social skills. There are women that love random sex, but its their market, they pick and you have to have something worth their while to even be in consideration. So sell what you have, maybe its something thats in demand.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Dont sell yourself short. Im sure you are on many peoples 'Hot' list. Mmmmm. On mine too. Never thought to put you on my 'Average' list.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I beg to differ.....Hot, AND nice AND a lady. Mr O wouldnt have long enough with you to appreciate your gorgeous self.........wonder how many messages he has received this morning?
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Not_everydayman
10 years ago
@MrOrgams... you post is typically of an arrogant male who thinks that your god's gift to women. Good luck with that.Unfortunately 90% of the male population is like that. And that is not my estimate...
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
Dude - most of the women on this site have their heads screwed on pretty well. IMO there's nothing in your profile to interest them rather than a random hook up with someone they don't know at an undisclosed location. I'm not saying you're a serial killer, but you could be absolutely anybody. At least set up a public place meeting for a drink/coffee to see if the chemistry's there - because if it's not, it ain't gonna happen. If the first play or two goes ok, then spontaneity may be on the table. Until then..... Say hi to Mrs O! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you both... the two of you rock my world :). Comment about not being average was very tongue in cheek... but I stand by not being ''nice" or a "lady". I like to think I'm neither of those when, um, behind closed doors ;)
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
MrOrgasms.... seriously? I mean...... SERIOUSLY!?!?! So if you're struggling to find a woman, as your topic suggests to be the case...... Im guessing the creative profile name is..... a solo.... performance..... only. Beyond that..... I really don't know where to begin opt end with this topic, your profile..... or the sending of friend requests to randoms.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Would you like fries with that?
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
Hmm and maybe looking at couples as well as single girls.... Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm looking for a nice hot lady that thinks like me, by that I mean WANTS NSA SEX with like minded people & willing to organise in a short time frame? Do these women even exist? Is there anyone that thinks like me in Perth W.A - Posted from rhpmobile A) you want a woman that thinks like you? Women are wired differently to not think like men. B) nsa fun in a short amount of time? No women takes a short of time of getting ready, if you find the solution, please post. C) these women you speak of, don't exist. They do exist though if you pay cash.
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
Mr O, The reality is, you're a guest member which limits the amount of messages you can send. If you were hoping to receive hundreds of messages from supermodels hoping for a quick root in an alley on their lunch break I'm afraid you'll be disappointed. The girls can pick and choose here - it's just reality. Also - your profile really does scream that you're attached and trying to play without permission. Sorry bloke. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Because lots of women like to make an effort. Unless you don't mind us stinking like an arse and having pubes hanging out of out little g-strings. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Couples are a good way to go as well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
are all you conservative good people saying that you have never been online exchanged a few pleasantries and met up on a whim, spur of the moment type of scenario with who was a total stranger an hour before and not got it on together- ever ?Sorry but I'm calling Bullshit
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RHP User
10 years ago
no different than picking up at a club ! Pub ! Or Deli, Mr Orgasms your biggest mistake was asking the Forum as heaven forbid oh my you rude man do you think women like to fuck ? Surely and not on the first date ! Twice in two years have i had an encounter as such , so buddy not really a sure thing , but get chatting and equainted the best you can with an online mystery and then you got a big chance , Go for ya life what have you got to lose, but you gotta cough up buddy guest status get u fuck all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have. It's true. But over all not a great experience for me. Not my thing, so wouldn't do it again.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Astrild you are definitely not average - from your profile and pics, you are definitely HOT :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I must be bullshit then... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
yep i have done things that I think over also but hey..Sometimes to let your guard down and go with the flow and arrive at ( fuck it) To be a sheep and follow the Mob due to popular opinion as what usually happens on here the forum (fuck it ) Not my thing either
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RHP User
10 years ago
Where's all the cock and pussy we want some fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I haven't and I don't think I could. I'm not really into meaningless sex, one reason I stopped going to clubs (not suggesting that's meaningless for everyone though). For great sex I need to be attracted to someone's mind as much as their body and that takes more than an hour usually :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
The quick hook ups are not great sex. There is not build up or flirtation, no real chemistry so that during sex I am pretty disengaged. I know people that go dogging and do randoms, etc, but it's almost like a kink for them I think. The whole experience turn them on. So not for me, but certainly people out there that do.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I had orgama from randoms... Which I don't unless I do it myself.... I would totally do it occasionally. Why would you?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Orgama should say orgasms. Sorry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why wouldn't you I mean. Gee, I really need this coffee!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not for me, meaningless equals pointless. BUT....Ive read a few guys profiles and they are looking for random sex with strangers. So its a turn on for them. Anyone who posts in the forums must expect different opinions and a bit of flak.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Just because someone offers to fuck you....... ....doesnt mean they'll accept. I think thats the point the OP may be missing here. Sure.... these women do exist.... I've known and do know a number of them who are more than willing to send a text stating how horny they re and if I was free. BUT..... you need to lay the foundation of the friendship first.... otherwise, there is no comfort, no trust, and usually not a lot of mutual respect for anything other than a place to get off. And that, is a pretty empty way to interact with people. Rather than focus on how horny you are, OP ).... ..... focus on how you can enrich the lives of people you interact with... and the sex becomes secondary and a regular part of a normal life. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Still waiting for some action - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Though random sex is not as fulfilling, or should i say at times down right regrettable and wrong, it does offer something that makes it worth while. Sexual compatibility is not easy to find, even after spending time to get to know someone and you have the feeling it could go off in the bedroom, it is not always so. So the randoms are a way of trying the all sorts, you may not like all you try but discovering a hidden prize, someone that may not outwardly be your cup of tea, is worth the effort. For me the best came from unexpected encounters, had I been stuck on my preconceived ideals I would not have even left the house to meet them, and also never known how good it can get. Though I am a male and thus do not have the fear of brutes and aggression that unfortunately limits the ladies. Yet the women I meet this way do have a strong confidence and assuredness that I find very appealing.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
As long as guys like you are around I will get lotsof sex even when I am 80. Quoting 'Not_everyday man'@MrOrgams... you post is typically of an arrogant male who thinks that your god's gift to women. Good luck with that.Unfortunately 90% of the male population is like that. And that is not my estimate...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dear Ms Blob..I carefully read your profile and forgive me if I am mistaken,but reading between the lines,I can tell you would definitely be down to fuck on Tuesdays at eleven ,...yours in panting anticipation...Mr.O....not to be confused with Mr.O NO...
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Forgive me if I'm mistaken, but your new main profile shot appears to be taken in front of a storage shed......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lolol...well-said Koko - god there's some Numpty's out there. lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Actually. ....Id like to correct myself & rephrase my last comment..... "God,...there are some halfwitted no-hopers out there"! Actually , it's great that they do all seem to congregate in the same places (Sex/dating Sites) like seagulls. It makes our job so much easier. Lolol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
How old are you? You still don't know which way round a cap is meant to be worn. Your chances of a quick fuck on here are nil but there are lots of prostitutes around that will cater for you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
Storage sheds...... that will never ever get old.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Awwww, you're a little keeper, I'm really surprised you struggling to find someone, just gob smacked......💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr orgasms They call them escort agencies - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr Orgasms forgive the forum nasties, they have an over active sense of moral justice and somehow seem to think we must all land on our feet when it comes to sex, love and relationships. They are quick to point out the flaws in others and seem to enjoy nothing more than good lynching and private giggles. Do not let their perfection detract from the forums. Your questions are legit and understandable. By inference I have extended your questions.1: Why don't women seem to be wanting NSA random sex like most men do? (excluding the forum men of course, who take their daily does of estrogen) 2: Why are they not ready at the drop of the hat to have sex, for no other reason than sex?3: Do they exist?4: Does anyone think like you? The easy ones first.3: Yes they do but they are very rare. They do not necessarily flock to sites like RHP, and though I have said where they can be found that does not mean exclusively. It is only with luck and chance that will let you find them.4: Well not to sure what you ask but assuming that it is the why in questions 1 and 2. Yes plenty of men think and ask Why are women not like us? in that you are not alone. Q1&2: There is no room here to answer your inferred question in full. It is very complex and is a based on culture and biology. Your brains were adapted to deal with a nomadic hunter gather society where sex had a completely different role and risks. How we think is not for the individuals greater good but that of the community in which we live, which for the most part used to have close genetic ties through out. Men sough to spreed their genes, they did not have to risk pregnancy. Women on the other hand had to not only carry for 9months but for years after be the one that did most of the raising. Sex for them was a long term risky investment, subconsciously they select for fitness and health. They will go for the best of any group, why invest so much energy in second best, why hurry, best to assess first. It is why they do not engage in random sex, their subconscious mind is in control, the product of countless generations over millions of years of trial and error. I drives you to want as much sex as possible, it is perfectly natural. In fact you eagerness to have sex will lead you to prefer a stranger over someone you have already had sex with, and prefer a woman that has just had sex than one that has not. You can control that as much as you can control your need to eat. Realizing that men and women subconsciously have different needs from sex will not alleviate personal needs but will help in how you approach and interact. Men are after a place to leave their seed and anywhere will do, women are after what they consider the best for their offspring and most defiantly will take their time selecting. Show them what they think is a good father (not the father role, just the genes) for their children and you will be more sexually desirable. This is a guide, each person is different, and we are as much driven by culture as instinct.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So how was you first-post experience, OP? Fuck, some of you have complained yourselves about how poorly the regular forum crowd treats newbies and now look at this.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Isn't that App starting with T the way to go to find quick hook ups? I thought a lot of young people were using it? Also I wanted to add my comment about "wanna fuck" messages in the early hours of Friday and Saturday nights was real. I have had blokes tell me that they have had some luck that way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your question itself wasnt offensive, lots of guys have on their profile "only looking for random one offs" or "I want one off sex with strangers", it was the line "do these women actually exist?". As if there is a group of women whose sole purpose is to gratify guys who only want to (and this an actual quote from a man on here) find a woman, fill the three holes and leave. Well, who knows, you maybe got lucky this weekend? More than I did........
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I was going to suggest the Ti**er App, because I've heard it works well for horny men and women....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
....... can not seem to find the 'don't like' ..... ...... It sounds like your having trouble finding someone with your current approach ? .... go figure ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
...and unambiguously, I thought, it's a bit disappointing to see how he's been crucified...it was a fairly straight forward question. Would the responses have been different to a woman, or if his picture and tag name been less "confident" ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
lol at that app....it's one of the biggest cons I reckon.... I get more matches in the pasta Isle at the supermarket lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ops choices are his, the same as you lot for being on here. Im sure others could judge you as sexual deviats or sluts. Each to his own. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I'm not surprised, I know you personally remember.... 😝God I think that most of these sites are Cons, but if that's what you're looking for, them you should try all of them, one of them might work eventually lol..... Im only going on what I've been told by both horny I need a fuck now men and women.....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Jokes! I just invite the lady/couple out for a drink and go from there.. if they are interested, 9 times out of 10 action will happen.. don't just say, "hey want to meet up for NSA sex" lol An intellectual conversation over a drink will get you further than what you think. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
confused. MrO just asked if there was any women here that think like him. doesn't he have the right to ask that being this is a sex site. sugar coat this site all u want but reality is this isnt eharmony. Sometimes when im alone i think that it would be nice if someone would come over short notice and we would have hard crazy sex and then he can leave and i can carry on with my day. I dont see the problem with that. Sex with strangers...arent we all strangers on here? - Posted from rhpmobile
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NOTFAKE
10 years ago
mr (alleged)orgasms-with a head like that and an ego that 's even more dubious- I would say you are up the creek without a paddle on this one.Have you thought about a rubber doll-seems like you both would have a lot in common,particularly in the charisma department!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
That the OP's timing was misfortunate. There's bugger all else going on in the way of threads and everyone is getting on board. Perhaps another time may have produced a more positive outlook for the sledgehammer approach....... Yeah........perhaps not.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
That is out of order.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'babytray' confused. MrO just asked if there was any women here that think like him. doesn't he have the right to ask that being this is a sex site. sugar coat this site all u want but reality is this isnt eharmony. Sometimes when im alone i think that it would be nice if someone would come over short notice and we would have hard crazy sex and then he can leave and i can carry on with my day. I dont see the problem with that. Sex with strangers...arent we all strangers on here? - Posted from rhpmobile Surely you must understand that the forums are special place, were sex is next to holy sanctity, where never a random cock is sucked or dripping pussy licked. Sex must be approved, vetted, debated, and left in a dusty place for a month or so. Then and only then can one contemplate some (strictly by the rule book) sex, and I do mean contemplate, as meeting someone you don't know is very dangerous, lord knows you might enjoy it. But really there is a lot more random lust going on than meets the eye. If a bony arsed broke as student like me can get some, then there are lots of guys getting some, which mean there are a lot of women also getting some. But who would admit to that, a random cock to suck just for a thrill. Only certified card carrying........ oh dear I seem to have run out of ink.
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RHP User
10 years ago
the lynch mob strikes again 👎🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Oldie1954
10 years ago
Wait till you get to my age your chances diminish quicker than a cold beer on a hot day. Been here for 8 -9 + years with varying success. A lot of pretenders and would be's if they could be's on this site who get their jollies out of bagging people in forums or ignore messages and flirts. They dont think twice about reading and responding to emails and facebook alerts but respond to a message here, its a joke. So just plod along, invest some money and upgrade your membership to broaden your scope of opportunity and it will happen.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The women who are outraged at some of the replies .....Mr O sends you a message. " Hey you're hot.....lm horny and want a fuck asap. Here's my address. ". You would think, oh good because I feel horny too, and toddle off to shag a complete stranger who might have once been in jail for all you know? Very kind of you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No but I wouldn't insult him or make fun of him either. I think that's just bad form. P.s. Who is outraged, KIS and I for speaking our mind? Nah.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What does the possibility he's been in gaol once have to do with this?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Perfect example why men and women think differently!
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RHP User
10 years ago
A woman was murdered in the States when she went to meet a random guy off a dating site for sex. He was a convicted rapist. You just dont know who you are going to see. Thats why we have chat rooms, cams, mobile phones, Skype, and places to meet for a drink or a coffee......its about personal safety. I wouldnt like to have to explain to a child that his mother was killed by some random stranger that she never even knew? And Im thinking that way as I have a son myself. As I said before, anyone who posts on the forums has to expect some flak....happens to us all?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't approve of his methodology, but i do like the fact he has balls! hahaha He is at least honest and open and has put it on table, thats how he thinks and wants to find a similarity in a women who thinks like him! He doesn't give a rats ass what any of you think! AT least one honest women has responded and said yep she's done it! As opposed to the regular forumites who have labelled him as a rat bag etc My question is? Is the honest and put on the table approach worse then the wine and dine you and sweet talk you and don't forget manners approach, to only find out days/months later he is married and has been stringing you and 3-5 girls along as well?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I feel like a dick saying this - but your name, profile and post imply (to me) you are married.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'want_this_hmm' I don't approve of his methodology, but i do like the fact he has balls! hahaha He is at least honest and open and has put it on table, thats how he thinks and wants to find a similarity in a women who thinks like him! He doesn't give a rats ass what any of you think! AT least one honest women has responded and said yep she's done it! As opposed to the regular forumites who have labelled him as a rat bag etc My question is? Is the honest and put on the table approach worse then the wine and dine you and sweet talk you and don't forget manners approach, to only find out days/months later he is married and has been stringing you and 3-5 girls along as well? The above question is my own question and any copy and misuse of my question to draw up another forum thread will be dealt with the full laws of Copyright works. Regards, want_this_hmm
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' The women who are outraged at some of the replies .....Mr O sends you a message. " Hey you're hot.....lm horny and want a fuck asap. Here's my address. ". You would think, oh good because I feel horny too, and toddle off to shag a complete stranger who might have once been in jail for all you know? Very kind of you. What did he actually do this? I did not read in his OP any description of how he approached people, but knowing me I have missed something here. :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a further confession. I have twice now gone to a blokes house based on a few emails, fucked them, then gone home and never bothered to contact them again. AND I INSTIGATED IT! Ooh I am so naughty. But they were very cute...... A girl can't live on chocolate alone you know!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hold a random for ransom. *eye roll*
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I have a further confession. I have twice now gone to a blokes house based on a few emails, fucked them, then gone home and never bothered to contact them again. AND I INSTIGATED IT! Ooh I am so naughty. But they were very cute...... A girl can't live on chocolate alone you know!!! Now thats exciting! haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
All he asked was if some women like to hook up for NSA sex. What the fuck is wrong with that? I know plenty of women on here that do it so don't act like it doesn't happen. And as for having sex with total strangers...well whether its a dating site, a nightclub or a supermarket plenty of people have had one night stands without knowing the others background. Since when did RHP become such a judgemental battleground.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Actually I do know of a Perth woman who would invite random dudes over to her house... Then she would often fuck them on cam in the chat rooms. Do remember watching a few of her shows. Not sure if she still does that though. Maybe. Will facebook her... Maybe she will come and tell you a few stories. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"copyright question Quoting 'want_this_hmm' I don't approve of his methodology, but i do like the fact he has balls! hahaha He is at least honest and open and has put it on table, thats how he thinks and wants to find a similarity in a women who thinks like him! He doesn't give a rats ass what any of you think! AT least one honest women has responded and said yep she's done it! As opposed to the regular forumites who have labelled him as a rat bag etc My question is? Is the honest and put on the table approach worse then the wine and dine you and sweet talk you and don't forget manners approach, to only find out days/months later he is married and has been stringing you and 3-5 girls along as well? The above question is my own question and any copy and misuse of my question to draw up another forum thread will be dealt with the full laws of Copyright works. Regards, want_this_hmm" Well you'd be quite the dick then eh?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Actually I do know of a Perth woman who would invite random dudes over to her house... Then she would often fuck them on cam in the chat rooms. Do remember watching a few of her shows. Not sure if she still does that though. Maybe. Will facebook her... Maybe she will come and tell you a few stories. Lol. now that's a very clever girl! safety is paramount for her because everyone is watching! why don't more girls think like that? haha I actually met a girl when i was 23, she invited me over to her place, and she had the cam still on, and we fucked on her bed. I find it arousing to be watched, which is had led me on my path to various sex websites.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Actually I do know of a Perth woman who would invite random dudes over to her house... Then she would often fuck them on cam in the chat rooms. Do remember watching a few of her shows. Not sure if she still does that though. Maybe. Will facebook her... Maybe she will come and tell you a few stories. Lol. now that's a very clever girl! safety is paramount for her because everyone is watching! why don't more girls think like that? haha I actually met a girl when i was 23, she invited me over to her place, and she had the cam still on, and we fucked on her bed. I find it arousing to be watched, which is had led me on my path to various sex websites.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry Stir, but sometimes the come over and fuck me now approach by women has me unable to resist. Plus the late night knocking on a strangers door hoping I got the details right or that you were not being played with is worth it just for that. What gets me is that they come from all walks of life, from the wrong side of town to up market side of town. What most fail to understand its not about the sex, its the company, the sex is but a side game. Oh and I have said no more often than yes. That's what swinging is about, not for all that i can say for sure.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' the lynch mob strikes again 👎🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile All the way from Lynchberg Tennessee
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' A woman was murdered in the States when she went to meet a random guy off a dating site for sex. He was a convicted rapist. You just dont know who you are going to see. Thats why we have chat rooms, cams, mobile phones, Skype, and places to meet for a drink or a coffee......its about personal safety. I wouldnt like to have to explain to a child that his mother was killed by some random stranger that she never even knew? And Im thinking that way as I have a son myself. As I said before, anyone who posts on the forums has to expect some flak....happens to us all? I completely agree, unfortunately it's not a rare thing for men an women to get assaulted or murdered by people they meet on dating and other sites (like those for selling items or find house sitters). This week I read a story of a woman who was meant to meet a guy but didn't follow up, only to see his face in the media sometime later as he had murdered someone (his partner I think). I'd never meet a guy in the way the OP describes, and (though admittedly it's none of my business), sometimes feel like shaking the people who do. Having said that, this in my view has no bearing on the OP. I think he asked an honest question in a normal manner, without disrespect. Misguided as that question may have been to some, I feel that him being belittled as and laughed at for it just isn't right. I'll stop now, before I bore even myself x
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blackie251
10 years ago
Au contraire
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RHP User
10 years ago
... and heading back to Tennessee :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeeha! Im joining you...RHPs answer to Thelma and Louise
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RHP User
10 years ago
Woo hoo! Cow girl position all the way!
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RHP User
10 years ago
So you meet someone for coffee first, then go on a play date with them the second time. Doesn't mean that guy ins't a serial killer you know. Far out. I flew to Melbourne to meet a woman who I had become very close friends with online. She invited another male forum member and we had a lovely weekend in a hotel riin. It was the first time we had all met in person. Went to Melbourne again for her birthday and we arranged a MMFF (bi) group thing. We started a thread looking for bi men and picked two and we were away. They came to the hotel, the blokes and never met each other before and we had never met the men before. Friggin awesome night. My FWB and I have gone to blokes houses without having met them first before... except to exchange alot of banter on the forum perhaps. Some awesome memories there too. I suppose all of that doesn't count though? Getting to know someone online a little bit makes all the difference. In fact I have let forum members I have only conversed with on this forum stay at my house when they are in Sydney. I suppose that doesn't count. I have probably trusted lots of people I only met for the first time in all my years of travel... and yeah been in one or two sticky situations... but nothing I couldn't handle and I have never had anything bad happen to me. Ever. I think I am a fairly good judge of character, Now I don't advocate going to random people's places but you know, people do do it here and there. So don't think you are all better than everyone else now will you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Holier than thou....ha ha, wait til I adjust my halo We are not talking about people we have talked to a few times on here, we are talking about complete strangers. This thread has grown arms and legs and became lost somewhere. Yes, we know you like group sex and bi guys, but that wasnt the question, He was looking for someone completely random who would hook up with him at very short notice. Good for him, And he will likely find a couple of women who will do that. I personally wouldnt do it. You would, thats fine, we are different in our preferences and thats allowed. If you ask a question on here, you will get peoples personal opinions. if you cant take a bit of a backlash, dont enter the big bad forums. Theres not much chance of me putting myself on a pedestal on here, not enough room......Ill stand at the back of the queue like the good girl that I am
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RHP User
10 years ago
we are talking about hooking up at short notice after exchanging a few emails no doubt. Same as my example with the bi guys above. People do it all the time. By the way, he said to arrange a hook up in a short time frame... which may be a few days for all you know. You are assuming he is talking about sending a wanna fuck message and expecting Miranda Kerr to turn up 10 minutes later which may or may not be his expectation. Also, he doesn't state that he wouldn't want to meet somewhere public first to see if they hit it off first either. Again another assumption you are all making. There is a whole world of random hookups happening under all our noses. I was just told by a woman on another thread that I am a prude for not going to nude beaches and fucking random dudes in the bushes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You mentioned something I have over time, given thought & keyboard time to : that old chestnut - "having one's messages or flirts replied to". My opinion regarding this topic will no doubt upset some but I will try to be diplomatic. I for one do not feel insulted if my correspondences here , are not replied to. My rationale is this : People don't reply for any number of reasons. Some genuine & some not. It screams of insecurity to feel "wounded" because one's message or flirt wasnt acknowledged. I hasten to add that, in person it is a different story however & good manners "maketh-the-man", always. I always aim to be polite & try to reply even if I dont feel like it . But I do find myself purposefully not responding to the profiles where the Author includes attempts at moral or emotional blackmail or even demands (obviously out of frustration) a response. I have read many,many profiles like this so obviously many guys feel the same. I am surprised that those people enrol on Internet sites such as RHP or other dating/sex sites where there is , by virtue of it being the Internet or a Cyber forum - implied & actual ANONYMITY, and then get bent out of shape because every message or flirt they send is not responded to. I cant help but see one or two traits here. Either arrogance or insecurity. Now, I'm not suggesting for a minute that there's anything wrong with hoping for a polite reply . There isn't - at all. We all hope for that & in an ideal world it wouldnt even be an issue. I do think its fruitless "expecting" it though. But we work with what we have. So, to cut a long story short, i can't be black mailed into stroking someone's ego or taking responsibility for their insecurities Im afraid. No more than I have the right to foist my insecurites on other people either. In other words - I don't get all indignant or insulted if or when I dont receive responses to every correspondence I send out. It's pointless & counterproductive. I am empathetic but not sympathetic. Of course, what helps me to decide to reply is the content & structure of the message/flirt i received in the first place. I acknowledge that others may have differing opinions. This is my philosophy & Im comfortable with it. Cheers if you read this far. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'You are assuming he is talking about sending a wanna fuck message and expecting Miranda Kerr to turn up 10 minutes later which may or may not be his expectation. Also, he doesn't state that he wouldn't want to meet somewhere public first to see if they hit it off first either. Again another assumption you are all making. After all the comments I thought the OP would write women with a "Hey I'm free now, let's meet somewhere for sex" and he you're right, never says that.It is indeed a fetish for many even if that is what the OP did mean, but not one I can support personally. Though again, what consenting adults do is none of my business, and it seems to work for many here, including several well-known forumites. Quoting 'Meeka100' I suppose all of that doesn't count though? Getting to know someone online a little bit makes all the difference. I don't think it makes all the difference (and would never claim that), but I do think it makes a big difference. Being in someone's presence for a while will give most people a reasonable idea of someone's vibe at least I think. Sure, it's not foolproof. I was in bed with a man once (third time we met) when he told me his ex had just taken out an AVO against him, only because he broke her window and jumped in front of her car, refusing to let her leave. All her fault according to him because she shouldn't have refused to talk to him. Scary and (after giving him an earful), I obviously didn't see him again. Some very scary men (and women!) hide their true colours very well, but I'd like to believe they're in the minority.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' we are talking about hooking up at short notice after exchanging a few emails no doubt. Same as my example with the bi guys above. People do it all the time. By the way, he said to arrange a hook up in a short time frame... which may be a few days for all you know. You are assuming he is talking about sending a wanna fuck message and expecting Miranda Kerr to turn up 10 minutes later which may or may not be his expectation. Also, he doesn't state that he wouldn't want to meet somewhere public first to see if they hit it off first either. Again another assumption you are all making. There is a whole world of random hookups happening under all our noses. I was just told by a woman on another thread that I am a prude for not going to nude beaches and fucking random dudes in the bushes. Guilty of making assumptions. But I think it is fair to say this guy just wants a root. And there is nothing wrong and everything right with that. Sorry for the judgemental message OP. RHP is a logical place to be.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I suppose all of that doesn't count though? Getting to know someone online a little bit makes all the difference. The real freaks are the ones that can be someone else when behind a keyboard. Upfront kinksters are just a simple No or Yes Please. Meeting in a social setting first is a good investment.
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