MissAce

MissAce

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Feelings on the terms slut & whore

August 28 2014

These are words with very negative connotations that apply only to women. I have always been against there use as I feel it supports the view that women who enjoy sex are somehow dirty with no morals or respect but men can do as they please. Im unsure of whether to embrace these terms & try to make them positive or continue to be against their use, thoughts please. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Wickedmiss

    Wickedmiss

    8 years ago

    I couldn't agree more with the notion that in the hands of the right man, a woman can be a hundred different women, limited only by imagination and His willingness to make her feel safe and lead her ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We live in such a sterile world these days and offence is usually taken by our sub concious and insecurities and our defence mechanisms are what suggest we are to be offended. Eg what someone finds offensive and reprehensible, is nothing more than a badge to wear with pride by others. I dont take offence but I have thought about taking the gate... I have never heard men speak about a slut as being bad, eg. Man 1"Did you know she was a slut" man 2 " thats awesome . We do however use it out of context and aim it at women as a sorry tool to inflict hurt, nothing anyone should be proud of but remember it takes two to tango. Now when women speak of a slut , it is an insult it is said to harm and why.? I put it to you people out there is it because they are jealous that they cant be themselves, instead living everyday as a poster mum, any way we love the word and when we disagree and scraping the barrell of insults I tell my women she aint no slut because I love sluts. Talk about lighting fires lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sure, I've done slutty-type things in my life. I don't identify myself as a slut. So when I'm called a slut, do I believe them? Not in the derogatory sense. It's all relative. Who are you comparing yourself to? The people who are jealous of you because you know what you like, admit to it, ask for it and have an open mind to it? To hell with them! Time waits for nobody. I wouldn't waste much headspace for those people that do you wrong. One word - apathy. A FlyGirl does want a FlyGirl wants. That is one label I will identify with. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    See if someone called me a slut, I'd puff my chest out, excited, and say 'Really? Thank you so much!' It's the highest compliment they could pay me 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Blokes are mostly rude fkrs, and if I ever heard anyone referring to the women in my life (family, daughter) I wouldn't hesitate to knock there teeth out. I think behind closed doors and if agreed upon yeah go for it but in general day to day life NO! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Jokes aside, it is all in the delivery. Take wolf whistles for example or guys hanging out the window of the car, some give out positive attention, and some are complete morons lol I assess them on a case by case basis 😯 and the nice ones will get a smile, bare minimum, unless they turn around and come back 😉 the other losers probably won't get a root for the next 20 or 30 yrs until they grow up, so no response required, gotta love karma 😛

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