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Feelings on the terms slut & whore
August 28 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally, I never have and never will use those terms. They're offensive, I believe anyway. Others may have a different view.
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
As long as it used in the right context and intention and would encourage reclaiming the words slut and whore. Hell I seem to remember being called dirty slut a few times while tied lately .... Hmmm 3:) Basically it is entirely up to you. If you are comfortable and turned on then go for it and if you don't then don't. Cheers w. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Tone and context can alter the way you feel about many words. But if used in a derogatory manner than that is never acceptable.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Context.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've called a few men sluts, bitches too, but the intent is not to hurt, it is derogatory, but some like that and it turns them on. "Come over here you dirty little bitch and take it like the slut that you are" will bring many a man or woman to their knees But say it in a mean, I want to hurt your feelings because I am threatened and jealous by your liberal and obviously fantastically amazing and varied sex life is not on!
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
Slutshaming by its very nature involves looking as the word slut and all it invokes as a negative. I spent years feeling like slutty was bad. I'm Cumming around. The concept of a slutty woman is a huge turn on for many men. Slut to me has started to = Strong Liberated Untamed Temptress. And why wouldn't that be scary to mainstream society. If someone uses the term as a slur, because a woman is sexually liberated they are an idiot. If they use it as a slur because a woman has lied and cheated, they're hurt...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Calling me Slut is almost as bad as calling me Hun, regardless of the context. And since the definition of Whore is prostitute, that just wouldn't make any sense to me, and I'd be likely to say "What?".
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RHP User
10 years ago
in context but I remember one guy who just kept calling me a slut, his little slut, and it got to a point where it was getting really old and just insulting. He was getting off on calling me a slut and I was just really feeling like one by the end of it, I don't even think I ended up sleeping with him and being his little slut, lol. I am not a fan of whore though, I would have to put my prices up for that.
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Bideas
10 years ago
For me someone calls a woman a slut, it triggers thoughts of a lady who is open with her sexual desires rather than being reserved denying her urges. Whilst some may use it in a derogatory fashion, I feel it is more of a compliment. Each to their own, but those being offended by the term are allowing themselves to be offended by it. Own it and take it as a compliment and you'll no longer feel ashamed to be referenced as such.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd be in favour of reclaiming it, for sure. In fact it's well on the way to being saved already. Jump on board! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
And for me that the point as well. It has to be consensual between both parties. I can be as respectful as anything with the use of the word slut like paradise pair said so well but if the other person feels it is disrespectful to them then still using it turns you Ito an ass. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
As Nan and mum say to me "You call someone those names it makes you look jealous, because your not getting any" I add the above and a little more to my daughter. "And they might be the nicest *insert name here* you'll ever come across" Foxy
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Missb4u
10 years ago
When used in the right context..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' And for me that the point as well. It has to be consensual between both parties. I can be as respectful as anything with the use of the word slut like paradise pair said so well but if the other person feels it is disrespectful to them then still using it turns you Ito an ass. - Posted from rhpmobile you need to be respectful about it or don't do it at all. My mum hates swearing and if she thought anyone was calling her daughter a slut, she would march on in and give them a smacked bottom whether I was enjoying it or not, lol. Some people just don't like it at all and that is their prerogative.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Try reading the Book OP. The Ethical Slut by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton. Great Read :) Foxy xx
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'Araps' And for me that the point as well. It has to be consensual between both parties. I can be as respectful as anything with the use of the word slut like paradise pair said so well but if the other person feels it is disrespectful to them then still using it turns you Ito an ass. - Posted from rhpmobile you need to be respectful about it or don't do it at all. My mum hates swearing and if she thought anyone was calling her daughter a slut, she would march on in and give them a smacked bottom whether I was enjoying it or not, lol. Some people just don't like it at all and that is their prerogative. Thats some kinky shit you've got going there Ralf...Mum joining in on the action (yeah yeah, I know, I've taken it out of context....just couldn't help myself. )
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'kissk' Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'Araps' And for me that the point as well. It has to be consensual between both parties. I can be as respectful as anything with the use of the word slut like paradise pair said so well but if the other person feels it is disrespectful to them then still using it turns you Ito an ass. - Posted from rhpmobile you need to be respectful about it or don't do it at all. My mum hates swearing and if she thought anyone was calling her daughter a slut, she would march on in and give them a smacked bottom whether I was enjoying it or not, lol. Some people just don't like it at all and that is their prerogative. Thats some kinky shit you've got going there Ralf...Mum joining in on the action (yeah yeah, I know, I've taken it out of context....just couldn't help myself. ) she walked in on me
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find it sad that "whore" is used in such a perjorative manner. I have 3 friends who worked as prostitutes when they lived in England. They are each wonderful women with respectable jobs and strong self esteem. They are much better as persons than some women I have met who were not sex workers. I think no less of them for their life choices.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
I loathe being called either, regardless of context. Guaranteed way to piss me right off.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Will do sexual favours for chocolate.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
"The Aldi supermarket chain has removed iconic Roald Dahl children's book Revolting Rhymes from its shelves after complaints from customers about the use of the word "slut". The offending word is found in Dahl's comical take on the Cinderella fairy tale. In it, the prince sees Cinderella in her impoverished rags as he goes house to house trying to find the owner of the shoe left behind at the palace ball. "The Prince cried, 'Who's this dirty slut?" the poem reads. "'Off with her nut! Off with her nut!'" Revolting Rhymes, first published in 1982, is a collection of poems which takes six well-known fairy tales and gives them a modern, comical spin. The Macquarie Dictionary defines "slut" as a "dirty, slovenly woman" or as a promiscuous woman or man. Dictionary editor Susan Butler said the basic sense of the word was "dirty". And, while the word originally applied to women, in modern usage it could refer to a man or a woman. "Probably in British use, there's connotations of class," she said. But she warned against letting words take control of people's decisions. "Once you start reacting to any word with a gut reaction, rather than an intellectual reaction, then you've lost control," she said. "You are letting the words run you." A spokeswoman for Aldi confirmed the chain had removed copies of Revolting Rhymes from its stores following "comments by a limited number of concerned customers regarding the language used in this particular book". The picture books only went on sale on Wednesday. On Wednesday, one customer posted to the Aldi Australia Facebook page:"My neighbour bought a Roald Dahl Brooke from your store today and there is a unacceptable word in it for kids!!! Not ok! [sic]" Within hours of Aldi's decision becoming public, its Facebook page was inundated with critical comments. "I am appalled at Aldi withdrawing the Roald Dahl book, Revolting Rhymes," one customer wrote. "I am a frequent shopper at your Rydalmere store -- BUT NO MORE!! You people are absolutely pathetic to cave in to such a petty complaint about one word in this book." Another appalled parent defended Roald Dahl's language and blamed the "wowser brigade". "What IS wrong with you?! That book is a childhood classic, one that I loved as a child and one that I had planned to go in and buy for my own children this week," they wrote. "Roald Dahl's brilliantly hilarious, subversive and inspiring works should be compulsory reading for every child. Hugely disappointed in you Aldi." One Facebook user asked if Aldi would now stop selling dictionaries that contained "bad words"." I think that is going too far.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Roald Dahl said slut in a book from 1982. Some people that just bought it at Aldi are offended. Thoughts?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks Meander. I think we should make that mandatory. I almost never read long posts, so a brief synopsis or couple of sentence overview is perfect for me.
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perthangler
10 years ago
generally i think they are derogatory words that i wouldnt use although possibly it could be ok in some roleplay
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
I like being called a slut or being described as being slutty by people or friends I have played with. I am sexually wanton and freely express myself through my sexual actions. I actually get turned on being called a slut during sex. If someone that I did not know called me a slut at the petrol station then that would be bad as they are simply trying to offend me. As far as John I am always calling him a "man whore" as I do like to lend him out to a divorced friend of ours at times. Us girls like to talk in front of him working out the details of him going to her house and "servicing her needs". He loves it!As far as me being called a whore by people I don't know, well it doesn't make sense as I am not a prostitute.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great post, Meander, re Revolting Rhymes. People fail to understand the meaning of words at the time literature was written, and the fact that those meanings may have changed over time. I laughed the other day when someone called the forum a nunnery, in the context of like a convent when in fact the term means a bordello. I also find it a bit lazy when people's vocabulary is limited to the words slut and whore when there are such good old epithets as slattern, hussy, floozy and harlot. Not to mention tramp, tart, baggage and wanton. It wouldn't have happened in my day, I tell ya....
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
The use of slut it whore is Definetely a contextual thing. I love nothing more than hubby calling me those things in the throes of passion or even before that point when your justices are atartibg to flow. People get offended too easily these days..... Words can't hurt at the end of the day. - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
This type of language reinforces the patriarchal paradigm. Evidence of this can be found in the use of these words generally, to denigrate women, or to praise men. Control of women's sexuality keeps decision making power out of the women's hands, and denigrating women who choose to control their sexuality, thus lowering the burden of responsibility for men's own behaviours. Look some of the views on rape within marriage, or the rape of a 'fallen' woman, where somehow a woman's right to say no has been diminished. Anyway, who wants a world where women repress their sexuality and sexual freedom.
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
Just changed that word when I read it and blacked it with permanent marker for when they read it lol :D they are awesome poems and fractured fairy tale examples... Back to topic :) I call men sluts and bitches all the time but only in an affectionate relationship appropriate way... They never seem offended 🙊 Hmmm and I call people Hun and sweet all the time too... 🙈 Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think people have the right to say what they please. Everyone makes mistakes. If I find myself offended or perhaps I don't understand something someone is saying to me I immediately take any negativity away incase I miss interpreted something. If it's obviously obscene I like to take the opportunity to practise my diplomacy skill and calmly laugh on the inside before voicing any sort of retort. As an individual I make a choice to, for example, be involved, put up with it or remove myself from those particular situations that present themselves from time to time. I do find myself occasionally reacting to slander but not often. I try to constantly work on my self-confidence, accomplished by implementing pro active steps, assisting me to be a good person, what I find that helps this along is actively doing good things for others and not just simply avoiding doing bad things. There are ways to assist in establishing a good foundation of self respect that is self help orientated. Don't wait for others to tell you how good a person you are, know how good you are but don't forget to always be humble ;) To summarise quickly I would like to dig up one of my oldest memories to share with everyone. :) "Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me." ... Works for me.. Most of the time lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's one word I dislike ? Also dislike the word cunt ? Anyway I don't nor ever have seen a lady as a slut :) I'd say more a great sport then a slut...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Men love "sluts" it's generally other women that use it in a derogatory fashion and judge.. same with what you wear your size etc etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Roald Dahl said slut in a book from 1982. Some people that just bought it at Aldi are offended. Thoughts? I'm not defending the dickhead book-burners who want the book removed from shelves... but "slut", as you mentioned in your post previous, meant something different then. Roald Dahl was English, and in England it exclusively referred to being unkempt or domestically unruly. "Slut" having a sexual connotation was an American innovation. In fact, the Oxford dictionary only included the sexual definition in 2004. Which is weird, because it's the only definition I've ever known... The Roald Dahl book is excellent either way, and should be mandatory reading for all kids. AS to the original question, I don't really like either word. They ooze shame and degradation in a pretty ugly way, for things that aren't in any way shameful. If women reclaim the words for their own ends and strip them of their negative power, then I'm all for that though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
They're only a slut when they won't fuck you !
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RHP User
10 years ago
hell yeah been walked in on many times ooops !
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you just got caught out on the wrong thread.
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RHP User
10 years ago
with "openman" !!! If a man used the word "slut" or "whore" to me, I'd "drop" him like a hot rock !!! Amy+
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RHP User
10 years ago
usually a term that is directed towards a woman, pray tell, what is the equivalent term for a man ? I would just like to know for future reference !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
if a man uses either word towards a woman, even if it is in "fun", unless the woman "knows" the man exceptionally well, there may be a niggling doubt as to whether he really meant it. Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone has different dynamics. But for me, I dislike it intensely it has too many overtones of ownership and gender bias which just rub me so wrong. :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
Slut...........Stud , only difference is the Gender !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Called an ex girlfriend a dirty slut and a dirty whore a few times while feeling her up (before sex) and it was an instant turn on for her... Was never said in a negative way, just a bit of dirty talk which she enjoyed and never used outside of the bedroom... Or lounge room... Or kitchen... Or bathroom... Or.... It does depend on the girl. My current partner doesn't really like dirty talk so it's off the cards - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Slut is the 1 word that my ex knew would bring me to tears we were together for 12 years and I believe if u are with someone u are with only them my ex however had other ideas and after 8 years I found out he had cheated not only then but our entire relationship. We briefly split silly me took him back and here I am again after many more cheating events. The "slut" in our relationship was him which I never called him yet every argument I was the "slut" and I instantly broke down as id always remained faithful to the mutt of a man - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I met a girl in a park yesterday for lunch I think she got off on me calling her those names, I only say that as she came all over my cock. I guess everyones different and have their own wants. One thing I do ask the person I'm with is their boundaries, I had one who loved it and maybe ill met one who doesn't. I do find name calling and dirty talk very very hot
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RHP User
10 years ago
Slut is defined in the dictionary as a dirt woman, one who has no hygiene . But truth is I think it is derogatory full stop . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
a prostitute is a person woman or man who gets paid for sexa whore is some one of loose morals ( just enjoys sex )we all enjoy sex well most of us anyway so unless your getting paid who caresENJOY
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RHP User
10 years ago
Should be a reflection of the moment….If you like or get exited with the taste of the forbidden, then in the right circumstances terms like slut, whore or bitch can be very erotic….just because you are pushing social boundaries and bringing forth the images of sexual openness and even debauchery. I love woman and I have a great respect for them…..but love playing and finding ways to stimulate all the senses :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Obviously you have to be in tune with your lovers mood at the time, and all express the desire to see them in many eyes.........by christ there are nights when you not only what to spank your partner, but whishper quietly .....,,,, with a gravelly groan.... when we get home young lady I am to show that slutty little attitude of yours no mercy .... grin
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abcplus1
10 years ago
No doubt of that. But sometimes the shoe fits, other times they are said in jealousy or spite, others times in heat and passion. All depends on context as has been said.
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RHP User
10 years ago
theres a couple of sl... here 1 male 1 female . been a shade on the way not enough side for two long , keep us in mind lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of the forums :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think they are perfectly fine if used in a positive way. I often use them if the person finds it to be a positive, fun thing. I've known a lot of women who enjoy being called "a filthy little slut" etc. in the right context. But I would never talk like this to anyone if they felt disrespected in anyway. It's like the word "fuck". It's harshness depends on the intent behind it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
...as long as you don't mind my nails penetrating your scrotum squeezing relentlessly after you call me a slut, with my words: "who's the slut now bitch?" Yes, that actually happened
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't think there's a good definition for either of the words. What makes someone a slut or a whore? Someone that likes a lot of sex. Who fucking cares. Good luck to them I say. As long as they are enjoying their life no one should judge them for that. There is a term out there I've herd around the place which is 'man whore' so it goes both ways I think and my response is the same. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I prefer to think of myself as a strumpet!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not really. Stud is usually a positive connotation - a male who is appealing and sexually successful with women. A slut is usually a negative connotation - a woman who is sexually promiscuous and of low moral virtue.
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RHP User
8 years ago
as many have commented on its definitely the context it is used and how it is said. if in a sexy, cheeky way during sex it could be a turn on (or off if you don't know the partner that well) but if used to hurt or used in judgement of others then its not on. if you cant say anything nice, don't ay anything at all
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RHP User
8 years ago
so are whores.... Fuck all the negativity, it's negative only to those who choose to see it negatively. I am SLUT and I'm a whore of the forums!!!! Yes I'm aware of its derivative.....but fuck it, if ya wanna cling onto some kind of ancestory of a word, fine, you'll do it alone in my book. Sticks and stones kinda thing really....
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RHP User
8 years ago
Highly disrespectful. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AbnormallyNormal' I prefer to think of myself as a strumpet!
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neapolitan_guy
8 years ago
You have ask a important question l recon. When I was growing up as a teenager l never got the hypocrisy of stud, slut thing and still don't. Slut, slutty, whore and cunt are not words l use unless invited and l believe should not be used to describe anyone. Rather empowering words and terms, l enjoy hearing them roll off a woman's tongue though. I had a conversation with a wonderful woman for 4 months and wrote raunchy stories to her for her. This evolved into phone sex and from conversation and clear communication these words would be brought into the conversation with timing and context,l'd following her lead and it was like progressing through stages or levels. I found it an amazing part of the conversation because it had a special place only. I asked at the beginning, l didn't assume and l shared with her what I thought. Most important is your choice to or not to use and either way be empowered. Cheers
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I call a few very close girlfriends these names - and they love it! It's used in a particular context with people who know its affectionate rather than derogatory. It's usually something along the lines "oh you big slut."
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RHP User
8 years ago
That's Cool :) Just confirms you see it in a negative way.....which is fine. I'll just be sure to not call you that :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
And obviously I know not of your colleagues, or their jobs. I like to use these words in banter, which for me reduces its capacity to ever be derogatory. I guess though over prolonged exposure to a demeaning context it'd be harder to be resilient to it... Or I'm just weird lol or both lmfao
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RHP User
8 years ago
Dirty words in the bedroom like slut, whore, little bitch is sexy and hot😏, call me that in the street and I'd probably backhand them 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Bedroom talk is for the bedroom. We are all equal. Respect. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
How can either of these words be used in a positive way around woman. So your mate comes over and says your wife is a good looking slut, you can see this in a positive light?? How about you overhear someone calling your Daughter such a thing. Your ok with that? Really??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'whatdoyareckon' How can either of these words be used in a positive way around woman. So your mate comes over and says your wife is a good looking slut, you can see this in a positive light?? How about you overhear someone calling your Daughter such a thing. Your ok with that? Really??? you've never heard the one that in Australia (or New Zealand) we call our mates a cunt, and a cunt our mate? or girlfriends who have their groupchat labelled as "slutbags"? or when you're buddy is being dumb he's being a silly dickhead... but someone you don't like is a fucking dickhead. The fact that it could be so offensive is oddly what makes it never able to sit in the middle ground - it's either used to be offensive, or used to signal affection. Context is everything.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have a girlfriend who loves it when I call her a slut and she says "oh you know that turns me on." But if a random stranger said that of course it would be offensive. It's all about the context - those words should never be directed towards someone unless you're completely sure said person will understand they are a sign of affection. Likewise I am called a whore by close friends and think it's hilarious! The other acceptable situation is behind closed doors. Both men and women get off being called sluts, whores, bitches etc. But again it's something that both parties should be 100% comfortable with and get s positive experience from. Whether it's distasteful to others or not is not for as to judge.
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RHP User
8 years ago
"Morgan's Dog" by A. B. (Banjo) Patterson CBE.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' "Morgan's Dog" by A. B. (Banjo) Patterson CBE. is a term I don't like to hear and I have seldom ever used. I have always taken that word for it's traditional definition about a woman's state of dress. Banjo Patterson's work here suggests use of that word would not preclude award of the 'Companion of the British Empire'.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' Quoting 'ontology' "Morgan's Dog" by A. B. (Banjo) Patterson CBE. is a term I don't like to hear and I have seldom ever used. I have always taken that word for it's traditional definition about a woman's state of dress. Banjo Patterson's work here suggests use of that word would not preclude award of the 'Companion of the British Empire'.
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RHP User
8 years ago
"Slut" is what you call a woman who fucks anyone. "Whore" is what you call a woman who fucks everyone but you. (said with tongue in cheek) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
8 years ago
Are important here, and trust. With the right person, with trust established being called a dirty little slut is as hot as. Wrong intent - its just offensive. My motto in life is Lady in the streets, Vixen between the sheets
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree they're truly inappropriate to be used. I agree again that certain men in this world feel they have a right to define females by their enjoyment of sexual intimacy and yet can get away with doing whatever they please..even to an extent of being defined as studs or sex gods.. its pathetic!! Women that are in touch with their sexuality should truly enjoy it..
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islandkinks
8 years ago
In my book words don't exist. Some peoples interests is sex or alot of it, some like to collect stamps. We are all different individuals. Its a moral thing. Liberal people have different values in life. I enjoy sex alot. I guess that makes me a man whore. Boohoo who cares lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
I for one love Sexually Liberated Ultimate Temptresses...... It's only a word, you get to choose your reaction to the words others use!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm all for women having sexual freedom, but given the prelevance of sexual assault and the like in the world, it has become I think a very hurtful and degrading word. Used in the right context with someone you know and trust, no worries. Any other time, certainly not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hate both terms and god help any man who calls me either. That'll be the last thing he says to me! Mwahahaha!
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RHP User
8 years ago
If someone treats their lover this male feels insecure and paranoid about you see another male friend. This person has rage of jealousy and hatred towards your male friend. By calling you nasty negative name tells you their ego and confidence is threatened by another person. It's their problem and this jealous male needs to see a relationship counselor before the fight or flight act out. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Exactly, and I for one, would love to be someone's slut today 😉 it's all a kind of role play for me but more a fetish. It doesn't mean they don't respect me ffs what's with women who can't relax sexually, then sit around on the forum casting judgment on women who can. Sexual abuse? Wtf are you talking about ladies, we're having sex here, it's role play, fun remember? Don't over think it, just relax and let yourselves go
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RHP User
8 years ago
So demeaning, would and don't use these words. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
8 years ago
I like them all when used in the right context. But like everything each to their own.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Every single time a man sleeps with a lot of women, he’s called a stud. But if a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she’s called a slut, and people think this is unfair… Nah. It’s completely fair, and I’ll tell you why, alright? ‘Cause it’s fuckin’ easy to be a slut. It’s fuckin’ hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty, charming, be well-dressed, have nice shoes, and a fake job. To be a slut you just have to be there. There are fat ugly sluts out there, there are no fat ugly studs. Jim Jefferies
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Byrondreaming' there are no fat ugly studs. I think you'll take some heat for making a mistake with this post. Byron meant to say "no fat ugly poor studs" Fixed it for you ;) no need for an asbestos suit now :p
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RHP User
8 years ago
What a crap word. I cringe at words for sexually rampant guys...stud, bull, stallion, raj etc. They are sexually active men. Thats it. Same with women. Sluts, whores, cows....over it. Ive met enough thoroughly lovely guys and girls on here in the last 3 years that do not deserve stupid names just because they enjoy sex. The only issue I would have is with sexually active people not practising safe sex. In the third quarter of 2016 the STI reported incidences in WA rose considerably. People with no regard for their own or others sexual health might be more deserving of a specific name.
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Starlet1
8 years ago
When someone describes a person as a slut we politiely mention that enjoying their sexuality doesn't hurt anyone and is a great, empowering choice and move on. The girl in question had just slept with 3 different guys over 3 nights. We didn't care to mention that both Mr Starlet1 and I have slept with multiples of that in a single night 😂🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bazingal
8 years ago
most of the time. But I disagree with the words above. Slut and whore are (in my opinion) derogatory. And to add fat and ugly is disgusting. Everyone* has the right to enjoy sex their way. How often and with whom should be their decision. Keep the labels and name calling out of it. *consenting adults
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RHP User
8 years ago
Till the day men and woman are equally accepted in sexual terms (amoungst a whole heap of other issues), I don't feel the words are justifiable Plain and simple - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not taking any heat, that was straight Jim Jefferies!, cut n pasted. I laughed the first time I read it and it still makes me chuckle, especially the part about buying shoes and inventing a fake job!. Ladies are unlikely to ever understand the difference and I'm glad they don't, because they deserve to be in front some times, but the reality is, to get laid, all most women need to do is show up. I'm not calling anyone names here by the way!, that's just a funny paragraph made by a comedian doing an act.
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Limited_Editionx
8 years ago
So I am wondering... if I was having a flurry of sexual encounters with other females and I wanted to label myself would I be a #slut or #stud? Xx Miss L.Ed.
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Lookntouch
8 years ago
Filthy dirty words.....which regularly come into play with us. It's all fun and games + a lil choking going both ways 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have been called a slut or web slut a few times just because I have shared nude pics of myself on the net. Personally I dont take any notice.
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PurePeony
8 years ago
I love dirty talk and role play so if a man I'm playing with called me his dirty little slut / whore, it would turn me on... massively! I want to be both a Madonna and a whore to my lover. I may be prudish IRL but behind closed doors, I am a dirty slut and a whore. I recently met a gorgeous and really wonderful TV and we hit it off almost instantly. Not 10 minutes into our meeting, she called me "slut" and I called her "bitch" and we'd giggle everytime we did that. If someone called me those terms in a derogatory way, that wouldn't be nice but instead of being confrontational, I think I would like to be able to just walk away and avoid these mean, nasty people. No point getting my feathers ruffled over the callous name-calling from people I dislike and have nothing to do with anyway. I simply don't give a damn what others think unless I like them and they are important to me. Otherwise, pfft... I wouldn't waste any time nor energy on the opinions of shallow and mean-spirited folks who are merely strangers anyway.
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Bazingal
8 years ago
Quoting 'Limited_Editionx' So I am wondering... if I was having a flurry of sexual encounters with other females and I wanted to label myself would I be a #slut or #stud? Xx Miss L.Ed. Love your work xxxMaybe a new word? SLUD or STUL?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Bazingal' Quoting 'Limited_Editionx' So I am wondering... if I was having a flurry of sexual encounters with other females and I wanted to label myself would I be a #slut or #stud Xx Miss L.Ed. Love your work xxxMaybe a new word? SLUD or STUL? Or just plain lucky!!
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Limited_Editionx
8 years ago
#Slud sounds like a squashed slug!!! 🙈😂😂😂😂 Bazingal and Time will Tell.... I think you could coin a new term here! I'd wear a shirt with #lucky slud on it!! Xx Miss L.Ed.
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RHP User
8 years ago
to me that word is not bad because it has a meaning and thats is S= sexuall=liberatingu=unleashingt=treasurethere for me i turn what would be a negative thing into a positive brentos465
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RHP User
8 years ago
Context is everything, an insult is an insult be it calling someone fat, stupid or a whore. I embrace my sexuality these days, after many years unfulfilled, feeling ashamed0 & two failed marriages, I have enjoyed my non monogamous single years very much. I love being "Daddys little slut" as much as I love being his princess. We attach meaning to everything through our experience. I choose celebrate being an ethical sex addict aka slut. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Context is everything... in just about everything in life... without context everything is black and white... no shades of grey at all... and where would we be without shades of grey?
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