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Girls, do you really like muscular guys?
April 01 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah. Big strong muscular guy's armpits are ... you know... spot on. I don't think there can be any doubts about my observations of muscular armpits over many years so there's no way women would disagree with me.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hello Shyguy, I prefer muscular over skinny, but not Arnie Schwarzenegeer muscley. As for Gen Y I don't know, as you say the trend is for skinny, skinny jeans and Justin B hair. Not my thing at all. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
A man's gotta look like a man for me. Muscles and bulging veins , bring it on
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MissSarahCurious
14 years ago
A bit of definition is lovely to look at and touch but bulging veins are ick, and if you have to walk around with your arms bent because you can't put them down by your sides, it's a real turnoff for me, as are pecs that are bigger than my boobs... . quit while your'a head is still wider than your neck! :p xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know what I love - those gorgeous young things with muscular arms and chests with armband tattoos. Topless with low slung jeans to show off those washboard abs. Yum.I just love men in a good pair of jeans. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I just love men in a good pair of jeans. I wonder what JG thinks about that?Shyguy: take a look at the girls that are on the arms of the kids in the skinny-arse-at-the-knees jeans (and the obvious weird cowlick of hair across one side of the face)... besides the fact they all seem to be at most 15, would you want to pick one of them up? I mean, how would you do it? I don't know that just putting on ridiculous jeans and a cardigan will cut it... Would they swoon at "Hi, my legs are thinner than your arms, isn't that hot?" or "I sob on facebook about...everything" perhaps take it up a notch with the "hey, I've got a collection of T-shirts for bands from before I was born, wanna come see?"
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't go for skinny guys and I am Gen Y. Skinny guys totally turn me off. They remind me of 13 yr old boys. Yuk! I would actually prefer a obesed guy over a skinny guy any day. lol @ least an obesed guy looks like a man! So i would have to say muscular although too muscular is a turn off for me. I guess toned is more the word?? My ideal man's body would be either someone toned or someone just a little overweight.It All depends who you are trying to attract. If you like Asian girls. You should just remain lean and skinny. Asian girls are used to of an asian man frame which is small and skinny so they are more accepting of a skinny man.If you like white/caucasion girls. Muscular would be the way to go.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sarah I like the bulgy veins, cos it means they've just used them or pumped them mmmmmmm
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jensta
14 years ago
Love a strong Muscular Man! xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sydneyboy - those are harsh words... maybe not your thing butt each to their own. And of course I forgot to mention the most important thing... the hot rock hard arse. You know the kind Sydneyboy, those boys that play lots of sports just have the best arse and legs..... mmmm just want to lick them all over. xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
lickum all over ya say? haha,sounds good... though I heard naughty girls like yourself smack those sort of bums PRETTY hard, lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not me Syd I am as gentle as a lamb. Oh so Meek... I promise honey you wont feel a thing......... well not until later
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RHP User
14 years ago
but they don't seem to like me.... I work out in the gym a lot..I like training with weights cause it helps me sculpt my body as I'm losing weight. I look pretty damn good for a girl my size...but I'm still not confident enough with my size to actually put the moves on someone.... lol I grew up around athletes and there is nothing more arousing for me than a guy that has taken care of himself, but doesn't have a huge head about how awesome he looks. If I compliment a guy, there is nothing sexier for me than him saying thanks and nestling in close to my ear and whispering a nice little sweet nothing back to me... even if it is just about my eyes or smile. So I think that is the best advice I could give. Be happy with how you look and be confident, as I think thats what girls like the most. If a girl you likedoesnt like you for you and how you want to look, move on... there's always someone else who will accept you for you.... now why can't I take my own advice.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find a partner that looks after there body, will at least keep at with you in the bedroom. Nothing better then a long Cardio workout in the sack
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RHP User
14 years ago
Can I go against the grain and ask for guys to be somewhere in between? I'm not a fan of the bulging muscle arm type and the stick thin type doesn't do anything for me either.
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MissSarahCurious
14 years ago
Quoting 'Frack_Me' but they don't seem to like me.... I work out in the gym a lot..I like training with weights cause it helps me sculpt my body as I'm losing weight. I look pretty damn good for a girl my size...but I'm still not confident enough with my size to actually put the moves on someone.... lol I grew up around athletes and there is nothing more arousing for me than a guy that has taken care of himself, but doesn't have a huge head about how awesome he looks. If I compliment a guy, there is nothing sexier for me than him saying thanks and nestling in close to my ear and whispering a nice little sweet nothing back to me... even if it is just about my eyes or smile. So I think that is the best advice I could give. Be happy with how you look and be confident, as I think thats what girls like the most. If a girl you like doesn't like you for you and how you want to look, move on... there's always someone else who will accept you for you.... now why can't I take my own advice..... As for the boys working out, my sis works at a gym and she says half the men there will never notice you unless you get between them and the mirror. LOL. I wouldn't worry about them, go for the trainers instead. .I've met and played with a few personal trainers and while there are many that only want someone who looks as fit as they do, there are also many who just love a confident woman who doesn't get intimidated by what he does for a living or insist on fucking with the lights off. Plus still having breasts helps... Relax and enjoy!xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
When I was in my 20's I liked guys on the slim/wiry side. It wasn't until I hit my 30's that I really started to appreciate more "built" guys. Generally I don't like gym built though... I like tradie bodies... the muscle seems to sit differently when it's built from labour as opposed to concentrating on specific zones at the gym.What I don't like and think looks hilarious is huge built upper bodies where the legs have been totally neglected. That's a barrel of laughs.Shyguy127 - from your pic... you're totally hot! I'd say the gym work is definitely paying off and it surely can't hurt your cause!
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RHP User
14 years ago
PBG, He certainly does look a bit of alright... despite the darkness and grainy nature of his picture.... only wishing a few of him lived in the NT.. LongHorn.... thin does not equate to healthy.... a friend of mine, my gym partner and PE teacher at school, who plays for SDFC always compliments me on my cardio ability for a bigger girl; he actualy uses me as an example of a fit person no matter your size, I get out and play games with my kids daily and it's only because of recent illness that I haven't been at the gym. Since I have been doing yoga for 20 od years, my flexability is through the roof.... something he really admires about me.... I havent had any complaints from men on keeping up with them, in fact I get told I want more than they can give at one time. A man with masive stamina is what it takes to keep up with me, hense why I like men with good endurance fitness....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nothing like working our the glutes and thighs by riding cowgirl.. Love that ache the next day.Yeee haw!As an aside, I'm totally unfit and have never had any problems keeping up. Heh. Guys generally do have to work so much harder than girls though - there really should be no reason for a woman to not keep up*, whatever the fitness level.*Well, I will admit pounding away with a strap-on can be quite hard work, just need to find a good position and find your rhythm and all good.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is just a gay bar with weights. l l I prefer a large frame on a man. Big arms, broad chest, a decent arse - enough to grab a hold of anyway. However nice it is to have someone all buff from working out, I like the work hardened look. Those that do a hard physical job look different to those who gain thier muscles from the gym. l I guess that is why so many tradies look so hot.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i used 2 hav a 6 pak now iv got a keg lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
u look yummy in your pik not 2 skinny but just rite
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RHP User
14 years ago
A gay bar? What has a gym got to do with sexuality? I don't care for political correctness but the things you say sometimes really??? Who says that about a gym?? You're making this shit up as you go along! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Than homo latent.... Men like to look and see how they look compared to other blokes. They talk about how much they can lift and what works for them. Gyms are social interaction for straight men. For gay men.... It's as above plus checking out.... Just like girls who go to the gym. We all love the thought of hot sweaty bodies.... In fact, I'd like to make hot sweat contact as I type....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'A gay bar? What has a gym got to do with sexuality? I don't care for political correctness but the things you say sometimes really??? Who says that about a gym?? You're making this shit up as you go along! Hugs Stalky Get over whatever wild hair has found its way up your arse. What a shame I can not intimate that you are maybe going through menopause. It was actually a joke...told to me by a man at the gym.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fair shake of the sauce bottle Stalky! xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
R has massive strong arms and shoulders, and they are gorgeous. Just knowing that he can pick me up and sling me over his shoulders is really sexy.....He has a really physical job so that keeps him strong and fit, he doesn't need the gym. And I have to agree with the skinny boy comments...YUK...I wouldn't want my man to be able to fit into my jeans. My man has to be able to totally embrace me. Good luck Shy guy, and as the others have said, don't take it all totally seriously, some muscles is good... Doing an Arnie is going to far!
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RHP User
14 years ago
what about avergae guys? like i have the size and the muscle but im not the kinda guy who spends hours in a gym to get the perfect body i got the abs but are shy hehehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have a great friend who is very fit and muscular, but he's like only 5 foot 8. He loves skinny jeans. He's one of those ruggedly outdoorsy metros who can get down and dirty but loves to highlight his best features.He has skinny chicken legs... his words... and a great chest and set of arms on him. He is by no means thin like a rake, nor a emo wanna be bieber-ite. I think what we are confusing is how men dress to their style. A skinny bloke is gonna have to buy clothes that fit him. As does a muscular man. As for personal preference... I have always liked men who are taller than me. and built because I don't feel I will snap them in two. that reminds me... I need sex with a hot, well built bloke.... yummo
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RHP User
14 years ago
Most girls and guys like muscular guys. Give me muscles anytime
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RHP User
14 years ago
As long as you don't end up looking like a stocking stuffed with walnuts, well toned muscles look good. Keep in mind that no amount of beautiful body will make up for a dud personality.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mrs Pup wouldn't want you any bigger...too big and she's just damn scared. She likes your hairy chest too
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RHP User
14 years ago
Muscular, for sure, but make sure you don't neglect your legs. Muscular legs and ass and good for driving things home in the sack
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RHP User
14 years ago
What jojobox said - actually, that's how my trainer explained the lockout in a deadlift lol
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'Mrs Pup wouldn't want you any bigger...too big and she's just damn scared. She likes your hairy chest too I agree with Mrs Pups here...your body is as muscly as it should get! I myself love the "swimmers body" mmmmm! Real turn on...but men with big muscles...I will run in the other direction! Stay away from the steroids too...a big body and thick neck with a pin head is so unattractive! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yesterday my man and I and a few friends went to Cronulla for a lunch and some coffee. Anyone familiar with the mall will know there are plenty of outside eateries. The ideal place to sit chat and people watch.OK to the point... there was this couple who paraded up and down the mall for about a hour.. She fantastic body in short shorts and a mid rife top.. her body was sculptured and admireable. On the other hand, he had the typical steriod abused pumped up torso and of course the singlet and the bumbag to hold up the patterned pants.. FFS.. It truly looked like he was about to break into a pose at any moment... Naturally our conversation turned to what we were watching and we all agreed' ( the girls that is ) that we would pass on him and would rather look at the girl.. No need to ask the guys.. they were to busy checking her out..So to answer your question.. yes' a nice body is good to look at and touch.. but once they reach the point of looking like the hulk and would rather look at themself than a nice girl... there has to be something wrong... Keep it simple.. firm up.... dont bulk up... its ugly..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Except abs, that seems to be the common theme (which I will never understand, as abs indicate neither strength nor fitness but rather either wasted exercise time or lack of food - end of mini rant).
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MissSarahCurious
14 years ago
Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' Except abs, that seems to be the common theme (which I will never understand, as abs indicate neither strength nor fitness but rather either wasted exercise time or lack of food - end of mini rant). hehehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love looking down my body and seeing my man between between my legs, one hand around his cock, the other working my pussy, and seeing his nice strong fore arms, veins coming up from the effort, leading to his nicely pumping biceps and defined shoulders.. flat but not cut stomach... mm mm mm, what a view. Fit and strong, that's what I like. xxS
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think every woman likes something different and you should just be yourself hun. Confidence in who you are is the biggest turn on! I love a man who smells good lol x
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RHP User
14 years ago
purrrrrrr.... make me drool and dribble Love a man that looks like a man.. strong and rugged .... msucular and powerful ..mmm mmmm mmmmmmmm
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RHP User
14 years ago
purrrrrrr.... make me drool and dribble Love a man that looks like a man.. strong and rugged .... msucular and powerful ..mmm mmmm mmmmmmmm
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RHP User
14 years ago
i myself have been competing for years since i was 16 now 43 i must admit got more looks when i was ripped for a comp rather then bulked tho i did attract my hot wife of 12 years looking like a freek but she loves a freek lol she dosnt like skinny guys she herself can bench press i guess she use to me squashing her and it is hard for her to ride me because of my legs size tho now i just hold her legs up by her shins when she rides push her back an 4th on the balance beam so we had fun working around it but trust me guys to get real big u need to lift big an now my back is fucked so settle somewere in the middle as of all lifes things balance is the key something i learnt the hard way
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find it easier not to pidgeon-hole an entire gender as to their preferences. Some women want a brain-dead man-slave with a 12" dong, others want a teddy-bear replacement, still more want the security afforded by a strong partner (which needs more than just muscles). I have muscles, they get me nowhere here. Be a nice guy, you might finish last - but you'll finish stronger.
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RHP User
14 years ago
always have. Men say they want women who are confident, no matter their size, right.... well I like that too in my men.. confident and if that means looking good and feeling happy about his personal appearance, thats awesome. He doesn't have to be built like a brick shithouse, but toned and muscular is nice,someone with strenght and heart. He doesn't have to be hercules, but being a bigger girl, it's very hard to have sex with a bigger bloke when you cant get your uglies to bump the way they need to for maximum pleasure. Toned, fit, healthy men do it for me because I know I'm not gonna snap them between my legs or not be physically satified because his belly gets in the way. Brutally honest, yes... not meant to disparage anyone at all. I'm gonna stop being sorry for my physical preferences. If blokes can reject me based on their own,so I can. BTW Chuzzwozza... you're HAWT....
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RHP User
14 years ago
i think we create our own confidence or lack of, yeah you can be bigger and girls may like you more but no offence can sometimes be lack of real, or being real, seems superficial too me but a girl wants what she wants regardless, , aint that right, haha, if you come at a girl with confidence you have more chance regardless, i see skinny mofos all time with beautiful and and sexy ass girls and im like what the hell. but at end of day bra if you work out and get swoll or as australians say it, buff, you will confident in your yourself which will reflect from your personality to the females,p.s you curvy bigger girls are sexy as on here :P on been here couple weekspeace out,
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RHP User
14 years ago
i think we create our own confidence or lack of, yeah you can be bigger and girls may like you more but no offence can sometimes be lack of real, or being real, seems superficial too me but a girl wants what she wants regardless, , aint that right, haha, if you come at a girl with confidence you have more chance regardless, i see skinny mofos all time with beautiful and and sexy ass girls and im like what the hell. but at end of day bra if you work out and get swoll or as australians say it, buff, you will confident in your yourself which will reflect from your personality to the females,p.s you curvy bigger girls are sexy as on here :P on been here couple weekspeace out,
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would like to conclude this thread by saying...no pain no gain equals no dame n play?
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RHP User
14 years ago
i love a man who has big strong arms!!! i love having sex with the guy standing up holding me with my legs over his shoulders with him pulling me into him. for this to work he needs to be big and strong to hold me and be stable. sooo yeah big arms and strong core are the deal for me : )
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JessicaRabbit
14 years ago
Everyone has different preferences. Me, personally, I don't like the 'beefcake' muscle bound look. I prefer smaller-built guys but muscle definition is nice. Height is always a plus too, although being only 5'3 myself, it's not hard for guys to be tall in comparison with me You said you were doing it to get 'noticed' - I'm more likely to notice a nice smile or eyes than notice you because you're a beefcake! Dida xx
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deltoid
14 years ago
I personally train because I enjoy training and and if I had the time I would get back into competing, from my experience some woman like well built guys, some don't and some niether like or dislike. Guys who train for the purpose of attempting to be more attractive to women generally lack the self discipline to stick it out. They may also be in for a shock, from my experience and the experience form other guys I know who are into bodybuilding, well built guys attract more attention from other guys than they do women. On women being attracted to well built guys, Years ago when I work in gyms I saw a similar patern occur countless times, guys would over time build up a decent physique and would attract a girls attention. The guy and girl would end up in a relationship and the guy would stop training because the girl would get shitty about the amount of time the guy was spending in the gym. The guy would lose the physique through lack of training, guy and girl would break up and the guy would be back in the gym and the cycle would start over again.
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markdevel
14 years ago
Athletic and toned (with just the right amount of size) beats Gorilla-spec any day. Bulky guys look too obvious, cumbersome and 'try hard' in my opinion. Think Brad Pitt in Fight Club, the perfect physique right there ...would any of you ladies knock that back? Haha
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RHP User
14 years ago
muscly dudes are hot but I dont like em very muscly at all , just toned and strong. I dont like em much bigger than me unless its just something for a change , -you know variety is the spice of life. btw girls dont be thinking that the smaller guys ie shorter and less than 70 kgs cant throw MOST of you around how you like it , pick you up or powerfully fuck you , coz those of us that are strong and fit can , unless you weigh like 100 kg , we can easily lift that , you can watch the smaller guys at the gym lift that no probs. ok other smaller guys cant but look out for the little WRX sti's out there , they will leave you BREATHLESS , unfortunately in a rubgy/boxing culture the mindset of the nation in that regard can be a little warped from reality , people get it drummed into them by sport etc that bigger is better by the media whether planned or not , ok smaller guys may not be able to drive up the rugby feild like JONAH LOMU but they might well have been able to out fuck him at his best haha , btw smaller guys sometimes pack big weapons , big things in small parcels....also smaller guys can kick ass in fighting and war etc too (hopefully they dont have small man"s syndrome) and that is animal sexy too. Bruce Lee ; not a big guy. many top fighters outside of boxing arent. Ive had girls turn me down lately coz I was too muscular , that was funny indeed
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RHP User
14 years ago
Has any one of you noticed? How many people have in there desciption that. You must be attractive, (every ones tastes are different.) Must be athletic, (guys must be built and girls must be skinny) In some cases they even list sizes Are the people that have this on there profile so far up them self that they cant look out side the square?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nup, muscly men are NOT the most appealing thing to me. I don't mind skinny guys. Definition's nice. But skinny guys are tougher. The bigger the guy the more they got to whinge about :p ... sore back, pulled a muscle, shoulders ruined, middle of the back has given in from being too top-heavy, oh my gosh then why do you do that to yourself!? And muscles do make the skin look tight and like ... plastic, rubber or glad-wrap or something. Doesn't look real to me.And I couldn't really care about how a man chooses to dress. Then again, I'm more likely to consider going out with a man in a baggy shirt and cargo's than I am with a bloke in a button-up, jeans and sandals.lol, it really does come down to personal preference.
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RHP User
14 years ago
yes, people really are that far up themselves it's almost enough to make you wanna cry! :)I've been humoured by the same thing. A man is interested in me, then I check his profile full of demands ie. must be hot and think to myself how in hell did you think we'd be a good match?!?
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RHP User
14 years ago
As Dida said, everyone has different preferences. You just have to love diversity of taste and appeal!
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markdevel
14 years ago
Well, I don't have a shopping list of 'must-haves' in my profile.. But yes, I do see the demands on some profiles ...must have this, must have that, must be this, don't want this etc etc ...some of them are completely unrealistic, like they are looking for Mr or Mrs Perfect ...with the worst ones being those that are no oil paintings themeselves!!!
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markdevel
14 years ago
Well, I don't have a shopping list of 'must-haves' in my profile.. But yes, I do see the demands on some profiles ...must have this, must have that, must be this, don't want this etc etc ...some of them are completely unrealistic, like they are looking for Mr or Mrs Perfect ...with the worst ones being those that are no oil paintings themeselves!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
and im partial to all sorts of different 'types' but when the league players at my gym come and train right next to me- my heart starts fluttering and my knees go weak! Love a tall, strong, well built muscly man, but stop short at the muscle mary's and meat axes hahahahhahaha
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm with you Dida....Give me a nice smile and a sexy voice anyday over a beefed up body . Trish.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quit the gym, go read a book, reading is SEXY. Going to the gym is boring and overly muscly is grossssss.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hell yeah!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've never been short of a shag and I don't have chisled abs and bulging biceps. I look after myself and I'm a strong looking man with the personality to boot. Strong body = strong mind. Its confidence that gets you what you want in every aspect of life. I like confident women also. Nothing worse than a shy girl...unless its a bit of role play Confidence is attractive and appeals to everyone
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RHP User
14 years ago
No one can help what they are attracted to, and in here if you are just looking for a partner for sex then its going to be ALL about attraction. If looking for more, then sure the smile , their caring nature etc will come into play. . I dont have demands in my profile , but I do state that I must be attracted to you, and gives hints as to what I find attractive from my experience. Seriously Im not going to have sex with someone I have to talk myself into thinking, "Oh he's not too bad" *insert little girly voice* If I take care of myself, it stands to reason Im going to be attracted to a man who does the same and by god muscles and bulging veins do it everytime, but in saying that, it wont make me overlook the fact you have a head on you like a half sucked minty. No one is here to hand out sympathy roots, harsh I know, but at least its the truth. Im not up myself, Ive just gotten to a point where im not going to waste anyones time (especially my own) if u dont make me want to rip your clothes right there and then, then no amount of talking me into it is going to change my mind. . . Hell we all punch above our weight at some point in our life, but seriously why would I want to have sex with someone who has a great big veranda over his lolly shop and is puffing and wheezing all over me in effort.....farrrk no!!
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markdevel
14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' No one can help what they are attracted to, and in here if you are just looking for a partner for sex then its going to be ALL about attraction. If looking for more, then sure the smile , their caring nature etc will come into play. . I dont have demands in my profile , but I do state that I must be attracted to you, and gives hints as to what I find attractive from my experience. Seriously Im not going to have sex with someone I have to talk myself into thinking, "Oh he's not too bad" *insert little girly voice* If I take care of myself, it stands to reason Im going to be attracted to a man who does the same and by god muscles and bulging veins do it everytime, but in saying that, it wont make me overlook the fact you have a head on you like a half sucked minty. No one is here to hand out sympathy roots, harsh I know, but at least its the truth. Im not up myself, Ive just gotten to a point where im not going to waste anyones time (especially my own) if u dont make me want to rip your clothes right there and then, then no amount of talking me into it is going to change my mind. . . Hell we all punch above our weight at some point in our life, but seriously why would I want to have sex with someone who has a great big veranda over his lolly shop and is puffing and wheezing all over me in effort.....farrrk no!! I tend to agree.. This doesn't mean to say we want supermodels or buff studs ...just someone who at least takes some pride in their appearance. In saying that, how do you define attractive? ...I find all sorts of things about women sexy, lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
before I forget.....Deltoid, your ass is a cracker like a juicy, ripe peach I wouldnt want to bounce coins off it, hell I'd want to bounce myself off it pmsl weeeeeeee
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RHP User
14 years ago
same here markdevel, usually a pic swap and a few chats will let you know if you're heading in the right direction. Can also depend what Im in the mood for pmsl
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RHP User
14 years ago
gym gets the sex
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markdevel
14 years ago
...a decent bod gets the initial attraction & interest, a decent PERSON gets the rest
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RHP User
14 years ago
yes yes yes again lol Footy is about to start and OMG Alan Didak you sexy little, naughty boy you yep tongue really is hanging out.........ahhhhh sighs......he really is pretty to look at
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RHP User
14 years ago
Let's be honest here, what we are all talking about is whether a guy who is all muscle is going to really rock your boat to the point you want to jump in the sack with him. I once was a mucle bound freak (...although this sounds like the set up to the "You may think me a homophobe, but some of my best friends are gay..." kinda argument). Due to a complete and utter knee breakage (to put it bluntly, the patella shattered the 'cup' that it sits in and itself shattered) I wasn't, and still am not allowed, to do any sort of gym work. I'm now a skinny/average guy. As a person who has been both, let me let you in on a secret: women love both. Just different women. Like guys skinny with small boobs vs. curvacious, brunette vs. blonde, nurse outfit vs. firewoman outfit... it's choice. I attracted different women from gym work vs. skinny guy, but the women I ended up with - all had the certain things in common (yes, I have a 'type'...how 1999!!) The real trick is - what do you, as a bloke, get more enjoyment out of? Finally conquering the 100kg+ bench press, or finally conquering Aristotle? And, for that point - who the hell says you can't do both?? :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are a few pigeon holes going on in this thread lol=) The first is that all really big guys prefer looking at themselves in the mirror than a girl, its hard for people to contemplate that for a lot of body builders, not only do they not think they are "that" big, most of their motivation to get bigger comes from walking into a gym each day and trying to better themselves each time. The side effect of continually smashing yourself so hard is you get big=) Sure, there are some truly arrogant, pompous wankers out there that are big, but some of the kindest, most wondefrully natured people I have ever met are from the BB community. The second is that having a hot muscular body will get you picked up by a girl. To this day I have never been picked up, ar attempted to be picked up by a girl, and save for people walking past from time to time in a bar or club and commenting on arms or something of similar nature in a brief moment, receive probably 10:1 comments from guys as I do girls. If your training to be noticed, your doing it for the wrong reason, as what happend when you land her? You stop going and go back to being small? Or you spend your time paranoid, training your ass off in case she likes you just for your body? Getting big and muscular is neither quick, nor easy, and just because your suddenly single, my obvious advise would be that unless you want to do it for yourself, chances are you won't stick with it long enough or train hard enough to be what most consider big. You will find that simply being fit and not having a tummy, having a new age sorta haircut like you actually give a shit about your appearance, and some tact in speaking with and dealing with women (rule number 1, all women like a gentleman, you can become your alter ego in the bedroom if its not too scary lol), that you will get much further in your quest for female attention than getting stuck into steroids, pumping iron, and walking around the gym grunting and groaning at the opposite sex. I personally don't know how on earth girls could like skinny guys, I mean how are you supposed to be attracted to someone who couldn't protect you? Whats sexy about a skinny body wriggling around on top of you? At least a guy carrying a little weight could throw someone around a little lol. Ms B says from afar give her her big strong lumberjack man any day of the week, no skinny boys for her;) To echo MistressT's previous statement, not amount of muscle will make up for a poor attitude and bad personality;-) K&B
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RHP User
14 years ago
Guys who are too hard and bulky are a big turn off. Not to say you shouldn't try to look after yourself. Stay healthy, but If you've got a bit of meat to sink my teeth into that's much sexier than Arnie any day!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ceskylev'gym gets the sex You need to work on your back a bit more babe.... lat's and delt's are looking a bit sparse... there's no definition at all.... whats the point of a strong front if your back can't hold it upright as you walk... but most of all.... you're attitiude is really bad and your body language in the pics suck.... if girls are attracted to you.... I'd say you're lucky.... as a woman into her weight training and fitness....but mostly into men who are attractive without having a huge head about it..... JMO
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Mr_Minotaur
14 years ago
if you want to get fit and healthy do it for yourself not because you want to get laid..you'll feel better for it and you can read that book at the same time..as for are skinny guys the in thing to some yes and to some no.. trends and fads are for people who follow the heard and let the media dictate whats hot and whats not.. sparkley white pasty vampires were pretty hot too...lets all stay inside and put glitter on our face.J@XXX
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markdevel
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'Skinny guys are a turn off for me, but so are fat blokes. Ruthlessly honest but we can't change what we find attractive, it's instinctive. I do have some FWBs that have bigger tummies than I'd like, but it doesn't make them a worse lover, it just means I won't be as into his body, and won't devour the area where the fat lies. So in a sense it restricts the potential areas of attention. For me it's about athleticism and functionality. I don't go for body builders, I love the natural look of AFL players, triathletes, swimmers and those trained in the fighting arts. Any part of the body where I can see muscle definition turns me on in a major way. I just can't keep my hands and mouth off. Ripped abs indicates a general low level of body fat which is why the ladies comment. We've all got a 6 pack, just that most have bubble wrap on the top. You don't get low body fat over developed muscles without cardio and healthy diet, another reason we like it. Balance is critical in my opinion. Chicken legs on a cut upper body; bis but no tris; chest but no back all of this demonstrates a gym junky without functional application. And finally if the forearms are developed, he has found the perfect balance, he is ready to eat... Chilli xx I don't like his fat, I do, however, devour his "fat" hehehe Couldn't have said it better myself ...the perfect physique is one that is balanced, symmetrical, and functional ...one that implies strength, flexibility, and endurance ...in any physical activity. And FRACK ME ...totally agree with your assessment too, lol
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JessicaRabbit
14 years ago
The almost cliched saying 'if you feel good, you look good' has some truth in it. Nothing is sexier than a confident smile and an 'I-don't-care-if-you-don't-like-the-way-I-look' attitude. You don't have to have chiselled abs and bulging biceps to be attractive. Just on the profile thing, I don't think it's 'up yourself' to have a list of 'must haves'. If you know what you like, why shouldn't you cut out the middle man? If you know you wouldn't be attracted to someone (because face it, we all have our deal breakers and deal makers) why waste your time (and theirs!) by not letting them know upfront in your profile that they aren't/REALLY are your type?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Bodyjaxxx' if you want to get fit and healthy do it for yourself not because you want to get laid..you'll feel better for it and you can read that book at the same time..as for are skinny guys the in thing to some yes and to some no.. trends and fads are for people who follow the heard and let the media dictate whats hot and whats not.. sparkley white pasty vampires were pretty hot too...lets all stay inside and put glitter on our face.J@XXX Agreed....Being fit & healthy is actually a state of mind... I am a girl who trains 6 days a week and does weight training herself... Training, especially weight training, becomes addictive... I know! There does become several points where you must re- evaluate your training if you want to master your physique..Only you can answer when enough muscle is enough muscle...I also believe body targets should be set and can only be truely achieved with a proper diet, fitness reigeme and lots of dedication...In the long run, we were all given different body shapes.. Accept the shape you were given, and try and make that shape the best you can...! Be happy and confident within that, and you will find the ladies will be drawn to you.. !Miss Seductive xx
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deltoid
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'Skinny guys are a turn off for me, but so are fat blokes. Ruthlessly honest but we can't change what we find attractive, it's instinctive. I do have some FWBs that have bigger tummies than I'd like, but it doesn't make them a worse lover, it just means I won't be as into his body, and won't devour the area where the fat lies. So in a sense it restricts the potential areas of attention. For me it's about athleticism and functionality. I don't go for body builders, I love the natural look of AFL players, triathletes, swimmers and those trained in the fighting arts. Any part of the body where I can see muscle definition turns me on in a major way. I just can't keep my hands and mouth off. Ripped abs indicates a general low level of body fat which is why the ladies comment. We've all got a 6 pack, just that most have bubble wrap on the top. You don't get low body fat over developed muscles without cardio and healthy diet, another reason we like it. Balance is critical in my opinion. Chicken legs on a cut upper body; bis but no tris; chest but no back all of this demonstrates a gym junky without functional application. And finally if the forearms are developed, he has found the perfect balance, he is ready to eat... Chilli xx Totally agree symmetry and balance is the most important thing, nothing more pathetic looking then a guy with a well built upper body on match stick legs lack of symmetry and balance though IMO demonstrate a gym tool not a gym junkie A gym tool is someone I am sure anyone who trains in a gym can identify The guy that comes in and spends nearly all the time in the work out doing bench press, various versions of bicep curls a few tricep movements and abs. Then maybe on a rare occassion trains an important muscle group like legs with pathetic little weights and even worse form.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'pinkfunkyspiky80'I think every woman likes something different and you should just be yourself hun. Confidence in who you are is the biggest turn on! I love a man who smells good lol x Do what makes you happy, getting fit is great for many reasons, but if the balance tips and you become a one dimensional gym junky obsessed type, make sure that is what you want, because then you are most likely to then attract the same type of female. I personally love well balanced people, who spread themselves all over all parts of life, not obsess in only a few areas. My girlfriend and I were chatting about how weird it is that some people have a physical 'type' we don't get it, line all our partners up, no similarities what so ever, variety is the spice of life? Do what makes YOU happy, when you are passionate, happy, grabbing life by the balls and enjoying yourself, the girls will come
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RHP User
14 years ago
Variety is the spice of life. Then again each to their own, and if spending your life in a gym is your kinda thing, then go for it.I also wonder about all these gym fit people and how that would translate into general and mental toughness and endurance, when it comes to manual labouring tasks, How would they go against the people that do these tasks day in day out.What occupation would boast the most mentally and physically toughest workers in Australia?Cheers Nev
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Mr_Minotaur
14 years ago
work fit and gym fit are totally different..having a very labour intensive job myself, doing things a million miles an hour not to mention drinking 12 liters of water a day just to stay hydrated sometimes..ive seen guys stroll up to the rig twice the size of me with there arms out wide as if they have hedghogs under them haha..only to blow arse 3 hours later and quit....next please!!J@XXX
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' Variety is the spice of life. Then again each to their own, and if spending your life in a gym is your kinda thing, then go for it. I also wonder about all these gym fit people and how that would translate into general and mental toughness and endurance, when it comes to manual labouring tasks, How would they go against the people that do these tasks day in day out. What occupation would boast the most mentally and physically toughest workers in Australia? Cheers Nev Ta Nev As far as athletes go, gymnasts and ballet dancers are up there as the fittest (which would surprise many i reckon)! And as far as work goes, very hard to know exactly, but this job is pretty crazy stuff!! A navy clearance diver, Paul de Gelder routinely swims long distances in the middle of the night, often in shark infested waters. Well, two years ago, as he was testing new sonar equipment in Sydney Harbour, he was attacked by a shark. Not much could top that I'd say?
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deltoid
14 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' Variety is the spice of life. Then again each to their own, and if spending your life in a gym is your kinda thing, then go for it. I also wonder about all these gym fit people and how that would translate into general and mental toughness and endurance, when it comes to manual labouring tasks, How would they go against the people that do these tasks day in day out. What occupation would boast the most mentally and physically toughest workers in Australia? Cheers Nev I fail to see what the relevance of comparing gym fit people to in mental toughness and endurance to labourers. all depends on the individual and what sort of work or training they do and their approach to that work and training. If a person who worked in a labouring job walked into a gym, most gym fit people would run rings araound them. Just as if most gym fit people went and spent a day labouring with some one who does it day in and day out would struggle. I work in an office now but have worked in a very physical labouring type job and train extremely hard and heavy in the gym - the 2 activities can not be compared. For extremes of "gym fit people" google Joe Decker worlds fittest man. Now there is some one with pysical and mental strenght and toughness.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Toughest sports......is always contentious....and the guaranteed beginning of many a heated debate. You have to look atDuration of sustained physical high level activity. ie weight lifter vs Marathon runner.Degree of motor skill required. ie swimmer vs F1 driver.Risk and degree of serious injury/death. ie chess player vs base jumper.Degree of bravado required (big balls syndrome...lol). ie soccer player vs Moto X rider.Environment. ie ping pong player vs mountain climber.Then rank each sport according to the weighting for each category, and come up with an overall score.Its always really difficult to do unless your intimate with a wide range of sports.For meI always think Boxing is No1Moto X somewhere in the top 5Workwise.....ShearingCheers Nev
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love muscly guys...nothing better than nice hard muscles pressed against you... and I love strong guys... I reckon the best foreplay is play fighting and wrestling haha and well.. its sort of boring with weak skinny guys because I always win... and winning is no fun hahaha
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RHP User
14 years ago
Being gym fit, being work fit, and being mentally tough are all vastly different things. One person may possess all 3 trains, some none, and lots in between, It takes a mentally tough and dedicated person to train to get to a high standard in any aspect of life, work, gym, sports, it doesn't happen by chance. Everybody wants to bring the big guy down, as people generally think if your big, you think your big, the comment was made about a big guy coming onto a worksite and lasting 3 hours, the same type of attitude has happened on dozens of occasions when out at a bar or club for me when xyz male decides to pick you cause your big and immediately presume you have a chip on your shoulder, lucky I don't drink, many a fight has been everted due to a passive and non alcohol induced nature. I think the msg is loud and clear by most replies, if you want to go to the gym anyway, go! And enjoy the attention that MOST women seem to prefer. Find a balance that works for you, maybe you want to get huge and will find a woman that likes that, but most important advise of all is healthy mind, healthy attitude, healthy life, regardless of body type will lead you in the right direction:-) If you do get staunch, come back and update us and how your attention from the ladies goes in relation to it=)~ K&B
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' . What occupation would boast the most mentally and physically toughest workers in Australia? Cheers Nev Try the shearing industry
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RHP User
14 years ago
That I did have everyday type occupations in mind, though none could deny that SAS are a special breed I work with a guy who is ex SAS, and he sometimes talks about his experiences, but he reckons they are princessescompared with the Gurkhas....I don't know if that is spelled right or not...lol....I also work with an ex Submariner and they are a pretty special breed as well.Yeah Fee, I picked Shearing....looks easy doesn't it.....having spent some time on the end of the tin lizard I know otherwise.Then of course there is pressing, escpecially if you were using an old Ajax or Koertz.This is kinda what I was hinting at, would a weight lifter be really good at say pressing wool..and rolling around and stacking 200kg bales of wool, or hay carting, Same with body builders do all those muscles make you really powerfull such that those 200kg bales of wool or 40kg bales of hay are like childs play to handle, and could you do it all day.Please don't think I am having a go at anybody, just piqued my interest when I was reading this thread, and not being a gym/weightlifter/bodybuilder person, nor knowing any, I really have no idea about the crossover potential.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' What occupation would boast the most mentally and physically toughest workers in Australia? That depends on how you define "tough"; I personally think doctors would be up there as far as mental toughness. Even school bus drivers go through hell in their work, I couldnt do it. I built sheds out in the middle of nowhere for a bit, the blokes werent overly strong or tough in a typical sense, but worked 14 hours a day for three weeks straight in near 40 degree heat. Plenty of those jobs out in the middle of nowhere are just ridiculous, same with a lot of basic laboring jobs. It all depends on how you define "tough". Living in townsville, I can say the most of the modern miltary are overrated (perhaps not all, but most); my brother in law went to afghanistan for 9 months. They played soccer, drove around, and saw one explosion that they didnt cause themselves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Always been attracted to muscular guys! But as other ladies have said, not like Arny and not stuck up guys who love to watch themselves in the mirror at the gym. Tradies are a prime example. Muscular, fit, strong and sexy.. not too much, not too less, just right :) A big turn on for me is a man who looks and acts like a man. Don't like skinny little rocker kids, it's disgusting. Some guys say this too, but who wants to feel like they're shagging a stick? You'd feel as if you would break them! A guy who can carry my weight and is strong enough to be able to move me around like I'm weightless is so hot :) met a guy off Plenty Of Fish. Wasn't crazy built but wasn't skinny at all. Just nice, and god did he throw me around! Hot sex that night :P Keep up the hard work at gym, but don't go too hard and end up looking like you're carved outta stone. Gross!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Muscles did nothing for me, The ladies thought i'd crush em!.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' If your BIL was doing the real shit over there I doubt he'd be at liberty to discuss it. Also depends on what unit he was with and what the assigned task was. I don't know how but I tend to end up talking to lotsa ex or current armed forces and emergency service workers. It seems there is a wide range and diversity in what they do, where they go and how demanding it is. I'd imagine in Townsville they're on a mini "holiday" to get their breath back before going live again. The really cool and toughest ass ones don't give much away. Just a thought... Chilli xx Like I said, I know thats not all of them, but the middle east is not Veitnam or Normandy, even with those who are sent over on deployment only a very small percentage ever even see combat. The rest just provide various services. I have only met two I would consider the real deal, both went through hell and barely left the front line in their time there, both are incredibly tough. But a huge majority of them are just posers who act like Rambo despite doing nothing. They are little more than a glorified high school football team, and thats how they act. They are referred to as "AJs" (Army Jerks) here by almost everyone, and many people openly dislike them. Most of my brother in laws buddies are just pretentious wannabes who talk a lot of shit (though there are good ones among them). And worst of all, they take recognition away from the minority who actually DO deserve it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
ive found i get a lot more interest from women now rather then when i did not attend the gym at all. from my experiences alot of women say the dont like muscular guys but they really do :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' It does not suprise me that females like good looking males with abs and big arm muscles and so on. Men like model like babes with Penthouse material. When you think about it, we have been trained and our minds programmed by others around us about many things including what constitutes good looking, moral values and what not. Take for example in my younger days we could wolf whistle a sheila (yes i said it) walking down the road or past one of our construction sites. Yes, I was a construction labourer, (engineering) now I use my brains and hands for my occupation. Then come along some do gooders and said its wrong to wolf whistle a "sheila". These types on females have dissappeared. They are rare these days unless you go to the car shows or strip clubs in Melbourne like Goldfinger. The other example is the moral values instilled upon society by way of the bible. We are taught and trained the values of christanity and what is right and wrong. I sometimes believe that the bible is the pigment of the imagaination of the catholic church and its disciples. The same applies to what type of body you like. I have had sexual affairs with female models and model type material, I have had sex with average type girsl too. As Mclovin said, something along the lines of dont pigeon hole people. Well, I must admit a good loking body does not mean a good fuck or a good steady relationship. I can attest that this statement is so true based on all my experience with many many females over the past 5 years, ranging from ages 18 to 60. .....be happy. When I was 19 a friend of mine used to wolf whistle at females every opportunity he had as we drove around, and he said, i am just throwing them a compliment, making their day! i thought, hey, that is kinda nice i guess? So not long after i had had my bub, not feeling too hot etc i was out walking the woof woof and granted it was a car that came from behind, so i guess they were only really going by my butt, but it was a car load of 'younger' boys and they did the woof whistle thing, and i have to say, they made my day! hehe (it couldn't have been at my kegs on legs staffie, surely? ) P.S. I do like muscular guys, BUT if they are spending most of their time talking about their muscles, or looking in the mirror at themselves every few minutes, then i couldn't say NEXT! Faster lol! But like i said b4, the lust chemical thing 4 me, runs on way more than whether someone has muscles or not (well they sorta need an all important one if they are male hehe) but there is so much more that makes a person attractive/appealing so much so that you want to take a bite out of them and do lots of nasty things with em hehe ok gettn carried away...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think I'm a pretty average guy. I work full-time in retail, I walk a lot more than most drivers, I think, because I catch public transport everywhere and being the only other guy in the work environment (and the only guy who's there full-time) I do quite a bit of heavy lifting. I'm not buff or cut by any means, but I can walk at a reasonable clip without a break for three hours or more and shift the boxes of a pallet of photocopy paper (about a tonne) with a minimum of fuss. I have the same build as every other male on my dad's side of the family (which is scary enough, believe me) and apparently the same as my maternal grandfather's as well. If you're looking at statistical curves, I reckon I'm pretty much there in the "mean" range.Something that I find hugely interesting is how many pics couples have where they're showing more pics of the female partner than the male. As if for prospective partners of the couple, how the female partner looks is more of a dealbreaker than how the male partner looks. My best experiences - both with singles and the couples I've been with - have been with people who have been as utterly average as myself, who don't really give two hoots about how their arse looks in that position, or their love handles seem more like shower rails than briefcase handles, or that the fanny-farts might be louder than the breathing of either partner.People who are willing to give themselves over to the pleasure of the moments they are in are the ones I find most attractive - who get carried away by the music (why dancing is perennially popular, I suppose), or cooking (don't tell me that Nigella Lawson licking a spoon isn't one of the most arousing visions on TV), or sports (athletes committing themselves 110% to their event, whatever it is). P!nk is an awesome stage presence, don't get me wrong, but Beth Ditto is amazing too. Would you turn out Gerard Depardieu because he's not built like Vincent Cassell?More and more I read phrases in ads on here and other meeting sites that sound an awful lot like real-estate-speak. "Cosy", "neat", "fixer-upper opportunity", "leafy suburbs" - "takes pride in their appearance", "HWP", "healthy mind and body". Just say what you mean and don't suffix it with "I know it sounds harsh but it's just what *I* prefer".Guys might like the look of the Penthouse Pet, but it's never *just* about looks. Women might like the look of a muscular guy, but it's never *just* about looks. If she's a bitch and he's vain, or if she's always being hit on by people and playing up to it, and he's always at work of the gym and never time for anything else, then it's not going to work. Surely sex should be fun? Isn't it better to be able to have sex, lie together afterwards and laugh about it so much that you just want to go again, than to go at it like it's a marathon or a sprint and be so buggered by the end that you're almost passed out?I know it's great to have a bit of both but I can't help thinking that the person you touch on the inside is the one who's equally happy for you to touch their outsides... If that's a FB, and FWB or a partner for life, well, you take it from there.Just my $0.02.- Adam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Personally, I don't like a guy too muscular. It makes me think he is up himself, and also that he is a fanatic of the gym stuff and expects me to be like a barbie doll as well.... I like real men.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I absolutely do.... strong arms, nice chest to cuddle into, a strong core, nice bum to grab onto wither in the middle of a sex or in the supermarket to make him squeal like a girl embarressed. I'm not perfect myself, and neither does my man, but I do like him to take care of himself and have pride in his appearance. Thats what men do. Men like girls who take proide in their physical appearance as well. But an article I was reading today in a fitness mag said that what is fit for one person may not be another person's idea of attractive. Shyguy, Do what makes you happy. I am I gym it up at least 4 days a week, and while I'm seeming to not lose weight, I am happy, getting fitter every day and that endorphin high is great. Don't do it to look good for anyone else but you babe... I started like that and have finally realised it's got nothing to do with anyone else. Ok... painkillers kicking in again and it's blurry to type....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'Frack_Me'As for the boys working out, my sis works at a gym and she says half the men there will never notice you unless you get between them and the mirror. LOL. I wouldn't worry about them, go for the trainers instead. . I've met and played with a few personal trainers and while there are many that only want someone who looks as fit as they do, there are also many who just love a confident woman who doesn't get intimidated by what he does for a living or insist on fucking with the lights off. Plus still having breasts helps... Relax and enjoy! xx Sarah The type in bold speaks for most men I would say - regardless of gym going status. LS
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