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How common is anal sex really??
February 02 2018
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Greatfunforall
7 years ago
I know a couple of girls who love it and then the ones who the idea of it terrifies and never relax or open up to the idea that it is anything more than "male dominance" and don't practice and play with themselves enough to become familiar enough with how differently the muscles work and what they need to do to facilitate it. There a lot of female sex therapists who are strong advocates for it and say how much of a stronger orgasm can come from it, still not for everyone but I think the difference is the mentalilty behind the reciever. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think it’s great, both giving and receiving. Adds another dimension to everything. In saying that it’s not a must and often all depends on the mood. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have given and received , has to be slooowww and douching beforehand . Most have been a bit scared because of size but found couples were more open to it (forgive the pun) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Despite the size of my big one I did it with the 80% of my partners , wifey included No one were hurt or "damaged " and a couple of lady are still thank me to be introduced in a new way of pleasure and ..... one girl gave me the the same pleasure back ... .... only another shade of the sexuality - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
@ Dallas1975 ... a womaniser is a brand of vibrator specifically for the clit. Gives a good sucking motion and feels Incredibly delicious 😈😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I for one love it. It is a case of slow and steady to start with every time but once you're into it OMG it feels so good! I have had a OMG moment when I wasn't listened too. But other than that, if your sexual partner takes his time and slowly goes there you ladies might just find it may be something that you do like. I have no trouble at all even having an orgasam whilst having anal sex. I'm a yes please I love it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
It’s a regular on our menu 😝😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Tried it once, and again and again... I find it thrilling and naughty but as others have said, preparation and being aware of the takers pleasure is key. I want anal; it lets me offer control of my pleasure to my lover, and I have learned to trust who my body reacts positively to. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
No thank you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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close_cpl
7 years ago
d_cros both those things are obvious from your profile: both that Krystal has a magnificent ass, and that you guys are into it! Great photos by the way you guys.
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stevo62
7 years ago
Requires an open attitude, lots of licking and regular fucking first following by ass play and lots of lube. Not for everyone but can be seriously erotic. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
7 years ago
How common is anal sex, but I do know that the majority of my ex partners did want anal sex! Even with the few ones whom claimed to be happy to not have anal sex if I didn’t want it, they would still try to finger my back door from time to time and that had just killed my mood instantly! So yes, I hate anal sex and won’t compromise on having it ever again! And my decision wasn’t made lightly either. It was formed after I had numerous bad experiences on having anal sex some years ago with a few ex partners! It was enough damage done to the point that I shiver every time I hear someone mentions anal sex to me! This is why I do not think I would find my next long term partner on RHP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I thought you may appreciate what the comedian I recently saw said about anal sex… In real estate terms the lady parts should be warm & cozy, the plumbing in good order & if your lucky theres a spare room around the back. Its for special occasions of course otherwise its just a room. For birthdays, anniversaries & if your lucky when you have a mate come over. Lol.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You need a Greek partner 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have had anal with a FWB and it was great. She was the instigator. I think it brings you and your partner closer together. She had also pegged me which I loved and would love to do it more often. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
To Megz85g I love Dp too and love to peg my man. Anal, is a matter of 3 things: respect, experience and incredible lust.. I just love it 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have a simple motto in life, If I want you to try something I must be willing to do it myself. So for a guy I love a women to try ass play with me. It seems like taboo and like many of people hear it can be painful if you have too keen a lover. I believe we should all be open and not demand or expect. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Firstly, I have been pegged so, yes, I speak from experience. Some women I have been with come hard through anal. Some can't relax enough to let it in. I don't think size is the issue, I am quite big but all 4 of the women I've tried anal with have taken all of me and all have loved it. You do have to be really slow and ideally stretch the anus first with a butt plug (the vibrating ones feel amazing during vaginal sex I'm told!) then lots of lube and patience. If it hurts at all it won't be fun so whats the point in rushing? I like it because it is primal, raw, intimate and damn tight which makes a guy explode!
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Haleakala
7 years ago
To be honest I've probably received more than given, got to love a girl with a strap-on ;) Anecdotally I'd say the number of women into it is on the increase. Of those not into it most seem to have had a bad experience the first time they tried with a partner that didn't adequately prepare them for it. Perhaps the knowledge of what it takes to warm up is more widespread and more people now have a pleasant first experience? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes from me and agree with Annie it's always best the receiver controls the pace...communication is a must for this as well. Pegging yes please..it's only fair for both parties to indulge. With the right prep (douching, foreplay, stimulation, patience, etc) it can be incredible. Ladies try starting with a small vibrating butt plug while a guy is performing oral amd stimulating the vagina....it'll deliver mind blowing results...then when ready try the full experience, relax and enjoy. And always remember the 6 Ps of anal sex! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its probably a lot to do with physical attributes... A little soft butt plug enhances the experience of say oral sex or even vaginal sex. How and when it is inserted and how it is used to compliment the experience will determine wether it will be an erotic one or a dodging and weaving to get the least amount of discomfort. As curious and basically insatiable human beings, we are always wanting to try something new, different and push it to the next level. There are those who can take anal sex and they will enjoy it, not as the main course, probably more as yet an other variety in the repertoire...but those who cant take the penis in their bum without considerable pain should not go there and not be expected to go there. I would observe a woman's body language to guage wether she is wanting to go there or not, never ask or push for it. Anal sex can be very exciting and is also a vastly higjer risk factor for stds therefore safesex is a good idea. Also unlike porn scenes, no girls that i know ever asked to give me oral straight after i pulled out from her backside...so to pull out, remove the condom and back in to satisfy jer vaginally makes perfect sense. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Anal sex is a very special sexual activity and needs lots of TLC. Experience is important....... 😍 First time I did it..... wow she only wanted anal for the 16 month together 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Over the years I’ve done it with a few partners, and always had the belief of if I want to do it to someone I should be ok with it myself. So I did allot of reading and started doing it with toys to myself. And realised it’s quite enjoyable when done correctly. Taken slowly, get yourself in a situation where you can relax (clean yourself out so your not super paranoid of a mishap) and start small and work your way up to a point where you think you can enjoy being penetrated by another person... Mr - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I had a pretty horrid first couple of tries with it but found it was something I was gravitating to a lot when watching porn. I kept trying and the more I learnt the more I loved. My ex and I would incorporate anal into pretty much every play session or quickie. Im a huge fan now. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cumforme56
7 years ago
I am not a regular forum poster either but I enjoy it, both giving and receiving. My ex partner and myself used to do it somewhat regularly and she enjoyed it. I used to rim and tease her with fingers beforehand. She used to peg and fist me but I was always sure to clean out well beforehand so it wasn't a spur of the moment thing for me when I was receiving and like others have said, plenty of lube and go slow and you will cum in a big way - Posted from rhpmobile
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FullOJOy
7 years ago
LoveChild. Ive had anal. Lucky for me pleasasnt experiences. Once had a FWB and he was anal buddy....lol. id sit on top and it was AMAZING. The most intense orgasms that I had ever experienced compared to having a cock in my pussy. But yes. For the receiver to b in control of how it goes in. How much lube. And the pace. - Posted from rhpmobile
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technologic
7 years ago
For me the thought of anal/DP can be super arousing... However experience so far, and probably because not having been prepared enough, has not lived up to expectations although once I've been able to see the potential of how it could. So, hopefully one day... Still makes great masturbation material though! Fortunately MrT loves getting it but only from people he trusts (lucky me) and not a frequent desire. -MsT - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
it’s a lot more common then when I was younger. Or maybe I didn’t have the right partners. I always give anal now if a woman request it. I love it as much as pussy sex 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I only just experinced it and OMG if would be definately gay... lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Verypicky
7 years ago
I never did like it. but now I do , had a cock slip and punch me full force up the arse when I was in my 20’s and always said no way after that - it was as painful as fuck - I said I will never ever do anal. But after a decade later - I got curious again and lots of lube and ease it it slowly at first and anal is like OMG. 😍 Kinda felt like I missed out on years of good anal after that ecstasy feeling - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe mens dicks are getting smaller - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love it especially dp - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
depends on who and how much lube you need, sometimes too much spoils the fun
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lovecouple
7 years ago
We dont really appreciate it. We have tried it several times and like some others said, it is sometimes too tight for us to enjoy it! Ms' pussy is already tight enough to have all the fun needed and no lube needed since the misus is a panty wetter! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
goodness! you sure do sound like a treat to have for a playmate in that case
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love it when people are telling the truth... I experienced it .. i am female so understand men going gay... the experience is amazing... and never put limits to what you don't understand... because it's just that you don't do you? So, my point is.. if you are going to try it then investigate it further to what you need to do in a safe environment.. tight yes... but, fun in experiencing something for the first time is EXTRA FUN right..... its all about living to your FULL potential or at least try to get to the end game a little tired looking... so that what your body was made for was exactly that... used and abused with fun, respect and honest fucking... Just like a Tv TWO wobbly legs and a worn out knob.... hehehehe
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
I love anal My partner sometimes complains that he wants normal sex I find it very intense and love it! I maybe the odd one out
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BManAgain
7 years ago
Forgive the length of the following post but this is one of my favourite topics so i felt the need to share and keep the conversation ball rolling. I like to hear / read all about another's preferences so thanks to every one who has taken the time to express their views and share their experiences. Since I started exploring sex I have come to realise it can be many things and intimacy can be created in many ways. Rimming and (specifically) anal sex are two of my favourite things. They signalled a complete sexual awakening for me. I never thought I would enjoy them but I do. Anal sex is something I've been advocating for, enjoying and exploring for roughly a decade now. I believe it's a skill and a fetish of mine. It's actually my favourite way to have sex and it forms a large part of my sexual appetite. It bothers me when men don’t take their time, work up to it with their partner and go completely unprepared or unlubricated. I have helped women work through all kinds of horror stories and I wish more men would seek out the right education. Since my late 20s I've been drawn to women who are experienced and on the kinky side. Because those women have been willing to explore, experiment and indulge me, I do the same in return. I like it when appetites are equal. I'm all about consent and enjoyment and pleasure and satisfaction for all parties (and body parts) involved. There have been nights (and relationships) where all I've done with partners is anal penetration (either because they've requested it or we were both in the mood for extra sensation). For me, it has to be with someone I trust and someone I am attracted to and someone I want to share my deviant mind with. I have been with women who have begged for it but since discovering the absolute pleasure of anal I have also developed a reluctance towards doing it with just anyone. Indulging is one thing but I prefer the times when we are both lost in the sensation and moment and time disappears. From my experience, my partners have mostly felt enhanced orgasms via anal sex, or at least that's what they've told me. I enjoy the taboo factor but in all honestly, I don't believe it should be taboo, it's just another way to have sex, enjoy each other and explore the pleasure centres of the body. My experiences over the years have been outright positive. Likewise, I've been a few first times (and those girls have always wanted it again), I've done it with one-night stands (in more locations than I care to remember from cars to hotel rooms; from bathrooms to bedrooms; from rooftops to parks; from showers to stairwells) and at one stage during a previous relationship it was the only intercourse we engaged in because she loved / preferred it. Personally, I enjoy the look of it, the feeling, the naughtiness, the submission required, the trust involved and the orgasms that result from careful, thoughtful, gentle, responsive, attentive and relaxing anal sex. I get that it's not for all people and that's cool. It’s something I enjoy, something I'd like to share and something that I believe is unlike anything else when both people let the act become a rewarding one. I adore girl's butts and have yet to hear any complaints -- because making a woman feel sexy, comfortable and safe is alway my top priority. The act isn't as much fun when it isn't enjoyed by both (or more, wink) people. If anything, that's my biggest sexual fault / kink, a love of going backdoor on a girl. I have loved women's butts since I was a teen and will probably worship them until the day I die, ha. As strange as it feels to admit my enjoyment of anal sex was one of the main reasons for joining R.H.P. -- I assumed I wasn't the only person out there interested in enjoying a little butt love. If someone lists their willingness to at least say they're interested -- and hopefully they are -- then I know it won't become awkward when I bring the subject up. If they don't but seem sexually open-minded, then that's usually a sign it may not be on the menu. On that note, I totally respect / understand why girls don't do anal. I get the act is personally and possibly painful (when done by amateurs or dudes who don't know what the hell they're doing… or boys who try to push or don't use adequate lube or don't relax a person first, etc.. And just because one is keen doesn’t automatically mean bodies are compatible and what works one day doesn’t always work the next). As far as my other preferences go, I enjoy both rough and intimate sex and I move according to the woman's wishes (and perform so that she's always feeling pleasure or being aroused). I find the mix to be a lot of fun. There's a time and place for slow, deep, fulfilling anal sex and another for pulling down a pair of underwear and either fingering, licking or fucking a well lubricated ass until the flames of desire are tamed. Angle, depth and sensation are better in the slow, passionate, controlled way but there's another kind of enjoyment from the rough, bounded or confined interaction -- the throbs and grips being their own delight. Sex should be fun and spontaneous, thus location has often dictated what is enjoyed. I find female butts and anal endlessly fascinating. Hearing a lady moan from anal makes me smile in ways nothing else can. It is nice to be able to share and give pleasure and connect in that way. If anyone has any questions for me don't hesitate to get in touch. And hopefully there's a few couples and women out there who are keen to explore this with a man who knows what he is doing. If so, drop me a line and lets meet for a drink and talk specifics. BManAgain, over and out - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its not really something to do that often but its a good option to have in your book for those days that you just wanna do something different. Maybe once in awhile. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Preparation Prevents Piss Poor Performance 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have been hurt several times, when I was first hurt I bled really bad. 22 yrs later men are always asking me if I love anal. I said I use to till I was ripped and bled. Some guys are just plain nasty, they think its like watching a porn and just rammed in which does cause alot of damage. Not just physically but mentally for the woman also. I can be the most pleasurable thing when done right but as I rule I wont let men do it. Two in a row rammed it in when we done doggy and their dicks slipped out because Im a squirter and get wet. Rather then place it back in my pussy they just rammed it in and said oh sorry I didnt mean that after I collapsed on the bed in tears. Fucking liars. Men i have spoken to say it would have been deliberate because wet or not men know which is the right hole. But if I done it again I wouldnt say I would do it often, I dont know why men dont enjoy that perfectly yummy pussy she has and for the ones that love to do it, how about we ram a dong in your ass so you know how painful it can be. Ive heard alot say they love giving anal but a definate no way to receiving. Ho Hum
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RHP User
7 years ago
In a previous relationship we used to do it occasionally, but I always preferred vaginal sex. I haven't even tried anal penetration since I got my piercings. Can't say I really miss it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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useme69
7 years ago
Singlefun you can peg me anyday
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Gr8distraction
7 years ago
Not reallyWhilst I'm sure most guys want to. Its another hole right? its not my go to thing and i don't care about it, unless invited
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RHP User
7 years ago
I had a girl friend once that insisted I was to have sex with her anally as she was saving her love hole for her future husband ?🧐 Of course it didn’t last long
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RHP User
7 years ago
My ex wanted to try anal with me and I said I would only try it if he did as well. If he let me shove a dildo up his ass, he could take mine... he never agreed to it so we never did it... did try it with another lover and although quite painful the first time it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be and butt plugs have helped. A different sensation and for me the orgasms weren’t as intense as vaginal. you need to be comfortable with your partner to go there in the first place - Posted from rhpmobile
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CompersionCouple
7 years ago
I want anal weekly in our play & DP is heaven. Slow at the start till I'm relaxed then I want it deep, hard & fast. Anal takes my orgasms to a super intense level & I regularly squirt from anal. - Posted from rhpmobile
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zzzyyyxxx
7 years ago
All the time here as a couple, its more her thing than his. But he never complains when giving :)
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BiPlay69
7 years ago
As a bi male, I have been the giver and receiver and find that it is something that is perhaps not always on the menu. Like a very special fruit, that some love, some hate and is not the one you go for all the time. Whilst I have known some women that really love it, even some that found it to be very triggering for an orgasm, and others who didn't find it pleasurable at all. Like myself, to be on the receiving end, so to speak, it is not always something that I want, in fact, it is very dependant on so many other factors, the person, my mood, the situation, etc...that it is like those unicorns we often hear of. I think with the advent of online porn, we see so many forming ideas of what is normal based on a very non-normal presentation for entertainment purposes. A personal taste really, and none of our places to judge others, just respect their decisions regarding their own bodies.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mentioned heaps. Could someone please elaborate on what they do to prepare properly?? Ms M
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BManAgain
7 years ago
I typically will give a lady a clitoral or vaginal orgasm (often via oral or with toys or both) so she is nice and relaxed and more receptive. From there I enjoy extensive rimming to help her mind and body adjust. A well lubed finger is often a gentle and slow way to introduce massage around the anus before any penetration takes place. Preperation can include a range of things from conversation to help turn her on to rubbing the head of a penis against the anus in circles in lead up to slow initial insertion. If the woman is relaxed and enough stimulus is there, she should have no trouble slowly accepting whatever is being used. Prep can also include diet. If you know anal is going to happen that day / night you can avoid certain foods (fast food, Mexican, Indian, etc.) and make sure you have made mental note of any recent bowel movements. Get to know your body. Understand which foods and meals effect your bowels or give you an upset stomach. See what difference there is between fresh food and processed food. Douching might not be necessary... or it may be essential. Everyone is different and every day is different. There's no one rule other than check first, lube is your best friend and pain means not enough prep or care has been taken. Wearing a butt plug for an hour (but the time length is dependent on you) before hand can help the body and put your mind in the right space. Start small, build up to the larger ones. Once in stimulate the clit or your nipple or do whatever truns you on. Have your partner go down on you or have sex with the plug in, that can help help immensely. A toy being slowly inserted is a good lead up to seeing how clean you are too. Keep a small towel or wet wipes next to the bed. Have your partner talk to you, check in with you. Tell them what speed works for you, what size feels good, what angle or depth. You can also use toys or fingers on yourself in private or in front of your partner depending on comfort levels. Know what you eat and what your body does and doesn't respond to. Douching all depends on you and your partner / lover, their / your comfort level and your location. Douching before hand can eliminate mess. You can also use warm water. A shower before hand can also help relax the body... as can a full body massage. I personally just keep track of meals, their size and contents and listen / pay attention to my or their body. I ask my partner questions and use a lot of foreplay so they really want me inside them anally rather than forcing them to accept it. If you are going to douche, the length of time you choose before hand is often dependent on location. If you check by yourself it can be done before any action or foreplay starts to happen. If you are clean you are likely to remain that way for a while. If you eat dinner at 7pm and never had much in the way of lunch and you visited the bathroom mid afternoon you shouldn't find any uninvited guests show up to ruin the party. If anal sex is a regular occurrence understanding your own body is step one. If douching gives you peace of mind, great, a little can be done prior to (either an hour or so before or right before... but I try and not to overdo it so not all of the natural bacteria and the like are all completely flushed out). Enemas are another option too... but I would limit that again so your body's balance isn't thrown off. The best advice is often to try a few things at a different times. Take notes. See what works best for you. There's no cookie cutter approach here. Some women are clean and never have any issues. Others get messy no matter what when they are on their periods. Some women need to douche, others just need to avoid certain foods or limit meal portions in lead up to the extra erotic act. B. - Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
7 years ago
i remember reading an australia wide survey a long time back of bedroom fun .might have been fhm mag... from memory australians indulge in "boring", then oral, then anal, then bondage..so third place in the popularity stakes :-)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks for answering my question in such detail. Initially when having anal a few years ago, had no idea about anything......just did what I was told and with very limited knowledge, used to do it a fair bit and one very bad experience put an end to it pretty quickly. Not something I really liked and did it just to please my ex husband. Now I have some knowledge, confidence, and know my own limits going for gold!! Such an interesting topic and so many different points of view......Thanks for your input Peeps
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BManAgain
7 years ago
The subject and the actual experience is an endlessly fascinating topic to me, so I post what I can about it and go from there. Glad you enjoyed part or all of my ramblings. It is such a shame so many women are either totally or momentarily put off by some guys lack of respect and understanding. If only they could appreciate the build up and the gift that it is. With a lot of care and patience and post / pre conversation and study it can be a wildly pleasurable and primal act... as those who know can attest. B. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
5 years ago
Its.more of a preference per person really. Some people just dont like it because of either preconceptions or a bad experience, or they just dont like it.
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trapasses
2 years ago
i think its quite common, most girls I've met are ok with it and agree, transexuals I'm preferring last 5 years as its always the way
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MeAndYou2021
2 years ago
I like it. But must be with experienced partner. I come a lot when having a cock up my arse. But have to be in the right mood. Definitely very sexy. I prefer when I’m on top. I’ve tried giving it. With a vibrator to my partner. I was pretty crap and lack the confidence to do it right. I’d like to do it properly and give him the same experience I get. .
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RHP User
2 years ago
No woman likes it
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BJVAN69
2 years ago
Like to give it but love to receive it too with the right people/mood. Can be very hot and intense.
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