M53
Lost puppies and other hopeless cases
December 24 2014
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I'm sick to death of reading template profiles or lacklustre crap about looking for fun in every sentence. I know I'm not going to find what I want here other than a random emotionless fuck because surprise surprise this is a sex site don't ya know (sigh). Offering advice hopefully educates these people, but again you can lead a horse to water you can't make it drink. I've been abused and blocked for offering advice, called a whore, slut, cunt you name it for simply asking people to approach in the same manner they would in real life. Maybe I'm just tired of the whole kit and kaboodle. I rarely use RHP for hookups, for me it's social and the forums. I can't say I haven't met nice, wonderful people here because I have. Have I met any man who wants to advance beyond a fuck, nup. So I'm just here for the forums, the social meet and greets and the occasional adventure into something new sometimes even a screw (I have needs too) but I'm very picky and there aren't many head turners for me here. Most are in WA. What do I get out of it Simon, so far an occasional thank you, most of the time abuse. I wish people would just read a profile before they barrage you with shit flirts and even shittier emails when it's patently obvious I'm no man's fuck fodder especially the idiots among us here. Oh.....and Merry Christmas 🎁😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hands up..I am just collecting likes Simon..I like likes,but one like is never enough.OH GOD.i need more.more,like me ,like me pleaseeeee ..Mmm that was so good,did you like it too😍xx Freya
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
Lost puppy back in the day, and now being a much bigger dog - I think some may feel a sense of entitlement after constructing half a profile, posting it and then not drowning in 18 year old Swedish backpackers 10 minutes later. Aside from the massive female/male ratio and their ability to pick and choose, the usual reasons remain: 1. Txt spk - cya l8r bai! 2. Too much grey (not the hair) 3. Too much 'ask me' ( it doesn't give you an air of mystique) 4. Too direct ('I'm DTF all you dirty hos') 5. Too much baggage ('my ugly ex dumped me and took all my cash so I'm looking for rich hotties') 6. Too much exaggeration ('I fuck and do oral all night long and will make you cum 20 times' - Merry Christmas Chev btw!) 7. 'I am a secret agent billionaire astronaut and under no circumstances will I divulge a face pic' 8. Too much too soon ('I would like a wife please') 9. 'My wife doesn't know I'm on here' (see earlier thread). Different things attract different people so you need to pitch to your market. And for the record I would like to thank all the ladies who VERY PATIENTLY gave me some advice a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away. Some of them are still here :) At least I filled out a whole profile when I did it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I ask the questions also.... I think (but don't quote me)........... it's called 'self-advertising'*. Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women like to talk. We have a lot of words to use in a day. Simples ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' I'm sick to death of reading template profiles or lacklustre crap about looking for fun in every sentence. I know I'm not going to find what I want here other than a random emotionless fuck because surprise surprise this is a sex site don't ya know (sigh). Offering advice hopefully educates these people, but again you can lead a horse to water you can't make it drink. I've been abused and blocked for offering advice, called a whore, slut, cunt you name it for simply asking people to approach in the same manner they would in real life. Maybe I'm just tired of the whole kit and kaboodle. I rarely use RHP for hookups, for me it's social and the forums. I can't say I haven't met nice, wonderful people here because I have. Have I met any man who wants to advance beyond a fuck, nup. So I'm just here for the forums, the social meet and greets and the occasional adventure into something new sometimes even a screw (I have needs too) but I'm very picky and there aren't many head turners for me here. Most are in WA. What do I get out of it Simon, so far an occasional thank you, most of the time abuse. I wish people would just read a profile before they barrage you with shit flirts and even shittier emails when it's patently obvious I'm no man's fuck fodder especially the idiots among us here. Oh.....and Merry Christmas 🎁😎 DITTO.
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RHP User
10 years ago
the more assistance is given ;) Male or Female - its not a sexist thing :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
What do I get out of it? I just like to hear myself talk.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Burning_Love' Women like to talk. We have a lot of words to use in a day. Simples ;) Quoting 'Meander' What do I get out of it? I just like to hear myself talk. Even if that had occurred to me, there's no way I was going to say it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like helping people and sometimes to a fault.... However.... I can't help but think that sometimes it's counter productive in the sense that by helping someone to write their profile; their profile becomes more about my personality within it and not theirs... But.... I struggle with profile writing myself and for a long time I wanted to write a profile that instantly scored.... But I've found its been a tad fruitless really. So I've given up quite a bit to focus on other things in my life and not being coupled to anyone. Too much info?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Derr.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Twisted Mister Good to hear at least one took it on and did something with it! I should have asked if there are guys here who have stuck around after a makeover, there's probably a couple of diamonds amongst all the rough.
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's a lot of dicks with dicks. On Safari I figured you would all just be ignored, but there really are some poor examples of the male gender around here
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
a female poster had given advice to a new OP about his profile and his forum topic question had bugger all to do with asking for advice nor anything remotely close. I don't know why they felt it was their duty or role too - Beats the heck out of me??? I actually felt for the OP. Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
that was brilliant :) I like to help, some people are just genuinely not that sharp, especially when it comes to the other sex. They do think because it is a sex site, that they can just ask for sex no questions asked. Why do they need to fill out their profiles when they just want a root? It isn't like they are here to marry anyone, I have a dick and I can fuck, that is all you need to know. I think some genuinely believe that women will be their personal whore for the night. I admit when I joined, I believed that I was going to find horny men that would be able to keep up with me and want a regular fuck whenever I wanted (which is a lot) but the pipedeream has faded into men just want to empty their sack in anyone's vagina, I am just 'lucky' they picked me that day. I wonder what men would say if I asked them to critque my profile? I don't have to ask though because the fact that I have a vagina is good enough and...what profile? All I saw was tits.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Here is the offending post: "Just move on, if you need to chase someone they're not really that into you. I also agree about the face pic as a main profile pic, it's a great one. May I give some advice you totally did not ask for?Personally both your name and part of your profile would make me say no, if theoretically I happened to be one of the women you wrote to. You write "I practice safe sex, but due to being fixed it won’t be necessary in an exclusive relationship" as well as "Clean but happy to get tested." The emphasis on being STD free plus not being able to get a woman pregnant reads to me as though you can't wait to ditch the condoms, which frankly would make me feel uncomfortable. Just my opinion of course. " That must have scarred the poor OP for life.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think we've all seen many forums from men asking for help, who still haven't changed a single thing about their pics and profile weeks later. It great to hear from someone who actually wanted the advice, and ran with it. Thanks for sharing!
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inspirit
10 years ago
If I did I really do not think I would be very nice. It isn't rocket science after all.
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
I'm still not drowning in nympho supermodel widows, and my profile's now got a different angle than it had after I took the advice, but the whole experience taught me not to take the site too seriously - it's supposed to be fun! And I 'get it' far better than I did when I started here. Not to be a suck (!) but if you're a bloke who puts up half-arsed crap then wonders why every girl on site doesn't immediately worship at his temple of awesomeness, then there are issues. And I suspect Simon may be right - some people can't or won't be helped, regardless of gender. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just trying to be helpful and friendly. Women are good at that. (˘❥˘) and yes it gets boring as bat shit. When will men learn to read? ⊂(◉‿◉)つ
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RHP User
10 years ago
What I want to know is, do men really believe women will be lining up mouth open and gagging for their cocks just because they have loaded one or two photos and nothing else? That they don't even have to make an effort just create a profile? I mean, which head is doing the talking I wonder?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't give up on hopes u may be surprised to find it right under your noise
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RHP User
10 years ago
The first item on the list is."1. Txt spk - cya l8r bai! " Is not correct, it may apply to those over their mid 30's but many people consider it as normal. Language and writing is not set by institutionally defined rules. It is only a agreed and shared consensus. Approaching the younger generations Txt speak may improve your odds especially if the profile is written such. then...4. Too direct ('I'm DTF all you dirty hos') With a little intuition this is also a good approach. There are many that when the mood is right this is what they are looking for. In the minority, but not so rare as to not give it a try when all the signs indicate so. and...9. 'My wife doesn't know I'm on here' Again there are a good minority of profiles that request that it be so. Not 100% sure why but think it has a underling guarantee that NSA will remain NSA. OP:Why? Because I am always right. Because all should worship the ground over which I hoover, and what Freya said. (nice photo BTW freya sakhibhariya)
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On_Safari
10 years ago
But over 2yrs here has proven apart from some of the forum gents and 3 or 5 others I've messaged with (but sadly geographically unavailable) there's too much shit in the clay to make it potable. (Shrugs) a fact's a fact.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you hold such anger in you it may be of no comfort to you to realise a Safari is what the Leyland Brothers did Honey you need a Pilgrimage to the enlightened soul so you can forgive those who scorn you so much grief or the men that hunt you down for sex only as most men dont have hearts like you men are usually emotionally numb are they not !! Not in emotional turmoil as you may feel to forgive and feel pitty for one that other young souls would hate is the path you need to follow not the cobblestone path of the selfless vilified victim . As the spirits you so demise are the same spirits you will recieve your answers my child . Bahaha Now i do not believe you read my posts as some of your leaders have preached to you the good path and righteous step to ascend is not by word of such a scoundrel of an Ocean , for that very Ocean is the same you cleans your skin but not your soul my young girly girl . For i believe you have the second best profile i have had the unfortunate pleasure to cast an eye over , so you infact should be holding the flame of understanding not the dagger of deciet hmmm ?! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
when i first joined up at the pie shop i ripped out a standard lame not template but well written honest profile that ! Well ! Well actually recieved a message with in a day much to my surprise of the way of the site , and this young lady simply said and i quote : Hello ...,.,..! Look you sound like a nice guy , but maybe what you should be focusing on is , E Harmony or Plenty of Fish !! Because this SITE IS FOR FUCKING mate . Oh my !! So i changed it and have recieved over one hundred phone numbers in 18 months. Before you bellow i am just saying thats all . - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Have you ever stopped to help someone who you just knew wasn't going to benefit from the assistance you offered... but you did it anyway?! Same same. Take the higher road.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your tireless assistance and selfless giving to the forum was truly amazing. Keep up the good work in 2015. xx ⊂(◉‿◉)つ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive changed mine several times already. Don't have the gift to be able to properly express what I want from my time here...from brain(yes I have one-apart from my member brain)..to putting it down onscreen! Plus I'd like to try refine it for when the time comes to 'pay-up'. so to the ladies that do offer Advice- To quote J.L .....'I get by with a little help from my friends'....
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' I'm sick to death of reading template profiles or lacklustre crap about looking for fun in every sentence. I know I'm not going to find what I want here other than a random emotionless fuck because surprise surprise this is a sex site don't ya know (sigh). Offering advice hopefully educates these people, but again you can lead a horse to water you can't make it drink. I've been abused and blocked for offering advice, called a whore, slut, cunt you name it for simply asking people to approach in the same manner they would in real life. Maybe I'm just tired of the whole kit and kaboodle. I rarely use RHP for hookups, for me it's social and the forums. I can't say I haven't met nice, wonderful people here because I have. Have I met any man who wants to advance beyond a fuck, nup. So I'm just here for the forums, the social meet and greets and the occasional adventure into something new sometimes even a screw (I have needs too) but I'm very picky and there aren't many head turners for me here. Most are in WA. You took the words right out of my mouth. Except for the part about WA, the grass is no greener here, sure we have head turners but very few that are interested in anything than a "emotionless fuck"
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74'They do think because it is a sex site, that they can just ask for sex no questions asked. Why do they need to fill out their profiles when they just want a root? It isn't like they are here to marry anyone, I have a dick and I can fuck, that is all you need to know. I think some genuinely believe that women will be their personal whore for the night. I get at least one "wanna fuck" message a day, my standard response now is "I suggest you visit a brothel then...."
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'passion8_l' You took the words right out of my mouth. Except for the part about WA, the grass is no greener here, sure we have head turners but very few that are interested in anything than a "emotionless fuck" Thank you for demeaning us guys. I greatly appreciate that you understand we are without any emotion and consider other people as nothing more that something to put our dicks in. But you did clarify that it is only the head turners that are worthy of judgment so at least I can feel a little less shame in being male as I am not near even a dream of a head turner. Those poor guys really do suffer the most...
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RHP User
10 years ago
you really do set your self up for great dissapointment, sure have goals and know what you want but realisticly your profile describes the absolute most perfect man you could dream to have , engineered down to pin point accuracy that seriously does not exist , your ideal vision of a manufactured man is great to dream of but come on give yourself a brake and allow for imperfections your ideals dont exist and if they did it would be short lived and false , and give men a chance to be less than perfect because most dont dwell on a womans imperfections most men seek positive attraction like nice tits ! Great body ! Hot ass ! Love to fuck you ! Wanna fuck ! Thats all some women leave a man with to ask ! deserted And ignored when they offer compliments of nice features of a woman to be scalded and shunned as a silver tongue just for a fuck !! So why waste time ? Time is precious and like a message ignored is a message of no thanks most are left with! Wanna Fuck ? Its honest Its truth Its no head fuck Its a question Its blunt Its what woman want , only with fine print not yet visible for viewing .and its what a man wants with fine print stamped on his forehead to still be called a dick head . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Have you ever stopped to help someone who you just knew wasn't going to benefit from the assistance you offered... but you did it anyway?! I think it goes back to the "Don't invest more in them..." thread. I offer advice because I enjoy being helpful, I don't expect something to come from it. Also, the OP may not do anything with the suggestions we give, but how do we know quiet lurker doesn't? We may be helping someone we don't see, without realising.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Being blessed with hotties (FIFO and otherwise) still doesn't equate to much. I'm actually thinking about leaving RHP and cyberworld for a while....my search is proving futile so back to concentrating on the "real world".
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Sorry sweet....it's not meant to be a stereotyping thing but generally speaking it's how the majority view women on RHP and one persons unattractive is someone else' "hottie". Thing is about these topics you rarely/never hear about men being treated like free whores by women who approach them with "wanna fck?" messages and then being abused because they suggest the "Lady" put her manners back in. Would love to hear if this scenario has occurred. Sorry to go off topic Simon but shoe on the other foot instead of turning this into a battle of sexes thing. Trust me I feel for the nice guys here who cop it because a 100 or more wankers got to us before you. I still try to remember and treat every approach based on it's own merit and the way the person conducts themselves in ensuing contact. Surprises are always wonderful. Indy keeping it real.
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madotara69
10 years ago
you're not a bad sort, as a matter of fact you are a bloody gorgeous woman and just to be in your company would no doubt have a blokes head spinning, well the odds of 1 in a hundred is looking pretty good for some lucky bugger that happens to catch your fancy. Yes keeping it real indeed. I'm sure it's those few fellows who would dearly appreciate the hints offered by the ladies for a shot at tickling the funny bone. 1 in a 100, then there is quite a few men who would be tickled pink to be not lost and forsaken. What are they going to feel if you piss off, hey? Mado Mado Tara xx
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On_Safari
10 years ago
But you raise a valid point too. Are there so many women here some men actually think it doesn't matter if you piss off a hundred or so because playing the numbers game means eventually it'll work? Lol yes it does, but again quality of experience over a quick fuck any day. Thanks for the compliment too btw, I keep trying to get people to realise I'm a nice girl. 😇 😝Guess it helps you've met me huh 😘
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On_Safari
10 years ago
There aren't any number of men past 1. xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Have you ever stopped to help someone who you just knew wasn't going to benefit from the assistance you offered... but you did it anyway?! Nah probably not. I've certainly tried to help a few I thought would benefit only to find they didn't, but can't say I would bother if I went in knowing it was pointless. I have much better uses for my time and there's much worthier causes. I'm not surprised that some just like to be helpful regardless of the results. I wonder though given how often these questions come up if at some point it becomes tiresome.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Being blessed with hotties (FIFO and otherwise) still doesn't equate to much. I'm actually thinking about leaving RHP and cyberworld for a while....my search is proving futile so back to concentrating on the "real world". Cyberworld is full of untruthful people who have no concept of the words "honesty unto themeselves" behind a fucking keyboard or on their fucking phone. Get your tits out the chick and into the sunshine. So damn good for the soul. xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
so in light of keeping things real 99 men out of 100 may not really give a fuck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
It does become tiresome.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'passion8_l' Quoting 'On_Safari' I'm sick to death of reading template profiles or lacklustre crap about looking for fun in every sentence. I know I'm not going to find what I want here other than a random emotionless fuck because surprise surprise this is a sex site don't ya know (sigh). Offering advice hopefully educates these people, but again you can lead a horse to water you can't make it drink. I've been abused and blocked for offering advice, called a whore, slut, cunt you name it for simply asking people to approach in the same manner they would in real life. Maybe I'm just tired of the whole kit and kaboodle. I rarely use RHP for hookups, for me it's social and the forums. I can't say I haven't met nice, wonderful people here because I have. Have I met any man who wants to advance beyond a fuck, nup. So I'm just here for the forums, the social meet and greets and the occasional adventure into something new sometimes even a screw (I have needs too) but I'm very picky and there aren't many head turners for me here. Most are in WA. You took the words right out of my mouth. Except for the part about WA, the grass is no greener here, sure we have head turners but very few that are interested in anything than a "emotionless fuck" I've met some really lovely people through this site. Sure I get the 'wanna fuck' type messages too sometimes but I fire off a 'thanks but no thanks' response and spend my time and energy on the people who are worth my time. There are plenty of them around.
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madotara69
10 years ago
privileged to have met you, sure you are a nice girl! it's what that lost puppy would be counting on for if graced with the quest of pleasing that dirty mind within that nice girl !!, lets not forget nice guys finish last, exhausting as it may be. Courage it is these puppies seek All for one and one for all, high ho silver and awayyyy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Than write a profile for someone,just pose a set of questions for them.Sometimes that is enough to inspire the person to put a profile into their own words...the templates are useless,convey nothing but a negative view...would you ever see the same ad for vegemite as soap?....Sometimes an RHP mate will re-do their profile and ask me for feedback..I am always happy to help out a friend😌...but giving someone too much help is like sitting an exam for them.it is as useless as a template.it absolutely creates,a false impression..I ain't no Cyrano ...😊..xx Freya
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'passion8_l' You took the words right out of my mouth. Except for the part about WA, the grass is no greener here, sure we have head turners but very few that are interested in anything than a "emotionless fuck" Thank you for demeaning us guys. I greatly appreciate that you understand we are without any emotion and consider other people as nothing more that something to put our dicks in. But you did clarify that it is only the head turners that are worthy of judgment so at least I can feel a little less shame in being male as I am not near even a dream of a head turner. Those poor guys really do suffer the most..Fuck me........it seems that one needs a disclaimer with every comment made
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RHP User
10 years ago
with what i have read on the forums and beyond that obviously there is hundreds of lame template profiles from cocks that just wanna fuck on a sex site. With a ratio of 10 /1 women. So with that many men with no hope or chance!! Then i would suggest that brings the ratio down to more like at a guess 3 / 1 women much better odds now obviously . So what one of you lovely ladies today really WANNA FUCK ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' you really do set your self up for great dissapointment, sure have goals and know what you want but realisticly your profile describes the absolute most perfect man you could dream to have , engineered down to pin point accuracy that seriously does not exist , your ideal vision of a manufactured man is great to dream of but come on give yourself a brake and allow for imperfections your ideals dont exist and if they did it would be short lived and false , and give men a chance to be less than perfect because most dont dwell on a womans imperfections most men seek positive attraction like nice tits ! Great body ! Hot ass ! Love to fuck you ! Wanna fuck ! Thats all some women leave a man with to ask ! deserted And ignored when they offer compliments of nice features of a woman to be scalded and shunned as a silver tongue just for a fuck !! So why waste time ? Time is precious and like a message ignored is a message of no thanks most are left with! Wanna Fuck ? Its honest Its truth Its no head fuck Its a question Its blunt Its what woman want , only with fine print not yet visible for viewing .and its what a man wants with fine print stamped on his forehead to still be called a dick head . - Posted from rhpmobile I don't think that what I am looking for is unrealistic at all and fail to see how it is "engineered down to pinpoint accuracy". You on the other hand contradict yourself when you say that men don't dwell on a womans' imperfections yet you seek "nice tits, great body and hot ass". I would like to think that there are some men out there that appreciate a womans' mind as well. I don't expect perfect I know that perfect does not exist I just want someone that is perfect for me. Speaking of perfect.......how is your search going for your perfect woman??? As far as the "wanna fuck" messages, sorry but they are disrespectful and illustrate how some men believe that women on here are free whores. And before you jump all over me NOTE said some men.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari'Trust me I feel for the nice guys here who cop it because a 100 or more wankers got to us before you. I still try to remember and treat every approach based on it's own merit and the way the person conducts themselves in ensuing contact. Surprises are always wonderful. Indy keeping it real. And there are nice guys here, I know because I have met them and I have never said that all men here are the same but it seems that one can't even voice their opinion or share their experiences without getting jumped all over. I've almost given up hope of meeting what I want on rhp and up until recently logged on mainly for the forums but I'm not so sure I even want to do that anymore.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Pay membership - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
whether it is the uncompleted profile or the guy in the bar that has worked the room with his one and only pick up line and you are the 50th girl he has approached that night. ........the scatter gun approach........ it really only works on "desperate people" but at least on here it is alot easier just to ignore, delete or block the uninspiring. I have only been here a few months and right now i am too crazy busy to meet up with people but i have found some cool guys........ they are not all bad. And some have been happy to chat and wait till i do have time to meet them. And when i say chat i mean normal conversations/discussions not sex talk. And surprisingly i have found the younger ones to be more open, polite and friendly. How young can i go before i am officially a cougar ? lol V
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RHP User
10 years ago
its a waste of energy to try to "help" the guys with the half arsed profiles by giving them unsolicited advice but if a woman is asked for advice she cannot help but give it ..............that is a genetic fact
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RHP User
10 years ago
Passion ! oh my please !! here in black and white as the previous . Someone i recalled asked for an example of say how a man is treated on a sex site ? Within last 48 hrs just an example from my private messages i shall share with you all . I sent a message and three weeks later today Her Hey sorry for the late response.. How are you? Tell me a little about yourself? Can you please share the love and rate my red Hot amateur pics! Maybe we can take some together! Xx Me Dont be sorry allow me to appolagise to you as i must of been a little desperate that morning as i would not really just send willy nilly pathetic messages like i sent you , even though you have a damn hot body , and miss you dont have to bribe me into voting for you with unrealistic rewards i would happily cast my eye and my vote of excellent as that is what i see , give me a day or two however i will vote , and me tell you of me ? Hahaha well read my profile gorgeous and that is me adventurer ! Lover ! Funny as fuck and addicted to the sweets of pussy. Her Thanks for voting and leaving a naughty comment. Me Thanks computer for manipulating another human as a number to boost your stature as a desirable woman But the fact that you ask me personal questions and bribe me then dont read my reply tells me that you are just pussy to Fuck. Emotionless. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Strange that the focus should be on men's profiles as there are plenty of female and couple profiles that offer little or no info upon which to judge if contact is worthwhile or not. I guess that it is a numbers thing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The grass is always greener....WA has no better and no worse guys than anywhere else... Nice girls finish last too...not just guys! As a 'lurker' I have been immensely helped by all the comments here (and other forum topics)...even tho you do not know it...so please keep giving your advice, suggestions, metaphors, experiences and anecdotes so that I can keep learning...
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RHP User
10 years ago
passion8_l Was a little too blind last night. Should have known better and not posted. No offence intended at you but at times us guys do cop a bad wrap here and me drunk and alone at home was feeling too dam sorry for my self. Not an excuse but a disclaimer of sorts.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
If you're meeting plenty of men that meet your criteria that is great and I'm happy for you. We all have certain preferences that we like to see in a potential friend/Lover/playmate. I'm simply not finding many that meet mine. I DO however have plenty of male, female and even a few couples as cherished friends met from this site.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Why bother message-arguing with s fake or automated profile? Total waste of time.... but the length of your replies indicates..... you have plenty of that to spare. Just sayin.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Now..... I'm not 100% certain your comment was a compliment hahaha 😄
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' passion8_l Was a little too blind last night. Should have known better and not posted. No offence intended at you but at times us guys do cop a bad wrap here and me drunk and alone at home was feeling too dam sorry for my self. Not an excuse but a disclaimer of sorts. Agree, men do cop a bad wrap but I never assume that every man is the same otherwise I wouldn't be here.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' Passion ! oh my please !! here in black and white as the previous . Someone i recalled asked for an example of say how a man is treated on a sex site ? Emotionless. - Posted from rhpmobile one click on your profile mr ocean and anyone can see who you voted for and now know the identity of the profile you exchanged messages. On the matter of emotionless fucks or fuckers; I'm sure there are just as many women as men with this attitude, in fact given the ratio of men to women on this site it could possibly be more.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'bluetiger64' Pay membership - Posted from rhpmobile You look at my profile and then you make this comment. Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm a guest so I'm assuming it was directed at me. Not that I need to justify my actions to you but I don't see the point in being a paid member because I am not actively searching and therefore not messaging anyone, I have no interest in looking at red hot pics or anything else that a paid membership offers for that matter.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Jaycee67' The grass is always greener....WA has no better and no worse guys than anywhere else... Nice girls finish last too...not just guys! As a 'lurker' I have been immensely helped by all the comments here (and other forum topics)...even tho you do not know it...so please keep giving your advice, suggestions, metaphors, experiences and anecdotes so that I can keep learning... Was being a little cheeky with one of those thingy whatsies, nice guys cum last
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' If you're meeting plenty of men that meet your criteria that is great and I'm happy for you. We all have certain preferences that we like to see in a potential friend/Lover/playmate. I'm simply not finding many that meet mine. I DO however have plenty of male, female and even a few couples as cherished friends met from this site. but enough for me to getting along with. I'm not suggesting that I'm doing anything different to anyone else, it was mostly the comment about there being 'very few' men on here that were looking for more than an emotionless fuck. If that's the case then I must be meeting them all and I should probably buy a lottery ticket, because I didn't realise I was that lucky!
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RHP User
10 years ago
read the words written and understand what is said before assuming a conclusion because a lot of posts on this thread are hypocritical because the posters are short sighted at even there own statments contradicting there individual shit that wreaks of denial claiming to be this? one side of your face then talking shit the other side ! when you have confused your own purpose actions statments and actually are pathetic manipulators and i will challenge anyone that does not accept there own shit even when smothered in it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
WA does seem to have the kind of men I find....alluring. Have one for me. x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Burning_Love' Women like to talk. We have a lot of words to use in a day. Simples ;) - Posted from rhpmobile hahaha "simples" Did you get that from the comparethemarket ad / not comparethemeerkat ad? Nice. I'm going to give you points for that one! LOL xtothez
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RHP User
10 years ago
there are the profiles that do not reflect the true nature of the person...I received a message not too long ago from a regular poster that was so vitriolic ,and a personal attack. i was incredibly shocked by the ugliness that was exposed .
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Yes true Freya, there are many profiles that don't depict the owner of the profile very well at all. Well actually I think some people write what they wish they were like, or what they want others to think they're like. Because let's face it writing I'm a nasty, narcissistic, self centred, dishonest piece of work wouldn't really work well at all..... But on meeting, one soon works out the true person....💋 Now in saying that, there are also some profiles that match the owners extremely well, I've met quite a few of these wonderful people....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Same here Freya. I have never received anything like it in my life.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If this person's profile reflected the messages they send to women who clearly tick them of in the fora it would say"I m an angry misogynist who hates anyone whose view differs to mine.If you ever meet me,be afraid,very afraid "...I am just glad that a continent separates us.
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inspirit
10 years ago
That is just shit and what a fucking coward or cowardess. Have to wonder why they are even here - no life springs to mind
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women are beautiful creatures and as evolution creates beginnings and seals fates , i admire and respect woman the Superior survivors and mothers nurtures of life and the human race . But that aint for a while yet so i reflect what i receive but im a man with no tact nor elegance lacking in beauty and inner strength just a reflection of some bitter bitches that degrade men with crocodile tears and midlife crisis of just being no it all moles and if we can keep you handful in here then the streets will be once again a safe place to walk . With a gorgeous girl on my arm . Thank you ladies - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Inspirit. Empty vessels make the most noise mate.
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Seachange
10 years ago
That nastiness is uncalled for and just plain crazy! I realized one little 'like' can unhinge someone. I have it about 2 months ago from a regular poster as well. Not sure where it came from wnd why it was necessary. I did not respond as I did not want to dignify such vitriolic message with my attention. nNOT worth my time nor energy. Just moving on.
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RHP User
10 years ago
LOL my jaw dropped when I got similar rudeness in my inbox recently.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone who has received at least one vitriolic message from a regular poster. I've received them from both male and female forumites. We can all think we know the others on the forums from reading their posts over time, but I've learned we really don't. People can be be whatever and whoever they want to be behind a keyboard. Even when actually meeting people from here you can think they're the real deal, while they are two-faced and lie to you. It takes time sometimes to really see people for who they really are. You live, you learn. Disclaimer: This is not aimed at anyone in particular, but if the shoe fits and all that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes I have also been threatened by a female poster, who is no longer here. The first time I received something like that I was very shocked. I have never dealt with something like that before. Definitely a lot of people with mental health issues, as in real life, but personally I am not sure how to handle threats, people that wish me dead, all the manipulation. I just tell them to go get help, then block them. In hindsight I probably should have reported these instances to the RHP moderators so that they are aware of it.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' Women are beautiful creatures and as evolution creates beginnings and seals fates , i admire and respect woman the Superior survivors and mothers nurtures of life and the human race . But that aint for a while yet so i reflect what i receive but im a man with no tact nor elegance lacking in beauty and inner strength just a reflection of some bitter bitches that degrade men with crocodile tears and midlife crisis of just being no it all moles and if we can keep you handful in here then the streets will be once again a safe place to walk . With a gorgeous girl on my arm . Thank you ladies - Posted from rhpmobile Did you have cuntabix for breaky! I would take you comments as an insult to ALL woman who post in the forums here OR have I read it wrong. It is such a shame you do not think you are nice person.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are these two-faced members lost, or hopeless cases? I hope not, but I think some of them are. Even so, I sometimes can't help wasting my time and effort. My "must.not.respond." mantra doesn't always work. Fark, I'm the hopeless one here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' Women are beautiful creatures and as evolution creates beginnings and seals fates , i admire and respect woman the Superior survivors and mothers nurtures of life and the human race . But that aint for a while yet so i reflect what i receive but im a man with no tact nor elegance lacking in beauty and inner strength just a reflection of some bitter bitches that degrade men with crocodile tears and midlife crisis of just being no it all moles and if we can keep you handful in here then the streets will be once again a safe place to walk . With a gorgeous girl on my arm . Thank you ladies Quoting 'Bigocean' i knew that would stimulate the senses and prepare the cunts for battle fee fi fo fum i smell the blood of someones son , yum yum Queens of assumption may the heckles stand on your withered backs as i think you girls are a little ticked off hahaha and i dont have opinions im a man so the opinions you set for me are the ones i shall test . So dont fuck them up. Please I've just reported you for abuse. Pull your head in.
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inspirit
10 years ago
We all know BO goes off in a tangent when things don't go his way - but reporting him?? Why not just tell him how you feel in here. Why did you post that you reported him for abuse?? Why not warn him in here first?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Gawd. That is funny Inspirit.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Remarks should be left so others can see for themselves and know what people are really like.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'Why not warn him in here first? My guess.... as happens with a lot of people in this site...... the abuse goes underground into a PM inbox.
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twowithnolimits
10 years ago
because we live in an era of government and church imposed censorship and morality and we must do all we can to further the aims of the moral majority and zealot right..it is not for us to speak out for ourselves on an adult site ;-)
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twowithnolimits
10 years ago
because we live in an era of government and church imposed censorship and morality and we must do all we can to further the aims of the moral majority and zealot right..it is not for us to speak out for ourselves on an adult site ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
You really want all the women who have commented on the ugly, angry, threatening emails we rec'd too really talk about it? Hey?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' We all know BO goes off in a tangent when things don't go his way - but reporting him?? Why not just tell him how you feel in here. Why did you post that you reported him for abuse?? Why not warn him in here first? Give him a warning first, like a child you mean? Hell no, he's a grown man FFS About talking to BigO: I've tried been on the other end of unpleasantness as a result. I said it here as I'm all for open disclosure and don't like reporting posters/posts anonymously. That's all, moving on now.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Sure quietened down the forums, grape vine must be going bananas.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Don't know. Nobody has contacted me via the coconut express. Since I'm a guest, am incommunicado on my tree. Oh so lonesome on the top.... but peaceful. Ahhhhh.... hapoy new year to you both. ;-)
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Everyone who has received at least one vitriolic message from a regular poster. I've received them from both male and female forumites. We can all think we know the others on the forums from reading their posts over time, but I've learned we really don't. People can be be whatever and whoever they want to be behind a keyboard. Even when actually meeting people from here you can think they're the real deal, while they are two-faced and lie to you. It takes time sometimes to really see people for who they really are. You live, you learn. Disclaimer: This is not aimed at anyone in particular, but if the shoe fits and all that. So I replied simply because I wanted to correct the way in which he had misinterpreted my words, his response was "fuck off you idiot"
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On_Safari
10 years ago
With many here who've attempted to be nice to him usually with him instigating all contact and then abusing people for it. Why the Mods allow those people to remain is beyond me. Lift the standard RHP pleeease!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Road rage with a Keyboard in here! hoping not to meet too many cunz or wierdos with my time here. haha we can all dream hey
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would find it amusing if somebody tried to help me with my profile. Sure, I'm intelligent and articulate so I'm confident in writing my own profile. If people don't get it they're probably not going to get me in real life. Besides, I'm just here for the forums :p
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rupamohan
10 years ago
I feel even off topic is more useful forum section. The post under this heading only serve one purpose best, keeping the helping soul forum regulars busy. Writing a profile at RHP is NOT like writing a job CV where you can't preview what your competitors have written. Job situation may require a professional help. I see no logic why anybody can't self help here by simply viewing well written profiles.
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Seachange
10 years ago
so OP, it seems that we have veered way off topic from your OP. So up to you, as the OP, to decide how to curve back in the direction of the thread and temper the harangue spat out by an angry poster. As Inspirit said, this is going down the slippery slope of closing the thread and understandably. . Or maybe you can not be bothered... Lol. I suppose so much has already been said on the topic (seems we exhausted all opinions on the topic) without repeating ourselves and it is leading to its natural end. It started so well, Just a pity one went on a tangent. Sheezh.... All will be forgotten in the New Year (with enough Absinthe in our system in NYE!). Happy new year folks!
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Missb4u
10 years ago
So I see this is going well I generally don't help the ones looking for advice just an occasional comment but nothing of substance. My opinion most that post those forums are just looking for attention, good for them for trying something.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' lier lier lier - Posted from rhpmobile Perhaps I should post the communication here and let others be the judge of whether I am lying but on seconds thoughts I know I'm telling the truth and that is all that matters to me
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