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Melbourne Members General Meet & Greet
August 02 2017
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Was in February actually 😊 This organiser is in semi retirement after 3 years of organising them, as is my beautiful partner in crime. Can someone else pleeease pick up the batten? Here are some pearls of wisdom...hope they are of some help. Timing....well its tricky. Avoid AFL finals series (yes I know that not everyone follows the game but hotels & function places hike up the prices during that period), avoid the Melbourne Spring Racing Carnival (for the same readon), and consult the Whats on in Melbourne website to make sure you don't pick a weekend with a massive festival. Early-mid October usually works. The principle venue we have used in the past has served us well....particularly as we have been able to get the space for free. Yep that means no deposit, no minimum spend, nothing up front......and therefore the costs to attend the event are entirely self-determined (drinks & food at your own cost). Getting a free venue is very difficult to find unless you are in the know, or have the gift of the gab....or both 😁 Finding a venue space for 100+ people is also tricky. The CBD is the best option in terms of location....good public transport, parking, choices of hotels for those who stay out for the night. Oh one last point ....being in an area which is public but separate has its advantages....it does help control behaviour. When we used a different venue which was a completely private area with our own bar staff....well I do hope those bar staff have recovered from what they saw that night. Not everyone is as open minded as we are 😈😈 We have not had the same issues when using our regular venue - a totally separate area but semi public. Always happy to pass on more tips if needed 🙃
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RHP User
7 years ago
I know the 14th of October is out as I will be going to the monster trucks ;) As for fully open public or private space venues, I recently went to an event (unrelated to this scene) which involved burlesque and some full nudity, entry costumes that were essentially lingerie and underwear, and some naughty social dancing :) I think venues are quite accepting of a variety of interests. Many host bucks or hen's events. The venue I used last year did have a hire fee, so I did ask for a small tip donation around $5 to help cover the cost. But with even a small hire fee gets you a much bigger selection of suitable venues. - Posted from rhpmobile
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lik2watch59
7 years ago
CT, good luck organising this event, they are always popular and great to attend. Picking the date the suits most (and you'll never please every one) is always difficult. I'll just make a comment on the date, I would possibly aim for the Saturday night after Saints and Sinners. As Ms Jonesy has stated, most people will make a week end out of it and with people prepared to travel from interstate for S&S on the Friday night, the event on Saturday night would just complete their weekend. As much as I love attending these M&G's I wont be able to make it if it is on that weekend due to being at Bathurst. Good luck, I hope you get a turn up. Warren (L2W)
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
I'VE NOTHING TO WEAR!!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
To run a m&g the Saturday after Saints & Sinners ball. We did that a couple of years ago and had over 130 people at the meet and greet.....some a little worse for wear & tear from the night before lol.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
After saints , is a great idea to get the travellers Making a weekend of it , - Posted from rhpmobile
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megz85g
7 years ago
With a bit of notice - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
7 years ago
Fond memories of travelling down for Saints and sinners then my first melb Mng that weekend also :-)
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would love to attend another Saints & Sinners, and my first Melbourne M&G. Would be very tight financially but if this goes ahead I'll definitely try to make it down!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would love to come down if you go ahead with it. I have a fwb in Melbourne that will come with me. Count us in. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
It'd end up on a kid weekend for me so I'll just pass now to avoid it later lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ok so we shall pencil in the Saturday 7th October? I will confirm once a venue had been arranged (asap). Once that happens, a meetup will be placed on the rhp event calendar.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey there Luck_Dragon, Id love to go to the Saints with you and then the M&GMy shout xx
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Logged on tonight to draft up a topic for the fundraiser Island Vibe Meet & Greet up here Sat 28th October. 😖 Need to get a job that allows us to do EVERYTHING! Melbourne's always a good idea.....👍🏽
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
try try try try you good thing
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Well?? What do ya say babe?? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Would be great to get down to a Melbourne M&G - for so many reasons (aka people) Fingers crossed I can swindle a weekend away. The date looks good.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Halloween! Right up my alley. Damn I wish flights from here to Melbs weren't so expensive. Hopefully some specials will come up.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'the_antichrist' Well?? What do ya say babe?? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile I think you have a pretty good idea what I'm thinking
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
I'm kid free....so I may just be able to make it ..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
7th October sounds perfect ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'the_antichrist' I'm kid free....so I may just be able to make it ..... Don't tell me there's a chance we might actually end up meeting each other in person. That could be a bit dangerous...
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Actually, I think hell may be getting cold all of a sudden yes Lol :p But all jokes aside, I'd actually probably feel very privileged deep down....but shhhhh I have a rep to think about lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mask_007
7 years ago
I love the idea. I will try my best to make it. One question as I don't have much experience with parties and other events, is that M&G ok for single guys like me? Because a lot of other parties are out of limits. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Would you two go get a room?! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
It'll be the room where everyone else will be at the m&g....doing what everyone will be doing :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's nothing like that...Mr antichrist and I have known and talked with each other for a few years now, but through screens only. We've also had our share of, shall we say, disagreements in opinion...hence my comment about it possibly being dangerous if we actually meet
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
It's a social get together not an orgy buddy :) Think of it like drinks at the local pub with a bunch of mates after work on a Friday to avoid going home to the missus :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
We'd get on better if you'd learn to worship me lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Yes meet and greets are open to all. It's not a play meet although after parties can get hot and moist...... It's a social gathering of the site where you can chat and make some connections over a drink or 2. Many a friendship has been made at these events.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'the_antichrist' We'd get on better if you'd learn to worship me lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile Two chances of that happening...
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Two chances are better than none hahaha :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Everyone is welcome. Although in my M and G experience single men turn up in only small numbers even when sent an invite. Not everyone will be interested in talking to all types of other attendees, but making the effort to show up puts you above all the others that didn't show up. It will be essentially free, so a good social night out at the very least. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I plan to have a mingling game or two, with prizes :) (From my experience with other types of social events, especially good for first timers or people attending alone). So it will be a little different, putting the emphasis on social fun, interaction and inclusion for all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Lol I did too!!! 😈😈 My bad :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I understand the dynamics here now, but I have a bucket of cold water on standby just in case... :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
Much too gentle ,I'm thinking a stick with thorns would be more fun to watch , Annie said moist ,hehehe, Cd ,I will donate a brand new in packet rhp bikinis if you would like them for a fun game prize. Any ideas on venue yet ,need to look at accomodation , And damn it ,we are going To try and not be late as always ,pfffft fat chance of that ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
It would be hard to beat the one on the river for atmosphere and convenience. CT, don't discount that one just because others have used it. So close to all the hotels and venues for kicking on later
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RHP User
7 years ago
Really not wanting to put any pressure on you CT, but would be good to have a general idea of venue location, even if it's just that it will be somewhere in the inner city. I'm trying to work out budgets etc., whether I'll be able to afford accommodation on top of flights, and also if the M&G venue will be anywhere close to the Saints & Sinners venue (if I do attend S&S as well, that also depends on budget).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Spesh friend and I are keen - Posted from rhpmobile
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time4us4play
7 years ago
Is the date definitely the 7th? I would love to come with my fwb. I am from Sydney he's in Melbourne. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
7 Oct works for me, 14th is Out On The Weekend Music Festival - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Im there for sure, looking to make lots of new friends
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is the date definite? Would love to come with my fwb. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Makes a change from a lump of 2x4 with nails so I'll take that too lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have a venue all but confirmed as of time of writing (date arranged and just awaiting small deposit). I visited town yesterday to look at a shortlist of venues in person. Yes I did take in mind a comparison compared with the location/s we have used in the past. The venue decided on is located in Docklands, just a short tram ride from Southern Cross station. Walking distance from the tram stop is short, similar to the last venue at the waterfront. In this case we will have the entire upper floor, which holds 150, and which includes the internal space plus extensive sheltered decking (can be open or closed), both areas with plenty of nice seating (smoking area is downstairs outside). Private bar of course. I can make another official forum post shortly and will also make an event listing. Our exclusive space is a four hour booking from 7-11pm, and the premises can stay open further until 1am if needed depending on patronage. Like the last one I hosted, I may go with a donation box of $5 to $10 to cover incidentals (eg prizes or finger food if desired). I don't want an official entry price and collecting it at the door just adds more work. I might ask for assistance on the night eg at the door. Do we want name/username/alias tags? Also like the last one I hosted, a sound system is included and last time I provided a music playlist. I'll be back in a day or two to tell you to book flights/trains/cars/trams/cabs/ubers/bicycles/horses/shoes...
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NewVicCpl
7 years ago
Waterfront is walking distance for us and the date works great 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
To see another meet and greet being organised - I enjoyed the last one and will make an effort to come to this one XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm certainly keen. Haven't had much chance to get out and meet people since moving down here. $10 entry seems more than reasonable.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm usually at Monster Trucks but giving it a bit of a break this year. After the 14th of October would suit me better, but I'm only one person and understand majority would rule. First week of October is out for me as I'll be travelling interstate during that week doing ute stuff and other stuff of the spooky kind.
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TwoCurious2017
7 years ago
Sounds like a great opportunity for us relative newbies to get to meet people. We'll be there! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
... pencilled the date in my calendar. Will see how my finances are looking closer to the time, but would love to be there 😍
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
for me...I think a trip to Melbourne is the perfect present to myself the following weekend! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Does this...."Our exclusive space is a four hour booking from 7-11pm" mean we: a) have to move out of the space, or b) other - i.e. non RHP - people can enter the space after 11pm? I ask as there is alwaaaaaaaays a nincompoop at the RHP party who reveals to the general public at the venue that its a swingers party. Queue the stampede of blokes at 11pm looking to pick up 😣
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wildhoney
7 years ago
.. so .. I'm visiting Melb this week .. and Ballarat next week .. you could do a mini practice run .. what's on this week? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't remember such a stampede at previous events? (But I'm technically one of them...) If either, it would be option a), but if patronage is low. The upstairs space is not normally open on a Saturday night except for such functions, which is why we have it. As for the booking period, like the previous Sydney event I went to, it is on a minimum spend basis (although in this case it is cheaper and also expected to have more attendees, so I have no worries there). However, further official extension of the booking period increases the minimum spend. As a venue they close on a pub-type basis ie closing if people have gone, or remaining open until 1am while busy. They said if we still have plenty of people there after 11, they would probably keep our space open for us. The previous venue I remember closed at midnight and few of us were remaining there by then, some heading on to the casino. As for other people around, the Docklands venues I visited said unless there was a sporting game on, Docklands is a ghost town. So it's likely we would have the whole venue mostly to ourselves as well as our exclusive area.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Scary people on the door kept the blokes out, or chased them down if they sneaked through....looking at you Betty et al 😘😎
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RHP User
7 years ago
The area is wonderful, large and plenty of space to walk around as well as sit, even if lots of people turn up. One of the problems I found with our previous events was competition for the few chairs/stools/corners of gardenbeds to sit and relax, and compared with the outdoor events to not be at the mercy of the weather. The general atmosphere is welcoming. I'm confident it is well worth it, if not perfect, but no location is. I started with a list of about 20 venue options :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Referring to the South Melbourne venue? I don't remember any "doors" at the waterfront :P
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hehe, I had some help from the delicious Meander 😎
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm not trying to be critical of any previous location or any organisation of such. I am just hoping to show there are always advantages and disadvantages to anywhere we might choose to go, or what we might do. I'll try to word things more humbly. I'm thankful for people's advice and concerns. For this particular event in addition I am planning some fun prize related games, that this new space is quite apt for that others are less or not suitable for, but I do realise the benefits our other venues have brought. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
I remember every single one of them.... Security never opened them to "teach me a lesson" or something... Lol :p Yes I'm kidding.....im not always anti-social lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
What do people think of getting a finger food/canape package? The benefit of such is well... food! Food for everyone, regardless of whether you happen to decide to order your own food or not. However as most packages start at about $20 per person ordered in advance of the event (but the number ordered can be chosen to suit), the problem means it would have to be recovered back in the form of an entry charge to attendees. The other benefit though is it takes a big chunk out of the minimum required amount for the venue, and much less need for drinks purchases. I'd prefer attendance to be officially free, so what do people think? (This doesn't need to be actually arranged until a week or so before the event when approximate numbers are established).
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RHP User
7 years ago
An entry fee can cover some food and prizes, meaning prizes are paid for without the need for a raffle or equivalent. If there is extra it could be used by our regular event planners for future events. Of course I don't want even a small entry cost to be used if it is going to deter anyone from attending. Your thoughts please...?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you to those that have expressed interest so far, especially those coming from afar. I should have everything fully formalised by the end of this weekend, so yes it will go ahead rain hail or shine. I am trying to take on board all of your advice.
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ruby_blossum
7 years ago
From first hand experience, anyone with a dietary restriction : lactose, fructose, coeliac, gluten etc...gets a bit pissed offpaying for food they are not able to eat. Ditch the food charge, anyone who wants to eat can order their own.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
person in the dietary restriction category ,until recently ,i do agree with the above ,it gets annoying when you get to split bills or pay for a lot of stuff everyone enjoys but you get to suck rice and water instead ,it is frustrating ,but maybe if an attendee stated no to finger foods before hand ,they could be exempt for the extra charge and not be included in the calculations for food , doing a great job ct ,trying to think of everyones wants and needs ,keep going ,you never know ,might snag a lovely lady with your organising skills and attention to detail ,
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MrPlayful
7 years ago
You're doing a great job CT. I certainly wouldn't mind an informal $5 or $10 at the door donation to assist with costs if we were to attend and I assume most others wouldn't either. I'd agree to skip the food too, many may choose to eat before they arrive anyhow. Name/alias cards I think would assist with easing people into conversation, though I've never attended a M&G yet so don't take my advice... Will need to check the calendar but the Playfuls would be very interested in attending if we can.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fair enough. Perhaps just a little food can be arranged to come around later in the night. The most accountable situation might be a donation box for prizes and a donation box for food. - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
7 years ago
On spesh Crew: $188 return 🤗 Might be a possibility yet!
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
I've been looking for something to surprise you for your birthday!!! Guess we'll just have to run amok in Melbourne instead 😜
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RHP User
7 years ago
To allievate some concerns (including my own), I enquired about and visited some more venues (P.S. our last space was unavailable anyway). Re: smoking - New smoking laws will now prevent smoking anywhere food is served. This is now affecting outdoor areas too during food service times. Some venues have all but lost any designated smoking area (and many are unsure exactly what the regulations are or will be). HOWEVER, my first choice of venue is the only one with a sheltered and heated smoking area at all times (outdoor but mainly under verandah, radiant ceiling heaters), plus an extra outdoor section after food service. With some other venues, you're kind of screwed if it's raining. Toilets: Are downstairs, but not far within the building, and were clean and quite well presented. Flooring is timber, but because of the stairs, tram ride, short walk and perhaps a casino visit later on (as per your interest), maybe the highest of high heels not the best option? :) All this information will be repeated in the event listing and emails regardless. Also, I can choose furniture and table layout to suit mingling.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Saturday October 7th, from 7pm.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Normal full meals available until about 9pm, anyone happens to come early on the night and ordering a meal from our area will assist with costs :)
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Missb4u
7 years ago
I'm a definite maybe at this point in time. Would love to do a saints and sinners so this might be the ideal time.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Still hasn't changed....lol Selecting a venue that offers food, is the best choice you can give....that way EVERYONE has the option, without the obligation. KISS principles - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Let the people worry about their own food, it's not worth the stress of pleasing everyone with finger food and covering the cost. And from experience, forget about games and it's prizes. We are all adults too consumed up with trying to get a root and not bothered to play pin the dick on the head. Main door prize/ raffle seems to appease any deep bred need to get lucky if it looks like your not getting lucky.... Gawd, another frock, another pair of shoes
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
Confirm it IS in the docklands area ,We would like to book a room this weekend We weren't going to do saints this time but with fellow interstate rhp people ,thinking nope can't miss this ,so maybe a pre saints drinks meet up at a close by pub or something is in order so no one feels like ,as a good freind said to us once ,a stale bottle of piss on the wall ,lol Annie ,to the red phone - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'boobs_or_bust' Confirm it IS in the docklands area ,We would like to book a room this weekend We weren't going to do saints this time but with fellow interstate rhp people ,thinking nope can't miss this ,so maybe a pre saints drinks meet up at a close by pub or something is in order so no one feels like ,as a good freind said to us once ,a stale bottle of piss on the wall ,lol Annie ,to the red phone - Posted from rhpmobileGetting your venues mixed up. Saints is the Grope box, Taboo is the red phone box aka The Tartus. And best leave your toy gun at home.....
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Starlet1
7 years ago
Name badges (well, actually RHP name badges) would be super handy. We can do without food. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It is in the Docklands area. - Posted from rhpmobile
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PatchworkGirl
7 years ago
I'll be in Melbourne the weekend before this.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You might finally get me to a S&S 😎 Patch, noooo!! I'm guessing no chance you can change your weekend?
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RHP User
7 years ago
...as often they can lead to a form of public hysteria. A very good lady friend of mine (friends, note even fully dressed and never did the deed as she too holds a PhD too and we could have confused each other) called and said she was scared shitless at the dick waggers and general rude dude attitudes and could I help? Fucking 1:00 a.m. in the morning. When I walked in dressed head to cowboy boots in black and asked who I was the answer was simple.... ''I'm her best friend or your worst nightmare...you choose''. Ex-marines with deep voices are a force unto themselves I guess. Got Misch home safely back to Frankston then when asked what did she ''owe me''....did cop a good espresso for the jog home in my Saab and have a dear friend that will be there for me if I need her. Play safe, play fair and be a solid when someone needs you. Know the turf and the enemy before you enter the battle. Best...... CM
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Wtf did that mean? Apart from dropping you have a Phd, drive a Saab, possibly an ex Marine...... And you know a chick that lives in Frankston
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
I thought it was just me and was some sort of code lingo you Melbourne people use 😜
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
He's saying he can't attend cos he's scared your dick is gonna be bigger than his lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
We were hysterical in Melb early in the year and then in Bris!! Oh...not the same thing as mass hysteria..my bad :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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PatchworkGirl
7 years ago
Nope. Down for a conference, for the whole week, but will be free the two weekends before the M&G so maybe we can have our own little warm-up one! - Posted from rhpmobile
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chamelions
7 years ago
Yes we went to the one in feb it was great so it's yes from us - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
Come on ,it will be a hoot , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Let's do it!! 😍😍 Mr B, already driving Jonesy mad with outfit ideas 😆😜
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have just posted an RHP Event description. It should hopefully be approved and show on the site soon. Feel free to register interest there as well. I will keep a list of everyone expressing interest via the listing, from the forums, and through direct messages.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Happy to help organising :-)
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tbg_nsh
7 years ago
Any event this weekend in Melbourne? I'm visiting for a birthday but I will be exploring later. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think I will have all of the particulars under control prior to the event but any assistance on the actual night would be welcomed :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've never been to a m&g but you have to start somewhere so why not here. I would like to attend. Could someone please tell me where to find the details? - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Go to Events on the top of the page. Forward the dough the pages to page 4 atm. Scroll down, click and register. Easy....... But just noticed your on the mobile app, so ignore all that. I have no idea with that thing....... Good luck
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RHP User
7 years ago
The mobile app works similar, I use it. Once you click on events, it lists all of them in Victoria in one list. Just scroll down to October 7 to find the Meet and Greet under my name. You can register interest there. But in any case, I've taken a note of your interest in the event and so you will get a message from me closer to the date.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi all wer a new young couple new to this look forward to making some new friends
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