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Men who are only guest users
March 25 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sure there would be some, but I don't know why anybody would bother really, unless it's some sort of fetish.Most are probably just testing it out, before they commit.Some are probably to tight to pay.Probably a lot are not even active anymore.Some like myself are just here for the forums.Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well if you're offering, you can send me some, otherwise I'll survive. Fact is geysers who aren't paid up don't get to see very much. There are heaps of sites that provide explicit pics.... try a blogging site for instance. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I believe if your serious on this site then you should pay....I do.I get plenty of men flirt me with "your exactly what I want.....message me" ....yeah right.If your too tight to pay for a membership I am not going to waste my messages on you.So many guys send friend request without any previous flirts or messages first and they expect us to be their friends ???They should pay or go away.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Jazzxoxo'I believe if your serious on this site then you should pay....I do. They should pay or go away. But I'm rarely serious about anything and I'm enjoying the forums so I won't be going anywhere. As a guest, I don't get to see any hot pics so I don't now which ones you're worried about being collected. I do have a feeling of dread that this thread is going to become as nasty as the 'Lying Husbands' thread. Batten down the hatches, boys! She's gonna blow!
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RHP User
13 years ago
lol - given that guests only get to see the 'g' rated pics, I reckon there'd be better perves to be had in the K-Mart catalogue's underwear section. . Then again if your fetish is 'startled deer in the headlight webcam pictures' I suppose this would be a fertile hunting ground... (that's why I'm here ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
...fun! I hadn't thought of that D_G_T - nah I prefer them in the flesh ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I pay so I get to look, if I have a flirt left I will spend it on a guy to say thanks but no or what ever. why would they join with the odds stacked here the chances are slim unless they are some god ,w ith a six pac or have a nice face picture up there, a genius profile a guy that is funny and articulate in the forums and gets womens attention that way. I do not think anyone needs to pay , men or women unless they want to do that. care factor zero for me
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I seriously doubt men would come on here as a guest to increase their own porn collection, far better images just a click away on google FFS.But why are so many women on here as only guests????
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've paid for dating sites in the past before, even paid here once.To be honest I'm not paying anything not even uploading a pic because well I've been mostly browsing forums and profiles, in saying that I've seen a couple of ladies I would like to contact but I don't know being a single dad, I guess I have better things to spend my money and having paid before I think if I ever paid again I'd want to make sure I'm not "wasting" my dollars call me tight I don't mind. :)I do sort of agree with what Johnygunn has said, but its just the way it is with these sorts of sites, the girls get free perks(chatroom acces etc) and don't have to spend anything because the site owners are very aware that the men will pay to make contact with them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used the phrase 'collecting pics' to mean they weren't serious about meeting. My thinking being that if they were, they would need to be more than a guest to do so. But I take tuscan's point that some women do contact men so it doesn't necessarily rule out meets altogether. The points about how some probably stop paying because they aren't meeting anyone anyway, or are just testing the water sound fairly accurate. And of course I appreciate that some are only here for forums but I was thinking more of the variety who send "please message me you're exactly what I'm looking for" flirts. Johnny/mooka - the reason I didnt suggest that women guests were not serious is that, quite simply, they don't need to pay to have plenty of contact. And whilst the site could address what you may perceive to be a "problem", it would probably create an even larger one, ie even less women on the site. Oh and One more thing, I personally find user pics, particularly when revealed in the course of one on one interaction, far more stimulating than random Internet pics or kmart catalogues, don't you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is true many women are here as guests ,and just like men,we are here because we can be.....and because our numbers here are less than men we get enough contact requests to keep us happy and some of us.....just like some men ..are only here for the forums..I personally dont think it is a rort as it is quite transparent and perhaps RHP allows this' Guesting' because it is in their best interest. I am not interested in the chat rooms or accessing restricted pics,and surely that is why those charges apply
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mooka'Well I seriously doubt men would come on here as a guest to increase their own porn collection, far better images just a click away on google FFS.But why are so many women on here as only guests???? It's because they are wroughting the system. Possibly they are also shallow and cheap. pmsl.... oh this is my fave topic this month. But it is neck and neck with another one.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's good business. It's blokes like me that are unwelcome.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guests send u a flirt asking u to message them- knowing full well that you're a guest too. U took interest first, so U use YOUR 1 message a week if u want to get to know me. Am I alone on this??
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RHP User
13 years ago
All the guests are married and don't wanna get found out cheating! That ties my two favorite topics together quite nicely! Hugs Scummy. ... errr Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was evil back in my old guest days and come to think of it , maybe I was just cranky cos I was missing out on all the cock shots 'no cock ' will do that to a person ya know!! perhaps you two boys should get some cock, you seem a little jaded this morning ? . Doncha just hate it when some amiable lil fucker comes and rubs sunshine on your nose
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'johnygunn'Its not only men sheb there are also lots of guest ladies out there wroughting the system Ie: they stay a guest because they know there are lots of guys out there who will contact them therefore they get the service for free all they have to do is sit back and collect friends these people are very shallow and cheap the rest of us pay good money to use this site why should they be allowed to use it for free the owners of this website need to address this problem. To rort a system means you take unfair advantage of a system. I can see how that might often be perceived as unfair on the poor, hard-done by men who have to pay for a membership if they want to be able to send women useless one-liner messages. . To be an ignoramus means you are ignorant, or a fool, aliterate, illiterate, unskilled and know nothing. . I have held premium membership on and off for the last few years but have no interest in doing so right now. I mean, as you say, it is far more financially sensible to sit back and rort such an awesome "system" as this one *eyeroll* ... ... Besides, I don't need access to cock shots to work out if someone's a dick. .. Flirty x .. . DISCLAIMER: .* I don't torture kittens but am open to offers to torture mine * I am dirty * I smell goooood damnit! * I absolutely do collect pictures ... of my victims! * I am impossibly cheap * I am not a lying, cheating husband, but am open to roleplay scenarios
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jean-Girard - I think I speak for many other woman and myself when I say that men outnumber the woman on these sites and usually receive more messages than men too and so only need reply. If I come across someone I'm interested in, as a guest I will send them a flirt saying I loved their profile or a nudge etc. But only to paid members otherwise it's just a game of cat n mouse. And serious members pay up? I'm not here to get serious about looking for someone. I already hv a fk buddy. I'm just keeping my options open for another fwb, I'm here to have fun, n tick a few things off my bucket list and who's knows I might stumble across a new love lol but I'm not fussed either way. So there. :p lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why should I pay money to join this site in the hopes of getting a root from 1 of the very few true single bi girls in my area when I can go and visit a smoking hot tatted up brunette lady friend of mine, at her work and get a root? Sure I might have to pay $160 an hour but it's sooo worth it:D
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is no way to protect your pics from people saving your pics to there own PC. As long as the other person can display them on there monitor every PC running windows has a program called Snipping tool that comes with windows that can capture live image on your screen with one click.Right click protection on pics is like putting your keys under a towel at the beach if some one wants them they will take them.Best bet is only put pics on RHP that you are happy for some one to have a copy of.In regards to the male guest members. Like others say if people just wanted to collect porn pics then I am sure a Google search is a better option for them over RHP. But then again there are some strange people out there. We don't take guest members to serious unless they have a very good profile and go out of there way to prove they are who they say they are. Friends requests from people we haven't spoken to happens every day and drives us nuts. We have it in our profile that we don't accept friends requests from people we haven't met in person . When we get then its a sure sign that some one hasn't read our profile.There are lots of female guest members to.I really do wish there was some way to weed out all the profiles that are fake, dreamers or just plain deceptive in one form or another.It just gets so complicated to implement so we just have to stick with are own basic ground rules to try and avoid them as best we can.I do have some ideas but will save them for another thread.Tim Quoting 'D_G_T' But it WOULD be nice if our pics were 'right click' protected I'm sure it would encourage a lot more of the HAWT pics to be on show Just sayin rhp
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RHP User
13 years ago
you got in first.. the generalizations I can handle.. but.. NOT the misrepresentation of talking a system like RHP and subjecting it to torture like one does when they are making WROUGHT iron gates and ornaments.. Want some photos of me sometime Flirty?? (wink wink.. nudge nudge..) I also dont torture kittens.. (but have eaten cat.) I am a damned caveman.. ok.. I do have some mod cons in my cave system.. but.. I do get dirty (My mind however is corrupted and filthy... ) Cheap...ha ha.. I can AFFORD to be cheap.. AND i can afford to pay membership.. :) caveman
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm absolutely certain that anything you got to rub on my nose will send me into an uncontrollable spiral of sin. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'D_G_T' I was evil back in my old guest days and come to think of it , maybe I was just cranky cos I was missing out on all the cock shots 'no cock ' will do that to a person ya know!! perhaps you two boys should get some cock, you seem a little jaded this morning ? . Doncha just hate it when some amiable lil fucker comes and rubs sunshine on your nose
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just love the "men are too cheap" argument.Here we are on a site that promotes the very 'modern', out in the open, admission of libidos by both sexes and yet women are still peddling the old fashioned 'men should pay' rule!For once, I'd like someone to be attracted to me and not my wallet...just like you want to be loved for your... mind?Come on ladies...only men paying no longer makes sense now that women are in the work force.It did make sense when women couldn't/weren't allowed to work but now we are as 'special' as each other.Added to that, men are often the victims of scams on sites like this where fake profiles are used to entice men into parting with their money.For now, I'm keeping an eye on the 'flirt' situation...why should I pay and perhaps be accused of harassment for going the next step and messaging someone who doesn't want my attention?OK, so men pay which makes RHP the pimp and...I dare a liberated, modern thinking, equality believing lady to message me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am currently only a guest. Having been a member for 3 months in the past and living in Melbourne, the potential to meet someone was huge so I coughed up the dough. In my 3 months as a member I met 3 women who were nothing as they seemed. I can appreciate that you're always going to have some dissapointments but to have so little success as a paying member was very discouraging. I consider myself to be of average appearance but I am very confident and have no trouble talking to women. I'm articulate and by no means, sleazy!! I would message members and guests and was dissapointed to see the list of unread messages getting longer and longer every day. Obviously women have the good fortune to be able to remain " guests " and still enjoy plenty of contacts but don't you think it's perhaps a little rude to ignore the people who are paying for you to enjoy the experience of rhp? Without paying members, you would not even have a site to come to. Maybe that's something our female " guests " could take into consideration before ignoring another message. Call me bitter, it's just my opinion
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Hanna_ybbn
13 years ago
Stalky - will you Marry me? Regarding the rest of the discussions;Nobody held a gun to anyone's head and made them sign up to RHP.Meaning that we all made our own 'informed' decision to sign up and I can't speak for anyone else, but when I signed on, I made sure I understood what the deal was. It was all there in black and white! Simple. I made the choice to go ahead with it.Hanna x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thoughts??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Rort Wrought Overwrought Over rort Just a thought
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well Jazz half the problem is the 90% of women on this site that dont take it even a little bit seriously.I used to have a paid account... but when most of the women dont bother replying (even to say they're not interested) I figured that i am just wasting my money, so why bother paying for it. An i have spoken to many guys having issue with this.So when the women of today grasp this thing called common courtesy (its not that hard to write "Thanx, but i am not interested") then i will gladly start paying for my subscription again Quoting 'Jazzxoxo' I believe if your serious on this site then you should pay....I do.I get plenty of men flirt me with "your exactly what I want.....message me" ....yeah right.If your too tight to pay for a membership I am not going to waste my messages on you.So many guys send friend request without any previous flirts or messages first and they expect us to be their friends ???They should pay or go away.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I am shocked Writer,you expect WOMEN to pay....tut tut....so they can message you....see I might be a crap writer but I am a good reader of profiles.... Yay equality rules....you and me Writer we are both cheap
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quite a few in this thread have stated that the only reason they are on RHP is for the forums (and that is a damn good reason) so why should they pay. But if Mr RHP esquire decided the site wasn't making enough money and deemed the forums the same as the chat room, i.e. you had to be a paid member to participate - WHO WOULD STAY and WHO WOULD GO?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Narregrlx'Why should I pay money to join this site in the hopes of getting a root from 1 of the very few true single bi girls in my area when I can go and visit a smoking hot tatted up brunette lady friend of mine, at her work and get a root? Sure I might have to pay $160 an hour but it's sooo worth it:D Hehe... wow you really put the grrr into grrrl. You're a feisty one aren'tcha? I like that. Pay up and message me, I'm keen
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RHP User
13 years ago
How come we're guest users and the rest are paid members?
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RHP User
13 years ago
At the writting of this post I'm a paid up member but that's only so I can wack off to the RedHot nudie pic's
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your final disclaimer made me lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't know about you Bathsheba, but i know I certainly picked up a thing or two from this thread:1. How important it is to be clear and rule out any ambiguity right at the outset of a thread - I too, thought your question literally was referring to the act of collecting pictures - thank you for the much needed expansion :)2. How much we should all collectively thank the paying members - it keeps this service up and running. I have paid previously and was more than happy to - I enjoyed the chat rooms- different feel to the forums. In fact many times i recall wishing that their were more of the forum people in the chat rooms - but i guess that is a different topic (if at all).3. K-Mart catalogues must be a heck of a lot better than when i was a kid :)4. As a returning RHP Ex-Pat, just how much you rock that dress ;) - thank you RHP Guest Access Forums and of course TY Bathsheba5. How to spell Wrought, Rort and Raught ( my contribution ;) )6. Just how deviously, downright dirty and tightfisted some of those RHP dawns out there are - we need to keep an eye out for them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ramakin - isn't that a tad false economy, given already the rated abundance of low (k-Mart) to med (Facebook) to high grade port available for free...I mean I'm not judging (not my style), but i do think you could be getting much better value if that truly is the only reason you are paying for a membership.2B :)Providing thrift advice across all 20-12
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont hink they would be here for pics, as already mentioned, there is more than enough sites where they can be seen. I dont know how fellas get on here without being a paid member, eveb then, it's bloody hard getting someones attantion, let alone not being able to send messages. Lets face it, the ladies have a virtual smorgasboard to choose from, either paid or unpaid, but us fellas dont really seem to stand a chance with being paid let alone just being a guest.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ramakin'At the writting of this post I'm a paid up member but that's only so I can wack off to the RedHot nudie pic's Me too
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RHP User
13 years ago
most people on rhp male and female are guests
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TomatoSauce33
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil'Some are probably to tight to pay. I'm a Uni Student, so by stereotype i'm poor, I can't afford to pay $50 for basic premium for a month on a website where I probably get the same attention as i do being a guest. (After rent,2 minute noodles, bus tickets etc I probably have $10 to spare each week) Oh well.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh no Jean-Girard I'm more of the TRADITIONAL type :P U pay the membership and I'll bring the six pack of jimmys to the party.
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RHP User
13 years ago
we dont see the 'guest' members who send us flirts...and there are many...... as serious options...... we kinda feel that if they cant afford membership...which is, after all, pretty cheap once you have a subscription up and running ($26/month for premium plus)..... we can hardly expect them to contribute to an evening of pleasure......
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find that most postings here are illogical, hysterical moronic crap. I visit for a giggle. Dont bother responding because I have no intention of revisiting to read the outpouring of hysterical, illogical, moronic crap.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...but don't think too harshly of me for responding anyway, on the off chance you may get curious and look back in again. I'm kinda hoping there was a point in there somewhere that I missed 'cause otherwise, it was just an outpouring of hysterical, illogical, moronic crap.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Snap! LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Narregrlx'Oh no Jean-Girard I'm more of the TRADITIONAL type :P U pay the membership and I'll bring the six pack of jimmys to the party. Tsk tsk, oh ggrrl - hardly traditional, instead you're almost the perfect mix of defiant and obedient. For a minute there I thought it was going to take a wrestle for you to finally give in, roll over and place your arse on show and was all set to bring the inflatable pool and baby oil! But it looks like sometimes you know when it's time to just give in and obey. . I'm not so sure about Jimmy's for a party - how about I bring a brunette, tatooed Jane instead? She doesn't charge $160 per hour but I can promise you'll squirm and grip the bedsheets at least much as you would in a paid encounter, but it'll leave you with enough cash in your curvy back pocket to lash out an a membership and message me. It's win-win! Actually you get two for one, so technically you're waaaayy ahead. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
So the general consensus seems that being a guest member on RHP implies I am cheap, implies i am not worthy of being mikeandchels playmate as being a guest indicates that I'm too poor to contribute to a night of pleasure.. If I don't earn a fantastic salary does that dictate I shouldnt be here? Just call me a peasant! Well all in favor annoy the administrator into banishing the poor unfortunates from the RHP throne.. As far as I can see it doesn't stop any member looking at my ass, so if me being a quest member offends you don't look! That anyone would even care astounds me. After all you would think that when this site is primarily for gratification of our sexual pleasures with like minded friends without any judgement that money wouldn't have any bearing here. Paying for a membership may not be a feasible option for me and many others for various reasons all valid to that individual. Judgement is alive and well in the RHP world.. MrsE
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RHP User
13 years ago
The nay sayers have had some good arguements but the people who are really convincing me that it's not worthwhile are the arrogant fucks who keep insinuating that because they are paying they have more right to be heard than the guests. Therefore I say, "no!" I would not pay to use the forums.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yet Im not going to bang on about how guests get the same value as me, because they don't....simply! I have better things to worry about than how much Im missing out on, while others get it for free, in fact, I couldnt really give a shit about it. Especially when they may have been a paid up member but having a rest from the searching due to having already found a playmate, then when searching again, pay up. A lot of members will drop the membership after a year if they've found it to be of no extra value, or if they simply haven't had the best of luck in their search. Get off their case, go get a good shag, and smile for chrissakes
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jgunn I don't care who pays and who doesn't. It's less than you'd spend on a couple of drinks for pete's sake. I was just curious as to why men wouldn't pay. For women we know why - they don't need to - and for men I now understand a few more reasons too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I Am a guest purely for the reason of checking the site out. I have been on here for a little bit over s month and unfortunately i feel like i am wasting my time. No females seem to be after a genuine guy that would like to have a chat and possibly meet up. Oh well thats life.
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RHP User
13 years ago
doesnt paying membership also suggest you are ........real....and genuine? isnt this what guys would want? its ridiculously inexpensive, considering what you stand to gain...isnt it? less than a dollar a day for the cheapest membership.... surely people arent that poor?....a mouthful of coffee costs more than RHP.
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RHP User
13 years ago
me, i save my money for more important things, like delicious refreshing crack, i like to start my day off with a few rocks of crack. oh and hookers, gotta keep some money for hookers. i believe in helping out women from bad backgrounds which is why i will continue having sex with hookers cause it helps.oh, and btw, i stopped renewing my membership since i already met someone on this site and at the moment things are going ok. why would i pay for the chance at sex when i already pay for the chance at sex if i behave myself and do the dishes :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
ive been a paid up memeber a few times..only diff between paid up and guest is im not out of pocket,told a long time ago the wemen will do the chasing and its turned out true . the couple of wemen ive met contacted me.same with a few that ive chatted to.really having a guest section on rhp a waste of time,why not make a basic fee that allows at least one or 2 messages a day..as for me now i happy just to stay guest and sit back .mabe my number will come up ,till then it interesting to read the forums and get an idea of what peoples attitudes to things are
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'The nay sayers have had some good arguements but the people who are really convincing me that it's not worthwhile are the arrogant fucks who keep insinuating that because they are paying they have more right to be heard than the guests. Therefore I say, "no!" I would not pay to use the forums. I had intended to post this on Mrs. P's $$$ thread.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'JGUNN'theres your problem right there sheba all the guests are using the site for free because they have worked out that they can get limited service( unlimited exposure ) for free. what it creates is double standards and inequality would you go to the cinema and pay if you knew half the people there got in for free I wouldnt.give them a trial period of say one week enoguh time to check it out by then they should have made a decision remember every message you send costs you money every time they reply its free.I believe it would eliminate a lot of traffic therefore making it easier for us the paying members.Free for all or free for none there are free sites out there ie: oasisactive.If they dont want to pay go there 18-20 dollars a month is not a lot of money to use a service like this.Jgunn. I think paid up members should get more stuff, if I was a paid up member I'd be really annoyed if all I was getting for my money was a high opinion of myself, while everyone else was taking advantage of the site I pay for. . I'm just glad that it's just on here that we are easily identified as free-loaders, because if they made me wear shirt with 'Guest' on it every time I hopped on a tram without a ticket I'd start feeling a tad marginalised.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...I was paid up, and it wasn't worth the money. Here for the forums, now, and rarely at that.
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Hanna_ybbn
13 years ago
Shame about that ManlyI was quite taken by your profile....Hannaps what's your attitude?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Er....um...isn't abilty to pay different to unwilling to pay....
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Hanna_ybbn
13 years ago
I see this is a subject keeping a few people up at night.....that's a shame tooHanna <<(Yes, I generalise)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hanna_ybbn' Shame about that ManlyI was quite taken by your profile....Hannaps what's your attitude? I may just have to pay up for a month so I can message you!My attitude - there, anyways - is straight and level on account of my kids were on board. Anyone who knows me knows I prefer to get into.......unusual attitudes!
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Phantasies
13 years ago
Accounts are guest status for many reasons. You and I have no right to judge why or make generalisations. My thoughts though.... Wouldn't pic hunters more likely be paid members for the restricted pics?
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RHP User
13 years ago
You look a good match!
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RHP User
13 years ago
that men are guests because they know better. I joined up as a memeber and I send out messages but I never hear back from people. There have been 3 nice ladies who have contacted me back but most don't even bother to say thanks for the nice message but you're not my type. This site is really only good for couples or women, single men rarely get a look in.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well i paid on joining, like wise with other sites I'm a member of, except cancelled one as it truly was a wrought.Why i paid,If i see a profile that tickles me, or jogs some sexual thought, or I like i can just message there and then what is on my mind, not go digging out credit card and trying to pay then find the person again then remember what thoughts went through my head the time i saw it. I just send the message.Dont think i have sent a flirt, maybe at the start but a flirt is a pre written message, why bother, so i say some thing, be it sexual or be it i would like to pinch some of your time or be it funny or witty what everA woman would get a reply from a flirt more than a man, the man would have to have a pretty shit hot profile to even draw the dead from there graves, and a picture of a greek adonis.All in all its what you do either pay or not, simple no complaints no issues all a PERSONAL PREFERENCE.How ever what i am not keen on and think totally wrong is posting pictures that are not of the person or when they where twenty now 70 not seen it much here well not met any one but heard a lot about it on other sitesMaybe a new thread heading :- False profiles or False picturesSuppose the person needs to live with it if they ever meet some one, but in my mind if it started as false or a lie then it will probably stay that way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'R8d_4u'Accounts are guest status for many reasons. You and I have no right to judge why or make generalisations. My thoughts though.... Wouldn't pic hunters more likely be paid members for the restricted pics? perhaps you may be correct..... we had pics turn up on another site.....restricted pics that we had posted here. we received an email from a friend who said 'nice pics u posted on ........... site, but whats with the name change?'.......we visited the site and found they were ours...which is the reason for the 'watermarks'........and we've had a guy send us pics of 'him and his wife', but they too were our pics...........its a piss off when people steal your stuff............and pass it off as their own......
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have even had my pics saved by someone and used on their profile. WTF?? Oh and male guests do not get a message once a week. I was a paid member but then let it lapse. To be honest I don't go out of my way to pursue people anymore but I occasionally send a wink. If my profile has done its job and they are interested then I may get a response. I also totally understand with not responding to winks...some profiles would receive hundreds and no one wants to spend the time and filter through them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am happy to know about the poached pics, as some you see on other sites too not that it bothers me the more sites the more exposure, suppose best be little careful who you give access to pics too. Not that any one would wont mine, well maybe one lolBest get to the other sites and get fid of some people whom added just to to see.Gues this is also why i should have gone for a free membership first up to go over it all.Agh well, i know who i look at when having a shave would be funny if i end up in front of my sister or even parents over seas he he he try live that little baby down
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm sort of just checking the place out and determining whether it's worth shelling out at the moment. If it is, I'm certainly happy to go a membership.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Was a paid member, not at the moment for quite a number of reasons. But it ain't because I want to collect pictures.. roflmao.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a guest as of very recently, definitely not here just to "collect pics"... Will be hopefully upgrading so I can send msgs soon. Just depends on what type of contact I get first :) Dont really want to waste my money if no-ones interested ;)Have fun guys! Come say hi! xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
and by "guys" i mean anyone! Me WORSHIP the lady's... you so sexy! :P xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was on here a couple of yrs ago, I don't remember having to pay to message/flirt etc. Have I got a crappy memory or has this come in over the last year or so?
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RHP User
13 years ago
i would hope not there are plenty of nude pics on the net without joining this site.Me personally i like the girl to message cause it shows she is keen and has picked me out of what i assume is many many flirts im sure girls get on here.Also lots of the female profiles are fake to attract men to join where if a girl messages you knwo she is legitIts refreshing to have a situation where girls can make the first move more often,if you do im sure you will get what you want more often and the guy will e far keener on youDrop me an email and we can play.....thats my attitude
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am on this site to try and make friends nd if possible meet someone for funBut at 70 i find it very hard to meet women who want older en I dont think putting my pic p would make much difference but if u think it will let me know and i will do so not worried if other people see my pic or not :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Go Phil! Sorry about rolling out the cliches but..Every pot has a lid and ....you've got to be in to win. Good luck :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cant speak for anyone else but in my case I wanted to check the site out before i started throwing money at it. If i think the site has what i'm looking for then i'll happily subscribe but I've been burned by sites before (Damn you eHarmony and your overrepresentation of crazy cat ladies) so these days i'm a little more hesitant about putting up the credit card details until i guage the site and what it has too offer.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Save your face shots for you private gallery lke most of us do. For your profile shot choose a picture that represents who you are. Have a look at some other profiles for some ideas. If you're a horseman, put up a pic of you on horseback. If you're a pilot, you could be standing on the wing of a Cessna. If you're a fisherman, ... well, you get the idea. Good luck, my friend.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wiuld love to be a paid member but RHP payment thingy isnt working I got a good mastercard with cash and it just dont work Hmmph!!! and y not paypal!
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fornicate4fun
13 years ago
We have been paying on this site for a couple of years now, we are a validated couple and do not waste people's time... We have chosen not to pay to use the site at the moment due to the sheer amount of time wasters out there, it's very frustrating! Soooo next time u get a flirt from a guest maybe you should take the time to look at their profile, you may just be surprised with what you find....
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a guest it is hard to get noticed. Pics are nice but meeting the real person is sooooo much better, I dont get why weomon post such hot sexy pictures then never reply or think your a perv when you just want to say hi. (I can only flirt hoping to get a email to acutally talk) Note I added my phone number to allow sms to women guests in the same situation. Not all are pervs, if I want to get noticed sometimes you might hit up a profile a few times. Ps it sucks when you update your profile and it gets locked. geniunily Im looking for women/coupkes and what better way to search than pics.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'Save your face shots for you private gallery lke most of us do. For your profile shot choose a picture that represents who you are. Have a look at some other profiles for some ideas. If you're a horseman, put up a pic of you on horseback. If you're a pilot, you could be standing on the wing of a Cessna. If you're a fisherman, ... well, you get the idea. Good luck, my friend. but dont put a pic of you and your 'bike..... or you'll be hounded until you take it down..........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChrisFromOz'I wiuld love to be a paid member but RHP payment thingy isnt working I got a good mastercard with cash and it just dont work Hmmph!!! and y not paypal! contact RHP via email, and they'll make arrangements for you to pay....... dont worry...they'll want your money, thats guaranteed! go to 'help' and follow the prompts etc...they'll do direct debits, bank cheques etc so probably m/card too........
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RHP User
13 years ago
I only really come here for the forums (and originally some advice - pleased to say it was accurate too!)I don't really see the point in trying to colelct pics as most are in private profiles; from what Ive seen Id not save any so far... they are rated M at worst.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's just a bummer when that guys so god damn hot!! I'm not upgrading, he's not paying. I keep wondering what we could be missing out on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why can't you upgrade, why does he have to? Felonius
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Mezmerizingeyes0
13 years ago
No Matter how much you try and protect your pics even from "the right click with dick in hand brigade" there are ways around all these countermeasures that websites put in place Quoting 'D_G_T' But it WOULD be nice if our pics were 'right click' protected I'm sure it would encourage a lot more of the HAWT pics to be on show Just sayin rhp
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've since found this out, thankyou.Now I can save all these sexy pics of guys on my iphone and wank to them at my leisure
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RHP User
13 years ago
Haha. He does not have to and yes I certainly could. If the mystery really gets the better of me I might seriously consider
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
Quoting 'Cassandra_Jayne'Haha. He does not have to and yes I certainly could. If the mystery really gets the better of me I might seriously consider That if you are a validated female guest that you get one free message a week.
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RHP User
13 years ago
sex is pretty good fun (assuming you do it in the right frame of mind).. and that's what this site is about. fun..i'm only a guest because i think it's fun to cruse around the forums doing my thing and seeing if i get noticed. occasionally i do. as such, i have indeed made some very good long term friends. you know who you are lovelies..if i was here only to hook up. i'd pay..but as i don't mind waiting to see who comes along under their own steam.. i don't.this is my fun.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used to be a paying member until I realised how difficult it is to meet someone privately. My age and appearance don't help the situation either. I love to participate in the forums and I attend events every once in a while when i finf one that caters for single guys and I have never enjoyed my membership so much.
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RHP User
13 years ago
there are lots of sites you can get pics from i dont join because of the slim chances of finding ladies here iv payed before and i think they do the same if they are keen they will send a message and i will get back to them i dont see why you would take the pics for your self whats the point i also sends flirts in hope they wiil contact me and then go from there.There are a lot of ladies that dont pay as well i would rather send you pics from email i also send flirts to girls with no pics maybe there are some people that get off on this but its not for me and its just not the right thing to do i will join if i want to contact someone but as i sed been there done that
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been a member of a number of adult dating sites before and I can only speak from a personal point of view when I say that I like to get a feel for a place before I lay down good money on it.RHP has been very successful in terms of the contact I have made with people and I am not even a paid member yet (although I am currently in the process of upgrading).I would suggest that if you are having problems with people overlooking your profile because you are a Guest, make it as interesting and appealing as possible. Include face pictures, move any cock shots to your PG, spend 10m thinking of what you really want to get from the site and then write down a genuine description of yourself. I would argue that if you did all of these than there is forseeably no reason to upgrade.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well ive paid in the past and then left, have recently come back but have not decided to pay as of yet this time,but i imagine that wont last long as flirts are likely jstu numerous and annoying as they are useless to be recieved by you ladies.(Although Tbh this time i wanted to sit and see what,if any,approaches i get this time around).also not my thing but there are much better places to get pics on the internet than spending the time to fill out a profile and then have half the pics blocked anyway,so to answer your question i would have to say no.:)But ultimately i only speak for me and there are many different types of folks out there
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RHP User
12 years ago
I really don't see what becoming a member or remaining as a guess has to do with seriousness. You get access to additional perks by becoming a member like webcam etc but being a guess you are able to interact with others and share interests get involved in discussions and if your lucky get invited for some extra curricular activity maybe. What more from a chat forum do you want.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bathsheba"Are men who are just guest users mostly here just to collect pics?"External Hard drive sales have recently spiked terrabytes of tits a and twatsPs email all dirty your pix to Pss No sepia or pet pix pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '0zboy' Bathsheba"Are men who are just guest users mostly here just to collect pics?"External Hard drive sales have recently spiked terrabytes of tits a and twatsPs email all dirty your pix to Pss No sepia or pet pix pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee imalimpdickednerdyperve At gspotmail. con. hey you :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
only my second day im testing the waters before i decide whether to lay down my cash
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