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Messages .. 101 .. For GUYS!
July 07 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you for this, because now I can seek guidance.I keep seeing this post saying that one cannot say 'hi' in a message, and I am not sure what is meant.If all the message writer says is 'hi' and nothing else, then they are a dropkick (rhyming slang, think about it, prize for first correct answer) and you should ignore them. Obviously.But, to take your terrific profile, what if someone says, in the title space, "Hi, Ms2Sweet, you certainly are!"? Cheesy, I know, but is that a deal breaker? Or if in the title space they say "Hi, I love your profile"? Ok not very original, but it seems to me to be a polite intro to the message below. Am I wrong? If so, why?Having said that, you are unusual because your profile is well written and provides a number of hooks for a title of a message. You say that you love ink, so even the biggest bozo could think up "I just got a tattoo; your name on my heart". You say you like hotel sex, so again, bozo could just say "I found these hotel keys with your name tattooed on them". So I am surprised that you are not receiving millions of creative and intelligent messages. Can't be the quality of Qld men; must be the internet.Thanks for raising the issue, now please tell me if 'Hi' as part of a sentence is forbidden.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Thumbs up It's a solid start. But does receiving a pleasant email from a cock photo (or ptofile with ONLY cock photos) make it any better?! DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
Oh dear guys listen up we are doing wrong again. We reckon the ladies should show us by writing the messages themselves. But please dont ask me about fishing or football. Write me some poetry. Don't grisle do it. Oh lovely breasts.in your pic oops a bit sexist. ok but they are. Look most guys aren't perfect if they were they be girls.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am on strike from writing mail to women !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't view naughty pics like that. So I'm immediately not interested. I like to see who I'm talking to. So pictures of your face are an ABSOLUTE must for me .... And not just one picture. It seriously irritates me .. if you can put up one picture, surely you can put up more to give us an idea of who you are.. I go to great effort to provide as many pictures as possible ... Does help that I love showing off for the camera .. but that's not the point! I give what I expect in return. If you can't give the same ... See ya later!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only way I know, and definitely no cock pics , least until I feel the time is right that is. ( I dont even have one ) but its always nice to have some sort of surprise up your sleeve at the right moment anyway.In saying that, I sent my first ever to the point message to a girl who had so many unreal criterias in her profile I felt compelled to reply in the same vain.. Mainly for the challenge and to see what would happen. Her return message was that she felt I was greedy and pass ' but would be happy to meet if I could bring along a female. ? lol. Women ? go figure.. ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hello everyone, we have been on this site for a while and are absolutly amazed if anybody actually meets on here from what we have encounted anyway. After reading Miss2sweets article about how to message and what basic content also the lenght of the message, this to us is normal social manners. Now in saying this, although we do follow all the social protocols we are still left with people being left bewildered why so called well educated and mannered can not even respond to someone that has taken the time and effort to actully write a plesant and pleasing e mail. We understand that not everyone will" click", and that's fine a simple" thanks", but" no thanks" and everybody moves on with no one being offended. We would really like to know if everyone else on here that has "Joined and payed" to be a member of RHP for the right reason have found the same thing. Or is this a big game to mislead and stuff people around! Take care everyone M and D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi there I'm a dirty🐒 Who loves ✊💦all over ur hot🍣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm learning 😜- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
So ive been messaged quite a number of times by a younger guy in my town, Ive said he isn't really in my age bracket, but we still chat and I'm intrigued to see how long he will chat and never initiate a meet,,, last night, he gives me his number and says I can txt him dirty messages if I like or any kind .... wtf Im finding all the guys in my area to be like this, sooo frustrating, im not on here for that.,. yawn.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I received a message today that simply said "I like face painting lol"I guess that must work with some women, but not me I'm afraid.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for the tips, Miss2Sweet!I'm going to assume though that not every woman is the same.#messages #generalisation #conformity #doingmyownthing
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On_Safari
11 years ago
"Hi....going through tonite want haave quickie?" Nope never had any contact with this individual ever!! Meh nothing venture nothing gained I suppose......but seriously does that approach really work for ANYONE or is that the vibe I'm putting out? Maybe I should bring On_Safari back......(frowning)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Give em a break Got to see the humor of some of it sometimes like- Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I'm passing through tonight mind if I sit on your face? Lol same principle..... I think we all see the humour in it most of the time, my response was "Thanks for the laugh but I don't do quickies only longies." I love men have worked with them all my life in predominantly male workplaces, I like being one of the boys; just wonder sometimes why they DO the things they DO?? Those approaches are kind of self-defeating.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'jovialjoker' Give em a break Got to see the humor of some of it sometimes like- Posted from rhpmobile Usually, yeah, you can have a laugh about it, but at the same time it also gets really old really quickly. Here is just a sample of what I've received over the last few months (all are initial messages from guys I hadn't heard from before, and I'm not including any of the countless "hey babe / sexy how are ya / wanna hook up?" messages I've received). I'm sure just about all the women on here have received many messages along the same lines:"hiiiiii hey how are you....would you be disgusted if i licked my own cum off your body?""..roast?" - this was the message content following his subject header, which was "spit..""mmmmmmm i would love to play with you mmmmmm" (suppose that's on the better end of the spectrum)"DTF?" (that's down to fuck for those lucky enough to have not heard it before)"Love your profile :) your hot as. I want to meet a girl who isn't scared to spice things up a bit :) ... And if it help I quite enjoy sucking cock and being fucked while I like a nice wet pussy ;) " "Wow would love to taste that ass" "Found some fun yet, I have 8 inches of thick cock if u get keen" And so it goes on....blah, blah, hey babe i got a big hard cock, blah, blah, i luv to fuck and lick pussy all nite, blah...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lol who says the art of inteligent conversation is dead So il put the question out to you women what was the number one sentence that left ye waiting for the next ❓- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
love to smash you bud That was all it said. I don't even know what... what...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'mdplayland' We would really like to know if everyone else on here that has "Joined and payed" to be a member of RHP for the right reason have found the same thing. Or is this a big game to mislead and stuff people around! There are plenty of genuine people on here, and I have met and played with... let's say a few.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't know what's worse .. being called "Bud" .. or .. not knowing what he wants to smash. I'm all for a good "smashing" .. but .. not when I feel like its not in a sexual way. But then again.. I've had guys "smash" me and it got their rocks off. Yes.... I literally mean smash my face. Not cool Bud ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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foreign_lover
11 years ago
I think i'm on the other side of the spectrum, but it has the same effect most of the times (i said "most" ;-) ).Meh, Every person is different i suppose and i don't judge anybody for it (on both sides), but for me getting a polite reply is always nice
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RHP User
11 years ago
you reap what you sow. oh I remember the days where I use to pen beautifully scripted messages. humourous, well constructed and steeped in humility. and you know WHAT? they were NEVER read!!! so now I just type in one word after the name of the female I am supposedly trying to court / woo / chit talk too. for example............ MESMERISED. SHAG? and you know sumtink, it fucking works. pfft
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RHP User
11 years ago
Honky makes a point. Is the perfectly crafted message still a perfectly crafted message if it remains unread? I figure it's like the tree falling in the forest...... Ultimately, you make your choices and take your chances, like anything in life.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ever hear that urban legend about going up to a woman and asking..."hey...want a root?" I had a friend in Uni more years ago than I care to think about who decided to see how many women he had to approach before he got a yes. Very juvenile, not funny to watch but......it did work in the end.
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RHP User
11 years ago
haha... how many did he front before he got a yes ? yes' juvenile; but amusing...
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RHP User
11 years ago
87. I was tempted to fudge a lot and say 42, but that is just the hitchhiker in me coming out :). Ridiculously juvenile I agree. We constantly gave him crap about it. It was embarrassing being the group he returned to! I think most of the women he asked thought we had put him up to it, but stopping him was like trying to stop a freight train when he got an idea he decided to test.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have to concur with cold_ass_honkey, while it may seem counter intuitive and at odds with what the majority of women here are professing ...My limited experience tells a different story ... short and sharp with both messages and profile gets better results ... they remain dismal but better none the less.IMO if you reveal all via a detailed profile and thoughtful, relevant first email an instant judgement is made - enough information is present to do so. If you can arouse a tidbit of curiosity and you haven't reviled them with explicit images you have a much better chance of getting that all important and elusive first reply ??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kizza1973' I am on strike from writing mail to women ! How's that working out ? Sounds like a good strategy for maintaining a modicum of self confidence .... but does it get you laid
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RHP User
11 years ago
I too am like kizza and I'll tell ya right now mate. Not messaging women on here does wonders for your self confidence! Also, I get the same amount of sex either way! Bonus.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi....:)I really think a lot of people put no effort into their messages and their profiles. To me the object of a massage is to get the recipient to read my profile and respond.I have an 87% response rate to my messages which i think is pretty good and my flirt percentage is 266% so I get more flirts than I send.Personally, I feel you just have to be your self in a message. I do try to make a relevant comment about the recipients profile it at the very least shows you have read the profile...and read it all. open the tabs and see what is said.You have to be very good at what you say if the profile has you outside of preferences. I write to people whom display three strikes and still get responses.So give your messages a bit of though and perhaps you will get better replies.LC
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you can't write more then 3 words in a message don't bother, maybe that's why guys you don't get what you want. So I replied with a message stating is that the best you can do and I'm not interested. I was then abused in a huge rant in a paragraph telling me I was a shitty loser andy expectations are way to high. Perhaps if the op had a written something worthwhile in the first place I maybe could of been interested. So from now on if I receive a message that says Hi how are you? Hey wanna fk instant block. It maybe a more open sexual site but etiquette still applies.
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belladonna888
11 years ago
Quoting 'jovialjoker'Give em a break Got to see the humor of some of it sometimes like- Posted from rhpmobile Im with you on this .. Why so serious :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I try and be polite as that's the type of person i am.Sometimes ,i get a reply ,most of the time i don't.Always appreciate a reply even if its " sorry ,your not what i am looking for"And boy do i get that message a lot!I don't know how someone can tell that i am not what they are looking for ,from mail.Funny ,when i meet people ,they always say i am nothing like they assumed i was.All i can say, is give people a go,they could really be the one your looking for.Cheers.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Miss2sweet how about a lovely poem then. Like this one Roses are red Tree's are green I love your legs And what's in between.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Miss2Sweet, you forgot to mention.Ask a woman questions about themselves, they just have to answer those ones, it will eat them away if they don't do that. Be careful when asking them what they think, as you might be there for a while. Tell them you have a cat or a puppy, though you will have to get one if you don't.Never ask them what they want, it will leave you gobsmacked with analytical unsurities.Look for the beauty in them before you even speak.HeHeMado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Profile and looking at a few of your friends Miss2Sweet, your expecting well thought out and intelligent messages from guys who spend most of their time lifting and most of their money on Oompah Loompah tans, ab products from "as seen on TV" channels, tattoos, hair gel and protein powder. Good luck with that lol
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chevtrek
11 years ago
I send a flirt and if I get one back I send a short message say 20 words and don't drag it out. Many on here come and go and as they are just curious so you don't waste time with them. In short I agree that guys should put more imagination into a message plus humour goes a long way but it is hard to put personality in a message.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't know what all the fuss is about. And I say give the men a break! Yes, toss pots send moronic messages. Recipients have plenty of options - my preferences are ignore, delete, block. Sometimes I think women need to get off their self-righteous perch and accept that we're not 'all that' and men shouldn't have to jump through a dozen hoops for a moment of our time. And besides, the kind of man who sends a completely stupid or pointless message can't be too bright in the first place, so there's not much chance he'll be interested in or capable of learning a better approach. Men don't need rescuing and they don't need to be constantly kicked. JMO.
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RHP User
11 years ago
so its ok when a girl starts out 1st message like that.....i love fucking taking it in all my holes and being spanked like a dirty whore blah blah blah.............but when a guy does its no good ?im confused........being strait up is better than bullshittin
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'sammyrogers' so its ok when a girl starts out 1st message like that.....i love fucking taking it in all my holes and being spanked like a dirty whore blah blah blah.............but when a guy does its no good ?im confused........being strait up is better than bullshittin You sure thats a girl?hahahahaDG
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On_Safari
11 years ago
You DO have a softer side.....I know cos I seen it! I guess for a majority they just think RHP is a sex site....should see the stunned messages I get back when I say that it's also an ADULT DATING SITE!!! That not every man/woman here is fuck fodder for your entertainment. That even when a lady invites you into her bed and pushes all your boundaries she is still a lady. It's amazing how many guys will take down the cockshots and rethink their approach when they realise there is a flesh and blood woman they're messaging with who ISN'T some skanky slut on a porn site. Actually I've yet to cone across any woman from here like that, and most of the guys I've approached or been approached by and had conversations with ARE men that I'd like to know betterer!!! So guys and girls, put your manners back in; treat each other with that sexy sultry seduction technique too woo the object of your lust and use your WORDS and PUNCTUATION to stroke the imagination NOT FUCKING PROFANITY!!! I think everyone here would agree in principal along the lines of "You want to experience the heightened sensations of pleasure my body puts out you better be able to come up with something better than "wanna fuck?". It's not rocket science peeps!! Frustrated Indy Safari
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always assume the way a message is constructed to be the way that person would communicate if we were face to face. I appreciate good grammar and punctuation as it tells me that that person is relatively intelligent and (hopefully!! ) able to hold a decent conversation..... If a message to me is well crafted I tend to reply regardless of wether I would necessarily be interested in them sexually, as I do enjoy exchanging emails and even still write letters!! However each to their own... or whatever floats your boat!! I do agree that there are a lot of younger men out there that are really sexually aggressive in their messages, but sending "fuck your hot, wanna bang you" probably wont work too often... ;)
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yankmychain56
11 years ago
So I guess 'hey baby, nice tits', is a turn off? I have found throughout the years of trying to figure women out.... That it is hopeless. It seems that sometimes you are wrong no matter what you say or do. And then there are the ones who pick on your grammar. Accept me for who I am. Don't judge someone by the few lines written here, there is an entire life behind these eyes...
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RHP User
11 years ago
yep i gotta agree.. we are getting extremely lame..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I got a message the other day simply said “eat me”, well it just happens I was starving, I did say simply… While the world might appear asleep, While our song is still fresh in our mind, "Let’s eat" Dear diary Just a quick Hi … I love you… I will finish the song later
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im pretty sure we joined rhp to fuck, so the messages back and forth are for Facebook, i would rather a 'yes' with a phone number or a no with a 'fuck off'. There are heaps of people on the site, just keep searching, and stalkers that message u when u tell them not to..meet up with them, throw their phone in a puddle. Pricks are wrecking it for the rest of us..- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I try and practice good manners wherever I can, let the old F#@K and S&*T fly (When in appropriate company) and am moderately intelligent and educated. I often abbreviate things, knowingly forget apostrophise, add extra dots to the end of my sentences...... Somewhat beside the point... However, what I would like to know is what exactly pisses you off..?? Is it the fact that that person has misjudged you so far as to think that they can send you vulgar messages and expect you to not only reply but do so in a similar fashion..?? The fact that people think it's ok to speak to people like that full stop..?? The way I see it is they are being themselves and if anything making it easier for you to make the right decision. Not the right one for you, NEXT!! I have seen a stark number of posts of people being "Stood up" etc or people just going dead on the other end of the keyboard. Had these people taken a leaf from our vulgar friends than they wouldn't be wasting your time. In life I often struggle seeing people doing IMHO "Despicable" acts. That said, it's all subjective. I am projecting my/societies thoughts/prejudice/stigmas on them. A conundrum I seem to run into to often. Rise above and know that it's not something that you want as part of your reality and let what is be. Requiring nothing to change for this moment to be perfect. Hahaha. I am not sure if this will make sense to anyone or if I am just rambling... HAI RHP!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
WOW beginning to think this is the wrong site thought it was for swingers and people who would like to meet like minded folk, but all I read is moans and groans not that kind! Yes we men get it wrong and yes we should be more respectful of you ladies well I am sorry so if ive sent one of those messages to a lass sorry .
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RHP User
11 years ago
All true, but ... I don't have any appetite for training men to grow up and be decent. It's incomprehensible to me that any man honestly thinks this site is like a Thai brothel where the girls line up in a window waiting to be plucked and fucked. And any man who DOES think that, and who sends me moronic messages, and acts like a juvenile dog on heat, is simply not worth any of my time. Telling men off for stupid messages doesn't change their stupidity, it just shows them how to hide it. I say let them be, it's their life.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'You DO have a softer side.....I know cos I seen it! I guess for a majority they just think RHP is a sex site....should see the stunned messages I get back when I say that it's also an ADULT DATING SITE!!! That not every man/woman here is fuck fodder for your entertainment. That even when a lady invites you into her bed and pushes all your boundaries she is still a lady. It's amazing how many guys will take down the cockshots and rethink their approach when they realise there is a flesh and blood woman they're messaging with who ISN'T some skanky slut on a porn site. Actually I've yet to cone across any woman from here like that, and most of the guys I've approached or been approached by and had conversations with ARE men that I'd like to know betterer!!! So guys and girls, put your manners back in; treat each other with that sexy sultry seduction technique too woo the object of your lust and use your WORDS and PUNCTUATION to stroke the imagination NOT FUCKING PROFANITY!!! I think everyone here would agree in principal along the lines of "You want to experience the heightened sensations of pleasure my body puts out you better be able to come up with something better than "wanna fuck?". It's not rocket science peeps!! Frustrated Indy Safari shag?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah I do try be as polite and creative as possible but when 1 out of 20 messages only gets replied to it is kinda a kick in the guts. Cause first u want us all to go to the trouble and pay and message u first if we're not of course channing tatum, then we have to message a nice cute long message and prey we get a reply with is usually a 3word reply! (sorry not interested) see we're see we are coming from ladies?- Posted from rhpmobile
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custardapples
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' I received a message today that simply said "I like face painting lol"I guess that must work with some women, but not me I'm afraid. Oh come on paintme .. that's pretty original .. pretty funny anyway!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Very interesting stuff.What do you reckon you over 50 males,do you think the girls,sorry,ladies should start putting more time into us older more respectful gentlemen.We appreciate a woman for who and what she is,and we are politely honest.The other thing,and you older guys can back me up,is we know what we can do and what we would like to do,no need to tell you what you want or what you need from what we supposedly have.In other words ladies,us over 50 guys understand that if you don't like what you hear and see,being crude and being a dick certainly won't help,ha.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that's why we started a rhp union. micklovestolick, I agree g_reg , fully understood ur post and agree shanepus, I aint backing u up. age doesn't necessarily bring on wisdom and foresight. the foresight that has been gleaned from hindsight persay. its personality driven not age driven. meh I will still be suffering from peter pan syndrome way into my 60's, and u know what, so be it.
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
I like short, to the point, funny messages... Then I look at the profile.. I'm visual lol :D xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is clear from the many opinions the answer to what women want is as different as each of them. But being polite and respectful is universal. When all a guy had to go on is the words in your profile then it is hard to expect a perfectly constructed message every time. A polite and respectful message does deserve a response out of same politeness and respect. hopefully at the end of it all it leads to thee wrong of minds and desires. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hopefully at the end it leads to the meeting of minds and desires. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I believe someone has already suggested it. If you don't like the messages you're getting, you could always send some!Like most guys, rarely get a response, but I'd say most times I have had one, there's been no politeness, pretty much nothing the OP is saying we should be including. Often it's just asking for a cock shot.
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RHP User
11 years ago
... I think the approaches listed as 'bad' so far are about as effective as other ones. Either way, you're generally not getting replied to unless you appeal visually to the message recipient.Those grapes sound way more sour than they actually are - but it is the reality. You can write genius or crap, at the end of the day, aside from some of the more experienced 40-somethings that are the majority of active forum users, people are generally only going to reply to people who appeal to them physically.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Gawd When did men become such whiney biatches when everything doesn't go their own way?!! DG
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Gawd When did men become such whiney biatches when everything doesn't go their own way?!! DG You are so insensitive, biatchMado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thats my reply above. Just to annoy u :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
:-) hi five. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'innerwest123'... I think the approaches listed as 'bad' so far are about as effective as other ones.Either way, you're generally not getting replied to unless you appeal visually to the message recipient.Those grapes sound way more sour than they actually are - but it is the reality. You can write genius or crap, at the end of the day, aside from some of the more experienced 40-somethings that are the majority of active forum users, people are generally only going to reply to people who appeal to them physically.Oh My God... You have it so wrong. I used to think like that when I was like 25.. geez
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I had a dollar for every message i send and get no reply i would have a life time membership on here it's true what they say you can please some of the people some of the time,most of the people most of the time,but you cant please all the people all of the time.I find my self an honest down to earth guy who is not interested in a long term relationship so i am honest in what i put down and still get ignored go figure.I do have many facial shots and 2 raunchy shots i dont have nothing to hide.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'mdplayland' Hello everyone, we have been on this site for a while and are absolutly amazed if anybody actually meets on here from what we have encounted anyway. After reading Miss2sweets article about how to message and what basic content also the lenght of the message, this to us is normal social manners. Now in saying this, although we do follow all the social protocols we are still left with people being left bewildered why so called well educated and mannered can not even respond to someone that has taken the time and effort to actully write a plesant and pleasing e mail. We understand that not everyone will" click", and that's fine a simple" thanks", but" no thanks" and everybody moves on with no one being offended. We would really like to know if everyone else on here that has "Joined and payed" to be a member of RHP for the right reason have found the same thing. Or is this a big game to mislead and stuff people around! Take care everyone M and D Most messages are not only not replied to but most are simply "unopened and unread".It's because the very nature of this site brings about an "instant suspicion" of others. Most believe or appear to believe the worst in others is more probable rather than give a chance to the possibility that someone they see on here may actually be fun to hang out with.Thank god for pubs and clubs where real flesh and bone people congregate to meet others.This site and others like it, leave one with the impression they are ugly or unworthy of a second glance which is shitty for all concerned given the level of lonely and horny as a rattle snake people which populate this site in abundance.Everybody need not be built like adonis or aphrodite to enjoy the spoils of what such a site like this can possibly offer.Again, I'll reiterate, thank god for pubs and clubs where occasionally, a smile does indeed come my way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Another pet peeve is the obvious "template message".
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RHP User
11 years ago
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'innerwest123' ... I think the approaches listed as 'bad' so far are about as effective as other ones. Either way, you're generally not getting replied to unless you appeal visually to the message recipient.Those grapes sound way more sour than they actually are - but it is the reality. You can write genius or crap, at the end of the day, aside from some of the more experienced 40-somethings that are the majority of active forum users, people are generally only going to reply to people who appeal to them physically.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So are you saying that you are not interested in attracting the attention of experienced, 40 something active forum members?
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nikki19
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kizza1973' I am on strike from writing mail to women ! lol................"We are stubborn. We ARE always right. Remember, we hold the keys to the bedroom"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I need another three consonants from you please
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madotara69
11 years ago
Miss2Sweet??!! If some lady shows a pic that suggests rubbing her tits on your face while riding your cock, or this is how I will look if you fuck me doggy style, It would not feel right??!! to want a conversation about the weather. You will get what you ask for.Maybe some of the ladies??!! were feeling horny when they did the photo shoot, or was it just for the ladies??!!.Men cannot see curves when reading, they do see them in a picture, men see curves and that is what triggers the impulse to want to fuck!!It is ironic that you have written the invitation for these suggestive replies, Careful what you write in your pics love. And it might pay to show respects to the very nature of how a mans mind thinks, it thinks of you.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
god, you women dont ask for much do you? not worth it
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'You DO have a softer side.....I know cos I seen it! I guess for a majority they just think RHP is a sex site....should see the stunned messages I get back when I say that it's also an ADULT DATING SITE!!! That not every man/woman here is fuck fodder for your entertainment. That even when a lady invites you into her bed and pushes all your boundaries she is still a lady. It's amazing how many guys will take down the cockshots and rethink their approach when they realise there is a flesh and blood woman they're messaging with who ISN'T some skanky slut on a porn site. Actually I've yet to cone across any woman from here like that, and most of the guys I've approached or been approached by and had conversations with ARE men that I'd like to know betterer!!! So guys and girls, put your manners back in; treat each other with that sexy sultry seduction technique too woo the object of your lust and use your WORDS and PUNCTUATION to stroke the imagination NOT FUCKING PROFANITY!!! I think everyone here would agree in principal along the lines of "You want to experience the heightened sensations of pleasure my body puts out you better be able to come up with something better than "wanna fuck?". It's not rocket science peeps!! Frustrated Indy Safari shag? Shag I'd consider (depending on the tone with which it was delivered, lol) ......But you left me high and dry the last time.....and you didn't handle the heightened sensations of pleasure my body put out last time..... performance anxiety can be a bitch hey darling? Sorry didn't mean to intimidate you when I pulled out my crop and spurs, but you did say you wanted to play pony.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'bi_guy_4_fun'god, you women dont ask for much do you? not worth it Might wanna stick with the guys then.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seamless logic, I like it and who can argue with that. Less is more. Sometimes you just have to get to the point.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'You DO have a softer side.....I know cos I seen it! I guess for a majority they just think RHP is a sex site....should see the stunned messages I get back when I say that it's also an ADULT DATING SITE!!! That not every man/woman here is fuck fodder for your entertainment. That even when a lady invites you into her bed and pushes all your boundaries she is still a lady. It's amazing how many guys will take down the cockshots and rethink their approach when they realise there is a flesh and blood woman they're messaging with who ISN'T some skanky slut on a porn site. Actually I've yet to cone across any woman from here like that, and most of the guys I've approached or been approached by and had conversations with ARE men that I'd like to know betterer!!! So guys and girls, put your manners back in; treat each other with that sexy sultry seduction technique too woo the object of your lust and use your WORDS and PUNCTUATION to stroke the imagination NOT FUCKING PROFANITY!!! I think everyone here would agree in principal along the lines of "You want to experience the heightened sensations of pleasure my body puts out you better be able to come up with something better than "wanna fuck?". It's not rocket science peeps!! Frustrated Indy Safari shag? Shag I'd consider (depending on the tone with which it was delivered, lol) ......But you left me high and dry the last time.....and you didn't handle the heightened sensations of pleasure my body put out last time..... performance anxiety can be a bitch hey darling? Sorry didn't mean to intimidate you when I pulled out my crop and spurs, but you did say you wanted to play pony. 1. I don't intimidate 2. I don't buy into the submissive baloney 3. I do my own bad press mwah
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'charming101'Seamless logic, I like it and who can argue with that. Less is more. Sometimes you just have to get to the point. kiss principle keep it simply stupid
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RHP User
11 years ago
I might just send all the women who have contributed to this topic a message and check the validaty of their opinions.
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RHP User
11 years ago
as an asideI might just send all the women who have contributed to this topic a message and check the validaty of their opinions. A broad cast offer may bring a flood of replies from smart girls with hunger on their minds although who was it that said too much loving is never enough ;) I like.In my humble opinion love communication is instinctive, if you are focused on the medium you are probably not too interested, take a break and come back when you are ready to unleash yourself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'charming101'as an aside I might just send all the women who have contributed to this topic a message and check the validaty of their opinions.A broad cast offer may bring a flood of replies from smart girls with hunger on their minds although who was it that said too much loving is never enough ;) I like. In my humble opinion love communication is instinctive, if you are focused on the medium you are probably not too interested, take a break and come back when you are ready to unleash yourself.this is me tempered. heaven help us all if I was to be unleashed. haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' this is me tempered. heaven help us all if I was to be unleashed. haha You are too cute. x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' this is me tempered. heaven help us all if I was to be unleashed. haha You are too cute. x you can call me many things.. call me a prick, call me evil, call me unreliable, adore my amazing cheekbones, wonder at my ability to lead the union but never ever ever call me cute. that word is strictly my mum's domain. GOT IT?
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are just precious.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey Miss Targaryen, You giving out some of my best pick up to you :pC'mon, some guys do read between the lines and throw up a few wise cracks. Others? well, cant speak for those that didnt finish yr 10 minimum. A lot of profile are so generic, so you dont even bother. Some who try a different cheeky angle dont even get a response - There is a block button, use the filter, that should ease crap responses a littleQuoting 'Luckdragon23' Usually, yeah, you can have a laugh about it, but at the same time it also gets really old really quickly. Here is just a sample of what I've received over the last few months (all are initial messages from guys I hadn't heard from before, and I'm not including any of the countless "hey babe / sexy how are ya / wanna hook up?" messages I've received). I'm sure just about all the women on here have received many messages along the same lines:"hiiiiii hey how are you....would you be disgusted if i licked my own cum off your body?""..roast?" - this was the message content following his subject header, which was "spit..""mmmmmmm i would love to play with you mmmmmm" (suppose that's on the better end of the spectrum)"DTF?" (that's down to fuck for those lucky enough to have not heard it before)"Love your profile :) your hot as. I want to meet a girl who isn't scared to spice things up a bit :) ... And if it help I quite enjoy sucking cock and being fucked while I like a nice wet pussy ;) " "Wow would love to taste that ass" "Found some fun yet, I have 8 inches of thick cock if u get keen" And so it goes on....blah, blah, hey babe i got a big hard cock, blah, blah, i luv to fuck and lick pussy all nite, blah...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I think you are too luvly and I'd love to bend you over any time! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Face photos I think are an absolute must, a body shots is on. But having a cock as a profile shot, so not cool. Girls like to see who they are taking to, they like to see the glint in a mans eye and can sometimes get a feel of that person from the photo and profile description. Guys you are doing yourselves and injustice. Put Your Dam Face On Profile.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, but .. I find that the responses i get from females its a hella lot worse than the generic initial messages most guys usually send. it is very hard to find nerdy/geek/smart/sexy girls these days...*shrugs*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Geez life tuff ladies.. All those msgs, too many photos.. Now don't subscribe to making initial contact in any of the examples u have stated. Now I'm a newbie to this site and am by no means setting the world alight, I realise there are no givens but I can see where the ppl who do send this kind of stuff are comming from.. I think it steams from the women being a victim of there popularity and the bi product being inflated egos and attitudes. Now I'm a fan of of rhp and lots of the women who use it, however there's a certain percentage that do attribute. In saying that I repeat I'm not a member who communicates in those manners, not my style but my tip for those who do, there are plenty of awesome chicks prepared to give great advice on how to lift ur game in the areas u struggle
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RHP User
11 years ago
Continuing from loool, U find them In the forum section
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'amusemenow' Face photos I think are an absolute must, a body shots is on. But having a cock as a profile shot, so not cool. Girls like to see who they are taking to, they like to see the glint in a mans eye and can sometimes get a feel of that person from the photo and profile description. Guys you are doing yourselves and injustice. Put Your Dam Face On Profile. You do see the hypocrisy in your post don't you ?Not one photo, not even in a private gallery !
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
In a buyers market.... where there are 1000 one-free-handed typist dumbarse horny guys to every female* (whether real or fake)... .... the rules don't apply lol ;-) DG *statistic is not entirely accurate. It's likely to be FAR higher lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' In a buyers market.... where there are 1000 one-free-handed typist dumbarse horny guys to every female* (whether real or fake)... .... the rules don't apply lol ;-) DG *statistic is not entirely accurate. It's likely to be FAR higher lol Change the fuckin record DG, it's tiresome.And I seriously doubt it "creates attraction".
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. You constantly try to intimidate in chatroom, private chats too2. You are as submissive as they come, phony baloney3. You dont even rate a mention in the press
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'deanna85'1. You constantly try to intimidate in chatroom, private chats too2. You are as submissive as they come, phony baloney3. You dont even rate a mention in the press a few noteworthy points to raise... who are you? I speak in smart arse terms in the chatrooms only to people I know, and know well who are obliged to reciprocate in equal amounts. I have never chatted to you let alone private chatted you the submissive remark was a buy in to a series of humourous exchanges between me and indi and as such contextual as for me not rating in the press. what press? bahahahahaha and thank you for putting a smile on my face this morning and helping perpetuate the legend that is el president hahahahahaha note, I aint as stoopid as I come across bahahahaha
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
So..... Don't put the "record"on your playlist by reading it .... and investing in it by commenting. ;-) DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am on mail STRIKE!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I received a message yesterday from a man who was flying into Brisbane from Fiji...had a couple hrs spare and wanted to fill in some time with "FUN"!.. guessing his sort of "FUN" wouldn't include shopping nearby airport at DFO...more like Hotel close by airport..... ;) FOXY
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I've spoken to you at length el presidente. And offline and I think we both know you AREbas dumb as you come across......but that's ok because you have impeccable cheekbones and a nice set of stems in your leather skirt. Come here bitch so I can admire your arse closer..... Don't be put out Deeanna .... Honky was my bastard first and I'm not happy to share on this occasion. Lol xx who' s your mummy baby.
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