Newbies and lurkers to the forums

April 02 2017

We haven't had one of these for a fair while so here we go...... For all those new to the site or to those who just like to read over our shoulder and find it all a bit daunting to put your view forward, step up and say hello. We regulars don't bite and would love fresh meat.......Err fresh input l mean. The first post is the hardest and even if you have posted occasionally, please feel free to say hi or speak your thoughts about the forums. Anything at all. Over to you........

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well hello

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hello all - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hey girls any takers ? :)) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    When it's time to get mayors going o be sausy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    First time posting but been enjoying some of the topics on here. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Rocket55

    Rocket55

    8 years ago

    First time posting, just lurking in the shadows and watching. I'm enjoying the forum, there's some interesting topics that come up, and the core of regulars on here are always entertaining. I'll try and stick my head out of the shadows from time to time. 😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    From perth looking for fun any females interested? ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'tooluvly' Hey girls any takers ? :)) - Posted from rhpmobile Bit frisky there Tooluvly. Welcome to the forums which could be a handy stop off to fine tune that approach of yours......

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Twelveofsevensev' Well hello Quoting 'Midnightfantasy' Hello all - Posted from rhpmobile Hello, hello and welcome

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Ryan10201692' First time posting but been enjoying some of the topics on here. Quoting 'Rocket55' First time posting, just lurking in the shadows and watching. I'm enjoying the forum, there's some interesting topics that come up, and the core of regulars on here are always entertaining. Welcome and come in.........

  • Sherlock_H

    Sherlock_H

    8 years ago

    Hi all. Just signed up today, read some forum threads and thought "Fuck it, I'll pay some money to get in on these conversations". Still waiting on a pic and verification to be approved, then I'll look a little less like a faceless minion from the horde. I'm also looking to go to the meet up Friday night next week. I could do with a few new faces in my life. S.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Sherlock everywhere. Well done. First day and you have posts everywhere. Well done Sherlock......

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    8 years ago

    But I do thumbs up when it's warranted ;)

  • LadyFiFi

    LadyFiFi

    8 years ago

    I've mainly lurked in the shadows on the forums like many others. I did have the pleasure of meeting both Annie & Betty not long ago. Waves madly .....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hello everyone! I'm looking for new friends to hang out with! Is there anyone keen to show me the ropes? Jamiee xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I am quiet, patient, observant, incisive, reflective , contemplatory, and ok maybe a bit shy at first, but lurking sounds like something for which there should be a medicine . Hi all , what an interesting place this is, with such a varied peoples , great to be here thank you for your acceptance.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Mr_Davee' Hi All,Just joined and saying Hi from NSW Australia. Been on Fetlife for a few years thought I would check this one out. Cheers Mr Dave Oh btw I spent awhile searching locals and receiving a notification to upgrade upon trying to send a message, not cool RHP ! Davee. Different to Fetlife here. You need to be a paying member to send a message here.Welcome to the forums

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'LadyFiFi' I've mainly lurked in the shadows on the forums like many others. I did have the pleasure of meeting both Annie & Betty not long ago. Waves madly ..... Waves back across the sea of profiles.........Glad you have come inside to join us. Hope you stay.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Xdressing' Hello everyone! I'm looking for new friends to hang out with! Is there anyone keen to show me the ropes? Jamiee xx - Posted from rhpmobile Be careful how you word things around here. You be bound and hog tied in no time with some of the sexy fuckers around these parts.Welcome

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'QuietlyKeen' I am quiet, patient, observant, incisive, reflective , contemplatory, and ok maybe a bit shy at first, but lurking sounds like something for which there should be a medicine . Hi all , what an interesting place this is, with such a varied peoples , great to be here thank you for your acceptance. You should fit in and we are accepting and social bunch of varied people. At least I'm normal..........

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Hawt1' But I do thumbs up when it's warranted ;) You are rocking a great security look there. Is that a pistol?Welcome

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    A few of the newbies in this thread have gone on to start posting in other threads. That's great.Posting for the first time is like having sex for the first time. Over before you know it. And the second time you are an expert....... Give it a try. find a topic you like, deep breath and go.....

  • compressor

    compressor

    8 years ago

    happy for any lady to nibble or bite me and I to massage and nibble her lol. if only I could find her

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You "old hands" are a tribe, an outsider is aware of the coterie's and colloquialism's. So your invite is well met and I thank you for it. A place at the fire. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • JoeNorth

    JoeNorth

    8 years ago

    I'm really enjoying reading the profiles of so many fun and interesting people of all beautiful shapes and sizes. I want to meet everyone just to give them a high-five! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Who are you calling old? ;) I've only been here 12 months and have already become part of the furniture.....speaking of - save me a lap for the fire ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Id love a good biting right now... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'joenorth' I'm really enjoying reading the profiles of so many fun and interesting people of all beautiful shapes and sizes. I want to meet everyone just to give them a high-five! - Posted from rhpmobileThat's what meet and greets are for. Banter in here and then finally meet. Welcome

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    8 years ago

    Thankyou.. 🖒 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    8 years ago

    Just saying a big hello to all the newbies. Awesome to see you all posting and getting involved. Hope to meet some of you at the Brisbane meet and greet event in June 😁👍👋👋👋👋👋👋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nah, this is a good beginning. Start small. Comment here, Like there, Smileyface this, Smileytonguepoke your jokes....give it a week or so, cos these things can't be rushed........then BAMM!! Hit the readers with something insightful, surprise the bored beauties...go easy on the big words....dont offend anyone...and your in like fling. Annie can give you better tips on photos than I can.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    :) excuse my poor choice of words. "More experienced hands." My lap is yours, if that's what you meant and it welcomes you warming it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just an outsiders point of view, which is as felt and not unexpected. I don't for a minute think I won't be, as with any saying hello here, accepted and welcomed as I mean no harm, read empathetically and have a considered mind. I thank you for your advice, its intention and tip my hat. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi All I'm just feeling my way around here, i haven't got many replies. is it because i'm a guest? Or is my profile lacking?? HelpFF69er

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Fabulous to see so many new faces - look forward to seeing you about the place 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    👋🏼 back :) Was an excellent day with som excellent women 😍

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Welcome to the sandpit. Yes your status as guest is a handicap to single guys. Now you've found the forums, read and research the topics to improve your profile and chances here. Goodluck

  • LadyFiFi

    LadyFiFi

    8 years ago

    Yes, it was definitely an excellent day with awesome women. I think I need your help next time re a profile pic if I haven't sorted it out by then ...

  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Get on over I'm keen for the insight. #feedback First time poster long time reader Mark

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just joined 15 minutes ago 😊. Can't get any fresher than that!! Have no idea what I'm doing haha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I just want sex - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    The_random_guy and Sexy5. You found the forum so you are 1step closer to having fun. Use the info within to help your journey. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'the_random_guy' Just joined 15 minutes ago 😊. Can't get any fresher than that!! Have no idea what I'm doing haha - Posted from rhpmobile Most of us don't know what we are doing either - but it sure is fun As Annie said, use the forums - wealth of info within

  • noeleena

    noeleena

    8 years ago

    Hi, Yes well you all know where I,m from Waimate in the south isl. far away from the rumbling earth in Ch Ch and we are having more . Any way, a bit late in replying so may not be read. I,ll be in Melbourne 7 th July then straight to Tas,e 5 days then back to Mel for 3 weeks then back to Tas,e for 5 weeks .or maybe more don't know yet, I,m a care giver so will be looking after a friend 24 / 7. so if any one would like to meet some where and don't ask for to much info as I have no idear just will be at the Masada private Hospital for the 3 weeks and will have a motel or similar to stay in. up the road in walking distance .....I hope , so that's my excuse for coming over, so maybe if your interested in meeting a Kiwi, for a cupper and see what I look like, and you may not any way . over to you,s . ...noeleena...

  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Can't seem to get my head around. Replying with a quote. Any help would be very helpful. Not on pc mostly on my phone. Mark.

  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'markgreggson' Can't seem to get my head around. Replying with a quote. Any help would be very helpful. Not on pc mostly on my phone. Mark. i worked it out only works on desktop version.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Presume you are using full Web page on smart phone. I know nothing about the app. Top right hand corner, open tab and scroll down to "request desktop site. Check box and wait for refresh. Then click on reply with quote. Away you go..... I hope. A few limitations. Won't work if you go to that quote directly from your stream.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Welcome and love your dating approach. Good luck.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    8 years ago

    I use my iPhone always and access the site and can't reply with quote

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi I'm new to this site 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'the_random_guy' Just joined 15 minutes ago 😊. Can't get any fresher than that!! Have no idea what I'm doing haha - Posted from rhpmobile Welcome to the Sandpit and PLEASE PLEASE read the forum and become educated....first thing you need to know....THIS IS NOT A SEX SITE regardless of the marketing.....people prefer people to dicks so on that note. Take sex out of the equation, whilst we aren't eHarmony; be a smart human being, people still need a reason to engage with you: ~ read people's profiles before you send flirts/messages to make sure you might be what they're looking for~ make your profile interesting and honest (not a sexual wishlist or how great your resume is)~ don't take bathroom selfies with toilets/toothbrushes in the background, unmade beds or dirty laundry everywhere~ don't take rejection personal, stay a gentleman and move on (just say NEXT CONTESTANT!)~ have a sense of humour, this place can really be character building. Cheers ~ Indy

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Welcome to the site and the forum. Excuse our manners, we don't often have our arses out. Not sure who started it. Miss I think.....

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    .

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    8 years ago

    That's because I'm more arse then class 👸🏻😂

  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb4u' That's because I'm more arse then class 👸🏻😂 Not that I can see anyone complaining. That picture is all cl ass. Mark

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi Betty.Melbourne people.what we doing today - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi new to the site/dating sites in general so forgive me if I seem a little shy/skeptical - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi all new to the site. Annie whitchway i was going to message you but i run out of measages. Message if your keen haha. Have a good day all - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi all new to all this lurking atm till I get some courage....please be kind - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hello all, I have been a member for a while, but I have only just recently found how interesting these forums are. So here is my first post :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'sxcluke89' Hi all new to the site. Annie whitchway i was going to message you but i run out of measages. Message if your keen haha. Have a good day all - Posted from rhpmobile Ummm, you're a premium plus member... that means you have 20 messages per day... Hope you feel very special Annie

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    I think l might have just got the next message in the gattling gun's magazine.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Sydneyfunside' Hello all, I have been a member for a while, but I have only just recently found how interesting these forums are. So here is my first post :-) - Posted from rhpmobileWelcome to the forums. Hope to see your second post soon....

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Glad you said hi. No need to be shy to the forums. We all started where you are and we value new people trying to get amongst it. There are several new posters since this thread started so dip your toe and dive in. Be respectful and you can't go wrong. Look forward to your opinions. Welcome to the sandpit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just passing by to say hi

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    This is my first day on here so how can I get friends and talk to people? Thank you - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Welcome here. Steady as she goes. Tread lightly and learn in the forums and learn from them. There is a lot of experience within them. Male guests have a hard time. Become a member and you can message people that seem like a match. But patience is key. Good luck and show respect and you may make some friends and playmates.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's my first post here, thanks for the encouragement Annie. Have been a long time proponent and finally on the board :)

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Well done for taking the plunge. Don't dry off, keep swimming....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My wife and I are new to all this so I thought I'd summon the courage and say hello. (Baby steps) 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    hello all, new here but not to the swinging world. ive read threw alot of forums now and have enjoyed them. I must admit i havent posted because i dont like to get bitten. i do have alot to say on each topic though. hope you all have a fun night and ill try and be brave and share my views on each topic. See you all soon. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi everyone I'm new to this but loving it already.... how can i tell who else is new to this from looking at the profile ?! So Excited 😋 I'm looking for a young-mid to late 20's guy /girl in the noble park area ... would love to chat..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    So just wondering, Do people talk dirty, exchange pics ect or is it more of a meet and greet thing. We're just happy to talk at the moment and see what's out there. What do people prefer? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    After you select and load your search press the most recent button and it will put users in order of most recently joined. Cheers

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Thanks for saying hello and welcome to forum. EricJanePlay Different people are into different things. To hit your target, read peoples profiles and ensure your own reflects the things that you are looking for. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just popped in for some window shopping 😉 and damn 😎 Oops sorry hi everyone, welcome. Ignore me, you'll fit in just fine 😀😉 Don't worry about the forum being scary, I shit my pants when I first started posting 😕 I was very outspoken, go figure 😛 and up myself, that went down a treat, it was a mess, it wasn't pretty, still isn't really 😂😂😂 What am I doing wrong? What? I have to be nice to people? Shit, no-one told me that 😱

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Appears Honey1 had to pull up his jocks and tuck it back in.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi. Feel free to friend me. Im at zero and counting ;p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well appreciated, I'll gladly roam through this forum with the humble elegance of a bull in a china shop as well.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'joemd45' Hi. Feel free to friend me. Im at zero and counting ;p - Posted from rhpmobile Welcome to the forum. Browse through and you will find plenty of topics on the general etiquette of friending. Different peeps give different meanings to it. Some people collect friends. Others just people the have met socially. Doesn't mean they have been intimate(fucking)...... Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Awesome, I could use an ally 😉 😎

  • Juno12

    Juno12

    8 years ago

    hey there - I only joined last weekend - little embarrassed to admit that I'd never even heard of this site before! I was a bit drunk and a lot horny, so signed up quick smart and have been enjoying having a look around and interacting with people. I really like how open everyone is ... thanks for creating that kind of environment :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Welcome new folk, and hello seasoned folk :D I've been a lurker... I mean, member... for some time now, but have rarely entered the forum domain. In the real world, I often struggle with crowds and entering existing conversations - particularly with groups that are clearly long-time friends/acquaintances. This uncertainty transfers over to my online interactions as well. It is comforting to know that folk here are welcoming and encourage new folk to engage with them :)The added complication that i have noticed in some forums is that if you snooze, you lose! A lot of what I might add to a forum topic conversation has been said by others (sometimes multiple others), so it doesn't compel me to reiterate the notion again, so I move on.I shall endeavour to make more of an effort to join in, as it does seem like a fun and friendly environment :) Thanks for being so welcoming :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm don't mind posting in the forums here and their.......I really should try harder

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi all, new to site as have come in from a remote area. Keen to chat and see where this goes, no biting to hard now ladies!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi all...I hope to get involved in the forums and ger to know others here better. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Welcome, I have um already noticed you around the forum 😎 Is this okay, is it okay to pop up and down the aisles here? 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's always a good idea to get onside with people in the forum. I take bribes, just sayin 😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Im here, been here for a while putting in my bit when I can. Ive started a new project and so have been busy with that lately, little time to come and spend time here.But I still pop in when I can. In terms of meeting up with anyone....Im not convinced this will happen on here. Im ok with that, Im in no rush to meet, I just enjoy reading the forums and looking at the gorgeous pictures when I can.Plus I have no idea how to distinguish a fake profile from a real one :D

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    You'll end up on her block list. Just sayin......

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Welcome here to the sandpit. Fun and frivolities abound

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    8 years ago

    Welcome. nice pic. Well with a derrier like yours, please post more often to give us ladies the chance to oggle on your profile pic... But thanks for raising our pulse! 😉 😘 Oh, did you say something? 😁

  • missy_mo0

    missy_mo0

    8 years ago

    Been reading the threads for some time, hello everyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Haha 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm just pretending to be interested in the new people 😏 you're the real reason I'm here 😎 which aisle were you in again 🐒

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    You've unblocked me. Now I can zoom in and see ya titties

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Welcome

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    😁😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Good evening !! A newbie , looking around , and just testing the cheeky waters , and sooner rather than later perhaps take a bite ??😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Welcome, I have um already noticed you around the forum 😎 Is this okay, is it okay to pop up and down the aisles here? 😜 Such a shame he's on my side of the country

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