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Princess
December 30 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think I've ever been treated like a "princess". Perhaps I just don't know how one is supposed to be treated?I do have a dream to be treated with kindness and respect, treated to the occasional meal out where I don't have to pay, or maybe even have one cooked for me, and to have a bottle of wine bought for me when I visit my "suitor's home" rather than told to BYO !Does that make me a princess?:) Saturn
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm fairly sure those messages would attract those who want to be pampered and catered to. I'm astonished at the number of men willing to pay for my flight over to their capital city, to have me stay at a five star hotel, be driven around in a limousine, and then be taken to hatted restaurants every night.All without having seen a photo of me.I wonder as to the type of woman who would actually fall for it? Having not met the person how would you know that once you step in the hired car from the airport you're not going to be whisked away to some loading dock where you'll be chopped into pieces and stashed into an ice box in someone's cellar?Yeah, I think I'm the unromantic type too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well I dont know you so its a hard to answer your first question. ....but hey maybe you just arent romantic..nothing wrong with that at all....the world turns with all types of people inhabiting it...or it could be that you just havent met the rite person yet that bring to the surface all those latent dormant romantic feelings...who knows ?? I do know that all this romantic shite (which I do love) does usually come with a price - heartbreak !!! - ying - yang Why do men say it ? Fucks know - why do men say or do anything at times still baffles and is beyond me...even after 3 marriages !!! still cant figured it all out......................... - cant answer the rest Look I could go this whole fantasy for a day or two..being treated like a princess... - I have a g/f and her boyfriend completely and utterly adores her...dont think for a moment thats his not a mans man...his a very masculine/macho kind of guy but they way he treats her ....my god I am envious (at at times she pulls that whole princess/drama queen act with him and he just endures it)and I dribble..yep Ive got princess envy happening - love is still a beautiful thing. So yeah I could go it for while...you know be adored, pampered, spoilt - bla bla bla... The reality is though Im still looking for a lovely bloke who fascinates me enough just to have a drink or two with ....where are you ? And Meeka - Happy New Year rite back at you...be safe and well :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
there is this strange lump under my mattress
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RHP User
12 years ago
two in the pod Peachy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you wearing the emperor's clothes?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh my god... If a man pulled out a saxophone and started serenading me during dinner I think I would piss my pants with laughter... Or die of embarrassment. :P Mind you they are only RHP guests so maybe a recorder might be more the go. Hahahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
well i must say that after being the decision maker in past relationships, being sole parent to 3 kids, working numerous jobs, running a home, and juggling personal relationships, if a man offered to whisk me away for a bit of special time and spoiling-as long as wed gotten to know each other a bit-id be saying LETS GO!!! lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
what if it was a sexaphone.....or a large French horn
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am a bit partial to playing the meat flute myself. Ewwww but it had to be said. Hahahaha
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jensta
12 years ago
For me I love to be treated like a princess have had that in my relationshipsI also love to treat my Prince like a King in and out of the bedroom ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
And the Queen gets off in hearing what I do with him. Mees no Princess. :)
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jensta
12 years ago
This Princess here gets very naughty at times ... Honestly a Man that treats his Woman like a Princess ... adores her! Nothing better than things like He starts singing come fly with me ... then wisks me away on a overseas adventure ... or simply washes my hair for me ... buys me presents ... takes me out for dinner & orders for me ... Off for a night drive to a secluded romantic location ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensta'This Princess here gets very naughty at times ... Honestly a Man that treats his Woman like a Princess ... adores her! Nothing better than things like He starts singing come fly with me ... then wisks me away on a overseas adventure ... or simply washes my hair for me ... buys me presents ... takes me out for dinner & orders for me ... Off for a night drive to a secluded romantic location ... Mees going to vomit if someone treated me like that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree EB, I am not a doll a man can play with. Although all those things are nice but I don't know.... I certainly wouldn't not like someone to order for me.
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jensta
12 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Quoting 'jensta'This Princess here gets very naughty at times ... Honestly a Man that treats his Woman like a Princess ... adores her! Nothing better than things like He starts singing come fly with me ... then wisks me away on a overseas adventure ... or simply washes my hair for me ... buys me presents ... takes me out for dinner & orders for me ... Off for a night drive to a secluded romantic location ... Mees going to vomit if someone treated me like that.Europianbliss ...Each to there own we are all different ... I love a Man that adores his Woman ... Most Woman Want this I Like a diverse range in the Bed Room ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Everyone is different Jensta that is true .... I personally couldn't imagine a guy like that.
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jensta
12 years ago
I love the guy with the bad boy edge ... with a softness for his Woman Thats what I call Perfect for Me ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sheeze if Snow White can live and sleep with 7 men they why can't I??Hang on make that 8 cause along came the Prince...HI HOOOOO HI HOOOOOOOO it's off to bed I go HI HOOOOO HI HOOOO HI HOOOOOO
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not saying this is every guy. Hell I stay away from the straight ones. And when I say straight I dont mean hetro. Lovey dovey crap equals to me having no idea about bdsm. Both fucking weird in their ideals of what a WOMAN wants
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RHP User
12 years ago
However, some of my counterparts in the "look at my penis brigade" do this to simply get their foot in the door as let's face it, nothing else really going for them is there? But I do agree with jensta in the sense that, I love taking flowers home at random times. I love taking a woman on a picnic to somewhere new, and even just giving her a footrub at the end of a hard day while sipping on her favourite vino. She glows, her mood is better and the mutual benefits of this (providing they ARE mutual), is absolutely limitless.
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Not saying this is every guy. Hell I stay away from the straight ones. And when I say straight I dont mean hetro. Lovey dovey crap equals to me having no idea about bdsm. Both fucking weird in their ideals of what a WOMAN wants I guess alot of men are trying to get some attention going down the "treating you like a princess" simply because "wanna fuck" doesnt work lol or does it?Or maybe somewhere inbetween?Can i ask all the single women out there what they think of having a guy from an open relationship?Im no prince charming just down earth guy that wants to have some fun. BDSM bring it on lol forget the lovey dovey crap give me some bondage tape and something sharp and i bet we will get along fine lolTreating someone like a princess isnt my style simply because it invariably means spending lots of money ie plane flights, lots of flowers, gifts, who needs all that when all we want id a little attention and a hot time.Mr Zsuza
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RHP User
12 years ago
is the line between a man ''treating you like a Princess''and wanting to control you?..Buying flowers,taking her out for dinner,whisking her away for a surprise picnic ,dinner etc does not a control freak make,but when a man chooses everything,buys everything,tells you what to do,tells you what not to do,at the very least is infantalising a woman at it's worst is abuse. A man who just wants to control a woman in every aspect of her life is not a strong man ,just a weak man with a fragile ego.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's with the man bashing GB? You and ML seem to do it a bit and I am not sure why. People try and stand out of the crowd and there is nothing wrong with that. Sure some men are disrespectful and don't understand women but I would think they are in the minority.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...I wonder just how many times 'ol Harry has taken Kate down into the dungeon or better still, up in the Tower of London. They did have to teach her to keep her legs together getting in or out of a car and how do we know she doesn't have a tasteful little tattoo somewhere that says 'SuperKink'.Harry is a bastard, I hate him....oh well, wonder if Pippa has toured the tower?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree Freya. Individually those things are lovely and quiet frankly I see a lot of that as a normal part of a healthy relationship. Surprising your partner, giving each other massages, taking care of each other. But I am not a princess or a doll, nobody decides for me. If I have these things with someone it's because I love them and I enjoy being with them and its a partnership. I am a strong woman completely independent from you I choose. Does that make sense? I still find it odd and maybe even a little creepy that a stranger would send this message to me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a friend who is in her mid 40s,she continually said that she was looking for a man to treat her like a princess.She found two ,they both ended up physically and emotionally abusing her. She had a sense of entitlement,she was very pretty,and felt that she ''deserved'' to be pampered blah blah.Neither of these relationships were healthy and we continually argued about why she continued to seek this out in a man when it so obviously was not working for her.We are no longer friends ,as I just couldn't stand to see it happen all over again. I found it rather ironic that her bookshelves were full of books such as ''Women Who Love to Much'',''He's Just Not That Into You'' and she had a subscription to Psychology Today. But her life still remained somewhat of a train wreck,sadly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's is sad Freya. Isn't there a theory that says you choose a partner who is like your father? To work through that relationship in your adulthood? May Dad was a typically controlling Calabrese Dad/husband. Probably why I bristle at any suggestion of ownership or treating me as a princess.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I bash both sexes when needed...but those who aren't afflicted by my comments clearly aren't a member of such a brigade. Wouldn't you agree??
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RHP User
12 years ago
I take care of myself, make sure I'm safe and I trust my instincts. Our instincts are always right, that's why they were gifted to us. Until such time that I've developed a trust with someone I will continue to 'hold my own' especially when it comes to where and when I play. Having said that, when that trust is built and mutual respect has developed ... BRING ON THE SPOILING!!! I give as good as I get!!!😜- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry, I don't like comments like "there is nothing going for them" I don't think that is fair.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Zsuza69' Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Not saying this is every guy. Hell I stay away from the straight ones. And when I say straight I dont mean hetro. Lovey dovey crap equals to me having no idea about bdsm. Both fucking weird in their ideals of what a WOMAN wants I guess alot of men are trying to get some attention going down the "treating you like a princess" simply because "wanna fuck" doesnt work lol or does it?Or maybe somewhere inbetween?Can i ask all the single women out there what they think of having a guy from an open relationship?Im no prince charming just down earth guy that wants to have some fun. BDSM bring it on lol forget the lovey dovey crap give me some bondage tape and something sharp and i bet we will get along fine lolTreating someone like a princess isnt my style simply because it invariably means spending lots of money ie plane flights, lots of flowers, gifts, who needs all that when all we want id a little attention and a hot time.Mr Zsuza WOW!! am lost for words..... Your question and answer you wanting is not relevant to what Meeks is asking.Maybe better putt up as your own forum question - you will most likely find the validation you are looking for there... :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
tell a girl she's a princess after I get to know her and feel she is. Never been the type to say things like that just for the hell of it ? To me ' its plastic and unimaginative.. If I did, and the girl fell for it, I would think her shallow.. Im sure thats what you girls must think too ? Just my take on things.. I could be wrong... Jay
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I first read it I thought eh! What's wrong with spoiling each other in a relationship? But then I agee with you Meeka, guys who send those messages, who are making offers like those to random strangers - weird! I value my independence too much to give up my choices and to develop a sense of obligation. Being treated like a 'princess' does create an imbalance in a relationship. I like to feel like an equal partner in my romantic friendships, special, desired, cherished and respected but equal. DLD, take me to the tower, I believe they keep the crown jewels there! Lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But then I deserve it I have a taste for travel and five start hotels. I am lucky I have a man who looks after me so he makes me feel like a princess though he is not a romatic guy as in words but in deed and thats what counts. any dill can crap on like prince charming but they soon get on their horse and ride off when the going gets tough. takes a King to rule the land, and look after princess TR
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes....yes you do
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
it would freak me out a little.I prefer a man get to know me a little before wanting to treat me like a "Princess".Not into tiara's or castles...just a relationship built on honesty, trust and respect for each other.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Honesty, trust, etc. and most of what Meeks is saying about those dinners, mutual massages, little romantic getaways is a part of a normal healthy relationship. Have also experienced the control freak masquerading as a Prince Charming. When I get the "treat you like a Princess" approach I too shudder.....who in hell wants to be a princess and get lumbered with cleaning a castle? Meh I believe most of the women here outrank any Princess's by being hot blooded, independant, Intelligent, gorgeous women. Yer yer it's nice to have doors opened for you and be taken for dinner (cooked for/with is a wonderful fun seductive experience) BUT the underlying implications that go with being a princess ie. high maintenance, simpering and without an independant thought in that pretty head.....no thanks. I'd rather be the King's concubine.....bring on your dungeon DLD.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Let's go, you can roll around in all those useless diamonds, emeralds and rubies... Quoting 'Awesome71' DLD, take me to the tower, I believe they keep the crown jewels there! Lol...I'll just look for the pearl.
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wingman2014
12 years ago
Some guys send ridiculous messages like " hey let's fuck" others put on the princess bit. Fact is men think with their dongs No surprise there. but men will use what ever line we think will win us the prize. Neither seems to work for me so I will try to come up with something witty or unexpected ...catch you off guard. ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What's with the man bashing GB? You and ML seem to do it a bit and I am not sure why. People try and stand out of the crowd and there is nothing wrong with that. Sure some men are disrespectful and don't understand women but I would think they are in the minority. I have noticed a few and it does annoy me. We on here to put our opinions across not judge others. Ok if its shit and giggles though I find it goes beyond this. Anyway I am sure you have a little Princess down their some where meeks where you like your steed to park
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've had many 1st messages that read similarly.....I'm with you Meeka....i always think, ummm NO THANKS! I value my independance....i do NOT need rescueing! I may be cynical, but i always wonder what the cost is.......... A man who knows me and loves me......is welcome to spoil me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I honestly think we men say things like that to get women on their back. Men generally like pleasing a woman and its probably considered the best selfish good deed around. And yes, I enjoy spoiling a woman. Just sexually though, if you want a sugar daddy I hear Geoffrey Edelstein is having marital problems.
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jensta
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensta' This Princess here gets very naughty at times ... Honestly a Man that treats his Woman like a Princess ... adores her! Nothing better than things like He starts singing come fly with me ... then wisks me away on a overseas adventure ... or simply washes my hair for me ... buys me presents ... takes me out for dinner & orders for me ... Off for a night drive to a secluded romantic location ... LMFAO ... Its so not about Control I'm a Strong/Confident Woman I was referring to what I have had in Relationships the connection & trust of two people that know how to treat loved ones to spoil & pamper each other ... As for here online I expect Respect & to be treated well or its Next ... At the end of the day treat me well treat me right ... Its as simple as that
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RHP User
12 years ago
Each woman should be treated differently, as not all women are the same or like the same things , so any idiot on here messaging women dating they will treat them like princesses or saying they will give them everything they want is a fool and should know that don't work unless they find one of the fake cam girls on here that will happily take money from them in exchange for nothing- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I consider myself quite a clever and opinionated lass and when I'm called princess I feel very dumbed down and child like, as though I need looking after... and receiving such a pet name from someone I have not yet meet makes it worse. I'm sure its not their intention when the men use such a name but it always makes me cringe!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think it's the misconception that treating someone like a princess is a golden ticket between their legs. I have encountered girls who expect this. To be honest I find them annoying - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
...have been blokes.
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ObsidianSun
12 years ago
I went out with a girl last week, she told me she wanted to be 'treated like a Princess' So I put her in the back of a Mercedes and drove it into a wall.
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RHP User
12 years ago
EuropianBlissHi there titillating princes, the princess get what she wants. Even if that is not the romantic shower of flowers, it's admiration and respect which makes for dirty lust filled adventures, unbounded at it's best. So skanky hoe in bed, and maybe mind. But always a princess too. Admirers (truthful ones) will treat you as the best, princess, sexual goddess, Venus. So hope you have controlled that gagging reflex sweet alluring majesty. Happy new year.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never received an email containing the word princess. Getting plenty with hun, babe, baby and sexy though... So again I ask: What am I doing wrong?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'EuropianBliss Hi there titillating princes, the princess get what she wants. Even if that is not the romantic shower of flowers, it's admiration and respect which makes for dirty lust filled adventures, unbounded at it's best. So skanky hoe in bed, and maybe mind. But always a princess too. Admirers (truthful ones) will treat you as the best, princess, sexual goddess, Venus. So hope you have controlled that gagging reflex sweet alluring majesty. Happy new year. Can always do with some training in curbing that nasty relfex HNY xx
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madotara69
12 years ago
mr madoI tried the princess approach with Tara three times.pass the sugar, sugar no responsepass the honey, honey no responsepass the tea, bag that was the line that won her heart
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RHP User
12 years ago
And because you should treat the princess like a whore .....and the whore like a princess Which is your preference??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I agree Freya. Individually those things are lovely and quiet frankly I see a lot of that as a normal part of a healthy relationship. Surprising your partner, giving each other massages, taking care of each other. But I am not a princess or a doll, nobody decides for me. If I have these things with someone it's because I love them and I enjoy being with them and its a partnership. I am a strong woman completely independent from you I choose. Does that make sense? I still find it odd and maybe even a little creepy that a stranger would send this message to me. You look like a doll......Still sacared of you,,, think Chucky
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Never received an email containing the word princess. Getting plenty with hun, babe, baby and sexy though... So again I ask: What am I doing wrong? Love the new photo Ms D
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am so haappy to put a face to those gorgeous legs.....but you scare me more than Meeka does
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh vomit! I hate all those lame messages! It never even occurs to these guys that women of my generation are more highly educated, have more senior jobs, higher salaries and greater wealth than them. It's pathetic to hear them make these offers. It's just whoring, whether any cash changes hands or not. The only currency I want from a guy is cock. He can keep his cash and ill keep mine.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You should EB and me when we are out! Although EB's strapon cock was bigger than mine. :-(
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RHP User
12 years ago
the thought of being treated like a Queen,minions doing my bidding,peasants all eating cake,....a rather superior cheesecake I think,...my personal body guards all standing to attention as I inspect them....mmmmm yes I should definitely like that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I try to treat all people with honesty and respect.Even the ones who can be rude and miss guided.I tend to believe that you put a vibe out in life and you attract the vibe you put out. If you put out a sleaze vibe you attract a sleaze.Go into a chat room and say " i want cock/pussy" and see the people you attract.They will be the same people as the vibe you put out.I think its wrong to hold people and judge them on one letter/action ,as we all have different feelings when we write or even post in forums.As for treating a lady like a Princess , that is an evolution in getting to know someone ,you just don't whip the crown out on the first date ,but if you connect with someone what's wrong with treating your lover in a chivalrous manner.Doing something for someone you love in this day and age can mean living out a fantasy and also going on dates.If you are an open minded person and you lover asks to be tied up and gag balled ,i see that as honesty fulfilling a fantasy.Nothing wrong with that ,live laugh and lust in life is my saying :)My letter's usually go along the lines of my name ,what i like ,my attitude towards life ,and leave it up to them if they would like to reply to me.So break out the Vibe and enjoy 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
i love to be treated like a princess infact its the only way i will accept
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'the thought of being treated like a Queen,minions doing my bidding,peasants all eating cake,....a rather superior cheesecake I think,...my personal body guards all standing to attention as I inspect them....mmmmm yes I should definitely like that. You know what happened to the last sexy minx who said 'let them eat cake' ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just love to live dangerously,I have been known to loose my head a few times,now where is that damned cake
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RHP User
12 years ago
For those that choose to lump ALL guys on the same heap, you are inadvertently bagging yourself. Illogical, yet not surprising really. Do the rhp community a favour and speak for yourself only............ As for the topic, not all women want to be princesses, not all men want to treat women like princesses. Not to mention the many and varied interpretations of treating a women like a princess. Treating someone like a princess has nothing to do with whipping out the Amex for a couple overseas tickets. People that equate money, gifts etc with being treated respectfully are way off. Rather than offer to treat someone like a princess, I'd rather tell them that I intend to treat them exactly how they want to be treated, And more importantly I treat them how they treat me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71'I am so haappy to put a face to those gorgeous legs.....but you scare me more than Meeka does Whats soo scary about me when Im bound and helpless.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Torturedcliche'For those that choose to lump ALL guys on the same heap, you are inadvertently bagging yourself. Illogical, yet not surprising really. Do the rhp community a favour and speak for yourself only............ As for the topic, not all women want to be princesses, not all men want to treat women like princesses. Not to mention the many and varied interpretations of treating a women like a princess. Treating someone like a princess has nothing to do with whipping out the Amex for a couple overseas tickets. People that equate money, gifts etc with being treated respectfully are way off. Rather than offer to treat someone like a princess, I'd rather tell them that I intend to treat them exactly how they want to be treated, And more importantly I treat them how they treat me. Bags being in the middle!!! Who's with me??
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RHP User
12 years ago
i love treating my patner like a princess when we go out! pay for the dinner, open the door and little things like that. not that she can't pay for her own or has a broken hand, but it's a way to respect a lady and show her your affection. she is a classy lady afterall..the world is full of different ppl, some like to drink champagne and eat strawberries..some like having a good old victoria bitter and eating..hmm, i wouldn't know. my point is, there is nothing wrong to be treated like a princes or lady, but what you have describe on top is more bribe to get you into bed as trating someone like a princess must come from the heart..not the dick. mr passion.
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jensta
12 years ago
Quoting 'msgoodietwoshoes' i love to be treated like a princess infact its the only way i will accept I think sometimes People think to much about why, If, but & maybe ... to me its just go with it & Enjoy the ride
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a single girl profile, I used to roll my eyes at such messages also and move on. However, I must admit to throughtly enjoying being treated like a princess by Mr Fun these days. I am not really referring to the "material" idea of spoiling, many can do that. Its the small (and some not so small) things: acts of thoughtfulness and kindness, always being there, opening doors, knowing what wine I like and having one ordered for me, knowing I will get cold so always keeping a spare jacket in the car for me............these are the kinds of things I enjoy and appreciate:) All of this must be combined with very naughty behaviour also! Ms Fun.
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RHP User
12 years ago
our take on this is that if the guy wants to treat his gal 'like a princess'....then good on him......thats a half way attractive trait to have...... but if the gal demands to be treated this way.....then nup....no way is that even remotely attractive........
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' In the context of emails sent to women in here....... a man, proposing to treat a complete stranger like a 'princess'..... when he has no idea about her whatsoever.... Putting a stranger on a pedestal? Treating her like a rare and valuable gem when for all he knows... she's toxic, poison.... kryptonite (or dare I say it... even a man pretending to be a woman!!!!)Sorry....... That just strikes me as odd.... And definitely less than masculine. My view is that guys offering up this principle of princess status to a stranger, are simply doing it because they've been trained by their mothers and the media to think this is what women want to hear..... as a means of getting what they want without actually knowing how to get it.And yet.... they see it doesn't work..... but they keep doing it.What was it Einstein said about the definition of insanity?!DGI give in DG, What did he say? I am passoinatly curious, the guy was a genius. Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
A princess in my minds eye is a woman who sits there and smiles, looks pretty and does needlework……however saying this. After 14 years on my own……life just trough you this challenges and then you see what you are made of. You stand up from this knockbacks and face it head on……not princess like at all. I can’t stand women who relay solely on men to get going in life. But then NOW at this stage oooooohhh where is the Knight on the black horse with the big sword???? SPOIL ME NOW I don’t mind a man who spoils me a bit, with strawberries and champagne, a poem or just fucking good writing, I don’t mind it now and then.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You have really been disillusioned by men since joining RHP, haven't you? LOL. Again to the princesses in the audience I am not saying I don't like to be spoiled on occasion as long as I can return the favour. As for presents and expensive dinners. Nope I couldn't accept that I am to independent. I want an equal partnership, plus I always pay my own way! Oops yes less of a man? Yes I don't think I could respect a man who thinks of women this way. The term princess does not have a positive connotation to me in this context. A princess is demanding, difficult and assumes that it's her right to be treated this way without giving back. In fact just hard work. Yes, that is a generalization I know.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its probably all the botty bonking you do babe. Manified your romantic gland. Now your idea of romance is a "hi", a peck on the cheek and then completely anally dominating your new conquest, having them begging you for more/less/yeah just like that.I have the same problem.69 me, first. Then I'll think about dining and wine.RA
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RHP User
12 years ago
I always picture a guy who will peel my grapes then massage my feet whilel I drink champagne. A submissive guy in fact.... Just not my thing. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just your point on insanity. Who said that this in fact doesn't work for them. I can guarantee that there are women out there who are starving for some affection. So you you shouldn't assume because that makes an ass out of you. That's all. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Come on RA, I will treat you like a princess if you let me bend you over the dinner table and show you some lovin. Why not? I will no doubt end up paying for dinner after all. ^_^
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately I may not be strong enough to rip off your tighty whities but I can certainly pull them to the side. Reowwwww ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
In fact if some guy started treating me like that, doing it all for me, pampering me I would be running the proverbial mile. Firstly I would be very very suspicious of thier behaviour. Why would a man subjugate themselves in such a way? The old furry lassoo and the promise of a fuck if you are a good boy cant be that powerful surely? . Yet it has been my experience that the Princesses amongst us manage to capture the man. They need to watch out though because while these Knights are treating their fair ladies like the Princess they want to be, those Knights are usually out there tumbling in the hay with the occassional Handmaiden....and enjoying the uncomplicated sex without all the bullshit that goes with it. The truth is that a Princess is too much hard work. . I have gender specific roles in my relationship and that is the way we like it BUT...we have emotional, financial and intellectual equality......and that is the way that I like it. When we go out...He pays. He opens the door and he always drives. He wears the pants but I am the one who picks out which ones he will wear. There is nothing wrong with respect and I get that. But what you ladies who are in favour of all this princess behaviour are discribing is just down right smarmy and THAT is what I dont trust. Yes there is the school of though that goes.. . "I have the pussy so I make the rules." . Ladies I say to you.. . You may be sitting on a gold mine but your vagina is not actually lined with gold so dont act like it is!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '2_passion_fruits' i love treating my patner like a princess when we go out! pay for the dinner, open the door and little things like that. not that she can't pay for her own or has a broken hand, but it's a way to respect a lady and show her your affection. she is a classy lady afterall.. I'm all for the behaviour your describing, but do not see how that would be treating a woman like a princess. As a friend of mine on here would say: That's just being a MAN. I agree with Meeka, the word Princess just makes me think of someone high maintenance.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As I was the only one who commented on your comment you must mean me? All I said was, apart from agreeing with you, is that this probably does work for them. It's a numbers game, send that email out a hundred times and you will get some positive responses. I think you are assuming that these guys never learn & that this strategy will go nowhere and they will never get a date. My point is that they will most likely find what they are looking for... So who are we to judge? There are men and women who want this. It's like this guy who would regularly send me this message. "Want to fuck? I am in Newtown my number is 04xxxxxx" he had no photo and a generic profile. Finally I responded with. Seriously does that work for you, you fucktard. Actually that wasn't his handle, it was Hunglikeagreekdonkey. So he replied that yes it did, particularly on Friday and Saturday nights around 2-3 am. From memory he said that 1 in 10 emails would be a positive response to his want to fuck message. Therefore my point, don't assume they are all stupid, as you usually do, because they may in fact be getting exactly what they deserve. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
And thank you for your patronising comment above. The little woman can think sometimes, wow who would have thunk it. :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will treat her how she wants me to treat her simple ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
i dont like Princess, sounds pouty and bratty.I like the sound of candles dinner music tender soft touches gazing across a crowded room and feel the sexual tension with your partner
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Lifes_great
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Oh my god... If a man pulled out a saxophone and started serenading me during dinner I think I would piss my pants with laughter... Or die of embarrassment. :P Mind you they are only RHP guests so maybe a recorder might be more the go. Hahahaha .....these are my thoughts 1. Maybe you aren't a romantic type of person.....or maybe romance blooms in other forms for you. 2. Some guys may think this is what every woman wants and therefore see as a surefire way to score. I personally think you need to know someone in order 'spoil' them. Spoiling you might mean something that includes whips, handcuffs and a strapon whilst for someone else it is tickets to a concert, skydiving, wrestling crocodiles... 3. For some women this is what floats their boat. Each to their own but I think an intial message saying they will spoil you is a crock of shit.
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RHP User
12 years ago
1. Am I just a unromantic type? - No, I just don't believe you need to be told how someone is going to treat you. 2. Do men say this because they think that is what women want? Do men enjoy going out with a princess? Do men like it? - There are all types. In general I can believe a man will say it because they think that is what a woman wants to hear. I will treat anyone with as much respect and kindness as they deserve, but "princesses" just annoy me in general.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ninjaxxx' Oh vomit! I hate all those lame messages! It never even occurs to these guys that women of my generation are more highly educated, have more senior jobs, higher salaries and greater wealth than them. It's pathetic to hear them make these offers. It's just whoring, whether any cash changes hands or not. The only currency I want from a guy is cock. He can keep his cash and ill keep mine. nice one ninja only pleasure the rest is not important but help to feel more confortable and ready.beny
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know that a lot of people don't actually comment on the forums, and may I suggest to you that your external sources are probably all from a similar back grounds to you, etc so most likely not representative of all of the women on RHP. Well, unless you deal with a wide selection of the public in your every day life? You know beyond Mosman. Lol. Besides I am sure alcohol would have played an enormous part.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yep you do it all the time. Sorry I just can't let your comments go without commenting! I am sure we would fight like cat & dog in real life. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll call larry king shall I?? I can picture it now...DG and his two fingers...Meeks and her strap on :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bring it! Maybe we should duke it out in a pool of jelly?
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RHP User
12 years ago
my sketchbook ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It always depents the direction you are looking..Straight or up....And it is not only a woman's thing... Some men also want's to be tread like a real king or like the small agly frog which waits for the princess's kiss. I know sad but true.... Yes I admit that have send messages around to some profiles that got my attention(with or without a photo)after reading carefully and not standing in their photos and how they look... And yes I did not succeed nothing and the reason is because I dont have a photo in my profile....So I am a bit comfused in my smallness because when some profiles say mentall, romantic, enjoy life, smiling, conversation, adventure, flirt etc, how all this conected to a photo ? I know that women are visual creatures... but guess what....men are too.... Princesses or Cinderellas they are all equal to me because they re women and I repsect them no matter what they do, even if they say to me "Thank you for your email but i am bussy lately".My Kisses to princess and my Hugs to cinderellas :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
many women like to see a pic because without one ,they think you are trying to hide something...married ,attached,cereal killer,etc.I have and will continue to meet my subjects who have no pic because I am not a princess.HRH Queen Freya to you lot
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RHP User
12 years ago
But what is a queen whithout a king.... Just a little tiny princess :)Sweet Freya I have no queen because i haven 't found her yet.... and you still remain a princess for me...sorry for that.... it can be only one queen :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now that I see your picture in the avatar.....How can I understand if you are the Queen of Bitches or the recarnation of mother Tereza ?
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
My nic name is Princess! Has been for years! Am I a princess, some say fuck no, others say yes!
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi! Meeka thanks for your topic:) I'm no ones Princess I get those MSGs to at times.. My feeling is they want a Woman who's very happy to remain barefoot and Pregnant in the Home . Nothing wrong with that but I prefer an equal Relationship casual or more..However on saying that I am the eternal Romantic I love to be pampered and appreciated by my Guy for the awesome Woman I am ..As I do treat him in return works for me and All Concerned a win win ..mmmmmm:) Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I state flat out in my profile that if guys are looking for a princess then they should move on. Perhaps it's the negative connotations that the word has attracted but I can't stand that statement from guys that they will "treat a woman like a princess". I see this as distinct from the situation where a guy in a relationship will spoil his partner every now and again, not necessarily with expensive gifts but with thoughtful actions, and this is something that should also be a two-way street as a girl should spoil her partner sometimes as well. But as a single woman I certainly don't need or want to be treated like a princess....what I need is respect for both my mind and body, interesting conversation and intellectual stimulation, treatment like I am an equal to you, and of course I need plenty of hot and horny sex
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