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RHP National Meet & Greet
May 25 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
I havent booked yet. Just trying to syncronise another trip to include this one.How much is it?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Cost : $120 per person which includes a 4 hour drinks & food package.
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RHP User
9 years ago
For a night out, in a private function suite, all food and drink included plus we have hired a DJ and a photo booth, I think its very reasonable. Oh, not forgetting the raffles and prizes. Ive had nights out costing a lot more and they have been ho hum whereas with the M and Gs you know you will be partying with like minded people and it will be a fun night overall. Dont forget, this isnt paid for by RHP, a lot of organising has gone into this and Precious has paid all the deposits to secure the venue and entertainment. We dont gain financially from any events, we do this because we love to see everyone meeting up and having a great time. Hope you all can make it, we have limited numbers so would be a shame to lose out xxx
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RHP User
9 years ago
We were told about this by friends and were really looking forward to it, but we've never spent that much money on a night out. 240 bucks, that's just not financially doable with kids and everything..Sadly that rules us out. Have fun, everyone who can afford this. Mister SA.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That RHP haven't helped with any sponsorship,I am fairly certain they helped out with the Brisbane one last year. For interstate people the cost of travel and accommodation plus the $120 may be prohibitive.Q
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Mr_MrsAraps
9 years ago
Especially prohibitive for couples which would be $240 ..... And not really drinkers ..... on top of flights and accom. Don't get me wrong Koko and precious that a lot of effort an planning goes into these things and you can't please everybody. Prob now prices me out of coming :-( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
They are being supportive .... we met with them recently...but the initial fiancial outlay was already implemented. We decided on Adelaide as its central and you csn get fairly cheap flights ( or arrange a group road trip! ) There is discount on rooms booked at the hotel?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have some idea of what a thankless task this can be,I saw how much time energy and effort On Safari put in to three highly successful meet and greets in Brisbane. I wish you all the best for the night which I know has been highly anticipated by many Q
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Seachange
9 years ago
good to see things are on the move. Knowing you and Precious, I am sure you both have put in a lot of thought and effort in organizing this. I know that RHP wanted you guys to organize this meet and have it in Adelaide so to be central to everybody. I am quite surprised they have not subsidize or sponsored this as it is a good marketing tool for them at the expense of the members. i commend you guys for taking up the challenge of bringing people together. I have not planned anything yet but I think that is a lot of money for a full time working mother with 2 teenage boys in school (one in Universtity) considering the airfare and accommodation for 2-3 nights that weekend, plus food and meet fee. I hardly drink so I would be a cheap shout. I think that rules me out. I am very sure you guys will have lots of fun and get to all sorts at the meet. I can't wait to hear about it on here. ENJOY!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I doubt any of us who havent ever organised a meet&greet would have any idea how much time and effort goes into making it all happen smoothly. Thanks for the commitment ladies.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The money doesn't bother me...the date does, as it doesn't align with my R&R. 😖😖😖 I am not ruling it out though. It really comes down to the guestlist me. I want to meet some of the people (male & female) that I have come to think of as friends through the forums. So it depends on who is going of those that I really would like to see face to face. TBA
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RHP User
9 years ago
* comes down to the guestlist FOR me. (oops)
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
that organised many Meet & Greet drinks nights in Melbourne in the early days, I do know what is involved in behind the scenes, the time and effort to ensure a fun night out. All of our nights were free of charge to rhpers...the only cost being what they chose to spend . Many venues were more than happy to give a room free of charge as they were guaranteed a large bar spend over the evening. I do congratulate you on sticking your collective necks out to plan a national Meet & Greet. I am not kinda shocked at the $120 cover price....I am more appalled....you have effectively priced the night out of the reach of many, local and interstate. Pretty sure there are some local (Sth Aussies) who would have been happy to find a no hire charge venue on your behalf. Is it too late for any changes?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I too have payed for airfare and accomodation. I have to say if I had known back then that I had to pay another $120 to attend, I probably would have saved the money. I'm hoping I can cancel flights and get a refund. 😞 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The flurry of negativity. It seems that $120 is "appalling" to pay for a great night out. Getting things into perspective, we chose a nice venue with a city view because we wanted it to be special. Made sure all food, drinks and entertainment was included (this means spirits as well as beer and wine). How many of us have been on a date where just a dinner and good wine has cost well over $200? Most of us, Id imagine. Im not disappointed at some of the comments, just surprised. Its going to be a fabulous night whatever, and I am looking forward to meeting many new faces.
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
must give you an idea that not everyone lives your lifestyle of spending well over $200 on dinner and wine Koko. I truly dont believe that is the norm for many....especially anyone with kids. I go to a Meet & Greet to meet people, not look at the view. In the past, many Meet & Greets have been inclusive of all members...to enable people of all soci-economic circumstances to attend. Personally I find $120 for food (nibbles I presume) and drink over the top. It places a fun Meet & Greet into the "Exclusive" range. Who needs a DJ these days when hooking up most peoples playlist on their phones to a speaker is fabulous. I am not trying to put a damper on the evening....just pointing out what many others think.
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RHP User
9 years ago
My lifestyle doesnt consist of $200 dinners, I have just gone back to work after struggling for 6 months of being unemployed. I have been lucky to meet some great guys who have spoiled me, sure. I meant that some of us have spent that on a night out before, in fact most of us probably have. Your post is a nasty personal dig, for what reason Im not sure? I have to laugh at your last line..because thats exactly what you are trying to do. We have had quite a bit of interest already, and as I said, Im looking forward to a fun night. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but nothing will spoil it for me, personally.
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
I have no idea how you take my comments as a nasty personal dig. Pointing out some facts....not just my thoughts, friends who have also expressed the same-similar opinion...nothing to do with you personally at all. Anyone who has ever organised and event, whether its RHP or real life, knows there is always plenty of interest....when it comes down to the last minute numbers there are always plenty of no shows. Plenty of interest never ensures attendance. You may want to re-think your defensive mode and actually consider some of the thoughts of the other posters . I dont see them as negative....just being realistic.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Be hard pressed to find a positive post from you. Only time you post is to have a crack at someone. Koko and Precious have obviously worked hard at getting things together. Your first post was sufficient to let your thoughts known. Come back for second go is a bit much
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RHP User
9 years ago
I really wanted to come but I have to agree its well out of my price range I dont think I've personally ever spend 120 dollars on a dinner a drinks ..but like summer said then its flights and accom too.. then if i was going to go I dont want to spend all that money or go all that way to just stay one night so you add in extra night or twos accom and you're getting up there price wise. I dont drink at all so there is no benefit of the drinks package for me on a personal level and I have a stack of food allergies so I'm unlikely to be able to eat the food either even if they do cater to allergies I'm a difficult one to work around . Also I'm wondering if those who do drink will get really really drunk given the package includes spirits as well . $120 a head is to me - what you would expect to pay for a wedding reception . I really do appreciate all the work that has gone into it and I'm not trying to be a downer at all.. but its pretty much priced me out of it :( I hope those that do go have a wonderful night x
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RHP User
9 years ago
i hope my post isn't taken as I'm having a go, I'm truly not and struggled to word it so that it doesn't come across like that , so hopefully it doesn't seem that way. Kudos to the organisers for putting in the time and effort to plan it.
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
was used by Koko Annie, I simply repeated it. If you read the thread you will see I am not the only who has expressed their thoughts on the $. You may also see the part where I congratulated them for taking on the task of organising the evening. Since when has it been crime to respond to a comment directed at me? Some of your good mates have also responded with their concerns.....why have you isolated my comments and not theirs? I do wish everyone who can afford to attend, a fabulous evening -weekend.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Because you had a go at me because of "my lifestyle" Considering you dont know me or what my lifestyle consists of, it was a pointless and unecessary dig. Others only pointed out that they had issues with the price not how I was leading my life. You have no idea! Anyway...peeps! This post was put up in happy anticipation.....and thats how its going to stay, no more negativity please? If you have issues with the cost, sorry, but it is all arranged and we cant change anything at this stage. Just hope most of you can make it. Annie, cant wait to meet you and your significant other xx Ive seen the wildest shoes in the local Salvos...
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Way2go70
9 years ago
Do not, and I repeat do not, take aim at Koko over anything. I know her very well and she has an absolute heart of gold. I know that both she and Precious would have agonised over the cost because like most of us money doesn't come easy and she will have to find that too and flights and accomodation. What they have done is try to balance a mediocre night at a corner pub that is free to everyone but subject to the rest if the public being there to a wonderful private venue where for that special one time we can all go and have a really good time. Dress up, suit and tie, ball gown and heels, and enjoy an experience that we will remember and talk about for quite some time. Kudos to them for putting their beautiful hands up and organising this. I for one will be going and will have a fab time. Hello Adelaide :-)
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
I am sorry you read my comment as a dig at your lifestyle. Once again, I was using your words , not mine. Your inclusive use of "many of us" includes you. I can only comment on what words I see on a page, I am not a mind reader.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
I know your situation and for Ruby to assume you were a $200 meal girl is far off the mark. As they say about "Assume"....... Makes an ASS out of U and Me
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RHP User
9 years ago
I didn't see your comments as negative. I agree that the cost is prohibitive to interstate people. Not sure why most people would fly interstate to party with like minded people when you can do that at home?
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RHP User
9 years ago
You are being very unfair in your comments. I assumed the same. The comment was how many of us have spent $200 on a night out. What else were we to assume??
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
just to clarify a point.... I did not assume anything. Merely quoted what Koko said "How many of us have been on a date where just a dinner and good wine has cost well over $200? Most of us, Id imagine.
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RHP User
9 years ago
the $120 price tag is ok if the food is good (I don't drink) but I will be in Europe anyway :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
New post going up....".expensive dinner dates." Lets keep this to the M and G.......
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precious142
9 years ago
I am having a wine and trying to figure out what all the fuss is about.......seriously! Save the Date forum was posted so that those interested in attending could view and book flights/accomodation etc. in advance. There is always alternative accomodation...haven't there been meets where 10 or more shared a house for the w/end? And whats wrong with bunking up with local RHP ers? BTW Summer.....all of us interstaters (who choose to attend) have costs to bear, so you are not an orphan there, OK? The $120 cost for drinks, food and entertainment is good value. No lining up at the bar for drinks - Sparkling, wines, premium beers, cider & spriits (waiter service), food platter and hot canapes a plenty.........beats baskets of hot chips, soggy shapes and homebrand dip and cheese! Bottom line is........if this is an Event you would like to attend, by all means register and we look forward to seeing you there Time to top up the wine now , me thinks!
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precious142
9 years ago
Quoting 'Willow_1' Yes I doubt any of us who havent ever organised a meet&greet would have any idea how much time and effort goes into making it all happen smoothly. Thanks for the commitment ladies. Your comments are appreciated..TY! Hope we get to meet you in Adelaide and have a glass of bubbles with you! K & P x
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Aristippusx2
9 years ago
We are going because for us it is a unique event. The work to organize a NATIONAL meet is to be commended. Lets ensure any feedback is not personal . Whether you choose to attend is up to you. Perhaps an informal event at lunchtime Saturday in one of the magnificent parks in Adelaide?
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Ill skip of into the yonder........
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
The 2 of us will see you all in October. We will have no trouble in drinking our $240 worth. And we can blame Koko and Precious for the hangover
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RHP User
9 years ago
I know what a big task it can be organising events, so I don't want to come across as just taking potshots from the peanut gallery. Trouble with a bigger door charge is people have some motivation to try "drinking their money's worth" and so you're more likely to have more sloppy drunks. At a normal night out I'd just eat a little before going out, drink what I'm comfortable with and my spend is as little or as much as I dictate. At the Brisbane M&G there were a stack of "RHP sponsor" tokens that could be exchanged for a free beer/wine - everyone got a couple and it was a good way of getting a sponsor's face in front of people and limiting freebies rather than just "X amount is on the bar" and people racing to drain it. (Maybe ya'll book two nights, wear camelbacks and REALLY knock them back for a few hours into the camelhumps, then play goon of fortune on Sunday ;) ) I think there is a mismatch of expectations, most M&G's have been going to an existing venue for free/near free - something like those big "white" parties around NYE where you have thousands of people, big DJ's and from the outset you expect a ticket price commensurate with a "for profit" venture (which isn't to say you're making profit, fixed costs really add up, particularly when you can't be certain of the exact income - that's why I'm advocating removal of fixed costs. I don't know how possible that is given the venue hire required to be at Rydges). I would say that it doesn't sound like they've given you much if any discount off their wedding hire prices when you consider how much less setup and knockdown is required when you don't have to do all the fabric covered tables, chairs and place settings and 3 course meals (and that people will be booking out their hotel - IIRC there is a booking code so they can see just how much extra spend they're receiving). I'm pretty shocked if RHP aren't coming to the party in a big way to throw a bone back to the community they make their money from.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Is the cost $129 really the main issue?? Money has no price or value if one is having a great time. Smiles and laughter are free. I know for a fact, there is a lot of behind the scene support, not just by Koko and precious. I have attended quite a few social events organised by Perth Socialites. For $120, I'm sure Perth Socialites have put some thought, consideration and arranged the best they could to cater for everyone. I'm sure it was first announced in Jan 2016. It's still 5mths away. Let's support Perth Socialites. Ms Foxy x
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Oops I added $9 GST! If only we could claim it on Tax. 😂 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Also appreciate the amount of work and your time that must go into organising such an event. However, my 2 cents is that this isn't catering for the different socio economic backgrounds or the financial restraints people find themselves in. That's a massive amount of money to me, and would be for many others. I've never spent that much on a night out and I also wouldn't be interested in drinking, not much anyway, a few would do, and I agree with on_the _loose, I think people might drink more than they normally would, just to get their money's worth. Alcohol, or too much of it, in this kind of situation, wouldn't appeal to me. I can put a few away, don't get me wrong, but never do when I'm meeting men or women, when I want to be sexy All people want is the opportunity to meet, no frills required, although I'm convinced your intentions are committed and noble. Ruby_blossom raised valid points, and I didn't read her comments as deliberately negative or personal, she just had the courage to post her honest thoughts. Most definitely not a personal attack, pointing out the issues with the cost, isn't attacking the organisers, just offering constructive feedback, that, if it were me, I'd be taking on board, all due respect. I don't want to get into a cat fight over this but Ruby wasn't the one being nasty here, my 2 cents
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RHP User
9 years ago
you said "Money has no price or value if one is having a great time". How exactly do you figure that ? I have a great time all the time and do it for nothing. Couple of drinks and a bowl of chips would do me, the company would be the reason I'd be there. I do agree with "smiles and laughter are free" but an odd reference when it immediately followed your first statement?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Is the cost $129 really the main issue?? Money has no price or value if one is having a great time. Smiles and laughter are free. well.. yes actually it is the main issue for me .. and many others. . while smiles and laughter might be free- the event is not - which is understandable but i dont think its unreasonable that some are having an issue with affording the event. Yes, the event was announced in January but we didn't at that point have an idea of costs (understandably) , being five months away doesn't change much for me personally . I dont think anyone is denying that a lot of thought and planning has been put into it people are just merely expressing that they are surprised at the cost. Anyway I hope those who go have a blast - certainly sounds well organised !
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Seachange
9 years ago
flights 200accom 300 (min)x-fers100m&g120food 80park100other 100total $1,000 (GST inclusive ) and unfortunately spending $1000 for 2 nights away will be too much for me as my kids' school fees and expenses come as priority. I would dearly love the party like with everybody and support the Perth Socialize but being a single working mum, that $1000 will go a long way to help pay for bills. I envy those who are more financially fluid than i because they do not have kids living at home to feed, house, cloth or school fees/extra curricular fees to worry about. Good for you but try to see things my way and every parents' way. Kids are our priority. I have been to a few interstate meet and greets and truly enjoyed meeting lots of people and reconnecting with some old faces. Fantastic stuff and great work by all the organizers. Perth people are great. and the Qld people are great too. Not to mention the melb crew who have organized great meets and greets at minimal costs at fantastic bars in melb (by the river). However, work has taken me there and it has made it easier to attend the meets. I hope I don't look like I am making my decision without justification and just sounding negative. Not my intention. Just doing my budget and relating it back to my overall budget for entertainment. So please enjoy the event for what it is. It should be a fun night for everyone attending. I would have built a business case to get RHP part with a small slice of the marketing spend (which could be part of their operational expediture and is tax deductible) to encourage a bigger attendance. wouldn't that be great RHP? what say you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are actually involved but I am not going to say in which capacity. To the people who are coming....lets enjoy what will be a great night. Drinks inclusive does not mean everyone will get smashed...thats quite ridiculous. And why are people who never go to meet and greets or social events being so vocal? Who would have thought that the posting of a happy event would attract such critical feedback? Gotta love the forums .... xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I mean it lightheatedly. I love the forums and this is just an example of how diverse they can be! XX
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precious142
9 years ago
Anyone know what time it closes?? Need to get cleaners there for a good clean out...BAMM...and they're gone!!!! Looking back at the Save the Date post........everyone was made aware that this M & G was to be held in Adelaide CBD so in all honesty, I fail to see what's the issue now.......if you want to go you of course there are airfares and accomodation to pay! Annie, see you at breakfast on the Sunday - Mimosas and all !!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Are actually involved but I am not going to say in which capacity. To the people who are coming....lets enjoy what will be a great night. Drinks inclusive does not mean everyone will get smashed...thats quite ridiculous. And why are people who never go to meet and greets or social events being so vocal? Who would have thought that the posting of a happy event would attract such critical feedback? Gotta love the forums .... xx I don't mean everybody getting trashed, but just look at any place you have unlimited access - weddings or American buffets. Hardly models of self restraint and decorum when looked at en masse. I don't know who doesn't go to M&Gs, but a majority of comments have been from ppl who have done their fair share of local and interstate M&G-ing. I'm sure it will be a great night for everyone there. Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Is the cost $129 really the main issue?? Money has no price or value if one is having a great time. Smiles and laughter are free. you still need to have the money available as disposable income before you can access those free smiles and lolz, some don't. I think the biggest reason for this pushback is that a substantial cover charge was a surprise - even if a fancy venue and night is the upshot, it's still a surprise.
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RHP User
9 years ago
or are there other options? I sat on water at the major meet and greet in Perth and had an awesome time. I rarely drink and think I might not be alone. I'm not able to come anyway, but can see how it can sound like a lot to non-drinkers. Loved the venue etc for the Perth one and thought it was great value.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Is the cost $129 really the main issue?? Money has no price or value if one is having a great time. Smiles and laughter are free. I know for a fact, there is a lot of behind the scene support, not just by Koko and precious. I have attended quite a few social events organised by Perth Socialites. For $120, I'm sure Perth Socialites have put some thought, consideration and arranged the best they could to cater for everyone. I'm sure it was first announced in Jan 2016. It's still 5mths away. Let's support Perth Socialites. Ms Foxy x Yes, we found that forum, but so? There was no mention of any cost. I feel for the people who have commented who booked flights and accommodation and now don't know what to do. :-(Mr SA
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
My comments may have been construed that we support excessive alcohol intake. I was merely suggesting that i believe the event as reasonable value for money. Food for a nightout, $20 -40. Drinks are $8-10 at bar prices. A non pissy night for me would be 8-10 drinks Perhaps not for everyone if you dont drink but compare it to other events in life. Weddings etc where you have to buy a present. Plenty of clubs (including swingers) where you have door charge and then food and drinks at bar prices. If you are traveling interstate there are the cost of travel and accomodation, perhaps $1000 then the event cost is 10% of your spend. Its all relevant in the big picture.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Personally, to attend would cost airfare, accom, car hire and some lost hours of work. By comparison, $120 is small part of the cost. And I can easily rationalize that against $90, for a single male, to get into a club of people that I have no connection with. As stated before, it is worth it to me to meet those that I do know, through the forums. That is what makes this night special.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can't go because of the timing, but even if I could the cost would be prohibitive for me as well. I also don't see a problem with people expressing their opinions about the cost (in a polite and reasonable manner of course). I feel that the organisers are taking the comments about the cost as being personal attacks but I haven't seen anything I would consider to be a personal attack on this thread. Of course people realise that there is a lot of work involved in organising a M & G, but that has no bearing on the cost of the event. It seems that the amount of work involved is being used as a justification in the 'stop your whinging' comments, but that's just conflating issues. Anyway, I hope the people who do attend have a great time.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I will be in NYC at the time. I scored return flights for $1100. How good are the deals at the moment!! :)))))
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have no issues at all with people saying they cant afford it. I have been putting money past for the Adelaide M and G. Im by no means well off and certainly dont lead a champagne lifestyle. My friends know that only too well! We just want the first National M and G to be a great night. It would have been very easy to do the pub venue with chips and dips but thats not what we had in mind when we spoke about a big National Meet away back in 2015. Thanks to the guys who have said they hope its a great night. We will make sure of that. I am so excited about meeting some of the interstaters I have been chatting to on here. Oh and we had to cancel the Walk for Cancer due to the weather on the day. We are now having a Quiz night to compensate. Details will be up soon but its on the 25th June and again, its a kid friendly event. xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
So does that mean when Brisbane and Sydney have M&G nights only people from that state can attend??
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RHP User
9 years ago
Same with Perth last year....so I suppose the first official National M and G :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
to all lovely people I met on the forums. And whilst I appreciate the amount of effort put into organizing this event I cannot go. I would fly from NSW and whilst I can get free flights (hurrayyyy) I would still be paying for my hotel room (no way I am bunking with anyone - safety first!) then having to pay 120 to attend an event - that is not affordable for me. Aside from the entry fee I am concerned that given this sounds to be a "suit and tie" dress up night for which I would not fit the bill. Furthermore I am concerned of events sponsored by RHP because I do not want to end up on any marketing photographs for RHP (or any other company of business interest for that matter) I truly enjoyed myself at the meet and greet in SYD last year - which was held at an "upscale pub" - nothing over the top but good mid range quality pub. Everyone got their own drinks and meals, there were no "official photographers" "stalking" the crowd - everyone had a great and relaxed time. The singles meet and greet in MEL was the same earlier the year. They had collected a small fee to help funding event (I recall it was 5 or 10AUD in an honesty box) and most people spent at the bar (drinks and meal). I appreciate the effort gone into organizing this annual meet and greet but unfortunately I cannot go. Wishing all of those who can go are having a fantastic night regards
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RHP User
9 years ago
...as I did a rough costing and similarly came out with numbers between $500-$600 even going easy on any personal spending. Throw in taxis, other meals etc. and it does go in the ''to expensive'' basket quite quickly. Whilst SA may be some sort of geographical midpoint, I would think a location closer to the major population centres around Oz may be a future option. This is a big piece of real estate with a small population. Best of luck to all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The $120 cost for drinks, food and entertainment is good value. Tickets to Coldplay's NSW concert start from 102AUD I reckon there is a difference between paying almost 120AUD for a night of concert and show vs 120 AUD for drinks and food package- each to their own but I certainly cannot afford 120AUD on drinks and food. I would attend the meet and greet for a 50AUD of drink and food package - but anything over 50AUD is far too expensive for me. Nevertheless, I do hope it will be a great night for all who attend.
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RHP User
9 years ago
No one is saying "stop your whinging" ? Its a personal choice. We have organised a night out, and if people really want to be there they will. Theres no ...." You have to go" clause anywhere. I chose not to go and see Prince because tickets were $500. I wanted to go and see Justin Timberlake so I saved up. One of my friends said to me that she wouldnt waste $250 on a ticket to see JT, but she happily puffs away that amount of money on ciggies every month. To me thats a waste of money? Different perspectives. As I said, thanks to all the well wishers for your support. We HAVE put a lot of effort into this, we wanted it to be special, and RHP are involved but thats all Im going to say for now. We will have people there from the management for sure.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just thought I'd stick my nose in here and say hi I've missed you all! Thanks to Koko and Precious for organising and trying to make this an event to remember. But I do sympathise with affordability issue. I was 100% in before hand like a few Brisbane friends I know and we've been dying to book in! But the price per head might rule me out. I don't want to fly down just for the one night and have to chuck myself back on the next flight out. And it isn't a lot of money for a fancy venue, food and grog. But for me that could be another nights accomodation to spend some quality time with people I wouldn't get the opportunity to otherwise if that makes sense? And there are quite a few non drinkers so I understand for them $120 is basically like paying a night club cover charge. I hope the people I have looked forward to meeting along with myself can manage somehow to scrape in and have a blast. If not - I'm sure we will all meet and some point and I hope everyone who goes has a blast. Camping might have to be my accommodation option 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
For those who know they are definitely going and are travelling from interstate - what nights/how many are you planning on staying?
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' you said "Money has no price or value if one is having a great time". How exactly do you figure that ? I have a great time all the time and do it for nothing. Couple of drinks and a bowl of chips would do me, the company would be the reason I'd be there. I do agree with "smiles and laughter are free" but an odd reference when it immediately followed your first statement? Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Is the cost $129 really the main issue?? Money has no price or value if one is having a great time. Smiles and laughter are free. you still need to have the money available as disposable income before you can access those free smiles and lolz, some don't. Personally, I find that comment above flippant Foxy. Obviously you do not have the burden or 'privilege' of supporting and housing a child at home thereby can be a bit more frivolous with your personal entertainment spend. Or sensitive to those in a different socio-economic bracket to yourself. Sure, smiles and laughter are great and is free. I can get that looking at my mirror in the morning (silly as it sounds), from having a drink or two with friends in the pub watching my footy team lose or hearing my boys' laughter and jokes when they are content with a great meal at home, coming home smiling from their guitar/art lessons/karate training or happy with their school because the school principal /university is not breathing down their throat for none-payment of the school fees or being able to attend out of school functions (school camps/expensive excursions, etc). Unfortunately, those free smiles and laughter quickly dissipates when we can't meet those commitments. ......... Last time I check, smiles and laughter are not tradable commodity in paying one's bills. I tried by my bank manager seems to have selective astigmatism when it comes to mortgage fees and credit card payments and can't see past the bills in front of them. . sorry to veering off topic Koko and you know I love your work, but I just have to say it as there is an element of shame there for making us sound we are whinging for no reason at all and minimizing our concerns. I'm done.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can't make it as I'll be away but just to throw it in the ring..... Sounds like a fantastic night and I'm not wealthy.... but $120 all inclusive I think is a good deal for a night out and if you were previously planning on traveling etc is $120 extra really all that much. Have a fantastic night all attendees 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
9 years ago
For giving yours times to organise such a large group of event! Especially to Precious142 for forking out money from your own pocket to secure the booking. It is a risk of losing money that an organiser takes if some people decided to pull out at last minute! I have been an event coordinator for all my adult life, I know what you guys are going through and so I salute to yours effort! :) I would go and give the M&G another go if I could. Unfortunately, it is just a mission impossible for me at this stage of my life while I have a high duty of care priority to commit to :) All the best PerthSocialites, hope it turns out as awesome as an organiser could anticipate and that you all have fun on the night :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
An option for the n0n drinkers that could be negotiated perhaps? ...Is the food ,finger food or a buffet meal? Guests can't seem to be able to register btw..xxQ
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Seachange
9 years ago
Lightbulb moment. I will start an online crowdsourcing fundraising to raise the funds for myself to attend this Adelaide Meet and Greet. I just need the right words to entice strangers from around the world to part with their money so I can have my share of the smiles and laughter, and food and drinks, of this momentous event. I better get a move on... will register my interest once the funds hit $800 (80% of target) of the $1000 target. Hmmm... what to say... 'Single working mother of two voracious and life-savings zapping teenage boys seeking help in lighting up my non-eventful sexual life and find my groove back. Doctors recommend a life-saving visit to an Adelaide sexual convention that will guarantee a definite 'injection' of sexual juices into this dying sexual cougar. Medical advice that pity fucks are better than NO fucks at all...... All monies accepted. Visa and Mastercard preferred. Heck, I will take anything of value from you. In return, I will send you private pics of any one on one, one on two, or group 'rehab' moments. " I think that should do...... Yep....I will get back to you in 2 months....
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Mr_MrsAraps
9 years ago
I think also with all the MnG's I have been to before, they have been free events so there is rightly or wrongly an expectation set from previous events in terms of cost. I was certainly thinking it was going to be a free night like past ones .... I do feel bad for people who have already booked flights and accom based on the original post earlier in the year (and expectations of previous MnG's being free events) who have now found out they now need to set aside an extra $120 or $240 on top of what money already spent. As I said before I congratulate Koko and everyone who are taking on the effort of putting on the event. As I am not going now I will bow out of this post and wish the people who are going a great night :-)
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Well, bus rental, fuel, meals enroute, nights accommodation, misc expenses, condoms, lube, tissues........ Cheaper to extend those airfares straight to Adelaide seeing as budget restraints may see Annie strapped to the roof for the sake of an extra seat and therefore additional cost sharing........
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RHP User
9 years ago
now that's a sight I'd like to see, Annie strapped to the roof
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RHP User
9 years ago
We got in early and have the option of cancelling the room we booked at Rydges. Sorry girls, hope its an absolute rip snorter of a night, but for $240 a couple, plus the fact Mrs3 would want a new dress to wear for the occassion for an extra $100 at least, on top of room and airfare costs, its just too much to bear. I know how much effort you've put into it and wish you the best of successes. Personally, I'm not one for a big grandiose event and would prefer a pub setting with piped in music and some light snacks, but thats more about me than anyone else. I hope the place has a dance floor ;) Cos believe me, if I was there I'd be cutting up a storm. Have fun all who can make the journey and the event. As our membership just lapsed we probably won't be around here in the same capacity much longer anyway so wishing everyone well and good fortune for the future. Take care and maybe we'll bump into each other somwhere down the beaten path in the future. xxxx The 3somes
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RHP User
9 years ago
For $120, I'm sure Perth Socialites have put some thought, consideration and arranged the best they could to cater for everyone. I'm sure it was first announced in Jan 2016. the fact that the Meet and Greet will be held in Adelaide was announced in Jan 2016 the fact that it would cost 120AUD to attend the event (I don't drink and could not care less about food) was only announced in this topic in May. Of course I could "save up" for the 120AUD entry price but I am not going to. I do not drink (may be 1 glass of cider) and hate posh food so out of the 120AUD I reckon I would "consume"approx 40-50AUD or so...so why am I paying 120 for? To walk a red carpet? Pleassseeee - the ikea carpet at my place is red :) To be in a position where a company can take pictures of me and use it for marketing-commercial purposes? Not my cup of tea. To be in "seen" - again not for me. This seems to be a case of "clash of expectations". My expectation of a meet and greet was that - a meet and greet with people hanging out at a pub-bar chatting or even playing Twister. My expectation does not include a fancy hotel bar - event room- with custom menu of food that is hard to understand in English.. It is breaking my heart as I was truly looking forward to this event (with Priscilla bus and all that) but due to the high ticket cost I cannot attend. I would have had no issues putting the 120AUD towards the cost of the bus rental/wine cellar entry ticket etc - for the community...but to pay for a venue hire and drinks package at a hotel is just not going to happen for me. Nevertheless, I still wish all the best of luck and success for the event.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We do have a reduced price package for non drinkers, they will be told about it when they message us. We know there are a few people who genuinely dont drink at all, so, yes, they will get a reduced rate.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Red Carpet? Foreign fancy food? People taking pics without your permission? Dont know where you are getting all this but its not relevant at all to the M and G.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've been reading all the comments so far , some think it's too expensive for reasons of there own . For me I can go out for dinner and pay that or more with nice bottle wine then after go to a bar or club and spend another $100 after that throw in cabs and big juicy Kebab there goes a lot of $$ I go on a lot of intestate trips being a show , concert or the footy and I know it's costs but it's great memories . The people that want to go will regardless of the cost just to met the faces to the usernames the ones that you get to know there personalities on the forums . I'm sad that the some regular posters aren't attending , we would really like to meet the faces behind the print.
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' We do have a reduced price package for non drinkers, they will be told about it when they message us. We know there are a few people who genuinely dont drink at all, so, yes, they will get a reduced rate. Sounds like you have built in some contingencies! Good news Q, I'll meet you and Summer at the Rydges carpark . I'll be waiting at the back of my maroon 1986 Volvo station wagon. I'll supply 6pack canned premixed Bundy and Coke drink and West Coast cooler each. Summer bring 6 tubs of homebrand (or Aldi) hommus , babaganush and tatziki dips. Q, bring the Coles rustic baguette and panacotta with raspberry coulis (Aldi brand). Looks like party, party party!!!!
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
I_touch....CandyDelicious & Summer for reading my posts as they were intended. Without malice....no personal attacks. Congrats also to all the others who have the courage to post their concerns as well.
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RHP User
9 years ago
It was a turn of phrase! Can you see me unrolling a red carpet outside the hotel? Ill have better things to do Nice speech Ruby, befitting any Oscar ceremony. Lets not be so serious.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
We feel like 120 per head for a night out its good value. Let's do the math, in 4 hours we're likely to consume: 1.- 8 drinks (one every half an hour) = $80 2.- Finger food = $15-20? 3.- Venue cover another $15-20? You easily get to $120. Koko just said that those non drinkers will have a reduced charge. What else can you ask for? What day in October is it? Can anyone forward the information via Pm please? As guests we can't see it. Thanks! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dorey12
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo'How many of us have been on a date where just a dinner and good wine has cost well over $200? Most of us, Id imagine. How many people here have really spent $200 for dinner and a bottle of wine? I know I certainly haven't come anywhere near that amount for dinner and drinks out.
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' It was a turn of phrase! Can you see me unrolling a red carpet outside the hotel? Ill have better things to do Nice speech Ruby, befitting any Oscar ceremony. Lets not be so serious..... sniff... touching. just as well you have the red carpet out...
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you register interest we will send you a message with all the details xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are you coming to the M and G? If not, I think you're on the wrong thread?
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
Unfortunately, it's not something I can afford, both in terms of time and finances at the moment, so I'm out for this one. Hopefully I'll get to meet up with you one time soon when I'm in Perrh, Koko and Precious! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sure, would be great to meet up with you. Let us know when you are over next xxx
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precious142
9 years ago
Quoting 'PatchworkGirl' Unfortunately, it's not something I can afford, both in terms of time and finances at the moment, so I'm out for this one. Hopefully I'll get to meet up with you one time soon when I'm in Perrh, Koko and Precious! - Posted from rhpmobile PatchworkGirl.....please let us know when you are in Perth next, would love to catch up for a lunch/dinner and a few drinks!
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precious142
9 years ago
I hope the place has a dance floor ;) Cos believe me, if I was there I'd be cutting up a storm. Shame we won't be seeing you there busting ya moves........the Dance floor (and event) wont be the same without you and Mrs 3 there...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Are you coming to the M and G? If not, I think you're on the wrong thread? Charming, do you want to tell me the same thing
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' We do have a reduced price package for non drinkers, they will be told about it when they message us. We know there are a few people who genuinely dont drink at all, so, yes, they will get a reduced rate. Sounds like you have built in some contingencies! Good news Q, I'll meet you and Summer at the Rydges carpark . I'll be waiting at the back of my maroon 1986 Volvo station wagon. I'll supply 6pack canned premixed Bundy and Coke drink and West Coast cooler each. Summer bring 6 tubs of homebrand (or Aldi) hommus , babaganush and tatziki dips. Q, bring the Coles rustic baguette and panacotta with raspberry coulis (Aldi brand). Looks like party, party party!!!! Surely with a large wagon you can fit a mattress in the rear - so there's potential accommodation for 3 squished in.I have a Mondeo hatch, could also fit another mattress in, another potential 3. Could take care of some of us interstaters with cost of accommodations. Anyone else with some ideas ? Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
Looking forward to seeing all the fun loving happy peeps in Adelaide, its hard to put a price on what could be an event to remember.To Koko, and Precious, thank you very much for the time and effort you have put into this, so very selfless of you. Joe
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RHP User
9 years ago
This post was for people interested in the M and G. For people like yourself who are not interested in social meets, why dont you start up your own post?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Meet and Squirt, perhaps?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Who's to say I'm not coming? There's no need to be rude to people, perhaps the cost isn't the only reason all don't attend. I'd love to meet MOST of the people from the forum here, especially those Sydney chicks, now that would be fun
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Meet and Squirt, perhaps? Was that directed at me? You really need to assess your behavior here
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sweetgem
9 years ago
I had, my dates had, and no doubt we will continue to spend that much, or more, on good food and fine dining. Luxury is ones' lifestyle choice and people who are into luxury and fine dining won't find it shocking to spend that much, or little, money on the fine things that are enjoyable to them :) As per Koko's question, it is no surprise that a date would cost $200 or over to have. It is not about women being materialistic when some of us get taken on an expensive date! It is about whether or not the gent of the date cares to get to know his date beforehand, knows what she likes and dislikes, and knows how to make his date an enjoyable and memorable one, accordingly :) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' How many of us have been on a date where just a dinner and good wine has cost well over $200? Most of us, Id imagine. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Quoting 'Dorey12' How many people here have really spent $200 for dinner and a bottle of wine? I know I certainly haven't come anywhere near that amount for dinner and drinks out.
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RHP User
9 years ago
but just because you organise a meet and greet, doesn't give you the right to be rude to people. You were rude to Dorey, along with most other people who have commented here, and this is a forum, anyone can comment on any of the topics. Maybe next time you start a topic, put a disclaimer in that everyone has to agree with you or they can't comment. And what is it about my squirting that offends you?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not really impressed with some of the rather rude comments by the organisers towards those who have simply expressed opinions in a reasonable way. Since I'm not going to the event though my thoughts obviously don't matter at all, and I'll remove my unwelcome self from this thread.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I did want to come along... and while I don't agree with the price (but I would be interested in the non-drinking price), it wouldn't rule me out. However, as it has ruled out many of the people I was hoping to meet and/or travel with, I will probably wait until the next one to meet them, especially those from interstate.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe Im getting a bit tired of the continuous negative comments on anything I post. You have no intention of going to the Meet and Greet, have already made your opinion known, so the need to stay within this topic, as far as Im concerned, is only to be a nuisance. And LD....we have put up a post regarding a social event and had so much negative feedback that I am questioning whether its actually worth it. Trying to organise something like this and having people trying to rip you apart becomes demoralising and Im disappointed. Hope you are all proud of yourselves.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Dorey and I Touch are not interested in the Meet and Greet so I dont see why they need to be asking questions off topic. I have just read through all the posts since this topic started. What started off as a happy post has quickly been turned upside down. Some of the posts have been, frankly, unnecessary.I am so disappointed that I will be deleting my RHP account as of next week. I will still be behind the scenes helping with the Perthsocialites events, but I have had enough of the continuous snipes that I have encountered on here and yes, I retaliate, and thats not me in real life. Im almost 53 and dont want to be like that.Ive made a lot of great friends on here - thats been the best thing about RHP for me. Men and women. I will still have that lovely social scene outwith the site. Three years on, Ive met some fabulous people and learned a lot about myself. No regrets. Yes, we will remove your name. And to the people who are going to Adelaide, look forward to seeing you and having a great night. Will be in touch through the Perthsocialites. Goodbye Forumites xx
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