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Single RHPers
April 28 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
have sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
I think a lot of singles hate admitting they're not actually... on their own..... .. the 'single' guys with a woman at home.... and the 'single' girls... with a dude waiting in the wings when she starts chatting with another single girl....lol BUT.... in the spirit of the topic..... going to the movies. D
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inspirit
10 years ago
...the bloody light globe. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Alone is hard at times. Love my kids like crazy but fuk I miss adult conversations interactions
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blkcapricornday
10 years ago
Like the John Mayer song, When you're dreaming with a broken heart The waking up is the hardest part You roll outta bed and down on your knees And for a moment you can hardly breathe Wondering, "Was she really here? Is she standing in my room?" No she's not, 'cause she's gone wow, that's depressing :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
One is having sex on your own...never as good. Having to pay all the rent sucks too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
On holidays, but my four legged companion is always with me :) I often camp etc so I don't have to pay the double rate and it's hard to find pet friendly accommodation. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Masturbating lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
(Ok not really, I don't actually "hate" the precious time Mrs Palmer and I spend together, sorry dear I didn't mean it, love you xx) :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive had to change the tyre on my car yesterday, its why I posted the question. As we get so independent as the years go by when your single. Still there are things that I just dont like having to do for myself.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That would be cooking
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RHP User
10 years ago
I rarely cook when I'm on my own.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hate two man jobs loll It takes not twice as Long but more like four times as long ! Oh and sex is always bad on your own lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
On a weekend morning and finding nobody next to me. And gardening. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
An orgasm.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cooking for one is annoying but it's a small price to pay.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only thing I dislike is when I go out with couples (not 'those' kinda of couples), but with friends and their partners. I don't mind if it's a social, but when it's a table situation and the booking is for 5 couples, +1. :/
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RHP User
10 years ago
...but sleeping by myself isn't half as good as sharing my bed with another. As for cooking...I do that for a living so I don't mind doing it for myself or guests, it's not a chore...but I prefer to eat simpler at home. Simple finger foods that require minimal washing up for me please.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hate gardening on my own. Consequently I don't do it and my backyard is a jungle. There really isn't anything else I hate about being single.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Huntsman spiders - evil things!
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RHP User
10 years ago
walking my beautiful dog in the evening, can be a little intimidating as dusk hits - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of the travelling I have done has been alone...I would still like to travel but just not by myself..I have been single for decades ,decidedly so and I love it xxFreya
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Chaucer
10 years ago
Waking up on a cold morning to find you're cuddling the pets on the bed... Greyhounds are all pointy bones The sex can be less fun, but you don't have to argue over the wet spot....
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RHP User
10 years ago
and being invited to a ball or wedding with a guest. I usually bring a girlfriend, can be awkward being out with a RHP male friend and someone asks where you met!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just say you are on the same lawn bowls team😜xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
eating out!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Please don't pancake the huntsman pikelet!!! Even if they are little hairy Drew x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Coming home after a bad day at work and nothing seems to be going right and all you want is someone to give you a hug and reassure you that tomorrow will be different, and having no one to give you that hug or comforting words. But find yourself talking to your ever faithful Golden Retrevier instead lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
drinking a lone an no one to talk to when thing are so bad for you
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'Myfriend67' Coming home after a bad day at work and nothing seems to be going right and all you want is someone to give you a hug and reassure you that tomorrow will be different, and having no one to give you that hug or comforting words. But find yourself talking to your ever faithful Golden Retrevier instead lol You have to cheer yourself up. (Also sex alone is no where near as good, as no real pleasure for Mrs Palmer, or her daughters)
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RHP User
10 years ago
what we have friends and family for?? I go to movies, dinner and drinks with my friends if I don't have a date. If I need a hug, my family and/or friends are happy to oblige. I don't get the not partnered=alone thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Drewcifer' Please don't pancake the huntsman pikelet!!! Even if they are little hairy Drew x I'm too wussy to pancake them. It's flyspray treatment from me, which I know is torture. I can't cope with any other option though!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't get me wrong, I adore being alone. To me it doesn't equal lonely. And I do have a very intimate relationship with my microwave. He never judges me. ;-)
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' what we have friends and family for?? I go to movies, dinner and drinks with my friends if I don't have a date. If I need a hug, my family and/or friends are happy to oblige. I don't get the not partnered=alone thing. - Posted from rhpmobile It is nice that you have friends and family close. My nearest friend lives 300km away, my nearest family over 1000km away, and yes I can call them but it is not the same as coming home and getting support. I don't mind generally but as the OP says, I hate or dislike not having the companionship when needed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do have family close but they have there own lives and young children to care for. All my friends live NOR and it just seems that I could ask but I dont. Because I am capable just dont like having to be all the time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi all new here and a little scared heheLook being single is a state of mind and a life style that one should in brace to the fullest and make the most of opportuniy that comes your way I spent ten years as a single man and ladys would often ask why am I single and why I don,t have a partner ,Alot could not understand the freedom one has a single .If you got a phone call thursday said hey road trip to Coffs Harbour saturday you keen hell yes look it in Eddie .Shore there are alot of lonely nite through winter yet one can be surround by people but still be alone .All in all as kids we had chores that we didn't like doing it still the same as grown ups.The glass is half not half empty
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RHP User
10 years ago
Going to weddings and large social events on your own when you don't know many people is a real bore. Mind you I am not that great at small talk and have to be in the mood to socialise. In any event, it is always a lot more fun to go with a partner/friend.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Most of the time I'm very happy to be single and on my own....But yeah I fucking hate having to always have sex on my own, like I mean sometimes it's ok, but all the time geez........💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Taking the bins out
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' what we have friends and family for?? I go to movies, dinner and drinks with my friends if I don't have a date. If I need a hug, my family and/or friends are happy to oblige. I don't get the not partnered=alone thing. - Posted from rhpmobile It is nice that you have friends and family close. My nearest friend lives 300km away, my nearest family over 1000km away, and yes I can call them but it is not the same as coming home and getting support. I don't mind generally but as the OP says, I hate or dislike not having the companionship when needed. Would a partner fix that? Isn't that a big ask of one person? I ask this as someone who has made the mistake in the past of thinking a partner would 'fix' what was wrong in my life. I have decided that I will only be ready for a long-term commitment again when I truly have no 'need' for it. Am I there yet? I think I'm pretty close, so much so actually I'm starting to not want it at all... But then I am a little odd
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RHP User
10 years ago
we are on a dating site ..here's a thought share the love around sounds so simple doesn't it !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' I do have family close but they have there own lives and young children to care for. All my friends live NOR and it just seems that I could ask but I dont. Because I am capable just dont like having to be all the time. I wasn't responding to your desire to have someone help you when you were in need, rather the posts that were talking about dinner, movies, hugs, etc... As a stubbornly independent person myself, I do understand the desire to occasionally not have to be in charge... Trouble is, I know myself well enough to know that I'd refuse help anyway as I hate feeling like I can't handle something on my own. I think I'm my own worst enemy sometimes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Don't get me wrong, I adore being alone. To me it doesn't equal lonely. And I do have a very intimate relationship with my microwave. He never judges me. ;-) That's why I responded maybe a little harshly to the idea of the poor lonely single person. My greyhound and I spend an awful lot of time together and we're both quite content.
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blueballs212
10 years ago
...nothing...and Lexapro takes care of that sex thing.
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IamMrSilly
10 years ago
Surrounded by friends and family so not alone. But the thing I miss is when you receive devastating news and there is no one to help you deal with it. It was illustrated to me this week when I turned up for work to find out that one of my work friends had committed suicide over the weekend. While I could tell family and friends, it is not the same. (no, not crying out for help and very able to handle it and surrounded by friends and family to talk with. but just wanted to say it is what I missed this week).
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have learnt to do most things , but I was the same when I as in a relationship so don't 'hate' having to do anything my self. But sex is better with another active participant. Although when in a relationship the other person wasn't always that active...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's a definite! Can't argue with that!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Waking up alone - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cooking is cool, but I like to cook for someone else. Having a walk is fun, but sex is better.... happy to go to the movies or sit and watch TV, but travelling (caravan, over seas, wherever) is the thing I like to share with someone else!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Been a singleton, so nothing I really hate doing because I'm single, I have travelled alone, I'm have gone out to tea on my own, I go to the movies on my own, but have the bestest of friends if I do need a buddy! In general though waking up and anything to do with my car but that's what roadside is for 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Being alone. Not having human interaction. When you feel a little bit down its nice to just have some one who is there even if you say nothing and harden the fuck up its not the same on your own you can just sink.
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RHP User
10 years ago
we are never "alone" 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Eating out, movies, filling in Govt forms & KISSING
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RHP User
10 years ago
cuddling is hard by yourself. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'IamMrSilly' But the thing I miss is when you receive devastating news and there is no one to help you deal with it. Yes family and friends are there for you, but sometimes if it's a death in the family itself, YOU can find yourself being strong and doing all the supporting for others. When two seperate but related deaths occured in my extended family, I didn't get the chance to really breakdown and cry on someone elses shoulder until I was with a partner, many years later. There is a term for this: delayed grief.
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sock26
10 years ago
Yes there's the sex thing but the thing i miss most is spoiling someone. that look or there excitement is something you just cant do alone. its great to treat friends or work mates but nothing compares to the satisfaction i get from truly pleasing a lover.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Being near 6'4, large spiders near flip me out. If I had someone I could pretend to be big and brave and deal with those flesh eating, human consuming, chase after you arachnids. I once saw a huntsman crawl across my mates brand new BMW on the windscreen. By sheer instinct I hit the spider only to discover it was on the outside and my smashing the windscreen. Expensive drive for me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Road trips
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'NaiveFarmBoy' Being near 6'4, large spiders near flip me out. If I had someone I could pretend to be big and brave and deal with those flesh eating, human consuming, chase after you arachnids. I once saw a huntsman crawl across my mates brand new BMW on the windscreen. By sheer instinct I hit the spider only to discover it was on the outside and my smashing the windscreen. Expensive drive for me. And that means the spider was closer to you afterwards. Ewww. Sounds like a dodgy windscreen too. I stepped on one in barefeet once playing handball when I was a kid. Slight crunching then slimy green stuff between my toes. I think thats when my hatred began!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Extra pillow required in my bed . Hence I miss the cuddle.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Trying to find play dates on here. People just assume your creepy if your a single male - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's always better when someone else is there to laugh at me too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh Pieklet you big wuse!!! Just slip a glass over the top of it and then slide some paper underneath then head outside and release. Alternatively message me get my number then give me a call DRew x
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
To much masturbating and day dreaming - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
Simgle gyys are always assumed to be creepy or desperate or a cheater in a couple... funny all the judgements people have in the world.. yet not even one woman has proven woman enough to show me what making love is.. not lust.. making love!! And to show me what love is lime.. that unbreakable team bond as a duo. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
and not having someone to give me a hug :(
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JDM76
10 years ago
I agree with all the other comments about sleeping alone , pillow cuddling just doesn't cut it some nights .
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Cassy_74
10 years ago
Yep I can't handle the hairy ugly things lol!!
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Seachange
10 years ago
I am alone in a strange country for the last two weeks. I had a hard frustrating day working with the locals and it serms thr hardest day of my professional life as frustration set in dealing with some talks n negotiations the whole week. I go back to my hotel room every evening alone almost in tears with stress frustration and helplessness. These nights I wish I have somebody familiar to share a drink with, vent to, laugh with, share a minute with and even just hold my hand qnd say all is good tomorrow. I have to do it to myself in the mirror and say, tomorrow is another day. Sleep it off and the sun will rise again. Another chance to redeem myself. Bht I wish at times somebody could whisper those words to my ears. I am getting really tired sometimes.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Things that you absolutely have to do, such as washing the dishes after you've done the cooking too. I don't mind cooking (quite relaxing at times), but then you gotta clean up the mess as well - just ain't fair. Tall
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
Having only the internet in your life and not having any sex or anything for 6years and then having most people just throw judgements on you when they dont know you yet all i want is to find love with a partner that i can be comfortable with doing anything sexually to please each other but all you get is the single male desperate sleaze shit. All i want is alot of cuddles.. love and to know what making love is like and that unbreakable bond. Such is life right? - Posted from rhpmobile
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TrymeonForsize
10 years ago
Definitely kissing.........😍
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RHP User
10 years ago
booking accomodation....holidays get so $$$
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'LetusFrolic'yet not even one woman has proven woman enough to show me what making love is.. not lust.. making love!! And to show me what love is lime.. Seriously...almost all of your comments drip with with self-pity and more than one woman on here has told you that it is an utter turn off. You need to stop blaming women for what is lacking in your life and start to look at your own outlook and behaviour.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Most people going to the pound to adopt will pick the dog that approaches them with tail wagging, but some will take the one whining in the corner out of pity. Maybe this approach works for him?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' Most of the time I'm very happy to be single and on my own....But yeah I fucking hate having to always have sex on my own, like I mean sometimes it's ok, but all the time geez........💋 Haha I agree with Lovinit28 but the thing that I hate mostly is going out by myself I don't have a wingman so I very rarely go out.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Recognise self pity and bitterness in animals though (and let's face it, it doesn't exist), I doubt they'd get taken... 😏
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hope you are back soon with your friends and family to have those things you need and crave at the moment. Take care
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twodare
10 years ago
We take a lot of animals out of the pound and normally it's based on pure luck . . but looks and ease of rehoming come into it
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
I do miss getting pulled off while doing the ironing :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' I am alone in a strange country for the last two weeks. I had a hard frustrating day working with the locals and it serms thr hardest day of my professional life as frustration set in dealing with some talks n negotiations the whole week. I go back to my hotel room every evening alone almost in tears with stress frustration and helplessness. These nights I wish I have somebody familiar to share a drink with, vent to, laugh with, share a minute with and even just hold my hand qnd say all is good tomorrow. I have to do it to myself in the mirror and say, tomorrow is another day. Sleep it off and the sun will rise again. Another chance to redeem myself. Bht I wish at times somebody could whisper those words to my ears. I am getting really tired sometimes. Well then you should look me up when you're in Perth. Best way to have fun is have a local show you all the fun locations 'regulars' bypass. ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some days I love being single and others I fucking hate it. Been single for a long time and haven't found a good match yet. We are social creatures and need company of others. It's healthy. But unhealthy to be with someone who does your head in. Just going through life's ups and downs alone sux.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'pieklet' Huntsman spiders - evil things! They are so cute, they're actually more scared of us. See how the scarper when you try to catch them. I catch them in a towel, t-shirt or the like then take them outside.As I see it anything that eats flies has got something going for it...yes I know Huntsman don't eat flies.I enjoyed living on my own on the farm for about eight years, the real possibility of being on my own again holds no fear for me. Although I'd definitely like to go back to country living if I was on my own again, preferably in NZ.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' I hate gardening on my own. Consequently I don't do it and my backyard is a jungle. There really isn't anything else I hate about being single. May 2nd World Naked Gardening Day
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Seachange
10 years ago
Thanks for the kind thoughts. A change.of.pace.today.and.flew.north tp another city and.new challenges and.assignment tomorrow. I really appreciate your kindness which is.rare nowadays. Your kind words lifted my spirits. I look forward to meeting you at the melb meet and greet. thanks.to those .that.kindly emailed. I picked.myself up as usual and.just moved on. Another week on the grind before not being alone again. Life goes on. Xxx
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Seachange
10 years ago
Thanks dor.the invite.but I.think. you kind of.miss.the point.of my post. It not so.much of the lack of opportunity in checking out the fun places in a strange city where i am posted for work, but missing.the intimacy and comraderie of good friends.or a.lover when i need someone familiar to chat to at.the end of a hard day The soothing words of comfort that placates the anxious soul and tired mind Is priceless beyond sex with strangers or shallow pursuits of.touristic adventures. . Most of my solo.trips interstate or overseas are for work.It is not all about sex all.the time you know. Very kind of you to offer.just the same and Best wishes to you. Xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you missed my point too. :-) I knew what you meant. I was more referring to good locations where private outdoor picnics can be held, or privately star gazing atop private towers in parks while snuggling together under a warm blanket. That sort of thing away from the hotel room... to keep one's mind off of anything related to work and travel. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
The company and the chat. And the times to share a drink with someone and to help eat my bad cooking with me haha.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
A turn off or not it doesnt matter luck_dragon .. its no game.. i was asked a question and told the truth.. its fact. . If you or them cant handle it its their issue And meander as i said its not a game or angle... its just truth and fact. Im not angry at it.. im not happy about it either.. you all are how you are it is what it is. those comments just proved my facts more factual.. that you just sit there judge and bully i actually laugh at how senseless it is.. maybe im just more mature minded and too honest for any of you Your loss Why would i have self pity when i know i have alot of worth and morals?? You obviously cant handle the truth so have to say these things to make yourselves feel better because you know youre not good enough. another fact Sorry if people being so straightforward annoys you.. id rather not lie or play games in general and especially for a relationship or to get sex.. i find that disgusting - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
You all just gave the old.. cant be us must be you.. we aee all perfect and know all the secrets and answers of life.. plus we are women so cant do wrong angle. Sorry but you are wrong.. and you should think about things a bit more deeply - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
...and it was only a few years ago that a shift occurred in me and I lived my first real relationship for 2 and a bit years. I have to say it was an enjoyable change of lifestyle, featuring lots of intangibles that would carry me along like anemotional roller coaster at times. Definitely worth the pain at the end . Single again, I certainly miss someone warm and soft to hug and hold...whether it's for her or mine emotional need..butI miss more the companionship on the adventures. Someone to share the ride with, someone who shares some of the same passions. I suppose I'm describing a best friend however. And an emotional attachment there may not be reciprocated unfortunately.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"You all just gave the old.. cant be us must be you.." ... Says the guy who's looking for a woman to disprove to him all women are awful. Oh I wish I could do the laughing face emoticon on my phone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
rEADING THESE PURILE POSTS!!!
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MysteryMr
10 years ago
At least invite a couple of single girls to create the illusion I may not go home alone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have an electric blanket, so I don't need someone to warm the bed. My table manners are atrocious, so I prefer to eat by myself and, apparently, farting at the movies is a no no.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Tight_Fit' rEADING THESE PURILE POSTS!!! did you mean 'puerile'? and why are you shouting?
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beachgal20
10 years ago
Too many things to mention.....and God I dread the flat tyre and light bulbs I can't reach.......
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Being alone is what you make it I guess but being alone at a party full of couples as someone mentioned above really is the pits. Couples have it beat in that scenario.... My only other dislike is trying to open a jar on my own and can't and there's no one else around to help grrrrrrr usually means I have to rethink an entire meal for one.... Blast ye tight jar lids!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Being alone is what you make it I guess but being alone at a party full of couples as someone mentioned above really is the pits. Couples have it beat in that scenario.... My only other dislike is trying to open a jar on my own and can't and there's no one else around to help grrrrrrr usually means I have to rethink an entire meal for one.... Blast ye tight jar lids!!!! My friend showed me an awesome trick for this recently when I was nearly about to take a jar back to the shop. Stab the lid with a sharp knife to release the pressure, then it opens easy as pie!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Being alone is what you make it I guess but being alone at a party full of couples as someone mentioned above really is the pits. Couples have it beat in that scenario.... My only other dislike is trying to open a jar on my own and can't and there's no one else around to help grrrrrrr usually means I have to rethink an entire meal for one.... Blast ye tight jar lids!!!! turn it bottom up and give it a hard smack ;)
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