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Single guys and couples
May 05 2013
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cbdlivin
12 years ago
For me it has always been about the dynamics, where I am interested in what gives each person pleasure and how it can be enhanced. With my late partner and myself we had long term female and male partners and it was still the same exploring sexual pleasure and of course the extra things that can be done when an additional person is there. With my own orientation I am open to a lot of possibilities so meeting a new couple just opens up the mind to the possibilities to come.Of course as a single guy there is a couple of things that can be attractive to couples, not having to worry about commitment or emotional attachment issues, just having fun.I am sure you will get interesting replies, from the ones who have never tried it to the ones where its all about the sex, I like the post as always interesting to find out what attracts people to something.
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cbdlivin
12 years ago
For me it has always been about the dynamics, where I am interested in what gives each person pleasure and how it can be enhanced. With my late partner and myself we had long term female and male partners and it was still the same exploring sexual pleasure and of course the extra things that can be done when an additional person is there. With my own orientation I am open to a lot of possibilities so meeting a new couple just opens up the mind to the possibilities to come.Of course as a single guy there is a couple of things that can be attractive to couples, not having to worry about commitment or emotional attachment issues, just having fun.I am sure you will get interesting replies, from the ones who have never tried it to the ones where its all about the sex, I like the post as always interesting to find out what attracts people to something.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looking forward to hearing the replies to this one. Also interested in what single guys feel they can bring to the party?
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me it's pleasuring the female to the max - two guys doing their best to satisfy her. Prefer a couple as your half way there to knowing what the female likes and wants. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me I prefer couples as they generally aren't clingy , I have been involved with many many couples over the years and I simply like how it all works as long as I'm not there purely for there pleasure I've been down that track a few too many times , I will only play with couples that are genuinely secure !!!! If not there will be issues , but back on topic I don want to change my life just enhance it a bit and couples are good way to have a friendship as well as sex partners without the feelings from one to another about forming relationships and I'm a dominant guy and I get off on a woman with 2 guys not rough stuff but there will generally be submission to both men's will at some stage and I also like the look on a woman's face as she is enjoying something that is quite taboo to may people
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think we all have our own reasons for being here, I discovered MFM 3somes a while ago now and found that I enjoyed it very much. I have had some disasters along the way but I have found that the majority of cpls I have met have been great fun and seeing a woman enjoy herself so much with two guys is a bit addictive. As long as everyone is comfortable with the situation I find it better than 1 on 1 mainly because its not being emotionally involved its just fun and I think sometimes people forget its meant to be fun....well that's why I love it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shall I draw a picture ? A second cock for starters !I have played with a pair of bisexual singles and loved it immensely, so with couples I want more.The attraction of course is that they have each other so no fear of lawnscreamers.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lawn screamers hahahahahahahahahaha
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I have no experience in threesome, but have been curious about the MMF threesome for a while now. The reason why I have not yet done it because 1) none of my close male friends are open and wild like me (lol) due to cultural and other reasons; 2) I don't know any of my western male friends well enough to trust them for trying out without having complications or issues! 3) Besides, I am also scared to try the "prohibited fruit" because of my limited physical endurance (5'3 + Asian = small structure.....you know what I mean 😜). Sometimes, I even find it hard to keep up with the 1-on-1 action, let alone 2-on-1! Lol But having said all this, I think I will steal the prohibited fruit one day and will patiently wait for the right opportunity to surface. After all, it's a fantasy and it must be fulfilled in order to live life with no regrets in that department :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me it's to know and understand ppl better the thrill of something that is spose to be a little wrong and nothing more sexy than seeing a woman being pleasured and orgasming and I mean who don't watch porn from time to time so why not just have same room fun if you can get it
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not only do you get to have awesome sex, with people who are looking for just that, but you don't have to worry about romantic attachments! We like to be friendly with the guys we see, I love a little chat between visits, but I have my relationship and its a great one. So for the guys that we see, it is a "safe" way to have regular sex lives without worrying about maintaining a relationship or having to wine and dine. They are with us for sex, purely and simply, thank RHP for that!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem' I have no experience in threesome, but have been curious about the MMF threesome for a while now. The reason why I have not yet done it because 1) none of my close male friends are open and wild like me (lol) due to cultural and other reasons; 2) I don't know any of my western male friends well enough to trust them for trying out without having complications or issues! 3) Besides, I am also scared to try the "prohibited fruit" because of my limited physical endurance (5'3 + Asian = small structure.....you know what I mean 😜). Sometimes, I even find it hard to keep up with the 1-on-1 action, let alone 2-on-1! Lol But having said all this, I think I will steal the prohibited fruit one day and will patiently wait for the right opportunity to surface. After all, it's a fantasy and it must be fulfilled in order to live life with no regrets in that department :-) "Prohibited fruit"....I love it!! Your posts always make me smile sweetgem...I haven't done MMF either as it is difficult to find two willing males up here. But in regards to the 'size' issue....I'm only 5"3' and small frame as well, so if (when) I do get to try the 'prohibited fruit', I'll let you know how well they were... accommodated .
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RHP User
12 years ago
but never followed through which is funny because I totally understand a lot of the responses above, especially the "providing her pleasure" motive. It's just that I think MFM threesomes would work best with 2 bisexual guys - there's a sexual restriction I can't ignore (moreso if the other guy is grabby and/or flailing wildly) and the only thing on my mind are the boundaries. I'm not homophobic, but I have zero attraction to men. Watching and swapping sounds good, DP and "spit roast" not so much. Any other guys feel the same way?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'GMerst25' but never followed through which is funny because I totally understand a lot of the responses above, especially the "providing her pleasure" motive. It's just that I think MFM threesomes would work best with 2 bisexual guys - there's a sexual restriction I can't ignore (moreso if the other guy is grabby and/or flailing wildly) and the only thing on my mind are the boundaries. I'm not homophobic, but I have zero attraction to men. Watching and swapping sounds good, DP and "spit roast" not so much. Any other guys feel the same way? I know you're not alone in feeling that way, many straight men are not comfortable with the idea of such close proximity to another naked man and particularly with the potential for 'crossing swords'. Which is fine...we all have our own preferences and limits. But I do agree with you in the idea that a MMF with two bi guys would be the ideal. Well ok, maybe not for a woman who wants to be the centre of attention the whole time, but it would be for me because I want to have an experience where everyone is into everyone else, there are no boundaries, and I get to watch the two guys play together as well (the thought of that gets me veeeeery hot!!). Yes it would be nice to be the centre of attention for awhile, but I don't know that I'd like it for the whole time...and with a MMF (bi) everyone could take turns. This is currently my number 1 fantasy but I'm not holding my breath...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am almost 5foot and I have had threesomes and moresomes. And DPs. If you get guys who are experienced and confident in what they are doing size is irrelevant really. What difference does it make??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly, this entire site makes it easy to break the ice and meet people. Secondly, I am happy to work with couples because there is usually NSA. However, I do like to meet with couples and FWBs more than once. It is great for couple who want a 3some for either the guy or the girl to contact a single male and then meet informally to see if we all click. If we do we can then take it further. I can no longer have sex with people without some sort of connection. This has been the case since my mid 20s.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem'I have no experience in threesome, but have been curious about the MMF threesome for a while now. The reason why I have not yet done it because 1) none of my close male friends are open and wild like me (lol) due to cultural and other reasons; 2) I don't know any of my western male friends well enough to trust them for trying out without having complications or issues! 3) Besides, I am also scared to try the "prohibited fruit" because of my limited physical endurance (5'3 + Asian = small structure.....you know what I mean 😜). Sometimes, I even find it hard to keep up with the 1-on-1 action, let alone 2-on-1! Lol But having said all this, I think I will steal the prohibited fruit one day and will patiently wait for the right opportunity to surface. After all, it's a fantasy and it must be fulfilled in order to live life with no regrets in that department :-) Sweetgem I'm not big and I'd happily help you through a 3some and DP. But let's meet first to see if we click.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I am almost 5foot and I have had threesomes and moresomes. And DPs. If you get guys who are experienced and confident in what they are doing size is irrelevant really. What difference does it make?? I think sweetgem was referring to wondering how two guys would both, um, 'fit' in there during DP lol. At least that's what I was referring to and have wondered about!! Keen as I am to try it, I really have no idea about the logistics of it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess my attraction to couples is similar to many other guys in that it promises a night of no strings uninhibited fun where you can try some of the things that other other people would probably consider taboo like DP. It is an opportunity to live out some of those porn fantasies we all harbour. I have no problems with my own sexuality and therefore am not concerned about incidental contact.
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RHP User
12 years ago
DP as in two cocks in the front bum? Or do you mean one in the front bum and one in the back bum? Lol. If you can do anal sex you will be able to do DP. I mean women have babies for god sake I think we can accommodate a knob or two. One guy lies on his back and the girl hops on inserts willy in front bum. Guy 2 comes in from behind and inserts willy in which ever hole if will fit. Lol. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is DP (1 in the front and 1 in the back) There is DAP (double anal) and DVP (2 in the vag) I envy these porn girls who get to do all these things. In fact I envy all you girls for the kind of sex you can have.
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RHP User
12 years ago
May help it fit
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'sweetgem'"Prohibited fruit"....I love it!! Your posts always make me smile sweetgem...I haven't done MMF either as it is difficult to find two willing males up here. But in regards to the 'size' issue....I'm only 5"3' and small frame as well, so if (when) I do get to try the 'prohibited fruit', I'll let you know how well they were... accommodated . Yes, please do share how you find it when you get to try the prohibited fruit. For me, I am still very chicken and scared of the idea
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I am almost 5foot and I have had threesomes and moresomes. And DPs. If you get guys who are experienced and confident in what they are doing size is irrelevant really. What difference does it make?? That's the whole point of my fear, because I do not know what to expect from it, and I certainly do not want to be used by some selfish idiots for their pleasure :-) But like I said above, I will fulfill this fantasy one day with the right men, or at least with one of them who I feel comfortable with and can trust him for "protecting" me from being used by the other man. I think if I go into a MFM play with a friend who I trust, I would be more relaxed and able to enjoy it :-) Not like some random guy who has said he could help me out, but we need to meet up first and see if we would click. WTH!!! I didn't ask for his help!!! lol
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'I think sweetgem was referring to wondering how two guys would both, um, 'fit' in there during DP lol. At least that's what I was referring to and have wondered about!! Keen as I am to try it, I really have no idea about the logistics of I was actually referring to playing with 2 different men and 2 different sizes of penis on the same day or night (depends on the time it happens) Like at the moment, I only meet and play 1-on-1 and I find it hard to keep up with him sometimes, especially if he has a big one (which I love dearly..........ooooops, sorry too much info ), let alone playing with 2 men with 2 big bananas! Man, I'm already sweating thinking of it And NO, I don't do anal sex! Been there too many times and hated it to death! So NO, no DP for me I'm sorry
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem' Quoting 'Luckdragon23'I think sweetgem was referring to wondering how two guys would both, um, 'fit' in there during DP lol. At least that's what I was referring to and have wondered about!! Keen as I am to try it, I really have no idea about the logistics of I was actually referring to playing with 2 different men and 2 different sizes of penis on the same day or night (depends on the time it happens) Like at the moment, I only meet and play 1-on-1 and I find it hard to keep up with him sometimes, especially if he has a big one (which I love dearly..........ooooops, sorry too much info ), let alone playing with 2 men with 2 big bananas! Man, I'm already sweating thinking of it And NO, I don't do anal sex! Been there too many times and hated it to death! So NO, no DP for me I'm sorry gotcha sweetgem!! I still definitely get where you're coming from...not only am I small framed but I think I must have a fairly short vagina. Once a guy gets up to being about, um....probably 7 inches or so (I'm not good with penis lengths lol), then some positions with deep penetration can start getting a bit uncomfortable. So I agree two men with big bananas would be a challenge for me as well!! Plus anal is a no-go for me if they're above a certain size.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'eagleeye2' May help it fit
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I agree that guys with big dicks that want to go deep.... HURT!!!! ouchie. Sweetgem, too funny. Guys do it all the time, offer their help I mean. Like why would you? LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'conjugal' There is DP (1 in the front and 1 in the back) There is DAP (double anal) and DVP (2 in the vag) I envy these porn girls who get to do all these things. In fact I envy all you girls for the kind of sex you can have. Conjugal. Come on!! Where is your imagination. Boys can have these things too. You can have a DAP anytime. Two guys up your bum or two girls with strapons or a combination. I mean how good is that! You should try it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You could have two cocks up your bum, one in your mouth and one in each hand. So who says boys can't experience porn sex.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'One guy lies on his back and the girl hops on inserts willy in front bum. Guy 2 comes in from behind and inserts willy in which ever hole if will fit. Lol. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ I call that Friday. OP, I cannot answer the question about couples dynamics, but all MFM and MMF experienced I've had were when I was single, with single men. I think men are attracted to couples because finding three singles that are all into each other is not easy. At least when meeting a couple there is already chemistry between them, greatly increasing the odds of a successful play date. And to quote cbdlivin: "Of course as a single guy there is a couple of things that can be attractive to couples, not having to worry about commitment or emotional attachment issues, just having fun." If you're afraid of a girl falling in love with you or demanding more, a couple certainly sounds like a safer option.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have never had a partner that was willing to try the whole mmf/mfm, even though I have talked about it with most of them, and they were openly curious, but at the end of the day, each one has said no, as they felt uncomfortable letting another man be with "us", as if they were cheating on me. One partner and I discussed the idea of a mmf, as we had both become curious about the bi scene, but she said she felt uncomfortable sharing me, even though for me, it was always about her pleasure. I have never experience a threesome, either as being part of the couple or being invited, but for me the attraction of it is giving other people pleasure. I love seeing people get off, and knowing that I have given them something to enjoy. The idea of possibly doing this to two people at a time is spine tingling at the very least to me."Prohibited fruit"....I love it!! Your posts always make me smile sweetgem...I haven't done MMF either as it is difficult to find two willing males up here. But in regards to the 'size' issue....I'm only 5"3' and small frame as well, so if (when) I do get to try the 'prohibited fruit', I'll let you know how well they were... accommodated . Lucky, I'm willing :) especially if your wearing those heels
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'You could have two cocks up your bum, one in your mouth and one in each hand. So who says boys can't experience porn sex. Well, I don't think I could get 2 in my butt - i'm pretty tight. I do like the idea of 1 in the butt, 1 in each hand, 1 in the mouth and you stradled across my loins. You girls can always go 1 more between the boobs!:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
LuckDragon23 said: "I know you're not alone in feeling that way, many straight men are not comfortable with the idea of such close proximity to another naked man and particularly with the potential for 'crossing swords'. Which is fine...we all have our own preferences and limits. But I do agree with you in the idea that a MMF with two bi guys would be the ideal. Well ok, maybe not for a woman who wants to be the centre of attention the whole time, but it would be for me because I want to have an experience where everyone is into everyone else, there are no boundaries, and I get to watch the two guys play together as well (the thought of that gets me veeeeery hot!!). Yes it would be nice to be the centre of attention for awhile, but I don't know that I'd like it for the whole time...and with a MMF (bi) everyone could take turns. This is currently my number 1 fantasy but I'm not holding my breath..."Cool. While I haven't "crossed swords" the few times I have been in a MFM threesome I have done something most straight men wouldn't be comfortable doing (naked arms/legs touching another naked man having sex) and while I've been okay with it mentally ("I'm not getting any sexual gratification from this other man, it doesn't matter if we accidently touch" and "what are you afraid of?") subconsciously something was wrong, and my erection went away in seconds. I didn't realize it was such a problem until it happened, and part of me feels a bit lousy because it's difficult for me to provide something she enjoys, even if mentally I'd like to. I've been in couple swaps in the same room, had group sex experiences near other men, and regularly go to nudist beaches, I guess MFM is the boundary for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I reckon it'd be fun to try mfm, you only live once and could have some much fun ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah. I think I have been so corrupted that I just don't get that thinking at all. How can you be unfaithful why you are all naked having sex? What's not to love about all getting naked and being a big pile of hard and squishy bits..... Group sex is lots of fun. Lots and lots of fun. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well well. Sounds like you are a very naughty boy. Go to the next NBO party and you can live out your dreams!! 👍
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Yeah. I think I have been so corrupted that I just don't get that thinking at all. How can you be unfaithful why you are all naked having sex? It was probably less about the chheating, more about the sharing. I can see how there could be jealousy when inviting another guy to join a couple. Men are likely to compare themselves to each other, while women may be afraid the other guy can give their man something they can't.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' I have never had a partner that was willing to try the whole mmf/mfm, even though I have talked about it with most of them, and they were openly curious, but at the end of the day, each one has said no, as they felt uncomfortable letting another man be with "us", as if they were cheating on me. One partner and I discussed the idea of a mmf, as we had both become curious about the bi scene, but she said she felt uncomfortable sharing me, even though for me, it was always about her pleasure. I have never experience a threesome, either as being part of the couple or being invited, but for me the attraction of it is giving other people pleasure. I love seeing people get off, and knowing that I have given them something to enjoy. The idea of possibly doing this to two people at a time is spine tingling at the very least to me."Prohibited fruit"....I love it!! Your posts always make me smile sweetgem...I haven't done MMF either as it is difficult to find two willing males up here. But in regards to the 'size' issue....I'm only 5"3' and small frame as well, so if (when) I do get to try the 'prohibited fruit', I'll let you know how well they were... accommodated . Lucky, I'm willing :) especially if your wearing those heels Hmm...I've had sex wearing nothing but a pair of knee-high boots, so I'm sure I could be persuaded to bring the heels out
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RHP User
12 years ago
blood pressure is UP !
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aristippus
12 years ago
Only interested in couples that are intelligent & look after themselves. That sound/look secure & know what they want. Of course, i also have to feel as if i can add to their experience & fantasy. It really is all about the c ouple & what they are looking for. Have played as a single & couple in mfm & the right 'extra' guy has to be secure, confident, able to do what he says he can do & respectful. Easy..... Lucky enough to know some great couples, & hosted a couple of awesome parties with great people. It's all about getting the right attitude & combination. Have fun everyone
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casanovastudd
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Hmm...I've had sex wearing nothing but a pair of knee-high boots, so I'm sure I could be persuaded to bring the heels out .....you can always tell when a woman starts getting serious is when she takes off her high heels :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me its how uncomplicated it is, I know a couple who invite me to play on something approaching a regular basis. We are friends outside the bedroom & meet socially too. She loves her partner but also likes been "spoilt" by/ with 2 blokes. He likes to see her well satisfied, I get to have a great time. So we all get what we each want/ like.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Playing with couples is the easiest way to branch into group play. I've played in both MMM and MMF and I've found the feeling of a sea of bodies intoxicating, I just can't get enough. I'll definitely be going to the next NBO =D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ahh so much bullshit I'm reading about how it's " all about the couple " what total utter crap it's about everyone and how everyone enjoys it the coues that want it to be all about them I won't waste my time with and the guys that say its all about the couple really guys are you so desperate or whipped by the thought of it why don't you also say you will do the dishes for them and mow the lawns and run errands so much crap that some guys dribble on with some of you make me shake my head in disbelief - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The whole idea of being with a couple appeals to me mainly because of the domination aspect. Teaming up with the male half to play out all the dirty kinky fantasies that he and his lady have and wish to explore.. Especially DP and Spitroasting etc.. If you're comfortable in your own sexuality then incidental bumps or brushes with the other guy won't be an issue.. Its really just all about her. Imagining what she's experiencing is a big enough turn on let alone being inside her on the top position holding her shoulders as pushes back with each thrust, squealing and grinding harder into her man underneath.. being in such a total power position is such a thrill..I'm sure any women who have tried this would agree that it's an amazing feeling.. I've not met anyone who's experienced this that didn't get lost in the moment and thoroughly enjoyed it. And being a man, its a fantastically erotic visual to witness and being afforded the privellage of being allowed to share such an intimate and personal experience with them both.Goodtimes :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been on this site both as a couple and as a single male on and off for quite some time. There are far toady men available and not enough women. I have female friends that are on here and they receive tens and tens of messages and flirts. (Even the less attractive ones.) I rarely get a message and really struggle to get even a reply to the messages I send. So for me couples reply.... I find couples to be more open and are usually looking for a friendship as well as mad hot sex....plus I like to help out when a bit extra is required....;)) I'm good like that. Well that's my reason... It may be a different story if I was in a bigger city with a bigger pool to play in... Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Well well. Sounds like you are a very naughty boy. Go to the next NBO party and you can live out your dreams!! 👍 Hi Meeka I am thinking about attending my first NBO in June. I think it is a great way to fulfil my 4 cock 1 girl fantasy. I'd prefer it if the 4 cocks were trannies though. 4 trannies are hard to find but 4 guys is a lot more common. Have you ever seen a guy servicing 4 cocks at once with a gorgeous girl riding him at a NBO?
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blueballs212
12 years ago
You can enter the fray or rest on the interchange as needs meet...that 's a very attractive proposition at my age!
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RHP User
12 years ago
the dynamic and naughtiness of it all to start with - there is something to be said about being with a woman whilst the hubby watches or joins in! for me it is much more than the actual sex - the friendships you form along the way are pretty special - the bond if you will is unique - I love being with a group of people - and the 3 of us can share private jokes - swop looks - meet for quickies during a social function however this is not for the faint hearted - I remember my first adventure - just a tad overwhelming - when i left the hubby asked if I enjoyed fucking his wife - for once in my life I was left speechless! And the emotions involved can get tricky - jealousy can raise its ugly head - correction often does some folk think this is an easy way for a single bloke to find sex - hmmm I cant agree there - the dynamic requires many skills - besides your bedside "manner" - communication, planning and keeping all parties happy is no easy task its a wonderful way to spend a rainy day or night .... the heat generated is carbon friendly if you have not tried threesomes stick it on your bucket list - you will be grinning before you know it
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RHP User
12 years ago
It helps if the m/m are bi :-))- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi. I'm A single guy that plays with couples when the opportunity presents itself. I feel honoured that A loving couple would invite me into their bedroom and either spoil the woman with the husband or pleasure her while he watches. I find this quite erotic and A little different to the usual. It's not for everybody but if all three click it can be A truly awesome couple of hours.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have seen a guy with 3 guys, and I have seen woman with 4 or 5 guys at a time. Its anything goes really and as many as you can handle. Think of it a a challenge. Well if you go and you hear a woman saying... I want to see a cock up your arse it's probably me. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Exactly. We were just discussing this not long ago. The whole it's all about the couple thing makes me shake my head and quite frankly I wonder if the guys know what group sex is really about? You would never ever hear a woman say the same.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes you can meet a few trannies at the same time at Aarows. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Sometimes you can meet a few trannies at the same time at Aarows. :) I've heard average things about aarrows. People say it's not friendly and there are mostly aggressive guys walking around avoiding eye contact. And now there is also the chance I can get shot outside it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sarapis' Ahh so much bullshit I'm reading about how it's " all about the couple " what total utter crap it's about everyone and how everyone enjoys it the coues that want it to be all about them I won't waste my time with and the guys that say its all about the couple really guys are you so desperate or whipped by the thought of it why don't you also say you will do the dishes for them and mow the lawns and run errands so much crap that some guys dribble on with some of you make me shake my head in disbelief - Posted from rhpmobile This was something that was discussed not long ago, and I'm always curious why so many single guys say that it's "all about the couple" in a MMF threesome. Do some of these guys think that's what couples want to hear and hence that they'll have more chance of couples being interested in them if they do say that? I know if I was with a couple who thought it should all be about them, then I wouldn't be going back there again as I'd feel like I was just another one of their toys. I think in group situations everyone's pleasure and desires should be considered important, and I don't think it's selfish to admit that you want something out of the experience as well.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Luckdragon23'gotcha sweetgem!! I still definitely get where you're coming from...not only am I small framed but I think I must have a fairly short vagina. Once a guy gets up to being about, um....probably 7 inches or so (I'm not good with penis lengths lol), then some positions with deep penetration can start getting a bit uncomfortable. So I agree two men with big bananas would be a challenge for me as well!! Plus anal is a no-go for me if they're above a certain size. Lucky, spot on, that's what I wanted to say and concerned as well! I think I have similar small frame like you, because I do get pain from deep penetration in certain positions and can feel it strongly in my stomach each time I play with a man who has a big and long one........oooops too much info again .........I think I will only do anal again with a real life partner
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me it's all about the womans enjoyment. Some just love it that's it simple.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Generally speaking, "most" couples speak about what they each want from a MMF 3some..So they know what they want... Whereas most single women (A) havent got a clue what they want.. or... (B) due to the overwhelming male to female ratio on this site and other sites like it, women have too many options and generally make irrational decisions based on primitive neanderthal tendancies LOL ... sad but true (PS) if anyone would like me to elaborate on those neanderthal tendancies I'd be more than happy to, possibly in another forum topic. Well that basically narrows down my train of thought on the subject after doing it for 15 years now. ciao4now
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Singlesurfer' Imagining what she's experiencing is a big enough turn on let alone being inside her on the top position holding her shoulders as pushes back with each thrust, squealing and grinding harder into her man underneath.. being in such a total power position is such a thrill..
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Matureozcpl
12 years ago
we r a mature Cpl really finding it hard to find mr right but will keep looking , I think it all comes down to the wife finding the extra guy desirable for anything to happen as we met a guy once but in the flesh she didn't find the right chemistry so we parted ways but need to meet for a drink and a chat to see if all parties are happy with the situation.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couples are my preference , when I read a couples profile a lot of the time I get a gut feeling as to whether it is the man or woman or a collaboration in the writing of the profile , a lot of them I get the feeling it's the man that has written it , having another man join them is a huge fantasy of LOTS of men whenever I have been in a relationship I've always initiated the topic of a MFM ....... I reckon quite a few couples adopt the attitude of " what can you bring to the party " because they are inundated by single men hitting them up essentially like put a positions vacant ( pardon the pun and yes it was intended ) ad in the paper " they get inundated ............... I made a mistake a few weeks ago and sent a couple a message and in the 3rd reply from them it was said to me in almost bitchy narky words " what can I offer them " now I'm no slouch when it comes to biting back and sometimes I'm easily pissed off and I think I hurt his feelings by my response " obviously something that you don't have physically , mentally or emotionally wake up it isn't all about you , which is why I ask you not to contact me again " but I did get a response back telling me to go " fuck myself " ........ It's not all about sucking up to someone to get your rocks off I would rather have a wank then have a cold fuck
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RHP User
12 years ago
its about fun, for 3. but you know? the extra guy only shares a very small part of the fun....he misses out on the week long foreplay, the day of shared arousal and anticipation, and after its all said and done, the after glow and the fun that follows the encounter..... it doesn't stop when he leaves, sometimes that's when it begins in earnest, and other times, its the start of another week of foreplay and arousal..... he gets a few hours of play if he's lucky, while we get to revisit the occasion whenever our fantasies lead us there.......together.
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I started my quest for more sexual partners, I did not start out looking for couples, but changed my mind when I had read a profiles from couples, initially I thought it would be just good fun but its more than that I love it. My focus is always on the pleasure of a woman but have found that my bi curious nature has made it easy to adapt to any situation. I now have had MFF experiences, MFM experiences, Partners watching, Parnters in other rooms and lots of fun in between. Also end up with some good friends.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey I agree with all you said and that's not being selfish on your part or other couples that think the same as you it's good it's healthy and fun for everyone and that's the trick
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have not always been single and remember the feeling you get watching your partner with another male, There is nothing better and if I can help others get that I will.......
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Generally speaking, "most" couples speak about what they each want from a MMF 3some..So they know what they want... Whereas most single women (A) havent got a clue what they want.. or... (B) due to the overwhelming male to female ratio on this site and other sites like it, women have too many options and generally make irrational decisions based on primitive neanderthal tendancies LOL ... sad but true (PS) if anyone would like me to elaborate on those neanderthal tendancies I'd be more than happy to, possibly in another forum topic. Well that basically narrows down my train of thought on the subject after doing it for 15 years now. ciao4now to know why a single guy such as yourself would be seeking couples. I would actually be keen to hear your response to her question.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' its about fun, for 3. but you know? the extra guy only shares a very small part of the fun....he misses out on the week long foreplay, the day of shared arousal and anticipation, and after its all said and done, the after glow and the fun that follows the encounter..... it doesn't stop when he leaves, sometimes that's when it begins in earnest, and other times, its the start of another week of foreplay and arousal..... he gets a few hours of play if he's lucky, while we get to revisit the occasion whenever our fantasies lead us there.......together. Bloody cockteaser !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you have posted your answer on the wrong thread, I mean your answer although it does have a general whinge about women doesn't answer the question. I think you may have wanted to answer the bad boy thread in the Hot section?!?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I identify with a few responses here. 1st Meeka an almost 5ft powerhouse of sexuality. wow gr8 response. 4 me it's safe no attachment issues, just sport sex. I love to give pleasure too but there is something in it 4 me too. 1 the sensation of a DP is pretty awesome, as well as the anal that feels so good it should be banned 2. the voyeur aspect. 3 the stamina aspect, gotta keep the lady happy and happening. also the biggest drawcard is not so much about the couple but about our brains, the realization of fantasy/'s. Couples who play generally have their rules and everything is straightforward open, the hesitation of if I try this what will they think is generally taken out of the situation. Then remember there is latitude to push our boundaries safely if the couple is bi curious we can explore that, if they're straight there's a line not to cross. Personally if the sex is that good what does the gender really matter, in the heat of the moment. Above all if we all walk away satisfied and happy it's all worth it, (presuming one can stand after all that shagging)
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leeroybbad
12 years ago
Well Ms Luckdragon23...should I ever find myself in Townsville and you have a bi guy friend interested in fulfilling that fantasy of yours, I would be happy to oblige should you choose
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's about meeting a couple and flirting with them outrageously, the most arousing part is sitting around chatting, and it is very exhilarating to openly seduce another man's wife and incite them both. Perhaps it's also an attraction to kinky couples and the exciting but incredibly relaxing atmosphere that pours off them. Maybe all guys are just kinky as hell, or maybe our mum's didn't love us enough, but The 'slutty -wife' (there I said it) is just a very hot concept ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree luckdragon23!! Well said :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'leeroybbad' Well Ms Luckdragon23...should I ever find myself in Townsville and you have a bi guy friend interested in fulfilling that fantasy of yours, I would be happy to oblige should you choose bi guys are like four leaf clovers up here
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had this experience with my ex. We were both mentally prepared and we both rolled with it.. The guy in question was happy to go along with what we had in mind and reassured Mrs he wasnt there to only just get his rocks off and only join in when invited....Then there was no rush and all relaxed. I knew Mrs was excited and starting to relax but still wanted to start with me.. Was'nt long before she looked to our guest and invite him join in and went on to enjoy her first MFM... Any apprehension she had prior was in her words ' a waste of worry ' About a week later she suggested a second round with the same guy... to do the things she missed the first time..So anybody who says its all 'bullshit' to think of the couple before yourself is full of it.. That experience showed me there is a right and wrong way to approach a couple.. A couple has far more to think about than the single male out for a root only.. Show a couple a easy way in 'or out' and everyone's happy... These days ' Im the invited one and I use the same approach... By giving, you always get back... Jay
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' So anybody who says its all 'bullshit' to think of the couple before yourself is full of it.. That experience showed me there is a right and wrong way to approach a couple.. A couple has far more to think about than the single male out for a root only.. Show a couple a easy way in 'or out' and everyone's happy... These days ' Im the invited one and I use the same approach... By giving, you always get back... JaySarapis wasn't referring to guys who say they put the couple first....he was referring to the ones who say it is ALL about the couple and their own needs / pleasure don't matter at all. And I agree that in a group situation I don't think that anyone's needs should be considered totally irrelevant. I'm sure that these guys are actually getting pleasure from the experience, and that if they weren't they probably wouldn't be doing it, so why not just admit that?? I don't think that's selfish, that's what the majority of us are here for isn't it...to both give and receive sexual pleasure!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Of course . If it was all about the couple that would be so. What I am saying is when a couple enter into a MFM situation, they have far more to consider than just themself as in the case of a single male without no one to please but themself. I find the more space I give a couple the smoother things go.. and I never miss out on anything.. Wouldnt be there if thats the case... Jay
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm looking to find woman of any age in Melbourne for fun times. I'm finding it hard. Is it I'm too young or I'm just not the right type. I'm just a nice young guy wanting a chance. Please help. E !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Youngtradie1993' I'm looking to find woman of any age in Melbourne for fun times. I'm finding it hard. Is it I'm too young or I'm just not the right type. I'm just a nice young guy wanting a chance. Please help. E ! wrong thread dude....check out the other forum sub-headings particularly under Hot Topics, lots of other guys find it hard and have asked for advice so you can have a read of the responses to them. Also, if you really want some action I'd suggest paying for a membership so that you can send messages. With the very skewed ratio of men to women on here, not many single women pay as they receive enough messages to not have to. So if you're relying on the women to contact you, you are going to find it pretty tough.
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RHP User
12 years ago
personally i wouldn't actively seek couples.... but doesn't mean i would write it off, the reason that i am on here is that i want to meet people and have new experiences! in saying that i think with a couple i would have to get to know them really well first and feel extremely comfortable before anything would happen,
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hello every one we live in perth and are looking for a MMMMMf Group, can anyone steer us in the right direction, not to keen on swingers clubs as they are to close to home
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would luv to find couple where female enjoys DP
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are all for the single guys and have met a few through this site. Spitroasting and DP are a few of our favourite things, and if the other guy is bi than even better! I still have visions of that last DP in front of the mirror... x Ms Shout
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RHP User
12 years ago
im looking to try fffm experience sometime its a fantasy id like to make happen it turns me on to watch women do there thing i on the other hand in return can do what is asked of me , now either im dreaming or it could become a reality with the right group of girls.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of couples profile state "No single men". Do they know what they're missing? We are all for the single guys and have met a few through this site. Spitroasting and DP are a few of our favourite things, and if the other guy is bi than even better! I still have visions of that last DP in front of the mirror... x Ms ShoutGood for you... must be like a kid in a lolly shop for you guys.. While ever most rebuke single guys on here, your happily collecting the spoils.. lol.. But I do understand why some couples get defensive and feel overwhelmed at the guys who keep in their faces.. Maybe because they have so many to choose from their affraid of making a wrong choice ? Decisions decisions... Jay...
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of women want to explore their bisexual side and have no interesting in fucking men that are not their husband/partner. This is why they say no single men.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Good for you... must be like a kid in a lolly shop for you guys.. While ever most rebuke single guys on here, your happily collecting the spoils.. lol.. Spoil is the right word, and I'm sure Ms Shout would agree! Mr Tryst
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi. For many years it has usually been the male of the couple who sourced me to join them for a 3some. Whether it was via RHP or similar or from contact at a party or club. MMF has been an amazing experience everytime if you treat both with equal respect. Dont forget he has with consultation with his lady allowed you to into the mix. To see her enjoyment and fulfillment of her sexual desires and /or fantasies is worth the journey alone but to have him also thankyou for all of his reasons is amazing. To be able to sit and chat with them as a couple before and after playing is a lesson in individual personalities and desires and finding once again how everyone/every couple are different. FMF with my lady is just as rewarding. To sit back and watch the ladies enjoy their time together and then be invited to join in....mind blowing. Unfortunately I see too many times at parties/clubs the males cant let the ladies have their moment without touching , groping, poking etc etc.. So a 3som either way can be a wonderful experience if you approach it with the right attitude and respect.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey guys if you are looking I'm keen
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RHP User
12 years ago
My wife has been the driver to expand on our sexual experiences. we have had FFM's in the past but only a week ago (actually this time last week we were starting to have wondering hands in the bed) was our first MFM.now id admit im pretty nervous and shy when it comes to others getting involved and its taken me a while to get use to the idea. i guess im a little too vanilla some times. Wife see's sex as sex but iv always considered it more and so i was on the back foot for a while with the whole idea.for me it came down to trust and confidence. i was far more worried and nervous and over analysing everything prior to it happening than once it was under way.im straight, i think the guy who joined us experiments which is cool if thats your thing. he knew i was straight and only interested in playing with my wife and he was free to play with her too (he apparently enjoyed watching her suck me so he seemed happy too i guess).i am body concious (no 6 pack around here and im not hung like a horse either) and i didnt know how i was going to handle being naked in bed with my wife and another man, but once we started to play and have some fun i become much more at peace with it. during the event i was not worried about what we could all see or if i happened to touch him while trying to position myself better for the mrs or anything. I think it was one of those things where, because your new to it your a little nervous, not sure how it will all go. but i must say it was quite an enjoyable evening, i didnt freak out anywhere near as much as i thought i might watching my wife take him in her mouth or even watching them fuck. i guess id say im still not 100% comfortable with it but much more comfortable than i originally was. im not sure if i personally would make it a regular thing but a one off bit of fun where the mrs can be take every which way by 2 guys is fine (and its something she has wanted to try for a while and was pretty happy i came to the party and agreed) Back to the original point. my wife get a mass amount of single males who are almost all up for joining in with a couple. i dont know if that would be my thing if i was single but there seem's to be plenty out there who dont mind joining in with the couples.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have played with a few couples now as a single guy (along with couple on couple fun). It's good reading peoples take on this interesting dynamic. For me it was all about exploring my sexuality... then it just became fun to find a great couple and enjoy a night of fun. Isn't that at the end of the day what it's all about - just finding things that you enjoy :) M
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you do go down the path of MMF or MFM just be ready for some limp dicks. I've had a few MMF/MFM over the years and some guys just don't get hard even when it's as erotic as hell so be prepared to be disappointed with some men.DP as previously mentioned is a bit of a logistical obstacle buy still very achievable. Bi MMF seems to be much more common these days but many men do not say they they are bi or curious on their profiles because so many people hate any form of bi male activity or interest. In a 3-some some men will let another guy suck them but won't return the favour which is of course their choice. Personally I will do some bi oral play in a setting with women present especially if I know it's a real turn on for the women, which for a lot it is.I did one MMF with my ex wife & she was very turned on by it. In fact it was the only time she has licked her own nipples & was the first time I did some bi play with her.As with all forms of sex, if it feels good do it, if it doesn't, stop.
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chevtrek
12 years ago
love to see a woman enjoy and if 2 guys gets her screaming then that gives me pleasure..
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RHP User
12 years ago
There's a few reasons why I'm interested in couples. The first reason is the same as you, Luckdragon, that it's easier than trying to find a single man and single woman. But apart from that pragmatic reason, I love watching people having sex when they have genuine feelings for each other (you know, the opposite of what happens in porn. ugh). Being with a couple gives you the chance to do things that you can't do when there's only two people involved, what with the extra hands, tongues...etc. So many more sensations to explore. Imagine a massage when there are not two, but four hands! And with a MF couple, there's the opportunity to explore the "best of both worlds" so to speak, and playing with a guy for her enjoyment.xx Stuck
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you're ever in Sydney give us a shout and who knows, a tryst. x Ms Shout
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'damon_diggler' If you do go down the path of MMF or MFM just be ready for some limp dicks. I've had a few MMF/MFM over the years and some guys just don't get hard even when it's as erotic as hell so be prepared to be disappointed with some men. really? we've never experienced any 'performance anxiety' with any of the males we've encountered....everyone's been up to whatever was asked....100% so far........
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tryst_and_shout' We are all for the single guys and have met a few through this site. Spitroasting and DP are a few of our favourite things, and if the other guy is bi than even better! I still have visions of that last DP in front of the mirror... x Ms Shout ours says 'no married' men....and we've never not been able to find someone....bi 3's are sensational...and DP, well, its not the acrobatic feat everyone complains about...matter of fact its pretty easy to accomplish...even for us oldies.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' bi 3's are sensational...and DP, well, its not the acrobatic feat everyone complains about...matter of fact its pretty easy to accomplish...even for us oldies.Not difficult at all. But oh so hard!
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RHP User
12 years ago
is a fascinating thread and great read. Joining a couple as a single guy has always intrigued me and I have had some really nice offers but as yet not been brave enough to jump in. Following on from some of the comments I think I would prefer if I were the M in the couple as then you get the build up and the afterglow as mentioned above.Very interesting to read all the views :)
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