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Single guys with couples
July 15 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
If its any comfort, judging by personal experience and replies to this and other threads, it has happened to us all at some point. Definitely frustrating though, I feel for you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
thats what I reckon, not a biggie really. However I can empathise with those that have things to organise (ie: kids, etc) and are let down
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RHP User
11 years ago
I believe myself a genuine member, surely wouldn't disappoint by braking promises... I am proved more punctual in many situations- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I m just new to RHP, not yet verified... But surely I wouldn't disappoint u couples / single gals... Give a try with me- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
i am young and \very keen its really hard to find a couple or single women wanting young always i get response youre young.I dont understand whas the point.really waiting for something to turn up:s
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RHP User
11 years ago
keep looking and you will find. 1 thing - time is on your side, your young. But you know that, just had to throw that in
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fortunately, we found some luck and met up with a lucky guy. It was so much fun and such a dirty night. It was fantastic and we'll be calling him again soon. It's about finding the right person.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Had twoBut looking for better specimens
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sydney_tradie
11 years ago
ive found on here there are alot of keen couples who are willing to meet up with single guys but then go all cold just before meeting and change there mind before even meeting up
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TWOfourYOU
11 years ago
Hey thought we would say we have a new found confidence and things have been somewhat restored after meeting a lovely guy! Who knows how to treat a couple! (More importantly respectfully to the lady)!Awesome!
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sydney_tradie
11 years ago
any couples that seek a single guy just msg me, if we swap pics and all is fine il def turn upview my validations
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RHP User
11 years ago
.... as much as you like. Nothing's gunna change. Most couples / females come here for the entertainment value and to dabble with their fantasies. When it comes to reality and the game suddenly becomes real, its easier for them to back off to the safety of normality. As a male with moderate success with couples , the thing I learnt some time back was to let them choose you, not the other way around. Can't help but notice some posters come across as desperate and promise the world.. Sorry guys, not a good look.
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totallygenuine
11 years ago
Not a good look at trying to sell yourself up on here (especially you single guys). If your not getting recognised try updating your profile with better wording along with msg's and pics. Verifying your profile would be a good start as well. TG
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Then you tell them you have a friend you'd like to experience a couples scenario with and things just go downhill from there.... I've messaged, txt, been completely honest and respectful and nothing! Have met some couples on my own who've become friends without the usual benefits which is fine but finding a pair to play with.....that was a futile effort. As for cold calling a party Wedgey, you'd have more men than women arrive on your doorstep and I'm wondering how you'd handle that scenario? :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have never had problems getting commitment from single guys anytime of night, it's the single girls we find are difficult to master!
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Mr_Invisible
11 years ago
I've never missed a planned date everTheres alot of people that flirt,tease and back out though
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RHP User
11 years ago
had my first experience with a couple this week....and it was awesome...... thanx guys
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RHP User
11 years ago
Honestly, I like it. I like to meet couple
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RHP User
11 years ago
I want to try watching couple having sex. I they want, I can to lick until she cum
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'just_chill_n'had my first experience with a couple this week.... and it was awesome...... thanx guys LMAO!!!
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lukey8820
11 years ago
funcple6569 pick me ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am very surprised to hear that single guys don't end up showing... Unfortunately I've had the opposite problem with couples not responding to messages which makes me quite upset as I genuinely want to meet a couple/couples... So any couple wanting to meet a genuine guy please let me know and hopefully it will be a win win situation for all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
sad I know but the ebay star system seems to reward good players.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Works for us.. I do the pickups, just be straight up your with your husband and your looking for another player on the feild so to speak.. and the rest is easy.. Never had a problem and MFM is Awesome... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
you hit the nail on the head, spur of the moment is good, if not... next
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wow, I had no idea there were so many no shows... I've had some fantastic meets with couples and don't understand why guys would go to the effort of opening communication, arranging to catch up and then not turn up if invited...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm a single guy live in revesby have a nice thick cock, let me know if anyone is interested :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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BrisOrgyfun
11 years ago
Hey if you think getting a single guy to turn up hard... try pulling a group together.We have organised quite a few and it takes real work for a good funtime.Couples can be just as bad as no shows as singles...Meet and greet with hot sex the bonus is best.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of course I can't judge for everyone BUT ( there's always a but) It's six of one half a dozen if the other, I've met played & enjoyed with single women & couples.... The other extreme is being let down by both. ( even on a second try) I guess some people enjoy the chase, but when they finally get down to "it" they produce the great vanishing act.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't label all of us- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is pretty much the same as for meeting anyone off here and how to filter through the time wasters.I would suggest looking for evidence of how committed they are to actually meeting you. Stuff like:How much effort have they actually made in emailing you or chatting?Have they invested in being able to contact you?How punctual have they been in their responses?Have they provided more than one point of contact for you to communicate with them? Have they given you a mobile number?The more of these things they have done the more likely they are to be serious and genuine about meeting up.All the best ; )
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GunnaBHot
11 years ago
We've had a few no shows but the one thing that strikes us is alot of the guys wont break a routine to meet. Its like "well lets meet next week" and their response is "I work, then gym and then eat and then do something but I really want to meet"! So we have to get the hotel after arranging a date around the guy's very busy schedule and then we get a text - "picked up an overtime shift" or "working this weekend misread my roster"!! Like are they serious or just wanking at the time they messaged us in the first place? Who knows!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's so annoying how guys turn forums such as this into advertisements for themselves. If you haven't got anything constructive to add to the conversation then don't say anything...douches. My 2 cents is either call or meet/greet prior to catching up for play...also check their validations and friends...if they have none then most likely they are time wasters and are not genuine.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are just lucky I guess, we have never had a single guy not show. Maybe our bull$hit radar works. We are pretty selective for guys we would actually engage. We have met a few gents and decided not to play for whatever reason, but never had an issue attracting or meeting single guys. Single girls....completely different...that has been elusive and we sooo enjoy it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always offer to meet in public first. I have also gone straight to a couples house or hotel room. Nothing worse than paying for a hotel room and the other party (either the guy or couple) don't show.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is sad but true that the anonimity of RHP lets ones fantasies get in the way of reality. People tend to be much braver or more brazen online with the anonimity of a username rather than a real one. It's not only single guys, girls and couples too. I'm guilty of not showing up, Once. it was a group thing and (I just got cold feet)I did ring and said I had to work but felt terrible about it 4 days. But I live in hope, perhaps oneday I'll tickle some couples/groups fancy and I'll wear thermal socks this time lol happy fantasizing all Birdie
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm keen to join a couple any around- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I want too- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
HiI'm a single guy who never had experience with couple. I actually find very hard even to get in touch with couples on this and other websites. Most couples look for other couples or single females and few couples are after males. I don't know if I will ever manage to meet a couple from here
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have had quite a few pre arranged meetings with couples through this and other sites. I have never stood someone up and when we met I didn't just blow and go, I/we had a great time. I understand that it must be hard to sort through the time wasters and wannabes but it is worth it.I too have issues with couples arranging to meet and then backing out at the last minute. The worst is when they just don't show and are from then on are not contactable.Very frustrating indeed.If a couple on here wants a guy who is genuine, clean, confident and will stay for more than an hour then I hope that they consider me.Best regards,Sergio.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have not had a bad experience or no show yet. I have always showed up myself and had great times. So have not been disappointed yet touch wood haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've had one or two couples do a no-show, and I know of a few guys who regularly get cold feet even just meeting a girl out for a date.If you speak to them on the phone a few times and meet them out somewhere that isn't too intimidating then chances are it will be all good. When you stick to texts/msg/e-mail its all to easy to distance yourself and for people to do a no-show.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hmmm.... Yes we have been stood up heaps by single guys. Generally those that are full of balls and say in chat ""I'd do your missus, no worries" and then when you organise to meet, the excuses are very free flowing. To me, you either swing or you don't.... I really sigh when people say they are first timers, or that they just want to watch. There is no true way to tell if they will end up coming over, or joining in on a party. Even harder is to organise a gang bang..... Of course you would like single fellas to join you, after all that is like the theme of it... But again, tyre kickers and big talkers filled the invite list, and no one had the decency to contact - even though some had been recommended by other couples as genuine players. And yes, honesty in this day and age is some what a novelty over the internet, as many hide behind computers in an alter-ego state.... Honestly, I have no patience for time wasters and can spot the crap from a 100 yards...... I love the experience of everyone playing. I (Ms Raves) don't mind if the guys aren't bi - and it is something we don't ever push. We are respectful of the genuine folks who we have made contact with in chat or message, but the next time I hear that their mother is in hospital, dog got hit by a car, my mate wont leave atm...... - I swear I'll........ You know ...... Flip my wig! There are serious couples who do spoil their play mates sexually.... And are genuine players with out hang ups... Guys should really just be honest with themselves and rate an experience with couples either as a fantasy (to keep in back of mind) or action their impluses and be open to new exciting things. Understanding some boys are quite shy and find it overwhelming when the time comes to meet, all it takes is a phone call and ask what ever questions you have.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ms Raves
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RHP User
11 years ago
We love a good play but we are slowly starting to belive that the single male may be going down the extinct path.. We find that couple clubs and private parties are a great way to meet some genuine people with the same interests. And if you are a genuine guy/ get in touch ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Simple.. ask if you can speak to them if they say no then they are hiding something, ask them to book a motel under their name and you will split the difference after meeting them or a quality restaurant. If they know that they wont show then they wont agree to it. Maybe speak to other couples that have played with them and ask them how reliable they are. No shows are ruining it for everyone and I'm sorry to say but it wont stop anytime soon so good luck to you all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I am not a time waster..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes you provide a contact number and never hear from the person again, extremely annoying.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm a single guy, no one will reply to me!! I'm keen as mustard but no chance- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've always turned up. But I can always tell if someone is genuine or flaky, just the way they talk, how committed they are, and just use your judgement. YOu can always tell if someone is serious after a good chat.Having them turn up to somewhere always gives them an easy out, if they organise the venue, book the hotel, means there is commitment.But absolutely love joining couples, I find couples are the most reliable, two people involved and they have to go to trouble, so I enjoy and never let them down
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RHP User
11 years ago
yep, the ladies for sure are the same as the men
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RHP User
11 years ago
When i first started meeting couples I could not believe my luck....I was actually being sought out via word of mouth because i was reliable and had experience so i was told. I was lucky enough to have regular contact with regular couples who communicated with each other on this and similar sites. We often discussed our likes, wants and also experiences. Too often I heard of the guys before not showing up or not being up for what they said ónline' and a fair few other reasons. The golden era of swinging for me! . Took a break from the lifestyle for a while ....but having another go . Its just a shame that it makes it so much harder to make a catchup happen because of these no shows.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am a reliable single male, but it seems all the unreliable ones have ruined it for everyone else!
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have only just started on this site and i know my profile isnt the best and also i have no photo so i havent helped myself to start with. i have had some computer issues but hopfully next week an old girlfriend of mine will help me pimp my profile.upgrade,photo,description.But going on what you said that you cant find any men that show up i think some people are just like that for whatever reason but you havent met me yet, with me what you see is what you get. If i say im going to do something ill do it.Bit old fashion like that,be nice and dont tread on anyone. So we are out there we just havent crossed paths yet. I cant wait to start meeting new friends on this site as i work alot and dont have time for clubs and pubs,iv been single for a while now and my sex drive is off the wall i would be glad to show you that we are out there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Life is hard for everyone. As a single guy I have to send 20 messages to get 1 or 2 reply, most of the time the answer is: "sorry you are not my type" or "we are flat out with single guys messages". However, when I have the chance to get to know the couples we always end up in the bedroom and often I'm invited to join them again. So I'm pretty sure there is nothing wrong with me, but the way the online couples behave behind the computer. I'm genuine, good looking, look after myself and DO TURN UP IF INVITED, but this seems not to be enough sometimes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What kills more than that is the few honest guys here that wld turn up 100% now struggle due to these tools being no more then ego trippers or picture hunters:( Try the real guys like myself n I've noticed there are some of us still here (as per feed bak in profiles)
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RHP User
11 years ago
My advice to couples is ; first work out what you are looking for, read people's profiles, read their validations and decide if this person is worth your time. If you are simply going to be superficial and look for the typical "Tall and Well Hung' without checking what they are actually about you are bound to end up in disappointment more often than not. A little respect goes a long way. If you treat the guys you are looking for as normal people not just 'Human Dildos' you will find the cream of the crop right here. I personally consider it a great privilege to be invited to play with a couple. I turn up, give it my absolute best so all parties can have a great time and make it a memorable experience.
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Rainmaker007
11 years ago
I think there are a lot of fake profiles on this site. Personally i have met a few couples and single ladies and had lots of fun. Its best to deal with verified and/or validated people and to talk on the phone and skype if possible before arranging a meet. Can't believe there are men you don't show up to meet the sexy ladies on here!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it's like that for both sides, a lady friend told me a story of a guy who message her, sent photos and she thought great! a fit guy trim toned with hair as well. When he turned up he was a short guy, quite chubby dressed in a suit with a really expensive car and a lot of gold jewellery. She felt that he thought the expensive car and the gold watch and chains would get him over the line. Sadly it didn't.I think Rainmaker007 is right there are a lot of fakes!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have had a few last minute sorry cant make its, but I guess you take the good with the bad. It's that anticipation. I also think that some people may not look like there pics so people may turn up and balk when they see the person/ couple. If you're playing solo with your partners consent is it best to have a separate profile or just send a message stating that its the male half that has an interest? Ps lets not get started on single women who you message for ages to get to know then if you propose meeting up everything goes quiet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The unreliable single guys out there are making it very hard for those that are genuine. In saying that many couples aren't great either. Two weekends ago I arranged to meet a couple. Drove 45 minutes to there area. As I pulled up I called to say I was there and was told sorry we changed our minds. The next day I arranged to meet another couple. Drove to meet them and they never showed up. Where are the genuine Sydney couples for a genuine Sydney guy???
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cremecaramel
11 years ago
Same goes for girls with couples. Sometimes- Posted from rhpmobile
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