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So, what's average, anyway?
July 10 2012
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
I'm 5'7" size 12, go to the gym almost every day but because athletic to me = lean muscle mass, and slim = skinny, average seemed like the best definition.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who freakin' cares. Pick the next in the queue, Angelic. Sounds like an eedjit. Your pic is lovely, btw.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Our culture is getting more obese as the years go by, so 'average' is also getting bigger. A 5'6"... 82.5kgs woman has a BMI of almost 30. According to the BMI scale (merits can be endlessly argued), such a woman is overweight and heading to obese. I tend to agree.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
What a goose. Whats average. What if the girl is 6" then if she weighs 65kg what is she compared to someone 5'6"& weighing 65kg. My idea of whats average is different to somebody else. It is what makes us human is that all of us are attracted to a range of body types.Its why we come in all shapes & sizes.So often we judge the wrapping rather than discover the real person.And as with a present its whats inside that is what we value. I know its a sex site but for me i have to gell with the person,have some chemistry,communicate & be attracted to them,the whole of them. He needs to list his definition of average & leave the rest of us to judge our "average " Not a great word to use to describe someone is it.
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rc_80
12 years ago
You know, he is wrong. 80-85 IS pretty much average (as of today, not 30-50 years ago).Problem is, 80-85kg is also overweight and fat. In fact, at 5'6" you'd actually be classed as obese (BMI 30.2).http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/features/bigger-taller-wider/story-e6frg8h6-1111115975557
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RHP User
12 years ago
How often do we describe ourselves as average? i do with certain things..if a guy is not 6 foot tall he is short..i consider myself as average height.. if a guys cock is not 8 inches plus its not big..if its a few inches its small..all else is average. makes me average.. now to the question at hand.. weight and size i think is relative to the person. personally i would rather an " average" person than a high maintanence one if that makes sense ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
....a male supermodel where the "average" size of the plethora of woman around him at his beck and call are a size 0.Lucky boy!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Average... the national average is now F A T/ Oveweight ... Poor Diet , lack of excercise ... that is the average Is easy to be a fat lazy fucker ... But your not allowed to say that or say you dont find it attractive ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
On the flipsideCheck nudierudie, she says her body is average.Thats one scalding hot arse..just my opinion
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RHP User
12 years ago
i mean Nudierudie2....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80' You know, he is wrong. 80-85 IS pretty much average (as of today, not 30-50 years ago).Problem is, 80-85kg is also overweight and fat. In fact, at 5'6" you'd actually be classed as obese (BMI 30.2).http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/features/bigger-taller-wider/story-e6frg8h6-1111115975557at least the guy was honest i guess...although i wouldn't be telling anyone what to write in their profiles, it's none of his business.... and it's only harsh if you believe it to be true, or take it personally.... letting someone else determine how you feel is not taking responsibility for your own thoughts!also, i wouldn't tell anyone their overweight... unless they asked. Then i would politely give them an honest opinion....
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RHP User
12 years ago
When referencing weight "average" would probably be the most abused term in the dating world !Without going into statistical definitions "average" is the middle ground and unfortunately that is now quite overweight for both men and women.At 65kg what he would be referring to is "ideal" or what I think of as "healthy".
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and as I've yet to figure out AU sizing, I wouldn't be able to tell without looking at your pictures. After all, you could be a body builder. After looking at your pictures, I'd say "a little extra padding" is accurate as you've got the sexy Botticellian thing going for you and I don't throw that term around lightly. Is "a little extra padding" the first word I'd use to describe your body? Fuck no. "Curvy," "womanly," etc. come to mind, and few women of your height and weight can say that. "Average" is selling yourself short. Now is it fine that this d-bag criticised you for it? No.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What you class yourself as? If you have pics up (which, in my opinion everyone should have - whether public or private) Take a look, if you like what you see progress, if you don't move on!! Simple, why does everything have to be rocket science... with a profile like that I'm guessing it's not doing him any favours.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey I am working on it! Step away from the cock chips ummm choc chips Yes I am fatter than I would like to be, but working on it as in gym and trying not to eat a loaf of bread in one go. I have had three back ops in three years and not able to ride a bike or horses but men are ok, so the doc said Western society has a big problem, poor people have not much choice as the crap food is cheaper than good food. Like the add says if you can grab a handfuls of your gut then do something about it and keep on it, before its to late. People will not tell you to your face if your fat , you need to tell it to your self when you look in a mirror , its more about health than what you look like. Some women are lovely and luscious and so long as they are fit and healthy that’s fine Its the skinny ones with fingers down throat that have a problem. And the stupid magazines and TV with airbrushed images , puts the lie to what is average. Each person is attracted to different body types, depends on your linage to a degree what shape you are. But over weight is just that, to much food in the mouth and not enough exercise.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...at the 'Mall' or whatever, look around you. If there are roughly as many women heavier than you as there are those who are thinner, that would make you average. I suspect the stroker you were talking to has a limited range of sizes that HE finds attractive. Women any thinner than example 'a' are too skinny, while women heavier than example 'b' are too fat and, to his mind, those in the middle are average. Just tell him he doesn't meet your criteria as he is of below average intelligence.
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RHP User
12 years ago
jensman,that is why you are such a favourite with many women here,including moix Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
I class myself as average .... I've been a lighter weight that I am now and I've been heavier .... bit of a yo-yo queen over the years oops! I figure people can make their own assessment by looking at my photo whether or not they think I'm average in their opinion ... BMI can be misleading by simply using weight and height. Just by using these numbers a lot of body builders would be considered overweight for their height .... Ummmm don't think anyone would think a bodybuilder was overweight (or even obese if they were built enough!!)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Think that bloke has issues if he thinks women should state what and how they look he seems like a "ONE WAY" !Women are not here for his self enjoyment,IDK why guys think like that !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Another pay out on the fatty thread. Gotta love those. . The wanker probably has a less than averaged sized penis and puts "large" on his profile. I am average ......for me! I have been bigger than I am now and I have been smaller. I fill out my jeans as well as I need to and if someone does not like me the way I am then they can piss off and find someone else. It is that easy! Really!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Go onto google and look up BMI index indicator.that will tell you what the good doctors think of your body mass to height for it varies for every one.But i think the average body type can apply to women with curves in the right places a lot of women get away with that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wasn't talking to him and he wasn't writing about me. It was just a profile I stumbled across and it prompted me to ask. Interesting, honest feedback though. Thanks all. I'm off to change my profile to 'a little extra padding'.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seriously , you are gorgeous , womanly , perfect , divine !!! My hubby would eat you alive !!! .... You ate NOT extra padding girl ! Shezzz , 10 % of men like super fit gym bodies , 10 % like bit wobbly Huge bodies , the rest like women , curvy and soft :) you ate above average and have a gorgeous Girly body , celebrate and own it!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
who care what people think as long as you are comfortable yourself....an i do believe that on anyones profile its how you consider yourself....if you think your sexy.......PUT SEXY....lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
average to me is your every day person from all walks of life.
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Cat505
12 years ago
Taipan. I wouldn't call you average...yum.. If you are ever in Perth look me up.. Cat xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
So many things need to be considered with averages (lean muscle, fat %, even breast size LOL). I guess perhaps its more of what is "normal". As far as I am aware a size 12 is about normal. If you are 6ft, that might equate to 80kg, and if 5ft 60kg. Who gives a rats anyway. Everyone has differing views of themselves, and what they like in others. So long as you love yourself, who cares what others think!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes an exaggeration - big to small.Sometimes a flattery - not how others see oneSometimes delusionalEven to "Comfortable with me"I think Average has a wide and varied range and can mean very different things to many...but i like to think of it as the last one.2B :) Curious - Always
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just my opinion and based on experience. Most are shallow when it comes to looks but lets be honest....98% of us are average and realistically know who we can get. To answer your question i read an article on this which was from 2010. Not my opinion just the article based on research. In the 1920s they said the average male was......173cm (5'8) and weighed 72 kilos. average female was....163cm (5'4) and weight 62 kilos. In 2010 it was average male......178cm (5'10) and 83 kilos average female....164cm and 71 kilos. That doesn't account for fitness level just the stats. I'm in the fitness area and a basic rule of thumb for a good height to weight ratio is add 1 kilo for every centimeter of height over 1 meter tall. So it's easy to do....if you're 1.75 meters tall (5'9) a weight of 75 kilos is close to the ideal weight for that height.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Average is not an appropriate adjective.... it's such an ambiguous word.... in fact all the options are!That is why I have see my photo.Cass xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have your ever been really attracted to an average looking woman? Poker99 08-22-2011, 08:20 AM Physically average but still make you lust over her and you're not sure why? micwalt 08-22-2011, 08:24 AM Absolutely. Calum 08-22-2011, 08:25 AM Yes. Devil is Dill 08-22-2011, 08:25 AM Yes. Barry_Blink_a_lot 08-22-2011, 08:25 AM Oh god yes. This is a phenomenon I refer to as "weird hot". It even extends to downright ugly girls. There's just no 'splainin' attraction. Actionsquid 08-22-2011, 08:26 AM Yeah, for sure. rhino55 08-22-2011, 08:27 AM Eager beats pretty Steinmetzify 08-22-2011, 08:28 AM Absolutely.....my junk has a mind of it's own. Sauntman 08-22-2011, 08:54 AM Yes, if she is ugly, but has a nice body. No, if she is fat and ugly. I can't recall a time I lusted for a fat & ugly. rusholmeruffian 08-22-2011, 08:55 AM Coworkers, mainly, but I think that's mostly situational. Flamencology 08-22-2011, 08:58 AM No. Chicken Monkey 08-22-2011, 08:59 AM Yes. I'm big on personality. lukeswall 08-22-2011, 09:00 AM no rsadasiv 08-22-2011, 09:01 AM Well, in my defense she didn't seem average at the time... GnR102385 08-22-2011, 09:03 AM Strangely attractive is the term I use, and yes I have:o CGord 08-22-2011, 09:03 AM Yeah, usually it's a smile or attitude that gets me. Scratch7 08-22-2011, 09:11 AM Yup. I'll take wit, coarseness and innate good nature over boss tits or whatever. Especially the latter, it contrasts rather nicely with my immense reserves of spite and all-round boorishness. Jesse G 08-22-2011, 09:43 AM There are all different facial features and whatnot that different people are going to feel especially drawn to. I've read that genetics plays a big role in the types of faces we're attracted to. Maybe when you see that average looking girl who just gets your attention for some reason, you're genetically predisposed to be attracted to her set of features. Pheremones, too.Sometimes there is just something about someone who is otherwise average and it just grabs your attention moreso than a certain model or actress who is obviously smoking hot all around. tiger roach 08-22-2011, 09:44 AM Not today so far, but yeah. Yer Blues 08-22-2011, 09:57 AM Of course. Are they attracted to average looking men? :confused: tiltsta 08-22-2011, 11:04 AM Thousands of them. vikingrat 08-22-2011, 11:34 AM Of course not. If she doesn't have the foxy looks of Ritchie Blackmore i don't have the time of day for her. I am just being honest. Honest. Jimmy James 08-22-2011, 12:13 PM It's only a short term attraction that's mostly about you being in a season of horniness. After you've banged her, reality sets in. I was there. AaronF 08-22-2011, 12:35 PM Definitely. I remember the first time I found an average looking girl to be extremely attractive. It was the start of me realizing physical attractiveness isn't a top priority in finding wench material. lonechicken 08-22-2011, 12:42 PM Yes, when I broke up with a long-time girlfriend, graduated from college, and started my first real job. Any random girl would do at the office... then I got better. :o Mel Cooley 08-22-2011, 01:16 PM Yes. Funny how the biological imperative works, huh? rusholmeruffian 08-22-2011, 01:26 PM I think it might be useful to post pics of some of the women considered "average looking." Steinmetzify 08-22-2011, 01:30 PM I remember this one time at band camp......I had just quit smoking and my g/f's boss walked in......completely average looking woman but wearing a great perfume and smoking a cigarette.I've never wanted a woman that badly in my life.
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cbteager
12 years ago
I don't see so called beauty as skin deep, I see it as femininity, with a touch of class and style with a good measure of self confidence. If a woman has these traits she is gorgeous. I am not attracted to really skinny women but I know a few who posess those traits and the turn me right on, I get a bit of an erection every time I see them, the same applies to some larger women I know who have those traits. I remember one instance when a woman I knew came around with a friend of hers that I only knew in passing who was what you would call "ample" she rearranged her clothes a bit in front of me and I saw a bit of flesh and I had to turn away because I got an instant full erection!
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cbteager
12 years ago
When it comes to guys, I have only know one who really turned me on, he was a character in a movie and I just wanted to have his children! But on the whole I don't find men attractive in the least, their cocks and balls however are a very different story, that is just plain pure lust for male sex organs.
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justswingingbi
12 years ago
Sucks. I am 178cm and 90 kilos, so bmi 28.5, and to be under 26 I need to be around 76 kilos. Last time I was 76 kilos I was a size 10, and that is just crazy. Even now I find that size 14 pants are a couple of inches too short... I know I am a little cuddly, but I am not going to become a scarecrow...
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I was in my wary twenties I was grossly underweight, incredibly self conscious, and afraid of how men looked at me lustfully, I had the magazines idea of the ideal figure, and I didn't know how to shake that thing... I was also unhealthy.. and completely lacking in confidence.. now I am ample, and if you want to call me fat I don't give a rats, I am healthy, confident, and men still look at me lustfully, only now I look right back at them, with no doubt at all about myself.. yesterday I walked past a lady who was seated, and she looked at me awestruck.. I had no idea why, I just kept going.. I went up to the counter, took a number and a seat, and waited.. that same lady came up to me and asked if anyone has told me how beautiful I am, and when I thanked her politely, she said she was sorry if she was embarrassing me, but as an artist, she recognised my figure as being something one would expect in a painting by Rembrandt, or from the Rennaissance period, and it was refreshing and rare to see a woman with a classic "womans" figure. The same day as a guy I rejected on here who wrote sonic poetic serenading email who suddenly called me fat when I politely declined.. I let the reactions of men as I walk past tell me all I need to know if I am in doubt, I also do what I can with exercise, and eating. I can't help genetics... And its not like I am a couch slug, this is just me. It's anyone elses loss if they can't see all the other aspects of my being I might not have felt the need to develop if all I had to rely on to get me through life was my physique... I am reubenesque, and I am proud of it... Not average.. ample...
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RHP User
12 years ago
So many great comments so far. I decieded I would like to buy my next block of land from a guy on this site... cause clearly many of them don't know measurements of their own appendage. I want to buy 8inches for the price of 4... sounds like an affordable deal. Having said that, I also know that it isn't the size but how you use it. I say the same thing about women... it isn't your size but how you wear it. Confident and well groomed wins over 'thin and boring' every day for me. Men who don't want a woman with curves are allowed to exist.... they just don't exist in my world cause I am a woman with curves. I make no apology for it. I am not of average intelligence and I don't put up the the average dickhead bloke. I am a classy lady who likes to have fun.... but only with people I like. Let him have his "average" woman.... Don't try to be average... always be brilliant! Angelic... you are beautiful and certainly not average - his loss (if you would have considered him!)!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I read that - that, which you stumbled upon...did you get any answers out of it??? bc it left me just confused lol...Just wondering, is all
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lil_bit_rusty
12 years ago
... a lifetime on the hips.... or a pleasurable compromise of the two... or three... or four, or more places that come to mind. .Angel I do believe that that guy is harsh in his view and I instead, prefer to infuriate people with my, "oh so nice and suckhole" comments. You can't please everybody... but you can have an awesome time trying to. .Average smaverage. The important thing is, readers, do you feel comfortable, sexy, attractive? Don't let anyone else tell YOU how YOU should feel about YOURSELF. I feel better about myself and my looks now than I ever have before, even though I have been fitter and leaner in the past. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, just as many aren't mine. I know however, that there are at least a few that appreciate me for WHO I am. That includes both my personality and my physical appearance. You want to rule me out because of my looks and physical attributes? Fine, your choice, though I'd rather be ruled out because my personality and opinions aren't what you're looking for..Give me that naughty sparkle in the eyes, that cheekiness in the smile, that intelligence in the conversation and I'm sold. I'll buy, or at least rent, the whole package like a shopaholic watching late night TV with an unlimited credit card. .So says a self confessed tart who loves women and sex. .It's corny but it's true:Love yourself and others will love you. .CheersRusty
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RHP User
12 years ago
if you have rolls of fat or a large belly ... your fat ... for me average is when your not hard bodied any more but you have curves in all the right places (women only )
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well we are members in both AMM and RHP and the best thing RHP could do is having a weight section in the profile stats where you put your weight in not just slim average or cuddly etc.We would also like to say to everyone who doesnt have any photos of themselves in their profile "get serious and stop wasting others time" lets face it looks are the first thing someone will form an opinion on.Well had our say lol and happy hunting people :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
OOPS forgot to say 5' 6" and 80-85 kg in our opinion isnt average it is over weight sorry to all who think this is wrong that is why we are all indivuals
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RHP User
12 years ago
INDIVIDUALS sheesh
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RHP User
12 years ago
most importantly IN OUR opinion people should be height/weight proportionaland if you dont know what is proportional useing a quote" basic rule of thumb for a good height to weight ratio is add 1 kilo for every centimeter of height over 1 meter tall. So it's easy to do....if you're 1.75 meters tall (5'9) a weight of 75 kilos is close to the ideal weight for that height.but Mrs uni says if she was 70kg she would feel over weight ...oh well go figure each to their own
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with Saskia if you have pics up what does it matter.If you can ask that guy to give us the National ranges so that we can fill our form accordingly
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes i admit im overweigh,t perm night shift for 4 yrs has given me 25 kilo more than im used to and like so im leaving nights this year as i cant stand it anymore and my health is more important, i wish i was average again it seems women are more harder on themself re there body type looks weight etc than men are men will say there athletic when they really arentare in there pic lie about there willy size the height there looks etc woman will say shes average when she has a beautiful figure ive been skinny athletic and up to about 35 and im now overweight cuddly fat is such a harsh word its mean as it gives negative feelings its used to hurt people ive had no problem re men as the decent ones arent so hung up on the wight they like u for u and there the men u want not the shallow men one guy messaged me recently who was into health and fitness and good for him for being so he stated he liked athletic women i messaged backj saying im not skinny please read my prolfile this time and get back to me he messaged back saying yeah no thanks it wont work but ill sleep with u i was like pft what a up himself jerk i wouldnt sleep with him if i was paid he is the one who missed out not me its hard to say men have pics that are 5 plus yrs old why cant one within 6 months b put up makes u wonder why i guess women do the same to im presuming its how u percieve yrself how u think u look some have alot more confidence so dont see themself as everyone else does i dont know maybe the guys mum told him to much how handsome he is and now he tyhinks hes better than u if i was u id just pass him and go to the next guy who appreciates u for u xxx plenty of real men out there
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RHP User
12 years ago
What would a Pygmie or Watusie consider as average? How big and how well proportioned is this guy? A perfect 10? While I'm here, on a slightly different subject, whats with women responding to a flirt with:"Sorry, but I don't s our planets colliding." Do people realise what happens when and if planets collide? Besides, I don't want our fucking planets to collide. I just want out happy bits to collide
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LemonDance
12 years ago
I've looked at lots and lots and LOTS of profiles on RHP over the years, both male & female and I have come to the conclusion that a women is more likely to be over critical, when choosing their "body type", than a man is. Women usually choose "average" when their pictures show a more than sensational figure, or they describe themself as "a little extra padding" when they have nothing but curves in all the right places. Then there are the male profiles, with sooo many of them choosing to check the "athletic" box or even the "average" box when one quick peek at their big bellied bodies tells you they have more than just a little extra padding and they've not been athletic or even close to average for a very long time, if ever!I've also met more than my share of men from RHP who love to tell their stories of when they met the "large" women who said she was slim/athletic/average and how they could not get away quick enough because she was HUGE... they say this while I gaze across the table at my "athletic" date, wondering if my D cup bra would fit his man boobies, or if he knows he has food crumbs piling up on his shelf like belly?
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RHP User
12 years ago
What can I say…? This topic is fairly hot button with me (Mr Tongue). First addressing your point Angelic, I do errrr toward saying that a women being 5’6” tall and weighing 80-85kg is average, or perhaps a little to the right on the ‘skinny – average – fat’ scale. Yeah I just made that up; it’s not a thing. Perhaps though, what this post is really about and what this man’s profile was getting at, is a discussion of semantics. Of course, I cannot put words into his (or your) mouth; however, maybe the word that should be in question is ‘ideal’. Essentially, my argument is just because a woman is 5’6”, 85kg, and considered average body type, does not necessarily fit into the ‘ideal’ average body type of what a (Western) male finds attractive. Let me qualify. Ok, so obviously, there are different tastes for every person, but we are speaking of averages here. I have no formal evidence or statistical data to support my assertions, but this is an opinion forum, so sue me. The idea of societal conditioning, I believe, has a tremendous influence into peoples normative behaviours, tastes, opinions, beliefs, et cetera. We may have heard of some societies that favour big woman. Being large, to them, conveys a sign of health and wealth. Nevertheless, here in Australia the societal image of the ideal womanly body is, for lack of a better word, slender. The predominant image of womanhood in media (movies, television, advertisements, you name it), on average, features a slender women and is often compounded by her sexual demeanour or pose, therefore reinforcing to the audience what is sexy and attractive. Furthermore, curvy women are also often sexualised, so for arguments sake I will say in proportion. We, as a society, are told that not over eating and exercising a certain amount is enough to keep you in at least the ideal average body type. For example, the NSW government campaign where an average adult is advised they should consume no more the 8700 kilo joules per day to remain healthy. In fact, the ‘8700’ website uses the phrase ‘ideal figure’. I see value in campaigns like this. On the other hand, I see increased pressure on the media to represent the average woman as ‘bigger’. I see little value in this idea. I empathise with the women who develop body and self-image issues because of the media’s portrayal of an acceptable womanly body. Many women are voluptuous and this is absolutely fine. There is no point trying to change what you cannot. Yet, I see no reason to perpetuate the idea that being unhealthy is okay. Just because we are a welfare society doesn't mean we have to encourage unhealthy habits. Perhaps I’m also a brainwashed monkey who is so conditioned to Western society that I cannot agree with any other view. However, I like to believe that modern science has developed sound conclusions that being overweight is not healthy. A situation I see constantly of what an average man finds attractive is when I am sitting at the poker table at the casino. I pick this example because I don’t know most of the men and they come from a variety of backgrounds and ages. So, when I’m sitting at one end of the table and can see 18 eyes suddenly removed from the table (and possibly thousands of $$$) I will bet my whole stack that it is the ‘ideal’ attractive woman walking behind me. She doesn’t have to be supermodel tall, or jailbait young. I just know she will be a slender (or in proportion) woman who clearly takes pride in her appearance, even if that appearance is socially constructed by Western society. I make no apology that I find overweight people unattractive. However, do not confuse my lack of sexual desire with disregard for them as a person. Everyone has a part to play in society and value they can contribute. On a sexual level though, for me, you will be judged. Yet, my comments here do not take into consideration the personality of a person. I am merely looking at this from a superficial point of view. The addition of personality will alter my argument. In addition, my opinion also applies equally to men (including myself); I was just trying to stay on topic of this thread. *** I do not speak for Mrs Cheek. Actually, she will probably not be happy about what I have written; no doubt, some of you will also take issue. Offence was not intended. I tried to articulate as best I could, but there is always room for improvement. But if you have read this far, clearly I was interesting enough and I say thanks. ***
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just checked out your pics. Now thats what I call a real woman. After a weekend of hot romping and burying my face in those gorgeous boobs and amazing thighs, I'd die a happy man.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks Rusty! I concur ...What you have written - well, that's me too! all of me, with my 'extra padding'.and a self-confessed tart who loves sex and all people. Rox
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RHP User
12 years ago
Woo difficult topic Hieght of 5'6" and 80-85 kgs from a health worker perspective is just bordering on obese that said I am 6'1" and 93kgs and am overweight on my BMI. However average is what is is the average of the entire population and with the increasing weight comes a plethora of health problems and this applies across the entire population. I have looked after pts in their 30s weighing over 110kgs and they can't see how this is affecting their health. There is the other end of thespectrum with body image issues causing extreme dieting and anorexia/bulimia. Modern lifestyles are not aiding in the discussion and it has beccome difficult to talk to poeople about weight issus. Too many people blame their metabolism or hormone issues but it is more about excersise. Don't get in the car and drive to the shop, walk to work if its a walkable distance 5ks is a good walk and you wiill find yourself energised when you get there. On the attractiveness issue many men like a woman with curves and others find slim to be their ideal. I like a woman with curves sexy but bordering on obese is not and have found women describe themselves as "a lttle overweight" when they are pretty much obese. A bit like the old joke "roll them in flour and fuck the wet spot". I also see far too many young women (teens to early 20s) who are obese and this will only get worse if they don't start doing something about it. Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hahahaha! Yes indeed! What about all the MEN on here who obviously have a Magic Mirror at home that shows them a much slimmer & fitter version of themselves!? So many men seem to remember themselves when they were at their peak of fitness & don't see the Beer Belly or "Moobs" that they now possess!? I know that I need to lose weight & I'm trying to walk it off & get fit for the sake of my own health. Not to impress anyone else but just so I look good in my bikini for Summer...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have to wonderin which cheeks you've been sticking your tongue. You could have condensed all that crap by 50%...and cut the racist crap with regard to women's bodies. I am non Australian and a real red blooded man's idea of a woman's body is exactly the same in that region as it is in Australia. Talking about curvy and slender, a real concern to me and I shook my head in disbelief when media personalities and various people raved on about Kate Middleton's 'killer bikini body." For fuck's sake!!! Is that the ideal woman? There is not the slightest suggestion of a curve on the woman. Her body is as flat as a board. Clearly, considering the way people raved on about that flat surfboard body, totaly bereft of any curves, we can assume that this is considered the dieal, enviable body. I see far more sexy, drop dead gorgeous Aaustralian women at the pool and the beach, but they don rate a mention because they are not married to a prince. lil.bit.angelic is right but she was being too polite to say it too. People, not just men, are harsh and prejucided towards women with curves, not just larger women. but hide behind vague double talk and bullshit. They dont have the balls or the brains to think for themselves but blindly and gutlessly abide by what is considered to be the norm by society. If I upset anyone's sensibilities, they can pucker up and kiss my furry brown butt.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The female half here would have to agree with that guy - 85kg is way overweight for a 5'6" woman. I'm not super skinny myself but at 5'8" I would feel very uncomfortable if I were that heavy. Having said that, for me 65/66kg is a good weight - I still have boobs and ass, curves so to speak, but I feel good about my body. Mt tummy is flatter, love handles at a minimum and less cellulite. I would call 65/66kg sexy, not average :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
average is a nice person inside and outside and if you cuddle your fingers can touch
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RHP User
12 years ago
Surely "Average" or otherwise, is how you perceive yourself, and can't be tied to a number on the dials of the scale.I've known some drop dead gorgeous women that I'd run a mile from, rather than have a relationship with (whether or not they would have me is a whole other question), and those who are "too skinny" or "too fat" that I'd be perfectly happy snuggling up with.The external package is but a small part of the package, and those who can't get past it aren't worth the time of day.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The simple mistake you are all making is you are looking at the words verses the pictures. Which is fair enough, as we search for new friends on here we look at the photos and read the attributes, to find someone who takes our fancy. This is all normal activity for us. However, when we're searching we are looking for bodies and attributes that turn us on, So, if we read someones attributes and look at there photo, and WE think that they don't quite match up, we form a negative opinion about that person. NOW, WHAT WE DON'T SEE, is the other persons mind!!!!!!!!! There insecurities, there shyness, there lack of confidence, and so on. What am I getting at, Well what I mean is when we join and have to select our body types and attributes, we can be undercerning. For instance, my partner is a little shy at first, and then once she knows you, cums out of her skin. This shyness has a tendancy to lower her own standards about herself, she thinks she's a little overweight, LIKE HELL,,,,,,,,she's gorgeous to me and perfect in everyway. But, on her profile she wanted me to put that she was average,,,,,,,,,,,I put slim as a comprimise...........................................So our psychy and outlook on ourselves will determine what we select for our attributes not our photo!!!!! Check out the pic.. checkout what there into and checkout what there looking for.......is it you!! not SELECTED attributes, you can only select a givin few and you will select on your THOUGHTS not your photo!!!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
soulstring heres a condensed version for ya your FULL of shit
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes Trax, yet your profile says "I have a broad outlook on life. I am non judgmental"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just so you know, the "I don't see our planets colliding" is translated as : "Theres not a chance in living hell that we are ever going to meet.". Unfortunately that isnt available as a response...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SoulStirring' I have to wonderin which cheeks you've been sticking your tongue. You could have condensed all that crap by 50%...and cut the racist crap with regard to women's bodies. I am non Australian and a real red blooded man's idea of a woman's body is exactly the same in that region as it is in Australia. Talking about curvy and slender, a real concern to me and I shook my head in disbelief when media personalities and various people raved on about Kate Middleton's 'killer bikini body." If I upset anyone's sensibilities, they can pucker up and kiss my furry brown butt. Gosh, Mr SoulStirring I will admit when I read your comments about my post being racist I was a little concerned. I even read over it again to see if I had made a mistake in expressing myself. I was confused how you got to that idea. Then it hit me: you're a fool. That's okay. Like I said, everyone has their place in society and you are playing your part wonderfully. Have a gold star and a pat on the bottom. To avoid putting you down too much, I'll offer you a hand by explaining your own confusion to you. See, when I referred to Australia and its societal image of women, it was in the contextual reference of Western culture as a whole. I don't have time to explain the concept of Western culture to you. You have an internet connection - look it up. I do not care what country you have migrated from. I make no argument of which country, society, religion, belief, or culture is superior to any other. I merely state what I observe in my own environment. I would also challenge you to find a more ethnically diverse family than mine. See if then you would call me a racist. Moreover, your example of Kate Middleton is exactly what I’m referring to about popular media presentation of ideal female figure. Just because your taste don’t align with it doesn’t make it so. So, just in case that was too much double talk bullshit for you, I will summarise: 1. 1. You’re a fool 2. 2. Make sure you understand context before you swing your words 3. 3. I am not a racist nor was post. 4. 4. Your example furthered my point (thanks) One more thing. Do you actually want people to meet you and perhaps have them kiss your butt? If you like, we can exchange private messages and work out a meet. Something tells me you don’t have the fortitude to do that though
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are not discussing what shape each of us would prefer to have our partner in. The question is, "What is average?" Average, mean or medium refer to what is midway between extremes. It makes little difference whether you prefer a size 6 or 8, size 14 is very definately average. One other point I would like to make. My Jennylee is size 16 and far too good for the likes of you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Average= most of the population therefore one can conclude that average is "normal".... Define normal in terms of a person... You can't. We, as individuals are to diverse to have the term normal applied to anyone. Likewise when it comes to body type, different shapes, heights... Lead to different weights and looks. So. In conclusion. The guy is an ass
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lil_bit_angelic, with a body like that there's no need to list yourself as "a little extra padding". I'd have you in heartbeat.... 😜
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Little Trax, I was simply pointing out a clear contradiction between the tone of your forum comments and how you're selling your self in your profile. If I was was the sort who criticized people, I'd probably say something about vertically challenged men stuck in an 80's style g-strings, but since I'm not the judgemental sort, I'd never say that!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hahahahaha!Little flute, you are a hoot!Trax, you'd better get back in your box!
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RHP User
12 years ago
little flute you made me literally laugh out loud ! touche!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm statistically obese, generally considered fat at best, but a bunch of you would do me anyway :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
what makes you think you know what I am thinking jensman ya tosserall "we" as in myself and mrs uni are saying is height weight proportional will give you an average so anything above or below that numberwill NOT be average
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' I'm statistically obese, generally considered fat at best, but a bunch of you would do me anyway :)No Comment... Cause I know how hard Angel slaps...However... I would like to express , that obese may be statistically correct but in your case in particular is visually and physically inaccurate..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dear RHP,I felt my statement was strong enough without having it repeated twice... but thanks for the emphasis i guess :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dude... i offer the advice of quitting while ones ahead ... but 1. Your out numbered 2. they each have valid points while your debate which you pointed out yourself is unrelated to any relevant topic... which you then again pointed out and conformed to your own error by posting your last thread3. Your too arrogant and lack the knowledge base to deservingly win the argumentso... i would offer the advice ... but its not really valid in this case
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now might be a good time to stop... You're entitled to your opinion, but after quick look at the thread, it was ok until you opens your mouth... Just saying....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic'I'm statistically obese, generally considered fat at best, but a bunch of you would do me anyway :) You're gorgeous. Quoting 'mr_and_mrs_uni'what makes you think you know what I am thinking jensman ya tosserall "we" as in myself and mrs uni are saying is height weight proportional will give you an average so anything above or below that numberwill NOT be average If that were all you were saying, you could have said so just like that, succinctly, but instead, you rambled on for several posts and had to add that mrs_uni is happy at 70 kilo and anything more is too much. Off the point and out of line. Quoting 'trax49'So here's jensman joining in with all of us tossers expressing his thoughts on ideals and preferences.And we haven't missed the point, we have moved on from the original topic, but of course you haven't noticed. 49, photo of a tatt, say no more.Riiight, ...and your 49 and a photo of a dick (appropriate for you I'll admit). How can you claim to be non-judgemental while passing judgements all over the place. Are you ignorant of the meaning of 'judgemental'? Look it up. You're not only judgemental, you're needlessly offensive and rude. I expect your preference for smaller women really comes from your own insecurities in being such a small man (in body and mind). You must fear that a real woman would over power you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic'I'm statistically obese, generally considered fat at best, but a bunch of you would do me anyway :) You're gorgeous. Quoting 'mr_and_mrs_uni'what makes you think you know what I am thinking jensman ya tosserall "we" as in myself and mrs uni are saying is height weight proportional will give you an average so anything above or below that numberwill NOT be average If that were all you were saying, you could have said so just like that, succinctly, but instead, you rambled on for several posts and had to add that mrs_uni is happy at 70 kilo and anything more is too much. Off the point and out of line. Quoting 'trax49'So here's jensman joining in with all of us tossers expressing his thoughts on ideals and preferences.And we haven't missed the point, we have moved on from the original topic, but of course you haven't noticed. 49, photo of a tatt, say no more.Riiight, ...and your 49 and a photo of a dick (appropriate for you I'll admit). How can you claim to be non-judgemental while passing judgements all over the place. Are you ignorant of the meaning of 'judgemental'? Look it up. You're not only judgemental, you're needlessly offensive and rude. I expect your preference for smaller women really comes from your own insecurities in being such a small man (in body and mind). You must fear that a real woman would over power you. well if we have used up too much space in this forum and it wont take any more input we apologise but seriously jensman listen to yourself you sound like a forum regulator so pull ya head in and if your missus is going to be a player in the swinging scene put in a pic of her and sorry to all others for not following the topic this time
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can I take you home and keep you? You're awfully good for my ego xxx P.S. take one memory, add 5 kg, stir, and reassess ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you for the compliments :) The post was not actually about me, and I'm not really lacking in confidence. I can handle knowing I'm fat, and I'm mostly curious about all the different views people have, generally speaking. But I'm also vain enough to enjoy being flattered. So again, thank you xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
On the flipside to this, ive been told by women 'im too thin' and thats like telling your GF, babe your fat. Im reasonably average but at 65kg and 175cm/5'9" I am looked at as a skinny dude, but get my shirt off and its lean muscle and six pak If my girl was 88kgs she could have the softest, smoothest curves but she's still going to be too big for me PS more importantly........eat less, stay healthy and you WILL find your equal :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ill let you borrow for as long as you need... :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Midnight_Run81'Ill let you borrow for as long as you need... :P keepers I say ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I work in ladies fashion and from what I see an average woman would be between a 10 and 12 for up to 25 For above 25 would be between a 12 and 14. There are alot of BBW between a 16 and 22. An average plus size woman would be a 18. So depends on the age,what fasion they are wearing to how they judge themselves,so do not be so hard on these ladies,if they feel they are average they maybe just that. Sizes in fasion varie,so these lladies are not telling lies. Girls if you feel average so be it. What about the guys saying they are goodlooking and they are not,too many of them out there. I want to know where they get their mirrors,mine dosen't lie,I put a little extra padding on my profile. That is a nice way of saying I am a fatty. WHO WOULD LIKE TO TOUCH ME??? hehe!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' Just my opinion and based on experience. Most are shallow when it comes to looks but lets be honest....98% of us are average and realistically know who we can get. To answer your question i read an article on this which was from 2010. Not my opinion just the article based on research. In the 1920s they said the average male was......173cm (5'8) and weighed 72 kilos. average female was....163cm (5'4) and weight 62 kilos. In 2010 it was average male......178cm (5'10) and 83 kilos average female....164cm and 71 kilos. That doesn't account for fitness level just the stats. I'm in the fitness area and a basic rule of thumb for a good height to weight ratio is add 1 kilo for every centimeter of height over 1 meter tall. So it's easy to do....if you're 1.75 meters tall (5'9) a weight of 75 kilos is close to the ideal weight for that height. I am 163 cm and yes my ideal weight is MEANT to be 63kgs. but i look hot at 80kg
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RogueGeek
12 years ago
My new favourites ;) Cheers, MS
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RHP User
12 years ago
If there are size 8 women on here & size 22 then that means....8,10,12,14,16,18,20,22Size 14 is probably an average size body?If you are lucky enough to be tall then you're not necessarily fat or obese & some shorter women I know are a perfect hourglass shape with tiny waist & womanly hips & bum & beautiful big boobs....Average can be amazing & very attractive...Some people have below average intelligence & that's not the least bit enticing...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'trax49' All I can clearly hear is the sound of air escaping out of certain females heads.And still no input to the "So What's Average anyway" thread.Methinks they have an intermingling of desire and jealousy, i mean, come on, how many times can you look at my profile.Ummm I think that might be the sound of your over-inflated ego, Trax!No feelings of desire here & certainly no jealousy! We were only glancing at your profile & reading it quickly to see what you say about yourself & determine how much variance between it & your comments on here...."Average" can be amazing & very attractive.... "Athletic" is used far too often & hardly ever an accurate description!Just because you wear a Bonds Singlet & trackpants doesn't mean you are "Athletic"And where did you find that G-String anyway? Was it out of a Time Machine? I think the 80s called & they want it back!I'm sure that George Michael had one just like that... heeheehee
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RHP User
12 years ago
Each to there own..... if you feel good, I'm sure it will be hot !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
People and their preferences for shape,form ,height are diverse but some of the negative comments here regarding weight seem to be very nasty. Then I remembered that some small men have issues about height ,there was recently a thread about men and height where many comments regarding short men were very unflattering.Tit for tat perhaps? Nastiness is a very unatractive trait and reflects a below average mind. Jensman you are way above average in every way in my opinionx Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' I'm 5'7" size 12, go to the gym almost every day but because athletic to me = lean muscle mass, and slim = skinny, average seemed like the best definition. Trust me yours should be Athletic Everyone has a different body shape to height ratio. If i was to be honest average would be not a big build but not the healthiest build either, but i do not think in this way.However i do prefer my women to be into fitness for i am not attracted to Overweight this could make me shallow but for friends with benefits i want it to be hot and physical attraction is a must for me.I am going to sound like an arse but I can tell the difference between a lot of body shapes if I am being fully honest.Lots of people are in a bit of denial about them selves when it comes down to being healthy and fit but if you honestly ask your self you know the answer.Primal
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like the sentiments of your post. but the mathematical item you quote is actually the mean. we should not be discussing mean women here. it only draws attention to them :-)the average is adding up the total weight of everyone in the mall and dividing it by the number of people.cheers LRE (the hair splitter) LOLQuoting 'jensman1903' ...at the 'Mall' or whatever, look around you. If there are roughly as many women heavier than you as there are those who are thinner, that would make you average. I suspect the stroker you were talking to has a limited range of sizes that HE finds attractive. Women any thinner than example 'a' are too skinny, while women heavier than example 'b' are too fat and, to his mind, those in the middle are average. Just tell him he doesn't meet your criteria as he is of below average intelligence.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now i think about ti. It's the median. so my silly joke falls flat..Secondary school was a long time ago..~rolls eyes at self~
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RHP User
12 years ago
Little Trax, I'm very flattered that you think my picture looks like a young girl, I wasn't expecting a complement from you, but I'll graciously take it, thank you!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Took me awhile to decide if I was going bother saying anything... Trax. You do realize that you're making yourself look more and more of an ass by continuing to attack everyone. I gave you an "out" when I said you're entitled to your opinion, yet you still felt the need to attempt to belittle myself and others. I know children who know better. Need I say more.
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LemonDance
12 years ago
The original topic was about what is average, and Trax you seem to be annoyed that people are not keeping on topic, despite your odious comments about people who are overweight, "What do you think about fat people?" was not the topic!I'd prefer a larger than average guy (talking about weight here, keep it on the topic), over a short fit guy, in a flash and I find men with tattoos far, FAR for more sexy than someone in an old fashioned g-string ANY DAY (aren't they against the law now days anyway?).Oh and bouncing my bubble butt down at the local nudie beach is a favourite past time of mine & is often watched and enjoyed by more than an average amount of men!And littleflute, you really cracked me up, thank for the laughs, took me ages before I could wipe the tears away read the replies!LD xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know, all this talk of averages, fat versus slim...Trax..back in your box baby. You are a 49 year old man and all you can offer is a pic of what may or may not be your cock. Just remember that you are hoping to attract women from this site for ses. I guess you just ruined those chances...but then maybe not all read the forums...you could still be in luck! Before you go all septic on me...I am only here for the forums now so I dont care if I attreact the men or not... All the average BMI's in the world can not take into account the many variables that make us human. Some posess very very dense bones which weigh more than those teeny bird boned types. Some Amazonion types will naturally weight more than a slender stick insect but still can look magnificent. The average sized Australian woman these days is a healthy size 14. That means me. Oh and all this talk of how much a woman should weigh? It is all just C.R.A.P. My own weight...when I was younger and weighed 65 kgs I was wearing a size 6 (in todays sizes) Six is a little scrawny I feel. It all boils down to what you are comfortable with and self perception.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Please excuse the odd typo in the above comment. *SEX* not ses.
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LemonDance
12 years ago
Hehehe, well Little Trax you do appear to be a big fan of the 80's! Want me to post you my cute little fluro stripe panties that feature in my pic? (and that I happen to have on right now infact) they will go smashly on you I'm sure, and they are bound to fit your neat little frame!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' You know, all this talk of averages, fat versus slim...Trax..back in your box baby. You are a 49 year old man and all you can offer is a pic of what may or may not be your cock. Just remember that you are hoping to attract women from this site for ses. I guess you just ruined those chances...but then maybe not all read the forums...you could still be in luck! Before you go all septic on me...I am only here for the forums now so I dont care if I attreact the men or not... All the average BMI's in the world can not take into account the many variables that make us human. Some posess very very dense bones which weigh more than those teeny bird boned types. Some Amazonion types will naturally weight more than a slender stick insect but still can look magnificent. The average sized Australian woman these days is a healthy size 14. That means me. Oh and all this talk of how much a woman should weigh? It is all just C.R.A.P. My own weight...when I was younger and weighed 65 kgs I was wearing a size 6 (in todays sizes) Six is a little scrawny I feel. It all boils down to what you are comfortable with and self perception. Very well said! Could not agree more!CK x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh silly Lemon lady! Your stripey knicks are in your PG pics so poor ole little Trax can't see them.....I have a pair of Vintage 80's knickers & I can post them to you if you'll pay for a padded post bag? ahahahahaOh! I forgot! You don't like any extra padding....How did you arrange those socks to look like a cock? Or is that a pic you stole?
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RogueGeek
12 years ago
From one of my favourite resources, dictionary.com :av·er·agenoun 1. a quantity, rating, or the like that represents or approximates an arithmetic mean: Her golf average is in the 90s. My average in science has gone from B to C this semester. 2. a typical amount, rate, degree, etc.; norm. 3. Statistics . arithmetic mean. 4. Mathematics . a quantity intermediate to a set of quantities. 5. Commerce: a. a charge paid by the master of a ship for such services as pilotage or towage. b. an expense, partial loss, or damage to a ship or cargo. c. the incidence of such an expense or loss to the owners or their insurers. d. an equitable apportionment among all the interested parties of such an expense or loss. Compare general average, particular average. adjective 6. of or pertaining to an average; estimated by average; forming an average: The average rainfall there is 180 inches. 7. typical; common; ordinary: The average secretary couldn't handle such a workload. His grades were nothing special, only average. verb (used with object) 8. to find an average value for (a variable quantity); reduce to a mean: We averaged the price of milk in five neighborhood stores. 9. (of a variable quantity) to have as its arithmetic mean: Wheat averages 56 pounds to a bushel. 10. to do or have on the average: He averages seven hours of sleep a night.
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