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Spontaneous Chemistry: Surprising or unusual places where you have met someone?
April 05 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
NOT all are for sex... but those that are... WOW.. I was on my first night in a mining camp Northern Goldfields of WA.. eating dinner with my back to the door...All of a sudden.. it was like someone trod on my grave..I KNEW it was a female about to come in the door...SO did my mate, who saw my reactions.. The door opened.. he looked.. and smiled.. I asked "Am I going to enjoy her?"He replied.. "Yep.."I didn't bother looking, but was VERY aware of her movements.. She got to the bain-marie and as I looked toward her.. she stopped dead... shook her head.. then turned and looked directly at me.. with a "WTF??" look on her face.. I smiled.. she was confused, and shook her head again...... I carried on with my meal... andshe kept looking with a puzzled face..She had NOT seen me before.. Mate and myself were only about an hour in camp..We bumped into each other as she was coming out of the laundry later that night.. and within a half hour of THAT meeting.. we were fckng.. bareback, loud and raw.. as fckng WAS back in the late eighties...AND.. by fck.. I WISH it STILL was today...We are STILL friends today.. and whilst we do NOT talk.. sometimes for years, all of a sudden.. out f the blue.. we will end up in the same time and place together.. for not apparent reason.. an fck like early 20 somethings we were then..'
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blkcapricornday
9 years ago
Pheromones? Raw sexual energy? X-factor? You got it working. Succinctly, 1. It's you. 2. It's you. 3. You know what you're doing. xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I feel that chemistry a lot in my day. Doesn't always convert but an example, today I spotted this guy walking towards me, he spotted me and I could just feel it, you know that feeling, everything exploded, I couldn't breathe and I felt it from him. He kept looking at me and I was looking at him. He walked past (with gf sigh) and was so close, our shoulders nearly touched. It was intense and if no-one had of been in that aisle, I was in the shop, it would have been on lol no doubt in my mind. God only knows what would have happened if we'd been in the vegie section lol I've obviously had some amazing random encounters, complete strangers, but the best was a guy I met at the beach one day. I had seen him looking at me, I picked up my towel and stuff, and started to walk along the sand, he struck up a conversation and we walked back to the main area, by which stage, we knew each other's life stories, but all in the space of about 10 minutes I suppose. We grabbed a coffee and sat outside this coffee shop and talked some more. He then offered to walk me back to my car. As we went to say goodbye, I leaned over and touched his arm, said something like 'it was great to meet you', something like that, and it was on lol Full on, I've never had the intensity that played out after that. I'm not kidding, he hussled me down to the beach, behind me with him arms around me making almost grunting sounds, and started tearing my clothes off, it was a frenzy, but I had to stop him because a woman and her two kids were quite close, so dragged him back up to the car, long story short, chucked him in the car, drove up to another carpark, still not private, but flew into the back seat and he went to work on me, had me squirting from the back seat to the front, my legs were on the roof, must have looked so funny for people walking past He was so turned on and so horny, he repeated this for about half an hour. I've told this story before but when I then wanted to turn my attention to pleasuring him, he said, no another day, or next time. Of course there wasn't a next time, he was married, obviously just needed to clear the cobwebs but holy crap, he showed me what my body could do that day. Just a random stranger but what a memory
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
(a) walking past a restaurant(b) Yes.. but I don't kiss & tell(c) it does... if I seek it.... but that connection can be anything from friend, to attraction
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langton11
9 years ago
I have ever had which physically made me dizzy was very, very unfortunately with my wife's good friend. If only it could have been anyone else, but alas, we do not get to choose. It was as if the whole room stopped when we were both in it together. Eventually the wife was over it and set us up to spend some time together and we talked and joked and flirted (a lot) etc but we mutually drew the line, it was a stalemate as we both refused to make the first move. Things quickly died off after that which was without a doubt for the better. High five for the wife for coping and dealing with such a drama, she's the best
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' NOT all are for sex... but those that are... WOW.. I was on my first night in a mining camp Northern Goldfields of WA.. eating dinner with my back to the door...All of a sudden.. it was like someone trod on my grave..I KNEW it was a female about to come in the door...SO did my mate, who saw my reactions.. The door opened.. he looked.. and smiled.. I asked "Am I going to enjoy her?"He replied.. "Yep.."I didn't bother looking, but was VERY aware of her movements.. She got to the bain-marie and as I looked toward her.. she stopped dead... shook her head.. then turned and looked directly at me.. with a "WTF??" look on her face.. I smiled.. she was confused, and shook her head again...... I carried on with my meal... andshe kept looking with a puzzled face..She had NOT seen me before.. Mate and myself were only about an hour in camp..We bumped into each other as she was coming out of the laundry later that night.. and within a half hour of THAT meeting.. we were fckng.. bareback, loud and raw.. as fckng WAS back in the late eighties...AND.. by fck.. I WISH it STILL was today...We are STILL friends today.. and whilst we do NOT talk.. sometimes for years, all of a sudden.. out f the blue.. we will end up in the same time and place together.. for not apparent reason.. an fck like early 20 somethings we were then..' Thanks for sharing, Cavey. While I wouldn't put work or cafeteria down as an unusual place, the sentiment is the same in that you had that Spontaneous Chemistry, which, by the sounds did lead you to combust! It is a wonderful feeling of kismet when it does continue to evolve from the flirting connection. AND you still have that fire burning when you catch up these days? Should have pinned that one down, Cavey ;)
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PurePeony
9 years ago
1) I can recall a few instances where it was almost spontaneous combustion! Once was in a huge Borders bookstore, not in Australia. I spend lots of time in bookstores and on that occasion, I was going about my merry ol' business of browsing and picking books to purchase when I felt a compelling urge to look up. And there he was... standing one shelf away, looking at me and smiling at how I seemed to enjoy the Gary Larson's Far Side collection book I had been browsing. Maybe I had unknowingly been giggling out loud, I don't know. :P He had that sparkle in his eyes and he put down his book and walked towards me. And I did what I've always done all these years when approached by a man I really like - I ran away! :O Well, not ran... but abruptly turned and walked away. My friends used to nickname me "Runaway Mare" for this strange behaviour - the more attracted I am to the man, the more I run. *rolls eyes... Anyway, I lost myself in the Cooking magazines section when I looked up and there he was again! Standing behind another shelf, looking up at me and smiling again! I should have stood my ground as he approached again but shiver me timbers I ran away again! *face palm... Several other incidents of a similar nature occured in HMV (huge music store), walking down the streets in the city, and in my workplace as well. The most amusing incident occured when I was celebrating the end of a gruelling year-long course with a group of course mates in a large restaurant where I saw a man grinning widely and looking at me. He passed by our table and gave me a wink and later that evening, when I spoke to an online chat friend on mIRC, lo and behold!!!... that guy was HIM!!! 8-O !!! How bloody coincidental is that?!!! That ol' increased heart rate, the tingles signalling that someone special is close by, the looking up and looking right into his eyes and feeling that instant Ka-boom! thunderous clap of attraction. It's happenstance, fate, force of nature... whatever you call it, the constellations align and it happens! Enjoy it and relish it when it occurs... before the friction and grind of daily life wears down the magical aura! 2) Nope. I am old school when it comes to intimacy. The more toads you kiss, the less meaningful kisses become and by the time you actually meet a Prince, he might not want to kiss you because he can smell toad slime on you! LOL!!! Funny analogy! :D Anyway, I know this is a generation and culture that probably will not appreciate conservative values but oh well, different strokes for different folks! So far, all my encounters of this Twilight Zone nature has a predictable Romeo and Juliet ending to it - certain death. LOL! I think Cupid needs a new pair of prescription glasses, or he has to power-up his arrows! ;) 3) No. For me, it isn't a regular occurrence but rather, extraordinary circumstances. I felt it very intensely recently, but unfortunately, it wasn't reciprocated and sometimes the other person that gets hit by Cupid's arrow can be clueless and insensitive to such things but ah well, it is what it is! ;) I can go for years and years without experiencing that special chemistry with any man. And then suddenly, like a bolt of lightning, it occurs. Sometimes, it occurs in a clusterfuck or blitzkrieg style as in, it isn't just one instance, but more than one instance over a short period of time. I like the unpredictable and happenstance nature of it because it makes it truly spectacular and magical! :D OP, enjoy those feelings. I do kinda suspect that you might be referring to sheer Lust in certain situations and not that almost karmic instant soul connection / yin-yang compatibility and magnetism / soul mate vs twin flame attraction / *insert whatever term you have for this sorta thang. Or maybe, you are in that phase in your life where the stars have aligned themselves in such a way that you are headed for a path of collision with a kindred spirit and in the meantime, many other compatible spirits are also attracted to you although you aren't ultimately meant for them. I'm breaking my own rules by talking New Age-y stuff here and it defies my more rational nature but well, in life, not all things can be explained via logic and reason and science. And it being a cold, raining day his morning, I'm just feeling a little bit sentimental and such so my comment has taken on a fa-la-la-la tone! Excuse the momentary lapse in control! LOL!!! ;)
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' 1) I can recall a few instances where it was almost spontaneous combustion! Once was in a huge Borders bookstore, not in Australia. I spend lots of time in bookstores and on that occasion, I was going about my merry ol' business of browsing and picking books to purchase when I felt a compelling urge to look up. And there he was... standing one shelf away, looking at me and smiling at how I seemed to enjoy the Gary Larson's Far Side collection book I had been browsing. Maybe I had unknowingly been giggling out loud, I don't know. :P He had that sparkle in his eyes and he put down his book and walked towards me. And I did what I've always done all these years when approached by a man I really like - I ran away! :O Well, not ran... but abruptly turned and walked away. My friends used to nickname me "Runaway Mare" for this strange behaviour - the more attracted I am to the man, the more I run. *rolls eyes... Anyway, I lost myself in the Cooking magazines section when I looked up and there he was again! Standing behind another shelf, looking up at me and smiling again! I should have stood my ground as he approached again but shiver me timbers I ran away again! *face palm... Several other incidents of a similar nature occured in HMV (huge music store), walking down the streets in the city, and in my workplace as well. The most amusing incident occured when I was celebrating the end of a gruelling year-long course with a group of course mates in a large restaurant where I saw a man grinning widely and looking at me. He passed by our table and gave me a wink and later that evening, when I spoke to an online chat friend on mIRC, lo and behold!!!... that guy was HIM!!! 8-O !!! How bloody coincidental is that?!!! That ol' increased heart rate, the tingles signalling that someone special is close by, the looking up and looking right into his eyes and feeling that instant Ka-boom! thunderous clap of attraction. It's happenstance, fate, force of nature... whatever you call it, the constellations align and it happens! Enjoy it and relish it when it occurs... before the friction and grind of daily life wears down the magical aura! 2) Nope. I am old school when it comes to intimacy. The more toads you kiss, the less meaningful kisses become and by the time you actually meet a Prince, he might not want to kiss you because he can smell toad slime on you! LOL!!! Funny analogy! :D Anyway, I know this is a generation and culture that probably will not appreciate conservative values but oh well, different strokes for different folks! So far, all my encounters of this Twilight Zone nature has a predictable Romeo and Juliet ending to it - certain death. LOL! I think Cupid needs a new pair of prescription glasses, or he has to power-up his arrows! ;) 3) No. For me, it isn't a regular occurrence but rather, extraordinary circumstances. I felt it very intensely recently, but unfortunately, it wasn't reciprocated and sometimes the other person that gets hit by Cupid's arrow can be clueless and insensitive to such things but ah well, it is what it is! ;) I can go for years and years without experiencing that special chemistry with any man. And then suddenly, like a bolt of lightning, it occurs. Sometimes, it occurs in a clusterfuck or blitzkrieg style as in, it isn't just one instance, but more than one instance over a short period of time. I like the unpredictable and happenstance nature of it because it makes it truly spectacular and magical! :D OP, enjoy those feelings. I do kinda suspect that you might be referring to sheer Lust in certain situations and not that almost karmic instant soul connection / yin-yang compatibility and magnetism / soul mate vs twin flame attraction / *insert whatever term you have for this sorta thang. Or maybe, you are in that phase in your life where the stars have aligned themselves in such a way that you are headed for a path of collision with a kindred spirit and in the meantime, many other compatible spirits are also attracted to you although you aren't ultimately meant for them. I'm breaking my own rules by talking New Age-y stuff here and it defies my more rational nature but well, in life, not all things can be explained via logic and reason and science. And it being a cold, raining day his morning, I'm just feeling a little bit sentimental and such so my comment has taken on a fa-la-la-la tone! Excuse the momentary lapse in control! LOL!!! ;) On the contrary PP, I appreciate your Wednesday morning whimsicalness! Fa la la la la all you like, I have gleaned a lot from your post - thank you! You've hit the nail on the head here in so many ways. Yes I am talking about lust. Raw lust. In the most unimaginable places. This has happened all of my life, so I don't think it really relates too much to where I am at now with my romantic world. I won't discount it though. I do enjoy a good flirt, and sometimes that is all it is, but on more occasions than I care to admit I have gone for a helping of lustful soup ;) I really like tasting the soup I guess. Not that I taste all soups. What surprises me though is where this is happening. I've had it happen buying a washing machine, while out at the park enjoying a day with my family, during a dayspa treatment at a professional place, a super young electrician hooking our spa up, even with a policeman when getting help for one of my children during a horrible situation. For the record, I did not go there with the cop (under different circumstances maybe).. but I do wonder what it is that happens during these interactions that is taking things to the flirting level. I most definitely wasn't flirting with the cop, I had not slept in days, worried about my kid, and was looking less than my best! Anyway, why can't I find these moments with many RHPers? I admit it takes certain things to whet my whistle, so to speak, but I know they exist! A lot of the time they are just not appealing in that same lustful chemistry way.. it is all a bit more contrived. I do get overwhelmed by advances here, and a lot from those who do not possess what I am after. As for the in person events, perhaps my sexuality comes across without me even realising it. And perhaps I am just a bit naughty by indulging myself from time to time :P
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I feel that chemistry a lot in my day. Doesn't always convert but an example, today I spotted this guy walking towards me, he spotted me and I could just feel it, you know that feeling, everything exploded, I couldn't breathe and I felt it from him. He kept looking at me and I was looking at him. He walked past (with gf sigh) and was so close, our shoulders nearly touched. It was intense and if no-one had of been in that aisle, I was in the shop, it would have been on lol no doubt in my mind. God only knows what would have happened if we'd been in the vegie section lol The veggie section! Your funny..Would you have suggestively stroked an especially large and firm zucchini..? Or maybe performed oral on a green bean..?
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'langton11' I have ever had which physically made me dizzy was very, very unfortunately with my wife's good friend. If only it could have been anyone else, but alas, we do not get to choose. It was as if the whole room stopped when we were both in it together. Eventually the wife was over it and set us up to spend some time together and we talked and joked and flirted (a lot) etc but we mutually drew the line, it was a stalemate as we both refused to make the first move. Things quickly died off after that which was without a doubt for the better. High five for the wife for coping and dealing with such a drama, she's the best Reflecting on it though, do you think the level of dizzy was possibly because it was just too illicit to consider? The higher the (potential personal cost) the higher the attraction? Or were you just that much more compatible? And your wife probably deserves a sainthood for how she dealt with that. Thanks for sharing :)
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' (a) walking past a restaurant(b) Yes.. but I don't kiss & tell(c) it does... if I seek it.... but that connection can be anything from friend, to attraction Interesting. Do we think perhaps I am seeking it on a subconscious level? I'm not sure I can consciously turn mine off though. Eeek! You don't kiss and tell hey, don't suppose you kiss and make a sex tape then?
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'blkcapricornday' Pheromones? Raw sexual energy? X-factor? You got it working. Succinctly, 1. It's you. 2. It's you. 3. You know what you're doing. xx Long time since I have seen you in my box, and alas you are still not there ;) It isn't me because I don't see these things coming (or I would have dressed better for the occasion!). I must be radiating libido at all times . Or it could just be my boobs, but they're covered most of the time too. Pffft. As you can see from others here, random lusts are biting them also. A joy to read :)
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I feel that chemistry a lot in my day. Doesn't always convert but an example, today I spotted this guy walking towards me, he spotted me and I could just feel it, you know that feeling, everything exploded, I couldn't breathe and I felt it from him. He kept looking at me and I was looking at him. He walked past (with gf sigh) and was so close, our shoulders nearly touched. It was intense and if no-one had of been in that aisle, I was in the shop, it would have been on lol no doubt in my mind. God only knows what would have happened if we'd been in the vegie section lol I've obviously had some amazing random encounters, complete strangers, but the best was a guy I met at the beach one day. I had seen him looking at me, I picked up my towel and stuff, and started to walk along the sand, he struck up a conversation and we walked back to the main area, by which stage, we knew each other's life stories, but all in the space of about 10 minutes I suppose. We grabbed a coffee and sat outside this coffee shop and talked some more. He then offered to walk me back to my car. As we went to say goodbye, I leaned over and touched his arm, said something like 'it was great to meet you', something like that, and it was on lol Full on, I've never had the intensity that played out after that. I'm not kidding, he hussled me down to the beach, behind me with him arms around me making almost grunting sounds, and started tearing my clothes off, it was a frenzy, but I had to stop him because a woman and her two kids were quite close, so dragged him back up to the car, long story short, chucked him in the car, drove up to another carpark, still not private, but flew into the back seat and he went to work on me, had me squirting from the back seat to the front, my legs were on the roof, must have looked so funny for people walking past He was so turned on and so horny, he repeated this for about half an hour. I've told this story before but when I then wanted to turn my attention to pleasuring him, he said, no another day, or next time. Of course there wasn't a next time, he was married, obviously just needed to clear the cobwebs but holy crap, he showed me what my body could do that day. Just a random stranger but what a memory We may be quite similar here, but you sound a little bit more adventurous with capitalising on that random lust. When I have capitalised on it, it was usually not the very first meeting. As with anything good, I like it to last more than a fleeting moment, I am greedy like that. You're a go getter, that's for sure! I like that I am not alone here, thanks babe xx
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I feel that chemistry a lot in my day. Doesn't always convert but an example, today I spotted this guy walking towards me, he spotted me and I could just feel it, you know that feeling, everything exploded, I couldn't breathe and I felt it from him. He kept looking at me and I was looking at him. He walked past (with gf sigh) and was so close, our shoulders nearly touched. It was intense and if no-one had of been in that aisle, I was in the shop, it would have been on lol no doubt in my mind. God only knows what would have happened if we'd been in the vegie section lol The veggie section! Your funny..Would you have suggestively stroked an especially large and firm zucchini..? Or maybe performed oral on a green bean..? I just totally choked on an easter egg! I think I touch and the fruit n veg store are a dangerous combination! Pretty sure she could sweet talk a sweet potato into fornicating with her brusell sprouts, I am in awe
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was born to be single...Like a famous actor said in a movie once.."At 4 1/2 months old, a human foetus has a reptile's tail; a remnant of our evolution. Maybe that's what I couldn't escape. You can fight a lot of enemies and survive. But if you fight your biology, you will always lose. "I am what I am...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' I was born to be single...Like a famous actor said in a movie once.."At 4 1/2 months old, a human foetus has a reptile's tail; a remnant of our evolution. Maybe that's what I couldn't escape. You can fight a lot of enemies and survive. But if you fight your biology, you will always lose. "I am what I am... Same same. The only reason I wouldn't be single is for more sex, and they'd still have to share me, so I could have even MORE sex lol greedy girl, blushing
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RHP User
9 years ago
I haven't actually had sex in the vegie section YET but it opens up so many possibilities, I'm excited When it happens, I'll report back
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RHP User
9 years ago
lol I do have a funny story about a banana but I can't put it on here and I thought I'd seen it all
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langton11
9 years ago
Quoting 'nibblemebi' Quoting 'langton11' I have ever had which physically made me dizzy was very, very unfortunately with my wife's good friend. If only it could have been anyone else, but alas, we do not get to choose. It was as if the whole room stopped when we were both in it together. Eventually the wife was over it and set us up to spend some time together and we talked and joked and flirted (a lot) etc but we mutually drew the line, it was a stalemate as we both refused to make the first move. Things quickly died off after that which was without a doubt for the better. High five for the wife for coping and dealing with such a drama, she's the best Reflecting on it though, do you think the level of dizzy was possibly because it was just too illicit to consider? The higher the (potential personal cost) the higher the attraction? Or were you just that much more compatible? And your wife probably deserves a sainthood for how she dealt with that. Thanks for sharing :) The chemistry was largely, but not holey sexual, goodness knows what would have happened if one of us had made the first move. The wife was so cool, she said 'you can f#ck her, but do not get her pregnant'. The reason I didn't is, albeit I did have a pass, I felt there was too much risk of creating an emotional mess for one, both or all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'nibblemebi' Quoting 'Koolgrey' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I feel that chemistry a lot in my day. Doesn't always convert but an example, today I spotted this guy walking towards me, he spotted me and I could just feel it, you know that feeling, everything exploded, I couldn't breathe and I felt it from him. He kept looking at me and I was looking at him. He walked past (with gf sigh) and was so close, our shoulders nearly touched. It was intense and if no-one had of been in that aisle, I was in the shop, it would have been on lol no doubt in my mind. God only knows what would have happened if we'd been in the vegie section lol The veggie section! Your funny..Would you have suggestively stroked an especially large and firm zucchini..? Or maybe performed oral on a green bean..? I just totally choked on an easter egg! I think I touch and the fruit n veg store are a dangerous combination! Pretty sure she could sweet talk a sweet potato into fornicating with her brusell sprouts, I am in awe Ha! I think I_touch could convince a banana to quit the bunch he's hanging out with and elope with her instead...
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Ha! I think I_touch could convince a banana to quit the bunch he's hanging out with and elope with her instead... I think you may be on the money here. Gives a whole new meaning to Lady Finger.
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
I think that was possibly a wise decision, kudos for using your big brain under the tempting circumstance. I had a similar situation years ago, but I was single and he was a close male friend. In hindsight, I should NOT have gone there, forbidden fruit is not always the sweetest as you may have imagined.
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I haven't actually had sex in the vegie section YET but it opens up so many possibilities, I'm excited When it happens, I'll report back We'll hold you to that. My boobs would nestle nicely into an empty Avocado holder, I'm sure. Sounds like a fun way to get your 3 serves On a side note, I bet you're like me and squeeze your cucumbers to assess for firmness before purchase?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I do, squeeze for firmness that is lol I do the same to body parts haha i'm so sorry for dragging this off topic. Something I seem to do with ease, but nice of you to run with it and have some fun with it 😃 kool, quit the bunch, too funny 😁
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RHP User
9 years ago
Very wise move, most men given the green light would have gone with it, not stopping to think of the potential emotional can of worms. You looked at the bigger picture and what you stood to lose or saw what was more important maybe? Nice one 😃
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yes I do, squeeze for firmness that is lol I do the same to body parts haha i'm so sorry for dragging this off topic. Something I seem to do with ease, but nice of you to run with it and have some fun with it 😃 kool, quit the bunch, too funny 😁 All good, apparently there are not too many of us that are having this 'lust' in strange or unexpected places. I'm sure it must be a disorder in the DSM V . Heck, I'll own it, keeps life interesting!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Had an encounter with a man I briefly knew under a tree in the middle of a thunderstorm . It was bordering on insanity and absolutely unforgettable Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Still laughing at the veggie section.........
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langton11
9 years ago
Quoting 'nibblemebi' I think that was possibly a wise decision, kudos for using your big brain under the tempting circumstance. I had a similar situation years ago, but I was single and he was a close male friend. In hindsight, I should NOT have gone there, forbidden fruit is not always the sweetest as you may have imagined. Been there, maybe that's why I was wiser this time around lolJurassic 5 has a good song Thin Line about this stuffp.s. Seeing your curves on your profile page, I can't say I blame him for trying
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Had an encounter with a man I briefly knew under a tree in the middle of a thunderstorm . It was bordering on insanity and absolutely unforgettable Q Just wow! Now that is what I call unusual and scintillating to boot. Yum! Sounds like a wonderful memory :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'langton11' Quoting 'nibblemebi' I think that was possibly a wise decision, kudos for using your big brain under the tempting circumstance. I had a similar situation years ago, but I was single and he was a close male friend. In hindsight, I should NOT have gone there, forbidden fruit is not always the sweetest as you may have imagined. Been there, maybe that's why I was wiser this time around lolJurassic 5 has a good song Thin Line about this stuffp.s. Seeing your curves on your profile page, I can't say I blame him for trying my personal fave is the op's main pic, fingers gently resting on the outside of the panties mmm I can't do a picture like that, my hands look old lol I need a hand model. Any volunteers
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RHP User
9 years ago
how far off topic can I go
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' how far off topic can I go Bout as far as the grocery section..? I'm still imagining myself as a young man building a pyramid of red apples while a customer deep throats a bean shoot. Ahh...Woolies. Fond memories as a boy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' how far off topic can I go Bout as far as the grocery section..? I'm still imagining myself as a young man building a pyramid of red apples while a customer deep throats a bean shoot. Ahh...Woolies. Fond memories as a boy. Maybe we should meet in the vegie section. Wanna root? root vegetable that is
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Off topic, or just expanding the topic I_Touch? I wouldn't mind asking the cute guy in Woolies to toss my salad
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RHP User
9 years ago
yeah I've got the hots for a couple of hairdressers, one in particular. I try and look cool when I walk past pretend I'm not looking, but using my peripheral vision to see if he checks me out lol It's very flirty but I love it and you know how the squeaky clean hairdressers sometimes have those beards with thin lines, perfectly done, yum mmm mixed race, hot body mmm wonder if I could catch him in a quiet moment those vibrating chairs could be worth a shot
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RHP User
9 years ago
after I've deep throated the bean shoot
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lovman8
9 years ago
better get those knickers off my personal fave is the op's main pic, fingers gently resting on the outside of the panties mmm I can't do a picture like that, my hands look old lol I need a hand model. Any volunteers because I'm putting my hand up!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'lovman8' better get those knickers off my personal fave is the op's main pic, fingers gently resting on the outside of the panties mmm I can't do a picture like that, my hands look old lol I need a hand model. Any volunteers because I'm putting my hand up! awesome, I have a volunteer are you free for masturbating cam work as well?
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RHP User
9 years ago
No, never. I just don't think I give off that kind of vibe to people. I'm kind of prickly!
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' yeah I've got the hots for a couple of hairdressers, one in particular. I try and look cool when I walk past pretend I'm not looking, but using my peripheral vision to see if he checks me out lol It's very flirty but I love it and you know how the squeaky clean hairdressers sometimes have those beards with thin lines, perfectly done, yum mmm mixed race, hot body mmm wonder if I could catch him in a quiet moment those vibrating chairs could be worth a shot You sound a lot more openly flirty than I am, more power to you, I think your conversion rate must be higher You are like me in that you have that appreciation for beauty as you come across it in day to day life - and you want to sample the tasty dishes if you can! That said, if they open their mouth and unappealing things drop out, that can quash that right there and then. It is all around attraction that appeals to me. I've been trying to work out how it keeps happening, because I am certainly quite subtle and not winking or walking past a bunch of times. I may make extra eye contact? I rarely smile at them either. Happened again on the weekend, in another inappropriate place. I behaved but maaaaaaaaaaan, it was exhilarating
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting '40DeeD' No, never. I just don't think I give off that kind of vibe to people. I'm kind of prickly! Maybe time to pull out those prickles and enjoy some of the fun? It IS fun, certainly brings a smile to my face.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'nibblemebi' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' yeah I've got the hots for a couple of hairdressers, one in particular. I try and look cool when I walk past pretend I'm not looking, but using my peripheral vision to see if he checks me out lol It's very flirty but I love it and you know how the squeaky clean hairdressers sometimes have those beards with thin lines, perfectly done, yum mmm mixed race, hot body mmm wonder if I could catch him in a quiet moment those vibrating chairs could be worth a shot You sound a lot more openly flirty than I am, more power to you, I think your conversion rate must be higher You are like me in that you have that appreciation for beauty as you come across it in day to day life - and you want to sample the tasty dishes if you can! That said, if they open their mouth and unappealing things drop out, that can quash that right there and then. It is all around attraction that appeals to me. I've been trying to work out how it keeps happening, because I am certainly quite subtle and not winking or walking past a bunch of times. I may make extra eye contact? I rarely smile at them either. Happened again on the weekend, in another inappropriate place. I behaved but maaaaaaaaaaan, it was exhilarating I fully believe it's sexual energy, that you put out, that other people can feel, it's the strangest thing but it's powerful. I do believe you know what I mean
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RHP User
9 years ago
WOW, didnt think I,d be telling this story on a forum like this. I was in the courtyard of a major melbourne hospital as a friend had to have a minor surgery, it was late in the evening and there were people moving about as well as staff but not a lot around. The light in the courtyard was soft and there were large pot plants around that cast shadows and there were bench seats on either of these pots There was an attractive lady sitting across from me that took my attention as I seemed to take hers. She was well dressed in heels and a lovely figure. To my surprise she moved from her seat and sat two seats down from me and began chatting about at first general chit chat. As we spoke , suddenly you could feel an ignition between us, an explosion of both our minds that to this day I cannot explain. The next thing we are both touching each other intimatly like a pair of wild animals, and with that she pulls me over to a bench seat in the shadows, sits herself on the seat, undone my jeans and proceeds to suck my already substantual cock, almost to the point of ejaculating to where I pulled away, at the same time she stood up and we kissed deeply and passoinatly, before she turned her body, placed her hands firmly on the back of the bench seat and surrended her sweet pantsless to my iron bar cock, all the time oblivious to the surroundings whatsoever. As we collected ourselves in contentment there were some people in rooms looking and we think there were people in the courtyard, who got a free watch but that just added to the experience. We Never Saw Each Other Again But Will Never Be Forgotten
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
I guess I've had my B vitamins and am oozing sexual energy. Poor unsuspecting people at the supermarket! I get what you mean :)
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
passiton2 That almost sounds fantasy like. Are you sure you didn't have some of your friends morphine drip and hallucinate? I kid, but you do get that this is a pretty amazing story. Did you use protection?
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Quoting 'nibblemebi' passiton2 That almost sounds fantasy like. Are you sure you didn't have some of your friends morphine drip and hallucinate? I kid, but you do get that this is a pretty amazing story. Did you use protection? In reality, someone would have called the hospital security already and the guards would have surrounded them mid-action - caught red-handed or in this case, it would be more apt to say caught stiff-cocked and wet-pussied! LOL!!! And... in this day and age, some blurry video footage would have appeared on YouTube and even the TV channels / newspapers might discuss the incident as the video goes viral. Or maybe... it did happen ... and that lady was an inpatient from the Psych Ward who is out on day leave or something. LOL!!! :P
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Or worse, maybe that lady was there because she had Hepatitis B or is seeking treatment for HIV!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' Quoting 'nibblemebi' passiton2 That almost sounds fantasy like. Are you sure you didn't have some of your friends morphine drip and hallucinate? I kid, but you do get that this is a pretty amazing story. Did you use protection? In reality, someone would have called the hospital security already and the guards would have surrounded them mid-action - caught red-handed or in this case, it would be more apt to say caught stiff-cocked and wet-pussied! LOL!!! And... in this day and age, some blurry video footage would have appeared on YouTube and even the TV channels / newspapers might discuss the incident as the video goes viral. Or maybe... it did happen ... and that lady was an inpatient from the Psych Ward who is out on day leave or something. LOL!!! :P All due respect, but random encounters do happen, I can testify to that, security are quite often happy to watch the footage Quite a talking point for their Friday night drinks. I don't think the op was suggesting this was a made up story and why would you think it was?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'passiton2' WOW, didnt think I,d be telling this story on a forum like this. I..... We Never Saw Each Other Again But Will Never Be Forgotten I think this should've been posted by "Name and Address Withheld by Request" ;) But, I won't call BS though, I once had a friendly uni exchange student who I was chatting to on a long flight back from the states that warned me that she's so sleepy and could fall asleep into my lap... obviously I put the armrest down so nobody encroached on my space ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'passiton2' WOW, didnt think I,d be telling this story on a forum like this. I..... We Never Saw Each Other Again But Will Never Be Forgotten I think this should've been posted by "Name and Address Withheld by Request" ;) But, I won't call BS though, I once had a friendly uni exchange student who I was chatting to on a long flight back from the states that warned me that she's so sleepy and could fall asleep into my lap... obviously I put the armrest down so nobody encroached on my space ;) and? don't stop, hate it when you don't give me detail. Did she really end up in your lap?
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'PurePeony' Quoting 'nibblemebi' passiton2 That almost sounds fantasy like. Are you sure you didn't have some of your friends morphine drip and hallucinate? I kid, but you do get that this is a pretty amazing story. Did you use protection? In reality, someone would have called the hospital security already and the guards would have surrounded them mid-action - caught red-handed or in this case, it would be more apt to say caught stiff-cocked and wet-pussied! LOL!!! And... in this day and age, some blurry video footage would have appeared on YouTube and even the TV channels / newspapers might discuss the incident as the video goes viral. Or maybe... it did happen ... and that lady was an inpatient from the Psych Ward who is out on day leave or something. LOL!!! :P All due respect, but random encounters do happen, I can testify to that, security are quite often happy to watch the footage Quite a talking point for their Friday night drinks. I don't think the op was suggesting this was a made up story and why would you think it was? I think PP, like myself, whilst we're all obviously very sexual creatures, would not endeavour having unsafe sex with a complete stranger so it is more difficult to imagine. That's how I read her response anyway. It is certainly on topic, but only the poster and the potentially poked woman will ever know what happened. She may have had a terminal disease and was making the most of the moment? Who knows, really. I have had so many propositions from men for a similar setup, so I know it is a common fantasy. In theory it is one of the hottest thoughts ever. But the safe and practical health minded me says NOPE. I'll maybe save that one for a roleplay one day (with a screened candidate haha) To each, their own
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' I think this should've been posted by "Name and Address Withheld by Request" ;) But, I won't call BS though, I once had a friendly uni exchange student who I was chatting to on a long flight back from the states that warned me that she's so sleepy and could fall asleep into my lap... obviously I put the armrest down so nobody encroached on my space ;) Oh, such a gentleman to put that armrest down. You certainly saved her from a certain eye injury should there have been any turbulence aboard. ..... or did you?
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RHP User
9 years ago
You say "In reality...." Why? Because you cant imagine that happening? So it obviously couldnt? Its a bigger world than just yours. And using an inpatient from a psych ward is just plain rude. And many people, both men and women, carry condoms in their bag/wallet. I do. Because you never know when you might need them.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes so many assumptions, unsafe sex? According to who? Condoms most of us carry but I'd never assume a story like that indicated unsafe sex or make judgements about that. Guys carry condoms too. My last random had condoms, though probably wasn't expecting to use them that day 😉 How is there any more risk for random than there is at a swingers party or hookup etc and the offhand 'patient' comments are just offensive
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RHP User
9 years ago
It was instant attraction for both of us. I remember he wore tight shorts and a tank when he was off shift and it would drive me mad wondering what was underneath. We got back onshore and it was crazy, we couldnt keep our hands off each other. Lasted 14 good years, then went to crap. No regrets.Its happened since, and again unexpectedly. I received a message from a guy, we started chatting and he asked if we could meet for a drink. His messages werent overly exciting and I actually turned him down at first....but there was something about him? I was surprised when he sent another message saying he really wanted to meet up. So I said ok, and we arranged to go for a drink. There was a connection straight away. We chatted for hours, it was so easy, felt like wed known each other for years. He had to go away to work the next day, but got in touch while he was away and it all went from there. Ive met guys on here that as soon as weve met I knew we would be getting tangled up next time for sure. Very lovely, sexy guys who I had some great times with. But that was sexual attraction, not sure if you could call it chemistry. So yes, It has happened to me and its really exciting while it lasts.
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yes so many assumptions, unsafe sex? According to who? Condoms most of us carry but I'd never assume a story like that indicated unsafe sex or make judgements about that. Guys carry condoms too. My last random had condoms, though probably wasn't expecting to use them that day 😉 How is there any more risk for random than there is at a swingers party or hookup etc and the offhand 'patient' comments are just offensive ... if you find a statement like that "offensive". Sheesh! The tale was a bit far fetched so I made suggestions as to why I'd think that way. Am I making fun of all mental health patients? Nope. In real life, I'm supportive of friends who have various mental health conditions. If I laugh at a Punch and Judy joke, does that mean I support wife bashers? NO! Since no mention of condoms were made in the tale, is it so very wrong to then make an assumption that it wasn't used? It could have been, or it could have been not. Who cares how we each live our lives? You guys can practice unsafe sex for all I care, it's got absolutely nothing to do with me. I made a comment based on the story and it's just that - a comment. So what now? You want to stone someone for making an assumption and a pretty valid one at that?! Never take something out of context. My comments were meant to be humourous because it sounded a bit like a cock and bull story. Sorry if you don't see it that way but I'm sure there are others who share the same view. You could argue that things like that can happen, and I do not dispute it because some incredible things have happened to me before that suspends all rational belief. But on the other side of the coin, you could also say to believe everything is to be naive. I see both sides of the coin. And Deep Purple, of course the world is bigger than mine and yours put together and sometimes reality is more dramatic than epic dramas. Have you never enjoyed a farfetched-sounding story with your friends and had a good laugh and start cracking jokes about it? I have heard racist jokes about my race many times before and I have suffered bullying in this fabulous country but guess what... I laugh along and don't take things personally because there's a time to be contemplative and there's a time to lighten up. Tone is unfortunately something that cannot be conveyed across this medium, but to automatically assume that everyone making jokes about something that afflicts yourself or your loved ones is someone being mean and nasty and boorish is a little myopic. Some forumites seriously need to lighten up and stop being so judgemental! You almost cannot crack jokes in here anymore without someone taking offence!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I stand by what I said, particularly when I got to this part of your last post - 'You guys can practice unsafe sex for all I care, it's got absolutely nothing to do with me'
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RHP User
9 years ago
Of course you were joking PP Great deflection.
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Of course you were joking PP Great deflection. And awesome sarcasm and positive attitude you have there. You are assuming that I'm deflecting based on your own sordid perspective of the world. If this is how you generally view people, always automatically assuming that people are nasty bitches, I really feel sorry for you because you mustn't have attracted a lot of nice people in your life. Live well.
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I stand by what I said, particularly when I got to this part of your last post - 'You guys can practice unsafe sex for all I care, it's got absolutely nothing to do with me' I stand by what I've said too. You are free to do whatever you want. Your safety is your own perogative.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' Or maybe... it did happen ... and that lady was an inpatient from the Psych Ward who is out on day leave or something. LOL!!! :P I really wish people would stop being so derogatory towards those with mental illness. It shits me to tears.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' Some forumites seriously need to lighten up and stop being so judgemental! You almost cannot crack jokes in here anymore without someone taking offence! It's really not up to you to dictate what other people should or shouldn't find offensive. Just because you hear racist jokes and decide to joke along with them and not take it seriously doesn't mean other Asian people aren't allowed to be offended and should react like you do.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe it is a true story,maybe not. Why does it matter ? . I agree with L .D. To say someone was an inpatient in the psyche ward and the story was fantastical is demeaning to the poster and people in general who have a mental illness. Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
I went to see Jim Jefferies last weekend. He makes a living being offensive, but we all laugh at him. Havent we all described someone as "crazy" or "strung out" and said things in jest that could be taken in an offensive way? Im sure if we scrolled back everyones posts we would find something offensive in there somewhere. We all know someone, family member of friend, who has suffered from some form of mental illness. No one says things to be deliberately nasty, Im sure. After all, its something that could affect all of us at some point in our lives. But...the topic. I remembered another instance, on holiday in Ibiza aged 18. I married young and was there with hubby, who decided to go out drinking every night. I met a cockney guy (Trev)in the foyer on the way back to my room on the last evening and we got talking Ended up sitting outside in the courtyard til late chatting. There was such a strong chemistry there, we were both crying when I went back to my room before hubby got back. The next morning we were leaving on the bus to go to the airport, and he came running down to watch me leave. We couldnt talk or wave but I still remember seeing his face for the last time. He had asked to keep in touch and I said no, but I thought about him a lot after that. I can still see his face after 34 years.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Making derogatory comments about mental illness or the misfortunes of others really is one of the lowest forms of wit. Having one does not make us any less deserving of basic human respect, such as not being the butt of others jokes for their flippant amusement. Nor does it imply that we have risqué sexual practices. What you call a joke, is a lot of people's lives that they struggle through everyday. And it's ignorance like yours that makes every day just that little bit fucking harder for those that suffer. I'm one of them, and I wont just take it on the chin. It's insulting.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Humour can be found in any situation.And thank god for that, as it helps get through many struggles in life. But some people post their personal stories on here because its the only place they can feel safe and unjudged to do so. They dont expect to have their story disected and told by a stranger that they were unsafe, or their scenario wouldnt happen because security would have bailed them up halfway through,or the person they had sex with was from a psych ward. Nothing funny there. And as PP said in her reply to me,"some forumites need to seriously lighten up and stop being so judgemental" I agree with you there PurePeony. And Koko, your story of ships in the night reminded me of jack and whatsherface in the Titanic movie. So sad what may have been and you just watched him watch you go. 😒
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RHP User
9 years ago
Rose. Her name was Rose😆
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RHP User
9 years ago
Rose or Lily? I am very confused. lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' No one says things to be deliberately nasty, Im sure. but that's not the point and it doesn't really make it any better. To me it's also not the same as using words like 'crazy' and 'nuts' in general conversation, which yeah people are so used to that they've just become part of everyday language. Anyway this has got way off topic so sorry OP and I'm going back to my gay porn now
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo'I went to see Jim Jefferies last weekend. He makes a living being offensive, but we all laugh at him. The next morning we were leaving on the bus to go to the airport, and he came running down to watch me leave. We couldnt talk or wave but I still remember seeing his face for the last time. He had asked to keep in touch and I said no, but I thought about him a lot after that. I can still see his face after 34 years. Oooh that is a lot more romance than I bet you expected on your honeymoon! So beautifully put! One of those sliding door moments. If only you remembered his name you could stalk him on FB and potentially sample what you missed out on?!
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' No one says things to be deliberately nasty, Im sure. but that's not the point and it doesn't really make it any better. To me it's also not the same as using words like 'crazy' and 'nuts' in general conversation, which yeah people are so used to that they've just become part of everyday language. Anyway this has got way off topic so sorry OP and I'm going back to my gay porn now Yep wayyyy off topic. Let's all play nice please LD: You had me at gay porn. I once was watching a romantic brokeback mountain gay couple at the nude beach, lather each other up with the suncream and just generally tend to each other and being playful etc, had to stop my mind from racing! Same couple came up to me and gave me a compliment in the water later when I was swimming. It's the ultimate in genuine compliments when it comes from men who are not saying it to get into your panties I have a lot more stories, but I'll save them for another time. Like I said, I think there is something up because it happens all too often. Just happened last week with a woman at the dayspa. That was nice, it doesn't often happen with other women
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RHP User
9 years ago
nothing wrong with gay porn. Let's all stop to reflect and take time out to watch gay porn
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think one of the main reasons why most common prejudices persist is because we make light of them. Urban society is so diverse now, I have to think for half a second before I crack a joke amongst strangers.Fair enough. It's still not rocket science...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I almost contacted him when my marriage inevitably broke up. He told me where he worked and in which suburb. But I resisted. I might check out UK RHP ? :) Id still know him...he had that bad boy Tom Hardy look....xx
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I almost contacted him when my marriage inevitably broke up. He told me where he worked and in which suburb. But I resisted. I might check out UK RHP ? :) Id still know him...he had that bad boy Tom Hardy look....xx I double dare you!
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PurePeony
9 years ago
There's obviously a lot of hypersensitivity surrounding this issue. I happen to try to see the light side of everything. How would you guys know that mental health issues do not afflict myself or my loved ones and hits close to home too? Just because I choose to see the lighter side of things does not mean that I am inhumane and that I should be attacked by the pack and ripped apart as you are all doing right now. We all have different personalities and we all react very differently to bad news, illness, and disasters. I happen to sometimes take a step back and laugh at the situation and then roll up my sleeves and deal with it. Remember the Charlie Hebdo incident? It was a comic that poked fun at something that some folks could laugh at, whilst others obviously took major offence towards. Were the Charlie Hebdo staff in the wrong by poking fun at someone else's religion? Maybe. Maybe not. One person's humour is another person's offence. Awesome that I'm made of strong mettle otherwise a pack attack like that can seriously impact someone who isn't strong in heart, mind and spirit. I hope you guys have derived massive pleasure in your attacks. We will never see eye to eye with regards to certain issues, so be it. It is what it is. Live and let live.
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RHP User
9 years ago
pack attack? There was no humour in your post PP. The injection of a heap of lol's, even as I was reading it, didn't make it funny. There's such a thing as laughing 'at' someone and laughing 'with' someone. If it was light hearted fun, it was at someone else's expense, and you think making fun of people with mental health issues/serious sexual diseases etc., is acceptable and okay? No it's not, no matter how much you keep arguing or getting defensive about the feedback you've received on that. What I don't understand is why you would suggest that random sex like that must be somehow seedy, the person must be seedy, whatever, unsafe sex. When I meet guys out in public, during the day mind you, they are perfectly normal and respectable guys, why would you think I found one in a gutter somewhere. I'm very fussy who I have sex with for a start, so the innuendo that people doing this are unsafe and/or unfussy, is offensive in itself. And that's before you started on people with mental health issues. What's done is done, just move on and take on board the issues at hand. It doesn't have to be personal, I commented on your post. I always comment as an individual, not as part of a group, you should know that by now and the other comments here were just the individuals with their own thoughts. It can seem like a pack attack, I know, I've been there, but what it usually is, is a group of people making their own comments, just that the comments reflect the same thoughts. But yeah, let's just move on now, we've all had our say. The dust had settled, it wasn't a personal attack on you, just your comment all good PP. Don't worry, sometimes this kind of thing happens
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RHP User
9 years ago
You use Charlie Hebdo to give yourself justification? That was a statement against a violent & oppressive ideology. They paid dearly for it. Was there anything humorous about the aftermath? No. Hypersensitive?.....no I'm pissed off with the sheer ignorance. So let me break it down for you. So you might deign to understand from your lofty perch of self righteousness. I'm going to be very blunt and tell you my story. And mine is just one. The woman from the Psyche ward. She could have been me. I spent some time there after I was raped & nearly beaten to death 6 years ago. I developed PTSD. Hilarious right? Glad you see the funny side of that. Crippling panic attacks dispersed with episodes of being catatonic. Followed by not being physically able to leave my house for over a year was such fun! If anyone rolled up their sleeves and "got on with it" it was me. And I'm bloody proud of what I've achieved in the last 6 years. Do you know what? I don't care who knows. I will and do talk about it, I'm open about it because for every one of me, there are thousands of others that battle with a mental health issue, that can't have a voice. Because they are scared. Scared of people like you that make jokes about them. We are real people. We are not jokes. And every time I see or hear some idiotic thoughtless jab disguised as humour against those battling. I wonder. I wonder who saw it or heard it and if it pushed them over the edge. Because that's what happens, it takes just one thoughtless comment or "joke" too many. And they take their lives. I nearly did it, over thoughtless words that someone said to me. It was one too many. Do you understand that to those in despair that words hurt, that they can kill? Or is it still something to laugh about? For every one of us that doesn't end it. We are the tough ones. Not those that find humour in the suffering of others. I hope you never find yourself in my shoes. An acknowledgement and apology for your words would have shown empathy. But no you decided that you were being attacked, whilst not giving a thought to those that your words affected and offended. And now I wait for the thread to be deleted and my IP to be taken away 😊 but I hope that it remains. If not it was worth it. Report away.
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RHP User
9 years ago
PP if you would see it that way,a mob attack that is. Humour can be a very individual thing.One persons funny is another persons racist,sexist ageist,fatist ,etc comment. Sexual chemistry can dissipate very quickly after encountering comments meant to be humorous but to their target audience just aren't.. It's also about the times,what people accepted ,put up with twenty years ago,they not today.I was relentlessly "teased" by my father whose cruel comments directed at me were under the guise of jokes. Indeed"can't you take a joke" or " I was only joking" are standard responses . There is a saying,"Many a true word is said in jest,". by labelling comments as "humour" does not give anyone a get out of jail free card. I have stopped chatting to men whose "humour " I found offensive,even if I initially found them attractive .Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
big hugs xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Another poster writing a post that some people found offensive but a few of the regular forumites came to his defense saying that it was " just his style of humour" I dont think anyone has deliberately been malicious about people having a mental illness. It is certainly a very sensitive subject and most of us have been affected terribly by it in our lives. My uncle took his own life while suffering with depression. Please dont let this become a witch hunt?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Someone has a go at another persons post. A few ppl pull her up on it and suddenly its the forumite pack ganging up? Christ, its just people who think you were rude to another person. PurePeony, if someone had spoken to you the way you did, I would have said something. So hopefully you wont be as flippant in your replies from now on. You can hurt people yeah?
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
There goes my thread down the toilet. I can tolerate a fair bit of OT discussion but this takes the cake. I am sorry people have been hurt, I think the original offending comment was made innocently, even if it was a bit flippant and perhaps should have been thought and not said (or written). Malicious is one this it was not. But we are ALL human and have made errors of judgement before, so no need to burn her at the stake. I tried to keep moving forward with my topic but feelings had been hurt and people seem to like to squabble it out in public so the thread really never had a chance. It makes me sad that people got hurt from some of the mudslinging, and even though I was not involved in any of that, I apologise to anyone who was affected. I think we need to be mindful and respectful of the many different personalities on here, and perhaps agree to disagree a bit more instead of getting into fickle verbage exchanges on a topic about something else. Back to your corners everyone. Make a new topic or take it private if you feel the need to continue the discussion. If you have any experiences to share on topic, I would love to hear them :) And hugs and boobie bumps to all xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Apparently I have to join the UK site so I may knock up a profile this evening and have a look for Trevor from Hackney
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RHP User
9 years ago
Oh. I have heard of that movie. 😁
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RHP User
9 years ago
Q, I've been on the receiving end of that, though not my father. When your own kids are laughing at the cruel jokes, it's just sick. Back on topic. So a weird thing happened, back close to when I started with online hookups, another website. I had this guy who was married but fell for me, as time wore on, I did for him also. He was early 30's. The interesting thing was, we had never met, but I felt myself being drawn into him and he felt the same way. He became a friend, we talked a lot, he was such a gentle soul. Even more interesting was that I hadn't seen what he looked like either, only seen his neck Agh the innocence of a rookie he did have a fuckin smoking hot adam's apple though Anyway, long story short, he started to get a bit jealous of me seeing other guys, not to the point where it was an issue, but I could see it coming through. Anyway, I had arranged to go and meet a guy for a coffee one day. The guy was in his 40's, gym junkie, amazing body, but I still wasn't feeling an attraction, you know that just happens sometimes, but he was really nice, agreed to meet him. My other guy was wanting to meet me that day and I told him why I couldn't. He kept suggesting maybe I shouldn't go. I said it was a quick coffee, I wasn't feeling any attraction, no way I'd be having sex with the guy. Anyway, long story short, I went to meet this guy and omg. You talk about chemistry, we were locked together on the side of the road with people walking past, main coffee strip, cars driving slowly past, we couldn't let go. It was one of those moments where time stopped (actually had the coffee first, flirting madly, this happened directly after). Turned out his pictures were shit and the funniest thing, he's still on that website and STILL has those pictures I told him they were shit but he's obviously not worried. Anyway, saw him a few times after that but that first time, when it happens, it's amazing and you're gripped by it, same way his hands were gripped on my arse and mine were on his, blushing
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haven't you seen Titanic? Now THAT is chemistry. The chemistry between Rose and Jack, actually it made me horny, but everything makes me horny. You have to see it, it's really worth seeing. The quality of sound, I saw it in a cinema, was incredible
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Apparently I have to join the UK site so I may knock up a profile this evening and have a look for Trevor from Hackney Oh that really narrows it down, doesn't it? Too bad you never got a peek at the package, because I have a sneaking suspicion you may have to identify him from a dick pic . Keep us posted my lovely, I am excited for you at the thought of finding him to take up where you left off, and slide the door the other way this time
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' A strange place for chemistry: I just remembered that I had a major erotic dream once about someone I wasn't remotely attracted to. I couldn't think about him for several weeks after that without getting a pussy twinge! Oh yes, the subliminal pussy twinger. I love those dreams, not just for the twinges, but how they may open our minds to look outside the boxes we are used to :) You obviously admired said gentleman on some level, and that got crosswired with a lustful thought as your mind went to rest. Ooops!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry if its off topic, but possibly you could find him through a UK facebook site. I just found relatives on a uk /aus site. Within half an hour they had found my birth father for me,just by giving his name and aproximate age.If you have his last name that will make the difference. You just never know.
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Sorry if its off topic, but possibly you could find him through a UK facebook site. I just found relatives on a uk /aus site. Within half an hour they had found my birth father for me,just by giving his name and aproximate age.If you have his last name that will make the difference. You just never know. Don't be silly. It's totally on topic! We are on a mission to find Koko's original Spontaneous Chemistry! Good idea re facebook, I am sure she will know his face when she see's it - it's imprinted on her heart :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
No luck so far. Not knowing his second name is making it difficult. Im wondering if hes still a Cockney geezer or if he has moved on? I have my memories, and who knows? .........
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' DP was talking about Rose from Titanic (aka whatsherface), and Peony and Lily are not the same person. ;-) What is this assumption that Peony and I are the same person? You have mentioned this a couple of time s in different forums? What gives? And NO, we are nto the same person. As a matter of fact, we showed up in the same room together in the last mini Melbourne singles meet and greet just to prove that we are NOT one and the same person. Lol I hope that clears it for you and you sleep well. I have been busy with work and other real life stuff and have not really been active in RHP, but occasionally see my friends' posts on my feed so I look. I had a guffaw at the first comment but then I see it again? I have been here longer than Peony and have attended many a Meet and greets so I am real.
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' DP was talking about Rose from Titanic (aka whatsherface), and Peony and Lily are not the same person. ;-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was 21... she walked into my section of the office... stood in a doorway... backlit... what a silhouette... Legs forever... long auburn hair... a crochet mini dress.. with holes (it was the 80's)... bugger... a body stocking! She walked in my direction... wow what a face and... body... and 27 (the older woman)...then she spoke... one of those voices that can shatter glass. I think the voice killed my 21 yo erection... but over the next week we got to know and like each other (in a work way). I lived near her... and she asked me for a lift home... her car was in for a service. Can I buy you a drink on the way home to say thanks she said.... then as I pulled up outside her place... she said... want to come in for another drink... I am all alone... husband is interstate!!! My heart was beating at a million miles an hour... UM... I better get home... thanks anyway. True story... god I was an innocent!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Rubenesque_Red' You use Charlie Hebdo to give yourself justification? That was a statement against a violent & oppressive ideology. They paid dearly for it. Was there anything humorous about the aftermath? No. Hypersensitive?.....no I'm pissed off with the sheer ignorance. So let me break it down for you. So you might deign to understand from your lofty perch of self righteousness. I'm going to be very blunt and tell you my story. And mine is just one. The woman from the Psyche ward. She could have been me. I spent some time there after I was raped & nearly beaten to death 6 years ago. I developed PTSD. Hilarious right? Glad you see the funny side of that. Crippling panic attacks dispersed with episodes of being catatonic. Followed by not being physically able to leave my house for over a year was such fun! If anyone rolled up their sleeves and "got on with it" it was me. And I'm bloody proud of what I've achieved in the last 6 years. Do you know what? I don't care who knows. I will and do talk about it, I'm open about it because for every one of me, there are thousands of others that battle with a mental health issue, that can't have a voice. Because they are scared. Scared of people like you that make jokes about them. We are real people. We are not jokes. And every time I see or hear some idiotic thoughtless jab disguised as humour against those battling. I wonder. I wonder who saw it or heard it and if it pushed them over the edge. Because that's what happens, it takes just one thoughtless comment or "joke" too many. And they take their lives. I nearly did it, over thoughtless words that someone said to me. It was one too many. Do you understand that to those in despair that words hurt, that they can kill? Or is it still something to laugh about? For every one of us that doesn't end it. We are the tough ones. Not those that find humour in the suffering of others. I hope you never find yourself in my shoes. An acknowledgement and apology for your words would have shown empathy. But no you decided that you were being attacked, whilst not giving a thought to those that your words affected and offended. And now I wait for the thread to be deleted and my IP to be taken away 😊 but I hope that it remains. If not it was worth it. Report away. My Hugs belongs to you today Rubenesque_Red....."Hugs & Smiles darling.....Hugs & Smiles"
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' No luck so far. Not knowing his second name is making it difficult. Im wondering if hes still a Cockney geezer or if he has moved on? I have my memories, and who knows? ......... Rome wasn't built in a day, don't give up yet! I'd say if he isn't one of those people who live their whole lives in the one spot, then there is a good chance he moved to Australia ;) Too bad you don't know that surname, grrrr! I remember my first English lust....such a romantic, almost stole my heart... but an absolute dud between the sheets. Was rather a pity
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mstr_Full' I was 21... she walked into my section of the office... stood in a doorway... backlit... what a silhouette... Legs forever... long auburn hair... a crochet mini dress.. with holes (it was the 80's)... bugger... a body stocking! She walked in my direction... wow what a face and... body... and 27 (the older woman)...then she spoke... one of those voices that can shatter glass. I think the voice killed my 21 yo erection... but over the next week we got to know and like each other (in a work way). I lived near her... and she asked me for a lift home... her car was in for a service. Can I buy you a drink on the way home to say thanks she said.... then as I pulled up outside her place... she said... want to come in for another drink... I am all alone... husband is interstate!!! My heart was beating at a million miles an hour... UM... I better get home... thanks anyway. True story... god I was an innocent! Sounds so funny, at 27, she's the older woman Heady days at that age, hormones going crazy
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happy0450
9 years ago
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