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Squirting - A Different Perspective.
July 20 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've never done it and am not keen to either! Euww!Each to their own.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree. I think men are too rough and they seem to almost want to force the issue. Having said that I have only really squirted the one time and I think I was a little overwhelmed as I can't really remember it that well. I am pretty sure I am fighting it all the way too. I suppose the two faces watching me so intently was a little weird as well. LOL.I will see how it really feels next time.... but yes it was almost a little painful.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't help it. It feels great.It tastes great. I love it.
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
In liking what you like and not liking something just because it is the latest and greatest.
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
like for you, PaintMe, I might enjoy it! But like Meeka said, some men are just too rough. Meeka do you think the watchers put a lot of added pressure so you couldn't relax? And what makes you fight it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
But if I was alone in my thinking ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't know why I fight it....... I have almost squirted on one on one situations but I always stop them or push them away. I don't like the feeling I don't think. When I squirted I wouldn't say I even orgasmed...... it didn't feel like that. I can't actually remember now.
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RHP User
11 years ago
when Ive squirted, its not with a orgasm, just when Im incredibly turned on. Im not that fond of the mess lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love it...BUT I can't with just anyone, especially if they are trying to be rough and force it..For me I have to be there mentally, in a good head space and have that connection with them or else I just can't and it's all over red rover. If its very intense my body just goes with..I don't know it just happens...I had one guy once, that's all he talked about and when the time came I couldn't. I can normally pick up the vibes etc if they are into me and want to know me for me...and want to explore my body as I do them. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. Also check out other Forums on squirting....FOXY
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
Quoting 'TheJessicaRabbit' But if I was alone in my thinking ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile Then to add to the conversation, Ms Araps does squirt a fair bit and she is sometimes a little bit embarrassed ... mainly afterwards at the mess. Not so much during and being relaxed and relaxed in the moment has a big say in that from experience. So yes agree with you that it can be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I dont squirt every time i orgasm, but when I do OMG its unreal!!! leaves me exhausted, and wanting more!! I havent been hurt by men doing it, but i think i actually need it a little rough and intense to make it happen which is fine when done in a fit of passion
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subgal_gc
11 years ago
and loved the feeling...thou I am with Meeka and felt a little overwhelmed afterwards.. the second time round I couldn't move properly for about 45 mins (i think) thou I couldn't stop twitching either. Was both a strange yet amazing feeling and I hope that I get to do it again, thou I am not putting any stress on myself for it to happen.And Meeka it was awesome watching it happen to you!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Having a woman squirt is not the be all and end all of a positive sexual experience. Those that do, I feel need to reassess what it is they're looking for as there is more to a woman than what her body can and cannot do physically. That said it is rather hot if it happens. I was surfing through some porn sites looking for something a little different to the normal, ooo ahhh over exaggerated stuff, and I came across an instructional video of all things, and it was all about giving a woman oral. In this video the woman teacher said exactly what you're saying about some men being too rough with a woman's body. If I remember correctly, she said too many men think that you've got to be hard and vigorous when stimulating a woman's clit. While I realise clitoral stimulation doesn't exactly relate to women squirting, I thought it was quite pertinent to mention. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'submissivegalgc' and loved the feeling...thou I am with Meeka and felt a little overwhelmed afterwards.. the second time round I couldn't move properly for about 45 mins (i think) thou I couldn't stop twitching either. Was both a strange yet amazing feeling and I hope that I get to do it again, thou I am not putting any stress on myself for it to happen.And Meeka it was awesome watching it happen to you!! Ha! I got stage fright with you Any watching so intently. Hehehe I definitely need to squirt again to properly assess the feeling though. Watching your legs twitch like that for so long was pretty amazing too. Never seen that before Subgal.
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Bambi_Peeks
11 years ago
I have only had 2 sexual partners who knows what they were doing to make me squirt and talk about mind blowing !!! However, there have been a few who have tried and it only made me want to kick them in the head. I have no qualms towards roughiness, however there is a difference between a pleasurable pain and pain that makes you want to call the medics lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
because if they're too rough I tell them so. Some men are pretty obsessed by it. If they still don't get it I tell them to fuck off and I will look elsewhere or look after myself. I had one guy who wanted to keep going and I ended up wrestling him around the room. That was kinda fun too. Maybe I should aim for his eye next time. Having said that I kinda understand what you mean. Men can get so caught up trying to make you squirt and forget all the other important stuff. That can get annoying for me because they think they're all that when I can do it by myself in a couple of minutes. When it's done right with all the warm fuzzy stuff it's amazing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But you can squirt just from coming, you don't need that particular area being touched at all do you? Not fair how come I can't come all the time too! I really have issues with letting go. I think I need to go to more intimate groups of 4 or 5 people. PMSL. Lordy...... we are all so incestuous.
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Bambi_Peeks
11 years ago
I didnt know I was capable of squirting or what squirting was until I met someone who did make me squirt. I was so embarrassed as I thought I peed all over his bed - but it was so intense. After coming back down to Earth I have realised the whole bed was wet and cried out in a panic apologising profusely about peeing on his bed... it was not until he informed what had happened that I had a sound understanding (yes, very naive lol) - those who have the ability to know how to do it.... are a definite keeper for a lover for sure!
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subgal_gc
11 years ago
I really want to go to A & D again and if lucky the Dr will be in...hehe. But seriously I have never had a guy been able to make me squirt before that night, think he just had the right technique. Thou it was fun when he was trying to teach you Meeka.... I still get pussy twinges just thinking about all aspects of that night which is why I am so eager to go back again
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RHP User
11 years ago
Generally annoys me. Women can experience SO much. We can have amazing sensations even without orgasming at all. We can orgasm in different ways, all of them fantastic. We are more than just how much, or if, we squirt. So even if we do it, and even if it's great, do you think maybe we could remember that there's more to us than that?! I can't bear reductive thinking and that's what the never ending focus on 'girls gotta squirt' is. OP, I agree completely. I can do it (sort of) but it doesn't define me.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
I did hurt a woman one time but that was because I forgot to take of my ring. Ok I am guilty as if I get her to squirt I feel I have given her my best and pleased her but I don't have to be rough to do it. Who gave guys the idea to be rough or is it the porn movies because that's what they show, guys pounding the hell out of a gal
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I enjoyed squirting simply because I didn't think I was capable... The guy didn't need to be rough he just had the right touch and no I didn't orgasm... Well not a typical orgasm. I did curl up into an orgasmic ball of glee and roll around in my own juiciness for a bit like a weird happy dirty sex craved piglet hahaha the whole evening was quite debaucherous and that was like the grand finale ;) But just like any sexual act squirting doesn't appeal to everyone... And I was kinda glad we had booked a hotel room as I did not wish to clean up the mess! I haven't been able to squirt since tho I've tried on my own, and no guy since has made me squirt such a huge amount tho I think I've had little squirts during sex. It's like a thing I've checked off my fuckit list now... If it happens again YAY if not I'm not bothered really.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
....but the washing pile can be a bit of a bitch...lolDG
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RHP User
11 years ago
heh my girl squirts every time we have sex. im well over it being a ego boost and its more like damn can we have sex without ending up in a puddle. In reality tho we both love it Me i just love the look of her body jumping as she does and even love it drenching my face. she even somehow managed to squirt from anal penetration which perplexes me as its nowhere near the usual spots that it takes to get it going. i do find it interesting that each woman also has a unique way they squirt, from puddles just drenching out in one big hit to splashes like heavy rain to streams that go 5 foot
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Colette
11 years ago
Jess I am with you on the different perspective. Squirting has become a bit of a Holy Grail for the guys, which is unfortunate, since it can occur without orgasm. So sorry guys, it is not necessarily a validation of your prowess.Personally, it is a random and unpredictable occurrence which catches me by surprise and does not make my orgasms any more or less intense. Of course, it is different for each of us.lolygoblblisbomb - I concur with your every word ! You well understand there is sooo much more to good sex !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do it and love it. I can sometimes control it. I can also make myself squirt. I tend to prefer it a "little" rough and vigorous also and, as with multiple orgasms If your hitting the right spot I can squirt non stop until the cows come home. I don't always orgasm at the same time and I do find it can be exhausting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Been with 3 women who squirt .... Major turn on if you ask me. They have the most intense orgasms, have all been seriously multi-orgasmic and yes, it can be messy but very worth it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The first time I was ever with a woman who squirted was also her first time too! She was straddled over the top of me while I was licking her amazing pussy nice and easy. Then all of a sudden without warning it felt like I had a full bucket of warm water tipped all over my face! We both looked at each other with amazement to what had just happened. It was a strange feeling but amazing at the same time.I was able to make this woman squirt everytime I fucked her from there on, she defiantly was a gusher! lolI never had to be rough with her either, just was able to hit that sweet spot for her. This happened a few years back and she has told me that she has never been able to squirt again. So I think there needs to be a bit of chemistry between both, don't think it can happened anytime with just anyone. But each woman is so different in what makes climax.I will never forget my first squirting experience, wish I could do it all again right now!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I started squirting about a year ago with a fwb I saw regularly, since then I have done it most times I've had sex. If it's a one off during the session it's ok, the wet patch can be avoided but recently I was with a guy that had me going almost constantly. Thankfully we were in a spa bath because I hate to think of the mess I would have left on a bed! This guy had amazingly talented fingers and had me going so hard and often that I almost passed out the feelings were so intense. Even though the session lasted for some time I had no soreness.
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
Some similar views to mine. Loved the way you put it Colette, and Amarella your description was hilarious! So was the mental pictures of you running around the room Paintme, lol!! I think as some of you have said, men seem to think it's the ultimate orgasm, when in reality my orgasms are very intense and leave me twitching anyway, so I think I can take it or leave it when it comes to squirting. Given many men are too rough, I think I'll leave it...any kind of orgasm is good enough for me thanks, I'm just pleased to be getting one at all!! Jess xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
it wasn't a large room, and I don't run. But it was fun beating up a sailor at the Couples Club.
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RHP User
11 years ago
best eva not the same as clitoral orgasm or vaginal but amazing , v enjoyable,,,don't know why people would have pain etc all good,,,,,,v good lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' But you can squirt just from coming, you don't need that particular area being touched at all do you? Not fair how come I can't come all the time too! I really have issues with letting go. I think I need to go to more intimate groups of 4 or 5 people. PMSL. Lordy...... we are all so incestuous. What do you think it will take for you to 'let go'?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fe males squirt all females squirt sorry but I havnt got one that dosnt , maybe I'm lucky - Posted from rhpmobile
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subgal_gc
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' Quoting 'Meeka100' But you can squirt just from coming, you don't need that particular area being touched at all do you? Not fair how come I can't come all the time too! I really have issues with letting go. I think I need to go to more intimate groups of 4 or 5 people. PMSL. Lordy...... we are all so incestuous. What do you think it will take for you to 'let go'? Maybe if we blindfold and put headphones on her then she might not be so aware of us around her and could then relax and let go...
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RHP User
11 years ago
is that your wife in your new pic? .... Does she know that her face pic is on your public profile?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I been with three different woman who have squirted and there was painful foreplay involved.Just amazing pleasure for both parties.I can't imagine that it could be enjoyable or pleasurable for woman if pain is inflicted to climax to squirt.I think its all about finding her pleasure spot and then paying full attention to it!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had a brief kissing session with a girl at a party but I was in a relationship and unwilling to go further than that.She masturbated sitting in front of me whilst I massaged her breasts and kissed her neck. She came strongly. After the party I went back to her house because I was so turned on but I still didn't want to have sex with her.We did kiss again and she made herself come slowly with her vibrator and fingers - she squirted really really hard. It was the first time I'd seen it and it was incredibly erotic. Partly I think it was the intimacy of sharing something so personal and the illicit liaison. Very sexy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
without meaning to try and look 'up-myself', I have made quite a few ladies squirt over the years, and wasn't aware that it was supposed to be "the holy grail" or anything of the sort. not every lass can do it, and usually not every time, while others get close but the sensation is too extreme and intense for them and they decide they don't want to continue the stimulation through to that stage. it is a special experience though and one that I definitely enjoy participating in and helping out with, but it isn't something that should be expected every time nor be lamented if it isn't achieved. I find it usually happens when both partners are totally relaxed in each others company, are turned on to the max and the bloke has a decent understanding of the workings of his ladys fun bits and knows how to hit the right spots at the right times.... I personally LOVE IT when a lady squirts it turns me on big time being a part of it! ...forget 'the mess' its a small price to pay for such an enjoyable experience!! :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeh, I like it when I'm in the right headspace for it. I wouldn't want one every time and can only have one with my partner.
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RHP User
11 years ago
much niceras is my g spot being dealt with correctly
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is it wet in here ?????- Posted from rhpmobile
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
If I don't concentrate on not squirting during sex I make a mess.. I hate cleaning up mess.. So I try not to. I hate it when a guy man handles you trying to make you squirt or gets all excited like he is a sex god and you are a performing pony that he has made do a great trick... Amazing sex is about intimacy, trust and eroticism not squirting- for me anyway... Xxv
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abcplus1
11 years ago
Essential bedroom equipment :-) Love it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No need to be rough, I have a wonderful FB with whom I enjoy her squirting ability.Depending on the mood and state of emotion, using your tongue to make a woman squirt and build up tension is a beautiful experience, even if i am wearing it!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love it when a woman squirts DURING intercourse! I know it's rare but it's fantastic. There's no rough play, it's just pure pleasure. And yes there's a bit of gratification there but it's the best feeling just knowing your partner is enjoying everything as much as you are!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love these threads, the honesty helps me avoid typical male down falls ;)Its no mystery to all of you that to most men its a huge turn on, I guess for me the messiness is tangible proof of the dirty acts you might have been up to together, like other taboos, it doesn't make much sense in a normal environment, but in the moment its just painfully sexy.I cant really relate on being hurt like many of you explain, some women can give painful hand jobs, but I don't think the lack of knowledge translates the same way as men trying to get a woman to orgasm. But I can at least say you cant blame some men for being fixated on trying to get you to squirt, it isnt the be all and end all, but a lot of the women here have ended their statements with "I dont need to squirt to enjoy myself, but if I do IT FEELS AMAZING", I'm not saying its right for men to become obsessed at all, but the root of the fixation is obviously that most men just genuinely want to pleasure women to great heights. There are far more issues that women have to contend with when it comes to sex, but I think the biggest issue men have to face is being criticized for not knowing each woman, I mean just in this thread alone some like it rough, others gentle, men can have versatile preferences too, but you all know its not that hard to please us in a basic sense. Plenty of women say that they aren't afraid to talk about what they want, but when I've gone to sex parties here in Perth (and squirting becomes the centre of attention) you dont hear many women around the room giving advice on how they like it, I would like to think all the men were just perfect at what they were doing, but I dont think its the case haha. I hate reading here that some women want to squirt but cant. Don't you think that its so frustrating that when it comes to pleasure and orgasms and squirting our bodies are so counterproductive. If women cant let go, or cant get lost in the moment they arent as wet, they cant squirt/climax, and then to compound the issue if men cant get lost in the moment they go soft and climax too early... its just a vicious cycle. Thats why I feel privileged to have met some truly comfortable Perth people on here, I am still young, but I loved exploring and learning with such sexy people.I think if you haven't taken the time to assess whether the guy truly wants to help you explore your pleasure, then you cant be shocked that he has tunnel vision and isn't willing to listen. I am all ears (and tongue and fingers and anything necessary) if anyone wants me to come exploring with them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My first squirt experience: i was going down on a chick wondering "was that the orgasm? Was that it? That definitely sounded like it". Then, bam! All over my chin, i didnt know what to think at first, she was a bit embarrassed bit we were both pretty wasted so i told her it was awesome and kept going at it. I dont know if that's off topic but it was pretty awesome. Obvs had to change the sheets... but it was awesome.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i love it , and tastes great ,when the girl is comfortable with you and know there body anything is possible : ) you dont need to be rough but then again every girl is different
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RHP User
11 years ago
Paintime ur first comment was so sexy =) I have never had a squirter but think its so hot!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hade the pleasure recently of the perfect squirting partner. I squirted before I met him, but together we reached perfection with it. No rough stuff, just the perfect fit. I was able to feel the pleasure pressure build until I told him to withdraw resulting in baaaammm mini orgasm leaving me rolled up and twitching. And when you have several of them first, the final full orgasm is beyond intense. Squirting, I love it.....just keep those towels handy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its all to do with having a weak bladder. Nothing to do with being a deity at all :p Tastes good? Well it's hot to hear women say that, but the general consensus is that urine doesn't taste that great even if you've been drinking Nothing but Evian all day. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Squirting or gushing has nothing to do with a weak bladder! Towels just become tiresome so i have invested in a waterproof mattress protector and it is fabulous saves on bucket loads of washing. I gush often and always be it during oral, anal or pretty much any penetration i just gush. The feeling is so intense, it makes me insatiable for more. For me going with my body as it gushes leads me further into a secondary deeper intense mind blowing full body orgasm. For me it doesnt need rough play to make it happen. It just happens, i did however first discover the joys of gushing many years ago when a lover was trying to fist me .... as i let go and fell into the experience my body responded to the pleasure by gushing. No its not for everyone, yes the sheets get changed often and if you go to motel rooms then you probably do have to go to different ones as they dont like the clean up. But it such a release and so pleasureable i hooked on doing it. Once it starts its almost impossible to find the off switch. xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The Journal of Sexual Medicine has stated that emissions met the parameters of prostrate plasma, not urine. Just sayin Sailin_by - Posted from rhpmobile
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69squirtle69
11 years ago
had a very similar experience the first time I squirted.. Rather emmbarrassed but soh wanted to feel that way again.. That was over 10years ago. I just love it, cant get enough, and when it happens along with a 'vanilla' orgasm, things go rite off.. Hubby is an expert and recently met a lovely lady who had me going within 2min of getting down to it..I honestly feel if youre doing right, you will want it more.. The feeling is utterly addictive..yes its messy, but hey, i dont mind being restricted to hard floors only! One of the best reasons to enjoy sex in a motel or holiday rooms..someone else the change the sheets..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I dont force it or try hard. Just start with a massage and try to find the spot, it happens if it happens, no pressure. I am not the best but do have some nice validations about my fingers
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love reading all of your differnet adventures and experiences.Ive been the only man to make my wife squirt and like others i thought crap did i just get peed on ? but now i know the tricks of the trade i love it. i love watching her facial expression and her body spasiming and especially mutiple squirting OMG man neesd a wet suit and thank god for mattress protectors..and as some of you have said its all about being in the moment. As the only other time i have seen my wife turn on the water works was in a couple play i think they freaked a bit. But who cares not for everyone just as long as you enjoy yourself and your experiences and all are safe.Peace out Sexy people
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not having first hand experience of seine squirting. So found this rather informative. Thanks for sharing.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'TheJessicaRabbit' like for you, PaintMe, I might enjoy it! But like Meeka said, some men are just too rough. Meeka do you think the watchers put a lot of added pressure so you couldn't relax? And what makes you fight it? - Posted from rhpmoIf it is too rough than the dude is not doing it right. Def need to be relaxed and a guy needs to spend some time. Mr. Fun_flirty does not even try to hit my G Spot till I am very warmed up and feeling it. He takes his time and is really passionate and does a great job of working me up. Once I am feeling it he will continue to make sure, then he moves to my G Spot and within 30 seconds it usually happens, then again and again...and again and again... Never rough, but very intense ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
people who just write it up as urine really need to study up a bit on it before putting out uninformed views.maybe its not something you like hence blindly writing it off but is it perhaps being uninformed and just assuming that its urine that turns you off from it?id say that most women who squirt love the feeling some are embarresed by it but being uninformed and refusing to help your partner out if they like it is pretty selfish a stance on the matter.im not having a go at anyone just curious is it that those who dislike it due to thinking its urine would they change their thinking on it after studying up on it
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
This was not a forum debating whether or not it is 'real.' It is. Just because you haven't experienced something doesn't mean that it doesn't exist.It was asking people's opinions, so if you don't have a valid opinion to contribute, then don't contribute. And to the guys messaging me offering their 'services,' I've experienced it, decided I don't like it, so thanks but I'll pass! LOL Happy to hear everyone's thoughts, and yes clearly it is popular, but as with anything, not for everyone. Toyboy4u18 raised a good point in that perhaps we need to speak up if it isn't our thing...Pretty sure i've done that now, in the most public way possible Been there, done that, didn't buy the T-shirt! Do agree that it's hot to witness though. I just don't enjoy the physical sensations.Jessxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
How the porn studs seem to know to pull out just as she is about to squirt big time Then I got with a girl who really fountained .... now I know, your cock gets literally blown out of her. OMG the wet patch was about a one metre circumference in the middle of the bed !- Posted from rhpmobile
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Squirt_Master1
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' I can't help it. It feels great.It tastes great. I love it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well, how far out of the loop am I ? I always thought females squirting was a natural thing....either you can do it or you can't For me I would never get rough trying to make you squirt.....it's either there or not
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RHP User
11 years ago
The thing is when you feel comfortable with your partner or are in the "moment" and comfortable you can allow your body to do things you thought were not possible.. I recently have experienced this amazing function. I am 41 years old, and never in my life thought I could experience this sensation I'm with the right partner now that knows what I like and no it does not hurt. You have to be in the mental moment and feel totally relaxed with your partner to "let go" and yes if anyone doesn't know the fluid (come) is from the urethra but travels from a different area. Females you know when your about to come or fountain you know the build up. Guys please know that you don't have to be rough to get a squirt just be gentle and you will get her in the end, just don't pressure her. Please note: there is a vast difference between "orgasm" and squirting. Any woman knows that orgasm is a spasm motion within the pelvic pubic muscle. There is also prep very important, lots of towels and mattress protector is a must. Happy Squirting girls
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' I can't help it. It feels great.It tastes great. I love it.A+
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RHP User
11 years ago
How do you make a girl squirt without being to rough?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have had one lovely lady guide me through every step of the way on how she liked it done. It was quiet an art and her body had an amazing quiver… and yes a large towel. She did say that she only likes doing it amongst people she feels connection with. To her it was special and I felt the same way for being part of it. Intimacy is a wonderful thing. I haven’t met a single lady whose life depends on it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'TheJessicaRabbit' Happy to hear everyone's thoughts, and yes clearly it is popular, but as with anything, not for everyone. Toyboy4u18 raised a good point in that perhaps we need to speak up if it isn't our thing...Pretty sure i've done that now, in the most public way possible .haha I'm sure if anyone here is lucky enough to meet you 'TheJessicaRabbit' they will know where you stand on the topic. You've definitely got the opinions flowing too, no pun intended.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The first time I squirted was in a threesome. He was fingering both of us as I was kissing her. It was completely involuntary and a guy had never previously been able to do that to me, so I was shocked, humiliated and we were all saturated...he now calls himself the "Squirt Whisperer"! I think it is hot and very sexy and it's definitely not urine! Try it yourself....empty your bladder completely, watch some porn get turned on and make yourself come by stimulating the G-spot and keep going. You'll feel the pressure growing and an urge to bear down, keep going....and you're there! The bath is a good place the try it the first time.Towels are essential as a squirt can become a gush in no time. Unfortunately my first public squirt left me acutely embarrassed and him with a ruined mattress, but I bought him a mattress protector and a cleaning product that neutralised the smell and I now recount the event with a badge of honour.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I absolutly love it my wife can squirt heaps if fully aroused and when she squirts all over my face it is the best feeling. She totally loves it also saying that she feels so lucky that she can cum 2 different ways is amazing either squirting or stimulating her clit both different feelings but both very effective. Cant get enough both of us. Im so lucky.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
From personal experience I've not yet seen a girl squirt but when ever I've givin multiple oral orgasms it's been a slow a sensual licking and caressesing her to orgasm not going mad. And also I find if u like doin it it's a lot more fun for her cause u will take the time 4 her pleasure aswel as yours. IM WILLING TO DO IT FOR AS LONG AS SHE WISHES HENCE THE NAME.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sailin_by' Its all to do with having a weak bladder. Nothing to do with being a deity at all :p Tastes good? Well it's hot to hear women say that, but the general consensus is that urine doesn't taste that great even if you've been drinking Nothing but Evian all day. - Posted from rhpmobile Firstly, I'll cum in your mouth and you can delight in the taste. Then I'll piss in your mouth and then you'll be able to tell the difference. You might find that taste just as delightful, who knows?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok. So my ex absolutely hated it!! He found it dirty, disgusting and messy. Which made me place limits on myself. I could control myself well enough not to squirt. But in saying that. Because I was so focused not completely letting go. I wasn't enjoying it.. So after he planted the seed of eeiiww squirting is abnormal and dirty & After we went our separate ways. I found it hard enjoying intimacy as I was thinking getting heaps wet or squirting was grose...... Sssoooooooo. I worked around it. I know It can be messy. An some women can do it easily and others need work to squirt.... . But I have learnt (for me) that it takes a a fair bit to make me squirt. but I can have a massive "O" with out squirting. The eyes connect, my body tightens, legs shake/twitch the breathing deepens and then it hightens so much i hold my breath, i guess you can say semi-black out. and not relising my nails are digging jn his back. but Once done. I can't get the bloody smile off my face. I'm tired. Exhausted. So happy and content and just want to chill. Hahaha.. And I totally agree. Once a man knows you can squirt. It's all they focus on :-/ most times they become forceful, a lil ruff and pushy. Not knowing that, ThAT is a massive no no. And the only way Itl happen is when you connect with the other person, openly communicate and stop benign fkn selfish! Yes! Forcing a woman to squirt is selfish!! Because your putting the pressure on the women to give you the gratification of meaning her squirt. Just let it go. Let things be. Itl happen :-) take it slow. Stimulate her mental. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I remember my first time with an amazing guy I was so horny but our chemistry was so good. I said to him omg I'm so wet and he said your squirting!!!!...It was something I had never even considered and I was a bit upset because I thought maybe I had wet myself. There have only been two others who have made me squirt and they knew the tecnique so to say....It is different I enjoy it but I'm glad I dont do it all the time. I do remember one time with my friend in a hotel in sydney the bed was soaked I said to him where am I going to sleep...he said tell them to send up more sheets.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It doesn't matter if the lady squirts or not, I don't consider it any connection to my sexual ability. I think its most important that your partner just enjoys the sex and has good orgasms. I've had both partners that can and cannot squirt ,But I would much rather be remembered as a considerate lover, than just because I made her squirt!
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
putting pressure on a woman will just have the opposite effect of what they want to happen. I'm loving hearing everyone's different perspectives. It does, however, seem like I'm in the minority by not enjoying it, maybe I just haven't found someone with the right technique for me. I'll keep my fingers crossed, but I could honestly take it or leave it... I do wonder if there's a correlation between age and the ability? Anyone heard of this? Seems a lot of ladies sort of stumbled across it by accident at an older age.. Jess xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
Hey Jess.. i dont think its age maybe anatomy or mental space... I squirted the first time I had sex.. But I had been seeing the guy for over a year and I was a theatre/drama student so always put myself fully into role lol... It was really embarrassing.. I've been trying not to ever since! Xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ladies help me here please
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RHP User
11 years ago
@TheJessicaRabbit You're not alone there in not loving it, I do it on occasion and don't like the sensation much, would prefer not to do it at all. I multiple orgasm regardless and it actually can spoil that for me.It really annoys me when guys message saying I am such a good lover I can make you squirt - without asking if I do or it even occurring to them I might not want to. It's like they want to make women do it as some type of party trick to prove they have the magic moves lol. I do not need some guy to tell me how I should enjoy my orgasms, I am in that bedroom to have fun and for my ultimate pleasure, and for me squirting is not it.Guys for god's sake if a lady wants to do it then by all means educate yourself and give her all assistance you can, but don't go making assumptions, putting pressure on people, or telling people what does or doesn't feel good to them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I just prefer to go down and she cums in my mouth.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Jess I was 35 when I first started squirting. I'm not sure if age has anything to do with it, or if I had just found someone with talented hands. Since then I do it almost every time. I don't like the wet patch it leaves but the orgasms that go with it are so intense that they leave my head spinning.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think some women find it a sense of achievement to actually squirt or as I do fire hose... its very messy but oh so gratifying to do. I.never squirted till I met my current partner and it came about on our first meeting and I.was hooked straight away. It has gone from using his hand to now squirting like a fire hose in a few positions... I never thought it possible till It happened... the funny thing is though is I can't do it to myself at all when I'm alone.... Any hints please....
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RHP User
11 years ago
To the women that haven't and bemoan that fact & to the men that are two rough in their pursuit to make it happen. Fella's it is not an indication of your "amazing sexual prowess" it's indicative of a woman who can & does feel completely comfortable & aligned with both body & in touch with her sexuality. You are just there to bear witness to "it's" existence. This is why some women find that later in their sex life (when they have or are brought to a sexual awakening) they stumble upon the fact they can squirt. Yes, there is a biological few that will squirt anyway, a large group that can sometimes & a majority that will never get there! For those women that are interested, you can get there with a series of pre sex massage rituals that focus on tension release so you can fully let go upon climax. Worse case scenario you get your fella to massage you for an hour before sex... Win / Win ????? Yes, ex girl of mine had a desire to squirt (i had a desire to make her). 2/3 months of pre sex massage & play later. seriously soul shaking outward orgasms were easy.... :) Needed to add 2 litres of coconut water to replenish her exhausted & satisfied body in the aftermath but all worth it to see the smile on her face
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
Could not have said it better myself. Those messages boasting of their ability just irk me as not all women can be lumped into one category when it comes to sexual likes/dislikes. It also annoys me when i'm told that the only reason I don't enjoy it is because I clearly haven't been doing it 'right.' Jessxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've only ever had a couple women do it. One was a woman I was seeing a long time and it happened during a very intense session and it was a nice surprise. I felt pretty pleased with myself as neither of us had expected (she'd never done it before) it and so I felt like I'd done something really well if she was relaxed enough to do it. She only ever did it a couple more times and again both times were unexpected and just as lovely.The other time was with a woman that I had only just met and it was only a surprise to me. Turns out she does it quite often and easily and so although it was still a nice surprise there wasn't really any sense of achievement in it for me. This whole thing with women, such as yourself miss Jess, actually not liking it is news to me and somewhat surprising. I didn't know such a thing could be forced out of a woman by guys being too rough though, but then I'm not particularly rough when it comes to the pussy, maybe with the rest of the body perhaps, throwing around, a bit of spanking, hair pulling and whatnot if that's what the lady likes, but never with the pussy, I guess I just feel that I don't like women being rough with my bits so I return that favour to theirs, haha!Thinking about it now though I have had a couple women who've been too rough with a blow job or whatever and although I was still able to cum it was almost an unpleasant sensation, too much pressure in the pipes so to speak and so really quite painful in the end. So, I can understand actually that women might experience a similar thing and so have an orgasm that is a bit painful too. I guess it comes down to a preference thing on how you like things done. I would say though that although some people here have said that a bit of rough is what's often required to achieve a squirt, that has not been my experience in this matter. Intensity and relaxation has been my path to squirt town and I find if you take your time and build things up then you can get there with all the fireworks just the same, you get the show without standing so close that you get smoke in your eyes, haha!If I might suggest a tip? Get a guy/gal, some of your favourite toys and enough time spent on your back with a cushion under your butt and after a few orgasms without changing position you'll almost certainly have a squirting climax. If you have three or four little ones in build up over the course of 30-60mins (depending on how much juice you secrete during play) then the position causes your pussy to fill with fluid and then when you hold back and build to a really big one the resulting sudden contractions around will get a pretty good squirt :-) If plenty of lube is used too and nice smooth glass toys then there shouldn't be any discomfort either from having played so long. Glass is good or a heavy metal as the weight inside the vagina helps relax the muscles so the cavity can fill with fluid better.You can't blame men for getting a bit over exuberant in trying to get you to squirt though, we're very competitive sorts, even against ourselves, once we achieve something once we generally like to do it over and over again. You could just say though that you don't like it, "So don't try mister or I'll bite your balls!", that should put a stop to anyone being too rough with you again, haha!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Squirting was something my lover used to get in trouble for in a previous relationship, but now we enjoy it together and when it happens we both love it.If indeed it it is an orgasm of sorts, it certainly does change the landscape of the sex for a while after.As to being rough, I have never been too rough, yet thought I might have been, so asked. It varies immensely from woman to woman. and I have thought I was going to far, too long, but sensitivity and good communication will save any unwanted pain. If squirting is wanted it can be had from oral or other means including bullet vibe of the clit.From my selfish male perspective, I love it, but if it does not happen it's ok, just as its ok for me not to have to orgasm every time we fuck.Pleasure takes us all by surprise...long may it be so.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love it when my partner helps me it feels amazing :-) but yes in general men r a bit rough - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
lol I agree but the problem with me is that no one not even myself can make me squirt except my partner and I don't know why and he loves it, but we enjoy it, heaps of towels underneath all good lol, would love for a woman 2 challenge him and make me squirt lol great site ppl hope 2 make friends with many of u xoxo
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was taught how to by another bi female. Since I have found that I can achieve it with only clitoral stimulation and also whilst having sex. I Recently taught my new partner and he is now enjoying it so much its part of our regular sessions. He finds it a huge turn and who am I so say no to that. OMG bring it on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's just another thing u girl's can do, again showing your superiority over the male species. I do think it's a bit messy, and deters from the reason wher'e together, just relax and enjoy the intensity I say. xknots
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RHP User
11 years ago
Whats wrong with you women ?Squirting is the new game in town, your either with us and a modern women or or just not damn cool !Conform or be damned. I hate that shit, when I smell that "go along to get along pressure" it just gets my back up and I'll pick the opposite just to be different.Gotta love a rebel. Jessica et al, full points for being your own woman.Respect.Obedience is suicide.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Squirted. But I'd love to experience it! I'll come back for an update if it ever happens.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love itI can controlI love showing my new female partners how to...mmmmmmWet spot, hehe....wet whole mattress you mean....ps I am Mrs welove by the way...mmmmmmm
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RHP User
11 years ago
sailin_by there is a big difference between female ejaculate and urine! they come from different sources and differ in taste, colour and smell. Urinating doesn't turn me into a twitching super sensitive moaning mess - thank god :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been with my partner for almost 8 years and he has always been playful. It wasn't until this year that I squirted for the first time though. Out of interest I googled it and it is achievable with any woman at any age. It is a pretty simple pain free spot to stimulate if u know where it is and what it feels like. (I have since had hubby test it and then I tested it on a couple of girl friends) it is there and does exist. I prefer vaginal or clitoral orgasms (they seem to encourage the muscles to tense inwards). When you squirt u tend to push outwards on the muscles creating a whole different effect. Just thought I would throw it out there as I am only 27 and didn't want u thinking it is an age thing. (Yes profile says 29 lol)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
No man has ever made me squirt.I find it takes a woman's touch.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'AllWomanMelb' @TheJessicaRabbit You're not alone there in not loving it, I do it on occasion and don't like the sensation much, would prefer not to do it at all. I multiple orgasm regardless and it actually can spoil that for me.It really annoys me when guys message saying I am such a good lover I can make you squirt - without asking if I do or it even occurring to them I might not want to. It's like they want to make women do it as some type of party trick to prove they have the magic moves lol. I do not need some guy to tell me how I should enjoy my orgasms, I am in that bedroom to have fun and for my ultimate pleasure, and for me squirting is not it.Guys for god's sake if a lady wants to do it then by all means educate yourself and give her all assistance you can, but don't go making assumptions, putting pressure on people, or telling people what does or doesn't feel good to them. When will some men ever learn.I get sick and tired that every time I am intimate with a lover, they "assume" I should squirt!I just don't want to do it ALL the time!To me it get tedious and boring after a while.Squirting is not what fully makes me.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'softnsweetly' No man has ever made me squirt.I find it takes a woman's touch. If only some men knew ....."Act like a man, touch like a woman!!"FOXY
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