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Turned off by a username?
October 24 2014
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
A username can definitely be a turn off! I would love to hear from people with provocative usernames as to what affect it has on their RHP experience! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Tough titties people 😋
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RHP User
10 years ago
It would put me off a bit, unless it was a very polite first message, but even then, there are plenty of names to pick from/make up, and some can be cheeky and suggestive without being overly crude.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hiwannafuck and letmecumonurface (profiles close to these checked me out today) are instant no's I'm afraid. Some people are just here for the physical stuff, others want their minds seduced as well. I just don't think these men and I would have much to talk about, which doesn't work for me.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Lol. It is worse than I thought, the name selection i mean. You made me laugh. Lol. But I agree.
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SacralChakra
10 years ago
Some names are just so nasty there's no way I'm going there. I would be very unlikely to reply...
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
It makes me think.... Is this how people talk to others in everyday life and introduce themselves?? "Hi my name is Bemycumbucket/fukurfacehard" errrrr don't think so! I think their Mumma would have a pink fit!! And seriously fancy seeing an advertisement for "Bemycumbucket/fukurfacehard" as a company brand/logo, on the radio or TV?? Be a scream!! Bemycumbucket how's that for a new B&J Icecream flavour! 😃😃😃 Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
however, considering mine is another word for vomit, I can't really throw too many stones, lol. Mine was a nickname as a kid but everyone else doesn't know that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
How's that name working out for you?
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Insomnian
10 years ago
With some of the names I've seen from both male and female. Not giving out examples, but what are these people actually thinking? Or is it, log onto RHP and brain switches off?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' How's that name working out for you? I have never had any feedback to be honest but it doesn't seem to matter and if it does, then that may be a good thing as I get plenty of action anyway.
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6exxy
10 years ago
Def works both ways as I have seen ladies with names that i run from!
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beebs
10 years ago
Went to a meet and greet where someone had the idea that we should put our user names on name tags. All very good until a couple of colleagues from work appeared for another function at the same hotel and came up to say hi as I was chatting to BigDick69 (or some thing similar).
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think they should all get together for their own sitcom:-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Never really care about their Names , it is more about the message how polite the wording would be...thats what care most.
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RHP User
10 years ago
All wheels and no cannon ??? Opinions welcome :-p - Posted from rhpmobile
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uneventful
10 years ago
A turn off for me.! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Tough titties people 😋 I'm in the fun club too, woo hoo!!!!! Some usernames are terrible and definitely have me not wanting to check them out
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
From what I've seen... its 99% a male phenomenon to CHOOSE a totally ridiculous/offensive username. Doe sit amuse them? Impress them? Are they trying to convince themselves??? Because its not working on other people.
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RHP User
10 years ago
usernames are a good indicator for me
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Bbare
10 years ago
Wow I guess a name is like a cover on a book, if it doesn't interest then why would you open the cover. Miss you Jo Jo.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
that I've actually ever come across any ladies names that were actually offensive as such - some have had a good imagination in relation to the site we're on, but nothing really over the top... Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ten_dorrar_licky_licky ... What do y'all think?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Makes you wonder WTF were they thinking!! However I dod once meet a man who had the terrible username (on another site) of Meataxewedge.....I was like "seriously!!" Tirns out he was actually a pretty damn hot lover and when asked why the crass tasteless username he said it was all he could think of. I guess some people just aren't imaginative and others are just gross and totally inept. Oh well ho hum
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RHP User
10 years ago
References to anal sex, cum, big cock, "vag lover", and other crap names like that is so off putting.
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Agree with Funlover
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are instant nos for me too. I suspect names like mine - with the word 'love' in them - are off-putting for a lot of men too. That's definitely my intention and it seems to work to hold a lot (but not all) of the wannafukuhard crew back. Ralf, I never even thought of that meaning for your profile name. I assumed it was either a random word or something that had personal significance :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I think your user name should represent you, so for someone's to be bemycumbucket or fuckyourfacehard, yeah I'll pass thanks.....I do get a giggle out of them though.....💋
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Seachange
10 years ago
Lovinit. Your name is more reflective of yourself. nice name. Mine is more about my favourite lovely flowers so hopefully it conjures up nice images to people. Or not. Lol. Of a flower seller maybe. Hehe. Better than bemycumbucket...
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Insomnian' With some of the names I've seen from both male and female. Not giving out examples, but what are these people actually thinking? Or is it, log onto RHP and brain switches off? It is good to see your opinion on women's 'INTERESTING' names. It would be interesting to see men's opinions on whether 'unattractive' names are overlooked when they see the attractive profile pics. A quick search on here using a couple of sexually explicit adjectives revealed some very attractive pics of women and some funny ones of men. Lol. I wonder if these names work for better for women more than for men.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' It makes me think.... Is this how people talk to others in everyday life and introduce themselves?? "Hi my name is Bemycumbucket/fukurfacehard" errrrr don't think so! I think their Mumma would have a pink fit!! And seriously fancy seeing an advertisement for "Bemycumbucket/fukurfacehard" as a company brand/logo, on the radio or TV?? Be a scream!! Bemycumbucket how's that for a new B&J Icecream flavour! 😃😃😃 Foxy Lol. Not sure about that on the B&J menu, lol, but if they throw in some white choc chips pistachio and cherry pieces into the mix, I'll consider it. Lol,.
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Seachange
10 years ago
There is a B&J mobile stall just outside the Perth Art Museum on my last work visit to perth last month and I must have overlooked that flavour. Lol. Will check again on my next work trip there next month. Lol. Note to self.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Absolutely OP. Some packaging will appeal to some and not others and since a profile and all it contains is your advertisement. The username is generally the first thing noticed. If it describes an attribute or an act that makes me go ugh, ick, then my interest is already waning.
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IamMrSilly
10 years ago
A user name should give you an immediate idea of who the person is, and who they are looking for. My name is very intentional, so people do not contact me if I am completely off their radar. So maybe they are hoping to find people out there who are what they are looking for. i.e. a quick fuck as nsa. I doubt they get many replies, but then again! They can keep trying, and probably will post on the forum later on wondering why no one contacts them. I Wonder if anyone would respond here saying that those types of names are just what they are looking for? I am sure most people like me think WTF, but is there anyone who does not? they are probably not reading these forums if they do, too busy with all the guys out there with these user names.
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Seachange
10 years ago
if you need any of the ladies help in choosing a new name, just raise your left hand high up in the air and we will cum, er come to your aid. Lol
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Seachange
10 years ago
Hello there sweetie. Welcome back. Nice to see you posting again. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not too much to say today, but speaking of Ben and Jerry. Just heard them advertising their new flavour "Chubby Hubby" with the tag line "it's a mouthful!" Lol Maybe the icecream designer chef , marketer or copywriter is also an RHP member? Maybe all of them! Who knows what they get up to at an icecream factory named B&J's!!! Shine on you crazy diamonds. Silva
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nice to see your photos are a little more daring x We still haven't had that date must do something about that x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'silvangold'"Chubby Hubby" with the tag line "it's a mouthful!" Lol (Not quite new overseas, I love the fact they temporarily changed the name to Hubby Hubby a few years back to support marriage equality.)
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
PMSL. 👍 Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I would love to see some of these as profile names! *they probably already are* * I Just Blew Myself * Beet It (could be "BEAT-IT) * Caddy Snack * All of the Bacan and Eggs you have * Yes Peacan * Vermonty Python * Magic Brownies * Late Night Snack * Schweddy Balls * Double D Dipple Nipple * Power Lunch * Vanilla * Dough-ble Whammy * Imagine World Peace * Chocolate Therapy * Apple-y Ever After (real flavor name BTW, in support of same sex marriage) My favorite..... Ol Dirty Custard. Foxy Make a great Forum Topic..."Your sex life is what ice-cream name, flavor and toppings??"
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RHP User
10 years ago
No, I am not going to quote Shakespeare here. Yes, I know you want me to but I just won't. I wonder if people with the name fun in them are unhappy people and say it often, hoping it will make it true? Don't worry Funlover71, based on your many posts on here, you are the real thing :)@manofleisure. I will get there one day. Unfortunately, I just can't keep idle so I won't be a man of leisure :/ Quoting 'Funlover71'I have seen that a lot of people think that the word fun is used too often in profiles
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moreforyou69
10 years ago
In fact, what's in a profile? Personally speaking, my profile has been written and re-written many times, and in order to be honest everyone should do the same. Things change, people change, and what was a good idea then doesn't mean it's a true indication of a person now. The WORST turn off is Autofill. A name is just an identifier. Dig deeper if you want a deeper connection. And don't get me started on the masses of (mostly), women who think that sexy pics exclude them from bothering to put some actual thought into their profile. Blergh - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
First impressions count. It is hard to recover once someone rejects you because of a poorly thought out user name. Always keep it neutral I say, you can always tell them how kinky you are later, rather than spelling it out for everyone in the title of your profile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So what would yous class mine as? It's meant to be humorous - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was thinking of a change......I'm open for suggestions.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get stupid ass username types too, So I myself do the 'template' reply as well :)
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
It looks like the way to your heart is definitely through an ice-cream filled tummy.... Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
just to see if I've received any from Members with unappealing User Names. Thankfully there's none. I too, would get "turned off" by an unattractive User Name but if "messaged", I will usually reply. There's no point in me being rude. When I do my own Search for likely RHP males, I tend to stay clear of "unattractive" User Names because that is what it is; unattractive !!! What I don't understand is when male RHP Members change a completely acceptable User Name, to one that is absolutely repulsive !!! What do they hope to gain from that ?
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BrightBubbly
10 years ago
It's the ones like "PartyDude" and he hasn't got one picture where he is smiling... Your profile name and your face pic gives the first impressions of who you are. I don't understand how so many guys have face pics up and they aren't even smiling..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi! Thanks for your comment. I giggled and appreciated your warped SOH he! he! I'd stick to the ID you have, it suits you from what your vibes convey. :) Cheers Lu.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If it's obvious like the above, naturally it's a turnoff. Not enough tact is used, those with cheesy names are welcome as far as I'm concerned ... It opens more doors for me. ;-))) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'silvangold' Not too much to say today, but speaking of Ben and Jerry. Just heard them advertising their new flavour "Chubby Hubby" with the tag line "it's a mouthful!" Lol Maybe the icecream designer chef , marketer or copywriter is also an RHP member? Maybe all of them! Who knows what they get up to at an icecream factory named B&J's!!! Shine on you crazy diamonds. Silva You clever dog! Lol. Now if only they would discounts to RHP members if they are so... Hint.
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shucksta
10 years ago
Recently someone pointed out to me that my name didn't necessarily convey a connetion with small, tasty, creamy, salty molluscs of the sea. Still not changin' it.
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shucksta
10 years ago
Quoting 'shucker' Recently someone pointed out to me that my name didn't necessarily convey a connetion with small, tasty, creamy, salty molluscs of the sea. Still not changin' it. connection connection! darn sticky Ceyboard!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meatfactory85' So what would yous class mine as? It's meant to be humorous I might have gotten the joke had it not been for your accompanying profile pic.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When a username contains a (perceived) spelling error, I tend to wonder if the user did it on purpose, or if I'm maybe missing a word joke somewhere.
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RHP User
10 years ago
ThrillHunter... A new name huh...? How about "highpriorityshighpriority" 😄😄😄😄😄😄 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Manoffleisure' All wheels and no cannon ??? Opinions welcome :-p - Posted from rhpmobile Back on the farm .............. yep lol
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inspirit
10 years ago
...... can be anything at the time. I think, most men on here feel it is just purely a hook up sex site and think a profile name needs to reflect this some what. Yes, there are totally lame, ordinary or mind catching profile names, though to judge some one on a name with out having a chat is quite superficial I tend to think. I respect every ones personal preferences on their choice whether to chat to some one or not, though I am finding these squeaky clean forums a pain in the arse. Kindest Regards Cumjunkie Whorebag
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'moreforyou69'don't get me started on the masses of (mostly), women who think that sexy pics exclude them from bothering to put some actual thought into their profile. Blergh Mostly women? Since there are so many more men here than women and an enormous percentage of them have template profiles, I'd like to challenge that statement.
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6exxy
10 years ago
Only way to measure that is by who has the higher percentage. Sheer numbers won't really give a good comparison.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meatfactory85' So what would yous class mine as? It's meant to be humorous - Posted from rhpmobile Young and full of cum is what I think as for the "dirty mind" statement - that would suggest to me - you are not sexually mature
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6exxy
10 years ago
Pay no attention to Highprority lol Now that you are in the west (welcome).
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'shucker' Quoting 'shucker' Recently someone pointed out to me that my name didn't necessarily convey a connetion with small, tasty, creamy, salty molluscs of the sea. Still not changin' it. connection connection! darn sticky Ceyboard! Maybe she has not been shucked in open waters
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RHP User
10 years ago
6exxy, I saw her first... 😋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Just lol....😄 that is all
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meatfactory doesn't do anything for me. I am vegetarian you see. Now, if you had a sister with a username tofu delight, I would be in contact in a jiffy Yes, yes, many people have told me not to give up my day job for stand up comedy. @Meander - There are a lot of women with template profiles and a photo (nice looking photo as well) but just a photo. So, they might be doing it for laughs or are scammers. Some of course, some could just be interested in forums or chats. A well written profile is better than a lot of photos. Yes, contrary to popular belief, guys do read profiles.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ok, so I have a little experience in this area.. I came in here originally as GiddyUp007, mainly because I'm a country boy.. My real name is Christian, and through talking to and meeting a few ladies in here, they kept calling me "Mr Grey" as in "Christian Grey" lol. So I changed my name for a little while on here to "Christian Grey"as a bit of tongue in cheek as I seemed to have inherited a nickname on here.. Then not long afterwards, a young lady in here randomly made contact and had negative comment with my name CG.. I didn't care to much for the comment, but at first glance, I guess it could looked like I have tickets on myself.. I wouldn't read too much into names peeps as I guess when people first hop on here, they wouldn't generally take things too seriously until they get a little attention, or none at all, and finally realise it's more about the actual communication and profile layout. Personally, I don't tend to like the "tickets on yourself" type names like sexybitch, wyldfuck etc but then again, they may have a similar story as mine and I'd never dismiss a chat because of that.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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shucksta
10 years ago
Quoting 'Giddyup007' Ok, so I have .... Then not long afterwards, a young lady in here randomly made contact and had negative comment with my name CG.. I didn't care to much for the comment, but at first glance, ...Always keen to toy with words. One ponders what else could have driven negative commentary for CG. Was this some form of shorthand/pseudonym/txtspk for some depraved/alternate activity, at least one that sparked negativity from one RHP femme?aka Cock Gobbler could be not quite the intended impression one wanted to impart (as a feisty straight virile boy).
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RHP User
10 years ago
However I did just take (fun) out of my name seeing as though it really doesn't seem to popular haha. And to be honest I sorta borrowed the fun part from some random other guy with fun in his name. It seemed harmless and ;) "fun"
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think women are more offended by some of the names on here, because quite frankly some of them are just crude and very base. But isn't it funny that my name is direct and to the point and a lot of guys actually like that! Men are from Mars women are from Venus..... Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's just an alias!!!!! Didn't your parents ever tell you, never judge a book by its cover.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Shirley.... a name shoud in some way at least give an indication of a person and what he or she seeks of is????
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree strongly that a choice of name does affect the amount of response. Ive done both ways and believe me, there's a difference. However, when the female goes with a name such as bigbuttforyou, or gimmecocknow, they are always eye catching and attention grabbing. Its the carrot in front of the mule effect, lol....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well sometimes you can go through a fair bit of effort trying to find a name because all the other ones before hand are taken already. Have to remember there are a heap of men on here compared to women, so what happened to the message you get to being the deciding factor. At the end of the day it is a name if they are respectful and non pushy does it really matter? Makes me wonder if my username is offensive now
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timeforacuppa67
10 years ago
As a male I see it from the other side , there are certain names that " ladies" use with the attached sting of body parts on display that are just a turn off. I'm certainly no proud and this is ultimately a hook up site (here's hoping) but fuck me blind why would you show all and have a slutty name as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'aceofclubs' I agree strongly that a choice of name does affect the amount of response. Ive done both ways and believe me, there's a difference. However, when the female goes with a name such as bigbuttforyou, or gimmecocknow, they are always eye catching and attention grabbing. Its the carrot in front of the mule effect, lol.... And more often than not... fake. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
The usernames of three men who viewed my profile contained "I want", "I need" and "For me". Names like that just sound far too self-absorbed to me, I always wonder how giving users (no pun) like this are.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So what do you think about my username. ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
... Ive often thought he names including a reference of pleasure, fun, sex,... "4u" are selling it a bit too hard... almost pleading. And its often confirmed when you read the resume of sexual positives they typically list to your benefit if you "don't judge a book bu its cover' or'Give me a chance to prove to you"... etc.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't forget the good old "You won't be disappointed"!
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RHP User
10 years ago
With a totally random username that I bet you can't even pronounce. That is ok, I can't pronounce it either. I just made up a username that was totally random.
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Seachange
10 years ago
How is it working for you? Am very curious.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The name says alot about a man and woman. Your name can make or break contact with another cause the mame automat points to sex. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' How is it working for you? Am very curious.I don't think it is working well at all. I usually get ignored and if I am very, very lucky, I get a nice not interested flirt/message. I should think of a better username but I am the kind of guy who names things like a mainspring generation oscillating chronometric device rather than the name used by other people (a watch). Any recommendations for a cool username?
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'zu7bcv' Quoting 'lilyorchid' How is it working for you? Am very curious.I don't think it is working well at all. I usually get ignored and if I am very, very lucky, I get a nice not interested flirt/message. I should think of a better username but I am the kind of guy who names things like a mainspring generation oscillating chronometric device rather than the name used by other people (a watch). Any recommendations for a cool username? Think of it this way. You are marketing yourself in rhp and selling your best point to attract the 'buyers' to pick you from the shelf where hundreds of other products may have the same attributes as yourself but have branded themselves better by having interesting fun names people can remember. It is all about the packaging to start off with then the tasting, then savouring of the product. determine who your target audience is, get some understanding on the forum what your target audience like, find what is nice about yourself, highlight those that might appeal to your audience and then change your name, modify your profile and put up interesting pictures. Then wait for the manna to fall. Lol. Good luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I actually get more turned off by the messages i get, wooowwwweeeeee some of them are a nightmare!
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Seachange
10 years ago
haha. yes I can imagine. Lol But a double whammie with an unattractive name and message? Lol. Just our luck. Haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi! I like your intelligent play on words and warped fun S.O.H. I think it works in your favour actually. I'm still giggling he! he! Thanks for that Enjoy Lu:)
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RHP User
10 years ago
... when we signed up the first twenty names we thought of were taken (obviously by other smart and witty people), so we stated what we thought at the time; Hard to pick a name.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some of the men that have contacted me both here and on other sites have had squicky names though. Not surehow mine's perceived, although by the lack of messages in my inbox it might be time to start thinking up a new one :)
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bianca_dd
10 years ago
You are assuming these people (as per the majority) are seeking anything other than something to occupy their time and are not in the least serious.Sadly there are exceptions. I guess that has something to do with lack of X chromosomes in the DNA.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A profile name can provoke such discussion! To answer question ,it can be taken out if context! I meant it in a (no hidden agenda sense) Not a sexual wam bam thank you mam! As far a success goes it's not a numbers game to me ! I believe the forums are a great platform the genuine lady speaks from the heart on here! Being a grey ghost is more of a hurdle,but I send a piccy to any special lady! Not even a sexual one just me and my son! Ps (you know who you are ) xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm new to this and thought I would use an old nick name. part of my name and what I use to do for a living as a carpenter. It could be taken as a little rude if you didn't know but works fine for me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'nostrings_1'I send a piccy to any special lady! Not even a sexual one just me and my son! Ps (you know who you are ) xxx How old is your son? Off topic, I know, but a month or so ago I reported a user for having un underaged child in his pic. The mods agreed and took it down immediately. Kids have no place here. If your son is over 18: does he know he's on an adult dating site?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Kids should not be in the picture (figuratively) when a parent is seeking a sexual encounter or even a "vanilla" date, in my view. There are female predators out there. If your son is over 18: does he know he is involved?
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
I loathe it when people have photos of themselves with their children. There is one particular 'vanilla' site that I was on where this practice is quite common. Yes, you have kids and yes, you love them, but in my opinion you should not be posting photos of your kids on any type of dating site! A big no-no!
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RHP User
10 years ago
My username is designed to attract some, but will definitely turn some people off once they get the pun (PS. Not to derail the thread, that's a no from me too about kids in dating site pics. Even proud parents in vanilla sites.)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a thing about 69 in a username. It's just so cliched nd I think anyone who uses it is just trying too hard. It may be also because I just don't like 69. I really like to concentrate when I'm giving a guy head and I don't want any distractions.
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