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What is it with older woman that makes me turn to them more!!!
May 04 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Wow... alot of science (or anything intellectual it appears) haters here Meaning, would i rather take the word of a bunch of middle age uneducated australians or modern science and medicine? well, i don't know about you, but i'll take modern science. oh, and by just looking at you, i wouldn't expect you to find any 'deeper' meaning even if you had the sensitivity to look. The thing I love most about modern science is that it is expanding exponentially. As we all know, much of the information learned in the first couple of years of a degree is obsolete by graduation day. And we both know that YOU don't have enough hours in your day to read all that modern science offers that is new to the table each 24 hour period. Exponential... Pretty impressive, huh James...??? Sooooo how modern is the science you are quoting??? Like to cite a quote??? You know the game, we will refute with another learned opinion, also considered to be an expert of modern science... But the university of life is acknowledged and honoured by your own hallowed halls of university, regularly. So I guess that we here "bunch of uneducated middle aged Australians" are ourselves pondering "the deeper meaning" of the opinion of JamesHentforth99 and are questioning how far along are you in acquiring your own "degree honoris causa"??? If you please excuse my impertinence but what I'm really asking is how many older women have you yourself slept with??? What are their ages and backgrounds??? How in depth was the encounter (a once off or a repeated affair where you fully understood her so called "deeper meaning") and I'd would love an honest answer. Feel free to ask me the same and I'll give you an honest answer to any question you put before me on this thread in your next response. I'm truly intrigued James and keenly awaiting your response here. Chilli xx Well i congratulate (and thank) you for actually giving a bit of coherence and rationality to your response, unlike the guitar guy spewing something about psychologists with penis extensions. i'll take what you have to say at each point.Firstly,in my opinion, alot of good science and philosophy doesn't become obsolete ( if by obsolete you also imply false). much of the purpose of modern research is actually to verify, deepen, and further prove their core theses (evolution being the most obvious example). subject redefining research isn't as common as i think you believe it to be. secondly, of course i haven't read all the scientific literature on the subject. especially since i didn't major in psychology at uni. this is stuff i have learnt through aquiring general culture, which is basically reading books on various subjects, staying informed through journals, magazines etc etc. i'm assured that i'm reading relevent, true material by realising that if i ever wanted to verify what i've read, with patience i could follow up all the particular journals, profs, universities involved and see first hand this knowledge. it's called 'appealing to authority', which has being a valid notion in logic and science for thousands of years. before you say i ripped what i said from freud, i actually had evolutionary and behavioural psychology in mind when i made that comment. and that's quite modern. I don't really get want you're on about with my comment on the university of life. sorry. but if you think i'm looking down at 'the university of life', that is, life experience, i think you misunderstood me. what i meant is that just living doesn't mean you've had the ability to discern and reflect intelligently on ur experiences along with it. life experience is essential, i just think if you haven't read much,i think u lack that sensibility and vision to learn and see alot in it. and i've slept with 2 older women. one of them being border line 'older'. one of them was quite in depth. but i'm quite perceptive. i probably learnt just asmuch as an idiot who has slept with a 100. if u want to know what i mean, read the french author Proust. he wrote one of the most amazing and true novels on human experience and hardly ever left his bed. i hope i answered a few questions for you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Quoting 'dontgothere' That got ya thinkin didn't it Like four times haha what? just because i didn't go on another rant about the uneducated didn't mean you 'got me thinkin'. But, despite the useless emoticons you chuck into your posts, u do have a knack for expressing yourself well, i'll give you that. and....without exciting the guys on here too much, do you (or anyone else) wanna tell me why u think older women like younger men? 4 was just the number of times it showed you had viewed my profile. I'm not going to tear you to pieces (must be going fkn soft today or something) I was just teasing you about it, even I can be an immature little bugger at times .
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RHP User
14 years ago
with the opinion thing. i dont think you understood what i said. secondly, no i haven't analysed every single young man with etc to see whether its true, but i don't need to go touch every fire to see whether it will burn me either. it's called inductive logic. look it up, it'll explain alot
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RHP User
14 years ago
thanks for the help dgt..ill get on it straight away. hmm now where did i put my hacksaw
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Quoting 'dontgothere' That got ya thinkin didn't it Like four times haha what? just because i didn't go on another rant about the uneducated didn't mean you 'got me thinkin'. But, despite the useless emoticons you chuck into your posts, u do have a knack for expressing yourself well, i'll give you that. and....without exciting the guys on here too much, do you (or anyone else) wanna tell me why u think older women like younger men? 4 was just the number of times it showed you had viewed my profile. I'm not going to tear you to pieces (must be going fkn soft today or something) I was just teasing you about it, even I can be an immature little bugger at times .haha ouch! but don't flatter yourself too much, only two of those times were on purpose. i'd like to see you try to tear me to pieces though. you'll need a bit more than emoticons and the ability to read ur page visit count.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's good you seem to have almost taken the middle ground on the subject matter , wise move. I wouldn't go assuming that everyone that has commented is uneducated on the subject either , that would be more mere speculation wouldn't it? I bet I'm not alone when I say I that I have studied this myself and have tertiary qualifications in human biology and psychology , so go figure. But education aside , it's as simple as 1 plus 1 equals 2 , older women have been doing it for longer so they know their shit , yeah you're right that makes them more confident , but that's one of many advantages they have over younger women (that have already been given at length) , of course like I said sometimes younger women know their stiff too , and yeah that is a fantastic combo of youth and knowledge , but it's a rarity dude. Suck it up , dems da facts , it ain't no old wives tale or popularized notion. Loz
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RHP User
14 years ago
Guess you're just not feelin it like I am lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' without exciting the guys on here too much, do you (or anyone else) wanna tell me why u think older women like younger men? Who said we do like younger guys? l Personally I dont know why any of you are bothering to answer to this little snot. He, by his own admission, has been to university therefore I would expect that he has all the answers. I mean to say, remember ladies...we were young once and knew it all. His generation were the ones that invented sex FFS so what the hell would us geriatrics in zimmerframes know about it? Clearly nothing! Let him stick to his tight young girls who lie there like starfish expecting him to do all the work. Hopefully he will remember these trangressions in agism in another 40 years time when he truelly gets to appreciate the more mature woman. He will have no option then anyway as all the sweet young things will be looking for a young sucker to foot the bill and fool around with. l Oh the arrogance of youth. I would really not like to relive my twenties. No way, no how. Oh yeah, there was plenty of sex but it was quantity. These days I rather fancy a little quality and sorry jameshentforth99.....You are NOT quality.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Meaning, would i rather take the word of a bunch of middle age uneducated australians or modern science and medicine? well, i don't know about you, but i'll take modern science. oh, and by just looking at you, i wouldn't expect you to find any 'deeper' meaning even if you had the sensitivity to look.Well, considering these "uneducated Australians" are where your modern science has been studied from, YES! Problem is, this isn't modern science. It's speculation based on the theory of a few. True, modern science can apply to the human mind...in terms of altering substances. The hole in your theory here, is EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. No 2 minds work exactly the same. Yes, in this instance, there are probably quite a few people with "mummy issues" that seek out older ladies. That does NOT make it a rule. So like everyone else here, I'm wondering what your grounds are for your "theories". Because either you've just read this out of a book, which makes you a naive, gullible sheep. Or you have experience, which means you like older women, therefore MUST have, and will admit to having, "mummy issues", or you don't, therefore you have no actual firsthand proof of the theory your sprouting, and you look like a dolt. So which is it? I'm sure a few of us would love to know... Oh. And in response to your line "oh, and by just looking at you, i wouldn't expect you to find any 'deeper' meaning even if you had the sensitivity to look" - Well! Looks like you're not only an expert on a theory based subject, but you're also an excellent judge of "books by their cover"! I do wonder...how did you come to that conclusion? You can just look at someone and know their intellectual abilities and feelings? Or did you read that out of a book too....?Either way, you're very wrong.
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14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' The thing I love most about modern science is that it is expanding exponentially. As we all know, much of the information learned in the first couple of years of a degree is obsolete by graduation day.And we both know that YOU don't have enough hours in your day to read all that modern science offers that is new to the table each 24 hour period. Exponential... Pretty impressive, huh James...???Sooooo how modern is the science you are quoting??? Like to cite a quote??? You know the game, we will refute with another learned opinion, also considered to be an expert of modern science... But the university of life is acknowledged and honoured by your own hallowed halls of university, regularly. So I guess that we here "bunch of uneducated middle aged Australians" are ourselves pondering "the deeper meaning" of the opinion of JamesHentforth99 and are questioning how far along are you in acquiring your own "degree honoris causa"???If you please excuse my impertinence but what I'm really asking is how many older women have you yourself slept with??? What are their ages and backgrounds??? How in depth was the encounter (a once off or a repeated affair where you fully understood her so called "deeper meaning") and I'd would love an honest answer. Feel free to ask me the same and I'll give you an honest answer to any question you put before me on this thread in your next response.So many big words Chilli...I think I'm in love! And this is one of the few reasons why I enjoy an older womans company. Challenging.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Quoting 'dontgothere' That got ya thinkin didn't it Like four times haha what? just because i didn't go on another rant about the uneducated didn't mean you 'got me thinkin'. But, despite the useless emoticons you chuck into your posts, u do have a knack for expressing yourself well, i'll give you that. and....without exciting the guys on here too much, do you (or anyone else) wanna tell me why u think older women like younger men? 4 was just the number of times it showed you had viewed my profile. I'm not going to tear you to pieces (must be going fkn soft today or something) I was just teasing you about it, even I can be an immature little bugger at times .haha ouch! but don't flatter yourself too much, only two of those times were on purpose. i'd like to see you try to tear me to pieces though. you'll need a bit more than emoticons and the ability to read ur page visit count. It's cute that you acknowledged my ability to count...seriously that's flattery right there, I don't need to blow my own horn. The beauty of maturity is knowing that I don't need to prove my intellect to you, even though you put that juicy little worm on the hook for me. I like to keep things very simple on here, so here's my dumbed right down take on it........... all that 'book learnin' is NOT going to get you a root anytime soon
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RHP User
14 years ago
Love the mature ladies, nothing sexier quite frankly. Nothing sexier.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
omg ...all this for one 'little' boy.... just shows for us why we choose 'men' over ' boys'.... the more you guys all respond to his arrogance and rudeness, the longer he'll hang around... if you ignore him he'll go away...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have to laugh at anyone who thinks having more energy equates to better sex.As anyone who's been with a young jackrabbit (oh dear, the memories) could testify - plenty of energy, really lousy at shagging.I readily admit to liking younger guys, it has nothing to do with stamina or how they fuck (because the older guys do seem to be the better shag), it's just that I have more in common with them than men my own age(generally). This could be part of me not getting married & settling down & having kids like most of my peer group. No more than 10years younger than me though, there's a lot of growing up that happens between early 20's to late 20's.
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RHP User
14 years ago
fionabe: don't start that head strong arrogant youth thing. but at 48, of course you would say that. if u haven't really achieved much at that age, what else do you have if not the right to talk down to those younger than you? KD7884: I dont think you have understood (among other things) what i actually said. of course every young guy sleeping with an older women doesn't have a blown out 'mummy issue'. they may be sleeping with her because she's particulary attractive (irrespective of age), knows her stuff blah blah... but these are things which are irrelevent to age. they can equally be found in younger women. so when someone says 'i like sleeping with older women', what he may be saying is simply 'i like sleeping with women who know their stuff, willing etc' .. so it's the non-age related qualities which are often found in older women he likes.. not the age aspect itself. in fact, i imagine he would most likely prefer these qualities in younger women. NOW, if you've followed me, who i was talking about before are men who are attracted mostly by older age and its associated qualities. these are the men who have 'mummy issues' in various degrees. and yes, the same laws run through the all minds. and before you go and misunderstand that, what i mean is that if mind a and mind b have property x, the effects of property x will be the same in both mind a and b.KD7884 and everyone else: i dont think you really know what a real book and real reading is. you should put down the FHM and try it yourself once. what is a great book? it's the product of an individual of genius and great ability, and when you read it you come into a dialogue with him or her. it's not about taking it all in passively, it's about seeing their point of view, questioning it, seeing how they may have came to that conclusion, how this might apply to you, why it may not etc etc.... and that, 'mate', takes a bit of intelligence and diligence to do well, and the end product (the attained knowledge) is always a mix of yourself and the author. This process greatly colours your world, it puts light on things you never noticed before, feelings you never knew you had...it, in all, makes your experience of just ordinary life rich with meaning. and you said i judged that guy by 'his cover', well, it was pretty evident he hadn't experienced anything like what i have just mentioned. hotchilli: i wasn't really refering all that much the oedipus complex (which doesn't always mean youre attracted to your particular mother, or even people like her. quite the opposite sometimes). it's mostly the mother 'type', the 'role' itself which creates a feeling a assurence, safety, warmth etc etc which certain psychological types crave. dontgothere: all that book learning wont get me a root you say? well, let me just say that their are plenty of beautiful intelligent women out there who are attracted by intelligent guys (especially if u go to europe)...and well, in my experience, having culture and knowledge does get you sex. but i guess i can't expect you people to see that. Goodbye all, i hope i ruffled some feathers and stirred some dormant brains.
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ruby_blossum
14 years ago
Thanks for sharing your thoughts jameshentforth.....everyone is allowed their say on the forums, even if it results in illuminating once again the naivety of youth .....and provides some great chuckles at your expense along the way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You make a few good points and the one thing in particular I DO like about you is how you describe your thirst for understanding and knowledge of things written on a page. What I didn't particularly like is the fact that because none of us 'you people' readily admit to having any similar thirst or god forbid.....already attained some level of appreciation within our so obviously fruitless lives, you have deemed us uncultured plebs. Once again .......cos you don't fucking listen to anything unless it's in bound vellum. us old farts don't always need to prove our worth to impress others. . . "It is my ambition to say in ten sentences what others say in a whole book" Nietzsche
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' fionabe: don't start that head strong arrogant youth thing. but at 48, of course you would say that. if u haven't really achieved much at that age, what else do you have if not the right to talk down to those younger than you? KD7884: I dont think you have understood (among other things) what i actually said. of course every young guy sleeping with an older women doesn't have a blown out 'mummy issue'. they may be sleeping with her because she's particulary attractive (irrespective of age), knows her stuff blah blah... but these are things which are irrelevent to age. they can equally be found in younger women. so when someone says 'i like sleeping with older women', what he may be saying is simply 'i like sleeping with women who know their stuff, willing etc' .. so it's the non-age related qualities which are often found in older women he likes.. not the age aspect itself. in fact, i imagine he would most likely prefer these qualities in younger women. NOW, if you've followed me, who i was talking about before are men who are attracted mostly by older age and its associated qualities. these are the men who have 'mummy issues' in various degrees. and yes, the same laws run through the all minds. and before you go and misunderstand that, what i mean is that if mind a and mind b have property x, the effects of property x will be the same in both mind a and b.KD7884 and everyone else: i dont think you really know what a real book and real reading is. you should put down the FHM and try it yourself once. what is a great book? it's the product of an individual of genius and great ability, and when you read it you come into a dialogue with him or her. it's not about taking it all in passively, it's about seeing their point of view, questioning it, seeing how they may have came to that conclusion, how this might apply to you, why it may not etc etc.... and that, 'mate', takes a bit of intelligence and diligence to do well, and the end product (the attained knowledge) is always a mix of yourself and the author. This process greatly colours your world, it puts light on things you never noticed before, feelings you never knew you had...it, in all, makes your experience of just ordinary life rich with meaning. and you said i judged that guy by 'his cover', well, it was pretty evident he hadn't experienced anything like what i have just mentioned. hotchilli: i wasn't really refering all that much the oedipus complex (which doesn't always mean youre attracted to your particular mother, or even people like her. quite the opposite sometimes). it's mostly the mother 'type', the 'role' itself which creates a feeling a assurence, safety, warmth etc etc which certain psychological types crave. dontgothere: all that book learning wont get me a root you say? well, let me just say that their are plenty of beautiful intelligent women out there who are attracted by intelligent guys (especially if u go to europe)...and well, in my experience, having culture and knowledge does get you sex. but i guess i can't expect you people to see that. Goodbye all, i hope i ruffled some feathers and stirred some dormant brains. got part way through this but had to leave.... y gag reflex took over
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RHP User
14 years ago
haha well i had to be honest, same physique!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
woops lol it is true though, same physique.
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RHP User
14 years ago
woops lol it is true though, same physique.
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RHP User
14 years ago
soo glad i started this topic gee haha
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RHP User
14 years ago
"all this about older women being better at sex isn't really true" Seems like now you're saying that that's not what you meant. Whether your'e a quasi-intellectual or not , the fact is you are talking a whole lotta horse shit that you can't back up. I've followed what you've said with ease , it ain't rocket surgery. You haven't provided one shred of evidence and haven't made any kind of logical arguement whatsoever that can support your claim. Um you get an epic fail....don't get me wrong , I think you're probably a nice enough young fella and I wish you all the best , but get fucking real mate....as for your statements making it more fun or interesting , hmmmm not really for me , but it has been slightly interesting chopping you though , so thanks. Btw you're not as smart as you think you are , but thanks for playing. However , sincerely , all the best , Loz
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lost my virginity to a 27 year old single mum when I was 17 and since then always had a thing for older ladies!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'naughtyguy87'haha well i had to be honest, same physique!!! No it didn't quite have the same effect on me as maybe you intended, but yeah you were honest
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' fionabe: don't start that head strong arrogant youth thing. but at 48, of course you would say that. if u haven't really achieved much at that age, what else do you have if not the right to talk down to those younger than you? Well, here is some advice, not on the net (well it is now) or from a uni lecturer....DONT assume anything. You have no idea of what I have or havent achieved in this life. That is arrogant in itself.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Journal Article Excerpt See below... Is there an early-30s peak in female sexual desire? Cross-sectional evidence from the United States and Canada. by David P. Schmitt , Todd K. Shackelford , Joshua Duntley , William Tooke , David M. Buss , Maryanne L. Fisher , Marguerite Lavallee , Paul Vasey ABSTRACT: This research explored whether women experience a "sexual peak" during their early 30s and, if so, whether such a peak might have an evolved function. In Study 1, results from a cross-sectional sample of college students from the United States (N = 803 women, 415 men) revealed that women between 30 and 34, relative to older and younger women, described themselves as more lustful, seductive, and sexually active. In contrast, men did not experience a sexual peak between 30 and 34. In a second study (N = 611 women, 329 men), findings of an early-30s peak in women were replicated among married and single individuals from Canada. Using new measures of human sexual strategies (Schmitt & Buss; 2000), the authors were able to test 2 hypotheses about the possible functions of an early-30s peak in female sexual desire. One hypothesis is that an early-30s peak increases reproduction in monogamous, long-term relationships. A second hypothesis is that women's early-30s peak in sexual desire increases reproduction through promiscuous or extra-pair copulations. Overall, the hypothesis that the peak is desired to increase women's reproduction in monogamous, long-term relationships received the most support. Discussion focuses on limitations and alternative explanations of the current findings and on areas for future investigation. Keywords: Female sexual desire Sexual desire peak Evolutionary function INTRODUCTION A common assumption in the United States is that men reach a "sexual peak" before age 20, whereas women's sexuality peaks after the age of 30 (Barr, Bryan, & Kenrick, 2002; Wiederman, 2001). This belief may stem from the seminal work of Kinsey and his colleagues, who used total orgasm frequency from all sexual "outlets," including masturbation, as an index of sexual peak (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948; Kinsey, Pomeroy, Martin, & Gebhard, 1953). Total orgasm frequency, however, is only one way to operationalize the sexual peak of a gender. Other important indicators may include the capacity for sexual performance and the ease with which one becomes sexually aroused (Mosher, Barton-Henry, and Green, 1988; Whalen, 1966). Perhaps most central to people's everyday conceptions of male and female sexual potency, however, is the psychological construct of sexual desire (Regan & Berscheid, 1999). Modern sexologists tend to view sexual desire as a subjective feeling or motivational slate that most would call the experience of "lust" (Levine, 1988; Regan, 1999). Although it may seem logical that sexual desire should directly relate to Kinsey's "total sexual outlets," across a wide range of studies sexual desire has proven largely independent of sexual behaviour, including behavioural orgasm rates, sexual arousability, and measures of sexual performance (Bancroft, 1983; Beck, Bozman, & Qualtrough, 1991; Hill, 1997; Kaplan, 1979; Regan, 1996; Wallen, 1995). Fisher (1998) has postulated that sexual desire, what she refers to as "lust motivation," is a unique biochemical system in humans, distinct from other more behavioural forms of sexual expression. Many sex researchers have also insisted that sexual desire may not be adequately operationalized as the simple summation of behavioural sex acts (see Spector, Carey, & Steinberg, 1996). Thus, it is questionable whether changes in sexual desire--changes most relevant to popular conceptions of sexual peaks--actually coincide with the peaks in orgasm behaviour frequency originally reported by Kinsey and his colleagues. Indeed, it remains largely unknown whether peaks in sexual desire exist at all. Several studies have suggested that women may experience changes in their sexual desire over time (Adams & Turner, 1985; Blumstein & Schwartz, 1983; Hunt, 1974; Rubin, 1982; Tavris & Sadd, 1977). However, these studies usually portray sexual desire as in steady and continuous decline across adulthood. Only a handful have hinted that the age of 30 marks an important developmental transition. For example, some research shows that the cognitive-emotional "focus" of women toward sex seems to shift as women pass through their 30s (Kaplan & Sager, 1971), and that women's experience of pleasure during vaginal intercourse changes conspicuously as they move through this period of adulthood (Laumman, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994).
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RHP User
14 years ago
Urban Dictionary: sexual-peakA condom which you often use when having sexual intercourse.
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is a quote from Dr James above.. I'm sorry I'm too dumb to work out how to reply with quote... "secondly, of course i haven't read all the scientific literature on the subject. especially since i didn't major in psychology at uni. this is stuff i have learnt through aquiring general culture, which is basically reading books on various subjects, staying informed through journals, magazines etc etc. i'm assured that i'm reading relevent, true material by realising that if i ever wanted to verify what i've read, with patience i could follow up all the particular journals, profs, universities involved and see first hand this knowledge. it's called 'appealing to authority', which has being a valid notion in logic and science for thousands of years."You Arrogant uneducated misguided swallower... Go away and come back when you have verified the research and not just articles from... for all we know.. Playboy and Penthouse.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know...I hadn't stopped by this thread in a bit and am quite amazed at both your lack of education and/or your misinterpretation of more latter day behavioural science. At your age...you really should stick to what you know and stop pretending that you know what you don't. They do say sooner or later you might just end up Jung by the tongue or somebody will rock up that really can pull your frilly little Freudian slip up around your ears and show off your best assets. | Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Goodbye all, i hope i ruffled some feathers and stirred some dormant brains. | Come on...please stick around? I am sure that with just a little more interactive self-disclosure in the isolation of a non-invasive and secure environment...we might be able to settle on a baseline dose of an appropriate SSRI medication that really would help you with a few of your Big Issues. If not then it could be... | ...a very simple lead deficiency in your diet. | | "The Flying Ashtray" was another icon too with immediate medical benefits.
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Tripodia
14 years ago
Maybe its just me, but I enjoy mental stimulation as well as physical stimulation...it makes the sex soooo much better. I just don't find discussing what happened on last nights episode of Big Brother overly appealing. Or drinking until you puke. Or Justin Beiber. Or using 'like' 10 times in a sentence. Or chewing gum. Or.....well you get the picture. My definition of 'sultry' is reserved for over 30s. And 'MILF' is a badge of honour to be worm with pride! Like a fine wine.......mature, full bodied and laid down :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Unresolved son–father competition for the psychosexual possession mother might result in a phallic stage fixation conducive to a boy becoming an aggressive, over-ambitious, vain man. Therefore, the satisfactory parental handling and resolution of the Oedipus complex are most important in developing the male infantile super-ego, because, by identifying with a parent, the boy internalizes Morality, thereby, he chooses to comply with societal rules, rather than reflexively complying in fear of punishment.
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14 years ago
Quoting 'Sensual36' Us older women know EXACTLY what we want and we aren't afraid to tell you. We won't muck you around with mind games etc either. and I do like younger men but not boys
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14 years ago
yep, the most immature part of me couldn't stand that some of the comments i just saw be the last say.@alldanite: I see you've tried to take the high end on this one, being the voice of common sense and reason and all that. but to be honest i don't really know what you're trying to do.. are you attacking the argument itself? because i can't see it. Just saying that what i've said has no logic or evidence to support it doesn't really do much, unless you're willing to to prove so through logical argument and evidence itself (oh..the hypocrasy thing). you're all talk about 'ease' and 'chopping' through arguments, but until you actually bring a counter argument itself to the table and stop not-so-subtley trying to suggest your own intellectual powers , there's no way any constructive debate could be had. and, by the way, there was a logical thread running through what i said, but maybe you were a bit slow to see it, i don't know. i'll make it easier for you-step1) younger men attracted to older women must be attracted by something about them.step2)this something is either particular to older women, or not.step3) it can't NOT be particular to older women because they would equally be attracted to young women with the same something, hence making the original assertion redundant.step4) therefore, this something must be particular and exclusive to older womenstep5) the most obvious something which is exclusive to older women is age ( to reiterate step 2, experience, wealth, intelligence etc are not exclusive to older women, and can be found in younger people)step5) the most exclusive quality of age in women is motherhood/nuturing.THEREFOREyounger men who are attracted to older women (inthemselves), are attracted to the mother/nuturing qualities.et voila. when i put it out like that it doesn't seem such a strong argument as i may have thought. but it's a valid argument nonetheless which is a world above you.@Annabella: did u actually read all of the quote you reposted? i dont think you did. i will say again explain reference to authorities... actually no i wont, go back and read it. as a university graduate with a philosophy degree, i think i'm in a position to know how to judge authorities. did u verify all the research in the article you posted? if so, did you verify all the research that their references have done? or did u take it on blind faith? that's pretty much the argument i'm hearing from you. clearly you haven't been to university, otherwise you would understand how journals and research actually work.what irrates me the most about most of you is that you try to take the high tone in the debate.. but you all essentially attack me. not my arguments, not my thought.. me. that i'm young, unqualified, arrogant, wanna-be intellectual etc etc.. this has nothing to do with the truth or falsity of what i have said. here, you'll learn something new today, right here. you are commiting a fallacy called argumentum ad hominem, which means you attack the person presenting an argument and not the argument itself. whether something is true or not has nothing to do with the person giving the argument. Hitler was big on animal rights? with your logic, because hitler said it, we should chuck it to the flames.and yep. This time i wont be reposting anything (i feel a bit disgusted that i've just spent 10min writing this), but i might read what you say.
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ruby_blossum
14 years ago
Pop into the kitchen or give your mum a call and see if you can borrow her weatherproof thermos for say....the next 20 years. . Print out this entire post and seal it in the thermos and bury it somewhere for 20 years. Then, in a couple of decades, when you have a little more life under your belt, dig it up and read it. . .....and by the way , ( I dont think I am alone in this - havent checked the stats) I have never felt the urge to mother or nurture.....no kids here. So I think that sort of blows your theory out of the water...... :) ".step5) the most exclusive quality of age in women is motherhood/nuturing.THEREFOREyounger men who are attracted to older women (inthemselves), are attracted to the mother/nuturing qualities."
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14 years ago
I am 30 and my partner is 20, here I was thinking he's hot, he's mature why not maybe I can teach him a thing or 2. Wow was I in for a suprise!!!All I can say is amazing. KInky, dirty and very eager to please, knows what he is doing never go back to the same age or older!!!
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14 years ago
"all this about older women being better at sex isn't really true" (James H , 2011) , did you or did you not f__k up royally when you said that???? Now the thing is someone that is mature will admit their mistake and then everyone will be ok with that , everyone makes mistakes , no-one more than yours truly actually , it is definitely not too late James , I'd be the first to say 'well done' , I shit you not. You can man up now , or believe me , life will do it for you one day. And I got a tip for ya ; try not to talk about 'something's so much it doesn't really help ya. I'm not trying to say I'm better or wiser or smarter than you James , I'm just calling you on something mate , that's what men do with each other. Anyway it's up to you dude , it's a free country , well unless we get another Hitler that is....
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14 years ago
In case anyone's vaguely interested in Hitler and animal rights , and this has got nothing to do with the point made by James , it's reasonably commonly thought that Hitler was a vegetarian , but actually he only would have very short spurts of vegetarianism after eating way too much meat , in order to get well again , this has been proven by the records of his personal chef. I like to know this sort of stuff coz I'm an animal rights campaigner myself , sometimes people say we're crazy like Hitler pfffft. You're another crazy vego James? Just askin....
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14 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Pop into the kitchen or give your mum a call and see if you can borrow her weatherproof thermos for say....the next 20 years. . Print out this entire post and seal it in the thermos and bury it somewhere for 20 years. Then, in a couple of decades, when you have a little more life under your belt, dig it up and read it. . .....and by the way , ( I dont think I am alone in this - havent checked the stats) I have never felt the urge to mother or nurture.....no kids here. So I think that sort of blows your theory out of the water...... :) ".step5) the most exclusive quality of age in women is motherhood/nuturing.THEREFOREyounger men who are attracted to older women (inthemselves), are attracted to the mother/nuturing qualities." i seriously can't believe you, i don't know if your just not reading what i write or if youre not understanding. i don't give a shit if you, or a billion other women don't have the motherly/nurturing side. it doesn't affect my argument. i want to know why age is so relevant in the attraction (for younger men)? i'll go easy on you. well... what do they get with age that they wont get with a 19 year old. experience? no, i can find plenty of 20 year olds who have had their fair share. intelligence? nup, can find intelligent young women too. some young guys might go for older women because these qualities are more common in older women, but if so, he desires them for this qualities and not the fact that the are older... where were we.. what about a leading, nuturing mother figure? is that age specific? maybe not, there's some young girls who are like that, but ITS ONLY OLDER AGE THAT REPRESENTS IT IN ITSELF. no one sees a mother role as involving someone younger than them. Being old, whether you have these qualities or not, you represent them in virtue of being old. i challenge you all to find an age specific quality if you're not happy with mine. and again with the 'when you get a couple of decades under.... etcetc' Let me just say something right here, for everyone. i see no value in age itself. For me, being old does not make automatically wiser, better or of more authority. on the contrary... all i see is a worn down vehicle of life- your senses are degenerating,your world slowly becomes more numb and dull. the further you move away from childhood, the further you move away from that rich, direct, intuitive experience of life and further towards numbness and ugliness. you no longer see life in its rich vibrance and innoncence. unless an older person has cultivated a deep inner life, a strong individuality, and an intellect that can see and create beauty in the abstract , i avoid them. life ends at around 28 i believe, everything after it is just one big attempt to substitute what you lost. kids, mariage, money.. whatever.. it will never replace that age when you felt your life was one big possiblity and a succession of colorful and beautiful intensity.you, age, want to condenscend to me? I am life itself, i should be condenscending to you. (sorry i got a bit vicious there, i can get carried away)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fond of a nice bit of meat personally , and sometimes I even eat it
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'goldcoastgirl30' I am 30 and my partner is 20, here I was thinking he's hot, he's mature why not maybe I can teach him a thing or 2. Wow was I in for a suprise!!!All I can say is amazing. KInky, dirty and very eager to please, knows what he is doing never go back to the same age or older!!! You need someone younger, to keep up with you... you foxy lady!
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ruby_blossum
14 years ago
If you truely believe life ends at 28 and its all down hill from there you had better get out there and have some fun. . My comment about the time capsule and read it in a couple of decades was for you personally to look back on your thoughts....now & then......and to see if you still felt the same way.. . I see no point in that suggestion now as you will be sitting there.....in your words... . worn down vehicle of life- your senses are degenerating,your world slowly becomes more numb and dull. the further you move away from childhood, the further you move away from that rich, direct, intuitive experience of life and further towards numbness and ugliness. you no longer see life in its rich vibrance and innoncence. unless an older person has cultivated a deep inner life, a strong individuality, and an intellect that can see and create beauty in the abstract , i avoid them.. . I didnt find your words vicious.....just sad.
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14 years ago
but we already have it all worked out...and are now enjoying 'life' more thoroughly and fully than any 20 something could ever dream of. this child who would be a man (but is not) dares to lecture us? just ignore him everyone, as the nuisance he really is.... his tactics are just that of a troll, here to inflame and stir an argument, so he can sit back and gloat over the apparent damage he has done. its not worth the energy or time arguing with little people such as this, it wont matter what your opinions are, as he'll just twist them around to suit his own little game, alternating between nice and nasty while he does.......this is why we wont and dont play with an age group that we deem to still be 'children'. they are just not equipped to have 'adult' relationships with those who are older, wiser, more experienced and very obviously much more intelligent than they. we are guessing by the language used and the mood conveyed, that theres a very high likelihood that this boy may be a bully, perhaps even physically. hes certainly pushed and shoved his opinions (laughable that they are) as far down all our collective throats as he can, so far as to muffle our own voices and drown our opinions and thoughts completely. those here who do have this childish little fellows measure already will only agree........so we repeat......go away little boy.....you bother us...
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14 years ago
Quoting 'Annabella237' This is a quote from Dr James above.. I'm sorry I'm too dumb to work out how to reply with quote... "secondly, of course i haven't read all the scientific literature on the subject. especially since i didn't major in psychology at uni. this is stuff i have learnt through aquiring general culture, which is basically reading books on various subjects, staying informed through journals, magazines etc etc. i'm assured that i'm reading relevent, true material by realising that if i ever wanted to verify what i've read, with patience i could follow up all the particular journals, profs, universities involved and see first hand this knowledge. it's called 'appealing to authority', which has being a valid notion in logic and science for thousands of years."You Arrogant uneducated misguided swallower... Go away and come back when you have verified the research and not just articles from... for all we know.. Playboy and Penthouse. can you be a swallower and still be a 'mouth breather'? theres no research.... lol. theres just baiting all of us so we bite. its an unintelligent game, but he's playing it........
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14 years ago
@alldanite-hahaha i can't believe you actually tried to impress with Hitler trivia. i bet it get's all the girls hot. haha you douche. and with the prior post, i don't even know what youre babbling about.. it's got nothing to do with what i asked of you that's for sure. I'm not saying i'm more intelligent than everyone here, but i'm definitley more intelligent than you. i know you were starting to 'enjoy' all this, but you might want to give it a rest old boy. @ruby_blossum- you may think i have a sad view of life, but unlike yours, it's also a very true view.
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14 years ago
i found older more mature women sexually attractive because they were 'women'. and could hold a conversation with you, look you in the eye. genuinely show some 'passion' and enthusiasm about their play, and yea, knew all the stuff that oh, 90% of the 'girls' my age had no idea about. it was never about being nurtured, or cared about, or treated like some flowerpot and cooed at, it was about the 'woman' knowing what she wanted, liked and was good at, and that she was willing to spend more time in bed playing than doing her hair, watching neighbors, painting her toenails or swooning at who ever or whatever the latest celebrity 'pretty-boy' was...... 20 year olds know very little about themselves, their bodies, their likes and dislikes, or even about men. watch them out an about...at nightclubs and parties...theyre all giggling and laughing and have no idea. watch the 30 and 40 somethings....see how they mean 'business'. its a different mind-set, the whole attitude changes and 'women' by the time they are mid 30ish, exude a raw sexiness thats very nearly palpable...give me a Halle Berry over a Megan Fox....i know who the 'sexy' one is...... always did....... young might be ok to look at, but up close and personal? no thanks. theres not an argument that anyone could ever put forward that would convince me that a young pretty thing is sexier than a 'woman' who knows her stuff.....
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14 years ago
"i will say again explain reference to authorities... actually no i wont, go back and read it." You aggressive, over-ambitious, vain man. If we were all swallowers of fact like you and didnt question theory then we would all believe the world really was flat... I like to question and put forth valid argument. Your way of debating is to attack all of us without providing any relevant reference to back up your wild theory. and why?? because you dont see us as worthy of debate? I at least have put forth some literature that can be researched if necessary... Where is your proof?? Ill try and explain the piece Ive posted... it basically states that there hasn't been a reliable source of fact due to the numerous variables that come into play when researching sexual peak in both genders.Guess that means you gonna just have to take our word on it... This next part is not for you James - hope you have already clicked on reply and are angrily keyboard stroking....and ignore this because it is personal... but for the rest of you here, feel welcome to read on. So here is my storyI was frigid at age 16-25 no 16-30...(but forced myself to carry out my marital obligations from 25 albeit with a very skilled caring and imaginative and loving husband) but I couldn't care less from 30-39 Now since 39 I'm a sex addict. In my early years NO WAY would i consider a second round in one night.. in fact I was so sore in those first years that the earliest i would consider another encounter was AT LEAST 3 days after the pain and swelling went away. That went away after about 10 years but I really couldnt be bothered with wasting time on sex ... I just didnt see it as important. Now that Im old and ugly with nothing to look forward to... hehehe well at least I have sex to look forward to!! In only the last year Ive discovered Im a multi orgasmer during sex... I never used to cum during sex only through head. Now my record for intercourse is 40 times in 1 night over 4 rounds. We only stopped because he needed to sleep. If anyone scholarly cares to note this for future reference... feel free! What changed? I havent the foggiest!!! But I LIKE it!!!Now in answer to the original forum question... What do young guys see in us older chicks... I have asked the younger men that meet with me regularly. Before we meet for the first time I always ask them have they been with older girls before... because although I am flexible enough to throw my thigh booted legs over his shoulders... my body is that of a 41 year old who has had a child... certainly not like the chicky babes in their twenties. They dont have a problem with that.. If they did they wouldnt have contacted an older girl. No they dont think Im easy... in fact I make it quite hard for them to catch up with me just so they dont take me for granted.. They like the fact that we dont play games. We dont say one thing and mean another ie "why the fuck didnt they pick up what Ms twenty was really saying""(if you loved me you'd have known)" We're not likely to trap them by falling pregnant and making them marry us, and we fully understand the whole NSA thing. We dont twist their words back on them to achieve a certain agenda or powerplay... Its just sex and friendship.Now I know Im not everyones cup of tea... but hell...thats just what makes the world interesting.
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14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Quoting 'ruby_blossum' i seriously can't believe you, i don't know if your just not reading what i write or if youre not understanding. i don't give a shit if you, or a billion other women don't have the motherly/nurturing side. it doesn't affect my argument. i want to know why age is so relevant in the attraction (for younger men)? i'll go easy on you. well... what do they get with age that they wont get with a 19 year old. experience? no, i can find plenty of 20 year olds who have had their fair share. intelligence? nup, can find intelligent young women too. some young guys might go for older women because these qualities are more common in older women, but if so, he desires them for this qualities and not the fact that the are older...you forgot one , it's a tricky one, and you won't find it in a book, and there will be no scientific proof of it either.........Je ne sais quoi !!!! you can't put your finger on it, but it's there. You just need to accept it for what it is. where were we.. what about a leading, nuturing mother figure? is that age specific? maybe not, there's some young girls who are like that, but ITS ONLY OLDER AGE THAT REPRESENTS IT IN ITSELF. no one sees a mother role as involving someone younger than them. Being old, whether you have these qualities or not, you represent them in virtue of being old. i challenge you all to find an age specific quality if you're not happy with mine. We have had the time to observe life and love and actually learn from it, and with it comes a confidence that cannot be known by a young woman. A quiet calm quality that enables us to be totally sexual without needing to explain it away. and again with the 'when you get a couple of decades under.... etcetc' Let me just say something right here, for everyone. i see no value in age itself. For me, being old does not make automatically wiser, better or of more authority. on the contrary... all i see is a worn down vehicle of life- your senses are degenerating,your world slowly becomes more numb and dull. the further you move away from childhood, the further you move away from that rich, direct, intuitive experience of life and further towards numbness and ugliness. Who are you to make this statement? your theory is based on a fucking guess at best my world has never been more alive than it is right now. you no longer see life in its rich vibrance and innoncence. unless an older person has cultivated a deep inner life, a strong individuality, and an intellect that can see and create beauty in the abstract , i avoid them. Or come through life and still retained that beautiful childhood imagination that anything and everything is still possible. life ends at around 28 i believe, everything after it is just one big attempt to substitute what you lost. kids, mariage, money.. whatever.. it will never replace that age when you felt your life was one big possiblity and a succession of colorful and beautiful intensity. I've lost nothing, only gained . And one important thing I gained is that learning does not stop because you find a theory that matches what you want to believe, but challenges you instead to consider the possiblity that there are many theories and it won't always be a favourable one we can pigeonhole ourselves into. The age I stop feeling the colourful and beautiful intensity will be the day I die, unlike you who have already made up your small mind that it will end after 28.you, age, want to condenscend to me? I am life itself, i should be condenscending to you. What are you ? Life itself? are you serious? you haven't even begun you absolute moron. I bet you're wishing like fuck there was white out for the screen now , after that ignorant statement. Put the books down, and have a good hard wank like normal 23 yo's, a bit of fresh air wouldn't kill you either sheesh
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RHP User
14 years ago
That you aren't being graded on this paper, a sensational fail is very hard to overcome.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ruby xxx DGT xxx HSC xxxSisters unite. We understand each other.Now as per the deepest Philosophical Movie depicting modern Australian life I quote.."it's the vibe, and, uh ... No, that's it. It's the vibe. "The Castle
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have taken perhaps more time than was warranted by the incessant an illogical ramblings of a man-child who has yet to find his way in the world. In some ways I can only say that I personally and most here would neither argue with you nor castigate you as venues such as this may be your only real outlet or exposure to a world that you have little or no experience in otherwise... | Quoting 'jameshentforth99' You, age, want to condenscend to me? I am life itself, i should be condenscending to you.| In that one statement alone you have captured the complete and total essence of everything and anything else you have said...so I would ask you without response to perhaps review this checklist quietly and see how many may apply? | - Prone to histrionics with little or no sense of consequence.- An oversensitive temperament- Self-praise or perceived praise by adults- Excessive self admiration that is never balanced with realistic feedback- Excessive praise or criticism for behaviors in childhood- Overindulgence and overvaluation- Valued by parents as a means to regulate their own self-esteem| It's an interesting list isn't it...and please, if you have any difficulty with this or some of the more advanced words that are included in this simple list...you may find that these are the traits of a narcisstic juvenile that may be suffering from a oppositional defiant disorder. And remember, Google is your friend. | Unfortunately, it does not seem that you have made many here...a pity too, as this group of folks were all simply having a bit of fun and enjoying life. Hence, nos duco teneo verum. A very immature and confused young man with a pseudo-messianic attitude toward life...certainly is not. | I wish you well on your journey.
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14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'jameshentforth99' Quoting 'ruby_blossum' i seriously can't believe you, i don't know if your just not reading what i write or if youre not understanding. i don't give a shit if you, or a billion other women don't have the motherly/nurturing side. it doesn't affect my argument. i want to know why age is so relevant in the attraction (for younger men)? i'll go easy on you. well... what do they get with age that they wont get with a 19 year old. experience? no, i can find plenty of 20 year olds who have had their fair share. intelligence? nup, can find intelligent young women too. some young guys might go for older women because these qualities are more common in older women, but if so, he desires them for this qualities and not the fact that the are older...you forgot one , it's a tricky one, and you won't find it in a book, and there will be no scientific proof of it either.........Je ne sais quoi !!!! you can't put your finger on it, but it's there. You just need to accept it for what it is. where were we.. what about a leading, nuturing mother figure? is that age specific? maybe not, there's some young girls who are like that, but ITS ONLY OLDER AGE THAT REPRESENTS IT IN ITSELF. no one sees a mother role as involving someone younger than them. Being old, whether you have these qualities or not, you represent them in virtue of being old. i challenge you all to find an age specific quality if you're not happy with mine. We have had the time to observe life and love and actually learn from it, and with it comes a confidence that cannot be known by a young woman. A quiet calm quality that enables us to be totally sexual without needing to explain it away. and again with the 'when you get a couple of decades under.... etcetc' Let me just say something right here, for everyone. i see no value in age itself. For me, being old does not make automatically wiser, better or of more authority. on the contrary... all i see is a worn down vehicle of life- your senses are degenerating,your world slowly becomes more numb and dull. the further you move away from childhood, the further you move away from that rich, direct, intuitive experience of life and further towards numbness and ugliness. Who are you to make this statement? your theory is based on a fucking guess at best my world has never been more alive than it is right now. you no longer see life in its rich vibrance and innoncence. unless an older person has cultivated a deep inner life, a strong individuality, and an intellect that can see and create beauty in the abstract , i avoid them. Or come through life and still retained that beautiful childhood imagination that anything and everything is still possible. life ends at around 28 i believe, everything after it is just one big attempt to substitute what you lost. kids, mariage, money.. whatever.. it will never replace that age when you felt your life was one big possiblity and a succession of colorful and beautiful intensity. I've lost nothing, only gained . And one important thing I gained is that learning does not stop because you find a theory that matches what you want to believe, but challenges you instead to consider the possiblity that there are many theories and it won't always be a favourable one we can pigeonhole ourselves into. The age I stop feeling the colourful and beautiful intensity will be the day I die, unlike you who have already made up your small mind that it will end after 28.you, age, want to condenscend to me? I am life itself, i should be condenscending to you. What are you ? Life itself? are you serious? you haven't even begun you absolute moron. I bet you're wishing like fuck there was white out for the screen now , after that ignorant statement. Put the books down, and have a good hard wank like normal 23 yo's, a bit of fresh air wouldn't kill you either sheesh he's not the messiah, he's a very naughty boy.......... at roughly age 28 to 32 boys go through a transition period. its when they finally become men. there's a shift in how they feel about responsibility and commitment, and their whole behavior changes. this child obviously fears that. its a shame really, but these things are just too challenging for some, as they are ill equipped for life as an 'adult'. don't accommodate his arrogance by arguing back and forward, adults don't argue. adults don't lecture either. he seems to feel he is entitled to both. just ignore his delusions, they are as insignificant as he is. we have 2 boys of his age, trust us, they do get over themselves, but it usually takes a few trips and stumbles and a couple of hard lessons along the way. life has a way of evening things out..........
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RHP User
14 years ago
pfff i give up, trolling on this forum is like trying to run through a brick wall. i seem to just keep having to repeat myself over a bombardment of cliches and outdated pop philosophy. so let me finish on this. you're all calling me young, hot headed, oversensitive, guilty of excessive self-admiration etc etc( you'll find them all listed above) as if to reproach me? as if these are 'bad' qualities.... haha do you know how ridiculous you all sound? to those lucky enough to have youth, right now, and its beauty, its possibilities, its hot head confidence, its sensitivity, excess.. do you think we have ears to hear all that as an insult? as something undesireable? haha it's like trying to convince the most content, happy man in the world that his happiness is vile, and should be remedied. have a look around. who are the people trying to turn these life affirming and intense qualities into something reproachable? the old. the boring.the stupid. the plain. the common.but you will never know what i mean.
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14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99'pfff i give up, trolling on this forum is like trying to run through a brick wall. i seem to just keep having to repeat myself over a bombardment of cliches and outdated pop philosophy. so let me finish on this. you're all calling me young, hot headed, oversensitive, guilty of excessive self-admiration etc etc( you'll find them all listed above) as if to reproach me? as if these are 'bad' qualities.... haha do you know how ridiculous you all sound? to those lucky enough to have youth, right now, and its beauty, its possibilities, its hot head confidence, its sensitivity, excess.. do you think we have ears to hear all that as an insult? as something undesireable? haha it's like trying to convince the most content, happy man in the world that his happiness is vile, and should be remedied. have a look around. who are the people trying to turn these life affirming and intense qualities into something reproachable? the old. the boring.the stupid. the plain. the common.but you will never know what i mean. Yeah doofus cos we've never been there ourselves Now seriously kid, put some damn pants on and go outside
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14 years ago
Dammit DGT, I just put a couple of mirrors up for sale on eBay... | Quoting 'dontgothere' Now seriously kid, put some damn pants on and go outside | | Now if this pathetic little twit listens to you...how in the hell is he going to bid? He actually so confused he is bidding against himself on both of the auctions and I am kicking ass on these Chinese knockoffs from the Royal wedding. | PS: Best not to tell your little buddy Oedipus here that there is a hot chick on a similar site going by the name of Jocasta that has been "endorsed" by quite a few of the guys and gals from this site. Go easy...the folks you piss off today may be your fathers and other mothers tomorrow. Seems she is blessed with the same intelligence and logic as her son so go ahead, Scottie, beam him aboard... | ...another higher form of life has left the building. | | Honest, you were considering this one as a possible "mercy root"...were you?
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14 years ago
No mercy CM
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14 years ago
Ok peoples this is michael,In view of everything said by all parties, let us lok at this age thing diferently:_why would a 20 something guy be attracted to an older woman, that depends on who and what has happened in their ;lives. Both parties are in the prime of their sexual lives.We are animals and have primal/animalistic urges and in peak sexual awareness tends to put out pheromones to attract the others in the same sexual state...What older women have gone through in life experimenting themselves, no actual text books or google search engines or teachers showing you how, it was all by word or their own journey to the point they now know what they want , how they want it and when they want it and by whom.... If they were lucky there was a book called "EVERY WOMAN" which my sister had and i pinched to look at the pencil pics and learn't heaps ;), it was about the male and female bodies, functions and sexual intercourse which i have found invaluable growing up...I have been with older woman as a young man and have been with young girls (20ish) as a 40 something guy.what i found was that the older woman knew how she wanted things to be and where to place herself for maximum enjoyment and fullfillment, the younger woman still fumble through intercourse and was happy to do most of the general intercourse, there was an air about the older woman that cant be compared. In my experience, young women of today are more liberated/educated now than back 30 years ago and more open to experimenting freely with many more partners than the older ladies were then...There is a quality to the older woman that no matter who they are is very rare to find in young GIRLS of today.. there is some merit to the point of nurturing and such but there is a free and wild lust mixed in with exhuberence and knowing in the older lady that cant be duplicated easily in the young ( that comes with time).You may not be attracted to the older ladies and that is your choice. There is someone on this site to suit all our tastes...."JAMES."
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14 years ago
If you wanna see who's old just contact me and then we'll find out who's old , it won't be pretty. You still refuse to acknowledge the simple fact that your statement that older women are not better at sex is wrong , I don't need to call you names , you name yourself. Grow up or life will give you the smack down. Btw I go all night , funny didn't seem to stop when I hit 28 , go figure. Loz
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14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' pfff i give up, trolling on this forum is like trying to run through a brick wall. i seem to just keep having to repeat myself over a bombardment of cliches and outdated pop philosophy. so let me finish on this. you're all calling me young, hot headed, oversensitive, guilty of excessive self-admiration etc etc( you'll find them all listed above) as if to reproach me? as if these are 'bad' qualities.... haha do you know how ridiculous you all sound? to those lucky enough to have youth, right now, and its beauty, its possibilities, its hot head confidence, its sensitivity, excess.. do you think we have ears to hear all that as an insult? as something undesireable? haha it's like trying to convince the most content, happy man in the world that his happiness is vile, and should be remedied. have a look around. who are the people trying to turn these life affirming and intense qualities into something reproachable? the old. the boring.the stupid. the plain. the common.but you will never know what i mean. but gee, your admission that you are 'trolling' puts you in the worst company...our assessment of you was correct all along... didnt take more that one or two post from you work out the depth (or lack of) of your intelligence and reveal exactly the sort of person you are...an internet bully.... pond filth........ go away dung beetle.......and come back when you attain enlightenment....and some manners.... and shed a little of the arrogance and show some respect.
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14 years ago
i'm not like that... 20 is to young try at least mid twenties
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14 years ago
None intended...not even when I fired the first volley. | Quoting 'dontgothere'No mercy CM | You really should look up the "Flying Ashtray" and see how they administered the necessary lead in to the diet of the deficient ones. Looks like I might need to put one in and one down...and if you are feeling merciful... | ...tell them to duck. | | Naaa, don't bother....I never miss at close range.
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14 years ago
Quoting 'jameshentforth99' . well... what do they get with age that they wont get with a 19 year old. experience? no, i can find plenty of 20 year olds who have had their fair share. Yeah, right. I have yet to meet a 19-20 year old with MUCH life experience or sexual experience for that matter. If you know of one, introduce me and we can swap stories. Thier fair share is considerably less than my share. intelligence? nup, can find intelligent young women too. some young guys might go for older women because these qualities are more common in older women, but if so, he desires them for this qualities and not the fact that the are older... where were we.. what about a leading, nuturing mother figure? is that age specific? maybe not, there's some young girls who are like that, I had my first child as a teenager. So that means I was nurturing back when I was way younger than you. Still doing it now and the child I had then is actually one of the older women you are talking about on this site...as most memebers here already know. but ITS ONLY OLDER AGE THAT REPRESENTS IT IN ITSELF. Not so. My mother has had five children and has not a nurturing bone in her body.no one sees a mother role as involving someone younger than them. Being old, whether you have these qualities or not, you represent them in virtue of being old. i challenge you all to find an age specific quality if you're not happy with mine. It is because we ooze confidence and sex appeal and you just dont want to admit that you may just like having sex with someone your mother's age...or maybe you did the deed with one of Mummies friends, liked it and now feel all guilty...is that it baby? and again with the 'when you get a couple of decades under.... etcetc' Let me just say something right here, for everyone. i see no value in age itself. Many a fine tune played on an old fiddle mate For me, being old does not make automatically wiser, better or of more authority. on the contrary... all i see is a worn down vehicle of life- your senses are degenerating,your world slowly becomes more numb and dull. Quick, kill yourself now before your flesh starts to rot and your brain stagnates the further you move away from childhood, the further you move away from that rich, direct, intuitive experience of life Really? And here I was thinking that the further you moved away from childhood, the more EXPERIENCE you had of life. and further towards numbness and ugliness. you no longer see life in its rich vibrance and innoncence. So stick to the innocence of youth then and only discuss ABSTRACT thoughts and not reality unless an older person has cultivated a deep inner life, a strong individuality, and an intellect that can see and create beauty in the abstract , i avoid them. So how would you know what an older person can do and does do if you avoid them? life ends at around 28 i believe, everything after it is just one big attempt to substitute what you lost. kids, mariage, money.. whatever.. it will never replace that age when you felt your life was one big possiblity and a succession of colorful and beautiful intensity. Ba ha ha ha ha ha ha. Nope so very ery wrong. Life is just begining then and it can and does get so much richer, has so much more depth and meaning as you mature.you, age, want to condenscend to me? I am life itself, as are the rest of us as we still breathe every day. i should be condenscending to you. You are not condescending at all. You are just showing your ignorance of things you have never known or experienced first hand. Like I said before...the arrogance of youth. Well hang on to it lovey, you are nearly28. Better find that perfect female child so you may procreate and therefore stagnate. (sorry i got a bit vicious there, i can get carried away)Personally I think it is time you got that head of yours out of the clouds, stopped smoking whatever it is that is giving you these strange halucinations, tossed away your rose coloured glasses and faced a bit of reality...grow up!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like the fact that older women have had more life experiences and exude a coolness that a younger woman has yet to develop. There's not the same level of posturing with a more mature woman, the fact that a woman has become comfortable in her own skin makes her even sexier, so rather than becoming side tracked with putting on a display and relying solely on the physical aesthetics of a young nubile body an older woman has been there and knows how to radiate, she's not caught up in a display ritual, she's there to enjoy herself with you, to explore and be explored, it's not a competition or a race, it's an experience and it's going to be wonderful for you both.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The bad thing about feeling more attracted to older woman is the likelihood that they presume you too immature and inexperienced to be considered (though I would agree I'm inexperienced), I definitely feel up to the challenge of a 'grown woman's conversation skills'. It's not exactly hard playing with the other people my age around here but there's definitely something about an older woman that will always entice me to look a little bit longer on their profiles.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just wanted to say that I too love older women. I'm 24 years old, and I'd never hestitate to be with a woman in her 40's or 50's. Obviously dating would be harder due to being at different stages of our lives and whatnot, but I find on a sexual and sensual level I can more easily connect with a women who's older.Also, what's not to love?Though, that's not to say I don't enjoy the company of women my age or younger!
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RHP User
14 years ago
absolutely! im not here to teach any one, except perhaps to read! what part of 45 to 55 yo men dont they get!!!
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14 years ago
i think you had the wrong "first experience". the guy obviously didnt know what he was doing. and going down is one of my favourite things to do ;)
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14 years ago
It's because we know what we want and don't want, are out to get it, and not afraid to say so. You talk about 35+... but sweetie at my age, I have more fun in the last 10 years than I ever did. At our age we are not inhibited, and as I said, we know what we want, what we dont want, are out to get it, and not afraid to go after it and ask for it.... works everytime. I think it's the confidence of an older woman as well. I mean at my age and my experience... if we don't get along and it doesn't work out and we don't want to see each other again, I dont go crying and chasing after you... I have the attitude that's it's all fine, and good luck, and there are plenty of fish in the sea.... and I go get more! I'm not possessive or cling....confident, know what I want, and ENJOYS it... immensely!
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RHP User
14 years ago
They are so sexy and irresistable as the ladies keep saying i agree they are so hard to resist :) they are sexy personified. Just wish i knew more who were interested :(
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RHP User
14 years ago
They are so sexy and irresistable as the ladies keep saying i agree they are so hard to resist :) they are sexy personified. Just wish i knew more who were interested :(
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RHP User
14 years ago
idd love a women who say what is on her mind .picures is where i would like to be with you 0 is for you 4 is for being you 1 is being the first on my list 3 is putting people in there place 9 is how many people luv big women 55 percent dont like to be with big women 8 who luv to cheat on there beloved ones.5 percent want more out of life and 9 percent want to have sex with other people so my darling i want you and would luv to be with you xxxooo
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sweetie, the older you get, the more you are uninhibited. At my age, I know excatly what i like and want, and what I dont like and want and NOT afraid to say it. I think younger women are just too afraid to come out and say what they like and dont like. Also, at my age, we enjoy it a lot, and I have been told by many men, that they would rather have sex with me than a 19yr old.... says something doesn't it?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ladies in thier 30s and 40s aint classified as "older women" they are just coming up to thier prime
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RHP User
14 years ago
oh lordy..... isn't the point of being educated to challenge assumptions in order to further one's understanding? the school of life does not require scholarship beyond that of just living.doesn't mean you'll get a root tho!...
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