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What is with the large number of stupid threads?
June 30 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of Society in general, although I'll admit it is a skewed sample! All the various personality types exist here, the quiet and reserved, the loud and outspoken, the experimental and limited, the open minded and the judgemental. What people choose to discuss here is what's of interest to them, those who aren't interested just move right along on those particular forum threads......and you'll see many threads that don't receive many posts. I suggest that this is a tactic you might like to employ. Just bypass the threads that are of no interest to you. As for normal, and if RHP forumites, or in fact RHP members at all qualify, why don't you discuss that with your family and friends.......see if they find being a member of a swingers site as being "normal"........ I find your post both judgemental and hypocritical - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
So what topics have you started? What interesting conversations have you initiated? I speak about my experiences, if you feel that I am trying to out do others, well that is your prerogative. Doesn't worry me. I do think your comment is unfair though. If people are hesitant to meet people because of a few forum posters.... Well really? Are you being serious? There are nutters everywhere not just the forum. Although I have heard parenting forums are really bitchy with loads of fighting and people trying to out do each other. But I suppose they are not normal people either. :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not being rude here... Maybe do you think you are little sheltered in your out look?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why not lead by example then? Whining is not attractive.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is to worry about how you conduct yourself more than how others conduct themselves. We all get irritated by others from time to time, and sometimes it's OK to say so, but careful not to look like an arse when you do ;) And if you want more interesting posts, then ... post them!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do think a lot of people are sheltered from all the different sexual practices and kinks, so really this is the place to ask questions about it. I mean where else?
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RHP User
11 years ago
what it is, Spliceys....the good the bad and the ugly,the bold and the beautiful,the young and the rustless....take ya pick...if you are bored take a break...if you don't like the topics post some of your own....and don't take any of it toooo seriously .....
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RHP User
11 years ago
We're happy to talk about butter vs margarine, but since this is an adult dating website, that's unlikely to come up (outside of a 'Last Tango in Paris' context.) Mr Tryst and Ms Shout
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RHP User
11 years ago
hands over the the Op go for it, as your normal and well I am an attention seeking diva without the core folk here putting up interesting and sometimes not so interesting posts what would we be looking at a blank fucking forum some of the people here have been amazing in how they share information, often their lives up here for all to see so you guys take up the mantel and put your money where your mouth is. If you can make us think, makes us laugh,make us cry and above all make us feel we are not alone in our alternate life style then is a job well done. Lady_T going of singing look a moi look at moi, tra la tra la tra fucking lah
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RHP User
11 years ago
Also, define 'normal people'? What is normal too you is not normal to every one else. There are some great discussions on here, just ignore the shit ones because it is 'normal' to have such a diverse range of opinions/outlooks/comments. To the posters above me, I doubt mrs Splicey was talking about you. Also, people who are more real than fake, more honest than full of shit, more humble than arrogant, do get turned off by 'some' of the rubbish that is on offer here! Just build yourself a good filter to find your gold. CBF
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RHP User
11 years ago
maybe they have a point, maybe if all us regular posters stopped for a month and let those people have a crack its not a bad thing to let the new blood take up the voice maybe I am getting a bit stale and opinionated
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nothing to stop people posting is there. It's always nice when a new poster with wit and intelligence and humour comes along! :D
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RHP User
11 years ago
I forgot to say,the forums are a little like the seasons,although not seasonal.Posters come and go,many ''old '' posters mourn the good 'ol days......there have been a number of topics to encourage new posters but they usually died in the bum. The other benefit of the forums is that you get to know people who in the normal course of life,you probably wouldn't. I have to say,I am lovin' the forums atm...next week,next month,it may be quite different.
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RHP User
11 years ago
TR - your not a loaf of bread! Your a bottle of wine! (Has a sniff, has a taste, licks lips and asks for more) CBF
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do you reckon we can restrain ourselves??
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is no such thing as 'normal' what is everyday to one is not to another....and if you are on an adult kink site, my God you are far from what the general society public would recognise as 'normal'.There is not one single person i've read about on this site i would call sheltered, they're all out there living their kink dream, meeting new people, travelling, visiting kinky clubs and parties etc....I really don't understand where your comments stem from OP, makes you look really bitchy, bored and quite hypocritical actually!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a Sunday relllllllllllllax or better yet go get laid.I don't think anyone on RHP is sheltered.It would have worked better if you said your argument like: I would prefer if topics were less focused around "*******" and more focused on "*******". Get it? concise, objective and constructive. Nice! :)I think that would work better than calling people 'crashing buses'. Or attention seekers.And given the relevance and subjective nature of your post. It's ironic. Sometimes there are stupid topics you might not agree with - especially on an adult dating site. But there is a simple solution, only go to the topics that interest you. As for the conversation, just start your own.
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is not one sentence, one word, one syllable in the OPs post that even suggests what the OP regards as objectionable, or lacking in sufficient normality (whatever that is).Recently I have seen and sometimes participated in threads about literature, writing (which are two different things), courtesy, the best way to communicate on the site, serious health issues, interracial sex, blowjobs, anal sex and a host of other things all of which are part of the big tapestry that makes up human behaviour.Many of the posts are notable for the presentation of topics by women who have no difficulty in combining being sexually adventurous with being ferocious and articulate defenders of women's right to independence, autonomy, respect and a good fuck when they want one.I enthusiastically agree with some, I violently disagree with others. I respect many posters, some I wouldn't feed on broken hobble straps, as the rural saying goes. That is how it should be.If there is a post or a topic the OP finds objectionable, write a response. Easy peasy. M62
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RHP User
11 years ago
You like to poo poo people's parties huh? Just a thought from a mad, sexed up, self aware exhibitionist. 😎- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A fave post in a long while. Thanks :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are elements in the OP's post that I agree with but more relevant to the overall RHP experience than just the forums. I think many use this site as an avenue to live out their fantasies, to become someone they aren't. I remember a while ago when I was a regular in the chat rooms. One night some of the regulars were all bragging on the mind blowing, all night sexual romps they had during the week. Then it struck me, they had all been online every night during the week, so when did they find the time for all these sexual trysts. So I started to observe and came to the conclusion that unless some have some type of time machine, then they are full of shit cos they were in the chat room nearly 24/7. As for the topics etc, well this is a place for free thought and expression - the very nature of a good forum. Yes there are some who post on every topic (as is their right). But it is difficult for a newbie, especially a male who isn't hung/young/good looking if his views differ from the collective. The resultant backlash will normally ensure the newbie won't post again! To the OP, if you don't like the topics, create those that you want to be discussed. Sure there is a chance that there might not be many comments posted but you never know in this sand pit. Mooka
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RHP User
11 years ago
What sort of topics do you like and not like?My topic turn ons include:Social issues, morality, human behaviourHumourRobust debate, and exchanges of ideas (on just about any topic)Sex acts/practises I've never heard of (they keep coming up!)Men who post about their large cock, only to prove they are a large cockMen who ask why they can't get laid, then show everyone why they can't get laid(it's not all high-brow)And the turn offs:Personal attacksBaggage (which often results in the above)How can I improve my profile (especially when asked by a cock)Obvious advertising (except when it ends in a bus crash :)Posts about cheating/cheaters (the baggage really comes out here)Guys posting as women (one line questions about anal sex are a dead give-away)Reality is though if a topic doesn't do it for me it is really easy to ignore.Mr C
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nice to see you back Mooka, missed your forum comments. Also keen to see the next post by our OP. usually enjoy discussing anything and everything......even the normal stuff!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for the approving post! I sent a message saying much the same, but it got monstered by your automatic response thingy. No big deal; thanks again.M62
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not all topics are my flavour, some I read some I don't , some I comment on if I feel I can add to the discussion.Although not always successful I try not to be a bitch or be negative but I will speak out if I see bullying or just negativity, but usually just let it go, everyone can see it for what it is.There are people on here I like and who like me, and the opposite.I've been sniped and bitched on and been pulled up when I fuck up, as it should be.Just be yourself, filter out the crap and don't sweat the small stuff, OP and any lurkers, speak out, contribute, and add to the diversity, be positive and don't take the knocks too seriously, sticks and stones baby !
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Splicey
11 years ago
Quoting 'justforfunisall' Nice to see you back Mooka, missed your forum comments. Also keen to see the next post by our OP. usually enjoy discussing anything and everything......even the normal stuff! What reply are you after exactly?I don't consider myself sheltered by any stretch of the imagination.I don't think I've created that many topics at all, because I don't particularly have anything to say. I don't understand the concept of injecting myself into a conversation for the sake of getting attention.I've replied to threads I can contribute to, but I've personally seen many threads about one thing be taken off topic by people for no other reason than to inject themselves into the conversation. The topic change is obvious and difficult to read. Isn't that what webchats are for?I consider myself a sexual person, it's kind of why I'm here, but I don't really feel the need to talk about cocks and dogging and threesomes, etc etc etc in topics that aren't remotely related like a lot of people seem to do for hobby.Obviously I've ruffled a few feathers, it's difficult to get the point I am trying to get across without upsetting people. But, much like other people who want to be heard and use the forums for topics they wish to speak of, I decided to start a topic I currently felt strongly about.I can't be the only one who feels on the outside, or can't reply to 90% of the forum because it's all rubbish (subjectively of course).I would consider myself judgemental, we're humans, it's kinda what we do and to say you're not is just ignorant in my view.Currently though my judgement doesn't actually impact myself or other people in any real sense so I am unsure of any real issue it would cause anyone.MrsSplicey
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ever since we stopped the UNION thread that was over 20 plus pages ,people have been getting grumpy.OP come to drinks night in Sydney ,you might actually meet some very nice people who are well rounded.I know i did at last drinks night !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree OP. sometimes I find the topics a little way off or stupid, and yeah a lot of time it is the same people commenting on every topic. But hey, I check the topics out, take a peek if I like what I'm seeing will comment. Otherwise I just move on. I am still a relative newbie here and must admit I am sometimes a little intimidated by some of the more seasoned posters. However, I don't believe RHP forums is the place to win friends and influence people!! So I just cruise on by...,, Gypsy💋- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Splicey... the exit door is only a click away and you're are welcome to use it if freedom of speech and open debates aren't your thing. SF
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RHP User
11 years ago
mmm naaaaaa, I'm just a bad influence but by fuck I'm fun to be around :) Its an each to their own thing Op. I do understand your post and have many a time not put in my 2 cents worth on some of the forum topics after reading them and some of the reply's shaking my head thinking WTF is this about, so guess I have a bit of normality in me after all, but as suggested by others feel free to start a thread or comment on one if you think it is worth it or just do option B "shake your head and go WTF" and move on to the next topic. I think no matter where you go on the big WWW that has forum's and offer a bit of anonymity to people you will always find a few that do not fit in to what some people would class as being normal.
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Splicey
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Splicey... the exit door is only a click away and you're are welcome to use it if freedom of speech and open debates aren't your thing. SF If they weren't my 'thing' I wouldn't have made this thread MrsSplicey
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inspirit
11 years ago
I have posted some interesting and at times controversial topics. Must admit I never once saw you guys adding anything. Ohhhh and who might be attention seeking ..hmmmmmm
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RHP User
11 years ago
A stupid post about stupid posts....very amusing. I, on the other hand, am always serious about the content of my topics!! ;p
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Op , Im a relative newbie on here . I have posted various topics ranging from serious relationship issues to light hearted piss takes. I have always been made to feel welcome by members even if they disagree with my individual views. It's about mutual respect , you give it ...you get it in return. I don't think you understand that (bus crash? Really) Should I ask you about my next forum topic before I post it? You know ...just to get your approval first . Don't want you to think it may be stupid.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never think that you don't belong here 'cause that's bullshit.Don't take it too seriously or it will do your head in. There are generally some good topics on here most of the time. As for the threads or posts you deem as stupid? Just ignore those. Start a good thread of your own and keep trying to find your way in here. It is entirely possible to behave in a genuine and dignified manner in your contributions while still maintaining a sense of fun amongst it all. Take the good with the bad. Agree to disagree. Maybe try posting a comment on one of the educational threads that is getting the sober responses and then maybe switch it up by commenting on a more funny thread, where people are being nonsensical and taking the piss out of themselves and each other, if anything, just to keep a balance. If things get too touchy emotionally or too barbed for you in here then pull back a little. Do something else.Sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees.One day, out of nowhere, you may end up getting a rocket up your arse, from another poster/s, just for stating your opinion? The next day you might be the bees knees (but you won't stay there.)It takes all types. Life goes on. What goes around comes around and what you miss out on the merry-go-round you pick up on the hurdy gurdy!"Just have a bloody go at it", I say.We all can't go through life flat-lining, 'cause that's just boring, and we may as well be dead?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' A stupid post about stupid posts....very amusing. I, on the other hand, am always serious about the content of my topics!! ;p Exactly what I was going to say.FL you also should stop being so serious!
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RHP User
11 years ago
....im new here have been a bit of a voyeur in the forums ,just getting a feel for it , i for one find it quite refreshing to see the openess ,frankness and willingness to share experiences, thoughts, ideas etc especially from the 'regulars' sure some topics, comments etc wont agree with everyone thats what forums are about, i hope you regulars continue with your input i especially like the wit most of you posses, i'll endeavour to add my random crap from time to time , it'll all be tongue in cheek so you've been warned......
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was going to write something but forget now...after reading everyones comments argghhh where was i ...Yes I have had a beauty of a day.OK So I do agree sometimes the topics are .....lacking but it changes over time. Lots of topics have been done and many will come around again. I'm a bit like those that if it interests me I will comment if not I will pass it by. If others add there wit or banter so be it.Sometimes it is sad that so few people post and add their two cents to topics, but then again we all have lives and within those lives things change and make us interested in other things.As I said I have had a cracker of a day ........one that I would really like to move on from.
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ruby_blossum
11 years ago
There are some Topics that come up and I have to double check that I have actually logged on to RHPTime has tempered me with my responses on many forums, most I the time now I just click past them.I, for one have noticed your posts and contributions over the past days.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Hello Mrs Splicey, you are right in your own observations as others are of thiers. Isn't the tapestry of topics and discussion here what draws each and every one of us, besides the obvious search for the next encounter? Before I started to contribute I just enjoyed the reading, the open debate, the characters and believe it or not, love it or hate it, relate to it, disagree with it or take the piss out of it, everyone here usually has something to offer by way of a perspective. How everyone here chooses to interpret that for thenselves is something else. I hope you continue to contribute to what interests you and that the newbs get thier "brave on" and participate in the topics that interest them. The debates here show all facets of behaviour but can we please leave any name calling to our politicians and parliament house debates. Don't take it all so serious, just enjoy the interaction. Stupid, funny, sad, informative, controversial, loving, cheeky, awe inspiring, educational, whatever it's all here in the "pie". The quality of the topics wax and wane and go in cycles. Tis the nature of any open forum. Make love not war . (Thumbs up!!). Yer I'm here for the attention!!! I can admit it.....(cheeky grin and a winky wink)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Hello Mrs Splicey, you are right in your own observations as others are of thiers. Isn't the tapestry of topics and discussion here what draws each and every one of us, besides the obvious search for the next encounter? Before I started to contribute I just enjoyed the reading, the open debate, the characters and believe it or not, love it or hate it, relate to it, disagree with it or take the piss out of it, everyone here usually has something to offer by way of a perspective. How everyone here chooses to interpret that for thenselves is something else. I hope you continue to contribute to what interests you and that the newbs get thier "brave on" and participate in the topics that interest them. The debates here show all facets of behaviour but can we please leave any name calling to our politicians and parliament house debates. Don't take it all so serious, just enjoy the interaction. Stupid, funny, sad, informative, controversial, loving, cheeky, awe inspiring, educational, whatever it's all here in the "pie". The quality of the topics wax and wane and go in cycles. Tis the nature of any open forum. Make love not war . (Thumbs up!!). Yer I'm here for the attention!!! I can admit it.....(cheeky grin and a winky wink) fucking ... luteley .....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Verbal/Mutual Masturbation, Ego stroking, Biased Pivotal Points of view, The Right making others wrong, The Dimwits, The Serial Poster, The serial first respondent. The Clique....And the Nuisance - Me..Been responding here for over 10 years (written Three Posts max) and will give it to you Straight or Thwarted as applicable..However. I do know what/who you mean and the target component indicated..Give them Hell MrsSplicey. It's a free speech country.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wish this place had a karma feature or a 'digg' feature so you could prop the threads and people who are consitently interesting to read from or about.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That people who admit to being judgemental also excuse themselves by saying it's a normal human condition. It's NOT, it's a choice you make. People who are judgemental are often not inclusive, sometimes racists, bigots and may be very discriminating against anyone who is different than themselves. I fail to see how these are not harmful behaviours? The whole concept of judging someone is to measure them against our own ideals and find them lacking in some way, but who is to say our ideals are correct? PS. I've never before been described as ignorant. I'm an articulate, intelligent ,educated woman who just tries to accept every human being in all their glory. Quoting Splicey: I would consider myself judgemental, we're humans, it's kinda what we do and to say you're not is just ignorant in my view.Currently though my judgement doesn't actually impact myself or other people in any real sense so I am unsure of any real issue it would cause anyone.
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RHP User
11 years ago
After having copious amounts of Sex , thanks to RHP , I do like to unwind and read the Forums ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have yet to find one topic that is stimulative and discuss-able .. other than"breast size""Cock size""why dont women like me""is my profile any good?""is my shoes sexy enough?""is this position weird enough for you?""omg.. i broke my nail.. help!""I judge you to be judge mental" <-- kinda contradictory there.. isnt it? lol"using toys from Toys R Us""bukkake.. or was it butt cake?"etc...etc...etc...
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Lifes_great
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' hands over the the Op go for it, as your normal and well I am an attention seeking diva without the core folk here putting up interesting and sometimes not so interesting posts what would we be looking at a blank fucking forum some of the people here have been amazing in how they share information, often their lives up here for all to see so you guys take up the mantel and put your money where your mouth is. If you can make us think, makes us laugh,make us cry and above all make us feel we are not alone in our alternate life style then is a job well done. Lady_T going of singing look a moi look at moi, tra la tra la tra fucking lahattention seeking Diva you
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Diversity This is reality and people here speak there mind to topics they cant talk about to others. I am lucky as I am able to speak about these topics I just know a lot of open minded people. Get out there life is to short.. Steve
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RHP User
11 years ago
I smiled reading your observations and to a large degree it is a valid observation of potential that this forum holds. Which brings me to ask that if 90% is all rubbish, what have you learned, enjoyed, and found amongst the remaining 10%? The 90% is a representation of the complexity of this society as a whole and it is not just concentrated at this site. It is that complexity that we encounter everywhere we go and learn to accept, to distance, and be part of. We all come here for different reasons and from different directions knowingly and as such can walk away. There is hope amongst the 10% for everyone to learn how to listen, how to laugh, how to relax, how to accept, how to behave, how to expand, how to distance and perhaps most importantly how to approach what could be the most wonderful experience in their life. Even from a perspective of those that suffer constipation the toilet doodles on the walls can be a welcoming distraction. A lot of topics go around in circles but again we are true planeteers… orbiting is in our nature. Yet we all exist so that we nudge each other towards greater realisation of self.
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RHP User
11 years ago
ask and keep an open mind that's a good thing.. But yes, the clicky groups who fill the answers with unrelated conversations to each other is annoying. And the people who write sagas (more than 10 lines) need to get outside more ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '2GuysWithRespect'I wish this place had a karma feature or a 'digg' feature so you could prop the threads and people who are consitently interesting to read from or about. Nice idea... SF xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think maybe :)Perhaps,Everyone is analysing this a bit too much.
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RHP User
11 years ago
being one of the "abnormal" people here, I'm going to give my opinion on each of your points raised. Some of the topics you guys choose to talk about, and then the weird conversations that happen within them, makes me truly worried about the types of people who use this website. I need more clarification. Please list topics that you consider “normal” and not “weird”. I’m a tad concerned about the amount of energy you invest reading these topics in order to “worry” about the people posting. What exactly are you “worried” about? And what difference does it actually make to your life? I mean really, are you truly worried that they are not “normal” like you? Do you think these abnormal people should change so you can stop worrying about them? It's like watching a bus crash and it seems to be the same people all the time. What sort of “normal” person sits and watches enough bus crashes to recognize the same passengers. I would warmly suggest, that if you are not going to be constructive and help, drive down a different bloody road. No wonder people are hesitant on meeting with people in this 'scene' when they see the most out spoken on this site as the norm. Back the truck up Sister - Let me understand this a little better. So “outspoken” people are not “normal” either? Seriously? Are you the type to raise kids to be seen and not heard also? And you’re actually saying you know people that are hesitant to meet outspoken people? Where have all the normal people gone? The people who aren't all trying to make the most out there, loaded, attention seeking conversation possible? I’m now thinking they are all sitting quietly next to you watching bus crashes…just sayin’ These forums have so much potential but 90% of what is written is worse than what you would find on a toilet wall. Potential for what exactly? “normal” topics, by “normal” people? What would they be about though? Given that you (a normal person) have enough time on your hands to thoroughly analyse the writings on toilet walls to determine that 90% of the forum topics are worse… I really think you are spending far too much time on these matters kitten. Are you just bored? Are you really that sheltered? Are you that desperate for attention? Are we bored and sheltered. You mean “abnormal” people (I’m including myself here, because comparatively, I really want to stay abnormal). I’d say it’s a fair bet that yep, we are waaaaaay bored off having juicy, slippery, oiled up kinky mind blowing orgasm inducing sex….over and over and over again, while the “normal” people, watch bus crashes and read toilet walls very very quietly as not to appear outspoken and gain attention. I know I'm coming across as very rude and judgemental, but every time I read the forums I feel that I really don't belong here. Nooo, you rude & judgmental? Perish the thought, then again maybe those behaviours are assets to normal people…hmmm so many qualities you lot have. As for not belonging here – yeah, I mean realistically, and I’m sure you have worked out the percentages, just how many public toilets are there, that you could be off reading the walls of? I think it would have to be a better use of your time. It's like everyone is trying to out do each other and be the most sexual member. I also have to remind myself that RHP does not equal the forums, it's just shame because it could being a lot of people in. No-one’s trying to out do each other because it’s me, I’m the most sexual member and anyone who wants to challenge me can….bring bubbles, twister and a bottle of baby oil biatches….it’s on. Oops, sorry, my bad, it was a little outspoken wasn’t it?
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RHP User
11 years ago
For a good time mail 50z( insert squirting cock and balls graphic 'ere)
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Lifes_great
11 years ago
You are hot when you're all fired up! 2 extra gold stars in my little black book for you!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' That people who admit to being judgemental also excuse themselves by saying it's a normal human condition. It's NOT, it's a choice you make. Halleluiah - Thank you for saying it Karynb.
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RHP User
11 years ago
All I can say isI couldn't have said it better myselfbut to addWho gives a fuck anyway. I'm new here and if I want to blog about something and you don't like it...don't read itThat is all
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RHP User
11 years ago
Since joining RHP a couple of months ago I have personally enjoyed reading the views of people on the different topics. If you don't like the forum topic then don't read it or follow it after all no one makes you read them. Keep up the good work I say.
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Splicey
11 years ago
Just want to say hi to the people who have msg'ed me and said thank you for making this thread as they feel the same way or felt that it was time for some cages to be rattled.MrsSplicey
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RHP User
11 years ago
I second what lifes_great said. :) But guys I think maybe she didn't entirely mean to call everyone abnormal or attention seekers. Everyone has a bad day and I think what she was trying to say came out wrong. Very wrong.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mrs Splicey, I find the forums to be quite good, generally humorous and sometimes witty. I have learn quite a bit of things I never knew before and well, it is a great avenue to meet new people and air your views or share your experiences. The forums are not polished nor great literature but it is live and unplugged which I think is one of it's strengths. There are some people who post in almost every thread. So what? They might have a lot of say.I've met some of the people who post here. They are nice people and fun to hang out with. I don't agree with some of what they write, but that does not mean I don't like them as a person. People should agree to disagree. I know you think there is nothing much in the forums, you might have a point but I say have a deeper look. You can usually find something for everyone's taste, you just need to look for it rather than expect it to come to you. I have to admit though that some of the threads are starting to get a bit repetitive but I guess it would be if you are on here long enough. Ok, 10 lines exactly so this is not a saga ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey whichever of you M/F or as a CPL I should address this too.. Welcome to the Forums..:) I'm glad you stopped lurking here and decided to get your opinion across by adding a Thread of your own. Variety in Topics is Important as it broadens our own Perspectives on many things.Everyone has a right to voice it as long as it keeps in the Boundaries of acceptable behaviour.. We don't have to agree with the Thread or those Opinions People share in their Replies if not share yours or Pass it by.. As for Myself I'm not Bored, Sheltered or seeking Attention . God for bit I fall into the Catagorie of being Norma. Frankly one tends to agree with some of my Posts not all. But I do try and make them Informative for those seeking assistance ,Interesting with a sense of fun or compassion depending on the Topic. Now the question comes back to You .We've read your Opinion of the People on the Forums you don't like . So Please Enlighten those you feel aren't normal by sharing with us Topics and Opinions that are and how it can be changed called constructive criticism.. Not just criticism. .Or just don't bother with the Forums or RHP I guess. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just making the observation that as you chose to comment on the content of many forums and how you don't like a lot of the posted topics. My suggestion is to post a few topics that DO interest you and see what happens. While there are numerous topics that keep coming up again and again as spartan is noted, there have been topics on music, literature, books, the nature of beauty, many aspects of human behaviour and psychology. There are plenty of topic that I choose not to respond too and a close friend noted not too long ago that my posting is fairly sporadic and often depends on if I have time off or the mood I am in and that sounds right. One of the big pluses of forums is that you can post any topic you like, so if the topics being discussed are not to your liking, start some threads that are and I am sure there will be many responses.
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RHP User
11 years ago
and I confess I really don't understand what it's all about. OP, what are the specific types of posts that you consider rubbish? Is it the posts about sex? Or the posts not about sex? Is it the clique? Or is it the total toss pots who can barely string a word together. Are some posts too intellectual and high brow for a sex site? Or are some just too trite or dumb? See, my sense is that there's a pretty wide range of posts on a whole bunch of different topics, with quite a large number of posters expressing vastly different opinions. And to make it easier to find something that interests us, RHP has kindly organised threads into categories so we can skip over themes we're not fussed about. And of course, everyone has the freedom to start a new thread or add a comment at any time. I don't find all threads interesting and some posters tend to pis me off, but in the end my life is far too full and interesting to get riled up by what other people do on these forums. So I have to say, I just don't get what the problem is.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
popcorns in the pot.....
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting you "No-one’s trying to out do each other because it’s me, I’m the most sexual member and anyone who wants to challenge me can….bring bubbles, twister and a bottle of baby oil biatches….it’s on. Oops, sorry, my bad, it was a little outspoken wasn’t it?" Challenge accepted ;-). I'm a bubbly drinking twister champion and baby oil fabatic from waaaaaay back! (Wonder if Paintme will lend me Bruno?). Sorry Mrs Splicey, your topics just been hijacked ;-D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' popcorns in the pot..... ....it's not pot in the popcorn. We're already silly enough.
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inspirit
11 years ago
Think I told you once before I love you GREAT POST!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Quoting you "No-one’s trying to out do each other because it’s me, I’m the most sexual member and anyone who wants to challenge me can….bring bubbles, twister and a bottle of baby oil biatches….it’s on. Oops, sorry, my bad, it was a little outspoken wasn’t it?" Challenge accepted ;-). I'm a bubbly drinking twister champion and baby oil fabatic from waaaaaay back! (Wonder if Paintme will lend me Bruno?). Sorry Mrs Splicey, your topics just been hijacked ;-D Bruno is just a little bit excited about the thought of attaching himself to Indy's nether regions ...
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On_Safari
11 years ago
(Blushing BIG TIME!!!). Come on Paintme, I'll take you and Miss Poppins with/without Bruno haha.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh please, if you think you're good enough and can handle this (runs off squealing with excitement at the thought of us all together)Inspirit - I love you too FourHands - Thank youLifes Great - Cheeky bugger
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On_Safari
11 years ago
If I bet on all 3 of us I'm bound to WIN SOMETHING!!! Oh damn my twister spinny thingy is bwoken, you got one Paintme / Miss P? Love the pic too Miss P but you don't scare me ;-D ..... much!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have posted a few useless topics today...MY BAD....wish I could have gotten that other one past the mods the other day.Hate being sensored.
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inspirit
11 years ago
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subgal_gc
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' If I bet on all 3 of us I'm bound to WIN SOMETHING!!! Oh damn my twister spinny thingy is bwoken, you got one Paintme / Miss P? Love the pic too Miss P but you don't scare me ;-D ..... much!! just play spin the bottle instead? I am sure that could get a whole lot more interesting than twister with the three of you involved...hehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now I know you girls are bored hence the fascinating conversation to make MrsSplicey happy. Inspirit, I think I need a bigger strapon attachment.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This debate should have occurred at the meet and greet in Sydney this weekend...I'd be interested to see if people are still so direct when face to face and not behind the keyboard :-p MissPoppins, I haven't forgotten the MSG I owe you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'submissivegalgc' Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' If I bet on all 3 of us I'm bound to WIN SOMETHING!!! Oh damn my twister spinny thingy is bwoken, you got one Paintme / Miss P? Love the pic too Miss P but you don't scare me ;-D ..... much!! just play spin the bottle instead? I am sure that could get a whole lot more interesting than twister with the three of you involved...hehe Spin the Dong ?
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inspirit
11 years ago
Shhooosh.... I keep getting messages from the young subs in here. They want me too do rude things to them ;)
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Splicey
11 years ago
Quoting 'anythingrightnow' This debate should have occurred at the meet and greet in Sydney this weekend...I'd be interested to see if people are still so direct when face to face and not behind the keyboard :-p MissPoppins, I haven't forgotten the MSG I owe you. I've only met one person off RHP and that was Leesa at Couples International, very briefly at the door.Unfortunately I do not live in Sydney, but if there is a similar event up here I'll gladly have the same 'debate' in personMrsSplicey
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RHP User
11 years ago
In honour of MrsSplicey's thread, I dare someone to start one of the following topcis :-Boys, the biggest strapon cock you have ever seen? Uncut strapons.......good or bad?What would you say is an average size strapon?Does strapon size matter? Length or girth. Which is more important for anal sex. Actually they are not half bad. Mwahhahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd love to but I need more experience to comment with any authority.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do all strap-ons taste the same?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do profile pics of strapons turn you off? PMSL
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
strapons reply to my messages ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
But I think anything to excess is just plain boring. We all judge, to say that you're not judgemental is, in my mind a silly thing to say. We like what we like, is usually what we say to sound not so harsh about it. Being judgemental simply means you have personal standards that you won't compromise on in my belief. Otherwise, EVERYONE would be eye candy, etc. but that would that would eliminate a very basic thing called choice eh??- Posted from rhpmobile
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
I love; hang on gotta face book it lingo. i like you or it; this post do all strap -ons taste the same. now that could be a cool post. Who is going to sample them. now does this mean used strap-ons or brand newies. Something different I bought a brand new check shirt not from woolies but a designer lable check shirt. Does that make me a cool bogan or an educated bogan. If went to uni as well that would make me professional bogan now theres a topic. sorry I got off topic. guess i was bored. bugger the forums oops naughty bisexual word bugger
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RHP User
11 years ago
What is with the large number of stupid threads?Is this a stupid thread?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mrs Splicey, I know you can't be talking about me in your OP because I've hardly posted at all lately, let alone posted a thread lol.IMO, as much as I believe you could have made your points better, it wouldn't have mattered how you'd you'd phrased your OP, it would have gotten the same general response as it has. As far as the people who have messaged you privately to support your position goes, I would have been more impressed to see their opinions posted here in the forum where everyone could see what they have to say (again, not that I think that would have made a big difference to the tone of the thread). Speak up people if you have something to say. On the topic, I thought the forums had been a bit better lately but having followed this thread and now seen the point of your post proved in the last couple of pages, I'm all over that. And this is supposed to be an adult site. :-( Lastly, The forum seems the perfect place to me to bring up an issue regarding the forums rather than at a social meet n greet. Though I am curious if many of the people who have posted on the thread would still be so direct when face to face and not behind the keyboard.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do get sick of the nonsense conversations that go on on most threads. It's like most topics are Anything and Everything threads these days... Makes it hard to tell one thread from another! Boring...
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inspirit
11 years ago
It's just a bit of fun. I really do NOT understand why people get all bent out of shape when a thread has some chin chin added too it. Ms Peachy.....Over the years I have seen you flirt your arse off on some threads, therefore I think what you are saying is a little hypocritical?! (Ummm yep seen you go off track) As for people winging about the locals in here. Why don't YOU post more often and hey, you just might have some light hearted fun. Join in on the banter, heaven forbid you just may crack a smile. You may even strike up a friendship or 10.Ms Splice....I am not bored, an attention seeker nor sheltered. Many of us have posted very personal stories on here and in turn there have been some absolutely amazing forums. Some times we do just fuck around and that is ok.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You say some, I say most... we have differing opinions.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'tickled_kink' Verbal/Mutual Masturbation, Ego stroking, Biased Pivotal Points of view, The Right making others wrong, The Dimwits, The Serial Poster, The serial first respondent. The Clique....And the Nuisance - Me..Been responding here for over 10 years (written Three Posts max) and will give it to you Straight or Thwarted as applicable..However. I do know what/who you mean and the target component indicated..Give them Hell MrsSplicey. It's a free speech country.
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inspirit
11 years ago
Bugger I have too go to work.... stay tuned folks for the strap on thread
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RHP User
11 years ago
The reason strap-ons don't reply to messages, is because, their stuck up cunts! Thought that was obvious ~grins~ Mr S
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RHP User
11 years ago
To check out and read the content ..... or not. If something is offensive or gross then why read then complain? This is an adult site so there is bound to be normal and riske behaviour according to our own perception, it also determines and weeds out for ourselves who we would or would not like to meet, it is better to get an idea on the internet before embarking on a journey to the unknown.It can be a much safer way to meet people before hand(if you use your intuition and commonsense by asking the pertinent questions on your mind), rather than meeting people in the street or in clubs and you don't really have a chance to vet them before meeting them, in clubs you can get drunk obnoxious pesky types who won't say no for an answer, at least on the web you can just ignore and block, or get a notion of what sort of person they are by asking carefully crafted questions.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't mind me I really have nothing to add that would make a shred of difference to the topic at hand, nor can I give any reply upon strap-on cocks as I'm yet to experience one. Mind you not sure I'm quite ready for that just yet. Just thought I'd pop my nose in and say g'day as I have been in hibernation for sometime. Excuse my rudeness. Please continue... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' In honour of MrsSplicey's thread, I dare someone to start one of the following topcis :-Boys, the biggest strapon cock you have ever seen? Uncut strapons.......good or bad?What would you say is an average size strapon?Does strapon size matter? Length or girth. Which is more important for anal sex. Actually they are not half bad. Mwahhahaha Whats your stapon's nickname? or the best nickname you have heard ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
There was a strap-on nicknamed Warrenwho hid behind a sporranbecause it was his habit to act like a rabbitand hide out in any available warren
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