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Younger guys wanting older women.
April 19 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is all about fantasy, that or thinking if older you would have to be experienced
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RHP User
10 years ago
I honestly believe it's because they think we are a bunch of old desperate women with no standards. And I have been here a few years too, never been with a guy under 30 although I have been told I may be missing out but I have a son now in his late twenties, as he ages though I wonder will I dare to experiment. Some will say that we may teach them a thing or to but seriously whose into that Im into teaching each other. I unfortunately find it will be hard to get a real answer as not everyone is involved or even know the forums exist
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RHP User
10 years ago
Because they will have sex with them. Any port in a storm type of thing.
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
When I was 18 or so, I was at a backyard party when a woman of about 35 and I hooked up. We were both single, and she was keen. What I was after was someone with more experience than I, and who knew what she was doing. She taught me a few things that night, I can tell you. And that, OP, is why. It's win win for all involved. All good! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Older women are more comfortable in their own skin and therefore more confident and outgoing. I guess choosing between a slightly lumpy and saggy 40-something (I mean me) with no hang-ups, and a young firm model who will only move in certain angles to avoid showing the "flaws" she thinks she has* is sometimes easy. And then there's the experience of course... *Yes, yes, sweeping generalisation.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I remember being told about a woman up in the housing commission complex teaching a few very young boys....they just wanted to get their dick wet.........she helped out by scratching her itch. I know because I heard it from my son and his mates...............god knows if she taught them anything I hope safe sex................
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inspirit
10 years ago
Older woman fuck and fuck better IMO - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Twisted_Mister covered most of it..... My sexperience in the late 70's n early 80's older women used to pay for drinks, a feed and then scuttle you home. Not sure what they do now other than the obvious Back then it was referred to as "Grab a Granny".....2015 is a whole different ball game
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RHP User
10 years ago
Older women don't want to marry them,don't want to have their babies,are less likely to become attached and it's all over porn sites..and like Inspirit says...we know how to fuck..simples xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I first joined the Army (young) I had I thing for older women. I lived with one who was 11 years older than me for 9 years, and it was great. Now I am 51 I have a thing for younger women, go figure. And it still is great mmmm.
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couplefairride
10 years ago
a young fella at the gym said he over the young starfishes. Apparently lie In bed and do nothing. Hence he's moving on to cougars or barracuda in his opinion. Interesting point of view. Her. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
fat old housewives are begging for it according to a message I received a few months ago when I asked the 21 year old what the fascination was!!!! 😕 Then by another nice guy I was told I would be able to teach him a thing or two. I go for guys my age because I like maturity. In saying that there are plenty of nice guys that a mature for their age 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why do they? inspirit pretty much said it all, we fuck and we fuck good. I'll add to that though that i feel like a box to be ticked much of the time, usually don't mind if they tick my box well enough lol but unlike many other mature women, i do like them young, and really don't like going into the thirties, so sue me, just a preference. My ideal age bracket, and this is based on experience, is the mid twenties, 27 has always been a winner, don't ask me why. I like sexual heat and energy, full on, and though I may be judged as going for babies, trust me they're not babies. They are fully consenting young men and seem to like confident women who are comfortable with themselves and like someone else said, who won't want to marry them and have their babies, though there's the odd one i'd still marry shh lol I definitely wouldn't be having their babies. Social media allows people of all ages to get together in private, many work hard, some 7 days a week, and quite often don't have time to go to pubs and clubs and don't want to waste their hard earned money and these guys when they do sneak a bit of time, want to make it count, that's where we come in, and i'm not stupid, to learn from us. So what's the harm win win - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The young ones will test drive and old car but want the luxury of a much newer model
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's as simple as those particular guys being attracted to you? Why does it have to be strange or weird or a fetish? It's not like you're a dead corpse
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I'm one of those guys. (Well maybe I used to be, I'm 34 now). Sex with younger girls is all about trying to be a porn star instead of actually enjoying things. I Suppose it's also just something "different" from the norm. I think I'm in a much much happier place with an older woman.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I refuse to believe I'm desperate, a port in a storm, something for guys to get their dick wet or an old car.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not always. Younger guys Ive dated say you have better conversation and company as well as better sex, with older women. One 29 year old used to take me out ....we went to dinner, he turned up in a siut. So I agree with Fit, they like you for who you are regardless of age, enjoy the attention.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
to decide if its curiosity, desperation or other. I tread carefully and yet to accept any one under half my age. And that still leaves a vast range. But some of the under 30's can be very persuasive but still not sure why they want an old tranny. Mind you, no one has left weighing the same as when they arrived and isn't that the purpose. And perhaps a tick on their fucket list and everyone is happy. Annie
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RHP User
10 years ago
Reading this thread has brought a topic to mind I may have to put up.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't smell, don't swell and don't tell !
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
I think it can often be as simply stated as..... (in here) they see older women as fair game. And for those who doubt that generalisation.... ask.... would they be happy being seen in public with those older women (that they've contacted in here, at least).
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me, it's that older women are more confident, are comfortable with their bodies, know what they like and what we (men) like, don't get attached easily, and can actually have good in depth conversations about many different subjects. I appreciate them and they appreciate me, and there is generally no bullshit with them :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is where are the young women wanting older men? For their easy going good conversation, maturity and experience of course ... ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will bite..DG could you please try harder to be more insulting...Freddie,I think there are a few websites dedicated to just that😜..And the economic realities of life have changed,..I think that is why it is harder for old men to find much younger women....but most older men have much younger women as a preference I am sure if forced to choose between an intelligent sexy woman over fifty you would,as stated on your profile choose the sexy twenty - five year old..I wish you good fortune in your search xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing wrong with both parties enjoying the age difference...win/win I say 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
i agree with DG. That isn't to say once they meet the older woman in question that a genuine friendship or relationship can't develop but I pretty much believe most blokes on here think most women are fair game and that probably older women might even be grateful to get a young stud in their bed. Of course not all young men are disrespectful and most are probably very nice but I still think they are after any port in a storm. Soz.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I refuse to believe I'm desperate, a port in a storm, something for guys to get their dick wet or an old car. You don't believe it even though you are hearing it from the horses mouth so to speak? I think all men are here to get their dick wet, regardless of their assertion that they are after a connection crapola they talk about. Of course relationships and friendship can and do develop, but I still think their initial motivation for the meeting is dipping their wick. Here and in the real world.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Disagree . Have had fwbs more than happy to be seen out with me , go on dates , be seen kissing in public and yes they've been younger , far from desperate and could have their pick of younger ladies . I think people tend to look to hard into things instead of enjoying the attraction ( if there ) for what it is . Most of the younger guys are the ones that have treated me really well and ended up long term fwbs .. ! if anything my worst experiences , have been with older men !
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't go for younger guys as per se and there is a cut off point wouldn't go under 25 but OP trust me when i say .. you would be quite suprised at what some younger guys have to offer , compared to some of the older men . I actually find the older they are .. the more selfish they are .. especially sexually . I myself find that younger guys like older women because they are more comfortable / confident .. more experienced , or they have had their first experience with an older woman and prefer to continue with that .. just like anyone .. we all have a sexual preference , you like what you like !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I think it can often be as simply stated as..... (in here) they see older women as fair game. And for those who doubt that generalisation.... ask.... would they be happy being seen in public with those older women (that they've contacted in here, at least). precisely with a brief email exchange I just had with a 30 year old after I told him he wasn't what I was looking for. My refusal was based on his tired template "looking for no strings attached blah blah blah..." His response was that if he wanted a girlfriend he'd seek someone his own age but he's always wanted to experience something casual with an older woman and "can I see your PG?" I politely declined and thanked him for reminding me why I don't respond to younger men. There may be the odd exception but generally if they are on this website, the cougar thing is just something that young guys want to tick off their fuckit list. If an older woman is comfortable with that arrangement then that's fantastic, but I think if a woman thinks it's because the young man genuinely want to spend time with her and would consider a relationship with her... she's kidding herself.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I myself from a young age from 16 have always found myself more attracted to older woman so to speak. 10 to 18 years older then myself. This is something that has not left, I love the fact that there is a lot less bs more honesty and up from with each others wants needs. I have no problem being seen out with a older woman at all
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you, that sums up my feelings about this subject. I wouldnt seek a relationship with anyone much younger than myself, but Ive had a couple of ongoing situations with younger men and they have been very respectful, taken me out to dinner, and we have had a good time in each others company, not just the sex, but having fun, lots of laughter. They make me feel young! Ive met guys my age who were, quite frankly, boring, and wanted to skip any drinks and get straight down to business. I think young guys on here get a very bad rap, and in a lot of cases deservedly so, but as long as I can enjoy someones company and am left smiling the whole day after, his age, quite frankly, is irrelevant.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Be honest,a gorgeous hot body...what's not to love..Sometimes I am just happy to be some young mans play thing 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Thank you, that sums up my feelings about this subject. I wouldnt seek a relationship with anyone much younger than myself, but Ive had a couple of ongoing situations with younger men and they have been very respectful, taken me out to dinner, and we have had a good time in each others company, not just the sex, but having fun, lots of laughter. They make me feel young! Ive met guys my age who were, quite frankly, boring, and wanted to skip any drinks and get straight down to business. I think young guys on here get a very bad rap, and in a lot of cases deservedly so, but as long as I can enjoy someones company and am left smiling the whole day after, his age, quite frankly, is irrelevant. Thankyou Koko :) If only i were 10 years older in the WA, wink wink.As long as you have a good time, is all that matters ( with or without sex )
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Thank you, that sums up my feelings about this subject. I wouldnt seek a relationship with anyone much younger than myself, but Ive had a couple of ongoing situations with younger men and they have been very respectful, taken me out to dinner, and we have had a good time in each others company, not just the sex, but having fun, lots of laughter. They make me feel young! Ive met guys my age who were, quite frankly, boring, and wanted to skip any drinks and get straight down to business. I think young guys on here get a very bad rap, and in a lot of cases deservedly so, but as long as I can enjoy someones company and am left smiling the whole day after, his age, quite frankly, is irrelevant. long as I can enjoy someones company and am left smiling the whole day after, his age, quite frankly, is irrelevant. i think that line sums it up perfect
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Meander' I refuse to believe I'm desperate, a port in a storm, something for guys to get their dick wet or an old car. You don't believe it even though you are hearing it from the horses mouth so to speak? I think all men are here to get their dick wet, regardless of their assertion that they are after a connection crapola they talk about. Those horses tend to not make it past the first message. I'll take the guys that appreciate me for me, not because I'm a cunt on legs.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Give me a lady my age (give or take five years) any day
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RHP User
10 years ago
How sweet. But you will always be a cunt on legs to me. ;-))) I don't think it's a personal thing, just blokes chasing sex. Always has been and will always will be no doubt. You've got to bless their little cotton socks really. If you "cougs" are into younger men than it's a win / win really isn't it? And if you are lucky, a beautiful friendship may come out of it. Or they may keep you a secret so their mates won't give them ribbing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was asked once by a woman I was with that was about 20 years older why I liked older women. it wasn't the fact that she was older that attracted me to her. it was the fact she was confident, interesting, open minded, experimental, brutally honest about her wants and needs, physically attractive, had a positive happy attitude and I was just generally very comfortable being with her and around her. we conversed well and got along well from the start. Hell if I meet someone with all those qualities, at any age, im gonna be attracted to them. I don't even know how old she is and I don't really even care :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Different people have different reasons for doing what they do. Sure, some guys think older women are fair game, and some guys think older women are desperate. Then there are the guys who like older women because we're more confident, know what we're doing in bed and are not looking for relationships etc. There's no single simple answer to the question. And I think you can easily tell by their messages which younger guys are just looking to get their dick wet, and which ones will treat you with respect and won't have an issue being seen in public with you. I had a lover who was 15 years younger than me & I asked him once how he felt about the age difference. He just said that he'd never considered my age, all he knew was that he wanted me - simple as that. And he was more than happy to be seen in public with me... I was the one who didn't want to do any of that because it was too 'relationship-py'. Much love,Elle xx
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langton11
10 years ago
Over the last year I've had 3 young woman hit me up. 2 were mid 20's and 1 was 19 I had to decline all completely, I just can't do that no mater how attractive they are, 30+ for me thanks. There are some gorgeous 50+ woman out there I might add; my best friend is a 57 year old woman and I'd hit her up in the blink of an eye if we both weren't married, chemistry is chemistry. These experiences led me to start conversations with a few younger women re 'why are younger girls going for older guys' and the common theme that came back was that younger guys are selfish and just want to play video games now. it's a generalisation I'm sure but I'm sure there is some truth in it. Anyway, that's my 2c worth......as you were
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is why we are friends. You are the most non judgemental person I know, you accept everyone for who they are. In fact, you drummed it into me that I shouldnt worry about age or, indeed, any other deciding factor. Thanks, buddy xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I'm in lust with you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'You've got to bless their little cotton socks really. If you "cougs" are into younger men than it's a win / win really isn't it? Quoting 'subperthguy'confident, interesting, open minded, experimental, brutally honest about her wants and needs, physically attractive, had a positive happy attitude and I was just generally very comfortable being with her and around her. we conversed well and got along well from the start. Hell if I meet someone with all those qualities, at any age, im gonna be attracted to them. Unfortunately I've only met (in person) three twenty-something year-olds here who were just what subperthguy describes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I think I'm in lust with you. Why thank you! :) after reading your profile I think the feeling may be mutual, love what you have written :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' This is why we are friends. You are the most non judgemental person I know, you accept everyone for who they are. In fact, you drummed it into me that I shouldnt worry about age or, indeed, any other deciding factor. Thanks, buddy xx Thanks hun, glad I've made an impression! I'm still learning myself :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
You really are crap at discerning my motives, but 10/10 for presumption ;-) The older men were all young once, and maybe, just maybe have grown a tad tired of the chase and the bulldust that women put up (sometimes) and possibly may have decided .. its now time for me! So they only LOOK selfish but really are sweetys underneath. Isn't that mostly the attitude of the cougars here wanting someone half their age? Give those young studs a few more years and they will become sad angry depressed divorced overweight cynical bastards too! Bahahaha. My question now is, where have all the 70 year old cougars gone ????? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Surely it is each to their own in what that they actually desire.We are very quick to ask questions when it falls outside of what some may find the norm, but when it comes down to it we each have our own reasons. i particularly like women 60+. i find them more attentive, honest and relaxed with themselves - what you see is what you get and for me that is a major turn on.Chris
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RHP User
10 years ago
Their brain......forget the stifflers mum shit that some will try to disguise....their(women aged 35-50) conversation is usually more in alignment with their views and not based upon trying to impress anyone....
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compressor
10 years ago
there are a lot of very very sexy older ladies out there and any man or woman would love to get naked with them
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blkcapricornday
10 years ago
Really, I think it's very similar to why some younger girls like older guys. Older girls are fun. They've honed the skill of differentiating trivial from the important, and don't waste effort or worry on the former. From my experience older women laugh more and judge less. Wisdom/brains/personality are fucking sexy too. Call it an oedipus complex if you like, maybe it is, maybe it isn't. A 'woman's' body is sexy. Younger girls are sexy too, but it's different. Full curves, full breasts, it's very primal for guys. Must be coded in the dna somewhere, lol. Age discrepancy/dynamic to me is hell sexy. Have a serious soft spot for both older and younger women.
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
Yesterday I was teaching a tap dancing class... The class age ranged from 18 to 73... All were ex or current professional dancers, all wearing tap shoes and dance wear and seriously I could not see much difference in the women despite age- all could move perfectly, body shapes all similar, talked amongst each other easily, maybe skin difference but that wasn't even apparent because they were all so absorbed in the performance that that is all you watched... I really think age/aging with women is so in their head... And this comes out physically when they are self conscious but when involved in something like sex or dancing they lose the self consciousness and roles they put themselves in and just become a female or themselves.... Maybe this is what these young guys see... I don't know ... But I think it's sad that people think as they get older they become less attractive to anyone Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
To answer your question..I is gettin' there..Violet.what a lovely post 😘xxFreya
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qldstud
10 years ago
For me, it's the allure of something different to the usual. Experience & confidence is sexy!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well in my case, I prefer older for being more mature, confident and more engaging, all for personality and sex itself :P. I lost my v card to an nice 40yo women quite a years back, she definitely taught me a lot! May have also that because I was more quiet and kept to myself at the time, older women gave me the chance that younger ones didn't. Regardless, women of all ages are sexy! :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
Somewhat like the bigger girls post that went around? Regardless of age if a lady takes self pride and stands with true confidence within her self then she is super sexy... When I say say confidence I don't mean arrogance as some have had that and it's a turn off regardless of how hot they look. For me it's about being honest with ones self...
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precious142
10 years ago
Younger guys want to have sexual encounters with older women.....And quite frankly , my dear.....I don't give a damn!!!!!If I would not have accepted a flirt and a message from a 24yo and a 23 yo, I would have missed out on exceptional experiences.......and life changing moments! Each younger I have met has bought something different to the table, not just the bed!Ask not what they can do for their country, but ask what they can do for YOU!!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Menander is have to agree. You're no port, more of a champange. Regardless I would think the experience and expectation are the reasons why. And the thrill of the chase!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I Agree. The older women get, the better they get in bed. I've experimented with older and the older they were, the more passionate, giving, sensual and great they were
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I was 23 I thought 30 was old and someone in their 40's ancient. When I first joined RHP at 39 I couldn't get my hrs around bonking a bloke in his 40's. Of course the first guy I met and spent 3-4 mths with lied to me and was actually 48. That was a bit of a shock for me. I admit I am totally ageist.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am totally surprised that a 23 year old would go for someone in their 50's & 60's. I certainly see most guys in that age group as children. Too skinny, fluffed up hair and skiing jeans with their undies hanging out. Computer says "Not a day chance in hell!" :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get messages from 18 year olds..so it is either a granny porn fetish ..or..well ..just opportunism xxFreya
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Well I hadn't even looked at this thread until now, it's been and interesting read.....Has me reassessing the way I've been looking at things, so thank you everyone...💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' I get messages from 18 year olds..so it is either a granny porn fetish ..or..well ..just opportunism xxFreya That's what I said in the beginning!! I am sorry, and I may think about this different when I am in my 50's and 60's, but a woman close to her 60's playing with 23 year old is definitely in the dirty old woman category... the same way I view older men with very young girls. This is probably more in response to Precious's comment.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Dirty old women". I dont see any problem with young guys who look for older women on here. Its a fantasy come true for them and a very nice experience for the woman. A win win situation. As for naming Precious, she is a friend of mine and one of the loveliest people you could meet........ Truth be told, I prefer younger guys and its nobody elses business. If that makes me a dirty old woman, I shake my head?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes and I am sure some 22 or 23 year olds are mature but for me, when I see guys at this age I usually think of Them as kids. So damn right I find it disturbing that an older women would find a kid attractive. I also find it hard to believe that a young fit man would find someone almost 40 years his senior attractive. And yes, if we can hound a guy on here because he has young women I fail to see the difference between him and this situation. There is none. Blokes that young.... Ewww.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And you are entitled to it. Far more "ewwwww" to me than age difference is an obsession with shagging guys up the bum, but thats just my opinion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's not the age difference I object too. It is the fact that I see men that age as.... Boys. Children.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Where do you draw the line? 19? 18? 17?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
I know what im buying you for christmas. A big black strap on. .......
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RHP User
10 years ago
And yes Koko, I know that people will view me as a disgusting, vile and perverted individual because of my kinks. I can accept that. No skin off my nose. In the same way, you should accept that some people will view you as a dirty old woman taking advantage of young men if you have sex with someone under say 24 or 25. It's just my opinion of course. Interesting point, I was speaking to a Judge last year and she was telling me how they are advocating that the age of youth detention centres be raised to 25 because males do not really mature until that 25 and are still involving themselves in risky behaviour without filling understanding the consequences. I thought that was interesting.
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RHP User
10 years ago
haha fuck meeka take me for a spin]
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RHP User
10 years ago
Id prefer pink, thank you, some of those black babies look scary. It will have pride of place on my mantlepiece ; )
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You certainly like to hammer home a point when someone falls outside your boundaries of what is acceptable to YOU. Is it Meeka's way or no way?
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
We as people, will always have difference of opinions on ages differences...... What happens to me and what I struggle with, is my mummy mode kicks in and it just feels wrong to me, predatory even. I constantly have a go at Chev about him preying on very young women, so it wouldn't be right for me to say it's ok for woman to do it and not for men.... I like that I have my age preferences, would I drop them by a few years for the right man, yes I would if there was something that appealed to me, but I still couldn't play with someone as young as my sons, it's just me, I can't get my head around it.....💋
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Black, pink. Im not a fan of the brown ones though.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find that the conversation and flirting that is had with women above my age is often far more interesting! The 'thrill of the chase' so to speak. This is not to say that women my age and younger do not offer the same things, it has just been more fun with older women, in my experience. When I was in my late teens I had a couple of experiences with women in their late 40s, both were glorious both conversationally and sexually, and if they were 'dirty old women', then I certainly had no problem in them being so. Consenting adults and all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
No, just explaining my point Annie. Sorry thought this place was for a passionate debate. I will whimper out like the rest of you then.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Brown would so not go with my colour scheme...... And thank you xxxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I once slipped and ended up on a 20 year-old (that's my story and I'm sticking with it), but I agree with Meeka that having sex with someone closer to three times in age is an ewww for me too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a purple and a black one, but brown or flesh-coloured once are a big EWWW for me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need to get my eyes checked. Feeling positively old now.
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Way2go70
10 years ago
From a guys point of view I rarely get young women seeking me out for sexual encounters (I know boo hoo haha....). It has happened and those occasions I have declined because like some have posted I have a 19yo daughter and that's a bit too close to home for me. It is bad enough that her friends will parade around my house when they are here with her in clothing that is suggestive to say the least!!!! Attractive girls, yes. Go there, hell no!!!!!! Now, ladies in their 30's to me are way up on the list. Why, well I find that they have lived enough to know themselves and have some maturity, but not lived long enough to know themselves and be completely mature... if that makes any sense. So for someone that has probably lived too long and can't work out if he is mature or not they are a breath of fresh air, and dare I say w hole lot of fun..... I may not be as good as I was once but I am as good once as I ever was lol. Then again, the older woman thing still has attraction for me too and there are a couple of exquisite ladies that I have recently met who are a little older that are both very engaging and very very sexy..... just my humble opinion :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is not an answer as I'm no psych but more my personal feelings based on experience :) I have found that for me as the male half it has has come down to maturity, although mrsac33 and I are exactly 1 year, 1 month and 1 day apart she has a very mature head on her shoulders and is what i call an "old" soul. Yes for a lot of guys it's purely for a fantasy or fetish thing. I genuinely have always had an attraction to older more matured women for the fact that.. I always have.. and always will relate to an older crowd. Mature adults seem to be more confident, have their life sorted out by now, have a clear direction and know what they want in life and out of a relationship. I find the conversation more stimulating and appropriate to the life experiences, being in the presence of an older person is also somewhat relaxing and more comfortable and the sex can be and is a more fulfilling and intimate experience. I lost my virginity to a woman in her early forties. I can't say for sure whether that has had some sort of affect on my preference but in saying that.... who knows
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me the reason I like older women is that they're less judgemental, they're often more open to different things, they're more likely to use me for just getting them off and sending me home to finish myself, they've often got far less hang ups and aren't afraid to get vocal when they enjoy something. I also prefer older women because, well they're usually more fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You don't believe it even though you are hearing it from the horses mouth so to speak? I think all men are here to get their dick wet, regardless of their assertion that they are after a connection crapola they talk about. Of course relationships and friendship can and do develop, but I still think their initial motivation for the meeting is dipping their wick. Here and in the real world. Unfortunately Meeks it's so true... As a sex us males are genetically flawed.. You just have look at Animal channel to see the proof. It doesn't matter how civilized we males think we are, we are still driven by our basic instinctual urge to procreate. And we think we are the dominant sex..?? How many guys are out there desperately paying for sex right now? The answer... Shitloads more than women.. Any day.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only if you call me Mummy and I get to smack your bott bott. ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Between having an opinion ,a preference,and being judgemental and shaming someone...a man who is over 18 is an adult,able to vote,able to join the military ,go to war and able to make choices about how he wants to express his sexuality...as I have stated previously very young men choosing to have sex with women in their late fifties and sixties has got a lot to do with porn...in fact a little while ago Tuscan posted about her and her friend picking up two young men ,23 and 24 on a night out...one of the young men apparently told her he was so addicted to sex with much older women that he was just no longer interested in sex with women his own age...In my opinion it was brave of precious to post what she did,would I have sex with an 18 year old ,nope..but I do have sex with much younger men,does that make me predatory..maybe .. But mybe it's the other way around xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
hahaha yehh well il play slave if your keen an should have fun stil an anal virgin soo mght have to be patient at first LOLXX
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RHP User
10 years ago
i have always liked a older woman , , btw koko could u plz msg me id like to ask u a favor if i may ,, ty
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Ive always valued your opinions and views, as i do ever one else's. Just seemed several posts in a row aimed at Koko would perhaps looked more of a debate than an emotional response if all the content was in one message rather than a machine gun burst. Just my opinion and was not meant make you whimper out like the rest of us
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RHP User
10 years ago
hey im just about to upgrade so i dont have to keeep messing around way to hard to contact people ahha but yee once i do soo il inbox youu?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Only if you call me Mummy and I get to smack your bott bott. ;-) hey meeka i cant add you when i click on you it says unavailable do youknow why?> xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
its just the fact young guys, and most older guys too, are not overly choosy when it comes to getting laid. Despite all the protestations I'm bound to hear, if there's the chance a man can get sex he's gonna take it. Whether the woman is older, younger or the same age, if theres a chance he can get his dick wet he's in. In my experience I've found older woman are more forthright in what they want and don't tend to play games. If they're "on the prowl" so to speak, they let it be known. Just my 2c. Feel free to shoot me down now.
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precious142
10 years ago
I have 4 words for you...... Get a fargen LIFE!!!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
My home age is full of pauliiep...flirts,posts on every thread,a veritable plethora of the thoughtful pauliiep 😳xx Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive told him to be careful, lots of dirty old women on here.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's why we used to be referred to as DOWagers koko😜xxFreys
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RHP User
10 years ago
... isn't this thread going off, opinions people just opinions. Perhaps a separate thread dedicated to argumentative shit slingin' banter is in need . Or just take it to chat hey. Dammit how do I do an emoticon with a sad face and tongue poking out
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