M44
bit on the side
May 10 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Run for cover you poor fool
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RHP User
13 years ago
ive got the popcorn....whose grabbing the vino good luck playfulpirate.....ya gunna need it Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now me hearty,time to walk the plank or the parrot will give 'ee a jolly rogering....or if perchance you are on dry land...RUN I am sure you will attract other cheaters,maybe even cheetahs.best of luck x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Roxy always did like those pirate movies,which one are we watching?Prefer dips and chips though.Did you light the fire? I brought the vino...red or white?
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playfulpirate
13 years ago
I'm just being painfully honest with my intentions, I am completely sure this is a common thing on this site.
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inspirit
13 years ago
doesn't offend me or turn me off as l say "each to their own" though i understand the fall out when others get hurt. Personally, l know l would not be a cheater if l was in a relationship and i know l do not engage in amount of play with married/partnered people. I don't particualy believe in monogamy though l do believe in respect, honesty and love. Cheers disclaimer: if anyone takes offence to my post pass the popcorn
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RHP User
13 years ago
Puts on helment and dives into the trenches.
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
oh boy oh boy this should be a blast!!is there room for me on that couch Roxy?? I have wine, red or white you think??
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
I have 2 bottles of red and 2 of white...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Never shy to offer an opinion so here I go again :) I'm sure there are plenty of other 'cheaters' on here for the exact reasons you are. It absolutely, unequivocally, is a turn off for me. What you do with your life is entirely up to you, but there would be no room in my life for someone content to cheat on their partner.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Firstly OP ..suggest you search previous post topics before you post..cause trust me hon, this one has been done to death !!! buts its Friday nite..Im at work somewhat bored, so Ill have a shot at answering your bleeding obvious questions Are there other 'cheaters' using this site? Duh ...!!!! YEAH !!!!!! Does this offend or turn people off? The best person to really answer that question is your cheated on partner !!!..... Good Luck !!! Rite now its time to turn over to watch the (delayed) footy
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RHP User
13 years ago
didn't think it would take long. felonius....couldn't even be bothered with capitals tonight
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RHP User
13 years ago
roxy and yummy, is there room for me on that couch? I've got cheese and crackers...
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RHP User
13 years ago
... MsVelvetblue. ? its like stating the obvious.. Move over' Im coming to watch the footy with you.. Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
now look at the last line of what inspirit wrote..read it one more time..well done..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Puts on helment and dives into the trenches. before jumping, bit tight in these trenches to turn over see what your hidding under your helmit and I will show you whats hidding under mine! you may need an eye patch thoughLuckely - Spare eye patch in my front right pocket (only for an hour though) so dig deep TR, No Dig Deeper!!!!!!!LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
...you might as well grab a big cohiba and start puffing away. Inhale too...the health risks are less than the abuse that you are about to take and you'll live longer too. | They won't execute you until the cigar burns out. | That said....look and ye shall find. There's a shitload of "relationship other" women here whether they admit it openly or not...so if you don't get your ass shot off you might get lucky. | Twice...but you only live once.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...you might as well grab a big cohiba and start puffing away. Inhale too...the health risks are less than the abuse that you are about to take and you'll live longer too. | They won't execute you until the cigar burns out. | That said....look and ye shall find. There's a shitload of "relationship other" women here whether they admit it openly or not...so if you don't get your ass shot off you might get lucky. | Twice...but you only live once. All for living, no matter how short, Had such a bad day, came here all enlightened the day couldnt stop laughing at some posts including yours, so just had to then pop that one to TR - 45mins and counting, and yes this will be the death of me, but will go out with a smile today!!Was a pleasure knowing you CM and as said (if i survive) I will put the cuba away and your welcome for a dram of the finest if your ever over this way
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jennylee1903' Run for cover you poor fool You made me nearly choke on my Baileys!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
The best scenario would be if you received mail from the partner you are going to be cheating on...." hi there I'm in a similar situation as you...I to seek to explore & find the thrill of hooking up with a new person so exciting... we should meet, but let me warn you,I'm a hungry gurl & by the time I'm finished there wont be much vigour left for your partner "
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are there other people here doing the same? Yes. Is it a turn off? Yes. It shows an utter lack of respect for your partner, and if you're willing to gamble on your relationship for the sake of finding some 'thrills', it obviously shows your dedication towards the person and tells people lot about your character. Poor girl...better off without a fool like yourself... Lecture over - have you thought of other ways to enhance your relationship, maybe a threesome or playing with other couples?
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RHP User
13 years ago
A provocative statement which arouses suspicion. I don't think the show will be that exciting but just in case,along with the wine, popcorn and helmet I managed to dig out my 3D glasses. The special effects are soooo much better in 3D.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...this guy's wife just sent me a flirt. | So a group grope conscious vote, ladies and gents...do her or don't? She said in her return message she wasn't getting enough at home and needed a bit on the side. | I think I'll take Ms for a miss, but she did say she had sent out 300 flirts so I'm sure she'll score anyway. | | PS Heedless...this is the time of year on hit the speaking circuit and WA is on the list. I'll let you you know who I'm doin' and when I'll be there. I'm sure I'll need a drink by then....but then, I always do.
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playfulpirate
13 years ago
Please take note I have not listed if my partner knows about this or if she consents or participate even does her own 'cheating' try not to jump to conclusions. There are no set rules to relationships are there. Plus some things my partner cannot provide such as a man on man experience
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RHP User
13 years ago
Go Baby..... Playfulpirate what a cunning plan...I applaude you. Obviously the man has done his research, known that these cheating topics come up from time to time, has managed to time his when all the vitriol and bile has been recently spilt so his backlash will not be as severe.... Mate...if you want to cheat...that is your decision, your life...go do the fuck what you like. Knock yourself out. Yes there are other cheaters on this site Am I offended? Not in the least. Why should I care what you want to do with your life? Why should I bother to make a moral judgement on someone I am never going to meet anyway? How the hell do I know what goes on behind your particular closed doors and why should it bother me anyway? . Just please make sure that your profile is marked... . *ATTACHED* . so that the moral police can decide for themselves if they want to help you on your quest to cheat or not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
now this is a full couch....even better in 3D, nice going there lol Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Chasing Midnight. Dammit you always make me laugh. I almost covered my poor laptop with coffee as I spat it out. Playfulpirate. What you do is your choice but I suspect you will get more negative responses than positive one. There are always going to be people that will have a go at you for your choice. It's up to you to decide if this is the right way for you. Some will play regardless of your relationship status but for your own sake I would make sure you make it very obvious on your profile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey PlayFul, there's someone out there for everyone, so you'll be fine.The people who really surprise us are the couples which state in their profiles:'We're married, but not to each other'So if you're fortunate enough you'll find someone like that and really have a good time.good luck ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It will go with the wine (or in this case whine) lol.Come on ladies, scroonch up a bit, make some more room and some guys might join us.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'playfulpirate' I'm just being painfully honest with my intentions, I am completely sure this is a common thing on this site. no..........you're not.....be honest with your partner first........see what she reckons.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for hosting Roxy,I nearly fell off the couch I laughed so much.Can't wait for the sequel' The Parrot Strikes Back' ...starring Polly ,Mrs. playfulpirate .A story about a woman who thinks her husband has joined a sex site to cheat on her.She is on the horns of a dilemma, so she seeks the advice of a group of wise and sexy strangers. They all fall inlove and live happily ever after in an old abandoned bakery which they rename "THE PREDICTIVE PARROT' the end
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'playfulpirate'Please take note I have not listed if my partner knows about this or if she consents or participate even does her own 'cheating' try not to jump to conclusions. There are no set rules to relationships are there. Plus some things my partner cannot provide such as a man on man experience It's not really cheating if your partner knows and consents, now is it? So I think maybe your OP gave you away ... :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' It will go with the wine (or in this case whine) lol.Come on ladies, scroonch up a bit, make some more room and some guys might join us. just lay on the floor in front of the couch so you women can use me as a foot rest keep your tootsies warm using them to twiddle my hairs around when the show gets excitingJust think of me as a shag pile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Being up front is the best way mate , you are not being true to your partner , the ladies on rhp an mainly to yourself . I tell and show my miss's what I do . we were on as couple on rhp but everyones just chasing the ladies . we like read the forums an checkout the sexy photos peolpe put on rhp ( there hot ! ). so buddy you are showing your true colours an people are watching.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Heedless ,would that be '"Shagadelic baby"....x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
So Im definitely gonna sit there... Im bringing chocolate!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' Quoting 'MistressT' It will go with the wine (or in this case whine) lol. Come on ladies, scroonch up a bit, make some more room and some guys might join us. just lay on the floor in front of the couch so you women can use me as a foot rest keep your tootsies warm using them to twiddle my hairs around when the show gets excitingJust think of me as a shag pile Lays down on the floor besides.. wiith the pretziels...
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and nice recovery, the planned lays of mice and men. You can keep the cohiba...you can step outside at the intermission and puff on it with me. | Seriously though...if you see a red dot on your shirt, jump behind a tree.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...and nice recovery, the planned lays of mice and men. You can keep the cohiba...you can step outside at the intermission and puff on it with me. | Seriously though...if you see a red dot on your shirt, jump behind a tree. under estimate you CM, as I lay there...hair all getting knotty and enjoying every minute having a nibble or two on pretzels licking up the chocolate crumbs that fell on my "shagadelic" pile rug, it I will be torn between two places one in sole and pleasure of one type...one in subconscious mind set of a different pleasure...eagerly waiting for the intermissions. My body is controlled by the right side of my brain, though here I see my cerebellum, VTA, and pituitary gland getting its tingles and fluctuations though the later...trust would be a little mmm with so many and different pleasures sort from each though if my lateral orbitofrontal corte manages to close down for a while then the intermissions would be more than welcoming and to exercise more the temporal lobe part of my brain and enjoy sharing the cohiba with you P.S:- If I am right...I have no doubt... the spot is on - also to date the only one
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RHP User
13 years ago
U said cheating....which clearly means your partner doesnt know what you are doing......i also believe in each to their own its your life...but saying that i also think if your not happy be single...if you are happy but things are missing and shes not on board with you going elsewhere to be satisfied(and i think thats the case when you "cheat) you need to be prepared to loose everything if she finds out.............
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just spilt my hot chocolate and the shag pile carpet, it let out a painful yell. Hey who took a bite of this chocolate and put it back in the box? I sat on the edge of the couch and some one gave me an elbow and landed on my arse. Looks with suspicion at Victoriahh , do I know you? Gets out dust buster for cracker crumbs, sucks up a few stiff piles in the shag. Desides to get up and root the married guy. Stepping in front of the red dot, prepared to take the silver bullet from the Armarni cowboy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Playful pirate, hmmm in answer to your question if I was your partner I would be really pist off that you were cheating on me and if I found out you were cheating on me with not only woman but blokes as well that would be the ultimate betrayal. I will leave it at that...although just one more thing I am glad you are not my Husband
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' Quoting 'MistressT' It will go with the wine (or in this case whine) lol. Come on ladies, scroonch up a bit, make some more room and some guys might join us. just lay on the floor in front of the couch so you women can use me as a foot rest keep your tootsies warm using them to twiddle my hairs around when the show gets excitingJust think of me as a shag pileWouldn't that be a poof? Joking lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
He who is sin free, please cast the first stone. And, I dont refer to just the last week people. IF you have NEVER made out with someone, either on the sly from your own partner, OR never made out even THINKING the other person may have had a partner, then, you MAY have a right to make a negative statement. I cannot.! The OP Probably WILL score on here anyway... and if he does.. "Good the fck on him" The OP MIGHT want a bit on the side from a Male or a TV or something like that. once again "Good the fck on him" At least he is being as truthful as he is.. stating he is attached.. Anyone want to know how many women have fckd me THINKING I was Single? Anyone want to know how many women have fckd me.. just because I was with their sister, cousin or girlfriend, OR was one of their partners mates? Want to know something else? I was on here, just like the OP the first time I was on here.. Stating CLEARLY I was engaged.. I did VERY well on here.. thank you all very much.. The majority.. by far, of my sex now, IS attached females.. I DO NOT chase them but I openly make myself available. I am not sure what movie a lot of you guys LIVE in, but, there is no such thing as SISTERHOOD when it comes to SEX.. The VERY psychology of HUMAN SEXUAL BIOLOGY makes each and everyone of us, COMPETITION, and TARGETS.. Sure, some of us (you) MAY be good enough to hold it all together and NOT play.. but.. honestly.. given the right latitude.. (Whatever that LIMIT may be) an extremely high percent will cross that line. So, some of you go out on a Friday and/or Saturday night, and in a frisky mood.. you meet someone.. you decide he is cute and make out with him.. how do you prove he is not attached? or even CARE once you have gotten to that point? The difference here of course, is that you are all sitting in the comfort of a loving relationship, all sobre and sanctimonious.. And, in that situation, there is little else to do but JUDGE.. and judge harshly and, in many ways,, unfairly. OP: Good luck boy :) I hope you do as well as I did, when I was in your boat.. cavey - a good oarsman too
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ontheflipside
13 years ago
Wow the keyboard warriors are out in force. To the OP. live life how you want to live it, rock on.
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playfulpirate
13 years ago
Someone realistic cheers cavey. Lets not forget what site we are on
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'teasegoddess' Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' Quoting 'MistressT' It will go with the wine (or in this case whine) lol. Come on ladies, scroonch up a bit, make some more room and some guys might join us. just lay on the floor in front of the couch so you women can use me as a foot rest keep your tootsies warm using them to twiddle my hairs around when the show gets excitingJust think of me as a shag pileWouldn't that be a poof? Joking lolno but a pouffe - maybe
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RHP User
13 years ago
You rock!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Cavey50 - I've just read the whole thread of this post - not very conversational, more like bleating from the back stalls/ couch.OP: I say you've got guts just to ask this openly - I don't care if the topic has been beaten to death on RHP - it is a perennial question that I bet everyone has had to deal with in some form or on some level at some point in their life from adolescence onwards. Keep asking questions of yourself, about yourself but I think that, with the glorious 20:20 hindsight that I have of a shipwrecked marriage: talk early, talk often. Share you concerns. You did get married after all so there - so hopefully there should be some trust there, still, and that it is safe to talk/explore your growing/changing ideas about yourself and your relationship and your wants, desires and (sexual) dreams. Nothing ventured, nothing gained: either at home (or RHP!)Oh Yes! I'm a newbie on RHP, enjoying my time here already. All you cynical criticisers (couch-sitting, red wine sipping and munching on the popcorn) can just keep schtum as far as I'm concerned! Perhaps start your own post on having to do re-runs of I've been-there-before topics.Rox ... got hot - and bothered - writing this >:-(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi am just wanting to say good on you for putting that across as its others feeling that he is playing with not just his own....kama is a bitch somtimes but has its way of getting those who deserve it!! cheers shaun
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ForeverLovers
13 years ago
Well playfulpirate, firstly it's nice to see you posting on the forums. I'm sure the site owners and many users would hope that all members would feel they can post any question at any time without be jumped on, censored, judged, smacked on the wrist or told to look at previous posts. We don't all have the advantage of having unlimited time hanging around on here reading every single post and having a shiny halo! (Brings to mind that old saying, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all lol!). To your question, are there other "cheaters" using this site? Yes, unequivocably. I was one of them, although I am now lucky enough to be playing with my husband, and he knows about my past. A site like this should, I believe, be a safe place for people to be open and honest about their needs and wants, and it actually disgusts me when so many take the moral high ground and blast someone like yourself who as you say is just trying to get an honest answer. As for your second question, whether it offends or turns people off? Personally I appreciate honesty. I'm not quite sure how your personal situation and needs could ever offend me? I mean I don't know you, you don't know me ...... your life is your own to live. There are much bigger issues in this world that would worry me. As for turning people off, again, that comes down to the individual. When I was in a similar situation to you, your candour and indeed your situation would have more been a "turn on", as I was always hoping to find like minded people in similar situations. But you can't stop others from looking at your profile and judging you. Just don't let them worry you. We all have our own reasons for being on this site. How many of the people on here are truly what they say they are? It's all very well to act all moral and get on your high horse on a topic like this but don't forget, people in glass houses .............. The sad thing about this site is that over the last year or two (maybe more!) there have been some cliques form and not everyone is made feel welcome, nor their questions or comments made feel valid. I just think we should all remember that at some stage all of us were new on here. None of us can possibly know for sure whether something has been asked and answered before, and even if it has, why shouldn't it be asked again. If people are tired of a topic just don't reply to it. Let others have a turn. We should also remember that life has lots of twists and turns and if you're not careful you might one day paint yourself into a corner if you try and force your beliefs or opinions onto others. It is actually really, really difficult being in a marriage that you don't want to leave because you love your spouse, but finding yourself full of emotions and feelings and desires that change how you may have always behaved and thought. As I said, I have been in your position, and I know I am certainly not in a position to judge. I hope you meet some great, positive people who are seeking what you are, that you can satisfy your wants and needs and that you quickly learn how to use the "block user" option on here, it makes life much quieter lol! You have 31 "friends" on your profile so you're doing something right. The only advice I could offer you is to stay safe physically, protect your home life and family fiercely and be discreet. But apart from that, have fun. Mrs FL
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RHP User
13 years ago
the one person he should be honest with is his partner.....but thats not going to happen is it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am not sure WHO you are talking to.. but.. I take it you are NOT saying "Good on you cavey!!" Thanks to those who matter... cavey..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Any girls out there that want two cocks at the same time?????
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes caveman,you do rock.The ladies on Roxy's couch took up a collection and bought a bare skin rug ... for you to lie on in front of the fire. We are all hoping that you will wear that cute little gstring.Roxy lit the fire ,Mistress T brought the wine,there is heaps of popcorn,chocies,cheese and crackers. The parrot is back in it's cage,so Playfulpirate should be safe.He and Heedless are sitting on pouffes,and we have made some room on the couch for Rox. We are hoping she will join us. x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I have some fetish that my on/off again partner refuses to engage in......so what other choice does one have....no love wanted just a like minded female to help me achieve my kinky desires.......someone who would "lend me a hand" so to speak, thats not completely cheating is it???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'BiMates6969'Any girls out there that want two cocks at the same time????? sure is are the big enough to stretch this far..wow talk about going wayyyyyyyyyy of topic
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'fastandfurious28'Well I have some fetish that my on/off again partner refuses to engage in......so what other choice does one have....no love wanted just a like minded female to help me achieve my kinky desires.......someone who would "lend me a hand" so to speak, thats not completely cheating is it??? andlooks at the footy, and yells kick it to me, kick it to me and I have two hands
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dear Loser Get out of the relationship if you want to cheat....I am gob smacked as to why you guys stay in relationships who want to cheat ffs...makes me very mad. Get out of relationship and be single if you want to do single things. Does not turn me on a guy that cheats.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be honest I have met so many guys from this site in the same boat. Most of them if not all love their partner. Its hard to see guys , sitting on my chair of confession and talking about their life, their love their sex lives. They work bloody hard, they do not want to go to a hooker, they just want their partners to want them, to desire them to connect to them. They want their woman to suck their cock, yes they do also want their women to let them go down on them. Most men do not get to this site without trying hard at home and failing to get their partner to understand or want to do anything about their needs. Yes women are tired, we work hard we have kids our body changes and we say no I am tired more times than yes. Every ones life is a different shape. If yours is a perfect shape that never changes then your not human. Its bad enough men and women are wracked with guilt about this kind of thing, and they go to a sex site thinking its a place they can be accepted and they are still shunned. If its not your thing to fuck a married person,then its your choice, a free society I have no answers to this except how I am, and I have fucked married men, and will again if its what I need to add a little bit of joy to my life. I have a partner, I am a scarelet woman but one that holds her head up. there are things far worse in life than a bit on the side.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said KC! !! .... anyway for the record my wife knows, i wanted her to know!.. Besides she cant help me with the bi curious bit anyway So for all who say they "play by any rules" ... great, bring it on then! ;-)
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playfulpirate
13 years ago
Notice the negative, sarcastic grumpy people are the ones taking the moral high road. Perhaps they aren't getting enough variety???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said MISS VELVET,Why would you ever want to cheat on your loved one?What goes through your mere/male brain?You must be such a looser,your poor partner what has she done to deserve this from a fool like you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
"They work bloody hard, they do not want to go to a hooker, they just want their partners to want them, to desire them to connect to them. They want their woman to suck their cock, yes they do also want their women to let them go down on them. Most men do not get to this site without trying hard at home and failing to get their partner to understand or want to do anything about their needs. Yes women are tired, we work hard we have kids our body changes and we say no I am tired more times than yes. Every ones life is a different shape. If yours is a perfect shape that never changes then your not human. Its bad enough men and women are wracked with guilt about this kind of thing, and they go to a sex site thinking its a place they can be accepted and they are still shunned. If its not your thing to fuck a married person,then its your choice, a free society." Like men on this site who have tried everything at home and women who work hard I got tired of being made to feel there was something wrong with me. In ny case Hubby said I could play with women and was suddenly turned on when I told him I had, got it twice in one night and for the first time in two months when I suddenly liked girls... That hurt so much that he said he couldn't get it up for me, but went crazy al over me at the thought of me with women. I had been made for a long time to feel unattractive, unwanted, and unappreciated. I had thouhht there was something wrong with me...yet on here I was being told quite the opposite. I kicked him out last night, I got tired of being asked what was wrong with me that 15 minutes wasn't enough...and expected to live a virginal life with him just because he isn't interested in ne anymore...and before anyone tries bombing me, yes he knew I am on here, and yes I had tried EVERYTHING from the obvious... Talking! To stripping to role play to dominating to partially submitting to dressing up to toys to turning up at the restaurant separately in nothing but a big furry coat, stocking and heels, and fuck.it... It takes two to make it work, but one alone can't fix it. So, I think rhp has been the single most helpful thing I could have done for nyself because apparently I am desirable, and apparently I don't have to take his crap anymore, which you could argue I should habe been able to see without this site, but when you are knee deep in quicj sand and slowly having the life sucked literally out of you, there is nothing quite as enlightening as the observations of complete strangers who end up becoming fun, supportive, understanding and like minded friends. I have learnt that life is too short. Now I think I will put my helmet on and shield, fuck the incoming.
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RHP User
13 years ago
When the both of you are so worried about the repercussions on your children by going your own way, there aint much spice but basically livin together to keep it together for your childrens well-being (family life).......then maybe a stray for sanity isnt so bad, I bet there are many together for the comfortable family life with your kids with no spice with your partner.they probably fantasise every day about kinky liasions, some go get it and live life, some dont.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Risky2'Well said MISS VELVET,Why would you ever want to cheat on your loved one?What goes through your mere/male brain?You must be such a looser,your poor partner what has she done to deserve this from a fool like you? Stick to the topic, there is no need to call this man a fool A mere male brain, is a sexist remark again not relevent to the topic Looser is a term I associate with highschool Just take a deep breath, and think and then post, works wonders That way people will not make assumptions about you either, if you try to stay civil to the OP
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RHP User
13 years ago
Reading the fourth page of this thread has been far more enlightening, considerate, and balanced for me than the first three. Not that there weren't thinkers commenting early; it's just great to see some posts by people who make the effort to empathise with the life-position of the topic starter, rather than 'lobbing grenades of condemnation' at him for the situation he finds himself in, and the choices he makes in response. Wow, I've been in churches that were less judgemental than some of the posts here. Tuscan, Dark Moon Lilith, fastandfurious (and others on previous pages) ... bravo!
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RHP User
13 years ago
well said Ms Lilith!!!!...Now folks...would you like sauce with YOUR pie ??? ...............and Please!! the rest of you just get over it!!. Oh and yes GUYs... DO mention you are partnered so it's straight up from the start. That should keep the rhp Nazi's at bay. Now what did ms Lilith say??.....ahhh yes...... Fuck the incoming!! LOL!! and have a good day ya'all
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are all right... and you are all wrong... what is right for one person is wrong for another.I might add a new section to my profile to say I am a "cheating male cunt" (aren't they all)... that may make me appealing to some of the less rusty women on the site... OK ladies... enjoy the couch... sluts... come with me...maybe...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am in a different boat, been on RHP for a while and had some fun but I have just started to go out with someone (not from RHP -met down the pub, unusual i know!). Its very casual at the moment and all going good. I dont feel there is a committed relationship there yet but i have a decision to make about RHP! Why even next week i will be taking pictures of some ladies from RHP (who will remain nameless) in various states of undress with some varied an no doubt kinky themes ;) Now I am really looking forward to this but I havent, and probably wont, tell my new casual friend... Too early and we both being too cautious at this stage.. I dont feel it is wrong (yet) and I dont want advice (please no Advice!!), I'll work it all out, but what i am saying is we all in different situations, degrees of commitedness, nasty relationships etc. I dont think anyone on here should be making judgments, including playfulpirate, on anyone just because we disgaree or have actually met the person and discussed in great detail their situation.. Agree with Tuscan - all too easy to make a nasty comment on these forums - way to easy in all forms of social media:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
What about the ladies with whips and handcuffs that aren't on the couch? do they cum with you too?
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
We are just sitting quietly here, with our feet up on a couple of poofs, sipping on our wine and munching the popcorn.....and some say we are the ones causing trouble .You may want to have a look who is on the couch.....most of us have been around the rhp sandpit for sometime and just know what sort of poop will be flung around, instead of joining in, we just watch..For the record, OP, do what you want, you will anyway. Kudos to you for saying you are attached.....women and some men tend to get annoyed when the CHOICE to play with someone who is attached / unattached is taken away from them.At least be man enough to notify any potential play partner of your relationship status and let them make up their own mind...
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RHP User
13 years ago
hmmm... duplication of my kit....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes, however my handcuffs are purple, and my whip as well..my riding crop is pink and had diamentes, and I have a glow in the dark strap on, coz I believe if I am going to do kinky and discipline I may as well do it in full colour...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Forgot the Orange and blue ropes, green fly away, and I make my male slave wear a red g, it looks good in his mouth for those tines when he won't shut up
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh goody,I was sooo over those pirate movies...whips ,handcuffs,now ya talkin'..do I get to keep my spot on the couch? Is this a live show move over Ruby....cavey wake up..the show is about to begin. Playfulpirate,just relax and enjoy.x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Last time ny dreaded iPhone failed me... It was a green fly swat, but.phone seem to want to put "away" there. Seriously i only have my "L" plates re being a Mistress, so Mr Masterful and some of our other friends may habe better input. Perhaps women who have get cheated in whatever way take the path I have in stuffing undies in the mouths of our lovers and making them lick our feet as an interesting form of venting, which as long as your pet enjoys it, what's the harm? Or may be its because mordern man often talks emotionally where I het a bit sick of listening to it.hence undie mouth for naughty men. LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks, Hesione: ... we have made some room on the couch for Rox. We are hoping she will join us. I see that you're enjoying the show still as it bumps and rocks along - even with fluffy handcuffs! I'm not ready to sit on the sidelines (yet) and throw popcorn into the mix ... still working through the conundra that OP's question has raised. When I joined up RHP my 'wanting to meet' preference was looking for person/s regardless of Attached status. Then when I started getting involved in this thread I thought that by 'advertising' that I was interested in Attached and Unattached I was just providing more choices and enlarging the field for the Attacheds - a bit of a high moral ground, I suppose. So, I change my desire to meet Unatached. However, in that window of time before I had changed it, I met an openly 'Attached' person who is a true delight to be with and we have spent many hours talking/texting/chatting discussing how our respective RHP activities worked in with other elements of our lives, such as being married. And others that I correspond with - the very nature of such a wide brown land means I haven't met a number of my meet-ups (is that the term?) in The Flesh. So, having met this front on I can report that my brief research reveals that each has a different life story; their reasons and desires vary widely and some are clear about their strategy and whys/wherefores; others are in a fog of experimentation with unknown outcomes. The outcomes and endings to their stories and exploits are unknown, somewhere down the timeline, but are mostly feared because of repercussions of being exposed. My fear is being caught in the middle - does this make me part of the "problem" if I engage in this 'adulterous' contact? Having the label of 'The Other Women', or 'One of Many' is troublesome but I reject it as I am not looking for commitment (may be it will find me ...) and have a sense of adding to a life that is missing love-making, hot sweaty passion, lustful sex or even a gentle massage and a cuddle and spoon. This is the other side of the coin, OP, I suppose: those who the 'cheaters' cheat with ... Rox - trying not choke on the popcorn that you are throwing at me ;-D
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do have certain rules, I won't break in a married man, on his cheating 'V' plates,.I do enough psychoanalysing in my daily work...and the performance anxiety for a guy on his first time out of the box can be a problem. Give me a strong man, salt of the earth.and not overly into facials or owning more shoes than me, a man whose a bit rugged, and I am happy, and I won't feel the need to cuff, mask, ball gag, or whip him into shape...i'll.instead meet.him equally. And.that for me is a turn on. Still on the couch?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh yeah,there is a party happenin'....couch transformed into sofa bed....c'mon over. x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione' Oh yeah,there is a party happenin'....couch transformed into sofa bed....c'mon over. x Hugs H Thanks for the invite Hesione but I'm too busy atm. Just trying to organise my calendar - juggling all the self-declared 'cheating husbands' that are on RHP. Does that make me a "cheatee"?(Says she, trying to deflect analysis of my flirts, chats, meet-ups and romps! and not wanting any of my new-found RHP friends to feel less than special.)All of us has a unique story - cheaters, explorers, bi-curious, straight couple, 3-4-5'somes, the list is exhaustingly infinite - I'm not judgemental of others' decisions or choices but am curious and intrigued by people's journeys and find swapping notes therapeutic - for me at least - in sorting out a quagmire of a life.Rox
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes Rox,everyone has a story,some people we connect with,resonate with even.Good luck with your journey xHugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Tuscanred, I just passed it to you.....catch it and say YES I CAN HELP
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'playfulpirate' Notice the negative, sarcastic grumpy people are the ones taking the moral high road. Perhaps they aren't getting enough variety??? hey pirate - yeh looks like "risky" are the experts in "our" lives
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Does this offend or turn people off?" Not sure I could knowingly play with a married man. Just my choice op and you are entitled to yours ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just got another message from a married man asking me to play. You are not alone pirate, just one of zillions ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
One of my girlfriends told me last night about this suck on here who played the romance card, was seeing her for quite some time, months, told her ur wasn't married, as she won't play with married guys...then starts taking control of her life, enmeshed into it, suddenly says he doesn't want to see her, drops her like a fly, does a few things I won't say here as he will know I am writing about him, at the same was trying his routine on me only I saw him coming. Now no ne in our group will play with him as he is a real lech, so my point is, if you are married give us girls the right to informed choice,don't promise us a rose garden, or you can later try to figure our in your own time why a host of us aren't playing with him in particular anymore. Better get my whip, riding crop, chins, ropes, fly swat, ball gag, and fluffy hands cuffs as well as peanut butter and chuckles the shetlland back out and put them to use...
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
...I love that you have a Shetland called Chuckles
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep...and he likes peanut butter..LOL!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Great blog,Thanks Pirate,Every forum seems to have a murder of crows sitting on the fence waiting to pick out the eyes of the next victim, the usual misfits the fat, the ugly and the bitter "just here for the forums". And thanks to this blog I now know who they are.Trim your claws, sharpen your beaks and fuck of to Facebook where you belong, and leave the site to those who use it for its intended purpose.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm one of those "only here for the forums" people and I'm not on facebook, not fat, ugly or bitter either. Even if I was I would have every right to be here (as does everybody else). In all fairness if you open a thread and ask the "hard" questions, then really you should be prepared for the "hard" answers. There are some great folk in these forums & telling them to "fuck off" is very disrespectful. Not good form at all. KK x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Great blog,Thanks Pirate,Every forum seems to have a murder of crows sitting on the fence waiting to pick out the eyes of the next victim, the usual misfits the fat, the ugly and the bitter "just here for the forums". And thanks to this blog I now know who they are.Trim your claws, sharpen your beaks and fuck of to Facebook where you belong, and leave the site to those who use it for its intended purpose. its 'intended purpose' is to connect people...which it does famously....the sad fact is tho, that people also use it to further their deceptions, and to facilitate their lies... they are the ones who should fuck off....to ashley madison or whatever its called... or better still....talk to their partners and fix whatever issues they have at home....thats what adults do isnt it? work things out?
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is after all a touchy topic, and ny the way, I probably should explain chuckles...he only dresses as a shetland... (Mask, bridle and attachable tail) I put a saddle on him and lead him around the yard as it turns him on...but hey why get judgemental...he isn't harming anyone. He is married to a female human, but he tokd me the truth about that so I don't have to punish him. LOL. And I love crows, intelligent creatures.
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RHP User
13 years ago
heres a thought........... we feel that lies and dishonesty make even the best looking people unappealing and unattractive... so how can we lust after, or desire someone who is false? how does that work?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' its 'intended purpose' is to connect people...which it does famously....the sad fact is tho, that people also use it to further their deceptions, and to facilitate their lies... they are the ones who should fuck off....to ashley madison or whatever its called... or better still....talk to their partners and fix whatever issues they have at home....thats what adults do isnt it? work things out? So who appointed you moral guardian ?The place is full of cheating wives, husbands, boy and girlfriends, how many of the photos are 10yrs old ?How many of the "average" are fat, Why do the tourists put up sexy photos and sexual preferences when they're "just here for the forums" ?Because it's part of the landscape lady, you want to throw out all the liars there won't be many left !You're on a sex site, you have pictures of your vag online, you advertise to have sex with other couples ! How hard would I have to look to find people all to willing to condemn you ?Get real girlfriend !
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RHP User
13 years ago
P.S Thanks for the tip on Ashley Madison
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just a couple of tips, because your new. Ranting and raving will get you no where.Your most likely having a go at Mike, not ShelVery little point in arguing with Mike, many have tried, now they are all mental cases, the guy is like a terrier...and never lets go, nor backs down. Mike is never wrong!Mike is also the self appointed Slayer of smokers and cheaters!Acting all bitter and twisted, isn't a good look, and lots of women read the Forums, even if most don't contribute, shame!don't be shooting yourself in the foot.Lighten up and don't let things get under your skin, have some fun!Cheers Felonius...Don't have to be mad to play here, sure helps though!orPeace sells...Megadeth
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RHP User
13 years ago
someone should write a Eula/manual for this place.....lol So much disappointment!So much frustration!Would make a good thread.....anyone...not me...my Op's always suck donkey dick!Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Felonius,Thanks for the heads up.I'm far from bitter and twisted I can assure you ! Just look at my handle !Looks like a case of the irresistible force meets the immovable object !Judging from the mail I'm getting there's no such thing as bad publicity, but your right it did get under my skin, and I'm not very good at self righteous bandwagons I tell it like I see it.However i'm having a ball, the mail is flowing in and I'm looking forward to my first meet !Another crappy day in paradise ! Cheers all !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'mikeandshel' its 'intended purpose' is to connect people...which it does famously....the sad fact is tho, that people also use it to further their deceptions, and to facilitate their lies... they are the ones who should fuck off....to ashley madison or whatever its called... or better still....talk to their partners and fix whatever issues they have at home....thats what adults do isnt it? work things out? So who appointed you moral guardian ?The place is full of cheating wives, husbands, boy and girlfriends, how many of the photos are 10yrs old ?How many of the "average" are fat, Why do the tourists put up sexy photos and sexual preferences when they're "just here for the forums" ?Because it's part of the landscape lady, you want to throw out all the liars there won't be many left !You're on a sex site, you have pictures of your vag online, you advertise to have sex with other couples ! How hard would I have to look to find people all to willing to condemn you ?Get real girlfriend ! last time i looked......i wasn't anyone's girlfriend, nor a 'lady'.....and there's no pics of my 'vag' here....or elsewhere...unless you've been peeking at my 'mangina' ........lol...... i don't know whose profiles you are looking at, but in our experience ( here and elsewhere) the profiles are fairly genuine, and the posted photos usually fairly recent....at least those we look at are, and the ones we have met so far.....match their profiles and pics, but then, perhaps we are a bit more 'selective' than others... we dont play in anyone elses playground.........
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