RHP

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F60

"Not into one night stands"....

January 20 2014

I've been reading this line (or similar) on quite a few profiles and am now wondering? .... What happens when you meet someone with this in mind and it does, in fact, turn out to be just that, because that person is never heard from again. How do you feel girls? Curious. ....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ShyPrincess74'I'm a fan of 50's fashion, and rock a decent petticoat and swing dress ... You certainly do! Quoting 'Kizza1973'We all need to feel loved,respected and desired as people. Some times people don't know how to handle a situation where its "only sex" They put up walls and the defence's kick in to protect our feelings. True, which is why I don't like having "just sex". This doesn't mean that feelings come into play, but sex without intimacy will leave me feeling empty. Like I said earlier, NSA equals No Spooning After, which is for me just isn't good enough.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Is all too common a mindset from singles and couples frequenting and "cheapening" the potential experience for themselves and others on this site. However I must agree, if all a man, woman, couple, other want from the site is ONS or NSA then continue to state that in your profiles and don't contact the profiles who state it isn't what they want. That way no one's wasting anyone else's time. Oh yes, I realise this would require "those" people to actually read a profile instead of going on a few pictures. I guess the other point so eloquently made by another poster was just tell the bloody truth!! You may not get laid but atleast your forthright honesty might enhance your attractiveness and someone NOT into ONS/NSA might decide to take you for a test drive, use you for sex and fuck you off after too (at their discretion of course) atleast everyone's on the same page. I have a cuddle-buddy, I also have a Lover and together we may enjoy other like-minded people without being made to feel "cheap". Damned if I would ever want anyone to feel less than they are because I didn't respect the arse off them whilst grinding them into oblivion 😇

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Spooning is wonderful isn't it? (Deep sigh) and sex without connection/intimacy is just a fuck. I'm a lover not a fucker.....just sayin'.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Spooning is wonderful isn't it? (Deep sigh) and sex without connection/intimacy is just a fuck. I'm a lover not a fucker.....just sayin'. I love spooning

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm with you on this, when I'm horny I just want yo play, I don't want nor need to pursue or to be pursued. I have had some that it was a great night and that's what I wanted then others where we played several times after. I am about NSA

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The great thing about Spooning is that it quite often leads to Forking. I hate the whole NSA attitude and I don't agree with "It is a sex site" point of view. Yes, it is an adult dating site, which doesn't mean we have to fuck someone just because we meet on here. I view it as the same as any other dating site, except maybe just a bit more honest..........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But nowhere does it say "sex site" which cheapens everything to the ranks of FuckBook. It says Australia's hottest dating site.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And then comes "SPORK" Mwahahaha

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    I'll cook for you, dine with you, even do dessert with you or watch you enjoy it. BUT I'm not sure apertifs are your thing. Guess we'll just have an arm wrestle re-match to decide. Lol from another like-minded friend.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    FWB one night stands are the way too go, make the first one a good one then the second third , i dont understand why people dont put more effort in make the person feel special and the rewards will be paid !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If your female and a ONS is what you want then it's as easy as walking into the nearest pub, club, library.....Internet....wherever it's there for the taking. Doesn't matter that people see this as a sex site, we lay our own ground rules on what we are willing to accept in another's behaviour. I have had ONS but they have happened because I have either wanted it to be that way or because I believed the BS whispered in my ear. Some guys will say anything to get into your knickers (and yes they are tossers) ...... But it's up to everyone to set their own boundaries and stick to them. And then even then, sometimes we just fuck up and get the signals wrong. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    roots eats and leaves lol

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