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"Our secret spot"
March 03 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey CV we will be there Saturday night - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't forget wee have the Sydney Meet & Greet on this Saturday.... Register your interest to get the details and pop in before you head to OSS, might even find some heads to join you.
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ChateauVino
11 years ago
We have a fairly hectic night running around, but we will be at Our Secret Spot early on for a drink and to meet the owners and anyone who is there. Really looking forward too it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey bigmamma, where abouts do we register our interest??
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ChateauVino
11 years ago
Congrats to the wonderful owners for creating something very classy and cool in the heart of Sydney. We wish you all the very best, it's really lovely ! We'll be sending people your way from Sunny QLD. Cheers CV
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
We're heading down to Sydney, really looking forward to Red Heaven but was thinking about checking OSS out this upcoming weekend, maybe. From the looks of it there's no special parties or anything on, and we were wondering about what this club is like on a 'normal' Friday or Sat, numbers and vibe wise...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Please RHP dearest's . Is this place for Friday night or Couples club. We headed once before only to find it was very quiet. We paid and then left - not sure we'd like to do that again. How's "the Vibe" (I am tempted here to finish that with "....of the thing" ) Any report news ? Anyone ...anyone .....anyone ....... . Brae
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bliss2
11 years ago
after a dud night at the cc we are now calling before we go to either
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Our_Secret_Spot
11 years ago
Hey fellow RHPer's We just wanted to get on our soap box for a moment if we may. We have done our best to create an alternate swingers club for Sydney that didn't feel like a "mattress on the floor sex club". We aimed for a club with class and glamour and to be clean. We feel we did a good job. We certainly want to improve and make it even better for those who attend. There are things we can change, and things we cannot. The amount of people who attend at the end of the day relies on you, our guests. We have busy nights and then we have quiet nights. Like any business there are highs and lows. Seeing as we are new venue we also have to deal with the issue that we aren't well known in the community. That's fair enough. We are here for the long haul. We do appreciate constructive criticism when presented to us. How else would we be able to provide a venue that's designed for our guests? And yes, "haters are gonna hate". But if you like it here and want to come back, why say something as unhelpful as "we'd go, but it was quiet"? Those who do like our venue but like more of crowd, you have the power to change it. Tell people you like it. Invite those you know to come along. We are small community after all. We gotta stick together people
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sounds and looks very interesting, it also looks like you guys put lots of effort in to meet the demands. We will try it out next Saturday (May 31), hope to see lots of you all there. We really like it that everyone says it is so clean, something CC really lacks from time to time. Are there theme nights? We love to dress up before dressing down
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RedHeaven
11 years ago
Hello RHPers As you may or may not know we have our 4th Birthday event coming up next Saturday nite 31 May. OSS have been kind enough to keep its doors open extra late for us and are throwing an after party. These guys are doing their best to cater for the community and listening to what people have to say to make OSS the new place to go to. We will have a very busy night at our 4th Birthday event with quite a number of sexy couples and single females looking at attending the after party as well. For those that are after a busy nite with a variety of sexy people then next Saturday nite is the time to check it out. Feel free to purchase tickets to our event as wel for a discounted entry to the after party.This way you get to enjoy the both events! RH
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Our_Secret_Spot
11 years ago
Hey 69couplefun, Yes we do hold theme nights. The next event is our Red Heaven After Party. So most will have come in the Red Heaven theme of sexy and red. Following that we have our Sugar and Spice party, which is a kinky party aimed at swinging couples who would like to dabble their toes into the world of BDSM. We will have a professional male and female dominant to provide instruction and do some shows with their models. Its sure to be hot hot hot. Plus we have planned a Winter Wonderland party on 21 June. Lots of ideas for dressing up before dressing down there. Our Secret Spot xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Both Parties sound great to us, see yah next Saturday Quoting 'Our_Secret_Spot' Hey 69couplefun, Yes we do hold theme nights. The next event is our Red Heaven After Party. So most will have come in the Red Heaven theme of sexy and red. Following that we have our Sugar and Spice party, which is a kinky party aimed at swinging couples who would like to dabble their toes into the world of BDSM. We will have a professional male and female dominant to provide instruction and do some shows with their models. Its sure to be hot hot hot. Plus we have planned a Winter Wonderland party on 21 June. Lots of ideas for dressing up before dressing down there. Our Secret Spot xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
OSS, can I just check that the club is open for normal business on Red Heaven party night? Or is it Red Heaven guests only? Thanks.
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Our_Secret_Spot
11 years ago
Quoting 'BeachezCpl' OSS, can I just check that the club is open for normal business on Red Heaven party night? Or is it Red Heaven guests only? Thanks. Hey guys, Yes we are still open on our normal trading hours and people who aren't going to Red Heaven are still welcome. OSS xox
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bliss2
11 years ago
did anyone attend the red heaven after party? apparently there is another after party on the long weekend and we are planning to go .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes and it was a great night. Staff totally took care of us, provided food and made sure everything was clean. There was so many good couples there and nice people. Just a really really comfortable night.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't agree more with The_team Great nightAwesome couples and people to meet and chat toBrilliant StaffGreat,clean venue! Very comfortable surrounds -- it's now our regular place to visit!!
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sydney_tradie
11 years ago
nice place run by nice people very clean etc , if your with the right ppl can be a great night, we had a bday so drinks n food also on the menu, I had no idea we were going there
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RHP User
11 years ago
Saying he went to OSS after Red Heaven for a mutual friend's birthday and missed seeing me there. Only thing is, I've never communicated with him before! Anyone missing a tradie? ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
He did say he really liked the place!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is anyone heading to OSS tomorrow night? We are thinking about checking it out. :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
we are first timers to visit swingers club and we are looking for beautiful , fit young couples in their late 20s or early 30s to play with. can you recommend that we visit Our Secret Spot?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Headed to OSS to attend a party. We met up with a group of people we have previously had fun hanging out with and as is always the case we had a fun night! H + R thanks for your company :-) . The club is nice, it's clean and well appointed. For the two of us who remember the Lotus Lounge this has a similar feeling about it. A mixture of rooms from larger play rooms to small cosy rooms to a "dungeon" room - more on that later. . At the party apart from the people we knew (sexy friends) there was a great mix of people of varying ages sizes and agenda's. It was also nice that there were multiple couples but not hundreds. We only play with people we click with, or that stimulate one of our heads (For me Brae that gives me two options - I call that a win!) So more than 6 couples but less than a million is great! . The place is super clean - I noted the managers cleaning sheets and making sure all was "in order". God dam you could even see the bottom of the spa- and it didn't have a rim of grime around it - YAY - Sarah loves a spa! CC is not nearly as clean sadly. You don't see this at couples club there is simply a nice lady running around making sure you are attached at the hip to your partner, while I get that, it becomes tiresome at times! The managers at OSS seem on hand at all times but stay subtly distant to let you do your thing. . Now I have been on here suggesting I am wary of going if there are smaller numbers and I still am, see above. But I like the idea of this club and I hope others do too. I hope others feel comfortable after hearing, that this is a great place to come along too, and in the future they do so as well. . Now on a personal note - as some of our "friends / fiends" may know I am sexually ambidextrous and like both vanilla and BDSM play ( I know who'd of thought, crazy right) So to the couple that asked me to flog and spank "her" while he watched on and then I instructed him to join me. Him getting a blow job as a spanked his delightful partner - then getting them to fuck as I continued to work with her - YUM guys :-) We also met a young couple very new to swinging and while they were nervous, they seemed to get their own groove by the end of the night. To the other three sexy ladies that took me aside and had their way with me - Sexy sexy sexy :-0 . This is a great club well worth trying - bring some friends like we did this time, or meet people there that you have met on here (Crikey it's stack safer and more reliable meeting at a club than a bar) and have a good time. . Stay sexy Brae and Sarah
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well said Brae Your darling friends. R & H
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2interestedinu
11 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' Headed to OSS to attend a party. We met up with a group of people we have previously had fun hanging out with and as is always the case we had a fun night! H + R thanks for your company :-) . ...... Stay sexy Brae and Sarah Wow, Thanks for the review guys. We've been hesitant about going to OSS because of a possible lack of patronage but as time goes on the reviews get better. Think it's about time we go and see what all the fuss is about.. Is there a particular event on this weekend as there seems to be several people saying their going to OSS this Saturday night? We're heading into town on Saturday night and after dinner and a few drinks we had penciled in the couples club, if there's an organised event on at OSS we can be easily persuaded.
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Our_Secret_Spot
11 years ago
Quoting '2interestedinu' Quoting 'looking2try3' Headed to OSS to attend a party. We met up with a group of people we have previously had fun hanging out with and as is always the case we had a fun night! H + R thanks for your company :-) . ...... Stay sexy Brae and Sarah Wow, Thanks for the review guys. We've been hesitant about going to OSS because of a possible lack of patronage but as time goes on the reviews get better. Think it's about time we go and see what all the fuss is about.. Is there a particular event on this weekend as there seems to be several people saying their going to OSS this Saturday night? We're heading into town on Saturday night and after dinner and a few drinks we had penciled in the couples club, if there's an organised event on at OSS we can be easily persuaded. Yes there is an organised event - Winter Wonderland. Feature performances from Arianna Starr and Mistress Anna teaching some tricks of the trade to interested couples, it is going to be a fun night. Persuasion enough?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sundays are going to be dangerous :). I'm thinking that I'm going to be a regular Sunday attendee...... With a 4pm start, I can think of nothing better than a spa and some naughty time before the week roles in.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So who is there on a 4 o'clock on a Sunday afternoon? And is it all just straight married men?
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RHP User
10 years ago
What I meant to ask is, are there single men there on Sundays.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Unfortunately no single men :(. Straight, well who knows, I want to bring my Sir along and have fun in the BDSM room, I might even get a public caning :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
BigMamma you actually get caned with a cane? They leave nasty nasty bruises.
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RHP User
10 years ago
and for many and most who really enjoy this those marks they become quite proud of. So my experience tells me. I have had people proudly send me photos and talk about the warm burn that is a lovely reminder as the days pass. But hasnt this wandered into the wrong forum? :-) . Brae (Who, just for the record,has never met Bigmamma1 and is simply just passing a comment)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes I know... having been the recipient of some of theses photos. Just asking Bigmamma the question... being nosy and all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will PM you, just to keep all happy :), however one of my profile pics is a doozie
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RHP User
10 years ago
You being nosy ......... wellllllllllllll "I have no particular talent. I am merely inquisitive." Einstein Lets justs call it "Inquisitive" Brae
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Rosali
10 years ago
Looking forward to checking out OSS in August
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RHP User
10 years ago
Anyone else thinking of going this Friday?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey we are in Sydney tonight and thinking of heading to one of the clubs, anyone going??
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hello there! My name is Mistress Anna and I have recently come on board as a BDSM Educator here on Red Hot Pie. I am a Professional Dominatrix.I host the "Sugar and Spice" light B&D fetish night at Our Secret Spot this Friday 11th. I am a also conducting a Spanking 101 workshop prior to the party. Please see the details and events if you are interested!I have a wide experience of presenting workshop's for the kink community, my engagements include Uber, Sydney Xplore Festival, Sydney Leather Pride and in Hong Kong at The Hong Kong Kink Convention.I facilitate workshops tailored to your particular needs. Among these is the popular Fifty Shades of Fantasy. These workshops are designed to help you share with your partner and enter, with safety, the world you would like to experience together.I am committed to providing practical hands on and written education and information in an environment that facilitates the opportunity to learn, explore, engage and enjoy without judgement all that the BDSM culture has to offer".All activities will adhere to the BDSM code of Safe, Sane and Consensual. She can assure clients that personal boundaries will be respected and that the atmosphere of acceptance and discretion will provide that safe place which we all need on our journey.Please feel free to contact me at your convenience to discuss.Warmest regardsMistress Anna
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are going on Friday night! Send us a wink if your going and we will say hello : ) Ms NC2147 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
hi we will be visiting Sydney next week and we are planning to attend OSS or couples club on friday August 22. We are young newly married couple and we are both 29 years old. We are new to the scene and we are looking for couples who are also testing the waters. email us at iwantpoa@gmail.com if you are interested.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We can post our email addresses now? Sheesh, Mod R goes home for the day and look what happens!
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Taleros
10 years ago
So was just reading Our Secret Spot's FAQ and came across this under their 'Do we have to look like models to attend?' question: "A well cared for figure and look is always the most attractive and should be a priority for everybody. Obesity and an unkempt look will not get you many admiring looks." How others look and attraction are always something that is in the eye out the beholder. It is often talked about around the lifestyle as to what you find attractive, what makes others attractive and so on. Some people deal with body issues and image at times which can become a constant thing, and as part of swinging it can be a struggle for some given the nature of the activity. Now, people may have their personal preferences and that's all well and good but coming from a club, what is quoted above could appear to be in rather poor taste to some, and even offensive to others. One would've thought a swingers club was open and accepting to a wide gamut of clientele but if a club is trying to target a specific target then perhaps that's not the way to go about it. Has that quote jumped into the realm of "fat shaming" or a step to far? Is what an individual can say any different to a club? If a person posted that in the forum here what would the reaction be. ~Mr Taleros
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Taleros
10 years ago
Argh... Had formatted that post with paragraphs but when it posted it went as one big chunk. No idea why it did that. :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
You should start a new topic asking this question. It's a good one. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
So a body or look that isn't well cared for IS attractive? That's like saying 'I don't care at all how I look, I'll make no effort and I'll expect to go to the club and people will find me attractive'. Is that realistic? I don't think the owners are saying 'don't come if you're a fat body'. It's advice saying 'you want action?, this is the best way to get it'. Its about putting your best self out there. Looks ARE in the eye of the beholder, but how many people when listing what they find attractive say 'an overweight person who doesn't make any effort to be better and wears runners with jeans (or some other poor fashion idea)'?
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RHP User
10 years ago
"A well cared for figure and look is always the most attractive and should be a priority for everybody. Obesity and an unkempt look will not get you many admiring looks." it really says that? That's terrible. :-(
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Taleros
10 years ago
Quoting 'The_team' So a body or look that isn't well cared for IS attractive? That's like saying 'I don't care at all how I look, I'll make no effort and I'll expect to go to the club and people will find me attractive'. Is that realistic? I don't think the owners are saying 'don't come if you're a fat body'. It's advice saying 'you want action?, this is the best way to get it'. Its about putting your best self out there. Looks ARE in the eye of the beholder, but how many people when listing what they find attractive say 'an overweight person who doesn't make any effort to be better and wears runners with jeans (or some other poor fashion idea)'? Their choice of words, especially the use of "always," leaves little in the way of leeway for interpretation on however it may be read. Their own words state "well cared for figure = always most attractive" so therefore anything over that ideal weight is not. The media is constantly a subject of discussion for it's unrealistic portrayal of the human figure via photos/magazines/etc and their pressure for people to be skinny, model like appearance, and then here is this website that would appear to be doing the same thing but in a text form. Meeka is right though, it could pose a good subject and question to broach with a larger audience. Think I'll copy it over and post it in the Hot Topics section of the forum.
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RHP User
10 years ago
we popped in spontaneously on Friday 8th august to take a look and although not a busy night what we saw was impressive in terms of an adult club, well set out and many different play areas not only for playing but socialising as well. a big well done to the owners
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sxycpl42
10 years ago
hi we r going sunday night, any other couples going?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you rhp for posting this. I think it's quite relevant for this thread. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Article/The-10-Guide-to-surviving-Adult-Sex-Parties-1199
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'The_team' So a body or look that isn't well cared for IS attractive? That's like saying 'I don't care at all how I look, I'll make no effort and I'll expect to go to the club and people will find me attractive'. Is that realistic? I don't think the owners are saying 'don't come if you're a fat body'. It's advice saying 'you want action?, this is the best way to get it'. Its about putting your best self out there. Looks ARE in the eye of the beholder, but how many people when listing what they find attractive say 'an overweight person who doesn't make any effort to be better and wears runners with jeans (or some other poor fashion idea)'? The_ Team you are so correct in what you wrote,Some people need to stop reading to deep into words.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So how busy does this place get on a Friday night? When people say "It wasn't a busy night" are we talking dead empty? Or 3-4 couples?
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RHP User
10 years ago
3-4 couples is a quiet night. Isn't it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' 3-4 couples is a quiet night. Isn't it? One night we went was quiet ,there was 10 couples.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only one way to make it busier is to go. It's the best club in sydney for it so ask another couple or two to join you there. Soon it will be packed out every weekend. Instead of saying 'no one was there'. Take people and make your own party.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Then look up the event section..... OSS is used as a venue to host numerous groups...... I've been along to many where there are approx 50+ people....... I became a member last week as well :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would love to go someday if I find a girl to go with - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are planning on going on Friday. She is brand new to this scene and wanted to check it out with me, which was one of the reasons I asked. I feel she would find it awkward if we are one of 3 of 4 couples there compared to when there are a lot more people there and there would be less attention on her at first.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are young so you and your girl will definitely attract a bit of attention. Let us know how you go. Maybe it is better to go on an event or theme night so that you can spend more time observing than having to participate.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lawrence from OSS also recommended the same thing, but I still think she is keen to try tomorrow so we will see what happens :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am sure you will both be fine. I always god that saying up front that you are new and just here to meet and observe then people are usually pretty good about it and will take you under their wing. Have fun!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks for the kind words Meeka. Why don't you come say hi :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I didn't have a birthday to go, I'd be spying on the both of you!
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RHP User
10 years ago
It closes at 3am doesn't it...maybe you can make a guest appearance after the birthday
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RHP User
10 years ago
So how was it? Lots of people? What did you think of OSS? How did your friend go? :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So how was it? Lots of people? What did you think of OSS? How did your friend go? :) Unfortunately we didn't make it, she had a birthday party to attend first, and by the time she left we decided to leave it for another night!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi, I'm taking the girlfriend along to a swingers club soon, can't decide between couples club or OSS, we're both fit, young and attractive, can you suggest which club would be the best for us?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Markandwife' Hi, I'm taking the girlfriend along to a swingers club soon, can't decide between couples club or OSS, we're both fit, young and attractive, can you suggest which club would be the best for us? We have been to Our Secret Spot a few times now,and we would never go back to the Couples Club. We are sure you will like OSS better then the old Couple Club.
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RHP User
10 years ago
First time posters here - We sat in the bar opposite OSS for two nights in a row watching people coming in before we make a plunge (We are first timers so don't judge us too harshly for doing this. If we are going to pay $100 we wanna make sure that there are other people there like us). In the end we didn't go in on either night. Our expectations were not high so we had a happy date enjoying food and cocktails - we were not overly disappointed. On both nights we observed following - same group of people (about 6 couples) turned up at the same time and they were the bulk of patronage for the night. On both nights one (but not the same) younger couple stumbled in at left in the space of 1 hr - other than those lonely young couples who fled quickly, on both nights we didn't see anyone below 40-ish turn up (attraction is an individual thing and we acknowledge that, but for us there was noone there that we would rate) We went inside OSS once before and we do rate this place very highly for it's attention to cleanliness and good management. Theme nights always look interesting and one night we were there (it was sugar and spice I believe) atmosphere was very good. We would never ever go back to The Couples Club again (went there once also and were repeatedly molested by single men who used paid dates to get in - management did nothing. Not to mention the lack of basic hygiene and smoke in that place). I guess in Sydney OSS is the top choice for these kind of places, however the experience is all about the people that attend on the night and if you are a younger inexperienced couple who is not interested in joining the "lifestyle" but rather want to spice up and experiment , you will have to be very patient to wait for a good moment,good night and a matching couple (and hope you will not get bored and give up in the process).
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Skyn2Skin
10 years ago
Ok we are finally going, tomorrow night Friday the 23rd of January. Looking forward to meeting some great people. Xxxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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