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"trapping" an Elusive unicorn
June 16 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
This single, bi-sexual, childless and available unicorn is not so timid, and I say nail me. Nail me hard*. *But only if you meet all my requirements, are mature and have recently bathed, obviously.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct' This single, bi-sexual, childless and available unicorn is not so timid, and I say nail me. Nail me hard*. *But only if you meet all my requirements, are mature and have recently bathed, obviously. u listening all u couples. its hard enough that us single men have to scabble amongst ourselves for the few available single ladies on rhp, don't u couples get involved. its fucking hard trying to be this charming and witty, day in, day out, to attract a single female. that's it, I am throwing down the gauntlet. beware couples for the honky will be wooing ur women when ur at work. moohahahaha (kizza and the rest of my union brethren are on call)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think I went off half cocked then, without reading the topic. its just that when I read the word "unicorn" I lose my shit. hahahahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
you've heard the tale of the two bulls? two bulls standing together in a paddock, the young bull says to the old bull: look at all those lovely cows over there..... how about we race over, break down the fence and 'do' a few of them?.... The old bull silently shakes his head, looks back and says: you can TRY that BOY, I'm going to casually wonder down, step through the fence, and 'do' the lot of ém!.... Moral of this story? Maturity! (the ability to consider something OTHER THAN yourself and sex) according to another post I read on here recently, two more years and you should be having the most sex of your life! mis_u xo
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct' This single, bi-sexual, childless and available unicorn is not so timid, and I say nail me. Nail me hard*. *But only if you meet all my requirements, are mature and have recently bathed, obviously. note the strategically position quote marks on "timid" why is my profile blank and locked? because 1. guys don't read profiles and 2. if you're what I'm looking for, I'll come to you
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RHP User
12 years ago
This unicorn thinks it sounds like a personal rant to me and that's never attractive to me......- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most of my posts are ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
What was the question again? But in all seriousness, OP, you are obviously feeling disrespected by certain people. So why enter into any further discourse with them? Nobody ever has a right to slut-call anyone (especially here - pot and kettle anyone??) nor to disrespect your privacy. As you say, you are the highly sought-after single girl. So move on to better pastures away from anyone who does not treat you as well as you wish - they are certainly not worth your time nor energy. Ms "ex unicorn" K x
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RHP User
12 years ago
I suspect it's because I'm on of these "unicorns" who everyone here assumes has things easy and get's sex for breakfast lunch and dinner, yet in reality, I can't find people who (themselves) are "together" enough for (real, HONEST) NSA fun. C'est la vie!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We agree with mis_understood for the most part. We live in a small town and need to be careful what we do and who with. We do have a question for the "unicorn" section or perhaps other couples can shed some light.After reading a forum on redhotpie about couples seeking Bi women, and the insurmountable odds we have against us, and how couples would have more success approaching those within their own circles. we are more confused than ever.Our situation is a such.We have a wonderful friend who "seems" to show a more than "friend" attitude toward the both of us. At times her approach appears more than simply flirty. She is separated from her spouse and has made it clear on a number of occasions she has had no fear of extramarital sex or opportunistic liaisons in the past.How does one approach this. How have you other couples approached this as we a sure we are not the first to have this situation before.And, from the "unicorn" point of view how would you be more likely to respond in a favourable way if this was you we were referring to.It needs to be said this lady has similar interests and habits as us and is not a friend we see every day, but a 2-3 times a week visit.(social only).We are curious to hear you responses or ideas as our trepidation of offending her is important. We just don't like to offend.
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wingman2014
12 years ago
Huh where is PETA when you need them ? :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
@OP. Currently a good friend i grew up with is having the same issues of having her life and privacy trashed by people who have no right to even comment on her life let alone anyone else's. After 15 years of marriage being the good girl and putting everyone else first she discovered that her parter had been shagging everything with a hole in it. Supposed mutual friends at the time knew but didn't tell her. Fast forward 18 months. She has ditched the deadbeat and got her shit back together and stsrted dating as one of these elusive unicorns. Her ex and his friends started spreading nasty stories as soon as they suspected she was back in the saddle so to speak. In a small town people are going to talk if they are local also. Maybe from stupidity. Or malice. Or the look at us aren't we great mentality. Or even pure malice. Those of us who are respectful and decent people treat others how we like to be treated ourselves and privacy is on the top of the list. If you are having issues with those you meet blabbing or not being respectful either get more selective. Don't go further than drinks and chatting until you are happy you can trust them. If the start talking about others they have meet give them the flick. Only play in someone else's back yard. There are several ladies who have stated in forum posts that they will only play in sydney for these very reasons. or try plan c. I read in a post the other week some good advice. Never play with someone who doesn't have more to loose than yourself it anything gets out. Good luck and keep your chin up girl. Their are nice genuine couples out there that respect others and keep their mouths shut! If desperate give us a bell and you can talk /vent to my lovely vixen. Mark and vixen Mark and Vixen- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
but like listening to my mother, I suffer selective maturity hahaha as for ur el toro reference, being half Spanish, one of my dirty uncles use to take great delight in telling me the adage. now, you wanna shag, or do I have to knock over a few electrified fences to get it out of you? haha
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RHP User
12 years ago
I fkn hope
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does she have any idea that you both play well with other? Do you know if she plays both sides of the fence? Does she flirt with you both? How social a friend is she? Coffee shop? Clubbing? Only public venues or do you visit each others houses? Better friends with you or your wife? Hire or watch some tv show with high sex related content. Ie. swingtown, trueblood, lost girl, hart of dixie even. Next time they visit or you meet for coffee mention the show and ask if they have seen it and liked it. Mention which characters or scenes did it for you. Girls are usually more comfortable talking about sex to each other especially after a few social drinks. Be brave. Both of you Compliment her honestly on things you really admire or like about her. If all else fails have your wife ask her out or over for tea and drinks and just plain tell her you both think she's hot and would be even hotter snuggled between you both. Have hope . Everyone likes sex and i don't know a single person who doesn't like being desired in a non sleazy way. If she declines let it go. Mark and vixen- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The biggest hurdle I suspect you have to overcome is your friendship. Single women need friends and although she's probably toyed with the idea in her own head it's likely (if she's smart) that she's not going to go there if there's a risk of loosing or complicating your friendship. There's probably (sadly) no way around this, and you should try to be respectful of her situation and need for friends. The only advice I can offer is for the female in your couple to broach the subject with her gently (but directly, it will show her respect) and let her know that if she WERE interested, you'd want firstly to all get together and find out HER ground rules- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for your thoughts and offer, it's not that people have blabbed about me, it's that I'm smart enough not to trust people I can't first be absolutely CERTAIN will be discrete. I live by the rule: never play with someone who doesn't have more to loose than yourself (not just for sex ether) And the guys I'm interested in and am left with are all un-able to grasp the concept that I'm NOT going to want to marry them. My personal preference is single guys, I'm not bi (sorry) and I would like things to be ongoing (which rules out most couples) if that akes me "fussy" in other people's eyes then that'sunfortunate! I'm fussy! Best wishes to you both!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If only!... You lived close by, we could be good together sweet's! Sadly, I can't travel much, and living Where you do means it's hardly going to be the regular kind of deal I'm looking for. :-(- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think you are a unicorn OP.My understanding of the term is that it refers to bi-sexual single women who play with couples....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is right, as always. And I'm still a unicorn.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was un-aware the scope was that narrow (feel foolish now) ;-P- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
???
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RHP User
12 years ago
A centaur (from the Greek: Κένταυρος, Kéntauros) is a mythological creature with the head, arms and torso of a human and the body and legs of a horse. Duh. I'll just assume they're hung like stallions then?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does it make me a kinky Unicorn if I wanna see you try and hurdle an electric fence? We have one on our back paddock ... *clicks record*
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RHP User
12 years ago
The post is still relevant for the purposes I intended. Fact is, I still fit in the same socio-economic position that most unicorns do (that of a single female) And the advice one of the posters here quoted is actually quite pertinent also; Never play with someone who has less to loose than you do. Alright! So consider this all my little unicorn hunters out there, how many single females in the world (from a socio-economic perspetive) have LESS to loose than single male or a couple? How are you going to make HER believe she has less (or nothing) tolouise than you? That advice cuts both ways! So! Work that out and perhaps you'll catch said mythical beasts (even if I don't technically classify) ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Acording to legend only a virgin was cable of catching a unicorn! Not sure if that helps, at all, in anyway. :) *this topic has nothing to do with Charlie the Unicorn or kidney theft
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quote Mis_understood..."it's harder for us to make things happen "successfully" (IE: without it coming back to bite us in the arse in our real life) than it is for any of the rest of you!"Some words with two horns sweet possum pie. LOLOh you are the unicorn, mythical, impossible, a dream?I did not know that said beast had troubles nor even considered the possibility of success allusive. A unicorn is the entity that is only enticed by purity, the perfect uncorrupted soul. Unicorns are never bitten on the ass, they would never be seen by one that would even think of harming. You are not a unicorn I am sorry to say, nor it seem by your words all that elusive. There are a few around, and I am lucky to have been privileged to touch. Unicorns only see good and can graze green fields torn by greed and hate without fear or even to be seen, heard, noticed at all.So unless one day you can see the beauty in the fields of war and forget fear, you will continue to find success impossible to find. Poor OP, the horn is a carrot if up the ass, and an ass will walk backward if that carrot is there. I hope at least one day as you move you have the luck to meet a unicorn, but walking backward as you do I think you will not know its ahead till you see it recede.Turn around and stop looking at the past, for only the future is available and well worth looking at...Hard words (sorry I think) but you have been posting a lot of sad and opinionated text and think you need to get that carrot out of your ass, very young lady, while you still can. LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
all you like about your situation but it isn't going to change with a closed profile !Unless of course you are doing the hunting, in which case good luck !But it's very difficult for us to give you informed comment when we are operating in a vacuum.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' I think I went off half cocked then, without reading the topic. its just that when I read the word "unicorn" I lose my shit. hahahahaha is better than non...
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RHP User
12 years ago
The situation I write about in this post is not mine alone, I'm refering to the pitfalls most/all single females here. It's NOT me having a pity party and it makes no difference to me whether you like that or not, FACT is if you and others want to find more single women to fuck, then you need to take your head out of you but, stop saying me and posts ike this are the/my problem, and consider the woman's situation. Because whether you believe it or not, in the real world to simply survive and get by safely is harder for us thanGit is for a man or for a couple. oe're the bottom of the human fooo-chain we have no compromises left to make in order for us to ma e it possible for you/us to get laid good luck! You'll no-don't need it. (and yes! I do my own hunting, as most guys on here are like you, and not guys any girl could trust)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You did not know such a mythical beast had troubles? I guess you did not know much at all then huh? Very OLD m....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
A touch of misandry perhaps??- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' A touch of misandry perhaps??- Posted from rhpmobile Seems apt to me. OP, you know you can get pills for that? Or wacky weed, whatever. Peace dude.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'karynb'A touch of misandry perhaps??- Posted from rhpmobile Would make interesting usernames.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood' 50zkool (and yes! I do my own hunting, as most guys on here are like you, and not guys any girl could trust) WTF?
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RHP User
12 years ago
What, you've never been over MEN telling YOU what it's like to be a woman? You get what you give I'm afraid, there was potential enlightenment in My post for anyone prepared to be humble and respectful and considate, but the truth (in most people's eye's) is that I/we are just Dumb females/play-things who've got things "easy" and are ungrateful for their incredible consideration and generosity towards us (for the two seconds their arrogant arses took out of their day to message Us with "DTF"?) and I for one am jack of it. Peace! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
No misadry here, I love MEN I'd love it even more if I could find where they're hiding it certainlydoesn't seem to be around these parts (to me anyway!)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I need to stop posting from my Iphone, it seems I can't type/spell worth a damn on the bloody thing! sorry folks!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood'If only!... You lived close by, we could be good together sweet's! Sadly, I can't travel much, and living Where you do means it's hardly going to be the regular kind of deal I'm looking for. If you are in Sydney you should totally meet innerwest123. You two sound very similar! (Not being sarcastic, you really do)
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RHP User
12 years ago
:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
a mythical beast indeed Ms Unicorn..I understand that most Unicorns are to be found in and around the inner and western suburbs of most cities .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct' Quoting 'mis__understood'If only!... You lived close by, we could be good together sweet's! Sadly, I can't travel much, and living Where you do means it's hardly going to be the regular kind of deal I'm looking for. If you are in Sydney you should totally meet innerwest123. You two sound very similar! (Not being sarcastic, you really do) http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Guys-I39m-curious-40952 Please read my first RESPONSE to this thread. Interestingly, I don't typically take this or myself so seriously, but I guess I'm as human as most and I can only be told by everyone that *I* am wrong and the problem, so often before I get cranky and fire up. Ladies, please remember that I'm a man hater and what you've all written here, the next time YOU trust someone you shouldn't have and it comes back to bite you in the arse (and perhaps you consider writing sob story post about how you were done wrong and it's all HIS fault)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood' The situation I write about in this post is not mine alone, I'm refering to the pitfalls most/all single females here. It's NOT me having a pity party and it makes no difference to me whether you like that or not, FACT is if you and others want to find more single women to fuck, then you need to take your head out of you but, stop saying me and posts ike this are the/my problem, and consider the woman's situation. Because whether you believe it or not, in the real world to simply survive and get by safely is harder for us thanGit is for a man or for a couple. oe're the bottom of the human fooo-chain we have no compromises left to make in order for us to ma e it possible for you/us to get laid good luck! You'll no-don't need it. (and yes! I do my own hunting, as most guys on here are like you, and not guys any girl could trust)- Posted from rhpmobile And therein hangs the tale.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood' Ladies, please remember that I'm a man hater and what you've all written here, the next time YOU trust someone you shouldn't have and it comes back to bite you in the arse (and perhaps you consider writing sob story post about how you were done wrong and it's all HIS fault) I don't trust people I shouldn't have. I'm a damn good screener and have a well-developed bullshit detector. Nine months on RHP and haven't met someone who's let me down yet! Besides, I think most people here know I'm the first to defend the guys and tell women to take responsibilty when they feel "wronged".
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood'What, you've never been over MEN telling YOU what it's like to be a woman? You get what you give I'm afraid, there was potential enlightenment in My post for anyone prepared to be humble and respectful and considate, but the truth (in most people's eye's) is that I/we are just Dumb females/play-things who've got things "easy" and are ungrateful for their incredible consideration and generosity towards us (for the two seconds their arrogant arses took out of their day to message Us with "DTF"?) and I for one am jack of it. Where are you meeting these bad guys? The prisonpenpals.com/australia website? Men don't tell me what it's like to be a woman, and I haven't been called dumb by anyone since I dumped my ex. There have been a few arrogant arses on the forums over time, but a lot of regulars here I've come to know as respectful guys. We even have male feminists here. You don't have to possess a vagina to be one, you know. And I know for a fact I am humble, respectful and considerate. But I have little tolerance when it comes to rants without purpose, especially when they are biased and unfair in my opinion. You are obviously very eloquent and intelligent. Use your smarts to teach, not to put others down, I say.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct' Quoting 'mis__understood' Ladies, please remember that I'm a man hater and what you've all written here, the next time YOU trust someone you shouldn't have and it comes back to bite you in the arse (and perhaps you consider writing sob story post about how you were done wrong and it's all HIS fault) I don't trust people I shouldn't have. I'm a damn good screener and have a well-developed bullshit detector. Nine months on RHP and haven't met someone who's let me down yet! Besides, I think most people here know I'm the first to defend the guys and tell women to take responsibilty when they feel "wronged". I don't HATE anyone Ms_direct, people get the dis/respect they give me and my opinions returned to them in full. you're an excellent screener, how many men have you ACTUALLY met with of the amount you've "screened"? would you need to be an excellent screener if what I'd said was incorrect? if most of the men on this site WHERE worthy of a single girls trust? or is it that my comment towards 50zkool was personal that upset you? surely you didn't straight up defend him before examining the posts he'd made in response to me and deciding whether he deserved what I'd said? Quoting 'Ms_Direct' Quoting 'mis__understood'What, you've never been over MEN telling YOU what it's like to be a woman? You get what you give I'm afraid, there was potential enlightenment in My post for anyone prepared to be humble and respectful and considate, but the truth (in most people's eye's) is that I/we are just Dumb females/play-things who've got things "easy" and are ungrateful for their incredible consideration and generosity towards us (for the two seconds their arrogant arses took out of their day to message Us with "DTF"?) and I for one am jack of it. Where are you meeting these bad guys? The prisonpenpals.com/australia website? Men don't tell me what it's like to be a woman, and I haven't been called dumb by anyone since I dumped my ex. There have been a few arrogant arses on the forums over time, but a lot of regulars here I've come to know as respectful guys. We even have male feminists here. You don't have to possess a vagina to be one, you know. And I know for a fact I am humble, respectful and considerate. But I have little tolerance when it comes to rants without purpose, especially when they are biased and unfair in my opinion. You are obviously very eloquent and intelligent. Use your smarts to teach, not to put others down, I say. Do you not see that as the point of this post? to teach? can you not see that I'm saying to men and couples that if they'd like more success finding a single female that they need to consider HER and her WHOLE situation in life, and what needs to happen before SHE can accommodate them? they think it's because we have an abundance of "choice" of partners and that we think they're unattractive that stops them from success, they fail to understand that there is more to it more to WOMEN IN GENERAL than that, that most single women DO want sex, and that most (mature) single woman AREN'T superficial. They fail to see that sex for us almost ALWAYS has repercussions, and that those repercussions are what prevents us. not the fact that they are bald or old or a few Kg's over weight. But no! their ignorance and arrogance prevents them from truly reading this post for what it is. It wouldn't matter HOW I tried to word things, selfish and arrogant people will never think outside their own square long enough to see their own issues are causing them problems we all have a common goal here, SEX but the fact is, single women ALWAYS stand the most to loose in the world, it's just nature and the way the world works, and because we have the most to loose we also can afford to sacrifice the least when trying to achieve that common goal. I'm NOT meeting bad guys, I'm not getting to the point of meeting guys (that I can make a success of) AT ALL, that's the point! I WANT TO!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can I ask how many single women you've had success with from and since you've been here on RHP? Is your approach working? The question is rhetorical - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood' Ladies, please remember that I'm a man hater and what you've all written here, the next time YOU trust someone you shouldn't have and it comes back to bite you in the arse (and perhaps you consider writing sob story post about how you were done wrong and it's all HIS fault) Quoting 'mis__understood' I don't HATE anyone Ms_direct, (...) you're an excellent screener, how many men have you ACTUALLY met with of the amount you've "screened"? I'd say about 20, not counting the men I've met at meet and greets. or is it that my comment towards 50zkool was personal that upset you? surely you didn't straight up defend him before examining the posts he'd made in response to me and deciding whether he deserved what I'd said? I found your comment bitchy, which is one thing 50zcool is not. Do you not see that as the point of this post? to teach? can you not see that I'm saying to men and couples that if they'd like more success finding a single female that they need to consider HER and her WHOLE situation in life, and what needs to happen before SHE can accommodate them Big difference between talking TO people and talking AT them. I don't agree you are teaching. Thank you, I'm done.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I found your comment bitchy, which is one thing 50zcool is not. Peace out.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood' Can I ask how many single women you've had success with from and since you've been here on RHP? Is your approach working? The question is rhetorical - Posted from rhpmobile You ask me that from behind a hidden profile ?I don't have "an approach" my profile is there for you to see, believe it or don't.I have "arrangements" I am very happy with.I'm just here for the forums Over and out.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The nature of your postings reminds me of one of those new age proverbs."you become what you resist"
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RHP User
12 years ago
IE A man hater, thats what YOU all called me right? Look it up please! You're all down on me, telling me my attitude is wrong and that I'm a man hater, I was simply asking that you all remember this the next time it comes to light that you'd trusted someone you should not have. There is/has been no shortage of posts on here bashing men from (more than one of) the women who just saw fit to tell me like it is and disparge me, it should be a demonstrtion of my true caracter (to you all) that I didn't write what I tuly felt like writing in response.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Peace to you also!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
more of a fence than a post....Unicorns are not good at jumping over fences. You can take the horse to water etc....but Unicorns prefer to think
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RHP User
12 years ago
Misandry is as unattractive as misogyny, if and when I'm hurt by anyone I choose to look at MY part in those interactions, learn from those interactions and move on. I do NOT assume all those of the same sex are of the same view, intentions or behaviour .......and i certainly don't rant in the forums and then berate anyone who has a differing view to mine.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'karynb'Misandry is as unattractive as misogyny, if and when I'm hurt by anyone I choose to look at MY part in those interactions, learn from those interactions and move on. I do NOT assume all those of the same sex are of the same view, intentions or behaviour .......and i certainly don't rant in the forums and then berate anyone who has a differing view to mine.- Posted from rhpmobile I'm all for equality, I'm equally as much a misogynist as I am a misandrist, guess that makes me a seriously unattractive bitch. I'll work on it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
shedding some of my (seemingly) excessive self-esteem, get myself closer to the level of other women here and maybe I'll have more success
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are you suggesting some of us suffer from low self esteem?? Oh dear......you clearly have not met the lovely ladies from RHP that I've met!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'karynb'Are you suggesting some of us suffer from low self esteem?? Oh dear......you clearly have not met the lovely ladies from RHP that I've met!- Posted from rhpmobile Read whatever you'd like from my words.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You attract far more bees with honey than with lemons. I've heard that honey up the arse instead of your head is good for anal lovers ... Take a happy pill sweetie ... *kindly offers mis_u one of hers*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme'You attract far more bees with honey than with lemons. I've heard that honey up the arse instead of your head is good for anal lovers ... Take a happy pill sweetie ... *kindly offers mis_u one of hers* I said that I needed to shed some of my seemingly excessive self-esteem. everyone has been telling me that I am the issue that I am the cause of my own difficulties. I can only assume what you're all telling me is that I need to get over myself, stop being so self-important etc So I finally agree with you all, I essentially say that by saying I need to shed some of my apparently excessive self-esteem, and all of a sudden I'm inferring that the women here have low self-esteem? you won alright! you've all managed to beat my opinions out of me finally! fuck! I think you ALL need to take a good hard look at yourselves ladies, your pussy is going to your head. As badly as I want children, I honestly dread the idea of raising daughters in the world that "modern" women have (and are continuing to) help create for them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
this is NOT meant to sound judgmental (even though I'm confident you won't see things that way) from what I read, someday you WILL need a friend who does NOT judge and who IS compassionate, I can send you my email if you'd like it best wishes Renee
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11 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood' this is NOT meant to sound judgmental (even though I'm confident you won't see things that way) from what I read, someday you WILL need a friend who does NOT judge and who IS compassionate, I can send you my email if you'd like it best wishes Renee I've got loads of them (like attracts like), but thanks for your kind offer.
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11 years ago
Is a gathering place for unicorns and princesses!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'mis__understood' fuck! I think you ALL need to take a good hard look at yourselves ladies, your pussy is going to your head. Quoting 'mis__understood' this is NOT meant to sound judgmental (even though I'm confident you won't see things that way) from what I read, someday you WILL need a friend who does NOT judge and who IS compassionate, I can send you my email if you'd like I'm so confused by all the contradictions in your posts. You write you hate men, but then you don't. You say some very judgemental things, but claim you don't judge. Writing "I'm sure you won't see it that way", before making what you mean to be positive comment, just makes things go downhill even faster, wouldn't you agree? May I suggest we abandon this sinking ship and start over fresh somewhere else? Princesses and unicorns first! Oh, and allow me to hold that spade for you while you disembark.
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RHP User
11 years ago
By the way, I am Mia. Truce?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct' By the way, I am Mia. Truce? no. I am mia no, I am mia. I am mia (sparticus reference for the uninitiated) apparently its a loyalty thing. meh. hahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
You're welcome to message me if you'd like however I have little more to say and I suspect that until people have my life experiences hey will not be able to uderstand me or my perspectives Thank you for the offer, but I'm fine, I can manage my own shovel, I've been doing so my entire Life. I DO asses the actions of others and wether I believe those actions are ethical and the long term repercussions of those actions on the individual and others those actions can effect, if that counts as judging then I guess I do, however, I do not condemn others as humans if I dislike their actions or decsions, I tend more to be sympathetic and compassionate. I do not hate men and never claimed to (I DID try to put what others had said about me back on them). I DO very much dislike the way most men do and have treated me throughout my life (and how most men, in my experience, treat women in general for that matter, but sadly, I can't say they're solely to blame) Finally, I believe that a truly sexually liberated woman is a woman who can have sex how and with whomever she chooses, without risking or having to sacrifice herself, her own values or her own security (and or that of her children) and sadly I cannot. Can you? Good luck to you all
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RHP User
11 years ago
. When I typed it it had paragraphs - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mis U, I am interested how someone so young can have had so many bad experiences with men? The feeling i get from your posts is that you feel used by men? I maintain that only WE as sexually empowered and liberated women can allow this to happen. People treat us as we allow them to treat us. Expect more = receive more and settle for nothing less than how you expect to be treated. Don't spend time with those who won't play the way you want to play. I can honestly say that i've never felt like I've sacrificed my safety, security or values, or that of my children. (As i'm a single mum i have hard and fast rules about my own personal safety and security, both on a personal level and my environment) The men i've met from here, and other sites similar, have been respectful and we've enjoyed memorable times together - some for a short time, others for many months. In addition to this i feel safe in saying that most of the men i've met from here, and elsewhere, would say that i'm a warm and caring person and this is reflected in the fact that some have gone on to become friends. Bitterness only hurts you in the end....to coin a phrase, it's rather like taking poison and expecting someone else to die.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do you screen your potential partners? Why? Do you think most of the men on here screen theirs much further than he physical? You're NOT liberated, you're not "free" you only think/tell yourself you are. Men get on here and say that women can have sex with anyone we like, they're WRONG! and ignorant and it pisses me that they blame us when they get knocked back. I do/have not ever LET men treat me Poorly but I have had a VERY dificult life and no-one has ever been given any incentive to treat me respectfully (not even as a child) and until recently I have been largely powerless to give them any incentive on my own, so they simply have not. no-one (except me) has ever believed me to have value as a woman (or person) and most still don't. But that's life for most young women these days and I don't see things getting any better any time soon, until more women than me can get their shit together.- Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' This unicorn thinks it sounds like a personal rant to me and that's never attractive to me......- Posted from rhpmobile We're in the same neighborhood and I was hoping to meet and have coffee and a very broad chat. I can't send you a message as your profile is currently blocked. No I'm not planning on hitting on you.....lol unless that's where we end up. Kidding!!Have wanted to make contact with and meet you.Safari
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm sorry if you think I'm bitter, I'm not, not at all! Frustrated maybe- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now i just feel sad for you. I have a daughter just a few years younger than you, I'd be horrified if she felt the way you obviously do. I wonder if in another decade you'll still feel as though you had "your shit together" at 27? Here's hoping your journey improves from here forward- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I will message you when I'm on my PC- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Karynb, your daughter has or will find a good guy who truly loves and respects her and who'll stick by her and be faithful, however, given that commitment free sex is getting easier for men to find due to sites like this and the women on them, the chances of that are getting less and less likely.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because she can get on here as well then and replace intimacy and love for the instant (and short lived) affirmation that NSA sex provides, that'll work! Right? And the cycle will repeat with society slowly breaking down as more and more people turn to this "trend" because it becomes "acceptabe" heck it becomes the ONLY way for anyone to get laid. Bleak aren't I? Let's see if I'm wrong though ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your vibe feels eerily familiar. I sincerely hope that when you too reach 40, you will have had some positive experiences with men and understand that we choose the way we experience life, love and sex."... grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,The courage to change the things I can,And wisdom to know the difference."I'm the last person in the world to preach to people but getting back to your topic, I am a unicorn who is finding her wings. Some experiences will and have been great, some not so great. But they are all my choices and I learn from them. Unhappy experiences are a part of life. You can grow from them or be held back by them by ruminating on them. We are all learning from life and following our paths, whatever those paths look like. Try not to poo poo on other peoples paths if yours crosses theirs and they haven't had time to weed the bindis.
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RHP User
11 years ago
"I sincerely hope that when you too reach 40, you will have had some positive experiences with men and understand that we choose the way we experience life, love and sex."We may not have had the choice in the past but we certainly do in our present and future.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That it's possible to have both, right? I've had several loving and committed relationships (sometimes monogamous) AND I've had non committed casual sex just for fun, sometimes even both at the same time with different people. The key is in being on the same page as your partner's so that both parties get what they want from the interaction.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cannot convey a persons attitude. Ladies, I'm not tying to poo poo anyone, and I'm not down on myself or men or the world, I make the very best I can of each day because my life is better than it has ever been, I have single handedly MADE it better. Humans (men AND women) disappoint me quite a bit, I feel we don't respect ourselves or each oher nearly enough (especially women), but one person being upset changes little My life has made me aware that ALL actions have consequences, somtimes those consequences don't appear to effect us immediately. They talk of the power of the pussy, it's great yes? I simply try to remember that with power comes responsibility. The world we create is the world our progeny must inhabit. Women before us made advancements used the power of the pussy to help future generations, is/will using he power given to you, selfishly, going to achieve the same do you think? This topic has gone WAY off track, my only point was that single women typically have things hard in life for many reasons and if people wanted a betterchance of attracting single women they could/should consider our situation in life and the world and try in any way they can to be respectful and accommodating of us and THAT. It's likely we will, would or are ALREADY doing that for them as bes we can. Best wishes to you both/all- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
You mentioned that life has been pretty rough for you. In my time here on RHP there has been plenty of stories shared of people that have certainly had some low times in their lives. At the end of the day life is what you make it. You can either focus on the positives of people and situations or wallow in the negatives. Being a glass half full person does has its advantages. Like any cross section of people out there, on RHP there will always be people you gel with and people you don't. And pluses and minus for each gender based solely on personal perspective. How you navigate that is up to you? Good luck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
u had me at hello hahahaha
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Onwards and upwards. Just had a chat with a friend from here and really, my worries pale into insignificance. Miss_U the unicorn thing, well.....it's really all in your perspective. If you've been dealt a shitty hand be thankful you were strong enough to come out of it. What you take away from a shit situation and hopefully learn from it makes for a stronger you. Some people are gonna love you, some people will hate you, others will hurt you for fun, for thier own gain or just because they can and most won't give a shit! Trying to figure out why is just going to do your head in when the answer is simply some people are just assholes. You can only control you and to a degree where your future goes to from here, this moment right now. So, my question would be. Where are you off to now? Don't sweat the small stuff, shit happens to the best of us.
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RHP User
11 years ago
a Vagina Monologue
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inspirit
11 years ago
I have NO idea, why woman whinge and complain on here consistently, about not being able to find what they are looking for. Start by loving yourselves and you just MIGHT find what you are looking for. Better still they MAY find you. In my opinion, there is NO shortage of nice men on here, if you are honest in what you are looking for AND honest with yourself. Buy a puppy
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inspirit
11 years ago
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inspirit
11 years ago
Looking fuking smashing for 82
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's not her age,.... It's probably this week's score....
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inspirit
11 years ago
I am 2 then
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RHP User
11 years ago
Safari. Hp xo
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Splicey
11 years ago
I want to go straight up to them and make my desires known. MrSplicey tells me I'm scary and to take it slow or else I will chase them away.It's a very fine line. I figure to get straight to the point and if they change their mind they can come to me. I need someone who knows how to take what they wantMrsSplicey
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RHP User
11 years ago
you is back....yay...we have missed you...and yes it was this weeks score...at bingo
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like your terminology :) and agree with everything you said here.High standards = confident woman who refuses to lower herself and settle for anything short of first place.Also, I love that you won't change yourself to please another.You are a powerful unicorn :)Who gives if someone knows you slept with whoever. It happened. Live without regret. I do :D
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ocean_man
11 years ago
First a disclaimer. I only read the first page. My mind began to wander after that! I did get the distinct impression the OP thinks that unicorns are exclusively female. If a remarkable attractive single woman can't find a man that doesn't wear an "Elmer Fudd" hat, amongst the thousands of men in here, then perhaps the mythical unicorn is really a gentleman that understands discretion, honesty and compassion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
male unicorns OP,just the elusive Loch Ness Monster
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RHP User
11 years ago
that post was meant for Ocean Man
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Splicey
11 years ago
Quoting 'ocean_man' First a disclaimer. I only read the first page. My mind began to wander after that! I did get the distinct impression the OP thinks that unicorns are exclusively female. If a remarkable attractive single woman can't find a man that doesn't wear an "Elmer Fudd" hat, amongst the thousands of men in here, then perhaps the mythical unicorn is really a gentleman that understands discretion, honesty and compassion. Our unicorn is male MrsSplicey
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ocean_man' First a disclaimer. I only read the first page. My mind began to wander after that! I did get the distinct impression the OP thinks that unicorns are exclusively female. If a remarkable attractive single woman can't find a man that doesn't wear an "Elmer Fudd" hat, amongst the thousands of men in here, then perhaps the mythical unicorn is really a gentleman that understands discretion, honesty and compassion. Maybe that's what I should have called this post: http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Respect-an-old-subject-line-with-a-new-twist-40865 "the male unicorn"..... Know any? or even where they hide? How might I trap me one? *Elmer Fudd hat at the ready*
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redhotozz
11 years ago
Hmm..so they key is to play nice, as requested, bathed, do it well, shut up afterwards, and then a couple who are good and have a great fun time might get a unicorn to play with them.XXXX that...we're going to bathe, wash, go to a fun party, where nice unicorns already roam free, and couples also stalk the wilds. And have it both ways.
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