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Condom or No Condom that is the question!!
July 11 2015
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madotara69
9 years ago
Yeah, no we hardly ever discuss the use of condoms here, we had a bag of strawberry flavoured condoms once, hundreds of them, gone now. Should be an interesting topic missfallenangel Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Except in very rare circumstances where I've been seeing someone for a very long time (and even then it's no guarantee). It's never a case of "trying to get my playmate to wear one when possible" for me though. If he says no, he may leave.
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madotara69
9 years ago
Welcome to the forums
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
I might sit this one out LOL
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RHP User
9 years ago
Welcome to the forums missfallenangel12, always good to hear from younger members :) Be warned that your topic might get 'high jacked', as has happened to two posts on a similar topic just recently. If it does happen, please don't let it put you off posting forever :) To answer your question from my perspective... I personally prefer bareback sex, but not so much that I will forgo using a condom with a new playmate for the first session and very likely every session thereafter. As Meander said, if it's not on, then it's not on as far as I'm concerned. When would I stop using a condom with a partner? When I trust them, we're both being tested frequently and regularly, and it's a committed relationship. Unlikely to happen this decade lol.
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Kattss
9 years ago
The latest excuse I've heard a few times lately is... "I can't stay hard with one on" ... I say in return... "awww erectile disfunction is difficult... maybe you should see a doctor"puhlease!! they obviously stick it anywhere they like with out one on... get that dirty thing away from me!! I'm with you Astrild. I would forgo with someone I trust... probably not going to happen this decade here either lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Prefer bareback because it's leads to more spontaneous sex. However only with an exclusive partner in a committed relationship and after testing. Your comment ' if possible' should lead to the door being opened and the guy leaving, or you,depending on where you are. But that choice is yours.Enjoy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Blindman the stage is yours! Fallenangle2 .... currently there is a topic that is discussing a similar scenario entitled ... Ladies how common is it ... might be worth a read. All I can suggest is you stand your ground and carry your own supply. Your safety is more important than his preference. Personally I prefer bareback but only with in a trusted ongoing relationship where respect for each others wellbeing is practiced. LG
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Seachange
9 years ago
De ja vu. I'm sitting next to you on the couch ML and watch this out. Lol. Good of you LG to give her some background reading. I would recommend the same forum. Welcome to the forum anr Good luck OP.
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RHP User
9 years ago
As I'm fixed, bareback (or "natural" as my gf had called it) is possible without risking pregnancy with anyone, but I would still not go without one outside of a relationship. I have been asked to by a couple I occasionally see, who I trust and believe that I have been the only "third" for, and I'm regularly tested, but out of principle I will still use one. The lady asks for the same reason as other women have mentioned: she prefers bareback and is obviously accustomed to it with her partner. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
For a second there I thought a certain poster had finally taken my advice and started his own forum For me personally, condoms are a must outside of a committed relationship. Now, I am also well aware that STIs can be transmitted in other ways and even if condoms are used so regular testing is also necessary.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sandy (MrsSAF) thinks I should answer your question. I am not a lover of condoms but I always wear one when sex is involved with other females or couples. Whilst it is about everyone having a wonderful time... A wonderful time is not judged by how better a naked cock feels in a pussy compared to a clothed one. I know some men think it is, but for me and our playmates it is the entire play session and what you can do with your fingers... Your tongue... Your lips... Toys... MrsSAF's strap on, as well as your cock. So for me, my cock is always dressed (condom) for sex. Cheers. MrSAF. Ps, I neglected to add that since we have been seriously playing with single girls and couples we are both tested every three months. :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I personally much prefer no condom. For men it feels a lot different and it's much better without a condom. In saying that however, I will only play bareback with people I trust. Takes a while to get there but it's much better lol. So condoms initially while I am still getting to know the people, after a while it is better with no condom.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
If and when we play with others, condoms are always a must. No matter how much we trust them, or how well we know them, they are only as safe/clean/disease free as the last person they had sex with. Not worth the risk. We are certainly not prepared to bring any STD's into our long term marriage. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It with the woman i'm about to have sex with, but I will mostly wear protection with someone new that I meet and make sure I get tested regularly. What would help is for people to stop acting like children in relation STI's and stop the shaming that goes on. They are a fact of life, but they are not the end of the world and the 'stigma' of most STI's are far worse than the actual consequences. It doesn't excuse the fact that we should take precautions, but we need to stop the shaming. They are viruses like any other.........do we call people 'dirty' if they contract the common cold or flu? As a society we need to grow up a bit
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'whoaa06qld' I personally much prefer no condom. For men it feels a lot different and it's much better without a condom. In saying that however, I will only play bareback with people I trust. Takes a while to get there but it's much better lol. So condoms initially while I am still getting to know the people, after a while it is better with no condom. The slickness of condoms reduces the sensation for women too. LG
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tylannister
9 years ago
Would I prefer to go without a condom? Absolutely. Especially since, like CT, I've been snipped, so pregnancy isn't a risk. But I absolutely recognize the importance of them (particularly in conjunction with testing, as others have mentioned) for lowering the risk of STIs. And, frankly, I want my partner to feel secure with me, which is why until I'm in a committed, exclusive relationship with someone I trust, it's never a question of whether I wear it or not. Does it reduce sensation? Some, but not enough that it bothers me that much. What bothers me more is the 'hiccup' having to put on the condom causes in the flow of the moment. It'd just be so easy to slide on in there. But I do need to pause what I'm doing and put it on (I hate it when I fumble it and start to put it on the wrong way down!) And I especially miss the sensation of cumming freely inside a woman. None of these downsides, though, keep me from using them. I'm willing to make these sacrifices to stay safe and build trust with my partner. Heh, I will say using condoms makes sex considerably less messy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'tylannister' Heh, I will say using condoms makes sex considerably less messy. Yes it does. But it depends on the parties involved as to whether this is a good or a bad thing
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'tylannister' What bothers me more is the 'hiccup' having to put on the condom causes in the flow of the moment. It'd just be so easy to slide on in there. But I do need to pause what I'm doing and put it on (I hate it when I fumble it and start to put it on the wrong way down!) Make the process of putting the condom on part of the play. Let the lady do it, or help you out, or at least keep kissing/touching you while you do it. She may also know how to do it using her mouth. At the very least have a loose condom ready, out of it's packet and the right way up, ready to put on fairly quickly when you are ready.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...we'd be born wearing one. Definite passion killer when you're hyped and ready to go... Detest the pause.. BUT.. We can't afford that luxury these days.. so no balloon , no party... sigh...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Let's put it this way - the only way I wouldn't be wearing a condom would be if I intended to cum inside a woman, and the only time I'll ever do that is in a committed, exclusive relationship where we've both had the talk and been tested and where we can trust each other to have been diligent in other methods of birth control. Basically I see condom-free as a special kind of intimacy that I save for a special kind of person.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Even in a relationship you don't know what your 'partner' is up to. If you want to know you're safe then it's a condom or the door. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Even in a relationship you don't know what your 'partner' is up to. If you want to know you're safe then it's a condom or the door. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' ...If we were meant to wear condoms we'd be born wearing one. Definite passion killer when you're hyped and ready to go... Detest the pause.. BUT.. We can't afford that luxury these days.. so no balloon , no party... sigh... This argument does not make sense. Like saying if we were meant to wear clothes, I was going to be born out of my mom's womb with my dress and stilleto on? Ridiculous right?
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RHP User
9 years ago
from a guys point of view...well mine...they are horrible...esp if you are going for a while. id rather not wear one...as the feeling is better..altho the outcome can prove a little messier t clean up...sex is about fun and pleasure. yes...you have the ribbed ones and the novalty things...but really...they are still a distraction.. go commando and enjoy
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tylannister
9 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch'Make the process of putting the condom on part of the play. Let the lady do it, or help you out, or at least keep kissing/touching you while you do it. She may also know how to do it using her mouth. At the very least have a loose condom ready, out of it's packet and the right way up, ready to put on fairly quickly when you are ready. I like the idea of having the condom 'at-the-ready' as it were! I may have to try that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
There will never be sex if there is no condom on. It is not negotiable. Having been married for over 20 years, we always used condoms. My safety is paramount and if there is reason to debate the use of condoms then I have suddenly lost all interest. Kitten.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you knew the person you where about to have sex with had HIV would you have sex with them if you used a condom. If you say NO then how do you know if the person you are about to have sex with does not have HIV?
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RHP User
9 years ago
If we weren't meant to catch STI's, then... we wouldn't? I am so confused right now.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I were in a relationship where I didn't know or trust what my partner was up to, I'd be out that door myself.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lily, your birthday suit is just fine in my company ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
.... whilst a necessary evil, I feel that it reduces intimacy ..... ideally not
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RHP User
9 years ago
It feels better without them, but wearing one is better than getting none. I always wear one (and bring my own) when I get the chance to play. I don't ask if I can get away without wearing one as I want to protect myself as much as the person I'm with and whilst I love having sex, I want to do it safely and not risk my health in the process.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Herpes
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' Lily, your birthday suit is just fine in my company ;) - Posted from rhpmobile Haha. You handsome flirt....
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' If we weren't meant to catch STI's, then... we wouldn't? I am so confused right now. obviously I am not meant to be famous....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Argument ? WHAT argument ? I don't recall arguing with anybody ? Being a little padantic ain't we .... But if you wanna shot at the title '. ... put em up ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
This again?! ;) No condom, no sex. NO EXCEPTIONS. When in a relationship, bareback is great, once both of us have been tested. I have to laugh every time someone mentions "trust". As if trust is going to stop you getting an STI! ROFL! I have met some wonderful people in the scene, but also a LOT of people who are liars. When it comes to my health, the only person I will trust o have sex with me bareback is my partner (when I have one, which I do NOT at the moment).
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Smilingwithfun
9 years ago
Little Meow you were married for 20 yrs & used Condoms, WOW. Could say the reason why?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' Argument ? WHAT argument ? I don't recall arguing with anybody ? Being a little padantic ain't we .... But if you wanna shot at the title '. ... put em up ? Argumentnoun. 1. a quarrel; altercation. 2. a discussion in which reasons are put forward in support of and against a proposition, proposal, or case; debate: Source: Dictionarydotreferencedotcom
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RHP User
9 years ago
Condom all the way. Should be a no brainer even when my brain is in my pants. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It is really up to the couple in question do they trust each other. I'm a good judge of character and i know when I can trust someone. I know for a fact that I am clean. My current friend and I trust each other and love spontaneous sex so it's our decision if we do or don't. Either way it's all about enjoying each other in the throws of passion - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' Argument ? WHAT argument ? I don't recall arguing with anybody ? Being a little padantic ain't we .... But if you wanna shot at the title '. ... put em up ? The word 'argument' was used in a rhetorical sense, not literal. Lol. It is the point or case for argument or discussion on an issue or debate you want to prove mentioned that example. Which still does not make sense. C'mon. You can't be THAT sensitive!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
it does reduce the sensation greatly from my experience
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RHP User
9 years ago
USE CONDOMS I am not trying to stop people using condoms. Get TESTED NOW!! The facts HSV-2 (genital herpes) Can not be cured20% of sexually active Australians 1 in 5Source;www dot sexualhealthaustralia dot com dot au slash page slash genital_herpes dot html12% infection rate when using condoms 100% of the time. HPV (genital warts) Can cause many types of cancer.80% of sexually active Australians 4 in 5Source;www dot hpv dot com dot au30% infection rate if you use condoms 100% of the time. Both these STIs can KILL! 84% of you have an STI or 22 of the 27 posters in this thread16% of you have both STI's or 4 of the 27 posters in this thread Both STI's are not looked for in standard STI tests for men and HSV-2 is not looked for in women's tests. Who knows they are clean?Who here would not be concerned if they had one?Who here would have protected sex knowing the other person had an STI? A warning!For those that are sure they are clean, when having sex with someone ask them How many people they have slept with? Your odds of having an STI by the number of people you have had sex with. Assuming you used condoms 100% of the time and used them correctly. 1 random Australian: 26% 4 random Australians: 70% 8 random Australians: 90% 10 random Australians: 95% 30 random Australians: 99.99% Now if you only have protected sex with people that have had a STI check in the last 6 months, considering STI only 95% acurate and that anyone that knows they have an STI will abstain. 1 random Australian: 1% 4 random Australians: 6% 8 random Australians: 12% 191 random Australians: 95% 480 random Australians: 99.99% Only having sex with someone who has had an STI check you are 16 times less likely to have an STI. If 4 out of 5 people who either lie about testing or lie about having an STI you are back to 31 people to be 99.99% sure to have an STI. I know that for me maybe 1 in 20 would get past my BS detector that means that I would have to have slept 8 times as many people as someone that would rely on condoms alone. I trust my judgment of people because I know it is the only way to make a significant (800% less likely) to get an STI than people using condoms alone. GET Tested!Always Ask if the other person has Had A test!Never have sex with anyone if you suspect that they are lying!Never have sex with anyone that has not been tested! Always Use Condoms but do not call them protection they reduce your odds of infection by less than half.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Nomidlifeissues'I'm a good judge of character and i know when I can trust someone. What if someone is trustworthy but doesn't know they have an STI? Some can be completely symptom-free.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If its on its on. And ribbed are great
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting: Dr. Ricki Pollycove is an OB/GYN and women's wellness expert, "Condoms not effective against HPV or herpes To be considered safe sex, disease prevention needs to be at the 99 percent level.... Unfortunately, condoms do not do an adequate job of protecting against human papilloma or herpes simplex virus infections. Women diagnosed with HPV are often mystified and frustrated, having been "super careful," or picky, in choosing intimate partners and faithfully using condoms for all intercourse. But UCSF researchers have shown these viruses to be present on genital skin with no symptoms that might prompt diagnosis and treatment. That means HPV and HSV can be deposited on the condom's outer surface from viral particles living on the scrotum, penile shaft not covered by the condom or vaginal/vulvar tissues." I am not adding the link as it is to long. Just use google to find the source.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Nomidlifeissues'I'm a good judge of character and i know when I can trust someone. What if someone is trustworthy but doesn't know they have an STI? Some can be completely symptom-free. That is why you should never trust someone that has not had an STI check. It is 95% surety which is very good compared to the condoms 80% average for all STI's
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Seachange
9 years ago
So predictable.... stats and all... It was a matter of time This forum is going to be hijacked ..... again. Stick to the topic.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm just surprised it took this long before the hijacking occurred lol. I won't be following it anymore
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RHP User
9 years ago
Please ladies ... I dare not take you on in the literary stakes and I put my hand up for sometimes delivering what I say the wrong way. My bad.. But the bottom line is that it was no biggy to me at all... As for being sensitive ? nah.. not really.. Im a happy lil vegemite who quite happily bumbles my way through life with what you would consider limited literary skills.. Yet very successful in other many other areas of my life which I dont care to elaborate on' just to keep the peace.. so there... one each.... and one for your dog lol...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Condoms arent 100% safe. But we use them anyway because its proactive and its the best form of protection on the market.( apart from never touching a human body ever again)
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Seachange
9 years ago
Yep. Heading out the door with you there before I knock myself unconscious on my keyboard, have my keyboards embed themselves on my head and bleed to death all over my rug. Lol. I know how it all ends... Seen it before. ... the preaching and all.... Thread Killer. Good luck with this thread, MissFallenAngel... check out the LeoGirl's thread as she mentioned.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If we knew who has STD s and who hasn't , we could pick and choose. But then again' those who have a STD would probably take you to court for discrimination... Bottom line... just put it on and enjoy the moment...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' So predictable.... stats and all... It was a matter of time This forum is going to be hijacked ..... again. Stick to the topic. as if the whole topic hasn't been done to death a thousand times just this week. And most people from what I can see didn't seem to strictly stick to the topic - unless they're all rubber fetishists. I doubt that most people _prefer_ to wear them, they do it because of perceived risk of STI/pregnancy.
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madotara69
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' ...we'd be born wearing one. Definite passion killer when you're hyped and ready to go... Detest the pause.. BUT.. We can't afford that luxury these days.. so no balloon , no party... sigh...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have rolled the barrel a few times and luckily never had a diseased bullet come out but even though i understand completely the blissful overwhelming feeling that happens at that magic moment, i have to implore people to not let it go that far. Seriously you can ruin not only your life but also those you love. Hindsight is 20-20 vision.... Good luck!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you got it you would not sprout such rubbish would you. The best way to protect is to use your mind and get tested. You are women, condoms are not proactive as you do not use them. It is men that use condoms. We take the responsibility, we are the ones being proactive. Responsible men also get tested. Responsible men also would never put another person at risk and does everything he can to not spread STI. Responsible men do all they can to understand the risks. Next time you type in "not 100% safe" use the actual figure (you seem to know it all) Condoms only protect 80% of the time or better still they fail to protect 1 in 5 time. Why do you insist on bending the facts? You are not the only ones that read so take some time and consider the audience and what we can do to educate them. it is not for you to dictate what I may and may not say.
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Abbie95
9 years ago
Oh! Please! Cover your willie before you get silly! Besides, I can put a condom on with my mouth, so there is really no "flow interruption" you speak of. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' If we knew who has STD s and who hasn't , we could pick and choose. But then again' those who have a STD would probably take you to court for discrimination... Bottom line... just put it on and enjoy the moment... Its easy, someone that has just been tested has a very low probability of having an STI and being sexualy active, someone that has never been tested and has had sex with more than 10 people has a very high probability of having an STI 16 out of every 20 sexually active Australian adults have an STI (look it up I provided the links) Its a mind field, you do not cross a mind field relying on luck (condoms), with your figures in your ears and stomping your feet. You educate your self on how mines work, where they are most likely to be placed, then walk very carefully along the path of least risk.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Blindman, we agree with everything that you say. Some people are obviously in denial,whilst others believe that as they have had a vasectomy they dont need to use a condom. Condoms are not just used for birth control, but are now mainly used to prevent unwanted pregnancies. How do condoms work ? They prevent contact with / exposure to body fluids [semen, mucous - vaginal, penile & anal] Body fluids are the two important words here. If you have a viral STI its going to be present in your mucous / mucous membranes. So that means its not only in your semen, but also in your vaginal lubrication and ... wait for it .... your SALIVA. So a bit of a contradiction in terms if you are going to wear a condom on the one hand, and then engage in oral sex on the other hand as swapping any body fluids is the vector by which these diseases are spread.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We stated previously : Condoms are not just used for birth control, but are now mainly used to prevent unwanted pregnancies. It should have read : Condoms are not just used for birth control, but are now mainly used to prevent the spread of STIs
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm still clean.
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Quoting 'unicorn99' I'm still clean. Testing is important... and thats great news! Do you "believe" that condom use has played a role in that test result? DG
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for the support. It seems sometime as if I am talking to the deaf in here. I should point out the HPV (genital) is present on the skin on the penis, scrotum, and around the anus. HPV only requires skin contact with the virus, not direct skin to skin contact. It is a very hardy virus and can move from the scrotum/vulva to the hands, then to the surfaces of the condom and thus put either party at risk of infection. Correctly using a condom means putting it on before making any contact with your genitals, or you should wash your hands immediately before you put on the condoms with warm soapy water, or anti viral solution The HPV vaccination is doing a great job among the young and with in a generation HPV should be very rare. HPV is major cause of cancer in women and men. HPV is tested for in some pap smears but for men it is not part of the standard STI test. HPV can be asymptomatic and still be contagious. When you go for a STI check you should ask for a HPV test, this will involve a visual inspection (men) There is no standard test apart from the visual for men. Men that have had any type of anal sex, someone else's fingers, toys, or sexual penetration can ask for an anal pap smear. HPV is the most prevalent STI in Australia. An estimated four in five sexually active Australians will have it. That number greatly increases for promiscuous people like us here in RHP. So ask your self, Do you have HPV? A clear STI test do not mean you don't have HPV or HSV. Unless you specifically request for these you will not know. For sexual active people it is your responsibility to ensure you do not spread a dangerous STI like HPV. Condoms do not protect and using them is irresponsible if you do not know your STI status. The only way to prevent the spread is to know if you have an STI or not. Then you can at least let the person you having sex with know that you present a high risk, 1 in 3 with condoms of giving your partner HPV. Its not the people who don't use condoms that spread STI's, you can spread something you don't have, its the people with STI's and don't know they have one that spread STI's Take responsibility now. GET TESTED!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I used condom , personally I don't like, but up to girls😜 I was infected from oral, very badly , just happen, clean girl , but was with someone before, and give bug to me, bad luck😡 Condon or no condom U can be infected 😩 Now, I am OK , but don't be use condom if don't MUST😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'unicorn99' I'm still clean. Testing is important... and thats great news! Do you "believe" that condom use has played a role in that test result? DG Do you trust that it did?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Oh you people. Passion killer, necessary evil? No wonder you're having a hard time with them. How about ... Dramatic Pause. Heavens .. you're about to have sex, and stick your cock is some wet delicious hole. How can anything that problematic. Watch her finger herself, or gaze as she turns over and slips a butt plug in her ass, have her stand over your face and lower her hips onto you, as you slip it on. I'm sure those 15 seconds it takes can be well spent.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting Blindman67 Get vaccinated 😄 Vaccines are safe and effective.Vaccines are given in three shots over six mounts , it is important to get all three doses If UR active DO THIS I going to do first in Friday - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting Blindman67 Get vaccinated 😄 Vaccines are safe and effective.Vaccines are given in three shots over six mounts , it is important to get all three doses If UR active DO THIS I going to do first in Friday - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'zeddzekk' I used condom , personally I don't like, but up to girls😜 I was infected from oral, very badly , just happen, clean girl , but was with someone before, and give bug to me, bad luck😡 Condon or no condom U can be infected 😩 Now, I am OK , but don't be use condom if don't MUST😋 - Posted from rhpmobile Lucky you got sick and then saw a doctor as most men don't get ill and then don't know they have it, and then end up spreading it when getting blow jobs. (Assuming you are talking about chlamydia)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sex is fun, hope it was a good size buty plug. Why are people so insistent on shaming people that don't use condoms. I have my theories. Too much guilty lust For now back to the sloppy reality of calculating the dangers of squirting and how condoms stop that onslaught. But I guess most guys are not able to make a girl squirt with their cocks, I will have to study all night to find out the cock to squirt rate, I wonder if size has anything to do with it.. mmm
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'HennaJay'have her stand over your face and lower her hips onto you, as you slip it on. Henna, putting an unprotected pussy on the guy's mouth is completely defeating the purpose of him even putting on a condom, have you learned nothing from recent threads?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry,vaccines is for HPV Condon cannot protect U from infection, because U can be infected around - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Blindman, we agree with everything that you say. Should have guessed it was you. Welcome back.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Who said anything about contact? Ahh... see ... me learning. It's the visual. Besides, aren't they all generally partially bound and gagged anyway? Seems pretty safe by all accounts.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'zeddzekk' Quoting Blindman67 Get vaccinated 😄 Vaccines are safe and effective.Vaccines are given in three shots over six mounts , it is important to get all three doses If UR active DO THIS I going to do first in Friday - Posted from rhpmobile I did not know they did it for people our age. i can not remember the reason. But if they will give it to me who am I to say no.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'zeddzekk' I used condom , personally I don't like, but up to girls😜 I was infected from oral, very badly , just happen, clean girl , but was with someone before, and give bug to me, bad luck😡 Condon or no condom U can be infected 😩 Now, I am OK , but don't be use condom if don't MUST😋 - Posted from rhpmobile You say you leave it up to the girls whether they want you to use a condom (and won't unless you must), yet at the same time you say you were infected very badly this way. Yes, you can still catch STI's even when wearing a condom, but why would you greatly increase the risk after your experience? Did you not learn your lesson, or do you feel the risk of catching anything is the same with or without condoms?
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Thanks Meander for the welcome back. Just changed profile name as we think our son may have discovered our profile. Zeddzekk, the HPV vaccine does not and cannot cure HPV if you already have it. It also states it may only offer some protection from a handful of strains of HPV. There are hundreds of strains. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
subject line, if its play its safe play only!
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RHP User
9 years ago
BM... I thought I was re-branding a catch phrase, rather than shaming. I need to work on my delivery. And 10 seconds That's quick - maybe the visual was either too alluring, or not distracting enough. I don't think you'd approve of my butt plug. Rather petite, and has a gem stone in the base - there really is no accounting for taste. Though apparently on the plus side, make my ass look like a present. I have a doxy now, maybe I'll retire from sexploits completely, and advertise for a cuddle bunny. Any takers? No? Please? Benefits include.. um, err ... Well spooning only, or back to back, no kissing, and for heavens sake no holding hands - filthy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry I was not referring to you doing the shamming. Was just rhetorical, i am in a rather defensive mood as it seems it is not cool for me to point out condoms are just bits of plastic that cover a tiny bit of skin (for some that is) and not level 2 bio-hazard suits. Yes no holding hands, and no footsies, in fact I think i will get one of the bubble suits so I can have some safe sex and not cause other people here in the forums to constantly say I am an irresponsible STI spreader. I can advertise as Bi well hung bubble man for safe sex only. Now to work out how to put the but plug in.
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RHP User
9 years ago
BM... I guess you can still dry hump while wearing hazard suit... or as I found on banggood - an airplane masturbation cup. You could take it inside the suit (it's a vibrating fleshlight type of thing, but fleshlifght is a shit name compared to an airplane masturbation cup)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe the suits, can have an enclosed penis sleeve - oh imagine if the cock sleeve came in different size and shapes to suit all lad / ladies preferences. This reminds me it must be time I properly explore my secret gas mask fetish.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes to condom with strangers :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
it is a no brainer...protects from STIs and unwanted pregnancy. Given the variety of condoms on the market (ribbed, non ribbed, flavoured, non falvoured, latex, no latex,) this should not even be a topic of "preference" - pick a type and brand of condoms you like and stick with it But condoms do not replace the need of getting tested - go and get tested if you play around - these 2 things (condoms and getting tested reguralry) should not be an issue...IF you play around then accept the rules :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
See the video of a woman rolling a condom over her hand and arm, then giving the finger inside of it? Those poor guys for whom condoms are just too tight, they must be enormous.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just because it feels better with it off.....no fanks
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' See the video of a woman rolling a condom over her hand and arm, then giving the finger inside of it? Those poor guys for whom condoms are just too tight, they must be enormous. put a rubberband around your index and middle finger then try to splay them apart - now wrap the band around them another few times and try again. ;)
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jedi_knight
9 years ago
I keep mine gift wrapped for RHPers!
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is only one simple rule and that's cover it up... Trust is hard to obtain and very easy to loose...
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's not even comparable. A rubber band wrapped around your fingers puts all the pressure on your skin and vessels in one spot, cutting off your blood supply, whereas with condoms that pressure is evenly divided. BTW Why would you want to put two cocks in one condom? :-P
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RHP User
9 years ago
A teenage boy party trick was to put a condom over their entire head and inflate it through their nose.It always got a laugh. Seen it done a few times...
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RHP User
9 years ago
You can't have it both ways. Who chooses the unsafe path in life? It's simply not worth the risk That's just my take on the matter. Then again what would i know I've been with the same partner for 13 years lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' That's not even comparable. A rubber band wrapped around your fingers puts all the pressure on your skin and vessels in one spot, cutting off your blood supply, whereas with condoms that pressure is evenly divided. BTW Why would you want to put two cocks in one condom? :-P lol it's an experiment for Rigsty's Triple Penetration, might make coordinated insertion easier - and more respectful ;) (that wasn't what I meant :) when they're rolled up so the 'ring' is many layers of rubber they're harder to stretch around the head of the penis, but once they're part way down and unrolled they're a bit easier to pull/roll further down. For party tricks like rolling it down your arms or over your head, you can get a better grip on them from the inside, and unroll them to get it going - when you put one over your head you wouldn't put it on top of your noggin and just try to roll it down)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose'lol it's an experiment for Rigsty's Triple Penetration, "Rigsty's Triple Penetration Thread", just to clarify :p
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RHP User
9 years ago
I just snorted coffee through my nose, ta.
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chevtrek
9 years ago
Safe sex till tested so always condoms first.
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RHP User
9 years ago
What the Right answer to this is and what the right answer in the moment are very different..On as many occasions as possible
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